how to live life without regrets?

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июл 2024
  • 0:00 Intro
    0:10 spending time with my grandparents
    1:00 living with friends (bc we are homeless atm)
    1:49 slowing down again
    2:23 for everyone who's new here
    2:45 the reality
    3:16 how anxiety&perfectionism affected me
    5:50 let's talk about regret: journal prompts
    6:30 you are holding yourself back
    6:55 what is regret?
    7:27 the solution: failures are life lessons
    8:48 do this to change your life
    11:00 my journey with content creation
    12:11 thank you for being here/outro
    Instagram: @alinaadede
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    work with me: alina.ackwonuu@gmail.com

Комментарии • 62

  • @juliarominkiewicz7642
    @juliarominkiewicz7642 21 день назад +31

    I can't believe that this video made me cry. I've realised that at this point I am really the only one that is stopping myself from living the life I've always wanted. You saying that we are actually unstoppable really got to me. It is so special how you opening up to us makes me feel so safe and connect with you and also with myself on a deeper level. I feel so grateful to you💛

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  21 день назад +1

      I love everything about this!! Sounds so special and it makes me so incredible happy that what I put out here finds the right people🫶🏻 much love to you x

  • @hannacarew3181
    @hannacarew3181 20 дней назад +9

    i think practicing gratitude for what you are blessed with right now in the present moment can help so much to dim any pangs of regret for what you haven't achieved it also helps with feeling in adequate or comparing yourself to where others are in life.

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  20 дней назад

      @@hannacarew3181 I totally agree!! Such an important message to practise more gratitude! How do you do it?🤍

    • @bexiexz
      @bexiexz 13 дней назад

      beautiful!!

  • @Kwushi
    @Kwushi 20 дней назад +1

    Been catching up on the recent vlogs Alina and it seems like you’re picking up traction, which is fantastic ! I love how every video feels like you are truly doing it for yourself before anyone else, like a personal video diary. I love that it feels this authentic and I have to say, it kinda makes me want to try it out myself. Keep it up !

  • @KekeKalzina
    @KekeKalzina 21 день назад +5

    im so glad I discovered your content it’s so genuine and sincere and it feels like meditation when I watch your videos cause they r so real and make me calmly think about things that usually make me anxious, lots of love and inspiration 💗

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  21 день назад

      thank you so so much!! Comments like this really motivate me to keep going so thank you🤍🥰

  • @TessaStirling
    @TessaStirling 18 дней назад +1

    love you, so proud of you !!!!

  • @Suepergurl
    @Suepergurl 17 дней назад

    such a relaxing vlog! Love how open and transparent you are! glad you finally played the piano again

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  16 дней назад

      it was sooo fun!! thinking about getting one in australia

  • @conoroneill942
    @conoroneill942 16 дней назад

    This was a fantastic video. I really liked the authentic feel to it. Keep going, you are doing great!

  • @lostsomewherehere
    @lostsomewherehere 20 дней назад +1

    Thanks a lot for your video!! I needed to hear this :) You are so brave, keep going 🚀🚀🚀

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  20 дней назад

      so glad it helped you!!

  • @gretetbr
    @gretetbr 17 дней назад

    The start was so beautiful,you all sitting around the table playing cards...felt like I was watching a movie 😌 You capture it all so wonderfully,making us think and ponder about life ❤️☀️

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  16 дней назад

      thank you so much ❤️

  • @hudaessam904
    @hudaessam904 21 день назад

    I'm so in love with what you do❤ keep going ❤❤

  • @StellaKrasnik
    @StellaKrasnik 21 день назад

    So so proud of you 🩷

  • @fitbylalo
    @fitbylalo 19 дней назад

    Always enjoy the vlogs 🫶🏽🌴

  • @VerenaAichholzer
    @VerenaAichholzer 21 день назад +1

    Just wonderful to see you grow ....

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  21 день назад

      @@VerenaAichholzer 🥰🫶🏻

  • @leaa1376
    @leaa1376 22 дня назад +2

    Hi Alina! i found your account just recently, i am currently studying in vienna so i feel a bit connected haha. i just wanted to say that i really like your content and that i find it really brave of your to pursue this dream of yours. your videos are inspiring and i really like the vibe! keep going and doing what you love🫶🏻

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  22 дня назад +1

      hey lea, thank you so much!! what are you studying here?❤❤

    • @leaa1376
      @leaa1376 22 дня назад

      @@alinaadede i‘m studying biomedicine and biotechnology :)

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  22 дня назад

      @@leaa1376oh no way at Vetmed uni?

    • @leaa1376
      @leaa1376 22 дня назад

      @@alinaadede yess hahah!

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  22 дня назад

      @@leaa1376hahaha I studied the same thing for one year

  • @bexiexz
    @bexiexz 13 дней назад +1

    i love this topic

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  12 дней назад +1

      me too so interesting to think about!!

    • @bexiexz
      @bexiexz 12 дней назад +1

      @@alinaadede yess!

  • @maximilianwarum
    @maximilianwarum 20 дней назад

    Loving it!!! Don't want you guys to leave ngl

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  20 дней назад

      @@maximilianwarum already missing you as a roomie

  • @emilylilburn
    @emilylilburn 21 день назад +1

    Your channel is gonna BLOWWWW up

  • @krystalannawilliams2653
    @krystalannawilliams2653 14 дней назад

    Living life good yes i listen

  • @darragh100
    @darragh100 7 дней назад

    Hey what’s the song at 1:30?

  • @hibabkkl9515
    @hibabkkl9515 18 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @Sofi.Founti
    @Sofi.Founti 21 день назад +2

    Hi Alina! I am the greek girl who commented the other day in your Greek videos😋 I wanted to say to you that almost everything you say to your videos are things that I am thinking of every day. Ohh we have such a same way of thinking hahaha, it’s crazy. And for me is such a relief to know that they are people on my age that have the same questions as me. I wanted to tell you something I read the other day about the voice in our head. In the book “the mindset”, dr. Carol Dweck says that when you have that voice in your head which tries to sabotage you “(..) let it do it’s song and dance and when it settles down a bit, talk to it about how you plan to learn from the set back and go forward: ‘Yes, yes it’s possible that I am not good at it (yet) but I think I have an idea of what to do next. Let’s just try it”. Apparently we have to normalise talking and responding to this voice.
    As Sahil Bloom puts it “Everything meaningful in life is on the other side of hearing that voice loud and clear and acting in spite of it”.. that’s it☺️ We have to learn to act in spite of that voice.. it’s a learning process, nothing more…
    With love,
    Sofi
    xxx

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  21 день назад +1

      Sofi
      I can't tell you how much this comment means to me. It's beautiful and thank you so much for the inspiration!!! I agree with everything that you have said and it's so interesting to think about how we respond to that voice (which I'm pretty sure everyone has in their head in some sort of way). One book that I'm sure you would love (if you haven't already read it) is "A new earth" by eckhart tolle
      lots of love to you xx

    • @Sofi.Founti
      @Sofi.Founti 18 дней назад

      @@alinaadede ohh thank you for this🤩 yes I have heard it. I am gonna read it for sure😋

  • @f.b.7164
    @f.b.7164 19 дней назад

    heyy! could you let me know if you think living in Vienna is relatively affordable? I am thinking of moving there to start working life...would you recommend that? :)

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  16 дней назад

      I think it still is pretty affordable compared to other big cities in Europe:) depends on what job you have but it is an amazing place to live (just gets really hot in summer haha and cold in winter)

  • @junetaylor5098
    @junetaylor5098 21 день назад

    What you are explaining here are the exact mechanisms I learned in therapy. 😂

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  21 день назад

      @@junetaylor5098 Hahaha is that something good then?😂

  • @jamesq.uigley
    @jamesq.uigley 22 дня назад +2

    I dont regret subscribing :)

  • @krystalannawilliams2653
    @krystalannawilliams2653 14 дней назад

    😁

  • @corinnerobitaille4110
    @corinnerobitaille4110 21 день назад

    I have goosies. What camera do you shoot with?

  • @_maeva_
    @_maeva_ 6 дней назад

    🤍✨️

  • @a.lina.c
    @a.lina.c 22 дня назад +2

    hey Alina! love all your videos!! i’m also dreaming of becoming a videographer! but i’m currently stuck in my corporate life because i worry too much about what if i fail in chasing my dream… but your videos did encourage me to buy a professional camera and i will start shooting more videos aside from my office job.🫶let’s stay connected!

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  21 день назад +1

      hey hey:) I totally understand that..you don't have to give up the security of that job and just drop everything...you can start small:) maybe start filming 3 times a week, learn how to edit on the weekends and start posting more and more. you will feel more secure as you go and develop your skills!! let me know how you go

    • @a.lina.c
      @a.lina.c 21 день назад

      @@alinaadede thanks for the advice🫶🫶i will let you know🩵🩵

  • @lauranoschang
    @lauranoschang 21 день назад +1

    hey Alina, i love the way you express your thoughts, it makes me think about the things that I desire and that I want to be brave enough to just live my life the way I want, without regrets. thank u for posting 🤍

    • @alinaadede
      @alinaadede  21 день назад

      thank you so much for taking the time to watch my video and write this❤️ you can do anything that you want to do in life!! So happy that you’re here now xx