Ashley Became More Self-Conscious in K-Pop I GET REAL Ep. #7 Highlight

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  • @leighdaphnerevellame1205
    @leighdaphnerevellame1205 4 года назад +1071

    "Beauty is just a mindset"
    Peniel really went there 👏👏👏 but fr we should all be reminded that you are beautiful in your own ways

  • @anonymousanthropoid
    @anonymousanthropoid 4 года назад +889

    it’s wild cause ashley is one of the most beautiful people i’ve ever seen 🥺

    • @luvvioilin
      @luvvioilin 4 года назад +3

      she got her nose done

    • @tomasluna4012
      @tomasluna4012 4 года назад +20

      @@luvvioilin she still looking stunning

    • @tracy1471
      @tracy1471 4 года назад +21

      She reminds me of Wheein from Mamamoo

    • @peachroses5724
      @peachroses5724 4 года назад +7

      She is pretty! 🥰

    • @peachroses5724
      @peachroses5724 4 года назад +12

      @@luvvioilin so what?

  • @iluvmugglenet2564
    @iluvmugglenet2564 4 года назад +633

    I'm so glad Ashely realised that you can't really please everyone; and that it doesn't matter if someone else doesn't like your looks..what matters is what you think and feel of yourself

  • @haziqahabdulhaq9939
    @haziqahabdulhaq9939 4 года назад +373

    "Beauty is a mindset"
    -Peniel, 2020

  • @maheshpun4804
    @maheshpun4804 4 года назад +682

    "You're gonna look like buzz lightyear" lol that's so specific.

    • @ayamgoreng8824
      @ayamgoreng8824 4 года назад +12

      For me thats compliment lol

    • @nirupamau8980
      @nirupamau8980 4 года назад +31

      In another video it was "lego" 😂😂

  • @namjoonsexpensivecrab8104
    @namjoonsexpensivecrab8104 4 года назад +272

    Peniel spiting straight facts.

  • @Oneachord831
    @Oneachord831 4 года назад +182

    I love the way Peniel "like what!!!"
    He seemed so much like a big brother 💖

  • @alexandraeberhardsson9251
    @alexandraeberhardsson9251 4 года назад +311

    Peniel: Beauty is a mindset
    So true. I think one of the charms in the world is that we all look different. I feel like, wouldent it be boring if we all looked the same? We all are unique (even me I guess XD) and I think we should embrace ourself. Yeah we all probably have something we are not happy with but focus on the things you like about yourself instead. Be yourself, be you and be proud of yourself because there is only on you and you are special

    • @michloonietoons4592
      @michloonietoons4592 4 года назад +7

      Beautifully said! Beauty is really such a pressured topic, especially for girls. I don't like Koreans standards of beauty because it's way too strict and we can't look like sticks all the time. Accepting the way your body is made and not willing to change yourself is very impactful because you are created that way, unique and special in your own way :)

    • @claire6253
      @claire6253 4 года назад +5

      Your words are beautiful. Peop'e who don't understand think it's idealistic but I've learned to really understand it and apply it to myself, and I'm far from being idealistic. It's just true

    • @kimberlyaviles7850
      @kimberlyaviles7850 4 года назад +1

      Really nice way to put it

  • @Calida
    @Calida 4 года назад +121

    Peniel: Self-censorship pro.
    Also Peniel: almost calls BM a Skankster
    😂

  • @oiiiie457
    @oiiiie457 4 года назад +141

    This shows how pressured kpop stars are to look like their ideal beauty standards, I hope they stay strong and stay unique and individual 💜✨

    • @fattiboi2924
      @fattiboi2924 4 года назад +12

      Thats why I give all idols respect regardless if I like their music or not, it's pretty damn hard to be right on point with the beauty standards in Korea.

    • @lovenpeace319
      @lovenpeace319 4 года назад +3

      @@fattiboi2924 Exactly. Beauty standards and really all standards too. I mean, these people seriously can't even breathe without someone giving them crap for breathing the wrong way. 😩

    • @oiiiie457
      @oiiiie457 4 года назад +5

      @@fattiboi2924 always. Me too, regardless of if I like them or not first off :
      1. They deserve basic respect as a human being regardless of gender
      2. They have all worked hard to get where they are
      3. We don't know them or how hard their lives have been
      4. We will always be just onlookers enjoying a side of their personality and might not even see their real self due to how ppl love tearing others down

    • @fattiboi2924
      @fattiboi2924 4 года назад +2

      @@oiiiie457 I don't even know what to say anymore....it's like there standing still on a pedestal. They take one step off hate is thrown at you for taking the step. I wish they could just live like us without super strict rules and standards. :(

  • @redpen6939
    @redpen6939 4 года назад +123

    Tbh after listening to more kpop and watching more fancams, variety shows, etc. I’ve become more self conscious, but if your reading this and also feel like that please remember that one beauty standard is not the only thing that is beautiful 💜 Also Ashely, Peniel, and BM I mean this nicest way possible but STFU YALL ARE BEAUTIFUL AMAZING HUMANS

  • @fritooo0
    @fritooo0 4 года назад +104

    ASHLEY IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON!!!!!

  • @wenawena709
    @wenawena709 4 года назад +57

    Korea and Korean Entertainment has the most unrealistic beauty standards. I am wondering where did these stem from. If they'd strictly follow everything that's said about how they should look like,then everyone will really look the same. Like they have template and if your off that template, 'you're ugly', 'you're not attractive.' I am glad to hear and see people who do not conform to those.
    I see you are three beautiful people and knowing your thoughts on the subjects you are talking about and how real your takes are, how genuine your messages are not only in this episode but in all these you've come up so far, you become even more beautiful. You guys are just great!

    • @Squad2SoiFon
      @Squad2SoiFon 4 года назад +6

      I agree, they have a mentality where you can only be on screen or presented to the public if you’re good looking according to their standards. What’s broadcasted on TV, from news anchors to actors to kpop idols, fall under the exact same body type, skin type and beauty type. There’s practically no diversification of the kind of people and looks that are presented to the public, which keeps them thinking that they have to look that exact way to be considered beautiful or successful

    • @behindzerosp
      @behindzerosp 2 года назад

      Even if they let different looking people they try to minimise the difference from white washing to very obvious editswhere people look fake especially on magazine covers and some iidol photos,, one photo of Changbiin from Stray kids since he has very non standard chin/jaw they made is V shapped and it look so different, Han`s photo for one of Skz Nacific modeling was so edited his neck was obviously stretched with photoshop

  • @jezriahavrylibe7499
    @jezriahavrylibe7499 4 года назад +65

    Nobody:
    Diane at the back: *They see me rollin’*

  • @user-sc7pl2pl8e
    @user-sc7pl2pl8e 4 года назад +61

    "Beauty is just a mindset." This made me feel better :')) Thanks Peniel

  • @i_treasure_u_forever3523
    @i_treasure_u_forever3523 4 года назад +25

    BM 0.37 " YOu got that man jaw bro." Love him

  • @hanni0119
    @hanni0119 4 года назад +10

    I need a friend like Peniel. He’s cool and light, effortlessly funny but also very on point with conversations.

  • @maryyubin6154
    @maryyubin6154 4 года назад +60

    I'm dying so hard at all the comments his company tells he looks like lol. First you stop lifting because you look like a lego and now they wanted him to shave his jaw down because he would look like buzz lightyear on TV. I love you peniel but dammit your companys a savage lol.

  • @aloe.lavendar
    @aloe.lavendar 4 года назад +18

    It’s sad how they’re often treated as “products” that need to be the most appealing to “customers”. I wish kpop idols would be able to keep their individuality

  • @genesprouts
    @genesprouts 4 года назад +30

    That’s what happened when I visited korea. I was born in korea but left when I was 2 to America and then came back when I was 16. My relatives pointed out stuff I never realized about myself and made me feel more insecure. I am already so insecure to begin with and cry over how I look. My grandma and other relatives especially pointed out my uneven double eyelids and they even offered to give me eyelid surgery when I go back to korea next year cuz I’m 17 and it’s my last senior year but I decided no because why can’t I just accept what I look like. Me looking better for ur satisfaction and visuals are just feeding into the beauty standards and mindset in korea. They expect u to look a certain way and I don’t want myself to get pulled into that.

    • @funmilolad7430
      @funmilolad7430 4 года назад +9

      Yeahh like you said they expect you to look a certain way to fit their beauty standards and I think that's so wrong
      I admire you for not listening to them😭❤️✨
      We don't need to try and change ourselves for anyone ✨

    • @dindaadytya9150
      @dindaadytya9150 4 года назад +6

      I stan this.

    • @yemimahraza409
      @yemimahraza409 4 года назад

      Idk you but I’m proud of you for being your self and not conforming to other people’s standards! Do what makes you comfortable. Don’t change yourself for others! 🧡

    • @ewaokes
      @ewaokes 4 года назад +1

      You did good, kid

  • @tiaraw8810
    @tiaraw8810 4 года назад +10

    Yea beauty is perspective, it's usually what media decided beauty is and everyone is molded to think that, through commercials, characters, magazine etc.

  • @maxyb3914
    @maxyb3914 4 года назад +17

    This whole episode conclusion is basically "Peniel should become a boxer"

  • @chelsuh614
    @chelsuh614 4 года назад +8

    This is a huuugggeeee topic that needs to be addressed by the industry. I get that idols have to look good because they're, you know, IDOLS, but the pursuit of perfection is out of control. There is little to no emphasis on like...self love? We all want to look our best but the environment breeds body dysmorphia. IDK GUYS I JUST WANT EVERYONE TO LOVE THEMSELVES OKAY

  • @sehbanomer8151
    @sehbanomer8151 4 года назад +45

    "Ashley, BM, and Kard talk about how they were told to change their appearances when they moved to Korea"

  • @tanyaviola1809
    @tanyaviola1809 3 года назад +4

    I truly respect Peniel. The way he perceives things is so simple and just how it is. He doesn't complicate it. He's chill and wise with words and he doesn't even know it.

  • @heykid95
    @heykid95 4 года назад +13

    Ashley to Matthew: Did you ever have a preppy phase?
    Me before Matthew answers: No he definitely did not
    Matthew to Ashley: Why did you?
    Me before Ashley answers: She 100% did.

  • @Backflipgal12
    @Backflipgal12 4 года назад +7

    I agree, if you try to chase a beauty standard set by others there will always be something to critique or something they're not satisfied with. The important thing is you're happy about yourself, and that the satisfaction doesn't come from anyone else.

  • @eshap731
    @eshap731 4 года назад +1

    The gunmy smile makes it so much better

  • @hujanskuy
    @hujanskuy 4 года назад +8

    This episode kinda make me relieved.

  • @betelgeuse7557
    @betelgeuse7557 4 года назад +17

    hahahaha here again someone said peniel look like Buzz Lightyear other than said that he look like a lego?🤣🤭🤣

  • @pat0102
    @pat0102 4 года назад +4

    Beauty is just a mindset!!
    👏 Someone 👏 finally 👏 said 👏 it

  • @adhilaaaf3334
    @adhilaaaf3334 4 года назад +4

    I really love how peniel's conclude that beauty is just a mindset💙 who's care about people's think about my look, i'll do whatever make me comfortable then that makes me shine more ✨

  • @chunmancarmenchan
    @chunmancarmenchan 4 года назад +5

    I think this is so true. Beauty is indeed all about how you are from within. I mean.. I really find it so harsh how they judge idols on their appearance. If your music is good then that is all that matters right? Of course looks matter I guess too.. To some extent but not that much tbh your inner beauty will shine through transforming your 💗 (starting off as a maze but when u find that center or essence of who you truly are ❤️& wipe out or off the dirt it will shine bright like never before or like how u were as a child, happy and through different levels and obstacles in life u get deeper into the realisation of what your life purpose is and who u are meant to be or truly are.. Etc and u start to expand your heart to.. Embrace everyone.. Expanding your vision in life is so important haha God. Narrow views makes us see things through a tunnel vision... Micro zooming into things that do not matter! 💖🧡💛💚💙In the end we will become more spiritual
    ... Not caring about trivial things while not neglecting our soul & the case aka the physical body and its needs we have to live in.. Balance.. Is all that matters. Gosh! 💜... I forgot that haha. Man!

  • @jennelie6762
    @jennelie6762 4 года назад +4

    I like how Peniel being honest. ❤

  • @firdausinadya2880
    @firdausinadya2880 3 года назад +1

    Thank you, Peniel, for your insight! 😍

  • @anasofiaguardia
    @anasofiaguardia 4 года назад +4

    Just listened to the podcast! It was awesome. Great to see their facial reactions in the videosssss

  • @XxNerds4EverxX
    @XxNerds4EverxX 4 года назад +1

    diane's laugh in the background every now and then gives me LIFE

  • @aina1614
    @aina1614 4 года назад +2

    bm's "yo" in small font at 2:30 represents all of us. beauty is a mindset is my life motto now.

  • @whota0
    @whota0 4 года назад +8

    i haven’t even watched it but i liked the video 🥴🥰

  • @sharonhaokip5794
    @sharonhaokip5794 4 года назад +2

    It's soo true..... ' Beauty is just a mindset ' . 👍👍👍👍👍 Everyone is beautiful in their own unique ways. Just imagine if all of us 'look the same' like 🙄🙄🙄...???
    Embracing oneself as who we are is the most beautiful thing.

  • @hima478
    @hima478 4 года назад +2

    I'm gonna need the full episode here asap thankyou

  • @Squad2SoiFon
    @Squad2SoiFon 4 года назад +2

    This mindset is SO damaging to people. Ashely looks uncomfortable to this day about her trainee experiences. Imagine what 14 year olds are going through, being harassed for their “flaws” and being forced to go under the knife to fix themselves to be successful. It leaves an impact on their self esteem and mental health, especially at such a young age. It’s terrible, no wonder some trainees grow up to be narcissistic bullies like AOA’s Jimin that are fuelled by jealousy and obsess over looks.

  • @agoj925
    @agoj925 4 года назад +1

    Goodness, I know Peniel kinda joked about the Buzz Light-year thing, but 😬😬😬 that stuff would get to me after a while.

  • @vanessaa2986
    @vanessaa2986 4 года назад +2

    Peniel handing out the best advise on Beauty!! Its something I'm trying to live by. 😂

  • @lissywashere6040
    @lissywashere6040 4 года назад +3

    Such nice people, this I why I hardly worry for April and G idle which such nice seniors to guide them

  • @xmochilove
    @xmochilove 4 года назад +1

    not at CUBE calling and comparing Peniel to a lego/Buzz Lightyear 😂💀

  • @jennelie6762
    @jennelie6762 4 года назад +1

    Dive staffs are doing it again. Maybe this is really their time when to upload. Waaaa. Thank you for that. 💕

  • @aliciachin4183
    @aliciachin4183 4 года назад +5

    Koreans are really not that open minded when it comes to beauty. I am not a Korean but watching Korean videos, their level of beauty is unbeatable. It seems as if they want their society to have that same level of beauty so that they could fit into the trend or whatever you called they. Koreans should know that beauty isn’t everything and no one in the first place is born perfect, pretty or handsome. Everyone has flaws and they should start embracing it. Sending love to everyone who thinks that you are not enough but actually, you are more than enough

  • @ribel294
    @ribel294 4 года назад

    That's real. This three is the best

  • @ninch98
    @ninch98 4 года назад +1

    I love how shocked they sound everytime one of them mentions one of their "flaws". Get yourself friends like this!!!!!!!!

  • @jezasulit5098
    @jezasulit5098 4 года назад

    Beauty is just a mindset. You just gotta be happy with what you got. That's beauty💕 - Peniel
    This is something every person should hear 💕

  • @whatever6189
    @whatever6189 4 года назад

    BM, Penial and Ashly are my favorite squad in Dive Studio. They always have something interesting and funny things to say.

  • @aprialla5922
    @aprialla5922 4 года назад

    can't wait for the full episode tomorrow 💕

  • @tanholi5330
    @tanholi5330 4 года назад +2

    buzz lightyear 😂 i feel so bad laughing but it's funny af

  • @Oneachord831
    @Oneachord831 4 года назад +1

    Aww I rlly needed this video today! 💖🖤😢

  • @yun_kim0088
    @yun_kim0088 4 года назад

    Flying... funk
    My new favorite curse word 😂😂

  • @SongRaeMun
    @SongRaeMun 4 года назад

    I love this part💛

  • @escfrenchnerd9421
    @escfrenchnerd9421 3 года назад +1

    Move i'm stanning. Peniel is so right !

  • @arenjamir3983
    @arenjamir3983 4 года назад

    Can't wait for the full podcast 😍❤🤗

  • @ofcourseistillloveyou8157
    @ofcourseistillloveyou8157 4 года назад +1

    been waiting for this!!!

  • @yunishiii
    @yunishiii 4 года назад

    I feel relaxed while listening to their conversation. Anyways, stan Ladies Code!! 💖

  • @sugarmilk28
    @sugarmilk28 4 года назад +3

    Wow the beauty standards in the companies are so toxic 😰 one thing is that they tell you but another if they make you or pressure you to have ps or change 😢

  • @anamarijatadic497
    @anamarijatadic497 4 года назад +3

    YOU GOT THAT MAN JAW BRO.YASS BM TELL HIM

  • @septianisari880
    @septianisari880 4 года назад

    My new favorite podcast

  • @vickyelfathea663
    @vickyelfathea663 4 года назад +2

    Brooo i tell ya. Beauty standard really changes overtime. It is based on what you consume daily, Peniel is right it's all about mindset, you might think it is forced positivity but in fact every beauty standards are different across countries meaning there are no such a thing as a real 'beauty'. Stop comparing yourself to other people

  • @merdianingikamahendra5148
    @merdianingikamahendra5148 4 года назад

    2:35 ...dont give a 'flying funk' about what other people think.
    Peniel's curse is another level 🤣

  • @alexandergroove2370
    @alexandergroove2370 4 года назад

    All the stuff is beautiful

  • @VeronicaEtcetera
    @VeronicaEtcetera 4 года назад

    Diane's laugh is such a mood.

  • @justkencontrol
    @justkencontrol 4 года назад +1

    I used to enjoy kpop a lot but seeing these skinny dainty idols with pale skin and big eyes affected how I view my body and I remember I would spend hours and days trying to gather dieting info so I could look like them but a lot of the diets were pretty much starvation diets I ended up in a really bad place. I really can’t imagine how difficult it is for people who are actually in the industry surrounded by messages like that. I’m really glad they talked about it

  • @mooli7667
    @mooli7667 4 года назад +6

    My knees are my biggest insecurity.

  • @kimtan5184
    @kimtan5184 4 года назад

    1st a lego now buzz lightyear 😂😂

  • @mathewouthup7386
    @mathewouthup7386 4 года назад

    the buzz lightyear got me

  • @crennova8611
    @crennova8611 4 года назад

    PREACH, PENIEL, PREACH!

  • @Jasdeeeep
    @Jasdeeeep 4 года назад

    My mom would always tell us that physical beauty fade but what you got inside don't. So yeah, try to be nicer, kinder to people, you'll look more beautiful. I assure you that.

  • @smileeeeeeeeeeeee0526
    @smileeeeeeeeeeeee0526 4 года назад

    Love this trio ❤️

  • @DeeRafatSweileh
    @DeeRafatSweileh 4 года назад +1

    I remember a person pointed out that my lower lips are "asymmetrical", one side is bigger than the other. And that my upper lips are too small in proportion for my lower lips.
    I never noticed that, never. And I was like 20 years old. After that, everytime I would put on lipstick that's the first thing I would see. And I hated that. I hated that this person did this to me to the point where it's the first thing I see when I look at myself.
    So I was like NOPE. Not happening. My lips are asymmetrical and unproportionate, and I am okay with that.
    OH! Speaking of the gummy smiles, I have that too. I've always known about this one so as a kid I had a bad habit of covering my mouth whenever I laughed. I didn't like habit, so I would stop myself everytime. Thankfully, I stopped that around college and I laugh freely now.
    AFTER graduation, someone from our batch that I wasn't even close to, sent me a dentist's post of him fixing a gummy smile, and saying "that smile looks like yours, doesn't it? He's really good, maybe you should check him out?"
    LIKE WHAT?! I honestly don't know her intentions and I'm not gonna assume but that made me laugh at how ridiculous it is.

  • @foreverus3788
    @foreverus3788 4 года назад

    I love u guys!

  • @mxgxstx2440
    @mxgxstx2440 4 года назад +1

    What makes me angry is that they are already idols, they have a lot of pressure and people criticize them for their looks, if they are female idols, they criticize them much more.
    I'm fucking tired of that double standard they have for female idols

  • @polyulokyu
    @polyulokyu 4 года назад +1

    being korean is always not easy

  • @kkanipae
    @kkanipae 4 года назад +1

    Yup,Peniel said it best love yourself and screw what ppl think or say...😉🤙🏽

  • @lisanation2203
    @lisanation2203 4 года назад +3

    agencies really care about knees.... wtf

  • @dindaadytya9150
    @dindaadytya9150 4 года назад +1

    I know I will feel sad listening to this convo because it is so difficult becoming idol :'(
    I hope all of you always in a healthy condition, both mental and physical :')

  • @diffimalonekavunga6549
    @diffimalonekavunga6549 4 года назад +1

    PREACH PENIEL 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kalyssaa
    @kalyssaa 4 года назад

    ashley idk what your knees look like but they're bEAUTIFUL

  • @xxxira9712
    @xxxira9712 3 года назад

    i just knew that preppy phase is Abercrombie and Hollister, guess i had my preppy phase too

  • @helenwo5030
    @helenwo5030 4 года назад +6

    Beauty is a mindset and it's unfortunate that a certain mindset is then adopted as a standard. An impossible standard I might add. Because really, pretty knees???

  • @shes_a_pandora148
    @shes_a_pandora148 4 года назад

    It does a never ending problem... For real for real

  • @yuuskz4655
    @yuuskz4655 4 года назад +3

    I like peniel shin's flying funk, and the beauty standard is so ridiculous anyway

  • @habsyahfitri9685
    @habsyahfitri9685 4 года назад

    Flying funk LOL

  • @kalyssaa
    @kalyssaa 4 года назад

    peniel making "to infinity and beyond" his tag line

  • @Raebeanie
    @Raebeanie 4 года назад

    That's unbelievable that they would tell you to physically change yourself. Like excuse you, do you want a Barbie Doll as an idol???? I'm glad that Ashely saw that everyone is not worth pleasing. Everyone is beautiful the way they are. Fuck all that other shit, that's not worth it. EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @Chikaluify
    @Chikaluify 3 года назад

    Would love to visit a Korea actually want to move there but what is holding me back is their beauty standards when it comes to weight, am a big girl have always been a big girl , so I know that I would be judged.
    It shouldn’t bother me,but unfortunately it bothers me since I had to deal & cope with all my life. Plus being overweight does not mean am lazy or unkept.

  • @Fayways
    @Fayways 4 года назад +1

    I don’t know who’s peniel look alike but it sounds very specific😭😭😭

  • @sunia1150
    @sunia1150 4 года назад

    beauty is a mindset, I love Paniel :)

  • @naranjocamillef.1272
    @naranjocamillef.1272 4 года назад

    Yow this is why I stan Peniel. I remember how much stress he got and even loss some of his hair because of the culture shock he got. Gosh.

  • @Slorrpee
    @Slorrpee 4 года назад

    i was today years old when Peniel said "Butt chin" when all this time i preferred calling it as "cleft chin" but now i think i might have to change because it sounds funny lmao

  • @SoshieFive
    @SoshieFive 4 года назад

    I need friends like them omg

  • @trishabanerjee5729
    @trishabanerjee5729 4 года назад +1

    Now I know that I don't need to worry about my knees 🙂🙂

  • @astriyustinakambu2812
    @astriyustinakambu2812 4 года назад +1

    Love from 🇮🇩

  • @joannagrace9305
    @joannagrace9305 4 года назад

    In the Philippines, we had a "jejemon" phase. HAHAHAHA 😅