I dislike them, their way of motivating you is opening their mouths and generate insults everytime like were born with no emotional sensitivity of others and be like its my way only.
My future potential is none of your business and I haven't given you permission to concern yourself with it. There are people I seek out for guidance and that is not you. Stop infringing on my privacy.
Heyy, I'm ESTJ and I love your videos, but this is harmful representation. We are fully capable of realizing the boundaries of our assertiveness, especially with those around us with different personality types
I have seen in Socionics that you have the best relationship (not initially) with a person who has the same cognitive functions as you but in opposite order. Consider... what if he was really trying to help him? I think I am kind of an inept and a lazy person, so I thought in that moment: practice is what makes us become the best in what we're doing or we want to do. I asked myself when was the time last time when I gave all of myself for something? I am beginning to enter to the adult life so it gives me a bit of anxiety to think I will not be good enough to endure it, so I couldn't refuse. Sorry for emphasizing the bad in that story, they possess exemplary qualities, their words have been capable to inspire me and give me useful advices like a master would do, but there are moments when they raise your stress bar to the maximum and you just want to yell at them "Give me a break!".
@@hendrickmorher86 i truly appreciate your take on the arguement, and i have recognized such behavioral patterns in my own life, with my friends and family, things like raising the bar too high, or to put it better, maintaining a perfectionist approuch to most tasks and responsibilities, especially those related to a professional work setting (what i would assume the video portrays, and therefore is accurate in showing in that regard). My arguement is that, even with the borderline obsessiveness with others and us getting the work done perfectly, the way we get that across is not always rude, i have had to deal with being called "bossy", "narcisisstic", and other derogatory terms (have been called a B by people i genuinely care about), even when i was very VERY careful not to come across as any of these things. Assertiveness is not narcissism, demand of efficiency is not bossiness, and ENTJs are not rude by default. Some people are, and that should not be reflected upon the whole rest of us who just want to be ourselves like any other personality type.
Thanks for your comment Zahraa. I am thinking that I should add an "unhealthy" label for videos like these, ie, "Unhealthy ESTJ" here. I don't want to give the impression that all ESTJs act like this, as you rightly point out. If I differentiate between healthy/unhealthy behaviors, this can also make the videos more informative for everyone watching.
I think one of the general issues, in this particular video medium, of short, one-on-one conversations, is that the story is being told from someone's "perspective." Here, it could be from (1) the ESTJ's perspective, (2) the INFP's perspective, or from (3) a neutral "objective" third party perspective. If I write a conversation from one of the individuals' perspective, (1) or (2), then the other person will sometimes end up being the butt of the joke. In this video, it's from the INFP's perspective, as Hendrick point's out. I can try to make the conversations more "objective", case (3) above, to show what's really happening here (in a Te or Fe sort of way). Of course, sometimes the insight/humor in the video will come from the difference in perspective, ie, we want to highlight a particular person's perspective. So then the question is, are we viewing the conversations from a more "objective" Te or Fe perspective, or are we, for example, highlighting the Fi individual response from from an individual? I'll think about this moving forward. Also, if I add a label of "Unhealthy" for certain situations, this will sort of ground the situation back to the more "objective reality."
@@MBTI_Fanatic well, thank YOU for acknowledging my concern as an audience member and a fan of your channel! I appreciate your proposed solutions, and find the point you made about these conversations being from a certain, subjetive prespective really eye-opennning, as i failed to realize this may have been the case here. Yes, i do agree that these videos should be labled or assigned as certain POV so future confusions are avoided, and i am sure that you will find the most suitable way to accomplish that as the innovative content creator that you are. Have a great day/night!
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The ESTJ rigidity is real! Thank you so much for capturing their personality accurately. Great video as always!
Glad you enjoyed it!
The ESTJ sounded kind of manipulative
Also, a caveat; this depiction is generally "unhealthy ESTJ" behavior.
i know one and she is. . .she pretends a lot and it can be noticed
oh no...this provides too many flashbacks to my real life as an INFP surrounded by ESTJs 😂
I'm an infj and have an estj brother, and he's very much like this... however, he has gotten better with empathy
"Be stronger and less in your world. "
ESTJ
I've been waiting to see an example of an INFP/ESTJ convo, thanks.
I love these shorts! Could you do ENFJ x INTP next?
I dislike them, their way of motivating you is opening their mouths and generate insults everytime like were born with no emotional sensitivity of others and be like its my way only.
Someone doesn't like ESTJ
Woah. wat. Imagine one day you wake up and have an animated adaptation. Haha.
Thank you too for making the video.
Thanks for your inspiration for the video!
My future potential is none of your business and I haven't given you permission to concern yourself with it. There are people I seek out for guidance and that is not you. Stop infringing on my privacy.
I hate ESTJs they are (most of them) too rigid and cold
Its make me sick 😷🤕🤢🤮
Heyy, I'm ESTJ and I love your videos, but this is harmful representation. We are fully capable of realizing the boundaries of our assertiveness, especially with those around us with different personality types
I have seen in Socionics that you have the best relationship (not initially) with a person who has the same cognitive functions as you but in opposite order. Consider... what if he was really trying to help him? I think I am kind of an inept and a lazy person, so I thought in that moment: practice is what makes us become the best in what we're doing or we want to do. I asked myself when was the time last time when I gave all of myself for something? I am beginning to enter to the adult life so it gives me a bit of anxiety to think I will not be good enough to endure it, so I couldn't refuse. Sorry for emphasizing the bad in that story, they possess exemplary qualities, their words have been capable to inspire me and give me useful advices like a master would do, but there are moments when they raise your stress bar to the maximum and you just want to yell at them "Give me a break!".
@@hendrickmorher86 i truly appreciate your take on the arguement, and i have recognized such behavioral patterns in my own life, with my friends and family, things like raising the bar too high, or to put it better, maintaining a perfectionist approuch to most tasks and responsibilities, especially those related to a professional work setting (what i would assume the video portrays, and therefore is accurate in showing in that regard). My arguement is that, even with the borderline obsessiveness with others and us getting the work done perfectly, the way we get that across is not always rude, i have had to deal with being called "bossy", "narcisisstic", and other derogatory terms (have been called a B by people i genuinely care about), even when i was very VERY careful not to come across as any of these things. Assertiveness is not narcissism, demand of efficiency is not bossiness, and ENTJs are not rude by default. Some people are, and that should not be reflected upon the whole rest of us who just want to be ourselves like any other personality type.
Thanks for your comment Zahraa. I am thinking that I should add an "unhealthy" label for videos like these, ie, "Unhealthy ESTJ" here. I don't want to give the impression that all ESTJs act like this, as you rightly point out. If I differentiate between healthy/unhealthy behaviors, this can also make the videos more informative for everyone watching.
I think one of the general issues, in this particular video medium, of short, one-on-one conversations, is that the story is being told from someone's "perspective." Here, it could be from (1) the ESTJ's perspective, (2) the INFP's perspective, or from (3) a neutral "objective" third party perspective. If I write a conversation from one of the individuals' perspective, (1) or (2), then the other person will sometimes end up being the butt of the joke. In this video, it's from the INFP's perspective, as Hendrick point's out.
I can try to make the conversations more "objective", case (3) above, to show what's really happening here (in a Te or Fe sort of way). Of course, sometimes the insight/humor in the video will come from the difference in perspective, ie, we want to highlight a particular person's perspective. So then the question is, are we viewing the conversations from a more "objective" Te or Fe perspective, or are we, for example, highlighting the Fi individual response from from an individual? I'll think about this moving forward. Also, if I add a label of "Unhealthy" for certain situations, this will sort of ground the situation back to the more "objective reality."
@@MBTI_Fanatic well, thank YOU for acknowledging my concern as an audience member and a fan of your channel! I appreciate your proposed solutions, and find the point you made about these conversations being from a certain, subjetive prespective really eye-opennning, as i failed to realize this may have been the case here. Yes, i do agree that these videos should be labled or assigned as certain POV so future confusions are avoided, and i am sure that you will find the most suitable way to accomplish that as the innovative content creator that you are. Have a great day/night!
Lol estj manipulating infp
ESTJs 🙄