What was she thinking.where there's will.thers a way out.... thank you Lamont.for bringing this story out..if there are so many red flags.as this one was.get out.beefore it's too late.❤❤❤God Bless Lamont
The lady in need, gave the dispatcher her address over and over. She's Still trying, to get the Address right. Hello, hello....Stupid dummy... U can text, Police. A lot of people, Don't know that....
Mine too. Even though she might have made a mistake on the house number, it happens all the time that the 911 operators have trouble understanding addresses many, many time over again at least the hundreds I've heard on videos. That's the biggest consistency of anything else to these 911 calls is the operators never seem to understand most addresses. If we can hear it, why can't they hear it? I'm disgusted already by this constant problem here from coast to coast in America. It's scary to witness them having so much trouble when time is of essence. Too many people have died while the operators can't get past repeating the addresses. It's terrible.
@@ND-or5sothey all seem like complete f cking idiots to be honest, and yes ive also heard thousands of them and theres usually ALWAYS some kind of problem or they are just really mean, so yea where do they find these people?
I heard a dispatcher browbeat and criticize a woman who got caught in a flood as she was driving home from work. The dispatcher said "who would be stupid enough to go out when the streets were flooding." The woman cried and begged for help but eventually died from drowning.. It was the dispatcher's last day on the job, so she basically got away with murder. If you listen to this case on youtube, it is heartbreaking.
Same!! Two long term relationships that traumatized me and I refuse to give another a chance. I have wasted years with males and trying to heal from the toxic relationship. I have myself, my adopted daughter and my dog in my home now. We are fine. I adopted her from a traumatic childhood at 3. I’m close to sixty with two other grown children and they are all I will ever need!!
Me too! Been alone now since I'm 46. I'll be 67 in January. Had a very brief relationship with a guy whom I admired from afar for 10 years. Within two months of finally meeting him and going out with him, found out very quickly he was an alcoholic and abusive verbally, mentally, and probably, physically. I told him to "go to hell" before finding that part out. That was 12 years ago and I've been entirely alone, not even family or friends, ever since. It gets lonely but I'm fine.
Fathers here in Bangladesh and other South Asian countries are the exact polar opposite. They don’t even know what trust is and they often pressure their daughters into marriage with the guys they randomly pick by themselves. I’m against forced marriage and I’ll stick to all the words of advice often told by the more open-minded fathers of the Western world.
Shawnee some guys are good guys , I am , nocriminal record , drugs , alcohol , violence , but u would not go out hiking and grab a cup of joe with me cause I'm not rich enough , right ?
You're way off base. Sounds more like you have a complex or some type of insecurity. Making assumptions about why I choose to remain single, is idiotic and closed minded at best.
The best decision ever.. was in a toxic relationship with a narcissist ex for 13yrs and called it quit been single Mom for the past 12yrs and I'm stress free and my circle is smaller
@@louisehudson1915or, it’s the desire to be the person who fixes the other. I’ve been guilty of that in a couple past relationships…….. it makes you feel like a failure
Yep the first sign is whittling - They just snip at you bit by bit to see what they can get away with. That's the first sign. Male or female don't put up with it. I'm familiar with the case- the first time he critiqued my body would be the last
They all tee me off. I'm surprised they don't ask you what you had for lunch. And as far as asking for someone's address ( a huge waste of time ) doesn't it, or shouldn't it, show up right on their screen? They should just verify the address so the person in need may just say " yes" or "no". Heck when I worked at a pizza shop 20+ years ago we had that technology. Thanks for letting me vent.
@@julieneild4505 Maybe do some research and you will figure out that back then the 911 system did not have the ability to figure out your address based on your phone. She was giving them the wrong numerical, thus they could not figure out what house to go to, the police were already sent to the area, they were just trying to figure out which house!! Are you brain dead? you think your pizza shop has addresses pop up because of a phone number... could it be because the phone number and address were both obtained the first time the person ordered from you for delivery and you keep that date on hand?! Do you think your pizza place can magically get an address from a phone number!! Ugh, you people scare me! Stick with the pizza making please!
I'm 54 and I gave up on trying to find Mr. Wright a long long time ago and it's too messed up of a world to try to find anyone now. I'm perfectly happy being by myself
@@jellybear35 it's really a shame that you are forced to those feelings. I'm 72 years old retired disabled UAW member and a male veteran. I've been forced to adapt to a kind of exile mostly because the social network I enjoyed is gone. Examples, amateur theater, blue's/jazz clubs/legion, VFW/ family gatherings/ and the list goes on. My heart goes out to the suffering of others that haven't been as lucky as my life's been for the most part. I try to pay it forward in any small way possible to homeless veterans especially. Have a most wonderful day .
researchers consistently fail to address the magnitude of this issue. People ultimately need love and validation. When a man doesn't matter to a woman, when she doesn't gaze at him with a loving smile, tell him she wants him/needs him, that he matters to her. A lot of guys have never had that. This will cause disillusionment/isolation/soul sadness and mental health issues in men. No amount of material things, por* will be able to replace that. The problem in the west is 2 fold. Incels can't get a woman and the ones that do get one, end up in divorce/breaking up or being cheated on and losing more than the lady. So they swear off relationships and end up lonely all the same. (Mgtow) Both have the effect of creating lonely, angry, atomised ppl and broken society with plummeting birth rates. And can spell the end of that society. What are we seeing in the west now? Falling sperm counts, falling testosterone levels, births, marriage, anomie and a rapidly ageing society, with catastrophic debt levels. White ppl used to have close family bonds but now they no longer keep ties with family and send old ppl to homes. Jobs for life are a thing of the past, from where they used to form friends. White ppl lost their matchmaking culture and used to marry form within their own tried and tested social circle. With all that now gone, internet dating and cold approaching/PUA random women that u know nothing about is the way. Which can be dehumanising and toxic. Peace
Hell YA! I have been single most of my adult life and have loved it!! I still have "fun" here and there if you know what I mean, but coming home to a quiet house most of the time is just fabulous!!
@Louis275 I thought the 911 dispatcher interaction was mishandled too but, when you realize that the victim gave the wrong address, it makes it make more sense. The dispatcher repeats what she said twice because the address that she gave probably doesn't exist.. Either in panic or uncertainty, she reversed the numbers in the address when she gave her address.
@@NuffinEditedbut Kelly, in her stress, did not give the address...she made an error. As Lamont later states the address is 4025. When the dispatcher put in 4205, if there wasn't a corresponding address, she would know immediately it wasn't right. So she requestioned & immediately called back, wanting to send assistance.
As soon as she called, another dispatcher was sending police. That's how it works, retard. None of you spastic finger pointing retards have any idea how to do that job. The call comes into a room full of people. The caller was frantic, speaking fast and unclear. And you retards want to attack the dispatcher? Keep your Burger King job. No way you could handle that..
That Piss Poor Excuse of a Man put His Hands on a Woman?!?! If You have to prove Your Manhood by putting Fear into the Person You want to spend the rest of Your Life with, or anyone else then You're not a Man at all!! And then putting Your hands on a Lady?!?! Where I come from We're taught RESPECT!! My Dad taught Me to NEVER lay My hands on a Lady not EVER no matter what!! And then the Chicken Shit takes the Coward's way out after shooting Her?! OOOOHHHH This story makes My Blood Boil from the moment they met til the Horrible End!! Absolutely Ridiculous!! Thank You for Sharing this with us Lamont.
If you are starting a relationship with a guy/woman, and they have been married before, find out what happened in the marriage. Don't be afraid to ask questions. This will give you a better understanding of that person.
You’re 100% right I was married for 30 years and my husband had a whole different life for 10 years. We didn’t know about. My kids are already grown and I’m more than positive the person he’s with now she’s the same age as my son they live with her parents and I’m positively sure they don’t know how his pass was never been so happy in my whole life being by myself.
100%. My friend was dating a man I and another friend had really bad vibes about. She thought he was 'the one', but we thought he was creepy. He had a great job, made great money, nice car, nice house but something was off. My friend eventually did a little background check to find out...he had a restraining order against him from his last gf. He was charged with stalking another woman. He went to jail for cussing out a judge during a court proceeding. That was the legal stuff, then the other stuff was...his daughter from his marriage changed her name to her mother's maiden name. He was fired from his high paying job but found another one like it. This guy was just bad all over and she really thought he was Mr. Wonderful. Take a minute and do your homework.
Red flags and those gut feelings are everything! I met the ex in my life and on the first date something was telling me to run. I didn’t and payed for that decision with a very traumatic and abusive situation. I will never go against my gut instinct again…
If your partner EVER EVER EVER lays a finger on you, RUN. Don't fall for the lies, it'll never happen again, it was an accident, YOU made me do it, blah blah blah. They NEVER "get better", only worse. Please, make a plan & leave - don't tell them, just leave.
Except in this case "just leave" is rather difficult when they work at the SAME hospital. So she has to quit her job to leave, that's what you are saying.
😢 😳😓 She didn't want, to be Alone with Him. Then, what she Marry him for? That's a definite Red flag, Right There. It shouldn't of went, any further....PERIOD!!
Nobody would take that job then. Imagine getting jailed for not hearing the caller. It's frustrating but saying she should be jailed is crazy. Every 911 operator would be jailed for making a mistake.
Joseph, read my comment, the woman was giving the dispatcher the wrong numerical so they could not find her, that is why they kept asking! Maybe you should be jailed!!
VERY WELL put! Be wary of not only who you marry but, who you go to lunch with. Agreed. Also, be wary of ANYONE who is next door to you. Perhaps, treat everyone as an enemy unless and until they can prove otherwise.
💯 I agree with what you said about public proposals. That seems to be a new trend now. People invite everyone to watch them propose. Some gatherings are just as big as the wedding. That should be private between the man and woman.
The address was wrong, thats why she asked Kelly so many times. It was not in the system, they had to find the right address using tracking program. Listen to the story paying attention, cause you clearly didnt 🤦🏻♀️
@JoyP-rw5bc ABSOLUTELY 💯 they do!! Have you ever seen the bill from an Anesthesiologist? Your life is in their hands, literally. Too much of a good thing, just ask Michael Jackson👀 well, scratch that...
Yea, watch-out for rural dogs, always carry pepper spray. "What is wrong with people"?? We are paying the consequences of our consumption of altered foods (gmo's); which have altered the working of our neurons. Our cell phones, most people sleep with them as if they were pillows. Our fetuses and young kids are exposed to these devices at a time when their system is developing at tremendous speed. I see nannies/mothers walking babies with cells on top of strollers/carriages. Experts told us during the infancy of these poisons that no kid under 15 should spend more than 10 minutes on the devices. "What's wrong with people"???? oh, nelly!
Women are too soon to rush into a relationship because they don’t want to grow old alone and society makes women think they are nothing w/o a man. I have looked for love for a long, long time over the years but I was cautious and selective and I am so thankful I was! There is so much violence and turmoil in marriages and relationships today that is hard to trust anyone. I am glad I am single and can live my life as I see fit. RIP Kelly and fly with the angels🙏🏻🔥
@@danoia4Agreed, especially when his issues started escalating as opposed to decreasing. Sad, but this poor woman had so many warnings during the dating phase w/this demonic entity.😢
Can you imagine all the people that were under anesthesia at his mercy.... This is what scares the crap out of me and what keeps me from getting surgeries is you don't know the people who are putting you under and working on you.... More and more health care workers are becoming known to be psychopaths.... Truly quite scary!!!
That's what I was thinking... I dialed them once for a neighbor and it pinpointed my location with no problem. This event happened recently though...😢😮
They ABSOLUTELY CAN and do! The operator is supposed to put the call through immediately and it goes through to fire and then EMS gets the same information simultaneously and they can head to the scene. They’re equipped with GPS tracking devices and can track the call. They operators lack of response time to sending calls is what causes problems.
My dad told me at the age of 12 and the age of 15..."all it takes is you allowing ONE slap, ONE hit, even if he claims he's just joking,..So stand your ground and make it clear it is NOT OK"...or he will do it again.
HARD TO LISTEN TO THAT 911 RECORDING!😥terrifying to know Kellys daughter saw this “love affair” and its awful ending….geeeez ! Sincere condolences to Kellys family! Was this monster ever married before? if so, wondering about the “whereabouts” of that woman…🤔 Lamont, I agree with you about proposals Should be private and honest…he put her in an ugly spot.. They say that nurses are the worst in relationships as they want to care for and “save” people…this monster could not be saved! RIP KELLY❤❤
In my case, my monster told his next victim I just left and divorced him for no reason. Their relationship lasted 5 months then she came to me and asked what really happened. Narcissists lie and they will never change.
I think she was as crazy as him by staying and tolerating his demented behavior. Once his mask started slipping into something else, I'd be out of there in a hot second (been there, done that)!
Her parents did not go to the wedding. The couple had come back to house after the wedding. No one else came as they wewe arguing. One of Kelly’s friends begged her to leave.
My self being a combat medic never did and never would harm my wife my children or anyone my wife would rub my chest when I would have nightmares and calm me down I have never hit any woman and I told my 2 sons if u ever hit your wife you have me to deal with I have almost been killed because of taking up for women and kids who being abused but I never backed down I'm old now and I will always protect anyone from being harmed
Such a sad story...I was in bad relationship after bad relationship...decided it's not my thing...and been single since. I am sad hearing this story. Great storytelling once again.
There is a lesson here, if you have any red flags on who you are dating its always best to end it you don't want a lifetime of grief and in her case death. Such a heartbreaking story.
Men can just as well be physically and mentally abused by a woman too but in this case that Doctor was a coward by taking that women's life and then taking his own life cause he was to much of a coward to face the consequences for what he did to her.
Lamont no offence to Kelly but theres no way I'd have stayed with him. I've been in an abusive marriage. The first and last time he dragged me out of bed by my hair. My son and I were gone the next day in just the clothes we were wearing. That's all I'm going to say about it. I hope her son is ok now. Thank you for sharing 🙂👍💖
I know what you're saying. I had my hair ripped off of my scalp in clumps because my husband said I spent too much time with my mother on mother's day.
@daisymaefrench4041 Sorry to hear that happened to you 😔 I hope your ok now. I divorced him soon after. He wasn't a good husband or father. I wouldn't let anyone else do that to me again
I was shoved up against a wall, my husband putting his forearm into my neck bracing me against the wall and pummeling me. Busted lip, cut above my eyebrow, bloody nose, and a bruised face. I had him arrested, filed charges, his family bailed him out, and he left town without justice being served. I blamed myself for the longest time. The D.A. convinced me it wasn't my fault, when he told me that my husband had done this before.
I'm a retired RN, and Kelly would be my age now had she not been murdered. I'll be 60 shortly, and I don't have to be scared of my companions as they're cats! I think that they are MUCH safer than men and after one very long and one very short marriage, the 1st ending because he decided that the grass was greener in someone else's bed, I never dated again. Ironically, apart from being a family friend, husband number 2 was a work colleague, but in my case, I earned more, not that this had any impact on the end of this marriage within months. I am grateful for my animals who love me unconditionally, and that's enough! Poor Kelly and her son! Doctors aren't always nice people either, and they have a higher than average degree of sociopathy. It just comes with the type A personality and the position. What an asshole and may he rot in Hell!
@@cathysUtubeXOXO Well, it was the wrong address, so it probably wasn't coming up in their mapping system. Dispatchers do need to know WHERE to send the officers.
The address was wrong, thats why she asked Kelly so many times. It was not in the system, they had to find the right address using tracking program. Listen to the story paying attention, cause you clearly didnt 🤦🏻♀️
The address was wrong, thats why she asked Kelly so many times. It was not in the system, they had to find the right address using tracking program. Listen to the story paying attention, cause you clearly didnt 🤦🏻♀️
These dispatchers need serious investigation
What was she thinking.where there's will.thers a way out.... thank you Lamont.for bringing this story out..if there are so many red flags.as this one was.get out.beefore it's too late.❤❤❤God Bless Lamont
The lady got shot on the third call when she gave out the address on the first call. They should have dispatched a car out there immediately.
They dont need to know everything dispatchers need training, people die because of there mistakes
agree
The lady in need, gave the dispatcher her address over and over. She's Still trying, to get the Address right. Hello, hello....Stupid dummy... U can text, Police. A lot of people, Don't know that....
The 911 dispatcher was getting on my nerves
Mine too. Even though she might have made a mistake on the house number, it happens all the time that the 911 operators have trouble understanding addresses many, many time over again at least the hundreds I've heard on videos. That's the biggest consistency of anything else to these 911 calls is the operators never seem to understand most addresses. If we can hear it, why can't they hear it? I'm disgusted already by this constant problem here from coast to coast in America. It's scary to witness them having so much trouble when time is of essence. Too many people have died while the operators can't get past repeating the addresses. It's terrible.
your fired 😤
Mines too!
@@ND-or5sothey all seem like complete f cking idiots to be honest, and yes ive also heard thousands of them and theres usually ALWAYS some kind of problem or they are just really mean, so yea where do they find these people?
I heard a dispatcher browbeat and criticize a woman who got caught in a flood as she was driving home from work. The dispatcher said "who would be stupid enough to go out when the streets were flooding." The woman cried and begged for help but eventually died from drowning.. It was the dispatcher's last day on the job, so she basically got away with murder. If you listen to this case on youtube, it is heartbreaking.
I’m 59 and I have trauma from relationships so I’m done. I keep my circle very small and I’m happy being alone
Same!! Two long term relationships that traumatized me and I refuse to give another a chance. I have wasted years with males and trying to heal from the toxic relationship. I have myself, my adopted daughter and my dog in my home now. We are fine. I adopted her from a traumatic childhood at 3. I’m close to sixty with two other grown children and they are all I will ever need!!
ABSOLUTELY me too and my circle of friends is basically my grown children❤
True better be alone than being in a toxic relationship
@,mayflowerpdx5706, Even booty calls can be risky if the guy is living in his feminine.
Me too! Been alone now since I'm 46. I'll be 67 in January. Had a very brief relationship with a guy whom I admired from afar for 10 years. Within two months of finally meeting him and going out with him, found out very quickly he was an alcoholic and abusive verbally, mentally, and probably, physically. I told him to "go to hell" before finding that part out. That was 12 years ago and I've been entirely alone, not even family or friends, ever since.
It gets lonely but I'm fine.
My dying fathers wise words of advice (1929-2022) TRUST NO ONE
QUESTION EVERYTHING
Blood line of John Brown? if so, I can see why he would be suspicious of the heart of men. As a Black man I tip my hat to forward thinkers.
My dad always says don’t ever trust anyone because sometimes you can’t even trust yourself
Fathers here in Bangladesh and other South Asian countries are the exact polar opposite. They don’t even know what trust is and they often pressure their daughters into marriage with the guys they randomly pick by themselves.
I’m against forced marriage and I’ll stick to all the words of advice often told by the more open-minded fathers of the Western world.
Great advice
I live by those words.
I'm 47 and just gave up dating all together. Been single for 4 years now...alot less stress.
Shawnee some guys are good guys , I am , nocriminal record , drugs , alcohol , violence , but u would not go out hiking and grab a cup of joe with me cause I'm not rich enough , right ?
You're way off base. Sounds more like you have a complex or some type of insecurity. Making assumptions about why I choose to remain single, is idiotic and closed minded at best.
The best decision ever.. was in a toxic relationship with a narcissist ex for 13yrs and called it quit been single Mom for the past 12yrs and I'm stress free and my circle is smaller
I've been single, for 10 years.
@@77shawnie You know truth hurts so at least try to be real gggggeeeessssssssss
If someone shows you who they are, believe them.
- Maya Angelou
ABSOLUTELY!
Yep wish I'd known that & not wasted 30 years thinking things would change 🤨🙄👿 Guess it's that false front they hide behind!
I'm so glad I got away from my ex 3 years ago.
@angelowens7497 Narcissist?
@@louisehudson1915or, it’s the desire to be the person who fixes the other. I’ve been guilty of that in a couple past relationships…….. it makes you feel like a failure
A controlling personality in a relationship is always going to be trouble.
Yep the first sign is whittling - They just snip at you bit by bit to see what they can get away with. That's the first sign. Male or female don't put up with it. I'm familiar with the case- the first time he critiqued my body would be the last
I just turned 50. I get depressed sometimes about being single. This story makes me be thankful. It could be worse. This guy's a psycho.
Yes me also it's tough being alone😢
OMG, I'm in the same boat like u. I've been single, for 10 years. Plus, I live alone. I felt terrible... But after this video, plus the phone Call, 😮😢
Yep same here. 😊
@@juicyjules7409 the holidays make it worse for me. Seems to amplify the feelings.
It's alright gals 1 day
Dispatcher’s like that should be charged some type of way . 😡 😡 😡
OR MAYBE they shouldn't since they were just trying to get the correct numerical since in her panicked state she was giving them the wrong number!!
Agree
They probably get reviewed on it and then considered for termination.
This is precisely why I share my home and my life with dogs.
Me too❤
Ditto! (And I think he is gross looking personally.)
AMEN!!! 🐾🐾♥️
Animal companionship over men who are total cheaters and abusers ! I only share my home and my life with my cats 🐱👩🏻🦰🐱
❤❤
911 dispatcher teed me off 🤬🤬
Me, too😡😡😡
Yeah she was an idiot
They all tee me off. I'm surprised they don't ask you what you had for lunch. And as far as asking for someone's address ( a huge waste of time ) doesn't it, or shouldn't it, show up right on their screen? They should just verify the address so the person in need may just say " yes" or "no". Heck when I worked at a pizza shop 20+ years ago we had that technology. Thanks for letting me vent.
Yea, she hears all these gun shots and then asks for her address. Really??
@@julieneild4505 Maybe do some research and you will figure out that back then the 911 system did not have the ability to figure out your address based on your phone. She was giving them the wrong numerical, thus they could not figure out what house to go to, the police were already sent to the area, they were just trying to figure out which house!! Are you brain dead? you think your pizza shop has addresses pop up because of a phone number... could it be because the phone number and address were both obtained the first time the person ordered from you for delivery and you keep that date on hand?! Do you think your pizza place can magically get an address from a phone number!! Ugh, you people scare me! Stick with the pizza making please!
I'm 54 and I gave up on trying to find Mr. Wright a long long time ago and it's too messed up of a world to try to find anyone now. I'm perfectly happy being by myself
Same here
@@jellybear35 it's really a shame that you are forced to those feelings. I'm 72 years old retired disabled UAW member and a male veteran. I've been forced to adapt to a kind of exile mostly because the social network I enjoyed is gone. Examples, amateur theater, blue's/jazz clubs/legion, VFW/ family gatherings/ and the list goes on. My heart goes out to the suffering of others that haven't been as lucky as my life's been for the most part. I try to pay it forward in any small way possible to homeless veterans especially. Have a most wonderful day .
@@rc6888I triple that💕
Same here.
researchers consistently fail to address the magnitude of this issue.
People ultimately need love and validation. When a man doesn't matter to a woman, when she doesn't gaze at him with a loving smile, tell him she wants him/needs him, that he matters to her.
A lot of guys have never had that.
This will cause disillusionment/isolation/soul sadness and mental health issues in men. No amount of material things, por* will be able to replace that.
The problem in the west is 2 fold. Incels can't get a woman and the ones that do get one, end up in divorce/breaking up or being cheated on and losing more than the lady. So they swear off relationships and end up lonely all the same. (Mgtow)
Both have the effect of creating lonely, angry, atomised ppl and broken society with plummeting birth rates. And can spell the end of that society.
What are we seeing in the west now?
Falling sperm counts, falling testosterone levels, births, marriage, anomie and a rapidly ageing society, with catastrophic debt levels.
White ppl used to have close family bonds but now they no longer keep ties with family and send old ppl to homes.
Jobs for life are a thing of the past, from where they used to form friends.
White ppl lost their matchmaking culture and used to marry form within their own tried and tested social circle.
With all that now gone, internet dating and cold approaching/PUA random women that u know nothing about is the way. Which can be dehumanising and toxic.
Peace
You’ll never find true peace of mind until you’re ok with being alone and learn to enjoy freedom.
So true
💯
Hell YA! I have been single most of my adult life and have loved it!! I still have "fun" here and there if you know what I mean, but coming home to a quiet house most of the time is just fabulous!!
Amen 🙏✝️🌟💜
Lonely women are worse than a sow in heat.
I rather be alone for the rest of my life, than to be with a man obsessed and abusive. It's scary.
Women are statistically more abusive in relationships. I’m living proof
Or be with a manipulative woman is even worse. Watch snapped. Then tell me it’s the men……..
Ikr me 2
She should not have even married that creep !!!!
Him being a doctor hate to see what he did to patients behind closed doors.
@@joannedonaldson5818OMGosh, I thought the same thing. You can’t trust anyone. Scary.
@@user-is6de8pp7k always use your intuition i say it saves you from these souls that destory another soul
She married him because she was afraid of what he'd do if she didn't. Sadly appeasement didn't work.
Some men know how to play it cool until married. Red flags came up, but she didn't end it. Unbelievable.
This is one of the most incompetent 911 operators I ever heard!!!
My god, it was making me sick to hear that and then angry, to think those were her last moments 😡
For real. She says he’s beating her and the operator is like: who is? Say his name out loud. Say the address out loud
This dispatcher is the one you never want to get when you call 911. The victim is screaming and a gun goes off and she is like "hello". "hello".
@Louis275 I thought the 911 dispatcher interaction was mishandled too but, when you realize that the victim gave the wrong address, it makes it make more sense. The dispatcher repeats what she said twice because the address that she gave probably doesn't exist.. Either in panic or uncertainty, she reversed the numbers in the address when she gave her address.
She’s a bad dispatcher. But I have heard much worse.
Please God let me never ever be at the mercy of a 911 operator. They are often never helpful! They take too long.
That's what I was thinking. She gave the address just send the cops. Stop asking 99 questions
It was the wrong address. The operator reads back the correct address. @@NuffinEdited
@@NuffinEditedbut Kelly, in her stress, did not give the address...she made an error. As Lamont later states the address is 4025. When the dispatcher put in 4205, if there wasn't a corresponding address, she would know immediately it wasn't right. So she requestioned & immediately called back, wanting to send assistance.
Retard.
As soon as she called, another dispatcher was sending police. That's how it works, retard. None of you spastic finger pointing retards have any idea how to do that job. The call comes into a room full of people. The caller was frantic, speaking fast and unclear.
And you retards want to attack the dispatcher? Keep your Burger King job. No way you could handle that..
Her son is traumatized for life.
My point of view has always been, if you have children stay single until they become 19. Do not introduce a stepmom/dad into their world.
😪😪😪😪😪
That is insane. She should have grabbed her son and fled town before this wedding.
Oh wow. Be careful who you get involved with!
Everything that shines ain't gold 🥇🪙 my late grandma used to say,
I can't stress this enough, first signs of abuse walk the hell away and keep walking!! 😢
there s nothing good out there
@@doneladams9911 Good luck convincing those in blind love, better listen to the Spinners,
"Love Don't Love Nobody"
I'd think she would look for clues first!. When he was screaming at his garbage can for cheating on him..I'd run! 😂
And you wonder why people want to remain single. (Rhetorical)
Ya cuz this is so common 😅
I'm more worried about the women out there after this latest election. No joke!
@@davidclemens1578 gee that's brilliant bumpkin
@@Trevybaby read my comment again Copernicus especially the last word.
FFS@@davidclemens1578
That Piss Poor Excuse of a Man put His Hands on a Woman?!?!
If You have to prove Your Manhood by putting Fear into the Person You want to spend the rest of Your Life with, or anyone else then You're not a Man at all!!
And then putting Your hands on a Lady?!?! Where I come from We're taught RESPECT!!
My Dad taught Me to NEVER lay My hands on a Lady not EVER no matter what!!
And then the Chicken Shit takes the Coward's way out after shooting Her?!
OOOOHHHH This story makes My Blood Boil from the moment they met til the Horrible End!!
Absolutely Ridiculous!!
Thank You for Sharing this with us Lamont.
I hope the doctor didn't kill any of his patients.
Probably did in a passive way.
Probably gave zero fucks about them by the sounds of it!
🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
If you are starting a relationship with a guy/woman, and they have been married before, find out what happened in the marriage. Don't be afraid to ask questions. This will give you a better understanding of that person.
You’re 100% right I was married for 30 years and my husband had a whole different life for 10 years. We didn’t know about. My kids are already grown and I’m more than positive the person he’s with now she’s the same age as my son they live with her parents and I’m positively sure they don’t know how his pass was never been so happy in my whole life being by myself.
@@Sch586 I'm so glad you got out of that with your life.
100%. My friend was dating a man I and another friend had really bad vibes about. She thought he was 'the one', but we thought he was creepy. He had a great job, made great money, nice car, nice house but something was off. My friend eventually did a little background check to find out...he had a restraining order against him from his last gf. He was charged with stalking another woman. He went to jail for cussing out a judge during a court proceeding. That was the legal stuff, then the other stuff was...his daughter from his marriage changed her name to her mother's maiden name. He was fired from his high paying job but found another one like it. This guy was just bad all over and she really thought he was Mr. Wonderful. Take a minute and do your homework.
@@esterdrass4964 Agree!
As if they will be honest about what truly happened
Red flags are important to pay attention to.🚩🚩
Red flags and those gut feelings are everything! I met the ex in my life and on the first date something was telling me to run. I didn’t and payed for that decision with a very traumatic and abusive situation. I will never go against my gut instinct again…
@ I am so sorry that happened to you, but going through an experience like that only makes you stronger and wiser.
This story was more than just red flags. They were red lights with sirens going off.
There were too many red flags and I don’t understand why she would go through marrying this fool.
Don't really know someone until you marry them I heard real 💯 talk
Women love fools like this
Because she wanted to be married and women will degradate themselves. This is where women make the mistake
Love stinks
@@DaResetButton sadly a lot seems to fall for men like these.
If your partner EVER EVER EVER lays a finger on you, RUN. Don't fall for the lies, it'll never happen again, it was an accident, YOU made me do it, blah blah blah. They NEVER "get better", only worse. Please, make a plan & leave - don't tell them, just leave.
Yeah I agree. Anyone that believes that they can violate you that way, has no respect for you from jump. Leave quietly and let others know.
Happened to my mom. You're are 110% correct
@@johnnyv1938😢😢😢😢😢😢🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@MegaBored2 and that goes both ways also for men who’s wife hits them
Except in this case "just leave" is rather difficult when they work at the SAME hospital. So she has to quit her job to leave, that's what you are saying.
i hate listning to these operators !!!
😢 😳😓 She didn't want, to be Alone with Him. Then, what she Marry him for? That's a definite Red flag, Right There. It shouldn't of went, any further....PERIOD!!
Thanks Lamont for the story. So sad.
That gray dismal day with the leafless gray trees was the perfect setting for this story.
That 911 operator should be jailed
Nobody would take that job then. Imagine getting jailed for not hearing the caller. It's frustrating but saying she should be jailed is crazy. Every 911 operator would be jailed for making a mistake.
Joseph, read my comment, the woman was giving the dispatcher the wrong numerical so they could not find her, that is why they kept asking! Maybe you should be jailed!!
@@bettysmith4527
Scary that 151 people gave the OPs comment a thumbs up.🤯
I always feel it's safer for me to remain single, and I'm content staying that way.
At 56 it's to hard because people are bat shit crazy
VERY WELL put! Be wary of not only who you marry but, who you go to lunch with. Agreed. Also, be wary of ANYONE who is next door to you. Perhaps, treat everyone as an enemy unless and until they can prove otherwise.
agreed, I trust no one
That place your walking around looks creepy with the foggy 😮
It’s fog.
@billdornan4379 😆😆😆😆
Absolutely horrible.
Crazy ass psychopath
Amen
Women sure know how to pick em!
Red flags galore 😢😮
Most surgeons /doctors are high up on the psychopathy scale. It’s one of the jobs they lean towards.
Blame the women for men's actions huh? How weak are you? @@Barnabas45
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That is so heartbreaking Lamont x
This makes me sad. Her poor son.
My thoughts to
If you have people staying at your house so you don’t have to be alone with your partner that’s a tale sign… to get out of the relationship!!!!
Tell tail ? More like a giant 100% reason to leave and never return.
$350, 000 looks like a total steal for that place
But it was 2016. It’s probably twice that now
Stupid dispatchers I SWEAR!!!!
The 911 dispatcher!!! ughhhh!😢
💯 I agree with what you said about public proposals. That seems to be a new trend now. People invite everyone to watch them propose. Some gatherings are just as big as the wedding. That should be private between the man and woman.
She gave the 911 operator the crucial information to start a police car out, WTF!
In her panic she gave the wrong information. The incorrect information didn’t return an address to send them to. And she called back.
Shots were heard during the phone call. The police would not have made it there in time to help.
EXACTLY!!!
The address was wrong, thats why she asked Kelly so many times. It was not in the system, they had to find the right address using tracking program. Listen to the story paying attention, cause you clearly didnt 🤦🏻♀️
I’m a nurse so I can tell you that anesthesiologists are the highest paid doctors in the hospital.
So they're paid more than the doctors?
@ An anesthesiologist is a doctor.
@JoyP-rw5bc ABSOLUTELY 💯 they do!! Have you ever seen the bill from an Anesthesiologist?
Your life is in their hands, literally. Too much of a good thing, just ask Michael Jackson👀 well, scratch that...
Yes they are!!
My younger one is aiming to be one, going the AF route
Oh come on! The dogs don’t want to play. They want to chew on your ankles Lamont. Those are ankle biting dogs.😂
WTF is wrong with people????
Stay safe Lamont
cheers from south el monte California
LIVE STRONG & ROCK ON!!!!!
Yea, watch-out for rural dogs, always carry pepper spray.
"What is wrong with people"??
We are paying the consequences of our consumption of altered foods (gmo's); which have altered the working of our neurons. Our cell phones, most people sleep with them as if they were pillows.
Our fetuses and young kids are exposed to these devices at a time when their system is developing at tremendous speed. I see nannies/mothers walking babies with cells on top of strollers/carriages.
Experts told us during the infancy of these poisons that no kid under 15 should spend more than 10 minutes on the devices.
"What's wrong with people"???? oh, nelly!
people? It is men again, male viiolence against women again
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Why do I remain single, doesn't take a genious.
That place were you were walking with the fog gives me bad vibes
Its t.h everywhere is fog during this time. My home
So sad to hear a life is taken 5 hours after a man marries the love of his "life."
She got involved with the wrong guy for sure. Women don't always make the right choices to feel like she had to marry a controlling narcissist.
Women are too soon to rush into a relationship because they don’t want to grow old alone and society makes women think they are nothing w/o a man. I have looked for love for a long, long time over the years but I was cautious and selective and I am so thankful I was! There is so much violence and turmoil in marriages and relationships today that is hard to trust anyone. I am glad I am single and can live my life as I see fit. RIP Kelly and fly with the angels🙏🏻🔥
Something tells me he didn't love her...
@StacyL. Why she marry his jerk ass so sad
Control.!! unfortunately, but definitely not to be confused with real love for someone.
So sad 😞, what happened to her son I'm praying 🙏 he is ok, make living with his grandparents.
I don’t understand why his parents didn’t help her more by ringing the police or distracting him in some way .🤔🇬🇧
Poor woman...😔😥...
Why she even marry him knowing how he was
@@danoia4Agreed, especially when his issues started escalating as opposed to decreasing. Sad, but this poor woman had so many warnings during the dating phase w/this demonic entity.😢
You are so correct. Once he does it once he will do it again. Ladies need to choose gentle men.
Can you imagine all the people that were under anesthesia at his mercy.... This is what scares the crap out of me and what keeps me from getting surgeries is you don't know the people who are putting you under and working on you.... More and more health care workers are becoming known to be psychopaths.... Truly quite scary!!!
From psychopaths to drug addicts…we’re putting our lives in these people’s hands😬
Lamont, you are so much more knowledgeable than your years. Thank you ❤
How come 911 can’t just trace a call? How much time could be saved without having to get an address from someone running for their life?
That's what I was thinking... I dialed them once for a neighbor and it pinpointed my location with no problem. This event happened recently though...😢😮
They ABSOLUTELY CAN and do! The operator is supposed to put the call through immediately and it goes through to fire and then EMS gets the same information simultaneously and they can head to the scene. They’re equipped with GPS tracking devices and can track the call. They operators lack of response time to sending calls is what causes problems.
My dad told me at the age of 12 and the age of 15..."all it takes is you allowing ONE slap, ONE hit, even if he claims he's just joking,..So stand your ground and make it clear it is NOT OK"...or he will do it again.
I did exactly that..phoned the Police the first and only time i got slapped..my x is still shocked after 25 years
Thanks for telling these stories, I appreciate you brother. This case is wild.
HARD TO LISTEN TO THAT 911 RECORDING!😥terrifying to know Kellys daughter saw this “love affair” and its awful ending….geeeez ! Sincere condolences to Kellys family!
Was this monster ever married before? if so, wondering about the “whereabouts” of that woman…🤔
Lamont, I agree with you about proposals Should be private and honest…he put her in an ugly spot..
They say that nurses are the worst in relationships as they want to care for and “save” people…this monster could not be saved!
RIP KELLY❤❤
In my case, my monster told his next victim I just left and divorced him for no reason. Their relationship lasted 5 months then she came to me and asked what really happened. Narcissists lie and they will never change.
Any previous ex probably had to leave town and change their name to get away from him
You can't change a person's spots/stripes!
I think she was as crazy as him by staying and tolerating his demented behavior. Once his mask started slipping into something else, I'd be out of there in a hot second (been there, done that)!
Bc she wanted to change him. Women loveeeeee dopamine.
I wonder what happen to he’s ex wife?
You have gotten very good at this. I really enjoy listening to you.
Rest in paradise Kelly😪
Crazy story! Well told.
Her parents did not go to the wedding. The couple had come back to house after the wedding. No one else came as they wewe arguing. One of Kelly’s friends begged her to leave.
God bless her heart and bless you Lamont be safe 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
Wow~One of the saddest stories I've ever heard.....
My self being a combat medic never did and never would harm my wife my children or anyone my wife would rub my chest when I would have nightmares and calm me down I have never hit any woman and I told my 2 sons if u ever hit your wife you have me to deal with I have almost been killed because of taking up for women and kids who being abused but I never backed down I'm old now and I will always protect anyone from being harmed
You were brought up well, young man. I salute you. I do.
I appreciate your caring and respectful presentations. You have a quality channel.
Such a sad story...I was in bad relationship after bad relationship...decided it's not my thing...and been single since. I am sad hearing this story. Great storytelling once again.
Good morning Lamont ' thank you for your videos and your hard work and research. Be safe out there in the jungle ❤
You can't tell me she didn't see the signs before the wedding. She most likely married him out of fear.
👺👺 when you become this desensitized with your job and humanity and show zero compassion or patience in this type of a job then you need to be fired!
It's not lack of compassion, it's the dispatcher DESPERATELY trying to get the correct address out of her!
Sad, RIP🕊️♥️, thanks, Lamont!
Rude 911 operator
There is a lesson here, if you have any red flags on who you are dating its always best to end it you don't want a lifetime
of grief and in her case death. Such a heartbreaking story.
"What's love got to do with it" remarked Tina as Ike was allegedly walling on her.
Men can just as well be physically and mentally abused by a woman too but in this case that Doctor was a coward by taking that women's life and then taking his own life cause he was to much of a coward to face the consequences for what he did to her.
Thank you lamont for this story 🙏
Being single is a real blessing
Very sad story😏 Rip Kelly🙏🏼
Thank you Lamont for the upload.👍🏼
Horrible dispatcher, hopefully she changed careers.
Lamont no offence to Kelly but theres no way I'd have stayed with him. I've been in an abusive marriage. The first and last time he dragged me out of bed by my hair. My son and I were gone the next day in just the clothes we were wearing. That's all I'm going to say about it. I hope her son is ok now. Thank you for sharing 🙂👍💖
I know what you're saying. I had my hair ripped off of my scalp in clumps because my husband said I spent too much time with my mother on mother's day.
@daisymaefrench4041 Sorry to hear that happened to you 😔 I hope your ok now. I divorced him soon after. He wasn't a good husband or father. I wouldn't let anyone else do that to me again
I was shoved up against a wall, my husband putting his forearm into my neck bracing me against the wall and pummeling me. Busted lip, cut above my eyebrow, bloody nose, and a bruised face. I had him arrested, filed charges, his family bailed him out, and he left town without justice being served. I blamed myself for the longest time. The D.A. convinced me it wasn't my fault, when he told me that my husband had done this before.
Watch snapped. It’s women behind this more often than men.
I'm a retired RN, and Kelly would be my age now had she not been murdered. I'll be 60 shortly, and I don't have to be scared of my companions as they're cats! I think that they are MUCH safer than men and after one very long and one very short marriage, the 1st ending because he decided that the grass was greener in someone else's bed, I never dated again. Ironically, apart from being a family friend, husband number 2 was a work colleague, but in my case, I earned more, not that this had any impact on the end of this marriage within months. I am grateful for my animals who love me unconditionally, and that's enough! Poor Kelly and her son! Doctors aren't always nice people either, and they have a higher than average degree of sociopathy. It just comes with the type A personality and the position. What an asshole and may he rot in Hell!
Just be careful, I you don't feed your cat or you upset them, they WILL murder you in your sleep!
Thank you, Lamont.
😢 That Dispatcher Needs to be investigated then Fired!!
How many times do they need the address??????
I know, right????
@@cathysUtubeXOXO
Well, it was the wrong address, so it probably wasn't coming up in their mapping system.
Dispatchers do need to know WHERE to send the officers.
The address was wrong, thats why she asked Kelly so many times. It was not in the system, they had to find the right address using tracking program. Listen to the story paying attention, cause you clearly didnt 🤦🏻♀️
@nancynancy1587 yea I heard that after thanks
@@cathysUtubeXOXO you are either deaf or dumb, cause the victim gave the dispatcher the wrong address multiple times.
Unbelievable
I agree very hard to find someone stay safe much love always ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
What is wrong with that dispatcher how many times did she have to tell her the address. Unbelieveable.
The address was wrong, thats why she asked Kelly so many times. It was not in the system, they had to find the right address using tracking program. Listen to the story paying attention, cause you clearly didnt 🤦🏻♀️
Her poor son. I hope he's safe and well loved😢
Married my last husband at 55, 64 now, divorced 4 years from that crazy controlling abuser,,my family hated him.
RIP very tragic story😢
This is tragic Poor woman. R.I.P IN PEACE Sweet Angel.
Very sad. May she rests peacefully.
R.I.P. Kelly. You didn’t deserve this. Such a sad and tragic event. What a monster to do this to someone. Extremely heartbreaking.
we need to REVAMP our dispatchers for emergencies .
These dispatchers are ridiculous, this poor lady had no chance with this evil man.😢