*Than and *then have different meaning.. if you use then instead of than, the meaning would be: he rather cry of you shoulder and go to his funeral nxt week.. not the same.. still, that friend is dead.. that's the difference in meaning.. I just want to share some education because I can see many comments in the internet that use then as than
As an MMA fan he was peripheral to me. Now I'm a lifelong fan. Steve-O had Paddy as a guest and I watched every minute. What an interesting guy. Full of character, but heart, too.
I've had on and off bad thoughts in my head over the last year or two. I watch this every day now when I get home from work and after I start hitting a punching bag or go for a run. It'll be an uphill climb but I'm ready for it. LOVE YOU PADDY! AND ANYONE STRUGGLING OUT THERE.. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND CAPABLE OF GREAT THINGS. DONT LET ANYONE TAKE IT FROM YOU!!
@@birdland85 @gb342002 Awsome!! Remember that when those thought come people care about u. Speak up so people know how u feel. Ive been struggling since i was teenager but i speak alot about my mentalhealth and since then its better each day. I have dips but that is a battle for that day and i make it trough, stay strong brother and remember we men stand together
This got tears in my eyes. As a man that struggles with lifelong depression this really got to me. I’ve had those thoughts plenty of times but luckily my conscious came out on top each time even if it meant that I only stopped myself because of the pain it would cause those I love. But the world does have a stigma and regardless of politics and ideologies, if you’re hurting, please just talk to someone. There’s always somebody that’s going to know even just the slightest bit of what you may need to get over your dark thoughts. The biggest culprit is always loneliness. Even though it may seem you are all alone with nobody that can possibly understand you just know you are not alone in feeling this way. May god bless all of you and everyone. Thank you Paddy and my condolences for your loss mate.
Literally the same, yeah, loneliness and childhood is what has caused it. I feel so fortunate that where I work now, I am able to speak to people, lighten the mood so that my mind is in a better place, and I never feel like I'm alone in this fight.
I know sometimes in life it feels hopeless but I guarantee there's people out there that need you they need me they need them this message just as much as they need me commenting on this message so always keep your head up always look to brighter days it's not a cliche it's a fact take a walk look for a smile if not all bad man
I lost my brother to suicide last year. This message is powerful & I hope reaches someone who needed to hear it. The stigma is real. And strength isnt always physical. Thank you Paddy
I had a stroke on Friday, Saturday I contemplated hitting the off switch and fortunately fell asleep and woke up Sunday. Scrolled thru FB, this clip popped up on my feed. Changed my mind and made me think. Thank you Paddy from the bottom of my heart, I feel for your loss my friend.
Not everybody is so resilient and you're lucky to be alive my friend. My girlfriend passed from a stroke at 25. Everyday you open your eyes is either a blessing or a curse and the choice is up to you. Wishing you the best possible recovery and also the best in life.
Honestly this hit me hard. Wasn't expecting him to say something like this after all the goofiness. Respect to Paddy sorry for your loss, good luck with the elite of LW.
This is the type of people we need in professional sports people saying messages like this to show that it’s okay for guys to open up. Thank you Patrick seriously you’re the man and keep it up!
@@yew2oob954 wow thanks for notifying me about this comment. I got clean off of drugs, am happier healthier and better. What a difference 8 months can make. I hope everything is good in your world as well
As a man I have had my heart broken so many times and a few months ago it happened again always felt like I wasn’t good enough and I wanted to end my life but powerful messages like this have helped me so thank you!!
That was beautiful. I've had so many friends kill themselves over the years. I come from a small town where it happens far too often. That, and a lot of overdose deaths from men too scared to deal with their struggles head, and turn to drugs to numb themselves. I struggle with depression, anxiety, and addiction, but I am getting help finally, and it's working. Trust me, it's not worth it to hold everything in like a lot of us do.
Dude.... how absolutely weird. I almost killed myself 2 weeks ago and I got the strength to call and talk to someone. I sat on the bed for hours with my gun, crying and clinging to life with thoughts of how much I love my son. The weight of my finger on the trigger became too heavy, in my last bit of desperation I called and poured myself out to someone. I am glad I didn't do it. I still have a long dark road ahead of me full of twists and turns no doubt but, I can do this. I know I can, I have to, I cannot give up. My son needs me to persevere. This video made me an instant Paddy fan. I'm literally crying rn. **update 7.26.24** I'm still here. Still alright. It was a long and very dark road ahead of that. Things settled down for a while. Things are better now, not by much. They can get better and I'm working on trudging forward to that. I'm not perfect a perfect person in an already imperfect world but I'm trying. I am still depressed and the thought dances across there from time to time but I'm confident I'll persevere for the long haul.
Glad that you reconsidered and thought about what that would've done to your boy. Please, NEVER forget that. And you already acknowledge the fact that it's gonna be hard, so just go day by day brother ✌️
An easy life is not a life worth living. Don’t pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a hard one. Take it day by day and always count your blessings! I bet there is more than you realize
Good mindset do it for your son and other people you care about a lot of people are caught up in themselves and its too late when they actually show they care when the persons gone but there are a lot of people that do care even though they don't show it.
This message hits me hard. As someone as me who is suffering from major depression, i wanna thank you for saying this. Its hard for me to talk about this with my family. When they have expecations from you and you cant achieve it, they will never understand. That weight in my shoulder, its really heavy. Being silent was my way of dealing with it. Thank God that i had the courage to seek medical attention. It was my psychiatrist that saved me. Mental illness is real. 😢
I've been going through severe depression lately, and I thought about taking my life. This guy literally saved my life. I don't care if he becomes champion or not, this guy is now my favorite UFC fighter. Thank you paddy
I suffer from severe Depression and immense Loneliness for more than 3 decades, also sui** al thoughts for many years. Had tears in my eyes during this speech. Thank you Paddy !
Keep it up brother we all wanna see you succeed much respect for those words some of us needed to here that. Thank you for the entertainment and for the powerful message
I was contemplating giving up, Paddy. I still do from time to time. It's just so hard, you know what I mean? Thank you, Paddy. Your words have helped me to stand up and keep trying to fight. I'm trying Paddy. Aloha from Hawaii. -R
It's easy to see the show boating and miss that there is a lovely caring human being behind it. Well said Paddy - I shall be a fan of your's from now on in. Thank you x
THE MOST IMPORTANT after fight comment EVER! Whether you like Paddy or not, HUGE RESPECT for sharing that message. Especially considering the audience is probably 80% male. Great job Paddy! 👍
Why does ESPN not push this video and why does the YT Algo not push it even facebook is how does this message have 100k views. This message needs to reach everyone.
I literally don't watch UFC but this guy is amazing for what he did. Speak up, we may feel like there is no out but there is. You have to speak your feelings. I lost my parents both in 2020 they were both turning into their forties and I remember months down the line I looked in the mirror and didn't recognize myself. Who I was. I broke down right there and my brother and his wife were there for me. There will always be someone. Never give up, never bottle everything up. Us men matter. You matter.
So true on so many levels hits a new heart string in my heart I've known too many men that took there own lives and there are many more out there that are hurting and struggling. Men should not be afraid to reach out for mental health when needed it does not make you less of a man look out for you're well being and take care of yourself it will make you way happy in life.
@Cody Last Name When your in recovery going to meetings and rehabs, you meet A LOT of people. They weren’t all close friends, just people I met along my journey. I have had the same 5 best friends since kindergarten. You don’t need many friends, just good ones. And I promise you can make some friends, and if you don’t. That’s okay too. You can still live a fulfilling life, I guess it’s just easier to share it with people. I hope you do whatever is best for you
I enjoy watching this guy in the octagon and interviews and know I respect him so much 👍 check on your people even those you think he/she won't do anything like this ever
Most important thing ever said in the octagon, powerful, heartfelt message. No matter what ill forever be a fan of Paddy after hearing this. Dont be afraid to talk.
ONWARDS PADDY! THIS IS A ROLE MODEL IF YOU WERE WONDERING. sorry for your loss.thinking on the optimistic side ,I think your friend will appreciate that this horrible tragedy lead to this message bein seen by millions, hopefully giving someone else the courage to reach out. Much love
"People would rather have you cry on their shoulder than have to go to your funeral" powerful message
@@DoabaPapi it’s the same sentiment
He's something special. In a world of selfishness and entitlement he represents a selfless attitude. Much respect for this man.
Than*
THAN*
what you said means that you'll have a friend cry on your shoulder and then you'll go to his funeral afterwards.
*Than and *then have different meaning.. if you use then instead of than, the meaning would be: he rather cry of you shoulder and go to his funeral nxt week.. not the same.. still, that friend is dead.. that's the difference in meaning.. I just want to share some education because I can see many comments in the internet that use then as than
I no longer care if he wins or loses. He's now my favorite MMA fighter.
As an MMA fan he was peripheral to me. Now I'm a lifelong fan. Steve-O had Paddy as a guest and I watched every minute. What an interesting guy. Full of character, but heart, too.
How u feel after Saturday? Just a question btw now trying to be funny
@@kevinperez3992 Haven't been keeping up. What happened on Saturday?
Rial
He's mates with woman killers in Liverpool scumbag
I'll be a fan of his for life after hearing this from him!
Same, I'm a fan of anyone who helps change the world for the better.
Nice.
Does Paddy for you is the next Conor McGregor ?
@@harounosmani5591 Maybe his antics, but Conor never delivered such a powerful and heartfelt message like Paddy did.
This is what one me over. I don’t like his style but I’m supporting for ever now.
Paddy, you just saved many lives with that message. Bravo sir!
I've had on and off bad thoughts in my head over the last year or two. I watch this every day now when I get home from work and after I start hitting a punching bag or go for a run. It'll be an uphill climb but I'm ready for it. LOVE YOU PADDY! AND ANYONE STRUGGLING OUT THERE.. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND CAPABLE OF GREAT THINGS. DONT LET ANYONE TAKE IT FROM YOU!!
@@gb342002 Good on you mate, make the steps to forge yourself into the person that you want to be. Keep it up king, we're all gonna make it.
For real im struggling with the idea and he gave me hope
@@birdland85 @gb342002 Awsome!! Remember that when those thought come people care about u. Speak up so people know how u feel. Ive been struggling since i was teenager but i speak alot about my mentalhealth and since then its better each day. I have dips but that is a battle for that day and i make it trough, stay strong brother and remember we men stand together
Shame he couldn't save the life of the girl his mates shot dead in Liverpool
"Id rather have me mate cry on my shoulder then go to his funeral next week" Powerful words patty❤❤
Those word were powerful.
Paddy
Patty cake patty cake bakers man
*than (not a grammar nazi, just wanted the make sure the correct message is shared)
@@nimbusdub you mean, “…cry on me shoulder…”
If you gonna be a grammar Nazi, do it right.
This was the most powerful octagon speech I’ve ever heard. Thank you Paddy
Absolutely! This speech and Rose saying “just try to be a good person.”
"i'd like to take this chance to apolagize..."
@@AnjuMaximoff that’s not powerful
And the most important.
This got tears in my eyes. As a man that struggles with lifelong depression this really got to me. I’ve had those thoughts plenty of times but luckily my conscious came out on top each time even if it meant that I only stopped myself because of the pain it would cause those I love. But the world does have a stigma and regardless of politics and ideologies, if you’re hurting, please just talk to someone. There’s always somebody that’s going to know even just the slightest bit of what you may need to get over your dark thoughts. The biggest culprit is always loneliness. Even though it may seem you are all alone with nobody that can possibly understand you just know you are not alone in feeling this way. May god bless all of you and everyone. Thank you Paddy and my condolences for your loss mate.
Literally the same, yeah, loneliness and childhood is what has caused it. I feel so fortunate that where I work now, I am able to speak to people, lighten the mood so that my mind is in a better place, and I never feel like I'm alone in this fight.
all love to you man, hopefully things will get better for you man.
I know sometimes in life it feels hopeless but I guarantee there's people out there that need you they need me they need them this message just as much as they need me commenting on this message so always keep your head up always look to brighter days it's not a cliche it's a fact take a walk look for a smile if not all bad man
I can relate. 😞
Yo man me too.
I lost my brother to suicide last year.
This message is powerful & I hope reaches someone who needed to hear it.
The stigma is real.
And strength isnt always physical.
Thank you Paddy
so sorry for your loss, lots of love. he’d be proud of you
Lost my brother to suicide too, hope you’re alright bud.
I lost mine 2 months ago, can’t stop listening to his words
So sorry for your loss, strength to you always 💫
It's sucks I've tried to pull a trigger with a shotgun and it jammed
I had a stroke on Friday, Saturday I contemplated hitting the off switch and fortunately fell asleep and woke up Sunday. Scrolled thru FB, this clip popped up on my feed. Changed my mind and made me think. Thank you Paddy from the bottom of my heart, I feel for your loss my friend.
Wow man… You just brought tears to my eyes.
I am so glad you’re still with us.
Thank you for being so honest. 🙏🏽
stay strong man
Not everybody is so resilient and you're lucky to be alive my friend. My girlfriend passed from a stroke at 25. Everyday you open your eyes is either a blessing or a curse and the choice is up to you. Wishing you the best possible recovery and also the best in life.
I wish you well bro❤️
Stay strong - this is not the end of you.
No matter what you think of paddy as a fighter his character and charisma and just down right humanity is unmatched.
Huge respect for Paddy and him putting a spotlight on mens mental health 💪💜
Thank you so much for this message Paddy!!! We need more people like you in this world!!!
That is how you use your platform, Paddy! Amazing and powerful message to be shared globally.
As someone that deals wit mental illness this really broke me sorry Paddy i love you brother😔💙
Talk to someone then there's always light at the end of the tunnel trust me!!
You are not alone, friend. Please reach out if you need help.
If this broke you your problem is you're mentally weak toughen up and stop making excuses
Oh boo hoo "mental illness" ya ok
Everyone wants to be a victim and brag now a days
I love when attention seeking people say they are suicidal. Cuz we all know that I'll hhypotheticals y6y666666hh HH
Honestly this hit me hard. Wasn't expecting him to say something like this after all the goofiness. Respect to Paddy sorry for your loss, good luck with the elite of LW.
It hard to me too. He's a good human
And that is it. Dont judge a book by its cover. He might be goofy, he might be trash talkin but mainly he is a human being!!
This guy is a class act real warrior🤝
Love it man. Held back tears watching this bro. Men go thru a lot on a daily basis internally that no one could even imagine. Great message my friend.
Very powerful and I think paddy gained a whole lot of respect for this!
he gained mine for sure
This is the type of people we need in professional sports people saying messages like this to show that it’s okay for guys to open up. Thank you Patrick seriously you’re the man and keep it up!
Thank you Paddy much love from California !
This speech helped me finally get to the point where I’m going to talk to someone. Thank you so much Paddy.
How are you doing now?
@@yew2oob954 wow thanks for notifying me about this comment. I got clean off of drugs, am happier healthier and better. What a difference 8 months can make. I hope everything is good in your world as well
@@prandle967 Great to hear...just thought someone should check up on you. ☺
@@prandle967 Congrats, mate!
this speech helped me too bro imean i will not kill my self for problem but sometimes u need to release all weight on your shoulder
Thats heavy… paddy is hurting but was a professional and did his job. Well done, so sorry for the loss of your friend 💔
As a man I have had my heart broken so many times and a few months ago it happened again always felt like I wasn’t good enough and I wanted to end my life but powerful messages like this have helped me so thank you!!
🙏❤️
God bless you brother
You're never alone bro.
That was beautiful. I've had so many friends kill themselves over the years. I come from a small town where it happens far too often. That, and a lot of overdose deaths from men too scared to deal with their struggles head, and turn to drugs to numb themselves. I struggle with depression, anxiety, and addiction, but I am getting help finally, and it's working. Trust me, it's not worth it to hold everything in like a lot of us do.
Dude.... how absolutely weird. I almost killed myself 2 weeks ago and I got the strength to call and talk to someone. I sat on the bed for hours with my gun, crying and clinging to life with thoughts of how much I love my son. The weight of my finger on the trigger became too heavy, in my last bit of desperation I called and poured myself out to someone.
I am glad I didn't do it. I still have a long dark road ahead of me full of twists and turns no doubt but, I can do this. I know I can, I have to, I cannot give up. My son needs me to persevere.
This video made me an instant Paddy fan. I'm literally crying rn.
**update 7.26.24**
I'm still here. Still alright. It was a long and very dark road ahead of that. Things settled down for a while. Things are better now, not by much. They can get better and I'm working on trudging forward to that.
I'm not perfect a perfect person in an already imperfect world but I'm trying. I am still depressed and the thought dances across there from time to time but I'm confident I'll persevere for the long haul.
Keep moving forward man!! There's always a reason to live!!
Glad that you reconsidered and thought about what that would've done to your boy. Please, NEVER forget that. And you already acknowledge the fact that it's gonna be hard, so just go day by day brother ✌️
An easy life is not a life worth living. Don’t pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a hard one. Take it day by day and always count your blessings! I bet there is more than you realize
Good mindset do it for your son and other people you care about a lot of people are caught up in themselves and its too late when they actually show they care when the persons gone but there are a lot of people that do care even though they don't show it.
Thanks for the support guys, it's much appreciated.
God bless him. Powerful message.
Never heard of this guy before but he will be a hero in my book for the rest of our lives 👍🏻
This message hits me hard. As someone as me who is suffering from major depression, i wanna thank you for saying this. Its hard for me to talk about this with my family. When they have expecations from you and you cant achieve it, they will never understand. That weight in my shoulder, its really heavy. Being silent was my way of dealing with it. Thank God that i had the courage to seek medical attention. It was my psychiatrist that saved me. Mental illness is real. 😢
This was absolutely golden. Love this guy and what he stands for. Much respect Paddy!
I keep watching this and I wish I was brave enough to tell/speak to someone. I've bottled it up for years 😢
Wasn’t on the hype train but now I am. Hope this guy wins it all.
This brought a tear to my eye.
I battled with depression, and it has not been easy. Thank you paddy 😢
I've been going through severe depression lately, and I thought about taking my life. This guy literally saved my life. I don't care if he becomes champion or not, this guy is now my favorite UFC fighter. Thank you paddy
Same here. I'm struggling, but his words give me hope. Just to recognize it. My family doesn't, but he gave me hope
Amazing isn't it what words can do
Paddy is a Legend in the making.
Very powerful words indeed
This is the best advice and I love paddy for this .
I suffer from severe Depression and immense Loneliness for more than 3 decades, also sui** al thoughts for many years.
Had tears in my eyes during this speech. Thank you Paddy !
6 Dec 2023 mark that date after 10s of years men will come back nd listen to this video ❤
This put to tears in my eyes man, so important to talk when you need help but so hard to see you’re even worth it.
Keep it up brother we all wanna see you succeed much respect for those words some of us needed to here that. Thank you for the entertainment and for the powerful message
I was contemplating giving up, Paddy. I still do from time to time. It's just so hard, you know what I mean?
Thank you, Paddy. Your words have helped me to stand up and keep trying to fight. I'm trying Paddy.
Aloha from Hawaii.
-R
dont know you, but thank you for not giving up. i too have thought about hitting the escape hatch many times.
We love you both ❤
Love you brother. Hang in there. Be strong for me. 🙏🏽✊🏽❤️🤷🏽♂️
We love you paddy!!!!
I word it a bit differently, I would rather you cry on my shoulder than carry you on it. This is a powerful message.
OK IM ON THE PADDY TRAIN NOW, bless his heart beautiful message
It's easy to see the show boating and miss that there is a lovely caring human being behind it. Well said Paddy - I shall be a fan of your's from now on in. Thank you x
Good man Paddy. Probavly saved 1000s of lives with those few words
thank you, Paddy.
Blesss you brother, your changing lives right now
REAL MEN ...TALK AND LISTEN. NUFF SAID.
My upmost respect to you sir.
Love and respect from Brunei Darussalam.
Thank you for taking you moments to call out a real world problem of suicide.
Saved my life for sure..
“I’d rather me mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral.”
Such a simple but powerful statement 🥺
Sorry for your loss Paddy keep ya head up fam🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏾💯
I come back and watch this video whenever my mental psyche isn’t there. Thank you.
😅 great minds think alike.
Hope everything is going okay with you brother, you can beat those demons 💪
THE MOST IMPORTANT after fight comment EVER! Whether you like Paddy or not, HUGE RESPECT for sharing that message. Especially considering the audience is probably 80% male. Great job Paddy! 👍
So great to see a fighter deliver this message. Hits way harder. Never seen a single fight of his but now. I’m a fan👏🏼
Man you are the greatest paddy. Thank you
Why does ESPN not push this video and why does the YT Algo not push it even facebook is how does this message have 100k views. This message needs to reach everyone.
That's how you become my new favorite fighter. Powerful.
These are words that need to be heard!
I literally don't watch UFC but this guy is amazing for what he did. Speak up, we may feel like there is no out but there is. You have to speak your feelings. I lost my parents both in 2020 they were both turning into their forties and I remember months down the line I looked in the mirror and didn't recognize myself. Who I was. I broke down right there and my brother and his wife were there for me. There will always be someone. Never give up, never bottle everything up. Us men matter. You matter.
With they way society is now a days ..Against men.
I'd say this is the most powerful Post fight interview ever.
Still tears me up
Love you for this paddy
so true. love u paddy. amazing message
That was powerful. Very powerful. There is a huge stigma when it comes to men talking about their inner pain
What a beautiful Soul !💯
❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am so proud of this man for speaking up 🙏
Truly my favorite fighter ever now. Class act!
Dude was already one of my favorites but now I'm forever gonna be a fan of his.
My god this message is soo strong, it is the best package from you puddy to world !!! All the best !!!
MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT PADDY THE BADDY LOVED YOU WHEN A SAW YOU FIGHT YOUR 1st FIGHT. FROM THE HEART OF A BROKEN MAN, LOVE YOU MORE NOW.
This gave me a little hope today as someone who struggles with serious depression 💜
What a perfect use of the platform to say something super serious 💯 I honestly adore this man for this moment
Best speech ever!!
God bless you paddy you’re a hero
Bratha you know, you went through this. You have got my respect. Peace for you
God Paddy just earned so much respect from me after hearing this what a stand up dude.. God bless
Paddy preaching, good message my friend
You can assume that saved a bunch of lives… Good man Paddy
Words can’t describe the respect I have for this man for doing this
Top bloke. We all need a friend like paddy.
Amazing!… truly amazing. Thank you for shedding a lot of light on this problem, this world is cruel but we need to have communication.
From the toughest of opponents to the most sensitive of speeches. Respect always.
what a great guy.
So true on so many levels hits a new heart string in my heart I've known too many men that took there own lives and there are many more out there that are hurting and struggling. Men should not be afraid to reach out for mental health when needed it does not make you less of a man look out for you're well being and take care of yourself it will make you way happy in life.
Never been a huge ufc fan but this guy right here… as a man that suffers heavily from depression I feel this
Seriously... No one should be ashamed to ask for help. Well said, mate!
As a recovering heroin addict, I’ve lost 56 friends from overdose or suicide due to addiction. I love Paddy’s message
Same, I can’t count how many friends I’ve buried due to fent dope. It sickens me what these scummy drug dealers are doing for a quick Buck.
@Cody Last Name When your in recovery going to meetings and rehabs, you meet A LOT of people. They weren’t all close friends, just people I met along my journey. I have had the same 5 best friends since kindergarten. You don’t need many friends, just good ones. And I promise you can make some friends, and if you don’t. That’s okay too. You can still live a fulfilling life, I guess it’s just easier to share it with people. I hope you do whatever is best for you
A sad friend is better than a Dead friend
I enjoy watching this guy in the octagon and interviews and know I respect him so much 👍 check on your people even those you think he/she won't do anything like this ever
Thanks Paddy
Powerful words powerful message. People please listen to this and truly take it in. Love ya paddy x
On ya Paddy ❤ please spread this message!
What a powerful message couldn't be more true he is now one of my favorite fighters
Most important thing ever said in the octagon, powerful, heartfelt message. No matter what ill forever be a fan of Paddy after hearing this. Dont be afraid to talk.
Paddy Pimblett grande uomo!
ONWARDS PADDY! THIS IS A ROLE MODEL IF YOU WERE WONDERING.
sorry for your loss.thinking on the optimistic side ,I think your friend will appreciate that this horrible tragedy lead to this message bein seen by millions, hopefully giving someone else the courage to reach out. Much love
What a Wise Young Man. Made a great quote, and probably doesn't even realize how many peoples lives he may affect.
Very true great message
Watched this live… so much emotion. PADDY THE BADDY