wow this is so accurate! There’s someone who has this aspect who does not take no for an answer when pursuing someone they’re attracted to and they are so obsessive with them. They behave like this with almost everyone. They’re so passionate and fierce too. Interestingly, they were separated from their mother in their childhood for a good few years and had to bond with their mother when reunited. I can clearly see this is something that still affects them till this day. 😢
Thank you for this. I experience a different break up about three years ago thats most recently been effecting me because i have felt myself realizing how i projected my issues onto him. Its taken me three years of being single and working on developing my own personal self worth and values for me to finally be at a place of truly understanding who i am, and what has been holding me back. I like many of you didnt have a deep relationship with either parents, and the one grandparent I did bond with passed when i was a kid. Its been a long road of realizing my issues and reclaiming my power. I wish you all luck on your journey (8th house Taurus venus opposite Scorpio) .
I mastered a lesson I didn’t know was a lesson until I came across this video I ended up healing all of what you spoke of last year it was a long 14 year rodeo but the abandonment issues are thankfully gone thank you for this video ❤️🙏🏽
extreme difficulties with self esteem and using sex as a means to a way. feeling like it's the only way someone will want me.. afterwards, sometimes even during or before feeling empty. manipulative and intense in relationships.. jealous and posessive.. obsessive. I see it reflecting back to me. I've hurt people that I love the most because of my issues. God help me.
brittagolds I have this aspect too in a very tight orb. Everything you said describes me as well. It’s exhausting and hard to deal with. I wish I could just be normal in relationships but I’m learning that the key is to start loving myself
I have this, I never knew what was wrong with me until I did my birth chart. I never felt like I bonded with my mother growing up, we didn't have a good relationship. I also had no relationship with my dad. Right now, I am post-divorce and trying to learn to love myself and be okay being single. My Venus is in the 5th. I am constantly fighting the feeling that I need a partner to feel complete. I just miss being part of a team. Everyone that I try to date ends up not working out. It's weird. It's like I want to have a solid love, but I'm also really afraid of getting involved with someone seriously again because I don't want to lose it like I did before. I'm not sure I really believe in love anymore after all the crap I've been through. It makes me sad to think about.
Venus in Taurus opposite Pluto in Scorpio in the 10th house, fml haha. Abandonment, trust, and self-esteem issues abound! I’m ashamed of how much I have projected my own darkness onto others. This is very accurate and I needed to hear it, thank you.
Thank you, Jewel. I have Sun, Mercury and Venus retrograde all opposing Pluto. I finally learned that my “magnet” is programmable and I taught myself hypnosis to access my subconscious(Pluto). This has changed everything! My values are intact and my relationships have improved greatly! I’ve gone through so many death and rebirths in this life so far. My Sun and Mercury are in the 8th house.
Wow. Incredible how accurately this describes my romantic experiences. I have Pluto on my ascendant with part of fortune libra My mother suffers from BPD, and I have always felt emotionally abandoned by her. If there was not a crisis in a relationship, I felt that I must create one. I recently had a traumatic love relationship with a person with pluto on his ascendant as well...and a stellium in Pisces. Woah. What a rush. After that mushroom cloud cleared, I have changed a great deal.
Interesting, my Venus in Taurus opposite Pluto 7th house. I have been through such hell in relationship, intensity and upheaval, I'm doing my best now to balance this opposition. it's difficult to deal with but I can work on it. thanks for the explanation
I am enrolled in a class for women on manifesting and sexual energy. I think this course combination will help integrate this energy. It is helping me so far. A love partner is not required. .hint hint. Im also taking ownership of my codependency issues which requires focus and mindfulness as the shadow self can be very tricky. A lot of energetic work and focus going on here.
Wow! This actually helped me sooo much! I have my Venus in the 1st of Gemini opposite my pluto in Sag in 7th. My Venus is conjunct my AC with my Pluto conjunct my DC. You explained me soooo much. So much I didn’t understand! I do attract so much chaos in my life and it really fuels me! Thanks so much!
Very accurate. It makes you reflect a lot! It would be great if you could come with some examples of how this works and what you can do. I feel it would help! Especially how you can balance this out 🙂 You seem like a good mentor and would come up with excellent examples, and your honesty is gold! Thank you for your time.
I have this aspect and this is so dead on and the best description and video on the Internet about this. I cannot say enough good things about this video. Awesome video! Everything Jewel says is the absolute truth!
Watching this 2 yrs later....feel like i went through the depths of hell and got nearly stripped of my sanity when i got entangled with someone whose mars formed a t-square to my pluto-venus opposition 2 yrs ago. Finally confronted my abandonment issues with my father, who also has this aspect in a rectangle with my venus/pluto opposition. My NN and SN conjunct his venus/pluto/NN/SN. Currently caregiving for him in a deep crisis as saturn conjuncts his venus/SN and my NN in Aqua.
I have this placement and love how you explained the connections to the usual characteristics of this placement. Nothing ‘just is’ it has to be created! Very sound advice and I will look at my love life from a very different view now.
Just ended a relationship with someone who had this as aspect. Gemini sun with moon conjunction his uranus as well. Very painful. I’m deeply hurt. The more I loved the more he pulled away. :( nothing I did was enough.
Much relevance here. 0'02" Pluto Venus opposition. Pluto in Libra in 8th house. Mars and Saturn in 7th. Moon in Scorpio. Aries sun conjunct Chiron. Relationships have been difficult. Im intense (not violent) and often attracted to unavailable people. I am self aware and have appropriate behaviour I believe, never have stalked someone, but I come on strong (Venus in Aries), and it rarely works. I do however know how to have a good time on my own. I love astrology for the self awareness and personal development! Thanks for the vid!
I don't have this aspect, but I have Venus in Scorpio conjunct the Descendant, and I relate to this hard. I just realized how low-vibration Plutonic my parents relationship was (themes of power, abuse, etc), and how my mom has literally told me that was her idea of Love was that after a big fight with my Dad, he would make up for it by sweet talking her and buying her things - sad I know (she's also a Scorpio Sun).
I have 8H venus contra-paralal pluto at 0'01 orb & I have Borderling PD as well. This video is so well explained, and what i was dwelling to express to myself, this video expressed that. Thank you so much! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
This is soooo so good. Wow such a crazy deep journey for me throughout my life. Thank you fir speaking to these deep subconscious processes and polarizing patterns that can be so confusing and painful when played out in the drama of ones life 🙏
Interesting that I've always tried to avoid Scorpios. Completely unaware of my Pluto in first house Scorpio and Scorpio ascendent. When I learned about these placements I realized I didn't like Scorpios because I saw what I don't like about myself.
You said it perfectly all of it! I have pluto in Libra opposite my venus in Aries and this is the aspect I struggle the most with in my life. I am still struggling to find my self esteem and love and value myself but it seems it's a step forward and a step back. logically I am able to see when I am behaving in a pluto manner but I have such a hard time controlling those urges. what can I do????
I will not love. I will not date I will not seek others. That is my vow for the rest of my life...I will turn off my emotions if anyone makes me feel love. I know & I won't. This sucks life sucks everything sucks nothing matters. I wont deal with people since I cause pain.
Omg it is incredible. I'm dealing with someone like this. This sun and venus conjunct together opposite pluto in the 5th house. First I gave him so much love and attention he just completely ignored me until his selfish, ignorant behaviors got me completely mad and angry. He was really pushing me to the edge so that could create big drama and it did. I was shouting at him he was exactly like 9:22 moment to me. hahahahaha and now I took a distance but he tries to control me while he never admits hes loving me or liking me( i never figured it out if he really loves me maybe i wont) but sending messeges etc. he is completely scared about love and commitment although he really wants it so bad. Saturn in the 7th house. I guess im gonna see you soon Jewel :))
My good friend’s sister has this aspect very tight, with Chiron conjunct venus as well. She’s only 26, and she’s had 3 great loves all died while in a relationship with her
I have pluto opposite my venus in the 8th house with Chiron as well. It has brought a lot of emotional pain for me in all kinds of relationships and I don't think it's something I want or creating for myself all of the time. I think in this lifetime I have to learn to love myself and be alright with being alone although I hate it and it makes me really sad a lot. It's hard for a lot of people to accept but being in an intimate relationship with somebody until the end of time is not something that is going to make you feel complete and it's not going to happen for a lot of people. I think it is fate for me. It is kind of like that saying that goes " the greatest love affair you will ever have is the one you have with yourself".
I have Mars opposite Moon in natal, exactly... I had a hard time dealing with it. I would be curious to hear you about this aspect. great video, thank you.
I relate to this. My Pluto in Virgo opposes my Venus, Saturn, Mercury and Chiron in Pisces. I have lots of self doubt/esteem issues that I thought were b/c of Saturn conj Venus and Moon conj NN in Taurus/12th. Thanks for the explanation.
I knew someone who had this aspect, he was interested in me, wanted to cheat on his gf with me and wouldn't take no for an answer. We had mars in the 8th house in synastry which didn't help either. I eventually had to completely cut him off and move on. This video explains a lot about his personality.
Hello, are there people here with this aspect who are in a healthy relationship? Just curious, I want to know if I having a normal relationship is possible with this aspect as I haven't experienced it yet not even nearly. Also, do their partners have a Venus-Pluto aspect themselves and/or is their Pluto making an aspect to the natal Venus?
Since everyone is saying it: I'm a Venus Taurus opp. Pluto Scorpio. I actually do have attachments to unavailable women. I'm actually going through this now secretly. I know I shouldn't. 👀 But when I catch a vibe and chemistry with that woman it's difficult for me to disattach.
I have this in my chart but worse. Pluto in scorpio 11th House conjunct north node. Opposite Venus in taurus 5th house on top of south node. 25 degrees. Its a very rough placement. I fear being alone in my older years. Partnerships always go wrong. This video very accurate. Thank you.
Most of it is true. But, I’m happy & glad to assure anyone with this position like me that you are powerful and you can transform this dqrk low ebegy into something very beautiful abd healthy & boy oh boy it’s heavenly when u discover the priceless treasure that is you & look back with gratitude to the pain you’ve been through PLUS we are sexy and hot and beautiful and magnetic AF. Loce u all
:( venus in 12th opposite pluto rx in 5th... is most saddening. I have no ego in venus at all but I have the purest love. Will it get better after my Venus or Saturn return? Saturn being Square Venus as well. The hardest aspect for me however is Venus square Chiron at 0 degree.
But I feel like this is more Venus square Pluto. I watched the Venus square Pluto and it didn’t resonate. This one was the perfect description of Venus square Pluto.
I have Venus square Pluto but yes, it resonates more than Jewel's video on Venus square Pluto. And I'm so glad I'm taking some good advice to break this pattern. It's valuing your own self and not be dependent on other person for it. I will not invest on anyone who is not available for me .
Does Venus in a sextile or trine aspect to Pluto works in a similar fashion to the hard aspects ? I’m asking that because I’ve met people who have the easy aspects between Venus and Pluto to attract intense and obsessive relationships into their lives, being just as jealous and possessive and marrying people who are much wealthier than they are.
Would this feel similar with the square between these planets? Also I know someone who has this exact with Pluto in Scorpio an Venus in Taurus. Everything you said is so true! They also have Mars in Aries so it plays out very in your face. And then he wonders why he can't find a good girl in his life. Lol
Traumatized by relationships and I really don’t feel comfortable with people liking me out of fear of being manipulated or them leaving suddenly. So I adore people from a distance and enjoy my single life. I’ve had to learn how to love myself and I really enjoy being alone and going to the gym to get my frustrations out. I just wish I had more money so I could travel and support myself and experience life differently than having an expectation of people being deceitful. 🤷♀️
Dear Jewel, how do you qualify a mutual reception of planets, how do you work with it? Is it possible to take it as a conjunct? For example, would you actually call Pluto on 17 degrees of Libra and Venus on 12 degrees of Scorpio a mutual reception? Do these planets have any relationship? Thanks for your videos, very useful!
Ok, keeping my kegels closed until this Venus-Pluto opposition passes. No wonder son of a father with low-functioning Venus-Pluto-Ascendant conjunction in Scorpio wants to be born during Venus-Pluto opposition 🙄
@@ladye2818 emotional abuse was an expression of love from him honestly. Intense jealousy and projection. Fucked up Power dynamics and control and games were a huge part of the relationship. I felt like I was punished with being cheated on whenever I did something he didn't like. If there wasnt a conflict I felt like he didnt love me and I started to associate being loved with being treated like shit.
@@ladye2818 in our composite chart pluto is square to venus and in synastry his pluto is square my moon. It was just painful. And it didnt mesh well together because I dont think hes used to the people he dates seeing him for who he really is. I'm very vengeful, and gaslighting doesnt work on me, I dont feel guilty for acting on anger that I feel is justified. So it made for a really explosive relationship because I didn't submit. On top of that I was not able to let go of that attachment lol and am still not able to.
The Venus opp pluto give your love style a scorpionic "energy," while the house its in tells that you like scorpionic "things." If that makes sense at all
Thanks, it does. Basically there is overflow of 'Scorpionic' energy when it comes to love, relationships, infatuations, encounters with opposite sex? I also have Ascendant sextile Pluto, so do you think that comes in picture too? And if so, then how?
Hi Jewel! Love all of your videos. I have I question that I hope you will answer. I have Moon conjunct Pluto in 3rd house. My Mars conjunct Venus in 9th house. Venus and mars opposite my Moon. Will Venus and Mars also affect my Pluto since it (Pluto) is conjunct the Moon?
+Violetta L It's not Pluto that will be effected, it's the moon. There is likely to be some tension and projection onto opposite sex relationships with that alignment.
While I usually agree with your videos, I think you need to be more careful on this aspect. Pluto in opposition can definitely attract manipulators, which is not always immediately obvious, and in extreme cases even rape, domestic violence, and abuse. The explanation that the natal brought this upon him-/herself is too easy in these cases and does not justify such behavior. I have been happily single for four years now. My last relationship left terrible emotional scars. He had his Mars and Pluto exactly on my Pluto. I tried to end the relationship because I realized it was not good for me. He coerced me into sleeping with him at the end and even admitted it ("I know you didn't want it and I had to coerce you into it"). Jewel, nobody deserves this.
Thinking about it, one of the lessons from this placement is to develop the wisdom to know when to immediately leave when faced with these sorts of situations that challenge and test your personal values and well being. Venus innocently thinks: there must be something wrong with me and that's why they are that way. I'm not good enough for them and if I could just get better they will treat me better. When what the beginner Venus needs to understand deep down is that they could do everything and yet there might not be change. And so there's little point in beating up the self; it's the entire interaction with the other that's toxic - and therefore that particular relationship/undertaking is not valuable enough to be worth any more precious time and effort. Growth is gathering wisdom and reclaiming strength and personal power (Pluto) to say no and leave. And hopefully cultivating personal values, loves and strengths after. Somewhere else, I read something along the lines of "you cannot give away your Pluto to others" because in that case you will be easily exploited (if they so choose). It's a sad part of reality that manipulators are very good at sniffing and seeking out people who are at low, vulnerable points. When Venus is still naive and not yet strong enough to stand up for themselves, or simply in difficult situations - these are particularly risky life periods. Reframing Jewel's video (which may come off a bit more blamey at certain points, which is unfortunate, guessing her intent was to provoke self reflection) through the lens of 'power' (Pluto's theme), there's this element of misplaced hope and faith in the other that stands out. Every victim must have at some point wished (even if only at the beginning) that the other would be a good person/entity, that they could have hope and trust in the other. And yet Pluto dishes out this stark reality - "you don't have power or control over this other person or situation, the only thing you have power over is yourself. Any hope you have for this is potentially misplaced". I think it's a particularly harsh lesson and experience with the only upsides being the strength, resilience and wisdom developed. I say harsh because others without this/related aspect are more able to learn and grow at their own pace, while with this it's like being immediately thrown into the deep end of the pool.
What about when you have a scorpio moon as well? (Venus taurus scorpio pluto) Doesn't that make pluto a really important planet? How would this affect the balance? Also north node scorpio
How did you find out you have Venus opposition to Pluto. I keep reading about it but I don’t know how to tell whether or not a planet is in the opposition of each other. My Modern Astro: Sag Venus/Sag Pluto/ 7H cancer. Vedic Astro: Sag Venus/Scorp Pluto/ 7H cancer And why would it mean death if it’s in opposition to your 7H? I read for some it is.
So ur pluto and venus are in a conjuction. Look at what degree each planet is to see how tight the conjucntion is. Urs is conjucnt not opposite, opposite would be venus in sag and pluto directly opposite Gemini. The tighter the degree the more effective. The opposition is when planets are directly opposite eachother in the opposite signs. And a conjucntion is when planets are in the same sign and again the closest the planets are to eachother the more effective. I don't think it always is the case to show deaths traumatic deaths around a partner definitely seems to with some but not all people that's why someone's full chart needs taken into account. It also happens or is incline to happen more for females again not always but more so than males. It will always indicate a relationship with someone or maybe u hold the traits of thats mentioned in this video but again with the 7th house involved and opposite the 1st the spouce of chart holder could lets say be a midwive working with creating children venus bringing change and transformations into people's lives pluto or spouce may be creative have creative talents and bring transformations to people's lives venus combine pluto. Or simply spouce may be a scorpio love or spouce venus and pluto represents scorpio. Its not to say these things are a given either its just a few different examples. Hope it helps in some way. Im only studying astrology around 4 years I have in that short place of time seen sorrow with venus pluto conjucnt and venus pluto opposite but I have also seem some of the examples mentioned. Also others spouce or partner into illegal activities .
wow this is so accurate! There’s someone who has this aspect who does not take no for an answer when pursuing someone they’re attracted to and they are so obsessive with them. They behave like this with almost everyone. They’re so passionate and fierce too. Interestingly, they were separated from their mother in their childhood for a good few years and had to bond with their mother when reunited. I can clearly see this is something that still affects them till this day. 😢
Thank you for this. I experience a different break up about three years ago thats most recently been effecting me because i have felt myself realizing how i projected my issues onto him. Its taken me three years of being single and working on developing my own personal self worth and values for me to finally be at a place of truly understanding who i am, and what has been holding me back. I like many of you didnt have a deep relationship with either parents, and the one grandparent I did bond with passed when i was a kid. Its been a long road of realizing my issues and reclaiming my power. I wish you all luck on your journey (8th house Taurus venus opposite Scorpio) .
I mastered a lesson I didn’t know was a lesson until I came across this video
I ended up healing all of what you spoke of last year it was a long 14 year rodeo but the abandonment issues are thankfully gone thank you for this video ❤️🙏🏽
extreme difficulties with self esteem and using sex as a means to a way. feeling like it's the only way someone will want me.. afterwards, sometimes even during or before feeling empty. manipulative and intense in relationships.. jealous and posessive.. obsessive. I see it reflecting back to me. I've hurt people that I love the most because of my issues. God help me.
brittagolds I have this aspect too in a very tight orb. Everything you said describes me as well. It’s exhausting and hard to deal with. I wish I could just be normal in relationships but I’m learning that the key is to start loving myself
I know exactly what you mean 😔
I have this, I never knew what was wrong with me until I did my birth chart. I never felt like I bonded with my mother growing up, we didn't have a good relationship. I also had no relationship with my dad. Right now, I am post-divorce and trying to learn to love myself and be okay being single. My Venus is in the 5th. I am constantly fighting the feeling that I need a partner to feel complete. I just miss being part of a team. Everyone that I try to date ends up not working out. It's weird. It's like I want to have a solid love, but I'm also really afraid of getting involved with someone seriously again because I don't want to lose it like I did before. I'm not sure I really believe in love anymore after all the crap I've been through. It makes me sad to think about.
Sounds like me
You’re not alone
Venus in Taurus opposite Pluto in Scorpio in the 10th house, fml haha. Abandonment, trust, and self-esteem issues abound! I’m ashamed of how much I have projected my own darkness onto others. This is very accurate and I needed to hear it, thank you.
I also have Taurus sun 4h with venus om IC, opposite Pluto 10h and mc. I agree with you fully...it can be rough for us for sure.
Could you please explain more? Like how you projected the darkness onto others? 😢
Venus Taurus opposite Pluto Scorpio.. and you described my life to a T.
Same, venus in Taurus 10th house opposite pluto in scorpio in 4th house. What houses?
@@SoundLight_Self-Discovery lol I'm opposite you, venus in taurus 4th and pluto in scorpio 10th house haha
My ex is Venus and Jupiter in 2nd House Taurus opposite Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th House
Same here , libra rising tho
Same placement!!!
So true with me!
Ven-Taur - Plu-Scorp
MegiBG me too lol
Same placements here
Same. Venus in Taurus 10th house opposite Pluto in 4th Scorpio
@@SoundLight_Self-Discovery Twinsies
Me too!
Thank you, Jewel. I have Sun, Mercury and Venus retrograde all opposing Pluto. I finally learned that my “magnet” is programmable and I taught myself hypnosis to access my subconscious(Pluto). This has changed everything! My values are intact and my relationships have improved greatly! I’ve gone through so many death and rebirths in this life so far. My Sun and Mercury are in the 8th house.
Hey Andy, what sort of hypnosis did you do? Any tips ? :)
What Hypnosis?
Wow...
listening to your interpretation made me feel like im not alone.
thank you very much :D
this woman really just told me im toxic and i don’t know how to deal with it
You are not a slave to your horoscope. Aspects play differently for everyone. Don't worry about it.
Wow. Incredible how accurately this describes my romantic experiences. I have Pluto on my ascendant with part of fortune libra My mother suffers from BPD, and I have always felt emotionally abandoned by her. If there was not a crisis in a relationship, I felt that I must create one. I recently had a traumatic love relationship with a person with pluto on his ascendant as well...and a stellium in Pisces. Woah. What a rush. After that mushroom cloud cleared, I have changed a great deal.
Interesting, my Venus in Taurus opposite Pluto 7th house. I have been through such hell in relationship, intensity and upheaval, I'm doing my best now to balance this opposition. it's difficult to deal with but I can work on it. thanks for the explanation
Victor David S wow! I have the same placement... venus in the 1st house in taurus opposite pluto 7th house scorpio... i know what u mean!
Me too!
Ximena García same here😩
I could see how this could turn into borderline personality disorder territory if the person goes more toward the "unhealthy" side of this aspect.
Exactly what I’ve been looking into.
Omg really?
I have it Venus in Taurus opposition Pluto in Scorpio I have BPD.... so interesting
I have this aspect and i always thought i may have borderline tendencies
I haven't been diagnosed but I definitely fit the description
I am enrolled in a class for women on manifesting and sexual energy. I think this course combination will help integrate this energy. It is helping me so far. A love partner is not required. .hint hint. Im also taking ownership of my codependency issues which requires focus and mindfulness as the shadow self can be very tricky. A lot of energetic work and focus going on here.
Wow! This actually helped me sooo much! I have my Venus in the 1st of Gemini opposite my pluto in Sag in 7th. My Venus is conjunct my AC with my Pluto conjunct my DC. You explained me soooo much. So much I didn’t understand! I do attract so much chaos in my life and it really fuels me! Thanks so much!
I have the same combo!!!!!
What is it like to look like this? What is your experience with these aspects to your Pluto?
Very accurate. It makes you reflect a lot!
It would be great if you could come with some examples of how this works and what you can do. I feel it would help! Especially how you can balance this out 🙂 You seem like a good mentor and would come up with excellent examples, and your honesty is gold! Thank you for your time.
I have this aspect and this is so dead on and the best description and video on the Internet about this. I cannot say enough good things about this video. Awesome video! Everything Jewel says is the absolute truth!
Watching this 2 yrs later....feel like i went through the depths of hell and got nearly stripped of my sanity when i got entangled with someone whose mars formed a t-square to my pluto-venus opposition 2 yrs ago. Finally confronted my abandonment issues with my father, who also has this aspect in a rectangle with my venus/pluto opposition. My NN and SN conjunct his venus/pluto/NN/SN. Currently caregiving for him in a deep crisis as saturn conjuncts his venus/SN and my NN in Aqua.
I have this placement and love how you explained the connections to the usual characteristics of this placement. Nothing ‘just is’ it has to be created! Very sound advice and I will look at my love life from a very different view now.
Just ended a relationship with someone who had this as aspect. Gemini sun with moon conjunction his uranus as well. Very painful. I’m deeply hurt. The more I loved the more he pulled away. :( nothing I did was enough.
Venus Taurus opposition of Pluto and moon. I learned that my peace is more important than anything. ♥️
I'm honestly amazed by your clear observation about Venus- Pluto. Thank you very much!!
Much relevance here. 0'02" Pluto Venus opposition. Pluto in Libra in 8th house. Mars and Saturn in 7th. Moon in Scorpio. Aries sun conjunct Chiron. Relationships have been difficult. Im intense (not violent) and often attracted to unavailable people. I am self aware and have appropriate behaviour I believe, never have stalked someone, but I come on strong (Venus in Aries), and it rarely works. I do however know how to have a good time on my own.
I love astrology for the self awareness and personal development! Thanks for the vid!
I don't have this aspect, but I have Venus in Scorpio conjunct the Descendant, and I relate to this hard. I just realized how low-vibration Plutonic my parents relationship was (themes of power, abuse, etc), and how my mom has literally told me that was her idea of Love was that after a big fight with my Dad, he would make up for it by sweet talking her and buying her things - sad I know (she's also a Scorpio Sun).
I have 8H venus contra-paralal pluto at 0'01 orb & I have Borderling PD as well. This video is so well explained, and what i was dwelling to express to myself, this video expressed that. Thank you so much! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
This is soooo so good. Wow such a crazy deep journey for me throughout my life. Thank you fir speaking to these deep subconscious processes and polarizing patterns that can be so confusing and painful when played out in the drama of ones life 🙏
Interesting that I've always tried to avoid Scorpios. Completely unaware of my Pluto in first house Scorpio and Scorpio ascendent. When I learned about these placements I realized I didn't like Scorpios because I saw what I don't like about myself.
You said it perfectly all of it! I have pluto in Libra opposite my venus in Aries and this is the aspect I struggle the most with in my life. I am still struggling to find my self esteem and love and value myself but it seems it's a step forward and a step back. logically I am able to see when I am behaving in a pluto manner but I have such a hard time controlling those urges. what can I do????
+Mary Montenegro I have the exact same opposition as yours to 1 degree
Same aspect for me and damn, it's been tough!
I have Venus opposition Pluto and I loooooooooove sex. If I could I’d have it all damn day non stop but I’ve never hurt anybody in the process lmao.
I will not love. I will not date I will not seek others. That is my vow for the rest of my life...I will turn off my emotions if anyone makes me feel love. I know & I won't. This sucks life sucks everything sucks nothing matters. I wont deal with people since I cause pain.
this is horrible to read but on the other side I can totally understand your emotions having this aspect myself, too... it's a feeling of doom...
Beautiful! Loved and appreciated it. I have Uranus opposite Venus too plus three other planets. O.o
Im Venus 8th house♉ opposite Pluto 2nd house♏ 😂 nutcase at times especially when i was younger but im more evolved now💯
Ironically, I have my Venus in the 8th house and my Pluto in the 2nd lol
Sam Motiram i do as well!!!
Same here.
Same
Same...
Omg it is incredible. I'm dealing with someone like this. This sun and venus conjunct together opposite pluto in the 5th house. First I gave him so much love and attention he just completely ignored me until his selfish, ignorant behaviors got me completely mad and angry. He was really pushing me to the edge so that could create big drama and it did. I was shouting at him he was exactly like 9:22 moment to me. hahahahaha and now I took a distance but he tries to control me while he never admits hes loving me or liking me( i never figured it out if he really loves me maybe i wont) but sending messeges etc. he is completely scared about love and commitment although he really wants it so bad. Saturn in the 7th house. I guess im gonna see you soon Jewel :))
My ex has it but I don’t think he’ll ever get on top of this because of his huge EGO (Aquarius south node) 🤦🏻♀️🥴
My good friend’s sister has this aspect very tight, with Chiron conjunct venus as well. She’s only 26, and she’s had 3 great loves all died while in a relationship with her
I have pluto opposite my venus in the 8th house with Chiron as well. It has brought a lot of emotional pain for me in all kinds of relationships and I don't think it's something I want or creating for myself all of the time. I think in this lifetime I have to learn to love myself and be alright with being alone although I hate it and it makes me really sad a lot. It's hard for a lot of people to accept but being in an intimate relationship with somebody until the end of time is not something that is going to make you feel complete and it's not going to happen for a lot of people. I think it is fate for me. It is kind of like that saying that goes " the greatest love affair you will ever have is the one you have with yourself".
I've heard this aspect can bring traumatic deaths of the partner for a lot of women who have this one.
I have Mars opposite Moon in natal, exactly... I had a hard time dealing with it. I would be curious to hear you about this aspect. great video, thank you.
I relate to this. My Pluto in Virgo opposes my Venus, Saturn, Mercury and Chiron in Pisces. I have lots of self doubt/esteem issues that I thought were b/c of Saturn conj Venus and Moon conj NN in Taurus/12th. Thanks for the explanation.
I knew someone who had this aspect, he was interested in me, wanted to cheat on his gf with me and wouldn't take no for an answer. We had mars in the 8th house in synastry which didn't help either. I eventually had to completely cut him off and move on. This video explains a lot about his personality.
Hello, are there people here with this aspect who are in a healthy relationship? Just curious, I want to know if I having a normal relationship is possible with this aspect as I haven't experienced it yet not even nearly. Also, do their partners have a Venus-Pluto aspect themselves and/or is their Pluto making an aspect to the natal Venus?
Since everyone is saying it: I'm a Venus Taurus opp. Pluto Scorpio. I actually do have attachments to unavailable women. I'm actually going through this now secretly. I know I shouldn't. 👀 But when I catch a vibe and chemistry with that woman it's difficult for me to disattach.
I have this in my chart but worse. Pluto in scorpio 11th House conjunct north node. Opposite Venus in taurus 5th house on top of south node. 25 degrees. Its a very rough placement. I fear being alone in my older years. Partnerships always go wrong. This video very accurate. Thank you.
My Venus opposes my Pluto conjunct ascendant, yeah I have no idea where to even begin or how to remedy the issues.
Most of it is true. But, I’m happy & glad to assure anyone with this position like me that you are powerful and you can transform this dqrk low ebegy into something very beautiful abd healthy & boy oh boy it’s heavenly when u discover the priceless treasure that is you & look back with gratitude to the pain you’ve been through PLUS we are sexy and hot and beautiful and magnetic AF. Loce u all
Well explained. You're so intuitive!! Thank you.
You are sooo good at this. Thank you! All true for me.
Thanks Jewel for your help.
This is coming to be a very confusing aspect for me.
...i got issues 😕
:( venus in 12th opposite pluto rx in 5th... is most saddening. I have no ego in venus at all but I have the purest love. Will it get better after my Venus or Saturn return? Saturn being Square Venus as well. The hardest aspect for me however is Venus square Chiron at 0 degree.
I have Venus Trine Pluto but this is still a very interesting and helpful video.
Venus in Cancer 0 degrees in the 8th house.
I have Venus and mars in opposition to Pluto. Would you please do a video on mars opposition Pluto as well?
Jewel, can you please make a video on venus quintile/biquintile pluto?
Perfect explanation, now I got it
This is awesome! Thank you!!
Great great advices. It is a shame so that you only stay on the attraction love aspect of Venus...Venus is very important on the mental level also.😍
Yup. Especially when Venus is in a house like the 6th. Your work, career, working values...they all get dragged into it
But I feel like this is more Venus square Pluto. I watched the Venus square Pluto and it didn’t resonate. This one was the perfect description of Venus square Pluto.
I have Venus square Pluto but yes, it resonates more than Jewel's video on Venus square Pluto. And I'm so glad I'm taking some good advice to break this pattern. It's valuing your own self and not be dependent on other person for it. I will not invest on anyone who is not available for me .
Does Venus in a sextile or trine aspect to Pluto works in a similar fashion to the hard aspects ? I’m asking that because I’ve met people who have the easy aspects between Venus and Pluto to attract intense and obsessive relationships into their lives, being just as jealous and possessive and marrying people who are much wealthier than they are.
Would this feel similar with the square between these planets?
Also I know someone who has this exact with Pluto in Scorpio an Venus in Taurus. Everything you said is so true! They also have Mars in Aries so it plays out very in your face. And then he wonders why he can't find a good girl in his life. Lol
My moon, Pluto and IC are all in Scorpio. My Venus, Jupiter and MC are in Taurus. FML
Traumatized by relationships and I really don’t feel comfortable with people liking me out of fear of being manipulated or them leaving suddenly. So I adore people from a distance and enjoy my single life. I’ve had to learn how to love myself and I really enjoy being alone and going to the gym to get my frustrations out. I just wish I had more money so I could travel and support myself and experience life differently than having an expectation of people being deceitful. 🤷♀️
I have aries venus 4th house opposite pluto in libra 10th house. This describes me to a T. I also have mars in cancer squaring both pluto and venus.
I have taurus venus opposite scorpio pluto and both planets square my aquarius moon.
yamatonadeshiko_yoojy what is it like when you like someone? How do you live with these aspects and what do you want from ur partner?
yamatonadeshiko_yoojy i kno someone w exact placements u have
Please do a video on Jupiter conjunct Saturn in synastry.
My pisces sun and moon do not help with the needing another person in my life.
My Venus opposes my Moon/Pluto conjunction.
Ouch. Mommy dearest?
+Jewel Mayberry I guess you can say that. It's definitely a challenging placement. Thank you, very helpful video.
I have this too! Thanks Jewel for your honesty.
Jewel - you are so amazing, seriously. xox
Oh good to see you here. U r so sweet . Yes, I agree, Jewel is amazing :)
I love you boo...
I feel like crying first venus conjuct mars conjuct lilith and all of the opposite pluto in scorpio in 12th house☹
Dear Jewel, how do you qualify a mutual reception of planets, how do you work with it? Is it possible to take it as a conjunct? For example, would you actually call Pluto on 17 degrees of Libra and Venus on 12 degrees of Scorpio a mutual reception? Do these planets have any relationship? Thanks for your videos, very useful!
Ok, keeping my kegels closed until this Venus-Pluto opposition passes. No wonder son of a father with low-functioning Venus-Pluto-Ascendant conjunction in Scorpio wants to be born during Venus-Pluto opposition 🙄
Could you please do natal Sun opposite Pluto? Thank you 💕
this is so true
I love your videos
thanks a lot.it tells a lot about my relationships
Could this also be for transits?
my ex has venus opposition pluto, me venus conjunct pluto. what a horrible relationship😅😅😅
Oh no, reaally? How so?
@@ladye2818 emotional abuse was an expression of love from him honestly. Intense jealousy and projection. Fucked up Power dynamics and control and games were a huge part of the relationship. I felt like I was punished with being cheated on whenever I did something he didn't like. If there wasnt a conflict I felt like he didnt love me and I started to associate being loved with being treated like shit.
@@ladye2818 in our composite chart pluto is square to venus and in synastry his pluto is square my moon. It was just painful. And it didnt mesh well together because I dont think hes used to the people he dates seeing him for who he really is. I'm very vengeful, and gaslighting doesnt work on me, I dont feel guilty for acting on anger that I feel is justified. So it made for a really explosive relationship because I didn't submit. On top of that I was not able to let go of that attachment lol and am still not able to.
is this aspect pretty much on par with venus sq pluto?
Is this position similar to Venus contra parallel Pluto?
How is the self-abandonment (as a reaction to the relationship) different when it’s the aspect withPluto, vs with Neptune?
Wow, this is great... is venus opp pluto similar to someone who has venus in the 8th house then?
I have both Venus Opp. Pluto, AND Venus in 8th. Not sure what to make of this.
The Venus opp pluto give your love style a scorpionic "energy," while the house its in tells that you like scorpionic "things." If that makes sense at all
Thanks, it does. Basically there is overflow of 'Scorpionic' energy when it comes to love, relationships, infatuations, encounters with opposite sex?
I also have Ascendant sextile Pluto, so do you think that comes in picture too? And if so, then how?
looked this up cause ariana grande has it lmoa
That's gold!
Hi Jewel! Love all of your videos. I have I question that I hope you will answer. I have Moon conjunct Pluto in 3rd house. My Mars conjunct Venus in 9th house. Venus and mars opposite my Moon. Will Venus and Mars also affect my Pluto since it (Pluto) is conjunct the Moon?
+Violetta L
It's not Pluto that will be effected, it's the moon. There is likely to be some tension and projection onto opposite sex relationships with that alignment.
Thank you
While I usually agree with your videos, I think you need to be more careful on this aspect. Pluto in opposition can definitely attract manipulators, which is not always immediately obvious, and in extreme cases even rape, domestic violence, and abuse. The explanation that the natal brought this upon him-/herself is too easy in these cases and does not justify such behavior. I have been happily single for four years now. My last relationship left terrible emotional scars. He had his Mars and Pluto exactly on my Pluto. I tried to end the relationship because I realized it was not good for me. He coerced me into sleeping with him at the end and even admitted it ("I know you didn't want it and I had to coerce you into it"). Jewel, nobody deserves this.
Thinking about it, one of the lessons from this placement is to develop the wisdom to know when to immediately leave when faced with these sorts of situations that challenge and test your personal values and well being. Venus innocently thinks: there must be something wrong with me and that's why they are that way. I'm not good enough for them and if I could just get better they will treat me better. When what the beginner Venus needs to understand deep down is that they could do everything and yet there might not be change. And so there's little point in beating up the self; it's the entire interaction with the other that's toxic - and therefore that particular relationship/undertaking is not valuable enough to be worth any more precious time and effort. Growth is gathering wisdom and reclaiming strength and personal power (Pluto) to say no and leave. And hopefully cultivating personal values, loves and strengths after.
Somewhere else, I read something along the lines of "you cannot give away your Pluto to others" because in that case you will be easily exploited (if they so choose). It's a sad part of reality that manipulators are very good at sniffing and seeking out people who are at low, vulnerable points. When Venus is still naive and not yet strong enough to stand up for themselves, or simply in difficult situations - these are particularly risky life periods.
Reframing Jewel's video (which may come off a bit more blamey at certain points, which is unfortunate, guessing her intent was to provoke self reflection) through the lens of 'power' (Pluto's theme), there's this element of misplaced hope and faith in the other that stands out. Every victim must have at some point wished (even if only at the beginning) that the other would be a good person/entity, that they could have hope and trust in the other. And yet Pluto dishes out this stark reality - "you don't have power or control over this other person or situation, the only thing you have power over is yourself. Any hope you have for this is potentially misplaced". I think it's a particularly harsh lesson and experience with the only upsides being the strength, resilience and wisdom developed. I say harsh because others without this/related aspect are more able to learn and grow at their own pace, while with this it's like being immediately thrown into the deep end of the pool.
Please do natal venus opposite Jupiter, and Venus square saturn
Would you say any aspect between Venus and Pluto = associate Venus things with crisis, power struggles etc? Like even the square, trine, etc?
Great stuff
you are describing a narcissist
+DANI This pattern of thinking can produce those types of tendencies.
What about when you have a scorpio moon as well? (Venus taurus scorpio pluto) Doesn't that make pluto a really important planet? How would this affect the balance? Also north node scorpio
How did you find out you have Venus opposition to Pluto. I keep reading about it but I don’t know how to tell whether or not a planet is in the opposition of each other.
My Modern Astro: Sag Venus/Sag Pluto/ 7H cancer. Vedic Astro: Sag Venus/Scorp Pluto/ 7H cancer
And why would it mean death if it’s in opposition to your 7H? I read for some it is.
So ur pluto and venus are in a conjuction. Look at what degree each planet is to see how tight the conjucntion is. Urs is conjucnt not opposite, opposite would be venus in sag and pluto directly opposite Gemini. The tighter the degree the more effective. The opposition is when planets are directly opposite eachother in the opposite signs. And a conjucntion is when planets are in the same sign and again the closest the planets are to eachother the more effective. I don't think it always is the case to show deaths traumatic deaths around a partner definitely seems to with some but not all people that's why someone's full chart needs taken into account. It also happens or is incline to happen more for females again not always but more so than males. It will always indicate a relationship with someone or maybe u hold the traits of thats mentioned in this video but again with the 7th house involved and opposite the 1st the spouce of chart holder could lets say be a midwive working with creating children venus bringing change and transformations into people's lives pluto or spouce may be creative have creative talents and bring transformations to people's lives venus combine pluto. Or simply spouce may be a scorpio love or spouce venus and pluto represents scorpio. Its not to say these things are a given either its just a few different examples. Hope it helps in some way. Im only studying astrology around 4 years I have in that short place of time seen sorrow with venus pluto conjucnt and venus pluto opposite but I have also seem some of the examples mentioned. Also others spouce or partner into illegal activities .
I've just realised I've commented on through my sons RUclips lol not to worry.
What if Venus is Opposite Moon/Pluto Midpoint? Slightly similar?
I have pluto opposite venus PLUS lilith in 7th house 🤦🏻♀️ imagine.. lol
İ got gemini venus 12th house and sagittarius pluto 6th house opposition. So whats that mean can someone explain me ??
So true 😩
Well that was annoying. Why would I ever wanna choice this shit.
Yup, i love unavailable women, and available women are vanilla
What a curse, i don't want to be this way
Holy crap omg I do this :(
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh @ aries venus & pluto in libra afflicted men