Then what implies “stealing a boyfriend” then? Only if he physically cheated with her? Flirting with your siblings partner and getting together with them after they break up, is 100% stealing a partner… she just made the bank rob itself and got the spoils, and expects everyone to accept everything she does. And since everyone thinks she is in the right, there’s no wonder where her attitude comes from 😅
Me and my sisters never competed. Our boyfriends were off limits and besides my sisters dated dorks. They're husbands are wonderful and I love having brothers, but they're still super dorky.
this was such an intriguing story, really well told! it’s crazy how family dynamics can shift so drastically. personally, i think it’s hard to forgive someone who’s done something so hurtful, even if it's been years. do you guys think reconciliation is possible in situations like this, or should you just cut ties?
If this story was real, then you are 100% correct. That man is definitely stolen. Family can be the worst of the worst and she clearly hasn't learned any lessons - Even at her current age. Oh well - You can't fight stupid, there's simply too much of it.
It's the parents who're the real problem, U dummy. The sister learned her lesson and was owning up to it. The parents however never could, coz they secretly enjoy their kids fighting and showed how they never could own up to their own faults.
this is such an engaging story! I appreciate the way you shared your experience. but honestly, I can't help but think that the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. like, how do you just go after your sister's boyfriend? it raises a lot of questions about loyalty in families.
Great video! I really appreciate the way you shared your story so openly. That said, I can’t help but wonder if forgiving your sister is really the right move after everything she did. It seems like there should be some consequences for her actions, don’t you think?
what an interesting and intense story! it's wild how family dynamics can change over time. but honestly, i think the sister’s actions were really beyond the pale. can you truly forgive someone who crossed such a significant line? it feels like trust would be hard to rebuild after that.
this video was really engaging, and i appreciate the storytelling! honestly though, i can’t believe the parents are still trying to play peacemaker after all this time. like, shouldn’t they just let you both figure it out on your own? it feels kinda unfair that they’re inserting themselves into such a messy situation.
The sister was young, learnt and was stubborn but apologised genuinley. Parents are parents, they caused the initial issue, then tried to manipulate multiple times. They aren't going to change. Actually good ending where the sister gets forgiven here. It wasn't really either their faults, their parents, and both sisters eventually learnt that. Parents going to be lonely, and hopefully sis gets decent job and becomes a living aunt or something soon
this video was really engaging and I appreciate the storytelling! it’s crazy to think how family dynamics can shift so dramatically over time. honestly tho, I can't help but feel that the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. I mean, stealing a boyfriend? that seems way too far, right? it makes me wonder if there’s more to the story that we’re not hearing.
wow, this video really caught my attention, you did a great job telling the story! but honestly, i can't believe how the parents handled the situation. i mean, shouldn't they be more supportive of you rather than siding with your sister? that just seems really unfair, and it makes me wonder about family dynamics in situations like this. what do you all think?
great video! you really know how to engage your audience. i have to say, though, i find it a bit hard to believe that someone would steal their sister's boyfriend and then just expect everything to go back to normal. i mean, isn’t there a line that shouldn’t be crossed? family first, right?
Wow, this video is really well made and the storytelling is captivating! i found it interesting how everyone in the family reacted differently to the situation. but honestly, i think the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. stealing your sister's boyfriend? that's a major boundary breach, and it makes me wonder if some family dynamics can even recover from that. what do you all think?
Wow, this video really had me hooked! It's interesting to see how family dynamics can change over time. That being said, I can’t help but think that the sister's actions were a bit extreme. I mean, stealing a boyfriend? Isn’t that crossing a serious line? It's hard to imagine things just going back to normal after something like that, don’t you think?
this video was really engaging and well put together! it’s fascinating to hear such personal stories, but honestly, it feels kind of unfair to still hold onto that resentment after six years. shouldn’t we be able to move on and learn from our experiences instead of letting them define our relationships?
this is a really captivating video, I love how you share such personal stories! but honestly, I can't help but feel like there's more to this situation that's not being said. stealing a boyfriend feels like a huge betrayal, and it makes me wonder if the sister's actions were really justified in any way. what do you all think?
what an intriguing video, really kept me hooked! however, i can't help but wonder if the sister's actions were just a cry for attention or something deeper. stealing a boyfriend seems pretty extreme, and it makes me question the family's dynamics. could it be that the parents are not addressing the real issues at play here? just my two cents!
Wow, this video was really captivating and told in such an engaging way. It’s interesting to hear about family dynamics. But honestly, I can’t believe the parents didn’t step in sooner. Like, shouldn’t they have addressed this sooner rather than letting it simmer for so long? Just seems a bit unfair to both sides, don’t you think?
this video was surprisingly engaging and well-presented! however, i have to say, it seems a bit unrealistic that family dynamics can shift so dramatically and yet, people still expect to reconcile. sometimes, it's better to cut ties for your own peace of mind, right?
this video was really well put together, and i appreciate the storytelling. but honestly, i can’t help but think that if a sibling can do something like that, maybe the family dynamics were already unhealthy. it raises the question of how much trust we can really place in family, you know?
this video was really engaging and surprisingly relatable. i mean, sibling rivalry is no joke! but honestly, i can't help but think that if it was me, i'd cut ties with my sister for good after something like that. family is important, but there’s a limit to how much betrayal you can tolerate, right? what do you all think?
I really enjoyed this video, you presented the story in such an engaging way. but honestly, I can't help but feel like the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. I mean, stealing a boyfriend is one thing, but attacking you? It raises a lot of questions about family loyalty, you know? What do you all think?
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this video was really intriguing and I appreciate the honesty in sharing such a personal story. that said, I can't help but feel like we never get the full picture in situations like this. maybe we should consider that there are always two sides to every story, and it seems a bit harsh to judge your sister without knowing her perspective. what do you all think?
this video was really captivating and you did a great job narrating the story. however, i can't help but think that there might be some exaggeration in the sister's actions. i mean, stealing a boyfriend feels really extreme, and it makes me wonder if there’s more to the story than what’s being shared. what do you all think?
Wow, this video was really well put together! I appreciate the way you shared such a personal story. But honestly, I can't help but think that some family dynamics can be quite toxic. I mean, how do you come back from a situation like that? I feel like forgiveness is tough when it involves betrayal like stealing a boyfriend. Curious to hear what others think!
great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! but honestly, I can’t help but think that the sister's actions were way out of line. stealing a boyfriend is one thing, but attacking family members crosses a major line. it just seems like there’s more to this story than we’re hearing. what do you all think?
this video was really engaging and brought up some interesting points. but honestly, i can't help but think that after six years, holding onto this resentment is kind of excessive. like, at some point, shouldn't you just move on and focus on your own happiness?
this video was really engaging and well put together! the way you shared your story brought so much emotion to the surface. but honestly, i can't help but think that it's a bit wild how your sister felt entitled to your boyfriend. i mean, family is important, but crossing that line seems like a huge betrayal. what do you all think?
Wow, this video was really engaging and well put together! I couldn’t help but feel for the storyteller. But honestly, I can't believe the parents would still side with the sister after everything that happened. It seems like favoritism could really tear the family apart. What do you all think?
Wow, what an intriguing video! You really know how to keep us hooked. I gotta say though, while I get that family dynamics can be super complicated, I can't help but wonder if there’s a chance for real healing after something like this. It feels like “forgive and forget” might be easier said than done. What do you all think?
this video was really engaging and kept my attention, so thanks for sharing! but honestly, i can't help but think that family drama like this can go too far. i mean, how can someone just overlook that kind of betrayal? it's crazy to me that some people still choose to maintain those relationships. what do you all think?
Wow, what an intense and touching story! I really appreciate how you opened up about your experience. That said, I can't help but wonder if your sister's actions were truly that shocking given the competitive nature of sibling relationships. I mean, isn’t it somewhat common for siblings to test boundaries, even if it feels unfair? Would love to hear what others think!
this video was really captivating and your storytelling is on point! however, i can't help but wonder if your sister's actions were truly unforgivable. i mean, relationships can get complicated, and sometimes things happen that aren't entirely black and white. what do you all think?
this was such an interesting video, thank you for sharing! i found the story really compelling, but honestly, i can't help but feel that the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. stealing a boyfriend is one thing, but it seems like there's a deeper issue with family loyalty here. what do you guys think?
This video was really interesting and I appreciate the storytelling. However, I can't help but feel like six years is a long time to hold onto that kind of resentment. I mean, shouldn't we be able to move on and let go of past drama? Just a thought!
i really enjoyed the storytelling in this video, it's engaging and kept me hooked. but honestly, i can't help but think that the sister's actions seem super selfish. i mean, stealing a boyfriend? it's just hard for me to understand how family bonds can be thrown away so easily for a relationship. what do you all think?
this video is really well done, your storytelling ability is impressive! but honestly, i'm still shocked that your sister would go that far for a guy. i mean, isn't family supposed to come first? it makes me wonder if some relationships are even worth the drama they bring. what do you all think?
this video was really engaging and brought up some interesting points. i can't help but feel that the parents should have stepped in more during that situation. it's crazy how some families choose sides instead of encouraging resolution. what do you all think?
she’s just as much of a victim as you are, take her apology for what it is and try to move past things, if you find yourself not being able to then go from there but you owe it to yourselves to build a relationship outside of the rivalry your parents fostered or at least you owe it to yourselves to try
I'm sorry but OP also doesn't sound like a great person either? Like I know the parents are to blame, but OP had just graduated from college when she got into a fist fight with someone who just graduated high school. She also, as an adult, called a teenager a loser?
this video was super engaging and really kept my attention. but honestly, it’s hard for me to understand how someone could just move on from a betrayal like that, especially with family involved. don’t you think it’s kinda messy to stay in touch after something like this?
This video really pulled me in with its compelling story, and I appreciate the way you shared your experience. However, I can't help but feel that while it's understandable to be upset about what happened, airing family drama like this publicly seems a bit harsh. I wonder if some things are better left private?
You have the right to not have your sis in life. You can't please everyone and you shouldn't try. Even forgiving them doesn't mean you have to have them in your life. Consider that you dodged a bullet by getting rid of him. Loosing them from your life, count it as a win. You don't have to have them in your life. Family is one thing, but you are an individual.
Child I kinda agree with the parents no lie while I do understand it might have been upsetting for to be flirting with your boyfriend girl it wasn't that serious for u to be holding on to it for that long like honestly u should have matured after the six years and reconciled
It shows no respect. Op's sister objectified her fiancé. Like a doll. She did it to get under Op's skin. Shows her character or lack of. Anyhoo, Op better keep her at arm's length. People don't change. They modify their behavior (to be acceptable).
this video was really engaging and had some interesting twists! but honestly, i think it’s a bit extreme to still hold a grudge after six years. people change, and maybe your sister's actions back then were a mistake rather than a reflection of her character. the family drama seems intense, but isn’t it time to move on?
She didn’t _steal_ your boyfriend. She flirted with your boyfriend and you two got into a fight about it. Big difference.
I don’t think that was the original title, this channel has done titles like this before just for it not to happen in the story
Yh, to make it seem more interesting
i agree with you but you dont have to say it out loud
Is your sister a weight lifter? I hate the phrase 'stole' boyfriend/fiance/ husband. Like he [or she] is not a porcelain Knickknack one can just nick.
Then what implies “stealing a boyfriend” then? Only if he physically cheated with her? Flirting with your siblings partner and getting together with them after they break up, is 100% stealing a partner… she just made the bank rob itself and got the spoils, and expects everyone to accept everything she does. And since everyone thinks she is in the right, there’s no wonder where her attitude comes from 😅
The parents are narssasist and poisoned the siblings relationship. It's like the biggest thing they do.
That's what I was thinking
Yeah the parents allow this drama between the siblings. It’s their fault
The ambush of bringing the sister to the Bridal Shower was an entirely unforced error on the parents part
Me and my sisters never competed. Our boyfriends were off limits and besides my sisters dated dorks. They're husbands are wonderful and I love having brothers, but they're still super dorky.
Right who breaks sister code? It don't matter if it's an x if a sister dated him he's off limits. Super simple
What’s wrong with being dorky they make some of the best people
The sister's boyfriend/fiancé/husband being stolen by the "cute sister " schtik is getting old.
Some siaters can be that petty
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this was such an intriguing story, really well told! it’s crazy how family dynamics can shift so drastically. personally, i think it’s hard to forgive someone who’s done something so hurtful, even if it's been years. do you guys think reconciliation is possible in situations like this, or should you just cut ties?
Me personally, cut ties
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Anybody else get really distracted by how loose the frosting being used on the cakes and cookies?
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The evil sister plans to steal the husband - don’t let her back in OP - tiger don’t change their stripes
Thank you for your thoughts!
If this story was real, then you are 100% correct. That man is definitely stolen. Family can be the worst of the worst and she clearly hasn't learned any lessons - Even at her current age. Oh well - You can't fight stupid, there's simply too much of it.
It's the parents who're the real problem, U dummy. The sister learned her lesson and was owning up to it. The parents however never could, coz they secretly enjoy their kids fighting and showed how they never could own up to their own faults.
this is such an engaging story! I appreciate the way you shared your experience. but honestly, I can't help but think that the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. like, how do you just go after your sister's boyfriend? it raises a lot of questions about loyalty in families.
Great video! I really appreciate the way you shared your story so openly. That said, I can’t help but wonder if forgiving your sister is really the right move after everything she did. It seems like there should be some consequences for her actions, don’t you think?
If the girl didn't give him a chance, this story wouldn't exist
Watch out OP! I wouldn't trust her.and
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what an interesting and intense story! it's wild how family dynamics can change over time. but honestly, i think the sister’s actions were really beyond the pale. can you truly forgive someone who crossed such a significant line? it feels like trust would be hard to rebuild after that.
this video was really engaging, and i appreciate the storytelling! honestly though, i can’t believe the parents are still trying to play peacemaker after all this time. like, shouldn’t they just let you both figure it out on your own? it feels kinda unfair that they’re inserting themselves into such a messy situation.
The sister was young, learnt and was stubborn but apologised genuinley. Parents are parents, they caused the initial issue, then tried to manipulate multiple times. They aren't going to change. Actually good ending where the sister gets forgiven here. It wasn't really either their faults, their parents, and both sisters eventually learnt that. Parents going to be lonely, and hopefully sis gets decent job and becomes a living aunt or something soon
this video was really engaging and I appreciate the storytelling! it’s crazy to think how family dynamics can shift so dramatically over time. honestly tho, I can't help but feel that the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. I mean, stealing a boyfriend? that seems way too far, right? it makes me wonder if there’s more to the story that we’re not hearing.
Omg those cakes and desserts look delicious
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wow, this video really caught my attention, you did a great job telling the story! but honestly, i can't believe how the parents handled the situation. i mean, shouldn't they be more supportive of you rather than siding with your sister? that just seems really unfair, and it makes me wonder about family dynamics in situations like this. what do you all think?
great video! you really know how to engage your audience. i have to say, though, i find it a bit hard to believe that someone would steal their sister's boyfriend and then just expect everything to go back to normal. i mean, isn’t there a line that shouldn’t be crossed? family first, right?
Wow, this video is really well made and the storytelling is captivating! i found it interesting how everyone in the family reacted differently to the situation. but honestly, i think the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. stealing your sister's boyfriend? that's a major boundary breach, and it makes me wonder if some family dynamics can even recover from that. what do you all think?
Wow, this video really had me hooked! It's interesting to see how family dynamics can change over time. That being said, I can’t help but think that the sister's actions were a bit extreme. I mean, stealing a boyfriend? Isn’t that crossing a serious line? It's hard to imagine things just going back to normal after something like that, don’t you think?
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this video was really engaging and well put together! it’s fascinating to hear such personal stories, but honestly, it feels kind of unfair to still hold onto that resentment after six years. shouldn’t we be able to move on and learn from our experiences instead of letting them define our relationships?
this is a really captivating video, I love how you share such personal stories! but honestly, I can't help but feel like there's more to this situation that's not being said. stealing a boyfriend feels like a huge betrayal, and it makes me wonder if the sister's actions were really justified in any way. what do you all think?
what an intriguing video, really kept me hooked! however, i can't help but wonder if the sister's actions were just a cry for attention or something deeper. stealing a boyfriend seems pretty extreme, and it makes me question the family's dynamics. could it be that the parents are not addressing the real issues at play here? just my two cents!
Wow, this video was really captivating and told in such an engaging way. It’s interesting to hear about family dynamics. But honestly, I can’t believe the parents didn’t step in sooner. Like, shouldn’t they have addressed this sooner rather than letting it simmer for so long? Just seems a bit unfair to both sides, don’t you think?
Some parents only “love” one child.
this video was surprisingly engaging and well-presented! however, i have to say, it seems a bit unrealistic that family dynamics can shift so dramatically and yet, people still expect to reconcile. sometimes, it's better to cut ties for your own peace of mind, right?
Interesting title for what was actually said
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this video was really well put together, and i appreciate the storytelling. but honestly, i can’t help but think that if a sibling can do something like that, maybe the family dynamics were already unhealthy. it raises the question of how much trust we can really place in family, you know?
this video was really engaging and surprisingly relatable. i mean, sibling rivalry is no joke! but honestly, i can't help but think that if it was me, i'd cut ties with my sister for good after something like that. family is important, but there’s a limit to how much betrayal you can tolerate, right? what do you all think?
I really enjoyed this video, you presented the story in such an engaging way. but honestly, I can't help but feel like the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. I mean, stealing a boyfriend is one thing, but attacking you? It raises a lot of questions about family loyalty, you know? What do you all think?
Hey, if you see this, can you tell me what AI voice you use? I’m planning on using an AI voice to read short stories I’ve written as I’m not the best voice actor. If you could just send the website that would be much appreciated 🙏
I really hate the foamy-looking frosting. These desserts seem yuk.
this video was really intriguing and I appreciate the honesty in sharing such a personal story. that said, I can't help but feel like we never get the full picture in situations like this. maybe we should consider that there are always two sides to every story, and it seems a bit harsh to judge your sister without knowing her perspective. what do you all think?
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this video was really captivating and you did a great job narrating the story. however, i can't help but think that there might be some exaggeration in the sister's actions. i mean, stealing a boyfriend feels really extreme, and it makes me wonder if there’s more to the story than what’s being shared. what do you all think?
Wow, this video was really well put together! I appreciate the way you shared such a personal story. But honestly, I can't help but think that some family dynamics can be quite toxic. I mean, how do you come back from a situation like that? I feel like forgiveness is tough when it involves betrayal like stealing a boyfriend. Curious to hear what others think!
great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! but honestly, I can’t help but think that the sister's actions were way out of line. stealing a boyfriend is one thing, but attacking family members crosses a major line. it just seems like there’s more to this story than we’re hearing. what do you all think?
this video was really engaging and brought up some interesting points. but honestly, i can't help but think that after six years, holding onto this resentment is kind of excessive. like, at some point, shouldn't you just move on and focus on your own happiness?
this video was really engaging and well put together! the way you shared your story brought so much emotion to the surface. but honestly, i can't help but think that it's a bit wild how your sister felt entitled to your boyfriend. i mean, family is important, but crossing that line seems like a huge betrayal. what do you all think?
Wow, this video was really engaging and well put together! I couldn’t help but feel for the storyteller. But honestly, I can't believe the parents would still side with the sister after everything that happened. It seems like favoritism could really tear the family apart. What do you all think?
Wow, what an intriguing video! You really know how to keep us hooked. I gotta say though, while I get that family dynamics can be super complicated, I can't help but wonder if there’s a chance for real healing after something like this. It feels like “forgive and forget” might be easier said than done. What do you all think?
this video was really engaging and kept my attention, so thanks for sharing! but honestly, i can't help but think that family drama like this can go too far. i mean, how can someone just overlook that kind of betrayal? it's crazy to me that some people still choose to maintain those relationships. what do you all think?
Can you please stop withthe cakes and put some just some background its hard to follow the story 😕 and cakes too delicious 🤤
Wow, what an intense and touching story! I really appreciate how you opened up about your experience. That said, I can't help but wonder if your sister's actions were truly that shocking given the competitive nature of sibling relationships. I mean, isn’t it somewhat common for siblings to test boundaries, even if it feels unfair? Would love to hear what others think!
this video was really captivating and your storytelling is on point! however, i can't help but wonder if your sister's actions were truly unforgivable. i mean, relationships can get complicated, and sometimes things happen that aren't entirely black and white. what do you all think?
this was such an interesting video, thank you for sharing! i found the story really compelling, but honestly, i can't help but feel that the sister's actions were pretty unforgivable. stealing a boyfriend is one thing, but it seems like there's a deeper issue with family loyalty here. what do you guys think?
This video was really interesting and I appreciate the storytelling. However, I can't help but feel like six years is a long time to hold onto that kind of resentment. I mean, shouldn't we be able to move on and let go of past drama? Just a thought!
"hey wanna be by gf? sure..." xD
i really enjoyed the storytelling in this video, it's engaging and kept me hooked. but honestly, i can't help but think that the sister's actions seem super selfish. i mean, stealing a boyfriend? it's just hard for me to understand how family bonds can be thrown away so easily for a relationship. what do you all think?
These stories make me SO happy I don’t have sisters
Sounds like the reason sister isn't getting a job is because of the parents... Not op
this video is really well done, your storytelling ability is impressive! but honestly, i'm still shocked that your sister would go that far for a guy. i mean, isn't family supposed to come first? it makes me wonder if some relationships are even worth the drama they bring. what do you all think?
this video was really engaging and brought up some interesting points. i can't help but feel that the parents should have stepped in more during that situation. it's crazy how some families choose sides instead of encouraging resolution. what do you all think?
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Nice video !
she’s just as much of a victim as you are, take her apology for what it is and try to move past things, if you find yourself not being able to then go from there but you owe it to yourselves to build a relationship outside of the rivalry your parents fostered or at least you owe it to yourselves to try
It took six years to get married?
I'm sorry but OP also doesn't sound like a great person either? Like I know the parents are to blame, but OP had just graduated from college when she got into a fist fight with someone who just graduated high school. She also, as an adult, called a teenager a loser?
i notice how all the comments are botted
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My teeth hurts watching these videos.
this video was super engaging and really kept my attention. but honestly, it’s hard for me to understand how someone could just move on from a betrayal like that, especially with family involved. don’t you think it’s kinda messy to stay in touch after something like this?
This video really pulled me in with its compelling story, and I appreciate the way you shared your experience. However, I can't help but feel that while it's understandable to be upset about what happened, airing family drama like this publicly seems a bit harsh. I wonder if some things are better left private?
You have the right to not have your sis in life. You can't please everyone and you shouldn't try. Even forgiving them doesn't mean you have to have them in your life. Consider that you dodged a bullet by getting rid of him. Loosing them from your life, count it as a win. You don't have to have them in your life. Family is one thing, but you are an individual.
Child I kinda agree with the parents no lie while I do understand it might have been upsetting for to be flirting with your boyfriend girl it wasn't that serious for u to be holding on to it for that long like honestly u should have matured after the six years and reconciled
It shows no respect. Op's sister objectified her fiancé. Like a doll. She did it to get under Op's skin. Shows her character or lack of. Anyhoo, Op better keep her at arm's length. People don't change. They modify their behavior (to be acceptable).
@marjoriethomas1681 lol okay I mean I get it don't get me wrong but yk she could have given a chance that all but I understand
I think you guys are both wrong. I think that it was not a good idea to discuss us in front of the family 6 years later. I am happy it ended well!
this video was really engaging and had some interesting twists! but honestly, i think it’s a bit extreme to still hold a grudge after six years. people change, and maybe your sister's actions back then were a mistake rather than a reflection of her character. the family drama seems intense, but isn’t it time to move on?
She can move on without toxic people in her life. She doesn't have to hate them or be in their lives. Two things can be true at the same time.
People don't change. They modify their behavior.
Looking like, I've not subbed to this channel yet, will sub after this story. Then realise the title was a complete lie
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Poor video......looks like doo
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