What Is the Hardest Conversation You've Had? | 0-100
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
- We brought in people ages 0-100 to answer some of life’s big questions. In this episode, we asked people "what is the hardest conversation you've had?" Tell us what you think in the comments below!
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that young boy saying he needs a therapist he has "separation anxiety". Breaks my heart 😖 Today's kids are mature and wise beyond their years
anuo mef or... the education system got better at teaching about rights and emotions
I've still not told my mom and I'm 17. This guy is so brave.
Eric Enky that's your opinion. They are braver than most adults today and in terms of understanding their feelings and emotions, they are far better than adults who closet their emotions and feelings. Will I know what is "separation anxiety" at 10 years? I don't think so. Will I know that I need a therapist at 10 years old? Definitely don't think so. So for me they are a hell lot mature and wiser
Okay, it not a participation trophy, safe space is better! sorry helicopter mom. You have to face the real world. You won't be there to protect him/her all the time. Face reality, head on!! And you will make in life. Therapist! That shows you, how weak your kids are. Like you, I 'm sorry for you or your kids if you have kids?
Obviously,Sam a kid is not mature, get it. That is why they need guidance. From parents, if they need a therapist? It tells you the parents not doing a good job. They need a therapist to do their job. Sorry, if you can't do your job being a parent that is why you need a therapist to take your place. Then, by all means get a therapist. I will pray for you. Sam, to be strong and righteous in life.
That boy told his parents he needed a therapist at 10. I can't tell them that at 17.
apple outlaw right?? Props to him omg~but don't you be afraid of that
Ikr?! And awww omg thank you, you made me so happy!!! xx
I'm 23 and still can't tell them.
Same. I'm also 17 & can't tell them
I totally get it in my family admitting that means your insane so I stayed silent about my OCD for years. I'm 26 and my mother knows but my father doesn't.
that 10 year old is more mature and cool than i will ever be
These videos always hit me in the feels, especially with that soft music in the background
That lady who said it was hard for her to tell her father about the serious relationship with an African American guy . Believe me, I understand you. I am going through something very similar. I guess I'll never understand why some people can see beyond the color of your skin. Smh but I am glad I do!
Nair Vanessa
Can't 😂
My hardest conversation (so far) was telling my mom that she was the main reason behind me being absolutely broken mentally and not being able to recover from it.
Even after pouring all of my feelings out after years of enduring pain, she still managed to make the conversation about her suffering without even recognizing the existence of my hardships.
I feel this on a spiritual level, I’m sorry you’re going through this.
BananaBubbi you're not alone...
My life
I can relate
I literally feel like I wrote this
All these stories are making me cry
even the one where the kid had a talk with his dad about him snoring?lol
I think the hardest conversation I’ve ever had was with my dad about my moms cancer diagnosis & that she only had 6 months left to live 💔
Lucy Elliott i'm so sorry for you~ but I bet you're Mum would want u to smile!:D and be happy for her, not having too suffer anymore,
If she's still alive, then prepare~ because even if you can not feel her hugs or kisses you know daaaaamn well she loves you from the bottom of her heart
Oh my god I am so sorry... is she still with you today? If so please just do all you can to cherish your moments with her while it lasts
My mum died 20 years ago & it still hurts like it was yesterday. Thank you for your kind words 🙏 xx
All my love goes to you Lucy.
I‘m so sorry for you, god bless you!❤️
The hardest conversation I had was the one that I couldn’t have because it was too late
Amy Carter 😭
😨😨😭
I’m so sorry
Me too. I’m sorry.
Amy Carter I’m tearing up 💔.
When I had to talk my friend out of killing himself.
You have problems
@Yeetus That Fetus Commit Self Deletus the anthrax biologi
I had to do that as well. Very hard position to be in.
I had to do that too. And I used to be suicidal. The same friend really hurt my feelings when I told her I was pregnant three years ago. It was hard to forgive her for the terrible things she said but she’s more like a sister than a friend.
Aww I’m sorry 😭 you are a true hero
The hardest conversation I’ve had was when I was 9 and my parents had to tell me that my little brother was going to pass away within a matter of months 💔
I'm so sorry. 😢
My condolences.
He's still alive in spiritual realm and is guiding you, their mission on Earth is completed. Energy can't be destroyed and neither is soul
💞💞💞
I am so sorry.
Sometimes all you need is a good SoulPancake video to remember you’re not the only one hurt, but sometimes you just want a good cry in your happy days .
My hardest conversation was probably with myself finally accepting that I have mental health issues
I hadn't thought of that, nicely put
Melina Sofía that’s me after 3 years of trying to be ok but then realising I’m not
:(
Totally happened the same with me
The hardest conversation I ever had was on a date with a woman who didn't show up. I stayed in the Italian restaurant because I was hungry and my fridge was empty. I sat with my vegetarian pizza and a tiramisu for two and a half hours. Nobody - except the nice waitress - spoke to me. The hardest conversation was having no conversation.
BinauralMind - Experimental, Relaxing Music Dining alone can be nice though :)
This reminds me of that seven in the lake house when Sandra’s character goes to that restaurant and he doesn’t come :(
The hardest conversation I ever had was probably telling one of my closest friends that I had been raped and talking it through with her.
Rosie that. Is so brave! And wow you got quite some courage!!! please stay strong! Even if U don't know me.. i am so proud of u coming out with this so publicly on social media!! You're brave💘
Rosie You are so strong and corageous❣ I hope you're better and I admire you for your braveness!🙇🏽♀️ Keep going strong!💪🏽
Don't be sad it's not your fault.
same... I remember I was trembeling and crying silently.. while I was telling them I relived it
💞💞💞💞 sending support
Any conversation that involves me opening up, I have a hard time being vulnerable.
WYNOLLO TV I'm in the same boat, Hun
Aquoda Mareen right, I can talk fine but when it comes to difficult topics involving myself it's hard.
WYNOLLO TV exactly
Aquoda Mareen 💙 it's okay though we aren't alone
WYNOLLO TV 💙
this made me sob so much. my hardest conversation is one I have not yet had the courage to have. this video reminded me how people had situations in which they had no choice but to have a difficult conversation during an emotional time. it gives me hope and strength. hopefully my conversation will happen and go better than I think it might.
Yasemin BAHAR good luck!
Soul pancake, why are you always making me cry
Probably when I found my adoption papers so my mum had to explained to me that she's actually my grandmother and her daughter/my biological mother was an addict not capable of raising me c;
Sometimes I wonder if we'd ever had that conversation if I hadn't found the papers (probably not cuz we don't talk in our house hehe). Maybe it would be better to not know all that stuff idk
you don‘t talk in your house? I would have been so angry if that had happened to me.
Lotus // well I was. I mean I'm super grateful that mum took me in but it's kinda messed up that she decided not to tell me. and we didn't really talk about it even after I'd found the papers, I think I was like 10 at the time. I told her that I knew, she was like "okay guilty you're really my granddaughter". I was too afraid to ask anything else and that was it. she didn't even tell me why she was raising me (I knew my biological mother and I'd seen her, she even took me out a couple of times when I was little. so I was super confused) and funny enough I had to find out about her addiction through my medical record. cuz why talk right
Fia Tea
oh god, that‘s awful
Saying goodbye to my mom for the last time at 13 when she was basically comatose in late stage cancer.
It was with my mom, when I told her I was being sexually abused. I was 13 years old.
Mayara Souza Gomes omg that’s awful
Mayara Souza Gomes Damn! It’s devastating to hear it from someone who looks as lovely as you do. How did you manage to get over it? And how did your mother respond to it?
It really was, but I'm glad I had that talk...
Her response was exactly what I needed at that time, she was very protective, very supportive when I had to confront my abuser, it was hard, but I was lucky to have her arround. It ended the abuse, which for me is the most important thing...
I had that same conversation with my mom. And it was hard to see her heart break because it was from someone she loved.
For me it's telling my parents that I'm gay. That's why I haven't told them yet, aha.
You'll feel great once you do, wait till you're ready but don't be afraid good luck xx
samee bisexual bc their against it
oh i was about to comment a similar thing
Mareeen14 Hi, I don’t know how old you are or how your family is, if they are homophobic or so, but you should tell them anyways. I was struggling too with telling my parents that I am gay, but they accepted it and now I am very happy. I don’t know if you did that yet, but it really helps to ask your parents like questions and then get more information. Like, tell a story or something. I told my mom that I have a transgender in my class and asked her then if she has anything against lgbtq+ people, and she said 'no, not at all, love is love' and that’s when I knew, that I could tell her. At the end, they are your parents and love you for who you are, not just because of your sexuality, but I would recommend to tell it if you are a bit older like 18 or something like that, otherwise your parents might think, that it’s just a phase, like puberty. Anyways, you can do it.
don’t worry ull do great!
Probably telling my muslim parents, that I'm a boy feeling attracted to boys #gay #pride!
hey im sending u love i know how muslim families view sexuality and i want u to know ur valuable and worthy and VERY loved.
Congrats!!!
Wow, so great that you were able to share that with them, even if you thought they might not be accepting at first.
SoulPancake Thanks to all of u commenting and giving me support and love
I just need to say this-I saw your replies on some other comments and you seem like such a nice person, we need more people like you these days
Sending virtual hugs
Having two tell my family I'm an addict and need help. Even THOUGH both my parents (deceased) were successful recovering alcoholics! Terrible
Good for you! That is certainly not an easy thing to say!
My hardest conversation is kinda split in two. The first was late in the evening, I was talking to my stepfather and he had noticed that I wasn't doing so well anymore and I told him that I had depression and anxiety and that I almost developed anorexia but I got help through it and that I had started to eat again, then I told him that I was self harming. I was 13 at the time and I had been depressed for roughly two years.
Some hours later when I was supposed to sleep he came into my room and struggled with knowing what to say, I knew it was serious and I got scared and didn't say anything. When he finally managed to say something he said "you're cutting yourself" I felt chills down my spine like if you broke something as a child and your parents found out. I didn't dare to say anything, I was too scared. He then said he wanted to see it.
After ten minutes I let him see my cuts and I started crying. We talked about it and after half an hour of talking he left and I went to sleep. I then promised myself to never harm myself again (sadly I couldn't keep that promise but now I'm one month and one week clean) and I took my blade and hid it in a drawer, I later flushed it in the toilet.
That was the hardest conversation I've ever had and I know that if I hadn't told him my selfharm would've veen much worse
Now I'm 14 and in therapy:)
Thank you for spending your time reading this, if anyone actually does hehe.. I appreciate it very much :)
And remember that you're never alone, stay safe people!❤❤
Daniella I hope your doing ok now. Please keep the blades away. If you want to talk to me, message me back and we can figure something out. Again, hope you stay clean
Has to be me coming to my parents about my self harm and depression and then them admitting me to a hospital. That was rough
Absolutely I wish I had told them instead of the school councilors letting them know. Still dealing with it to this day :p
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Um, 37????!!!?!!??!
neato kiddo black never cracks
He looks in his late 30s lol he's just in shape unlike most men his age
bLACK dONT CRACK
Omg, the same thing happens to my dad all the time. He is in the army so he is basically not aloud to not be fit and healthy........my father 44 years of age has been asked for his i.d in a store when buying a wine
Having to tell my friends and family, that I still love dolls. And I love designing/sewing clothes, rerooting, coming up with art projects, and etc. The 7 yo inside me never left me...
And also bisexuality.
Never change, you sound AWESOME!!
That is precisely called Passion my friend.... And yes there is an industry for it. May be you should try to make it productive so that you could earn from it as well.
Keep up the Passion.... Everyone has different passion.
Quick fact.... I'm extremely passionate about Android app development ( not a good coder yet). When I had suicidal tendencies, my passion was the only thing that brought me back.
Don't be ashamed. I LOVED this too, But then i stopped because i had so much going on in my life, school etc. But it is fun and If you like it, keep doing it💗
Akira Alexis Soyra I'm 15 and I'm a doll collector too! I love making things for my dolls and I'm also bisexual. Keep being you! 💗
Telling my dad I had depression for 3 years and tryed committing suicide also 3 times all when him n mom was fighting over money...
Telling my muslim dad im in love with a guy and fighting for him only to tell him that guy duped me after 4 yrs...
Telling my lil sister why I left her and ran away from the house...
Telling my mom that ill nvr forgive her...
Telling my best friend that I have no feelings for any human being on this earth not evn myself...
But mostly and the hardest was telling god that I feel like hes over looking us and he stopped caring for the middle east and our misery here as Palestinians 💔
Yes I've had a pretty rough childhood
Asia Tarek Hey thank you so much for charing this, you're so brave and seem like such a kind person. I don't know what you had to went through but I'm a palestinian girl too and I feel the pain about our people just like you do. I know what's happening is heart breaking but please don't stop hoping and praying. Don't loose your faith. The pain these people have to endure day after day is going to grant them their quickest way to heaven inshallah.
Keep strong my dear 🌹
Asia Tarek in your quietest hour when you are still and everything around you is quiet, that is when you can hear the voice from God saying, I will never leave you nor forsake you. God is ever present in the times when we are going thru.
Miira? Thank u so much sweety 💜
I can nvr lose hope after those times
I learnt its always hard to fight but its harder to quit
One day ull look back at that mudd road and look at ur dirty clothes..ull stand tall with ur eyes up to the sky and ull proudly scream
"Yes I did it" ipromise u
Cake Supply_Lady ur lovely wirds mean the world to me 💔
May god grant u peace
I feel you sweetheart and I hope things go well for the Middle East
These videos always hit me in the feels. I love it !
this was so intense
Telling my kids that I am terminally ill! Such a brutal conversation so full of naked human emotion and lots of tears and anger. I told each of them separately as they were only 19, 18, 16, 14 and my baby was 11. I wanted that one on one time for each of them where they felt free to ask me anything or free to just cry without feeling embarrassed. Doctors gave me a maximum of 5 years in October of 2013 but I’m still here and I’m gonna fight till I have no fight in me. I may spend 23 hours of the day in bed but I’m still present in my kids’ lives. I cherish any extra time. Hoping to get through my baby’ high school graduation in May 2019, that is my goal, that is what I’m living for...
The hardest conversations I’ve had was when I had to tell my mom and brother and dad that I was having suicidal thoughts and I had been cutting for a while.....Also while having a break down I was having a heated conversation with god... crying and screaming “ if he was real, why wasn’t he helping me keep myself and my mind safe?”...
I've had hard conversations but the hardest would definitely be me telling my mom about my depression and harm. Idk how to do it, been plotting it since months
You are valuable, friend. Stay safe. You can get this convo going, no prob.
I think she will be glad about you telling her cause I‘m sure she doesn’t want to see her child sad (or in the worst case dying (pls look out for yourself!!)) without her knowing why
the hardest conversation ive had was with my grandma. she had brain cancer and passed away in her bed. we all took turns going in and saying goodbye to her body. when i went in i told her she was amazing. and i just cried into the cold body and i told her i didnt know who i was. that she was supposed to see me graduate next year. that when id pictured her at my wedding i wasnt with a man. that i like girls. it doesnt seem like it would be hard, she was already gone but she was the most supportive person in the family and i had always known if i told her shed have my back. but i never got to tell her. it was hard for me knowing that the one person i could count on to support me was gone
Jenn Underground that‘s so sad, I hope you found/will find another Person who you can count on and who supports you the way she did and would have done if you would have told her
I'm 25.
Hardest conversation ever was probably having to tell my parents that I do not agree with their theology anymore, and I see life, faith, Jesus, and many things from a different perspective now.
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Trying to figure out the best way to tell my parents that I needed to drop out of college because of my severe depression and sexual assault and rape trauma.
Blessed One For me, it was a lot easier to tell them that the degree wasn't for me, and I also needed help from a professional for my depression. It sounds strange, but I didn't really know at the time that what I was experiencing was trauma, so I thought it was only depression. It was tough to let them down, but they knew it was the right choice when I told them details about my depressed state. Seeing a professional really did help. If you don't think they'd allow it, try to find one on your own. Play it off like you're going to see an old friend for a few hours or something similar.
Blessed One I was very lucky. In order to move into dorms, I had to have insurance and it covered my expenses for professional help.
God bless everyone xx
I think the hardest conversation for me was breaking the news that I had depression and anxiety to my mom. She knew nothing about it hitting me hard because I put on such a good mask that she had no idea for so long. She didn't even believe me when I told her. The hardest part about that conversation though was that she never did anything to help me when I needed it most. For anyone out there who is suicidal, depressed, anxious, sad, etc. there's a bright future ahead of you with so much potential and so many opportunities, it's not worth ending your life now no matter how young you are or how old you are, those that are close to you do care about you. Open up and maybe they can help you.
Probably telling my alcoholic father that I don’t want to speak to him again if he doesn’t get help...
Astrid Wagner ouch
Did it work? I know that you're dealing with... I wish I was as brave as you...
I saw a girl who were sitting at the edge of balcony, I actually knew her in person, and she tried to do suicide. I had to talk to her and ask her to don’t do that, but she was sure that she wants to do suicide. So I asked my friends who were in this building to come help us. While waiting for them I tried to talk to her more and more so she will forget about suicide for a second, I was so scared because I knew that if I’ll do something wrong, she will jump. So when she were telling me story I let my friends in and she didn’t saw or hear them, so they pulled her back, when she was at the safe place she kept scream “I hate you!” To me. It’s been 4 years since that moment and now she’s doing great, she’s cheerleader of our national hockey team
I had to edit it. The hockey team is not American, just in case if everybody would think about American hockey team
The hardest conversion I ever had was admitting to myself that he could never love me and as I said the words out loud “make the pain stop” as I felt my heart breaking💔
SBoats I now know that after 9 months of pain
Thank you for that advise and I'll remember it❤️
The hardest conversation I’ve ever had was confronting my cheating dad. I’m 14 years old
Wasan A. How did you do it??
How the frick did you find out before everyone else
Stuffz people think kids are stupider than they are and get complacent.
It’s okay, you’re not alone. I’m 13, and my mom is cheating on my stepdad, and she thinks nobody knows.
Stuffz people get sloppy hiding things around kids because they think we are oblivious to everything and don’t understand certain situations
I believe that some of the hardest conversations we have, are with ourselves. Coming to terms with your mental and physical health is difficult, and I am so happy I’ve been honest with myself. Its certainly a step in the right direction toward healing
i had to go through the same thing as the ten year old boy when i was 13. i feel massive respect towards him, wow
The hardest conversation I've had was telling this channel to DO THE NUMBERS IN ORDER!
Logafab DaModel omfg fr fr
Hahaha ;) We've chosen to arrange the responses by the type of answer given. But we do appreciate your feedback.
nah i prefer it like this tho
Hardest was probably trying to get my brother to open up to me and to assure him that I love him and care about him. Talking people out of suicide. It’s hard. It’s so damn hard because what if you don’t say enough. Or what if I don’t say the right things next time we have that conversation..
i wish i was your brother... and we lived in Alabama
The hardest conversation that I had was when I had to tell my best friend that I am moving to another continent. It broke my heart.
Butterbrotpapier22 I can feel you. I've been in the same situation, but it wasn't hard cuz she always supports me. It was the most emotional conversation. It just happened a few months ago😔😔😔😔😔
The hardest conversation that I've ever have would have to be telling my mother that my life would be better off with her out of it. She wasn't making the best decisions and I don't want to be their when she falls.
Mad props to the friends who had a conversation to end their friendship instead of just ghosting them.
I thought this would have been light hearted... In this situation, I would have said icebreakers because I thought they meant hard to answer... When someone asks me something about myself, I BLANK!!
Literally reading this title made me tear up. I was just thinking about it. Sitting and holding my moms hand for hours, just trembling and sobbing trying to form words. She told me she had a feeling whatever i was going to say would change both of our lives. "It will" was all i could say back.
Oh Gosh.I just wanna say it.So...I had this fast conversation with my mom .At that time I cut my hair and changed my style I little ,it felt refreshing for me but she didn't understand.She told me she doesn't know me anymore and I said "maybe you never did" and that really hit me hard.In my teen years ,going trough high school was a hard time for me so I really needed her ,there were nights I would cry my heart out while wishpering my mom's name ,instead I kept it inside .I live with my grandma and she's sick so whatever is going on with me I prefer to deal with it by myself it would only make her worried and her suffering because of me it's the last thing I want.
When my dad told me..."Nothing's going to change between us" before my parents' divorce...I have to say it was a lie,everything changed .And the last thing would be one night sleeping next to my mom and her partner she called my name ,I looked at her and she said "You're going to have a little sister.I'm pregnant" I wanted to be happy but I just couldn't. I turned around and stared in the room's darkness
You can see the sadness in their eyes when they talk about this. Hope their heats have healed at this point of time.
The hardest conversation i've had was Coming out to my mom, because I couldnt do it for 7 months because I was so scared.
Also my Coming out to my class. I was never so scared in my entire life.
And telling my mom about my severe depression was very hard too.
I couldnt do it for 3 years.
Now its hard to recover 'cause I waited so long. But I'm getting medication and therapy so lets see if i'll get better...
SerieN Freak okay but why would you wanna tell your class wtf
SerieN Freak Good luck!
美女 Because everyone kept asking me if I liked girls and that kinda annoyed me that I also needed to lie everytime. Also I'm in an all girls school so everyone talked about boys and I couldnt and that made my depression just worse. So I was like: okay I need to come out.
Best decision I could've made. My life changed. I found new friends and got even closer with my classmates. I found a best friend in one of them. And I am not ashamed anymore and can be myself. I am much more confident and my self hate isnt thaaat massive anymore. I am even more popular in my school now. That's so cool!:)
I'm gay too and I haven't told my parents yet. I'm so close, I feel like I'm teetering on the edge of a cliff. I've known for around 4 years but still haven't told them. I'm in a cycle of trying to force myself to do it and then when I don't, I beat myself up for it and become very depressed. And then I get more depressed because I'm ashamed that I can't tell my own parents, who have done so much for me, the truth.
The hardest conversation I had I was lying down in my bed in so much pain from endo, sobbing and very close to passing from the pain. My mom was freaking out and nothing was helping me feel any better and it was like she could feel the pain that I was feeling. She could only pull me into a hug and let me know she was there. The two of us started talking and we got onto the subject of depression, and I admitted her that I almost attempted once back backed down. A second time, I swallowed a bunch of ibuprofen (a handful from a bottle of 200) and I was going to down my second handful when I realized that my mom would find me, and I didn’t want her to see me like this. I made myself throw up in the toilet and I went downstairs and fell asleep on the living room floor, not knowing if it was too late for me and if I would be dead tomorrow.
I had to order McDonald's for my entire office because... "hey you're going to Mickey Ds?"... from a cross the office .. from people I've talked to maybe twice...
Anyway, 18 orders. 14 of which were special/off menu requests. The teenager at he drive thru was a trainee... who was left alone while the manager training him went downstairs to fire an employee... aaaand he had a stutter.
Most difficult convo EVER
So brave
The hardest conversation I ever had was with myself when I had to admit that he would never love me the way I loved him and that he would never know.
It's way too damn early to start crying! But this is good, wholesome content so I'll let it pass just this once😭😂
I’m surprised none of these involved coming out. Surprising
These videos are so satisfying and relaxing.
First of all, that 10 year old dude is braver than I am. I'm 16 and I'm sr m struggling to tell my parents that I need help.
And the hardest conversation I had so far was when my best friend found out about my self harm.
Jana Herkle wow... I'm in the EXACT same situation. 16... self harming... talked to my friend, and haven't talked to my parents yet...
Mathilda Larsson I know I don't know you personally, but you can believe me when I tell you that I believe in you! You can get through this! You can recover and find your way!
Wow... thank you... I wish the same for you.
The hardest conversation I've ever had was when my mom found out I had been cutting myself. She started crying and I could see how much pain I'd caused her. It was the absolute worst feeling in the world.
I was with my mom when she found out she had cancer & only a short time to live, that was very hard not to break down but she was strong for Me & it made me feel even worse! That was 30 years ago it hurts just as much today. Mom's been gone for 29 years..........
the hardest conversation i ever had was november 18, 2019. my friend told me she was gonna kill herself, so i told her sister. to see her sister’s heart break killed me. i didn’t even know the sister, and i had to tell her that. the denial she was in was the saddest part. “she doesn’t cut her arms.” “she didn’t say that.” “she doesn’t smoke to feel better.” yeah, she does. i’m so, so sorry. the sister told me thank you for letting her know, and that she’d talk to my friend about it. her exact words were,” thanks for letting me know. i’ll talk to her about it.” i saw her shoulders start to heave as she turned around, and i saw her start to sob. it was horrible. but i wouldn’t take it back for the world. my friend got help, and is doing so much better now.
The hardest conversation I’ve had...I’m sure the one I will have with my parents is telling them I plan on moving out and cutting them off completely, if I can hike up the courage. They’ve taken care of me well in terms of physical needs and such, but they haven’t really cared for my emotional needs, they’re hypocritical, emotionally manipulative, and they reserve the right to do things I can’t simply because they are “grown” while complaining about how hard it is to take care of a special needs child, which I didn’t sign up for, by the way; no one can choose autism. There are moments, and have been many moments, where I acted like the adult and they did not. Our constant arguments have caused me so much stress that I’ve only told a few people about, and now I’ve hit my breaking point. “If we can’t ever see eye-to-eye on anything,” they complain, “then we shouldn’t see each other at all.” I need to find my own independence and not feel like I have to always look to them for help. That’s the dog leash they placed on me, that I’m “nothing without them”. For me, I don’t think it’s going to be hard. Once I get a car, grab all the things I can call my own, I’m walking out that door and never looking back.
I'm not crying!!! I'm just watching a Soulpancake video...
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The hardest conversation I ever had was when I broke her heart, and I still loved her
Daniel Hope What made you do that, then?
Ille Ille I had personal struggles and a serious depression, and I just couldn't handled a relationship
Daniel Hope I basically did the same one month ago. Thank you for answering me!
Yeah it's hard on both sides, speaking from experience
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My hardest conversation I had was with my Ex...It was the minute he broke my heart for pieces, I felt numb for days...He told me "I found someone else, I dont love you anymore..." I will never forget thos 9 words.
The hardest conversation I had was when I confronted my emotionally abusive and conservative mom about her actions and our relationship and how I needed to be independent, I’m 21 and I still cannot hang out with my friends when I want to i’ve only hung out with them around 4 times in my life and I always have to ask her for her permission and sometimes she’d refuse depending on how she’s feeling and I cannot move out because it’s not allowed in my country. And of course as emotionally abusive people do, they turn it about them and make you feel terrible for it. But I’m glad I faced my fears it’s so hard to face your abuser and it’s even harder when you know that they love you. It still makes me cry to think about it.
I have had 3 very hard conversations, all of them with my parents. The first was, when I was 9 and they told me my mum had breast cancer and had to get surgery & chemotherapy. The second was when I finally told them I was depressed and thought about/planned on taking my own life and that I needed help. The third was when they woke me up on a Sunday morning, just 3 weeks before I graduated high school, to tell me my uncle had passed away after battling cancer for 4 years.
I didnt think this video would affect (effect? Idk) me much but days after watching it I still thought of it.
I had the feeling that once the difficult conversation was done, life could and would go on.
They had a difficult conversation and they survived. Sometimes I don't think I will. Maybe that's melodramatic to some, but it's how I feel, and me being different from you is a good thing. Variety the spice of life.
Having to tell my friends and family about my depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. (I’m thirteen but I did it a year ago) and worrying about the outcome. Or coming out as bisexual. Hardest conversations to have.
Every single time I get the opportunity to talk with my ex, whose new girlfriend is the one girl we both used to hate, and who is only with her to fill that empty space after he broke up with me and to get revenge, about where we went wrong, trying to convince him that it’ll all be ok, and that he doesn’t have to be scared to be with me again.
0:45 she’s 86??? Oh my how does she look like she’s in her 50s or 60s to me
I was 5 when my mum told me she had cancer and tried to explain that it meant she might have to leave. It’s been 11 years since I last saw her but that conversation is crystal clear in my mind.
Explaining to my kids what happened at Pulse, and why someone would do something like that, which led to explaining hate, discrimination, violence, and eventually, war. That one was tough. That's the kind of stuff that you want to protect your children from for as long as possible, when they start asking is when they are ready to know
Totally, I'm from Orlando & having that conversation w/ my family was rough.
The guy from one of the sweetest episode of Tell My Story !😊
As a 17 year old, the hardest conversation I've ever had was to talk about what I really felt on the inside. To open up and tell another human being the troubles that go through my mind. And to admit that the way a certain person viewed me made me very insecure with myself.
I would say the hardest conversations I’ve had would be.... coming out to my mom. And finding out my father had died..
* I love how SoulPancake challenges you to seep into the big challenging thoughts, as it always ends in relief and releases emotion*
I have a few ...
• When my mom told me that my grandpa died , we were very close and I was only 10 .
• When i told my parents that I'm not okay . I cant be around people , I cant feel loved .
• When I had to tell my mom that I dont have anybody that I can trust .
• When my bestfriend took his life while I was on the phone with him . ( I was screaming telling him too come back but he never did ).
• When my brother had died . He hit me the most . We were closer than close .
Well that's all .
The one about having nobody to trust. I can't relate so much but idk how to tell anybody about it. I just have a hard time opening up to ppl.
finding out my grandma has cancer near her aorta. (april 2018)
when my black lab of 12 years had to be put down. (feb 201&)
when my mom told
me “me and you dad won’t be together for very much longer”. (september 2016)
when on new years night i found out that my aunt tried to remove fat from her stomach at home by herself, drunk. and had to be admitted to a hospital and a psychiatric facility for a couple days due to her depression of the way she looked. (janurary 2018)
those were all very recent.
I think for me it was either when my mom was about to tell me.my grandmother died, or the conversation wear I told my parents that I might have ADHD and my dad basically said no you don't. They will not admit that I am different.
Talking to my mom while in the hospital, telling her what I had done to myself and that’s why I was in there. Knowing she’s the only person who couldn’t do anything and that I did it to myself was really hard for me being a teenager.
With my mom when I told her that when I was 7 someone used to sexually molesting me for like an entire year or something , I didn’t realize what he was doing until I was a teenager , and when I realized it it shocked me really bad I used to cry so hard at night and I remember thinking to my self that I’m not enough for anyone anymore and I don’t deserve to be loved or to be happy and looking so dawn on my self
It was so hard time for me now I’m 25 and just like a year ago I really started to accept my self and love me and realizing that I deserve to be happy as much as any human being .
I love how she says “cross over.” Love to her ❤️
Hardest conversation I ever had was when my dad told me he thought about committing suicide after he divorced my mom... Finding that out broke my heart and I've never seen him the same way since then. He stayed because he wants to see my brother and I grow up, but telling me he was close to ending it has changed my way of spending time around him and cherishing every moment we have left together.
Telling my parents that I feel alone and that it makes me sad that they never hugged me and said I love you too me. People tell me my mom doesn't say it because of her cultural background but seeing my friends parents makes me want to cry.
When i had to talk with my siblings and dad about whether we should keep seeing/talking to my mom, who was and probably still is addicted to meth and god knows what else. I was the only one that said we should, being the youngest, and I eventually had to concede.
Opening up to my mom about my struggles with anxiety and why I tried so hard to keep it from her. We are very close and I held it in for years. She still doesn't understand how horrible anxiety can be and why I'm affected so much. :/
The guys who talked about breaking up a friendship hits me. I keep trying to get in touch with a close friend recently and he just flat out blanks me! I hope we don't have to have that conversation!
The toughest conversation I've ever had was telling my narcissistically abusive friend how fake and callous she was, though I felt relieved in the end to walk away from a toxic relationship. I couldn't help but feel hallow and weak afterwards, but I don't regret it at all.
My hardest conversation was when my girlfriend of 3 years told me she’d never loved me. It was awful at the time, and awful for a long while after, but I feel like it showed me what I wanted in a relationship, and what it really is to love someone.
I'm pretty sure the hardest conversation I've ever had was coming out to my mom. She knew about it (like every mom does), I mean, she could feel it. But as a narrow-minded person, it was hard to her to accept...
My hardest conversation is one I can’t yet have.
My second hardest was when my parents confronted me about my self-harm.
The third was a conversation with my older brother where he was crying as he listened to me explain why I self-harmed and how I was feeling.
probably the hardest conversation i ever had was telling my mom about my self harm (that was partly due to her/her relationship), but the conversation itself wasn't even that hard, it was the years and years of worry leading up to that conversation and what she might say and feel that made it hard.
I an not a very social person, so there are plenty of hard conversations I have had. In fact, I have social anxiety, so it's actually hard to have a conversation for me. Still, the hardest conversation I have had so far was telling my friend that I cut myself the previous day (and survived) and that I wrote a suicide letter for her.
I ultra relate with the girl who said she's practically married to her best friend and they had to take a break. Currently experiencing that right now. Things have gotten better, but the circumstances that called for the break still persist, and that hurts.