I hate to say but never get too attached to a woman especially nowadays in this world. So, in case she cheats or breakups with you, you are never too destroyed or fallen apart too much.
.... Practically ruthless? Yes, they can be. And they can be very, very fickle. That's just the way it is. Just be very nonchalant, and easygoing. Thanks for the FANTASTIC video and your review of these essential fundamentals.
@@fresh2354 not necessarily. Because by week 2, you should have only been out on 2 dates with zero messages in between or phone calls. So no, you can't really. You can gauge her interest levels on the first 2 dates. And if you can ask good quality questions you can get an idea, but they can hide who they are for 90 days. Anyone can be sweet for 2 dates. The phone is for setting dates only not for getting to know someone. This is a part of the vetting stage. Because if yhe girl is constantly messaging in between dates, that is an indication that she is needy and insecure. Therefore, she isn't gf material
Chris, i’ve been watching you since I was a teen. You have shaped my life more than you will ever know! Forever grateful for all of your teachings and knowledge!
I am pursuing someone I like a lot but she'll never know it. I do what Chris says no emotional investment in her, no chasing, no phone calls or texts, no weirdness or awkwardness. When I see her I see her and I try to do the flirting and when we say goodbye it could be for a month.
Chris is the father, brother, uncle, close neighbor that we never had. If you read his book atomic attraction, he states case studies that you can look up to corroborate what he's saying. I wish I had a Chris type figure growing up. This information would have saved me a lot of heartache and pain. Thanks uncle Chris!
I was about to make a video on this topic, nice to hear your take on this subject matter. Your increasing attraction and commitment is not her increasing attraction and commitment. It's a power-play, you must win the power dynamic.
In my experience that's only nice in theory and you cannot really control attachment, same way you cannot control love and attraction. You can tell yourself you're not gonna give into any of these things because you know better, but they happen with or without your permission, internally. You can tell yourself i don't have high expectations, but if you genuinely like the other person it won't hurt any less when they screw you. Ultimately i believe it all depends on the individual. Some get attached easily, others not so much. It may or may not be a matter of habituation and/or desensitization to relationships, but i doubt anyone can fully control it.
I know a lad just like this, pesters me for a night out. As soon as he finds a girl he's heavily in love. Books holidays and things days out all the time. Then he repears all over again.
My ex sent me a very cryptic message after I was on a dating app and matched with the roommate of her co-worker (my ex is sleeping with the co-worker). She told me that if i hooked up with the roommate that I might wake up in the same house as the ex and the co-worker but that i could do whatever I want. I didn't respond. Strongest position is to walk away and not look back.
But, how does this work when it comes to who pays? You want the woman to invest in you so you expect her to pay, yet men are supposed to be the provider.... yet where’s the point at which she takes you for a mug and expects you to pay for everything? What is the ideal with this? 50/50?? I’ve stopped dating because of this because it’s always caused me so many issues with relationships. I’ve been accused of being tight, yet paid for everything before with other women and eventually been dumped.
If the chick is genuinely attracted to you, she will do most of the investing, just ask her to do things for you, like clean the house or ask her to buy you a loaf of bread when she's coming over to visit, if she complies, she likes you to the point where you don't have to do much investing, just feed her bread crums and she'll be satisfied with you, bru, less is more with cbicks, bruh
Never take a woman who grew up in a Feminist country seriously. They are raised to view men as the enemy and look down on you. And if you are part of the 1% never forget how she would treat you if you wouldn't have incredible amounts of wealth
Something I'm confused about: What if you're in great shape, and already have financial freedom? If youre at that point, I think it's natural to think that starting a family could be your next focus. And yet that's unnattractive to women. Huh. So, in that position, the man should find another mission that is not reliant on a woman, even though he wants a family? What would that even be? A hobby? A passion? I suppose it would be.
I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back❤
I did everything to her and some time ago she stop giving me sex so I have been with someone and she find it out so now she blocked me and doesn’t want to talk to me anymore!!😢
@@BrandelJoshsaundh bro! Don't text her first, let her text u, if she comes back u do the same, don't reply soon don't read the message for two three days, after that ask her how she is doing and all don't talk too much don't ask y u didn't text me, if she asked u just say u were little busy so simply. This always work's for me.
Floyd Mayweather once said. One chick is too close to have no chick. But how can you keep more than one if you want a relationship? It's good to have a plan B but you have to be tactful surely
I hate to say but never get too attached to a woman especially nowadays in this world. So, in case she cheats or breakups with you, you are never too destroyed or fallen apart too much.
Never ever got too attached and always have it on your mind that it most likely won't last. That's how it is in this world.
@@PassionateSpirit88 You need to read this book it changed my life bro
@@alberteinstein9085 same bro i downloaded a pirated copy of it & it worked wonders for me❤
You also have to remind youself, that she's not yours it's only your turn, it makes it easier to move forward
Cool. Yes.
She wants to feel that she's the one chasing, If you start chasing it's over .Stay Focus guys
No contact starts working when they feel more space from you then what they want.
You shouldn’t get attached at all. They’re ruthless. They leave.
.... Practically ruthless? Yes, they can be. And they can be very, very fickle. That's just the way it is. Just be very nonchalant, and easygoing. Thanks for the FANTASTIC video and your review of these essential fundamentals.
Amen brother...
I experienced this lesson ever so harshly, back in May of 2019...absolutely one of the most painful evenings of my life!
same here bro exact same month and year
@D K wow....I wasn't alone in that pain for it was hellacious!
Same here. Painful lesson to learn
@@Rob-nl5ge however..... *Lesson learned & then some!!!*
Hahaha Same year Same Month!!!!!
Its all about vetting correctly. People can hide who they are for around 90 days.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
True 100% but if you’re an expert of energy, you can read them within the first couple of weeks
@@fresh2354can you please help my girlfriend has not texted me in too weeks
@@fresh2354 not necessarily. Because by week 2, you should have only been out on 2 dates with zero messages in between or phone calls. So no, you can't really. You can gauge her interest levels on the first 2 dates. And if you can ask good quality questions you can get an idea, but they can hide who they are for 90 days. Anyone can be sweet for 2 dates.
The phone is for setting dates only not for getting to know someone.
This is a part of the vetting stage. Because if yhe girl is constantly messaging in between dates, that is an indication that she is needy and insecure. Therefore, she isn't gf material
@@BrandelJoshsaundh if your "girlfriend" hasn't messaged you in 2 weeks, she isn't your gf.
@@dontassumemyfender9866 yech she is
This is beyond accurate. I’ve experienced this dozens of times and had to learn the hard way
Chris, i’ve been watching you since I was a teen. You have shaped my life more than you will ever know! Forever grateful for all of your teachings and knowledge!
I am pursuing someone I like a lot but she'll never know it. I do what Chris says no emotional investment in her, no chasing, no phone calls or texts, no weirdness or awkwardness. When I see her I see her and I try to do the flirting and when we say goodbye it could be for a month.
Become emotionally unavailable and you won't have to be attached to her, plain and simple
Almost got into one, thanks for this.
Relationships and moving it on should always be their idea! Never ask where it’s going or for her to be your girlfriend.
Best advice ever. The more interest and Inve$tment you do the LESS she wiLL be interested....
Chris is the father, brother, uncle, close neighbor that we never had. If you read his book atomic attraction, he states case studies that you can look up to corroborate what he's saying. I wish I had a Chris type figure growing up. This information would have saved me a lot of heartache and pain.
Thanks uncle Chris!
I was about to make a video on this topic, nice to hear your take on this subject matter.
Your increasing attraction and commitment is not her increasing attraction and commitment.
It's a power-play, you must win the power dynamic.
Don't get attached EVER
In my experience that's only nice in theory and you cannot really control attachment, same way you cannot control love and attraction. You can tell yourself you're not gonna give into any of these things because you know better, but they happen with or without your permission, internally. You can tell yourself i don't have high expectations, but if you genuinely like the other person it won't hurt any less when they screw you.
Ultimately i believe it all depends on the individual. Some get attached easily, others not so much. It may or may not be a matter of habituation and/or desensitization to relationships, but i doubt anyone can fully control it.
I know a lad just like this, pesters me for a night out. As soon as he finds a girl he's heavily in love. Books holidays and things days out all the time. Then he repears all over again.
Words of Wisdom, as always. Thanks Chris!
My ex sent me a very cryptic message after I was on a dating app and matched with the roommate of her co-worker (my ex is sleeping with the co-worker). She told me that if i hooked up with the roommate that I might wake up in the same house as the ex and the co-worker but that i could do whatever I want. I didn't respond. Strongest position is to walk away and not look back.
Fuck the girl to piss her off lol
Always remember she is not who you make her out to be in your mind lol
This comment is so underrated..... 💯
Straight facts 💯
great video , so true!
I have been waiting for ur video
Is the information already in the book? If so, where exactly can I find it?
But, how does this work when it comes to who pays? You want the woman to invest in you so you expect her to pay, yet men are supposed to be the provider.... yet where’s the point at which she takes you for a mug and expects you to pay for everything?
What is the ideal with this? 50/50??
I’ve stopped dating because of this because it’s always caused me so many issues with relationships. I’ve been accused of being tight, yet paid for everything before with other women and eventually been dumped.
If the chick is genuinely attracted to you, she will do most of the investing, just ask her to do things for you, like clean the house or ask her to buy you a loaf of bread when she's coming over to visit, if she complies, she likes you to the point where you don't have to do much investing, just feed her bread crums and she'll be satisfied with you, bru, less is more with cbicks, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 lol, love that double metaphor
Lesson learned!!!
this is so true I learned this the hard way, I thought she is different haha
But they hate it when you give them the same treatment
its a power-play, you must win the power dynamic.
You give great advice bro for men.
I always enjoy your videos.
Never take a woman who grew up in a Feminist country seriously. They are raised to view men as the enemy and look down on you. And if you are part of the 1% never forget how she would treat you if you wouldn't have incredible amounts of wealth
Good lad ❤
What does it mean to invest? You should make a video on this subject.
Not too soon. Never
Something I'm confused about: What if you're in great shape, and already have financial freedom? If youre at that point, I think it's natural to think that starting a family could be your next focus. And yet that's unnattractive to women. Huh.
So, in that position, the man should find another mission that is not reliant on a woman, even though he wants a family? What would that even be? A hobby? A passion? I suppose it would be.
Myron Gaines says women become monsters with lots of power
I think there is some contradiction, sometimes you say take a lead other times you say women should chase you please clarify 🙂
Long story short. You can’t show a woman you’re a human with human need and emotions you have to be a Robot if you want to keep a woman
I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back❤
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On What'sapp.
I did everything to her and some time ago she stop giving me sex so I have been with someone and she find it out so now she blocked me and doesn’t want to talk to me anymore!!😢
Hey what should I do because my girlfriend has not been texting me since in too weeks please help
She’s no longer your girl. Forget about her and get on with your life.
@@andywatson8225 yech yech
@@andywatson8225 don't respond, she will text u for sure! When she comes back just mirror her.
@@amith432 what do you mean by that
@@BrandelJoshsaundh bro! Don't text her first, let her text u, if she comes back u do the same, don't reply soon don't read the message for two three days, after that ask her how she is doing and all don't talk too much don't ask y u didn't text me, if she asked u just say u were little busy so simply. This always work's for me.
Yes, don't attach to any girl
U will find out what she REALLY is like later on - could be a totally different person ...
Facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥
True
Floyd Mayweather once said. One chick is too close to have no chick. But how can you keep more than one if you want a relationship? It's good to have a plan B but you have to be tactful surely
End of the day, a woman chooses the man so help her make that choice. It’s that simple
First here
Should we give you a medal?
@@lastbull575 yes
@@oppahadventures114 🥇
None of this stuff is accurate bro not in the black community
You’re wrong
Humans are humans
Or explain more