Thank you for sharing your thoughts ✨i'm 25, i have a very similar coming out journey (i also came out as lesbian at 21) and i've been struggling with the same things that you've mentioned 💛
Love the way you expressed your thoughts. For me coming out was tragic and nothing much changed after that. Because the struggles were there such as finding a true love and that connection. Would you like to hold a conversation session on RUclips between two lesbians (you and me) from different worlds and see how the experiences of every milestone of lesbian life varies. Thank you
Hello! So refreshing to hear your story! You are an intelligent and beautiful woman! So silly when people say because you are attractive they don’t believe you’re Gay…what a stupid statement! Just like the straight community, lots of shapes and sizes! I have met more straight women who look and act more like men and they sleep with men! We are all different! Yes a lot of femme women are gay and gorgeous! People shouldn’t stereotype! You are an absolute treasure to listen to! Keep up the great work! 🙏❤️🇨🇦😊
I’ve always questioned my sexuality. I went from bi to pan to queer since I’m so confused. I’ve never found a man’s body attractive but have a woman. But yet mostly been with men. I’ve always tried to push my queerness down and now I think it’s coming full swing at me 😂😂 I’m in my 30s now. All the guys I’ve been with have tried to be pretty controlling too
Really honest, I don’t think I have heard a video describing on a deeper level of what sex meant before and after figuring out their sexuality. I think if you were currently in a relationship you might have held back a little, so grateful that you are not 😅. I don’t fully understand the only fans thing but it was nice to hear your side and how it makes you feel! Thank you !
I just started this video but so far Omg yes! Me! I knew I was bi at age 19 or 20, but ended up marrying a man who I really consider a best friend. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I didnt realize until he divorced me that I love women so much more. I would say I'm 90% gay but getting mens attention is so much easier. Im femme so even though im not a model or anything...its just easier. Plus, I want another baby...but I am way more attracted to women. Im 32 YO though and idk... im afraid im too old to find a woman who is willing to have a kid. I dont want to rush into things just bc I want another baby. Also, I have absolutely no flirting skills bc in college my drunk self just slept with guys who pursued me. I didnt have to try and im so frickin awkward. Not only am I femme, have a child, and appear straight, but im so inexperienced. My dream is to have a Gf/wife, but i dont know if I am capable
@@LaurenJohnston-wc7vn Thank you for sharing❤️ Such a valid struggle and out of billions of women in the world I know there’s someone who would love having that life with you🫶🏼
You will become bold with a woman you really like. This is the only way to overcome the fear of initiating. It has happened to me in the past and it's happening now with the woman I'm dating. I'm quite surprised with myself but we like each other and I don't want to lose her.
as a genderless person looking for their first genderless partner this has got us thinking. so thanx for all the ideas you brought up - really helpful!
It’s sad to see such hostility on a video where someone is just being open and honest. If you can't show respect or support, it's best to move on. No one deserves negativity just for being themselves.
This was such an amazing video, thank you so much for sharing
Aw thank you😊💗
Thank you for sharing your thoughts ✨i'm 25, i have a very similar coming out journey (i also came out as lesbian at 21) and i've been struggling with the same things that you've mentioned 💛
I loved listening to this. I hope it becomes a podcast! Trans Lesbian here, and hearing about other peoples journey, helps me along mine.
Love the way you expressed your thoughts. For me coming out was tragic and nothing much changed after that. Because the struggles were there such as finding a true love and that connection. Would you like to hold a conversation session on RUclips between two lesbians (you and me) from different worlds and see how the experiences of every milestone of lesbian life varies. Thank you
Hello! So refreshing to hear your story! You are an intelligent and beautiful woman! So silly when people say because you are attractive they don’t believe you’re Gay…what a stupid statement! Just like the straight community, lots of shapes and sizes! I have met more straight women who look and act more like men and they sleep with men! We are all different! Yes a lot of femme women are gay and gorgeous! People shouldn’t stereotype! You are an absolute treasure to listen to! Keep up the great work! 🙏❤️🇨🇦😊
I’ve always questioned my sexuality. I went from bi to pan to queer since I’m so confused. I’ve never found a man’s body attractive but have a woman. But yet mostly been with men. I’ve always tried to push my queerness down and now I think it’s coming full swing at me 😂😂 I’m in my 30s now. All the guys I’ve been with have tried to be pretty controlling too
Really honest, I don’t think I have heard a video describing on a deeper level of what sex meant before and after figuring out their sexuality. I think if you were currently in a relationship you might have held back a little, so grateful that you are not 😅. I don’t fully understand the only fans thing but it was nice to hear your side and how it makes you feel! Thank you !
@@OrlaKen so true! I think this time of being single has been such a blessing in disguise😊
I just started this video but so far Omg yes! Me! I knew I was bi at age 19 or 20, but ended up marrying a man who I really consider a best friend. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I didnt realize until he divorced me that I love women so much more. I would say I'm 90% gay but getting mens attention is so much easier. Im femme so even though im not a model or anything...its just easier. Plus, I want another baby...but I am way more attracted to women. Im 32 YO though and idk... im afraid im too old to find a woman who is willing to have a kid. I dont want to rush into things just bc I want another baby. Also, I have absolutely no flirting skills bc in college my drunk self just slept with guys who pursued me. I didnt have to try and im so frickin awkward. Not only am I femme, have a child, and appear straight, but im so inexperienced. My dream is to have a Gf/wife, but i dont know if I am capable
@@LaurenJohnston-wc7vn Thank you for sharing❤️ Such a valid struggle and out of billions of women in the world I know there’s someone who would love having that life with you🫶🏼
You will become bold with a woman you really like. This is the only way to overcome the fear of initiating. It has happened to me in the past and it's happening now with the woman I'm dating. I'm quite surprised with myself but we like each other and I don't want to lose her.
Thank you so much for this video
💗💗💗
agree with so much of this
50:22 You're very welcome... and Thank You for sharing... ❤ 🫂
Absolutely... Pt. 2 Please... 🙏
Liked & Subbed... 💕
as a genderless person looking for their first genderless partner this has got us thinking. so thanx for all the ideas you brought up - really helpful!
Question for you... would you date Sapphic Trans Women... ? Just curious...
Possibly! I would not be sexually attracted to them but I could see maybe dating casually as a non-primary partner in a more romantic way
@@TheOccupationOfBeingYourself Even Post-Op... ? However... romance is ❤️ also...
@@Genevieve111 Yes probably but I'm not sure it definitely all depends on the person and our connection (:
@@TheOccupationOfBeingYourself Absolutely... it's all a learning curve... 💕
great video. please make another video.
Waste of ink & paper you were printed on ....
It’s sad to see such hostility on a video where someone is just being open and honest. If you can't show respect or support, it's best to move on. No one deserves negativity just for being themselves.
Your creativity could go to way better uses than thinking of new ways to insult people on the internet 😅
are u bored? do u have nothing better to do in your life.. a job maybe?
@@whispersofthesea1341 Well said... 👏 👏 👏
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