11:55 AGREED! Juan has been testing Karla with micro-aggressions. First, it was the fact that she spends money recklessly on $10-13 juices daily and he has his own juicer (she's irresponsible), then it was jumping around in bed at 7:30AM playing loud music to see if she would get an attitude and she didn't. Then, it was being in the boat and him trying to flip it over and she jumped out that boat so fast she didn't even get wet and he was soaked. Now it's intentionally trying to hurt her feelings about having a good time without her. He even mentioned HER being passive aggressive which was a projection because that is exactly what he was to her instead. I'm picking up on a ton his controlling ways.
I'm so glad someone else is seeing it this way. I've been noticing it for quite some time...Juan trying to "humble" Karla and also setting expectations really low for him to see how she will react. Everything from asking what she would do if he left dishes in the sink to telling her that she shouldn't expect him to take her out to dinner, paying bills while he invests in his app, and now telling her that she was forgotten. This is all an attempt to show her that "she is not all that".
@@ecclairmayo4153 yeah it's like he wants to "humble" her and break her spirit actually to probably build her to what he wants her to be. This is actually very unnerving.
@bltpod - such a good point about tearing her down because she has a lot of confidence. Then, she will do whatever he wants because she would want to please him, basically chasing his affections. It's so obvious and unnerving to se it in real time.
You brought out a good point. I didn’t even think of the fact that Madison left Allen alone in the apartment after he recently told her that his friend passed. How thoughtless of her.
I don’t see the intimacy either. Ike doesn’t see Emem at all. He just talks and cosplays what a husband should be. I think Emen is opening up to someone that is not real.
55:00 about the decompressing thing. It really depends on the person and the relationship. I think the two of you have been together long enough where you know how to help each other decompress. Karla is just meeting Juan. And from what we’ve seen with waking up in the morning, playing that music and jumping around, he doesn’t seem like someone that’s very calming. I also understand it was during vacation so he might be different day to day. When I first started dating again after my divorce, I hated having to work almost 10 hour shifts where I’m talking and running meetings all day and someone pushing to see me even if it was just to hang out because I just met you and I don’t know you so I don’t wanna feel the pressure of The “getting to know you phase” when I just wanna lay down in peace verses being interactive. That takes a lot of energy.
Not "dem franchise boys!" Hahahahaha too funny! The irony here is Camille is as much of a square as Thomas yet she's expecting thugga out of him smh. Ikechi does not like Emem like that nor is he attracted to her. I hate his curated speeches; he comes off very inauthentic. I think he likes the idea of love and the fantasy that the media presents about love yet he doesn't care much to put the work in to achieve his own kind of love. Him talking about his brother and sister-in-law's marriage, putting it up on a pedestal, was concerning for me. Like stop comparing your relationships to theirs and if it doesn't measure up then it is not good enough. Comparison is the thief of joy!
As far as Camille and Thomas, when she said she's used to someone "R&B" and more in tune with the culture, immediately I said she want a hood dude. But the more I hear them speak about it, she's definitely used to dating black men, but she don't want a hood dude... She want a Morehouse man... Alpha Kappa Alpha 😂✊🏾
13:35 I’m with Chris. Juan was testing her. She claims she is whimsical and didn’t he say he hopes she stays light hearted last episode??? Idk that was a hurtful Thing to say to your new wife.
Re: Thomas & Camille. I totally agree..aesthetically they look like they're of the same background. Camille is in denial bc the intial reveal re: the lingerie was cringe so why she thinks she's so "hip" & Thomas is a square is baffling. You 2 are one in the same.
I agree Juan is definitely checking her temperature. Watching with one of my guy friend and he agreed as well, men don’t latch on to other men and you’re with a woman who you like or are into to.
Neither of them are Black. But in terms of exposure he is biracial (doesn’t identify as Black) and was raised by a white family in the burbs. Unfortunately, some of these people have been told they are not Black ‘enough’ and are treated very badly by their White relatives. It’s offensive and I’m sure pretty confusing for a biracial person. They aren’t told they aren’t White enough, because their white side rarely claims them. I think she should open her mind because she also has a White side that she can learn more through Thomas. Plus she sounds/seems pretty suburban so maybe she was living vicariously through those ‘ city exes’.
I am from a bi-racial family and it is usually the black part that rips on the bi-racial family member for not being black enough. There is a lot of colorism in Latino and black culture.
@mynameisstacey6217 Exactly. If ur mad/angry I get using profanity but being excessive, like not being able to complete a sentence without a curse word makes me uncomfortable and imo shows a lack of respect for me.
Idk I love squares and I’ve been called Oreo and white washed… even now I do. However, I could not date or marry Thomas. He looks so nonchalant and sleepy all the time. He seems to lack life and vibrancy and he’s two years older than me. I bet she’s struggling as a 32 year old because he reads 60 not 42
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11:55 AGREED! Juan has been testing Karla with micro-aggressions. First, it was the fact that she spends money recklessly on $10-13 juices daily and he has his own juicer (she's irresponsible), then it was jumping around in bed at 7:30AM playing loud music to see if she would get an attitude and she didn't. Then, it was being in the boat and him trying to flip it over and she jumped out that boat so fast she didn't even get wet and he was soaked. Now it's intentionally trying to hurt her feelings about having a good time without her. He even mentioned HER being passive aggressive which was a projection because that is exactly what he was to her instead. I'm picking up on a ton his controlling ways.
omg good catch!!! I totally agree with you. It's like a weird power play. Maybe even borderline emotional abuse.
Yeah, Juan is wierd
I'm so glad someone else is seeing it this way. I've been noticing it for quite some time...Juan trying to "humble" Karla and also setting expectations really low for him to see how she will react. Everything from asking what she would do if he left dishes in the sink to telling her that she shouldn't expect him to take her out to dinner, paying bills while he invests in his app, and now telling her that she was forgotten. This is all an attempt to show her that "she is not all that".
@@ecclairmayo4153 yeah it's like he wants to "humble" her and break her spirit actually to probably build her to what he wants her to be. This is actually very unnerving.
@bltpod - such a good point about tearing her down because she has a lot of confidence. Then, she will do whatever he wants because she would want to please him, basically chasing his affections. It's so obvious and unnerving to se it in real time.
I come for the whiteboards.. I stay for the commentary!! 😂❤
You brought out a good point. I didn’t even think of the fact that Madison left Allen alone in the apartment after he recently told her that his friend passed. How thoughtless of her.
I don’t see the intimacy either. Ike doesn’t see Emem at all. He just talks and cosplays what a husband should be. I think Emen is opening up to someone that is not real.
55:00 about the decompressing thing. It really depends on the person and the relationship. I think the two of you have been together long enough where you know how to help each other decompress. Karla is just meeting Juan. And from what we’ve seen with waking up in the morning, playing that music and jumping around, he doesn’t seem like someone that’s very calming. I also understand it was during vacation so he might be different day to day. When I first started dating again after my divorce, I hated having to work almost 10 hour shifts where I’m talking and running meetings all day and someone pushing to see me even if it was just to hang out because I just met you and I don’t know you so I don’t wanna feel the pressure of The “getting to know you phase” when I just wanna lay down in peace verses being interactive. That takes a lot of energy.
I agree with you regarding Juan. He knew what he was doing. As a woman I would have been pissed all the way off.
YEP and I agree with her "pay back"
I agree with all you say Chris! You are spot on. Very intuitive. “And things of that nature”. 🤓
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Yall are my favorite couple EVER❤ thank you for being my friends in my head
33:46 I bet Emem is lying to herself about this intimacy she is referencing
Not "dem franchise boys!" Hahahahaha too funny! The irony here is Camille is as much of a square as Thomas yet she's expecting thugga out of him smh.
Ikechi does not like Emem like that nor is he attracted to her. I hate his curated speeches; he comes off very inauthentic. I think he likes the idea of love and the fantasy that the media presents about love yet he doesn't care much to put the work in to achieve his own kind of love. Him talking about his brother and sister-in-law's marriage, putting it up on a pedestal, was concerning for me. Like stop comparing your relationships to theirs and if it doesn't measure up then it is not good enough. Comparison is the thief of joy!
Im so happy that you are the only one who caught that reference lolol
- Chris
I feel Michelle on David cursing. I believe that when a guy curse in front of a woman it's a sign of disrespect.
Michelle has been disrespectful , degrading, to David from day one and hasn't said one cuss word. She is the disrespectful one.
Michelle should be upset. David should have never been picked. Bro lives like a 23 year old college student
@@antmyrick2063 I agree with you. But that doesn’t give Michelle the right to be mean to the man
- Chris
@ItTakesTwoShow I don't think she's being mean. I think it's a natural reaction. She was put in a situation that's not favorable to her.
David should be upset. He's done nothing to her to deserve her pious disrespect.
@Daniela-Christianson she is just being honest
@@antmyrick2063 She honestly thinks she's better than him 😂
Not “Get out my Bed” I Hollered!!!😂😂
Chris said he can't swim but he can salsa. 🤣🤣🤣
One thing you ain’t gonna do is playyyy meeeeeeeeeeee 😩😩😩
- Chris
As far as Camille and Thomas, when she said she's used to someone "R&B" and more in tune with the culture, immediately I said she want a hood dude. But the more I hear them speak about it, she's definitely used to dating black men, but she don't want a hood dude... She want a Morehouse man... Alpha Kappa Alpha 😂✊🏾
Love you both!❤ agree with you on Ike Chris! Ike wrote a book about letters to his wife and he ain’t met his wife yet Fam 😂😂😂😂
13:35 I’m with Chris. Juan was testing her. She claims she is whimsical and didn’t he say he hopes she stays light hearted last episode??? Idk that was a hurtful
Thing to say to your new wife.
I'm with you Chris!!! Juan is on one, Ikechi is a failed romantic and all these women were aggravating me this episode 😂😂
Yall are spot on!
Love the channel. ❤Please get filters for mics. Lotsss of air pops when talking.
Re: Thomas & Camille. I totally agree..aesthetically they look like they're of the same background. Camille is in denial bc the intial reveal re: the lingerie was cringe so why she thinks she's so "hip" & Thomas is a square is baffling. You 2 are one in the same.
There are plenty of good girls who like bad boys.
I agree Juan is definitely checking her temperature. Watching with one of my guy friend and he agreed as well, men don’t latch on to other men and you’re with a woman who you like or are into to.
If Camille continues to disparage Thomas it may create resentment and make it difficult for him to feel intimate towards her.
Why when you said some blacks can’t quote Martin, I thought you meant MLK at first. Lmbo😂😂😂
Now stoppppppppp 😂😂😂
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Really 😂
lmaoooo
Neither of them are Black. But in terms of exposure he is biracial (doesn’t identify as Black) and was raised by a white family in the burbs. Unfortunately, some of these people have been told they are not Black ‘enough’ and are treated very badly by their White relatives. It’s offensive and I’m sure pretty confusing for a biracial person. They aren’t told they aren’t White enough, because their white side rarely claims them. I think she should open her mind because she also has a White side that she can learn more through Thomas. Plus she sounds/seems pretty suburban so maybe she was living vicariously through those ‘ city exes’.
I am from a bi-racial family and it is usually the black part that rips on the bi-racial family member for not being black enough. There is a lot of colorism in Latino and black culture.
im mad that you said neither of them are black and then proceeded to blame the white side for their feelings.
So what he cusses a lot he is grown. I hate folks try to control other grown folks.
If you are not a person that uses curse words regularly that can be bothersome. I personally would never be with someone that curses a lot.
@mynameisstacey6217 Exactly. If ur mad/angry I get using profanity but being excessive, like not being able to complete a sentence without a curse word makes me uncomfortable and imo shows a lack of respect for me.
She doesn’t like him, so anything he does will be grating. She ain’t that churchy she can’t hear some curse words.
There is no safe space for intimacy with Ecechee
Hey. I am a new fan. I love the commentary and insight. Ike wasn’t attractive to EM and it was evident when she was walking down the aisle.
Idk I love squares and I’ve been called Oreo and white washed… even now I do. However, I could not date or marry Thomas. He looks so nonchalant and sleepy all the time. He seems to lack life and vibrancy and he’s two years older than me. I bet she’s struggling as a 32 year old because he reads 60 not 42
Funny, I’m 54 & keep thinking that if I were single I’d snatch him up, as he’s just my speed! 😂
@@Mizzhoneyyy and that’s ok! I imagine if you at your age feels that way, then she at 32 may think he’s not hers but I’m just speculating
18:42 I think the two are too similar to the point where there js no chemistry between Thomas and Camille.
Just found y'all. Are you a couple or just friends?
Married 😊
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A grown woman talking about “swag” is very odd to me