You've Been Dating All Wrong!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 88

  • @re4918
    @re4918 7 дней назад +23

    As an INFJ, I just need to get over myself and initiate with the creepiest girl at a bar.

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 7 дней назад +9

      As an INFJ you could get the "hottest girl at the bar" (you fool)

    • @re4918
      @re4918 7 дней назад +2

      @ in my case, it was the same person

    • @mikehowe6955
      @mikehowe6955 7 дней назад +1

      How so? How would one such infj go about getting the hottest woman? And not some monkey brained, jacked alpha?

    • @re4918
      @re4918 7 дней назад

      @@mikehowe6955 she’s an ENTP and thinks all the monkey brained jacked dudes are stupid AF

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 7 дней назад +3

      @@mikehowe6955 Approach her confidently with a witty pick up line and then order two drinks without bothering to ask which one she likes (that would be too nice). This will appear manly and kind without being too soft. If she doesn't like you, you will find out pretty fast.

  • @miska614
    @miska614 День назад +1

    we are in the era when all of are lives suck at one point, and the first thing we need to learn is not to blame ourselves

  • @creativityintheface
    @creativityintheface 7 дней назад +11

    How are the four sides of the mind affected by mental illnesses such as schizophrenia ?

    • @Cuspofrevolution
      @Cuspofrevolution 7 дней назад +2

      I have the same question but for bpd and/or adhd

    • @ScaryMango6755
      @ScaryMango6755 6 дней назад +1

      @@Cuspofrevolution Yes I am very curious about the effects for Adhd. Wonder if Ni users are less likely to Adhd. I don't think my infj friend has ever had such an issue, it might be a more inhibiting problem for Si child and inferiors tho idrk

  • @АндрейОливер-з2е
    @АндрейОливер-з2е 3 дня назад +2

    ISTP male: meanwhile, it seems really easy to me to spot female ESTJs and ENFPs at a glance. Female ISTJs seem to be the hardest to spot. Si/Ne users seem to care a lot about their look anyway, Se/Ni users a lot less.

  • @ESTJTypeCoach
    @ESTJTypeCoach 6 дней назад +4

    Yes, truth. As an Ne user, no issue if you are desirable. Try 2 Ne users together, haha, disaster. Dated my first husband for six years, no ring. Told him, look, I am okay if you don't want to get married, but let me know (I was heading to the main campus of my college at the time). I will find someone else. Here, we had no idea as an ESTJ and INFP that we would be waiting for the other. Now, in after divorcing after a 20 year difficult marriage, I am married to an ISTP. Totally different situation! He found me and it didn't take long to propose. Happily married now.

  • @HuKayers
    @HuKayers 7 дней назад +9

    This explains the live sessions on the street corner lol. Fair play. My ice breaker is very similar to the one you presented. Mine is “So, what’s your story, morning glory?”, ripped straight from Hank Moody from Californication 😂 It works so f it 🤷‍♂️

  • @HolmisMusic
    @HolmisMusic 6 дней назад +2

    Even tho I don't completely agree with all this dating stuff 😊 I am so incredibly Grateful for CS Joseph, and all this shit he is CREATING.. Keep on hustling. I love it

  • @BF-non
    @BF-non 5 дней назад +2

    My longest relationship was from a referral (well self referral lol) and the girls I found using dating apps where lower quality humans in general more promiscuous, bad mental health and only good for short term.

  • @Aspire_KD
    @Aspire_KD 5 дней назад +3

    I may not agree with joseph all the time but at 58 mins: Se users tryna show off their weiners is a real thing. Please excuse my Ti child & I need to get some sleep 😂

  • @dalidali8631
    @dalidali8631 4 дня назад +3

    Since you are saying that sexual combability in dating is more important than emotional. Would you say that ESTP+INTP relationship is better than INTJ+INTP?

  • @gregoryg.4957
    @gregoryg.4957 5 дней назад +3

    Me, hesitating: am I an INFJ or INFP ?
    CS : the shorter the beard, the more Ne/Si, the longer the beard, the more Ni/Se.
    Me: OK, so I am INFP
    CS: the darker the clothes, the more Ne/Si. The brighter the clothes, the more Ni/Se.
    Me: OK, so I am INFJ 😅
    PS : when he talked about "dandy", it rang a bell, so maybe INFJ. 😊

    • @aladdout9454
      @aladdout9454 5 дней назад

      please dont believe this load of superficial crap.. especially about the beards and the clothes

  • @hamidousy5460
    @hamidousy5460 7 дней назад +10

    The first rule of dating : touch grass 😂

    • @Lu-ot8hs
      @Lu-ot8hs 7 дней назад

      True , people can't act like nerds while chasing a mate .

  • @Arcadius-tr8bm
    @Arcadius-tr8bm 3 дня назад +1

    As an INTP man who doesn't date I'm curious to know what I'm doing wrong by not doing anything 🤣

  • @CommissionerLofi
    @CommissionerLofi 7 дней назад +4

    Very helpful honestly

  • @louisejoel
    @louisejoel 7 дней назад +3

    My ISFJ mother never approves of my INTP dress. She says I look like a bag lady or just plain weird

    • @Farmynator
      @Farmynator 6 дней назад +4

      You do. INTPs have horrible fashion sense.
      And this is coming from an INTJ.
      We still love you though. ❤️

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 6 дней назад

      @@Farmynator Actually, I have an awesome fashion sense, I just have trouble putting my clothes on properly but I am excellent at dressing other people. Just like I am great at giving advice out that I don't take myself.

    • @nemesis27
      @nemesis27 6 дней назад +1

      ​@@louisejoelProbably ISTP

    • @t.6071
      @t.6071 5 дней назад

      @@louisejoelyou also are delusional about how you come across

  • @DayrusBPB
    @DayrusBPB 7 дней назад +13

    Just go out (with friends), have fun, do cool stuff, people will notice and come talk to you.

  • @truedreams1
    @truedreams1 6 дней назад +2

    Wow, a Labrador Retriever ❤

  • @RaffertyMBTI
    @RaffertyMBTI 6 дней назад +3

    1:16:24 NEVER heard the REFINEMENT relationship referred to as the ENIGMA relationship

    • @Saavys
      @Saavys 6 дней назад

      Super ego pair is enigma I think

    • @RaffertyMBTI
      @RaffertyMBTI 6 дней назад

      @ refinement/superego are the same yes I knew that. Had never heard it called enigma before.

    • @RaffertyMBTI
      @RaffertyMBTI 6 дней назад

      @ refinement/superego are the same yes I knew that. Had never heard it called enigma before.

    • @Saavys
      @Saavys 6 дней назад

      @@RaffertyMBTI ah ok 👌

  • @Austinbmx4life1
    @Austinbmx4life1 6 дней назад +2

    SOOO. Unrelated to this video but I decided to just pick your most recent one . ….. I recently took a personality test(a free one) because if you asked me who I am. I honestly wouldn’t be able to tell you… a lot of that being a result of complex trauma/ other mental illnesses and personality disorders I was labeled with and I got ISTP which fits me well as I actually am a mechanic and feel the world is flawed and the society man has designed is inferior/inefficient to what it could be and no one knows how to FKN drive….. but I looked at all the introverted types because I know that part is 100% right…. I also share characteristics with INTP, theoretical thinking seems to be against ISTP but I love theory’s (depending on the subject) for example end of world theories. Theories on the universe.
    So basically I’m asking is it possible to have multiple types or a blend of ?

  • @coltergasser1621
    @coltergasser1621 14 часов назад

    Would you have more specific tips for the Ni dominant and Ne dominant types? With them having inferior sensing functions, how does that affect things?

  • @dalidali8631
    @dalidali8631 4 дня назад +1

    Man, thank you a lot, wow.

  • @Jacqui-MNDZA
    @Jacqui-MNDZA 7 дней назад +3

    Any more videos with visual typing 💬!?!

  • @dookhynabeelah4897
    @dookhynabeelah4897 42 минуты назад

    Yes... don't ask an Se user 'what he/she is doing?' 'Cause the answer you'll get is 'nothing' or 'nothing special' or the worst of answers you could get is 'none of your business'. And if you ask an ESTP what he/she is doing, you'll most probably end up with a punch in your face as an answer 😂

  • @johnsmith26185
    @johnsmith26185 7 дней назад +3

    I know you have your problems with the church, but assuming an Si user wanted a "real" church girl, how would he do it? The bar scene doesn't look promising

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 7 дней назад +2

      Assuming you are an adult and responsible man:
      Look for other older masculine, respectable and devoted man, present yourself, establish a good rapport with him, then ask if he has an adult daughter.. Repeat.

    • @Howzernn
      @Howzernn 7 дней назад

      Go to church? Go to different churches?

    • @PresbianTier
      @PresbianTier 3 дня назад

      pay attention to the area you are in. Focus on what churches cater to you and which don't. stick to the ones that work with you. I'm not sure what type of Si user you are (parent, child, etc) but Si users rely on Faith. That faith only comes through stability.

  • @Brickwilliams
    @Brickwilliams 7 дней назад +9

    Women

    • @tornadotonion2835
      @tornadotonion2835 7 дней назад +1

      Bro..

    • @Th3_Reflex
      @Th3_Reflex 7 дней назад +3

      Care to elaborate?

    • @Brickwilliams
      @Brickwilliams 7 дней назад +4

      @@Th3_Reflex women

    • @Brickwilliams
      @Brickwilliams 7 дней назад +1

      @@Th3_Reflex I’m not saying women are dating wrong, so are men, I’m just saying women because women are women

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 7 дней назад +5

      Female, She/Her

  • @melino9709
    @melino9709 5 дней назад

    IM AN NE AND USE LIGHT PINK PASTELS AND NUDE INFP BETTERNG MY SE

  • @lanalvr2413
    @lanalvr2413 7 дней назад +4

    Which art of seduction are infps?

  • @ammar9279
    @ammar9279 7 дней назад +2

    How about parent referral

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 7 дней назад +4

      Depend on your conditioning and culture.

    • @pthfnder450
      @pthfnder450 7 дней назад +3

      I should introduce you to my son/daughter. Lol. Thanks Mom...😂

  • @lazardaniels4404
    @lazardaniels4404 4 дня назад

    360p?

  • @Cuspofrevolution
    @Cuspofrevolution 7 дней назад

    Lmao i met my partner through my friends friend....😊

  • @RaffertyMBTI
    @RaffertyMBTI 6 дней назад

    57:20 Why are dark colours Si?

  • @RaffertyMBTI
    @RaffertyMBTI 6 дней назад +1

    When are you uploading how to seduce istp's????

  • @calture5086
    @calture5086 7 дней назад +2

    Your strength lies in the abstract not the concrete. Look atcha. Currently married to an ISFP; an ESTP at the time of this recording. Ya played yourself (again)😂. I'll pass on the dating advice.

    • @tiyahyisrael
      @tiyahyisrael 2 дня назад

      Failure teaches more than success.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  День назад +1

      The best dating advice come from failure, not success

    • @calture5086
      @calture5086 5 часов назад

      ​@@CSJosephYou get on about ppl who keep dating types they're incompatible w/ and yet, you're notorious for doing it..worse yet, you go so far as to marry them. How bout you practice what you teach/preach for once? Knowledge is power...when applied. Current marriage won't make it past 3-4 yrs but you already know that.