Another mistake is Letting on too much information about your past hurts,traumas or family issues too early especially when you’re not sure or marriage is not in the foreseeable future cos boy! He’s gonna judge you like the Chief Judge of the Federation! If you have trauma, seek a therapist! He’s not a therapist nor a relationship coach so shut your pretty mouth🤭. Meanwhile your makeup looks so good Kamsi❤
So spot on kamsi… all of it! I would love to also add : Don’t date because he wants you! You have to want it with him too… men have reasons and perfectly thought out ones at that when they ask you out… and if you do it for them not cos you also want it… it’s not a good thing and you might end up regretting it! Thanks for putting this girls up as always
The second hill is so good! Because men would alter their life changing decisions because of a woman and that point is an indicator that he's not desirous about your personal development.
The moment you have to even bring up that topic after a couple of years of dating means you shouldn’t even be with that person. Men know what they want… let’s be very careful because the way I keep seeing women in their late 20s and early 30s being so desperate is crazy…
Men, friends can waist ur time. Honestly, someone can pretend. You just have to do what's best for ur life. Kids are a blessing regardless if things don't work out. Alot of the times we follow friends and partners and end up waisting time. Remember, life goes on.
I'm 32 and going to be doing my Law degree next year....I'll finish at 36. I'll be a 36 year old lawyer🎉...Oh and I left a weird relationship (bread crumbing)
After learning from part one , my perspective towards relationships changed dramatically, and yeah it’s true talk is cheap, i stopped giving chances for stupid conversations ❤, thanks for making part 2 Kami ❤
Except both of you have talked about it, (and there is something particular) once it is over 5/6 years. Like Omo! Infact don’t just accept to date anyone! Be intentional, date someone younger yourself getting married to.
“Your kids can’t pick their father, but you can pick your husband” this stuck with me! I’m still a 20 year old baby 😅 but this is really insightful. Thankyou Kamsi 🤎
The longest relationship ever was in my teens, and it was two years long. Since my 20s, 5 months, 6 months! I see the reg flags, I'm out. I see no reason for dating above 1 year aimlessly. By the 1 year mark you should be hearing wedding talks. I'm hearing people doing 5 years, 7 years. Howwww???
That number 2 struck me. I’m here contemplating if I should move to a new far away state after graduation or stay in a nearer state for this man. I’ve always wanted to move to this far away state till I met this man in my final year. I know that the nearby state won’t help my future! The far away state will help me 100x better. Am I crazy??
YES YOU ARE CRAZY!!! Please move to that state, please pack your bags and go. Don't put your dreams on hold because of someone!!! Trust me, if it was a man, he would have moved to the other town without confrontation his woman. So dear sis please go, if he is the one for you he will match up and follow you to the new state
Omo kamsi if I tell you my own mistake, you might knock me through your screen 😭🤣. Buh I'm so glad I moved on and I'm even happier cus I'm 25 and I was able to change on time .
When dating a man dat normal telling u dat he doesn't have heart of forgiveness or even to forgotten, know regretting, revenge, know respect, malicious, hot tempered nd lack of understanding does dat person love u or care for u even to marry u can u still be with dat can of person with dis can of life style or thinking maybe he might change i need ur advice
Its crazy how some women are giving men 5, 10, 15 years of their youth and also laying in bed with these men. I don't believe in sex before marriage its one of the reasons men do not take marriage seriously imo. Even if you decide to have sex as a woman have time limits in your head, don't allow things to drag that long I can even make excuses for some people who say oh its because they started as students but its too risky.
I need advice y’all so I’m dating this guy for about 5 years now honestly my tired is I cant I want to settle down cause I’m tired of being in a relationship for 5 years But the problem is he’s still in school 😢that’s what is holding us back I don’t even know what to do should I wait till his done
@@kamsinnamani Thanks so much! I also want to say i am in my 40's and wish i knew what i know now but you knowing such important facts about dating in your 20's is really commendable. I enjoy your videos and learn a lot from you!! Keep doing what you do girl 🥰
A guy who was interested in me and l asked him a simple question "if you travel for my masters in the future outside the country will he be interested?" And he said NO SOMEONE WHO SAY HE WILL BE THERE .... i just dust my slippers 😅
Hi Kamsi, so I want to ask a question. I’m 21 and sometimes I might be talking to someone and this one is like 23 but like he’s always buttressing on the fact that he also wants to be spoilt by his woman and just things that obviously a sensible woman should know. Should I just focus on myself and my goals ?
Yessssssssssssssssss!!!!!! They way they’ll switch up on you after everything you’ve done eeh!!! You’ll be asking yourself if he loved you in the first place!!!!
Don’t stay for crumbs. One minute he is nice and the next minute he says mean things. That mean side is his real side. Believe it!
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And another thing, be confrontational when it comes to uncertainty.
Ask him when you are not sure.
This. Don’t think you’re doing too much
Another mistake is Letting on too much information about your past hurts,traumas or family issues too early especially when you’re not sure or marriage is not in the foreseeable future cos boy! He’s gonna judge you like the Chief Judge of the Federation! If you have trauma, seek a therapist! He’s not a therapist nor a relationship coach so shut your pretty mouth🤭. Meanwhile your makeup looks so good Kamsi❤
😂 good one. Thank youu
Truth!!!!
If you are yet to talk to him about his weakness and just fantasizing about when he changes, you’re dating his potential!
Tell them sis😅
@@kamsinnamani .
Hi my loves! Y’all loved the part 1 so much and requested for a part 2 so hope you enjoy!
yes it was enjoyable, and very much insightful.
Kamsi even whispers of marriage is not a guarantee. Some men use it to hold you down.
True
I will
I will yet no show
So spot on kamsi… all of it!
I would love to also add : Don’t date because he wants you! You have to want it with him too… men have reasons and perfectly thought out ones at that when they ask you out… and if you do it for them not cos you also want it… it’s not a good thing and you might end up regretting it!
Thanks for putting this girls up as always
Good one!
The second hill is so good! Because men would alter their life changing decisions because of a woman and that point is an indicator that he's not desirous about your personal development.
14 years together is actually so crazy 😭😭
@@MaryAgimm diabolical
I can't date someone for that long oh my God 😞 6 to 8 months it's ok for us to know each other .👌🎉
You’re literally my internet big sis! Best in advice fr🙂↕️💕
Awww🥹🤍
Omo, I’m fine too.
Your looks will not help in tough times of a relationship, so it’s beyond that!
That part!
The moment you have to even bring up that topic after a couple of years of dating means you shouldn’t even be with that person. Men know what they want… let’s be very careful because the way I keep seeing women in their late 20s and early 30s being so desperate is crazy…
The point about potential is a great one. There should be evidence for where he is going 🎉
@@chiamakaenansofor always
I love your sitdown videos.
Men, friends can waist ur time. Honestly, someone can pretend. You just have to do what's best for ur life. Kids are a blessing regardless if things don't work out. Alot of the times we follow friends and partners and end up waisting time. Remember, life goes on.
I'm 32 and going to be doing my Law degree next year....I'll finish at 36. I'll be a 36 year old lawyer🎉...Oh and I left a weird relationship (bread crumbing)
Yaay! Love it for youu🥹🫶🏽
14:53 the dreamer baby😭😂
Kamsi is really drumming it into our heads 😭😭, we'll repent ma
After learning from part one , my perspective towards relationships changed dramatically, and yeah it’s true talk is cheap, i stopped giving chances for stupid conversations ❤, thanks for making part 2 Kami ❤
The way I needed this at this exact timeeeee😭
I concur. Four years is great timing
Part 3 pleeeaaaassseeeeee!!!!
I’ve watched this so many timesss😭❤️
Except both of you have talked about it, (and there is something particular) once it is over 5/6 years. Like Omo!
Infact don’t just accept to date anyone! Be intentional, date someone younger yourself getting married to.
Yayyy🎉 finally grab my popcorn 🍿 ❤
Standing novation for Kamsi and the sit down videos ❤. So educative. Shouting at us but in a subtle way 🤭❤️
Kam is dragging my ears😂😂😂. Thanks babe!❤
Hello Kamsi… please what mic do you use?
“Your kids can’t pick their father, but you can pick your husband” this stuck with me! I’m still a 20 year old baby 😅 but this is really insightful. Thankyou Kamsi 🤎
I personally loved when she talked about dating to long
Much love Kamsi 😘
🤍🤍
Very lovely video
This is valuable content ❤ A part 3 please.
Kamsi and factssss 👏🏾👏🏾
🥹🤍
The longest relationship ever was in my teens, and it was two years long. Since my 20s, 5 months, 6 months! I see the reg flags, I'm out.
I see no reason for dating above 1 year aimlessly. By the 1 year mark you should be hearing wedding talks. I'm hearing people doing 5 years, 7 years. Howwww???
I’m going to watch part 1
Yay🤭
I want a part threeeeeee please
see dimple! ❤
@@Rukkyrich I was looking at that too. It’s so cute and different, I don’t know how to explain that it looks so supple in her skin.
Your makeup ate!
I like this chat, it is good Kam..
Thank you! 🤗
Believing in potentials is risky 😭😭
That number 2 struck me. I’m here contemplating if I should move to a new far away state after graduation or stay in a nearer state for this man. I’ve always wanted to move to this far away state till I met this man in my final year. I know that the nearby state won’t help my future! The far away state will help me 100x better. Am I crazy??
Go to the far away state and better your future.
If you have to, please move.
You need help packing your things? Because girl, you better embark on that journey naow!!!
YES YOU ARE CRAZY!!! Please move to that state, please pack your bags and go. Don't put your dreams on hold because of someone!!! Trust me, if it was a man, he would have moved to the other town without confrontation his woman. So dear sis please go, if he is the one for you he will match up and follow you to the new state
Please move to the state. Move to wherever you have more opportunities and don't limit yourself for any man!
Part 3 please
Always on point ❤
Your videos are always educative….. I love them ❤
I'm so glad!
Omo kamsi if I tell you my own mistake, you might knock me through your screen 😭🤣. Buh I'm so glad I moved on and I'm even happier cus I'm 25 and I was able to change on time .
😂 no one’s perfect 🫶🏽
Your makeup🥰.
Thank you🥰
Part 3 pleaseeeee
First here 🤭I need a crown 😂
When dating a man dat normal telling u dat he doesn't have heart of forgiveness or even to forgotten, know regretting, revenge, know respect, malicious, hot tempered nd lack of understanding does dat person love u or care for u even to marry u can u still be with dat can of person with dis can of life style or thinking maybe he might change i need ur advice
He won’t change!
Take a man by his words & actions!
Yes kamsi ,l have seen kids ask their parent ...how do you even meet daddy ?
Or mom?
You look soooo sooo gorgeous
Thank you🫶🏽
Its crazy how some women are giving men 5, 10, 15 years of their youth and also laying in bed with these men. I don't believe in sex before marriage its one of the reasons men do not take marriage seriously imo. Even if you decide to have sex as a woman have time limits in your head, don't allow things to drag that long I can even make excuses for some people who say oh its because they started as students but its too risky.
Haha this video was suggested to me after the make him obsessed video, please which one are we doing oo, are we dumping him or making him obsessed 😅😅
🤣🤣🤣 na collabo
I'm right on time 😊
Thank youuuuuu❤
This video helped so much❤
Thank you Kamsi
Glad to hearr 🥰
Content creator🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🤎🤎🤎
I need advice y’all so I’m dating this guy for about 5 years now honestly my tired is I cant I want to settle down cause I’m tired of being in a relationship for 5 years
But the problem is he’s still in school 😢that’s what is holding us back I don’t even know what to do should I wait till his done
Are you both in school ?? Or just him is still an under graduate??
I am already married but 100% agree with everything you said!! So on point!!
@@sikeosezua6705 aww thanks for the feedback 🥰
@@kamsinnamani Thanks so much! I also want to say i am in my 40's and wish i knew what i know now but you knowing such important facts about dating in your 20's is really commendable. I enjoy your videos and learn a lot from you!! Keep doing what you do girl 🥰
First person to comment ❤❤...what???!!!!!
14 years in a dating relationship? Did such a female fall off the sky? No relatives to knock some sense into her?
🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly! Where were her besties
@@Rebeccasimplydoes 😂
please can you put part one link in the description?
14 years to figure out she’s your wife? lol!
A joke?
For me 6 to 8 months it's ok to know each other 😊
@MissLulu7857 6 month is okay
14 years na course
@@Jennifer_ozumah 😀👌
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They are not making arguments, they are deflecting and making excuses
Not me making pancakes and shouting “preach girl…..”
🤣🤣
A guy who was interested in me and l asked him a simple question "if you travel for my masters in the future outside the country will he be interested?" And he said NO
SOMEONE WHO SAY HE WILL BE THERE ....
i just dust my slippers 😅
Hi Kamsi, so I want to ask a question. I’m 21 and sometimes I might be talking to someone and this one is like 23 but like he’s always buttressing on the fact that he also wants to be spoilt by his woman and just things that obviously a sensible woman should know. Should I just focus on myself and my goals ?
YES🤍
Yessssssssssssssssss!!!!!! They way they’ll switch up on you after everything you’ve done eeh!!! You’ll be asking yourself if he loved you in the first place!!!!
Part 3 please
Part 3 please