i didn't subtitle the whole video, because it's mostly Lily squeaking at chat jokes. i removed all the TTS happening tho so it's more pleasant to listen to!
I try keep the TTS related to the content of the video, unless it's really bad or uninteresting but if it's unrelated like someone just saying hi, I'll remove it
Fun brain facts time / PSA: The amygdala is key to hype up your bloodflow for physical activity in a fight, and Testosterone is a key for the aggression. In a fear response, the Amygdala also mutes your sex drive, digestive system, and other internal systems to prioritize threat survival… so when those get set off _without_ also setting off a genuine fear stress response… it won't shut down your sex drive and thus - we really are wired to anger bang & enjoy it. Even more than that, because it's designed for rewarding after conflict as soon as you relax after physical exertion, your brain fires off all the fight-winning rewards. When you anger bang, that adds in on top of everything else your brain does when getting off or building intimacy. There's a huge reinforcement mechanism for that type of thing, which is why it's _CRITICALLY important_ to make sure those circumstances are mutually beneficial to both parties. Overstepping a boundary or setting off a trigger there links directly into those systems designed to protect you, so that can slip into being hugely traumatic if one party actually has a full fear response. This is why safe words exist, and checking with your partner afterwards is ALWAYS necessary. Trauma isn't what actually happens or what was intended, it's how your brain perceives what happens, and you have to keep your partner safe. Your brain's stress response is designed for immediate physical conflict and has a self-reinforcing mechanism that's a bit flawed. The amygdala picks up signals from your physical state *_that it is actively influencing_* to determine if there is a reason to be active. This is why intentionally slowing your breathing, lowering your heart-rate, and clenching all your muscles & then relaxing them is an effective way to help shut off panic & anxiety attacks. Those also also important to keep in mind to help if something does unintentionally turn bad, and those are also a way to help with arbitrary stress that doesn't have a simple resolution. The parts of your brain that do physical regulation & emotional regulation overlap. That's why building trust in a relationship at the same time as shared physical cooperation are hugely beneficial to you psychologically. This is why, when you have a frustrating day, working out or anger banging can be a great solution to feeling better physically and emotionally. Most of all - stay safe out there!
I have never... ever... felt any level of sexual/horny when I've been angry. It sounds like completely psychopathy, to me, to have these two emotions even remotely mixed up.
@@yammoyammamoto8323 its not common for sure but it can happen and science proved it. The brain is complex so whether this is normal or not is hard to say
@@yammoyammamoto8323 It's only called "anger banging" as a way to soften the more common term of "hate f-king" and it's not about emotional anger being a catalyst for turning you on. It's about how we cognitively & physically manage emotional and cognitive _FRUSTRATION_ via intense physical exertion. Your emotional regulation & physical regulation are in the same region of the brain. That's why some people go do intense work outs after a frustrating day at the office - the intense physical regulation also helps you get your emotions managed and additionally, there's the release of endorphins and all the other chemicals that come with physical exercise. Sex just has even more of those reward mechanisms stacked on top of it. If you don't have the urge to go work out every time you have an annoying day at an office job, it's because you have a different learned reward mechanism for soothing that frustration. Why physical exercise or sex clears your head is that the Amygdala is your survival center of the brain, and it shares a pathway with the Prefrontal Cortex which does your calm, rational thinking. Those two have an inhibitory relationship to one another, because they manage opposite critical needs for the brain. So, because all those reward mechanisms are linked into soothing the Amygdala out of a fight response, the Prefrontal Cortex has reduced inhibition from it - which is called post-nut clarity. That's all anger banging is, but also why it amplifies that intensity in a way that's significantly positive so long as you're not triggering genuine fear responses. It's the same reason that exposure to a phobia in a controlled setting is how you can get over a fear, but exposure to a phobia in an uncontrolled setting makes that fear worse. Mistaking anger banging for psychopathy is like mistaking BDSM for abuse - _if they look similar to you, it's because you don't know what the critical differences actually are, and you need to take the time to learn._ Psychopathy is VERY different, but it has roots in the same parts of the brain. First is that psychopathy requires a total lack of emotional empathy to others, which is a significant baseline developmental issue in the mirror neurons which are near the regions of the brain that manage emotional & physical regulation. Then if there's also some sort of additional issue present or trauma experienced (often during adolescence when hormone levels get massively elevated) the reward signals for Testosterone-driven survival aggression get mixed with raised hormone levels tied to arousal. That's why serial killers are cold, detached, and frequently their violence has some level of sexual element to it. Again, the two are MASSIVELY different and it's worth EVERYONE'S time to learn more about brain function. Stanford University has a lecture collection on RUclips called "Human Behavioral Biology" taught by Robert Sapolsky. It's from 2010, so some parts are a bit older (and he has miscellaneous other videos that cover subjects more recently), but it's one of the best introductions to learning about how we actually work if you want a solid baseline understanding of things like this.
The brain chemistry is wired so when your angry at the person you love/care for your brains "going I hate you but I also love you I dont know what's going on fix me" lol
Never ceases to amazes me at how quickly Lily reacts to funny TTS and how quickly the Shrimpies can kick out the funny puns. It's always a great time hanging out in chat
I just imagine someone all happy saying: "That's the power of the keyblade!" And the Coliseum's theme playing in the background just after his partner saying: "GET ON THE HYDRA'S BACK!!"
Lily dead ass has one of the funniest chats on twitch, so often they're either super annoying or toxic but for the most part hers is just full of people having a laugh
lily says imagine palying league with your homies and then you have to rub 1 out after the game becuase you angry.little did she know thats what happens after a big lose streak every time
This was the best one in a while. Maybe even the best one yet. "End of battle phase, Evenly Matched" Wankge "Dark Ruler No More" Wankge "Open mid" Wankge *Flips Skill Drain* Wankge *Activate Mystic Mine* Wankge There are just too many situations where this is applicable xD
Damn 4 hours in and not a single dislike thats gotta be some kind of record. She made the topic so funny that not even the haters hade the guts to dislike it.
Theres nothing quite like having some intimate moments with your significant other when you're mad. Handholding seems to be the remedy for lots of things.
Pierre, aside from that iconic video from a few months ago where Lily shortened the TTS message length and everyone kept parrying, edging, and cutting each other off, I haven’t seen Lily laugh this hard since. Go figure, it’s about hate-fucking and rage wankge ICANT 🤣💀😏
Honestly one of my favourite tropes is when two people are arguing and getitng really heated and they're like "GOD YOU ARE THE ABSOLUTE WORST!" "NO YOU ARE THE WORST....wanna screw?!" "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WOULD EVEN ASK ME THAT!" *storms off* "AYO WHERE YOU GOING?!!" "TO THE BEDROOM! HURRY UP!" "....well shit don't have to tell me twice"
SHe keeps saying "there's something there" and yeah, there is. It's pretty well studied, called 'misattribution of arousal' because scientists suck at names. It's why scary movies are good early on early dates, that or roller coaster type rides.
i didn't subtitle the whole video, because it's mostly Lily squeaking at chat jokes. i removed all the TTS happening tho so it's more pleasant to listen to!
Do you add the censor "mews" or does shylily. Cause I gotta say they are perfect.
Thank you for your service.
@@leolordful I add them when editing
I enjoy hearing the TTS though.
I try keep the TTS related to the content of the video, unless it's really bad or uninteresting but if it's unrelated like someone just saying hi, I'll remove it
I love how her immediate thought process was "don't threaten me with a good time" and I agree with her that sounds like a good time 😂
Yeah tbh
I disagree. Vulgar words. 😗👉👈
Most brats want to annoy somebody enough that they screw them up to shut them up tbh.
I am no exception.
I would honestly do that since I'm a brat so...
same the thought of hatefucking is so hot 🥵
This was actually hilarious the amount of puns we all came up with was insane
well, most of them were unfunny, and thats coming from someone who laughs at almost every stupid thing. :D
This is probably the hardest I heard her laugh and it brings me joy
Oh, you need to see that one video where chat was abusing a feature in her superchats. She was dying laughing for nearly a half hour - worth a watch!
@@siriushauserVT oh really
@@kaiserknuckle9261 Absolutely! Please check it out! :)
@@kaiserknuckle9261 yeah its called parrying the donation its an amazing video
That's one of my all time favourites.
The way she reacted to that dono so quickly 😂😂 “doesn’t sound so bad to me”
Lily the first minute: "Hate banging sounds neat."
Lily the rest of the video: *laughing at normal gamers gaming*
I like when she thought about it and then her eyes widened, like “hey, that’s a pretty good idea”
Fun brain facts time / PSA:
The amygdala is key to hype up your bloodflow for physical activity in a fight, and Testosterone is a key for the aggression. In a fear response, the Amygdala also mutes your sex drive, digestive system, and other internal systems to prioritize threat survival… so when those get set off _without_ also setting off a genuine fear stress response… it won't shut down your sex drive and thus - we really are wired to anger bang & enjoy it.
Even more than that, because it's designed for rewarding after conflict as soon as you relax after physical exertion, your brain fires off all the fight-winning rewards. When you anger bang, that adds in on top of everything else your brain does when getting off or building intimacy. There's a huge reinforcement mechanism for that type of thing, which is why it's _CRITICALLY important_ to make sure those circumstances are mutually beneficial to both parties.
Overstepping a boundary or setting off a trigger there links directly into those systems designed to protect you, so that can slip into being hugely traumatic if one party actually has a full fear response. This is why safe words exist, and checking with your partner afterwards is ALWAYS necessary. Trauma isn't what actually happens or what was intended, it's how your brain perceives what happens, and you have to keep your partner safe.
Your brain's stress response is designed for immediate physical conflict and has a self-reinforcing mechanism that's a bit flawed. The amygdala picks up signals from your physical state *_that it is actively influencing_* to determine if there is a reason to be active. This is why intentionally slowing your breathing, lowering your heart-rate, and clenching all your muscles & then relaxing them is an effective way to help shut off panic & anxiety attacks. Those also also important to keep in mind to help if something does unintentionally turn bad, and those are also a way to help with arbitrary stress that doesn't have a simple resolution.
The parts of your brain that do physical regulation & emotional regulation overlap. That's why building trust in a relationship at the same time as shared physical cooperation are hugely beneficial to you psychologically. This is why, when you have a frustrating day, working out or anger banging can be a great solution to feeling better physically and emotionally.
Most of all - stay safe out there!
I have never... ever... felt any level of sexual/horny when I've been angry.
It sounds like completely psychopathy, to me, to have these two emotions even remotely mixed up.
@@yammoyammamoto8323 its not common for sure but it can happen and science proved it. The brain is complex so whether this is normal or not is hard to say
@@yammoyammamoto8323that's not how psychopathy works
@@yammoyammamoto8323 It's only called "anger banging" as a way to soften the more common term of "hate f-king" and it's not about emotional anger being a catalyst for turning you on. It's about how we cognitively & physically manage emotional and cognitive _FRUSTRATION_ via intense physical exertion.
Your emotional regulation & physical regulation are in the same region of the brain. That's why some people go do intense work outs after a frustrating day at the office - the intense physical regulation also helps you get your emotions managed and additionally, there's the release of endorphins and all the other chemicals that come with physical exercise.
Sex just has even more of those reward mechanisms stacked on top of it. If you don't have the urge to go work out every time you have an annoying day at an office job, it's because you have a different learned reward mechanism for soothing that frustration.
Why physical exercise or sex clears your head is that the Amygdala is your survival center of the brain, and it shares a pathway with the Prefrontal Cortex which does your calm, rational thinking. Those two have an inhibitory relationship to one another, because they manage opposite critical needs for the brain. So, because all those reward mechanisms are linked into soothing the Amygdala out of a fight response, the Prefrontal Cortex has reduced inhibition from it - which is called post-nut clarity.
That's all anger banging is, but also why it amplifies that intensity in a way that's significantly positive so long as you're not triggering genuine fear responses. It's the same reason that exposure to a phobia in a controlled setting is how you can get over a fear, but exposure to a phobia in an uncontrolled setting makes that fear worse. Mistaking anger banging for psychopathy is like mistaking BDSM for abuse - _if they look similar to you, it's because you don't know what the critical differences actually are, and you need to take the time to learn._
Psychopathy is VERY different, but it has roots in the same parts of the brain. First is that psychopathy requires a total lack of emotional empathy to others, which is a significant baseline developmental issue in the mirror neurons which are near the regions of the brain that manage emotional & physical regulation. Then if there's also some sort of additional issue present or trauma experienced (often during adolescence when hormone levels get massively elevated) the reward signals for Testosterone-driven survival aggression get mixed with raised hormone levels tied to arousal. That's why serial killers are cold, detached, and frequently their violence has some level of sexual element to it.
Again, the two are MASSIVELY different and it's worth EVERYONE'S time to learn more about brain function. Stanford University has a lecture collection on RUclips called "Human Behavioral Biology" taught by Robert Sapolsky. It's from 2010, so some parts are a bit older (and he has miscellaneous other videos that cover subjects more recently), but it's one of the best introductions to learning about how we actually work if you want a solid baseline understanding of things like this.
@@PierceArner Thank you dr. Pierce
Fr,this WAS educational
I love that she went from:
"I'm not annoying you little... Hol' up..."
Lily's laugh and Chat's jokes really made my day. Best laughs I've had in a good while 😂
Neurons immediately activated the moment she finished hearing that.
Uncontrollably laughter should be considered an exercise or a self destruct
"We are outnumbered 4 to 1. Ammunition levels may be insufficient."
*Wangske*
Ah yes, i remember going back from pee and just hearing about hate bang.
Then chat procceds to make lily laugh for 1 hour.
8 minutes of Lily laughing, wheezing and cackling like the little gremlin she is
Love to see it
i haven't heard Lily laugh this hard since she discovered donation parrying
I was already laughing but the way she said "freshly squeezed" at 3:09 sent me futher into cackling.
"DIE DIE DIE" Killed me 😂
Especially if you imagine it's said during climax.
At the start she was annoyed when she was refferred to as a "shortstack" but immediately forgives as soon as "anger bang" comes in.
the mewmewmew censor always get me rolling
lilly saying ohh hate mewmewmew 😅
I think Lily and her Chat just uncovered 1st person shooters largest demographic.
They really took her breath away, and got her laughing so much! I hope she remembered to get some air after all that!
The brain chemistry is wired so when your angry at the person you love/care for your brains "going I hate you but I also love you I dont know what's going on fix me" lol
Alternate title: “lily dying for 6 minutes to gamer rage wank puns”
Her snort while she laughing though ❤️ lmao
Lily's laugh is so contagious. 😂 Also RIP Desk.
I love her genuine laughing fit. It is beautiful to hear.
Never ceases to amazes me at how quickly Lily reacts to funny TTS and how quickly the Shrimpies can kick out the funny puns. It's always a great time hanging out in chat
I think my favorite was "Ready to go WHOLE HOG!" but I think she missed it because she was too busy laughing at the one before it.
*Lily do be having that Uzaki-chan or Nagatoro Energy tho*
I just imagine someone all happy saying: "That's the power of the keyblade!" And the Coliseum's theme playing in the background just after his partner saying: "GET ON THE HYDRA'S BACK!!"
Lily dead ass has one of the funniest chats on twitch, so often they're either super annoying or toxic but for the most part hers is just full of people having a laugh
I honestly don't regret being part of this for once, this was such a blurssed moment.
Honestly adore how this devolved into...
The mental imagery of every situation with someone angry-wanking is just amazing
Just rewatching this video while uncontrollable laughter is a definite way for anyone to get instant abs
The laughing fit... Didn't know how much I needed to hear all that
That may have been the first time, Lilly nearly laughed herself to death.
The Rando Plebs: “Why is Lily talking about angry/hate banging?!”
Me, an intellectual: “Hold up. Let Lily cook…”
I was wondering why this video was longer. Once again, chat slays Lily.
lily says imagine palying league with your homies and then you have to rub 1 out after the game becuase you angry.little did she know thats what happens after a big lose streak every time
I had a good laugh too, i need to wake up with this kind of content every morning.
I mean, this is why rivals to lovers is such a trope.
I was laugh crying because how much she was laughing at the end😂😂
This was the best one in a while. Maybe even the best one yet.
"End of battle phase, Evenly Matched" Wankge
"Dark Ruler No More" Wankge
"Open mid" Wankge
*Flips Skill Drain* Wankge
*Activate Mystic Mine* Wankge
There are just too many situations where this is applicable xD
Lily's laugh is it good therapeutic art that should be preserved.
having Lily talk about rage-fucking while holding a cute orca is... content alright.
Bro I don't think I've heard Lily laugh more than now..she was 'bout to straight-up die there
There is nothing more calming than being intimate with your special someone.
Dear God. Chat made lily hyperventilate herself
May god have mercy on us all
Look at all the lil shrimpy friends on Lily! So cute! 🥰
Breathe lily breathe your going to faint due to laughter! 😂😂😂
Great clip, Pierre. ^_^ That was a lot of fun, Chat breaking Lily with euphemisms.
Last time I heard about hate banging was in That 70’s Show where Hyde and his stripper wife argued to make their special time more spicy
Brings a whole new meaning to “Boom, head shot!!!”
for a while there, I was worried lily was going to pass out laughing. Later she would wake up in a puddle of her own making
Ain't no way I was laughing for 8min straight 😭 I'm a grown ass man😂😂😂😂 this belongs in my favorites! I spilled my tea all over me☠️
No no,you spilled coom all over you lol
You were laughing so hard you got angry,had to rub one out lol
@@thomcat2704 But that's my superpower; I'm always angry 😏 Sometimes the chicken 🐔 needs a hug 🫂
Damn 4 hours in and not a single dislike thats gotta be some kind of record. She made the topic so funny that not even the haters hade the guts to dislike it.
that's just masochism,love making,passionate s-word Lily
"my blood is boiling on the wrong places!"
Her laughter brings me joy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
„My ultimate is ready“ is the best one imo :D
Enemies with benefits sounds like a fun time
Her laughter was starting to get to me lol. 😂
all about this clip is perfectly right and thats why i am here right now
Theres nothing quite like having some intimate moments with your significant other when you're mad. Handholding seems to be the remedy for lots of things.
One question, do you only watch clips of vtubers on RUclips or are you also watching vtubers live?
Bruh, in things that only happen in Hollywood
this is why i follow Lily lmao
the absolute dumbest jokes sometimes hit the hardest
If she thinks hate f----ing is weird wait until she finds out about cuteness aggression.
I think she could love it.
@@manmusic4434 possibly. Tbf cuteness aggression is effin weird.
6 minutes of Lily laughing is just pure and utter bliss
The sympathetic nervous system mediates the four Fs: fear, fight, flight, and hand holding.
Her big ass smile while she was thinking it over was everything lmao
Well now someone needs to put all of the lines into the situation and have Lily react to them all.
Just makes me think of people that say "I will kiss you on the lips!" In an argument to calm everything down
Pierre, aside from that iconic video from a few months ago where Lily shortened the TTS message length and everyone kept parrying, edging, and cutting each other off, I haven’t seen Lily laugh this hard since. Go figure, it’s about hate-fucking and rage wankge ICANT 🤣💀😏
Once again I love The “MewMew” Censor!
Shout out to guy in chat who used "DOOR STUCK! DOOR STUCK! We're dead!"
Girl I was worried you were gonna pass out, that was some infectious laughter
The funny thing is to me lily would never be annoying.
They missed a good one. "Justice rains from above."
Every time i watch more of these clips. The more she suprises me by the day.
"Get behind me doctor"
-Heavy TF2
the "MYU Myu myu" censor sound gets me every time x'D
this is definitely one of my top shylily clips
My god, what a giggle-bot lol.
Honestly one of my favourite tropes is when two people are arguing and getitng really heated and they're like
"GOD YOU ARE THE ABSOLUTE WORST!"
"NO YOU ARE THE WORST....wanna screw?!"
"I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WOULD EVEN ASK ME THAT!"
*storms off*
"AYO WHERE YOU GOING?!!"
"TO THE BEDROOM! HURRY UP!"
"....well shit don't have to tell me twice"
“JUSTICE RAINS FROM ABOVE”
That.. Orca is so cute!
Also the small one she's holding!
This laugh makes me laugh too 🤣🤣🤣😅😅
The emotions of love and hate use the same neural pathways and have very similar physical effects
Anger banging is when someone beats ur guts. Passionately but aggressive.
Was this video really two-thirds Shylily laughing at puns from chat?
Yes. Yes it was.
Lily's poor desk has gone through so much abuse, mught just be used to the hate se*
Anger bang is definitely new.
Hate fuck is what I usually use
I don't give damn what anyone says but my ultimate ready in that context is gold
"aaaaaaAAAAAH, LIQUID!!!!!"
Your laugh is so contagious like I couldn’t stop laughing😂😂😂
The Wankge emote is such a funny emote 😂
Anger and love come from the same section of the brain and use the same brain chemicals.
SHe keeps saying "there's something there" and yeah, there is. It's pretty well studied, called 'misattribution of arousal' because scientists suck at names. It's why scary movies are good early on early dates, that or roller coaster type rides.
How can I forget this laugh sound? Now I have an earworm
“Come on snowball, they need our help!”