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I'm bi but i have a thing for gay guys. Maybe because they are free from a lot of heteronormative bs? Idk. It's kinda sexy.

I do agree Thanks for share this and creating an area where we can feel safe and being able to feel that our body is beautiful I felt that I would never meet someone due to body type and being judged for be a bigger girl. Now I have meet someone that likes my body and is happy for me as me. Thank you

Great video. I will have to try that

Thank you for sharing your thoughts ✨i'm 25, i have a very similar coming out journey (i also came out as lesbian at 21) and i've been struggling with the same things that you've mentioned 💛

I've been doing self trims for the past 20 years but unlike you I'm looking to grow my hair longer. I had a stylist do my hair last month and the results looked great for a month. The hardest part is getting it to cooperate with even fullness. My hair is wavy and due to this the ends knot, get matted easily and is often dry. Luckily it looks like you have straight hair and don't have this problem. I'm a MTF but still look like a guy and definitely am into beautiful looking women such as yourself but am a total fan of long hair, so we're probably on a different page from each other. You're lucky to be able to grow such nice hair so fast and easily without issues.

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The struggle is real, for everyone. Even people who say they don't. I always think people are looking in disgust and judging my weight, my hair, my clothes, my voice, etc. Thank you for your podcast and for your tips. what incense do you burn ?

I just came from the first part and I loved every second of this one as well! Like one comment said, I admit that I was distracted, but primarily with you nails, rings, and your makeup and hair. It suits you so well! I feel so proud of myself everytime I set a boundary with man, specially when it comes to physical contact. In my country is very common for people to greet each other with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Now, I try to do that only with the people I feel comfortable with. Yes, sometimes I do it because I react late, but I'm proud of the little steps I have given in order to be where I currently am. Thank you once again for sharing your experiences!

A thing that I do to live as authentically as I can, is one of the things you mentioned; listening to my body! Since I've started to do it, everything changed for the better. Also, I always try to remind myself that people will judge you no matter what, so, instead of living a unsatisfied life by caring too much about what other people would think, I focus more in how it feels for me to express/dress myself in a certain way. If I feel joy and contentedness, then that's the most important thing.

Omg, this video is so helpful! I resonated with a lot of things you mentioned. Thank you so much for sharing with us your experience!

I’m a 13 yr old queer trying to figure myself out thanks so much for this!!

One of my closest friends - closer than most family - has been in my life for like 12 years. We tried dating once, for like a month before we realized that was NOT us. I can't imagine throwing away someone so dear to me because of 1 month out of 12 years just because technically they're "an ex."

This was such an amazing video, thank you so much for sharing <3 You are right, it's very rare that we get to hear the stories of lesbians who have come out just a few years out, and how it felt. I came out as bi when I was 18 and as lesbian when I was 20, I'm now 26 and still have a lot of feelings and thoughts about having come out. I could resonate a lot with the things you were saying. Thank you, thank you, thank you <3

Hello! So refreshing to hear your story! You are an intelligent and beautiful woman! So silly when people say because you are attractive they don’t believe you’re Gay…what a stupid statement! Just like the straight community, lots of shapes and sizes! I have met more straight women who look and act more like men and they sleep with men! We are all different! Yes a lot of femme women are gay and gorgeous! People shouldn’t stereotype! You are an absolute treasure to listen to! Keep up the great work! 🙏❤️🇨🇦😊

great video. at first I was a little distracted by the smoke billowing from the table behind you lol. the view in your apartment is amazing, especially at night with the cars driving by. I would like to hear more about authenticity. I feel like that is something us boomers have never been exposed to until recently

I posted another comment seems it got deleted. Nevermind, I wanted to add to what you saying is that clothing should not be a pressure on anyone. I am a tomboyish and like dressing manly not because i feel the need to express myself in a certain way but solely because I feel more aligned with this style. Ibhave seem more feminine dressing lesbians and I believe that is normal.

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Thank you very much.

Love the way you expressed your thoughts. For me coming out was tragic and nothing much changed after that. Because the struggles were there such as finding a true love and that connection. Would you like to hold a conversation session on RUclips between two lesbians (you and me) from different worlds and see how the experiences of every milestone of lesbian life varies. Thank you

Would you like to know each other? I find you amazingly beautiful. We can even collaborate in our videos on different lesbian topics ❤

Really honest, I don’t think I have heard a video describing on a deeper level of what sex meant before and after figuring out their sexuality. I think if you were currently in a relationship you might have held back a little, so grateful that you are not 😅. I don’t fully understand the only fans thing but it was nice to hear your side and how it makes you feel! Thank you !

agree with so much of this

I loved listening to this. I hope it becomes a podcast! Trans Lesbian here, and hearing about other peoples journey, helps me along mine.

I’ve always questioned my sexuality. I went from bi to pan to queer since I’m so confused. I’ve never found a man’s body attractive but have a woman. But yet mostly been with men. I’ve always tried to push my queerness down and now I think it’s coming full swing at me 😂😂 I’m in my 30s now. All the guys I’ve been with have tried to be pretty controlling too

great video. please make another video.

did u ever consider you may be autosexual ? i heard in another video you speaking that mostly you were not attracted to men but the idea to being attractive ... i think this may be more autosexuality related

as a genderless person looking for their first genderless partner this has got us thinking. so thanx for all the ideas you brought up - really helpful!

50:22 You're very welcome... and Thank You for sharing... ❤ 🫂 Absolutely... Pt. 2 Please... 🙏 Liked & Subbed... 💕

Thank you so much for this video

Question for you... would you date Sapphic Trans Women... ? Just curious...

I just started this video but so far Omg yes! Me! I knew I was bi at age 19 or 20, but ended up marrying a man who I really consider a best friend. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I didnt realize until he divorced me that I love women so much more. I would say I'm 90% gay but getting mens attention is so much easier. Im femme so even though im not a model or anything...its just easier. Plus, I want another baby...but I am way more attracted to women. Im 32 YO though and idk... im afraid im too old to find a woman who is willing to have a kid. I dont want to rush into things just bc I want another baby. Also, I have absolutely no flirting skills bc in college my drunk self just slept with guys who pursued me. I didnt have to try and im so frickin awkward. Not only am I femme, have a child, and appear straight, but im so inexperienced. My dream is to have a Gf/wife, but i dont know if I am capable

Waste of ink & paper you were printed on ....

30:50 I’m kinda just going into this and I’m quite young so instead of thinking that I’d already know I think that I’m too young to know if I’m really a lesbian or not.

Love your t shirt 🌈

Me when I the hot girl in school visits my class: I am so happy, but I am happy because I am feeling the happiness of all the boys around me. Me when the hot guy walks in: eew, he thinks his all that. Same me: I am straight. Smh!!!

I thought that I was straight and that all woman would prefer to be with woman. For the obvious reason that they were just so much more attractive than men and they were soft. I projected my reality onto them and then later realized that they actually are attracted to men. Blew my mind.

How did this shite get on my fone? I don't subscribe to this channel.

Landed on your channel 'cause the title was intriguing . I believe your experience was genuine .Coincidentally the same thing happened to me but it was at home . I've also experienced what I thought was someone sitting down on the couch next to me .Who really knows what it is or whether or not ghosts exist . But one things for sure ......it's unnerving when it happens . Enjoyed the video , thanks !

I lol’d at the would you rather story, thank you for sharing.

i dont know what i am anymore tbh. i have a boyfriend but i cant shake the thought of when i had a girlfriend and when i’d kiss her and stuff. i cant distinguish the different attractions so honestly its a cycle of “am i lesbian, bisexual, or straight??” which yknow i dont think straight girls feel things i do but also i dont know how i feel about men. i mostly have fictional men as my crushes rather than real men and i have real women as my crushes rather than fictional women (but i enjoy fictional women too sometimes) and i dont know if im pushing away my feelings or what its so annoying!!!! life is so confusing :(

we're so affraid to make another girl uncomfortable because we've seen so many guys being intrusive and forcing themselves on women that we've automatically come to the conclusion that telling them we're attracted to them would be acting just like a dude. that's my theory at least. great video tho, very helpfull ♥

so i’ve been struggling with my sexuality for so long. i’m 17 and i’ve been questioning since i was 13. i was never one to have that many crushes when i was little but when i did it was mainly boys. then in 7th grade i had this MASSIVE crush on a girl but i told myself it didn’t count because she looked like a boy. over the years i’ve dated one boy (in 8th grade) and had 1 talking stage with a boy in 9th grade. both times i was distracted by a boy, i thought to myself “yeah im definitely straight nvm” but i haven’t talked to anyone for the past 2 years after those ended. i seem to be drawn to females. (also in that one talking stage, i thought his sister was hot and i would literally stalk her page more than his). i watch wlw movies and literally kick my feet with excitement. i can imagine myself with a woman and have both an emotional and physical connection. and whenever i think about identifying as bisexual i feel this euphoric sensation of “IM FREEE I LOVE WOMEN”. but i can’t help but wonder if im straight and i just have a strong admiration for girls. i mean if anyone has decided to read this (thank you) you’re probably thinking “why on earth is she wondering if she’s straight? she’s clearly gay”. YEAH. im thinking the same thing. maybe it could be comphet?? i just feel like straight people dont put this much thought into it hahah. does anyone have words of wisdom?

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This was mind opening. Thank you

I said I was bi for a long time because I liked penetration and into my 20s even 30s didn't know lesbian sex was more than just fingers and tongue. I couldn't possibly be gay if I like sex that way right lol boy did I have a lot to learn after my very sheltered religious upbringing

Pisces here ♓😊 Love listening to card readings

Listening to other people's experiences is so reassuring 🏳️‍🌈🩷

girl you are sooo pretty. it's so hard to find other lesbian girls who don't look like the rainbow threw up in them or are obese.

go from the hip comes from the old wild west days of gun fights in the streets of the towns and how revolvers were carried, on the hip.

Something I noticed is I thought I was attracted to men which is why I had pleasure during sex, but if a toy feels good then something designed for the female body will most likely feel good. And I’m happiest when other people are happy, so I confused their pleasure with mine. As soon as they weren’t into it I felt nothing.