She definitely don't need to be among the black community too many ghetto ones with attitudes there. She need to be among us decent black people. Can't build no community with people who trying to destroy it.
@@rickd438 I know a few downlow dudes w zero tattoos. Ain’t how you start off it’s how you finish. I see what you’re saying but that’s not necessarily true. I’m fully blasted & I don’t cheat, I’m responsible & take care of my household. Yall gonna miss out on some good people being judgmental
Everyone should do what works for them in their relationship and stop listening to social media or RUclips. The main ones talking about what men should do don’t have one.
Our community is in shambles, and we are talking about dating and passports 😂😂😂 oh my God, then we blame the rest of the human beings for our failures. This civil war between BW and BM is pathetic 😒
@T82ravdaman It was orchestrated, but BW was warned in the 80s that had enough time to fix it. In the early 2000s, they were warned and still ignored it. 🤷🏾♂️
@crubie3 I hear ya, as men we shouldn't be talking about this. We have more to take care of, but the women should. They ignored the warnings, so yes, they need to fix the relationship factor. Men should be focusing on ourselves, community, and kids if you have them. I'm not disagreeing with you at all.
@crubie3 Actually you're apart of the problem. There's no we involved. People like yourself love judging black people as an entire group due to the actions and behavior of a few others. If anybody should be described as pathetic, that should be you for making these comments. Black people are only outspoken toward other black people and nobody else.
It's easier for both people to face things as team rather solo. The woman that wants to make your life easier stands out. Then, you want to make her life easier as well. A lot of women have standards that are earned benefits from a relationship where the man feels appreciated and trust the woman.
Comments are not popping up by many women on this one. To the real ones that do comment! ✊🏾 Respect! But I know there are some chameleons in here too....😂
I'm just wondering if he will be submitting to her & splitting chores 50/50 too. Don't get me wrong I have no problem with feminist women like the 1 in this video, I'm just curious.
@bodhisattva2348 Not so sure she would be considered a feminist because she's willing to help out. Plus, she never said 50/50, bruh. Go listen again. She said 60/40 or 70/30. This isn't 1905....
Amen! This lady is what the Bible calls a help mate. She is operating in the word of God. This kind of woman will stand by your side in the storm. This is a real woman and I am well pleased.😇
Beaitiful blk sister, soft spoken , no bunch of tattoes , a helpmate to her man, yes sir ,yes sir ,that's a god sent brother, i can almost bet this beautiful sister was raised in a two parent household surrounded by respect and love.
This is a very mature young woman that knows how to respect her man and care enough to help him so he don’t have to do everything. Many blessings to u young lady.
Bruh...hold on to her Not only does she have that mindset but also soft and feminine & she not doing it just to throw it in his face. She actually has a good heart That's what you call a good woman
As long as the man is not a mooch, a lazy bum playing video games and loves his work and is a good man, then if he needs help and never asked, I'll offer to help.
Absolutely love this perspective! It's so refreshing to see someone challenge traditional gender roles and advocate for personal autonomy and equality. It's empowering to hear a woman confidently assert her independence and reject the notion that men should bear the financial burden in relationships. Everyone should have the freedom to define their own dynamics based on mutual respect and understanding. Kudos to this smart woman for speaking her truth!
5:38 Finding a good spouse is not that easy like going and picking the fruit of a tree. It's not that easy at all. So if you find a good potential spouse like this woman in this video then you must run with her and don't look back. 😎💯💪🏿👍🏿 If I do eighty and she do twenty percent of the bill then that's not bad at all.
I wish more women shared her mindset. If 2 people love each other, they’ll do what it takes to keep the relationship solid. If a man can’t pay 100% of the bills, and his woman recognizes that, there’s nothing wrong with her taking some of the burden off of him. That’s love in action. If a woman looks down on a man if he asks her to contribute 20/30 while he contributes 80/70 until he can get his feet back under him, he’s with the wrong woman.
whats crazy is we don't need half of the stuff she's offering to do, just a willingness and the right attitude towards compromising as we grow together. some are going to read this and think of the extreme cases. No, this doesn't mean you take the bottom of the barrel men with hopeless aspirations, no plans and can barely hold a job. Even if he's an average working man, undecided, who is not seeking corporate dominance or building an empire, you can still have a comfortable and fruitful life together investing steadily
The woman in the video deserve a thumbs up and rounds of applause. It's takes 2 people and 2 incomes and 2 paychecks to make during this tough tight economy that we live in and not about the man paying for everything and doing everything. Man and a woman working together and combining their resources together. For example they go out to a restaurant and eat out. He pay for dinner and treat her for dinner. The next time they go out to dinner again. She pay for dinner and she treat him to dinner no matter where they go. They both work have jobs and they both get a paycheck. Like they always say. We are in this together. Man and a woman working together as a team.
Now days women pay halfway because these are the times we live in but I'm from Old school I've held my husband down when needed because he took care of the family. I'll care for him the kids and his house that's what a real woman does, he was always head of the home and I respect him to do what God intended him to do.sorry to say he past young and I never remarried he was one of a kind❤❤
When we go out, I do pay for majority of everything. Only because I don't want to feel like I'm not contributing. Bills, especially RENT, I don't have a problem going 50/50 or 60/40.
GOD Bless Her!! You don’t get no more “G” than that!! A lady like that gets the emotional and physical massage any day!! I digz!! Mad luv to the lady and the lucky hubby, may you both remain together!❤👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I would like to know, will you both be submitting to each other & splitting the chores equally as well, just curious. I don't have a problem with this feminist woman at all but i think this is the opposite of what men say they want. 🤔
@@Butterfly22593 Paying half without being asked to so is called being supportive. Don't think about it in terms of competition but more in terms of support. Understood?
@@lilmbaye29 The point is you don't have to pay half to be supportive. There's nothing wrong with paying half but it's not traditional. My grandmother supported my grandfather when he was building his business and he never let her pay for anything. He wouldn't have been successful if she wasn't behind him.
Let her preach. A lot of women can write a full encyclopedia of what their man must do for them but can barely fill the back of a stamp on what they'll do for him.
I agree with her but she not traditional nor is her boyfriend. Women and men can't be traditional anymore. The economy doesn't support that lifestyle any longer
Women would be more desirable if they had this mentality. Personally, I believe that expenses should be split equally when both partners are contributing equally and earning similar incomes. However, if one partner earns more, it’s only fair for that person to contribute a little more towards shared expenses.
I’m just saying, I feel like it’s a bitter woman right now scrolling the comments but she isn’t going to say anything cuz “She wanna live…She wanna live to fight another day”!🤣🤣🤣
Now this is a GOOD ABW! God bless her! And Phil is SPOT ON! Bro needs to be a good man and pit a ring on that finger! He has a UNICORN in todays society!
The average woman can't compete with her 😅
Amen
Now that's a real woman point blank period 💯
Now that's a Real Woman FACTS❤🎉
She's just repeating what's popular on social media.
@@ineedabilliondollars6885 Real women like this are very hard to find these days.
We need more women like her out here. 👀
That's like winning the lottery.
This strong black sister is what we need in the black community! ❤
She definitely don't need to be among the black community too many ghetto ones with attitudes there. She need to be among us decent black people. Can't build no community with people who trying to destroy it.
Bruh we all know how these western women can be..don't just be too quick believe them like that bruh..im just saying 🤷🏾♂
Facts
She's pretty.
I love her, protect that woman at all cost 💙
She is a real 1
Truth 500%+500%.
Yes, love her!
Yes Sir, she needs to be protected
It is a must !
She wont be a single mother of 3 i guarantee
Pure Facts
She just made my soul burn with her caring heart
She is doing GOD’S will… she is a HELPMEET to her man. Don’t listen to the other hyenas!!
I've been helping my fiance financially while he is in hospital recovering.. I regret nothing 😊
Not enough like her.
Facts
Phil is absolutely right on this one. No tattoos or horrible piercings. She is responsible like an adult should be. Good girl here.
Tattoos or piercings have nothing to do with it. You lost all footing with that one
Has a lot to do with it. This women looks like a women a man can take home to his parents and be proud to present her as their future daughter-in-law.
And she dresses right from what we see here. Very conservative, like she's a professional woman.
@@rickd438 I know a few downlow dudes w zero tattoos. Ain’t how you start off it’s how you finish.
I see what you’re saying but that’s not necessarily true.
I’m fully blasted & I don’t cheat, I’m responsible & take care of my household. Yall gonna miss out on some good people being judgmental
I will always have my man's back. My man was a pilot and I took his truck from the airport and got his brakes fixed.
Love my sister. I have never seen a black woman half a$$ do that. I have seen other races but never us working together
Good for her, she has a sound head on her shoulders.
She’s beautiful, inside and out. God bless their relationship.
Smart young lady 💯💯💯💯
Everyone should do what works for them in their relationship and stop listening to social media or RUclips. The main ones talking about what men should do don’t have one.
That is Factz! 💯💯💯
Our community is in shambles, and we are talking about dating and passports 😂😂😂 oh my God, then we blame the rest of the human beings for our failures. This civil war between BW and BM is pathetic 😒
It is. But as we can see, it was orchestrated.
@T82ravdaman It was orchestrated, but BW was warned in the 80s that had enough time to fix it. In the early 2000s, they were warned and still ignored it. 🤷🏾♂️
@crubie3 I hear ya, as men we shouldn't be talking about this. We have more to take care of, but the women should. They ignored the warnings, so yes, they need to fix the relationship factor. Men should be focusing on ourselves, community, and kids if you have them. I'm not disagreeing with you at all.
@crubie3
Actually you're apart of the problem. There's no we involved. People like yourself love judging black people as an entire group due to the actions and behavior of a few others. If anybody should be described as pathetic, that should be you for making these comments. Black people are only outspoken toward other black people and nobody else.
That young lady is speaking facts and she has an outer beauty and an inner beauty. Some these women should be taking notes...
She had diamond in the rough that’s a good one
When you're operating from genuine feeling, and not being mercenary, you're not playing that tit for tat game. She's real.
Let me find a woman like this, I’m instantly making sure we get together and I’m putting a ring on it! This a Real woman right there. This is RARE
It's easier for both people to face things as team rather solo.
The woman that wants to make your life easier stands out. Then, you want to make her life easier as well. A lot of women have standards that are earned benefits from a relationship where the man feels appreciated and trust the woman.
This is key right here.
Comments are not popping up by many women on this one. To the real ones that do comment! ✊🏾 Respect! But I know there are some chameleons in here too....😂
I'm just wondering if he will be submitting to her & splitting chores 50/50 too. Don't get me wrong I have no problem with feminist women like the 1 in this video, I'm just curious.
@bodhisattva2348 Not so sure she would be considered a feminist because she's willing to help out. Plus, she never said 50/50, bruh. Go listen again. She said 60/40 or 70/30. This isn't 1905....
Right!
@@bodhisattva2348
To be fair, there aren't really many women at all on this channel. It's a couple of them, but not really often.
She's smart.She doesn't listen to women who don't do anything for her over a man who does for her.
PROVERBS 7:11(SHE IS LOUD AND STUBBORN, HER FEET ABIDE NOT IN HER HOUSE:(12)NOW IS SHE IN THE STREETS AND WAITEH AT EVERY CORNER.(
Now, that's how I operate. Much respect to this sister!
Amen! This lady is what the Bible calls a help mate. She is operating in the word of God. This kind of woman will stand by your side in the storm. This is a real woman and I am well pleased.😇
But is she in a relationship, is her man faithful and loyal?
Very good point Amen
Beaitiful blk sister, soft spoken , no bunch of tattoes , a helpmate to her man, yes sir ,yes sir ,that's a god sent brother, i can almost bet this beautiful sister was raised in a two parent household surrounded by respect and love.
I like that she is being fair. Kudos to her.
She is awesome!! Teamwork makes the dreamwork!! That is how its supposed to be. Love it. I have my man's back too!!
All women should be like this one
I never had a woman do much for me and never had none wanting to work as a team player. It was all about themselves.
She is worthy of the ring. There'd be no passport movement if there were more women like her in the west.
This is a very mature young woman that knows how to respect her man and care enough to help him so he don’t have to do everything. Many blessings to u young lady.
Whoever has her, hold on to her for life.
The world needs more women like her 💯
Unfortunately, women like that are super RARE.
Doesn’t work for my household. My hubby earns 5x what I make so he pays the bills and i take care of the house.
PROVERBS 9:13 A FOOLISH WOMAN IS CLAMOURS:SHE IS SIMPLE AND KNOWETH NOTHING.
Bruh...hold on to her
Not only does she have that mindset but also soft and feminine & she not doing it just to throw it in his face. She actually has a good heart
That's what you call a good woman
As long as the man is not a mooch, a lazy bum playing video games and loves his work and is a good man, then if he needs help and never asked, I'll offer to help.
That's what l'm talking about, working together.
We need more women like her.
Absolutely love this perspective! It's so refreshing to see someone challenge traditional gender roles and advocate for personal autonomy and equality. It's empowering to hear a woman confidently assert her independence and reject the notion that men should bear the financial burden in relationships. Everyone should have the freedom to define their own dynamics based on mutual respect and understanding. Kudos to this smart woman for speaking her truth!
My phone bill is 52.00$😅
She don’t have on those Brooms for Lashes. She is beautiful.
You brought the bazooka😂😂😂
@@LordofLaughs 😂😂😂😂😂
5:38 Finding a good spouse is not that easy like going and picking the fruit of a tree. It's not that easy at all. So if you find a good potential spouse like this woman in this video then you must run with her and don't look back. 😎💯💪🏿👍🏿 If I do eighty and she do twenty percent of the bill then that's not bad at all.
This chocolate 🍫 drop is a real grown woman 😍
YES!!!!!qnd that's how it should be 👏 👏 👏
She has a beautiful attitude towards how she handles her relationship. God bless you my dear sister. The love you give should be reciprocated.
I wish more women shared her mindset. If 2 people love each other, they’ll do what it takes to keep the relationship solid. If a man can’t pay 100% of the bills, and his woman recognizes that, there’s nothing wrong with her taking some of the burden off of him. That’s love in action. If a woman looks down on a man if he asks her to contribute 20/30 while he contributes 80/70 until he can get his feet back under him, he’s with the wrong woman.
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 that's being with somebody physically spiritually mentally financially and emotionally. Put a ring 💍 on it
Good for them and good for her. They understand reality. It’ll lead to a better relationship with her being they receptive.
She is beautiful and smart
Most women don't like "going half"... Most men don't realize that...
That’s a good woman, and she fine too.
Hopefully she will find a satisfying, successful relationship. Something tells me it won’t be long, if it hasn’t happened already
The best BLACK History message I heard in 2024 !
She knows misery loves company
Helpmate, asset not a liability.
Where can i find a woman like that?
whats crazy is we don't need half of the stuff she's offering to do, just a willingness and the right attitude towards compromising as we grow together. some are going to read this and think of the extreme cases. No, this doesn't mean you take the bottom of the barrel men with hopeless aspirations, no plans and can barely hold a job. Even if he's an average working man, undecided, who is not seeking corporate dominance or building an empire, you can still have a comfortable and fruitful life together investing steadily
The woman in the video deserve a thumbs up and rounds of applause. It's takes 2 people and 2 incomes and 2 paychecks to make during this tough tight economy that we live in and not about the man paying for everything and doing everything. Man and a woman working together and combining their resources together. For example they go out to a restaurant and eat out. He pay for dinner and treat her for dinner. The next time they go out to dinner again. She pay for dinner and she treat him to dinner no matter where they go. They both work have jobs and they both get a paycheck. Like they always say. We are in this together. Man and a woman working together as a team.
That's reality right here. When you're looking at the numbers.
Now days women pay halfway because these are the times we live in but I'm from Old school I've held my husband down when needed because he took care of the family. I'll care for him the kids and his house that's what a real woman does, he was always head of the home and I respect him to do what God intended him to do.sorry to say he past young and I never remarried he was one of a kind❤❤
Very smart very logical thinking now that's a good woman, reminds me of my mom and how she was with my dad growing up.
I agree with this 100%
Yep and when he spends his $$$ on his side piece shell be looking cray cray Shera seven tells abt Barbra the builder
True natural beauty.
Gorgeous
At least she doesn’t follow the crowd & she has her own MIND I like that
These are the type of women that a man will run through a mountain to protect and take care of
Luck dude, she's beautiful and a ride or die
Passport
🤣🤣🤣What you say? 'Too late, Passport' You out? I don't blame you, we men have the right.
When we go out, I do pay for majority of everything. Only because I don't want to feel like I'm not contributing. Bills, especially RENT, I don't have a problem going 50/50 or 60/40.
Sadly many do and ridicule men who don't make a 100000 grand a year.
So you're not traditional. Nothing wrong with it
We need more like her then pass port bro can cancel his flight
Protect her 💯🔥
It's a union between both an what works best for the family!!
GOD Bless Her!! You don’t get no more “G” than that!! A lady like that gets the emotional and physical massage any day!! I digz!! Mad luv to the lady and the lucky hubby, may you both remain together!❤👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Know that's what it mean to be a strong black woman !
A Proverbs 31 woman....
Give me a sista that look like this lovely lady but with natural hair any day! Shout out to her!😍🥰😘🙌🏾👏🏾👍🏾
She's a good woman.
That's what you're suppose to do in a relationship I thought 🤔
I would like to know, will you both be submitting to each other & splitting the chores equally as well, just curious.
I don't have a problem with this feminist woman at all but i think this is the opposite of what men say they want. 🤔
Are you a WS? Coming in to try to keep us separated. A incel? Who said she sounded like a feminist?
Why delete my comment? Answer. You don't make sense? 🤣🤣🤣
@daking9488 delete what comment. I didn't delete anything, I cannot do that.
@bodhisattva2348 Yeah, ok. WS troll alert. 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨
And now she will be labeled as Pickmeesha by the Sisterhood.
If I were her, I would consider that a compliment, especially considering where it’s coming from
Now that’s a lady 😊
I'm confused. I thought men said they wanted traditional women, yet are praising this woman that obviously is a modern woman.
She's traditional. Our grandmas were like this. No tattoos, beautiful, supportive, etc...
@@lilmbaye29 Traditional women don't pay half. Plus housewives always helped their husbands and managed the household while their husbands worked
@@Butterfly22593 Paying half without being asked to so is called being supportive. Don't think about it in terms of competition but more in terms of support. Understood?
@@lilmbaye29 The point is you don't have to pay half to be supportive. There's nothing wrong with paying half but it's not traditional. My grandmother supported my grandfather when he was building his business and he never let her pay for anything. He wouldn't have been successful if she wasn't behind him.
@@Butterfly22593 Personally I don't do half and half. But if she offers that's fine. I simply don't expect it.
You can tell she is a solid person. How often do you see an attractive women with no crazy tattoos or piercings these days.
Let her preach. A lot of women can write a full encyclopedia of what their man must do for them but can barely fill the back of a stamp on what they'll do for him.
And most of us traditional women like her get it and want to serve and help their men 💕 😊
I agree with her but she not traditional nor is her boyfriend. Women and men can't be traditional anymore. The economy doesn't support that lifestyle any longer
Women would be more desirable if they had this mentality. Personally, I believe that expenses should be split equally when both partners are contributing equally and earning similar incomes. However, if one partner earns more, it’s only fair for that person to contribute a little more towards shared expenses.
💪🏾🔥🔥
I will always have my husband's back. 16 years and counting.
I’m just saying, I feel like it’s a bitter woman right now scrolling the comments but she isn’t going to say anything cuz “She wanna live…She wanna live to fight another day”!🤣🤣🤣
Now this is a GOOD ABW! God bless her! And Phil is SPOT ON! Bro needs to be a good man and pit a ring on that finger! He has a UNICORN in todays society!
I like her.
It's 2024 and it's gonna be a lot of broke, high debt, getting evicted, old azz hit the wall single baby mommas looking for help lol !!!
That’s sooo powerful and I’ve experienced that before
They will call her a pick me though. Crazy. We supposed to move like a team. I wish that couple nothing but success.