I Quit my Corporate Career to Pursue A Slower Life as a Barista // Stepping into the Unknown

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • Let me share with you my journey of quitting a career path I was on in search of a happier, slower life. I've been lucky enough to have the freedom and ability to leave behind the career I was working towards for 6 years and try a more organic approach to life and my future. I hope this video inspires you to listen to your instincts and to choose the path that makes you happiest in life, not the one that appears on the outside the most successful. We all have the ability to shape the life we want. 🤍
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Комментарии • 716

  • @805hiker2
    @805hiker2 Год назад +395

    Can't quite believe I'm writing this right now because I never really thought I'd go through with it, but I did. I quit my 90k a year work from home corporate job a few days ago. The feeling of needing to do this had been brewing in me for a while so I started saving up. I didn't save up quite as much as I wanted to but I saved until the point that I felt my health was at risk (daily headaches, poor sleep, blood pressure 170) and decided to give my notice. The job made me feel stressed, miserable and dead inside. I did not enjoy it or my co-workers (except for a few) at all. I didn't believe in what I was doing and frankly part of the job felt unethical to me. Everything was about productivity and quantity. My mind was always always at work, even on my time off, because of the high pressure and never ending workload. Even if I worked 10 hours a day it still wasn't enough to keep up. The timing of it was perfect, my kids will be out of school for the summer soon so I plan to take about 3 months off and enjoy the summer off with my kids. I'll start looking for a part time job once they go back to school, and like she says in the video enough to pay my bills is enough for now. Not gonna lie, it's a little scary because now the future is unknown (career-wise) but sorta exciting at the same time. BTW my blood pressure is back down to normal in the 120s. My body was telling me something for sure.

    • @vanessaroque4476
      @vanessaroque4476 Год назад +46

      My husband did this 1 week ago. He was having panic attacks working 12+ hours a day and for nothing but a toxic work environment and no life balance. He is taking his CDL test and plans to become a school bus driver and a substitute teacher. Best decision ever! Kids are loving him home for the summer.

    • @exclusivelyforyou
      @exclusivelyforyou Год назад +17

      You will do great 👍

    • @amorepsyche808
      @amorepsyche808 Год назад +25

      I just quitted my job too… I just have money to pay the bills but God I have time now to breathe

    • @tammyfeldbusch9000
      @tammyfeldbusch9000 Год назад +23

      I was in a high pressure job for years at a hospital HR with impossible volume of workload and deadlines. It was not getting better but worse, never letting up. I was going to get out but kept putting it off to meet one more financial goal. My heart decided for me when I had a stress induced Takotsubo Cardiomyopathy, “broken heart syndrome”. I thank God I escaped with my life. It could have been a different ending. Still recovering. All this to say don’t put your own life on the line for a soulless company that will replace you in a heartbeat and move on like you were never there. GET OUT NOW before it’s too late. Your family cannot replace you.

    • @blackthornsloe8049
      @blackthornsloe8049 Год назад +3

      🦋 congratulations 😊

  • @byonty886
    @byonty886 11 месяцев назад +2

    I graduated this year from art school but lately I maybe just realize that I don't want to do this as a career, not right now. I want to experience various work. All my life I never know what I wanted to do in my future as a job, and art seemed the only way to live happy, and my family encouraged me too, but after years of working hard to graduate, I was filled with anxiety and fear due to my perfectionism nature. In this month that i had a small breakdown due to the future job needed ro search, I didn't touched a computer to drawing or animate, I started to listen to my heart, of what and why i want to live, cause nothing makes me happy. I never felt better now that I realize that I want a simple life, just living and loving my family, experience things and loving myself. Maybe I will change idea in the future but right now, for the first time I feel that I'm making a decision for myself alone. It's selfish and I feel so guilty with my parents, but this thoughts and feeling never left my brain during the last year, I don't want to give up art, just not as a job right now. I just hope my family is not disappointed with me, because for the first time, I am not disappointed with myself 😔

  • @ummesalmatahir6745
    @ummesalmatahir6745 Год назад +2

    I'm only 24, working a high-stress job, craving for a more simpler job with minimal stress so I can channel my attention outside of work more. Instead I get bombarded with the idea that we should be climbing the corporate ladder all the time, going for more of a challenge. I hate it and I'd rather have a simpler life where I didn't basically bring my work home with me and I can live outside of work without worry. Life is not about career and I'm glad I'm realising this as early as 24. Don't be jobless but don't allow it to compromise your values, time and peace of mind.

  • @Psychiccrow1
    @Psychiccrow1 2 года назад +2

    Vow thank you so much for being You !!! You are such an old , wise and such an authentic soul full of divine love and higher consciousness! I can totally resonate with you ! When I stepped into part time job I discovered my spiritual gifts and I opened my online shop where I feel so grateful every single day ! None of the mainstream jobs could give me that true satisfaction and true happiness which I receive from sharing my love and light with others . This is my dream job and I am so happy to see my shop growing ! I am so excited what else the future has for me because I am just like you very open and child like wondering soul who wants to live a slow , peaceful and life full of ease and just mindfulness ! Nature is such a pure medicine for our souls and I just love watching you being there ! You are a free spirit and I am so happy for you ! Stepping into unknown is always scary but so exciting at the same time so DREAM BIGGER my Dear , beautiful souls and you will always be inspired to keep walking your path towards that magical mystery of Life ! We are conscious creators not the problem solvers and I am happy to see so many souls to awaken to this divine path ! ❤️🌹🤗🎉🎉👼

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      I am so happy that you’ve found a new job and way of living that is making you happy!! How inspiring. Thank you for the kind words and best wishes :)

  • @kizzymulcaster6057
    @kizzymulcaster6057 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for this beautiful thought provoking video. I love this video as its so very relatable. ive subscribed.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад

      Thanks so much ☺️☺️

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      ...hey. I'm the one who gives out the "beautiful" around here....

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      @@thewonderingmind a beautiful reply

  • @ioliofnow
    @ioliofnow 2 года назад

    It was so nice meeting your channel today ! So great to hear that you found your way out of this career system and trying to figure out your own path ! In many parts this brought tears to my eyes ! It is so true that this path is also painful and hard, but i guess it's all worth it ! Congratulations on your new beginning ☺☺

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      so nice, so beautiful

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad that you connected with the video ☺️

  • @SJP43
    @SJP43 Год назад +1

    I absolutely love this!!

  • @chilalachifwepa4347
    @chilalachifwepa4347 Год назад +1

    I just graduated and I'm still applying for jobs. With all this tome I feel so lost

  • @AllGrowing
    @AllGrowing 2 года назад +1

    True! Which part of the world are you in?

  • @kateleurs5012
    @kateleurs5012 2 года назад +303

    Similar to my journey. Palliative Care Nurse to Barista and Bar Manager at a lovely, rural Cafe. I also think how incredibly privileged we are in the western world that we can make the choice of happiness and health over money. So many millions have no such luxury in this short existence.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +20

      Very, very true. I feel grateful every day to have had the choice to be able to do this! Best to you.

    • @user-gz5mx2nd5p
      @user-gz5mx2nd5p Год назад +7

      Thanks for acknowledging that and we do have many more choices.

    • @kp74952
      @kp74952 Год назад +17

      Thank you for acknowledging that. There is a lot of privilege involved in these choices. For many people, their job IS their wellbeing, or that of their family, in that without it, there is no roof over their head, no food on their table, etc. They don't get to quit just because they don't like it.

    • @amandlathree
      @amandlathree Год назад +1

      If only the “west” would stop shoving this sort of shackled life down everyone else’s throats, so that they too get caught up in this same rat race. The non-western lifestyle was just fine until the west showed up. Here we are thinking it’s the better life. Au contraire.

    • @xalbatross1
      @xalbatross1 Год назад +3

      Good on you for leaving nursing!
      I’m currently navigating my way out.

  • @irishcladdagh3
    @irishcladdagh3 2 года назад +228

    I always say no job is worth your well being...I made a point to get a job where I can clock in clock out and detach and NEVER take work home regardless of my "career". There is no such thing as job security and EVERYONE IS REPLACEABLE and loyalty should be to yourself.

    • @eoinMB3949
      @eoinMB3949 Год назад

      You're right. I found this out after my first "Real job". I discovered that the world plays this massive trick on people, it convinces them that they should go to college, study something reliable that will get you a good paying job and then once you;re in this job you realise that you were played all along. Its like a Yoke is put around your neck and you have to carry it, all the while it takes over your life and bleeds you dry. And it encroaches into your life to the point where most of your physical time is spend in this job but also your mental time and energy is taken up with it answering e-mails, thinking about it, even where you live is determined by this job. I really think the answer is to create your own thing in this world, do something you love and doesnt feel like a chore, something where you get to decide how many hours you work and where you have the freedom to take days, weeks even months off at a time. Either that or get a job in a coffee shop or something similar where when you leave work, its done, you dont bring it home with you.

  • @bingbong6478
    @bingbong6478 Год назад +108

    In tears at my work desk right now. 9 hours to go. I’ve got to make some changes. Thank you for this video.

    • @clairevillanueva8802
      @clairevillanueva8802 Год назад +7

      big hugs, hope you have made the best decision for yourself

    • @bingbong6478
      @bingbong6478 Год назад +8

      @@clairevillanueva8802 I absolutely did. Thank you 🤗

    • @ummesalmatahir6745
      @ummesalmatahir6745 Год назад +4

      ​@@bingbong6478 that's great to hear! ❤

  • @goldlotus7831
    @goldlotus7831 2 года назад +695

    It's good that more and more people are realizing what is important in life. Even if you want to quit and lead a life of slow motion and solitude, the people around you will make you feel guilty for doing so. That's the real problem. So,only by listening to yourself and no one else can you really lead the life the way you truly want.

    • @surekag3844
      @surekag3844 2 года назад +9

      Exactly

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад +9

      Wow
      how soon can I quit my job and afford to drink tea in my luxurious living room. Wakin up late and not having to rush to work to afford that wonderful home... How soon can I do that?

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад +3

      How insensitive! Don't I understand the deeper meaning of this video?

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад +2

      I understand that I just stop working my hard job and make some tea, that I could still live in a really expensive house and drink tea... what's wrong with that?

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад +2

      Who pays for that nice house and that nice tea, genius?

  • @Marwonderful
    @Marwonderful Год назад +52

    This made me cry so much. I stare at the same tree from my cubicle everyday wishing I could live my life instead of typing away for 8 hours. I relate to 100% of this video. Thank you ❤

    • @mindfulofmaya
      @mindfulofmaya Год назад

      Awwww go hug that tree ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gloriasaliba3395
    @gloriasaliba3395 2 года назад +76

    I just left a very toxic corporate work environment at 61years of age, with no time for family home health friends and personal interests - bravo to you for making your decision at your young age. I just did 5 loads of laundry and hung them outside, i found it to be so satisfying and relaxing and to have the time to shop and cook my meals, I’d also forgotten how much I enjoy cooking. Have signed up for Pilates and will commence my home renovations, something I’ve been wanting to do for nearly 15 years now.
    Love from Sydney Australia

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      Wow, thats incredible! I’m so happy for you that you made that change, and are enjoying so many simple things in life! Best wishes to you :)

  • @elevationview673
    @elevationview673 2 года назад +212

    I gave up my well paid job at 42 it was making me Ill hated the pressure. Then decided to work part time, big big drop in money it was well worth it. Now 56 still working part time, it was the best decision I ever made. Picking my children up from school each day, loved every minute of it. Priceless.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +5

      I'm so happy for you! What a brave thing to do.. wow! Cheers to you for choosing such a courageous thing, I bet all those memories are priceless.

    • @baya_network
      @baya_network 2 года назад +1

      waw happy for you

    • @alejandraalejandra4700
      @alejandraalejandra4700 2 года назад

      Your story is different from this spoil brat.

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

    • @hamerful
      @hamerful 2 года назад +9

      @@alejandraalejandra4700 what makes you think she is spoiled and calling her a brat?

  • @paulhaynes7522
    @paulhaynes7522 4 месяца назад +29

    I read a quote that went something like " Rich is having lots of money and being wealthy is having lots of time" That really hit home.

  • @juliecooperhawk
    @juliecooperhawk 2 года назад +37

    This was a beautiful video. I quit my job today because my soul was slowly dying at work. Thank you for your video. It soothing my soul right now.

  • @wildflowerwind6941
    @wildflowerwind6941 2 года назад +155

    I love to see young people valuing a simple life.

    • @tonetburac
      @tonetburac 2 года назад +5

      Lockdown during pandemic didn't hit us hard but teaches us rather of how beautiful simple life is.

    • @abellyold4859
      @abellyold4859 8 месяцев назад

      A fast-paced life is stressful and anxious. Taking it slow enable one to enjoy things better. There is a reason why centenarians abound in slow pace regions called the Blue Zones.

  • @tlchallinor
    @tlchallinor 2 года назад +149

    This is exactly where I am in my life right now. I left my corporate job 5 months ago without a solid plan. I have been learning who I am and exploring my creativity. It’s a beautiful way to live and even though I don’t know what’s next, as long as I continue staying true to myself I know it will bring me joy.

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

    • @Blessedbeyond.
      @Blessedbeyond. 2 года назад +13

      Same here leaving a leadership role in an 8 year corporate environment. The peace is unbelievable. I'll trust God for the money. When my life is over I know I will NEVER say, man I wish I worked more.

    • @MenaCanonico
      @MenaCanonico Год назад

      that's awesome! Kudos to you! I did the same thing 16 years ago...and have never looked back! It's been challenging yet sooooo rewarding and fulfilling. Don't regret it for a second. Enjoy your process of self-discovery and finding your true calling!

  • @srotoswinichakladar
    @srotoswinichakladar 2 года назад +55

    I had recently quit my job which was not letting me breathe peacefully and people around me started attacking me with questions like "why did you quit? At least you were getting money !!"
    " What's next? Time is passing by. Are you going to just sit like that without doing anything?" People always make me feel guilty for choosing to breath and rest and not do anything for a while until I do something else. This had made me feel guilty for not doing anything and I eventually drowned into depression and anxiety about my future. Thankfully my parents are always by my side and my biggest supporters. I am doing much better now and I am not entitled to owe an explanation about my decisions to anyone.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +4

      Other’s expectations are so hard. It’s amazing that you staid true to what you wanted and felt was right for you!!! I hope you continue to do well and disregard any negativity!

    • @srotoswinichakladar
      @srotoswinichakladar 2 года назад +3

      @@thewonderingmind Thank you so much. People like you give us courage to live life on our own terms. Take love ❤️❤️❤️

    • @coreydarnel
      @coreydarnel Год назад +1

      Are you living with your parents? You must have been able to make this decision because you have a good amount of savings or someone else is paying your bills on top of their own bills. Not judging you, but it's not simple for others to do what you are doing without parents or other financial resources. Unless you are homeless and truly living off the land. Which is also very difficult to do.

    • @srotoswinichakladar
      @srotoswinichakladar Год назад +1

      @@coreydarnel In my my country India even if we earn by ourselves, we have to stay with our parents and are not allowed to stay outside our parents home. In this case thanks to my parents who are supportive because I had been facing unfair situations in my job where I had no other options but to leave it. But yes I can't imagine what I would have done if I did not have my parents support. This world is a very cruel place you know. Life is unfair.

    • @coreydarnel
      @coreydarnel Год назад +1

      @@srotoswinichakladar yes your parents are a blessing to you. I know you will take care of them in their elder years. But do begin to get past what you are dealing with, so you can begin contributing to your own life and future. It's necessary for you, your parents and your future family if you have one.

  • @yvonneerik2510
    @yvonneerik2510 Год назад +167

    I quit my my job as an RN last two years ago after almost 19 years in the field. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work everyday. No amount of money can buy real happiness, but friends I'm not asking you to resign from your job or abandon your business but be wise!

    • @marcosalvatore673
      @marcosalvatore673 Год назад +8

      I don't really like my job but I love what it provides for me and my family. This pandemic has people rethinking working

    • @eiraantoinette6793
      @eiraantoinette6793 Год назад +2

      Hello ma'am what do you do now and how did you plan yourself before quitting?

    • @yvonneerik2510
      @yvonneerik2510 Год назад +1

      @@eiraantoinette6793 right now I run my own business and While I was still in service I planned towards early retirement, making about 2k weekly from my retirement investment portfolio trying so much to build more side hustles and extra income

    • @eiraantoinette6793
      @eiraantoinette6793 Год назад +1

      @@yvonneerik2510 wow impressive you're making quite a fortune speaking of investing I have heard many people talk about it but I don't really know how to start can you explain?

    • @yvonneerik2510
      @yvonneerik2510 Год назад

      @@eiraantoinette6793 there's a lot of investing options real estate cr ypto ETFS, stocks but my best advice get a professional lead you into profitable one that's exactly what I did

  • @jennyc1846
    @jennyc1846 Год назад +14

    Sweetheart how I wish I had found your videos 50 years ago..We all get stuck in that roundabout of lfe, leave school, get a job, get married, have kids, keep working to buy that house, that car, put the kids through school, pay the bills etc etc. Along the way we find some happiness, some sorrow and in the end if we are lucky we end up like that fisherman...I am at that stage now. The job gave way to illness at 50, which led to my retirement. The kids grew up and moved away to start their place on that roundabout of life. But getting sick was the best thing in my life. I got to go on a pension, didn't (well couldn't) have to work any more, so spend my time painting, gardening, reading and having the odd social engagement with my hubby or friends and family....life doesn't get any better. We sold our house where we lived but didn't like, but could afford - far away from our families, now rent in a beautiful place near the beach (we could never have afforded to buy), near my family. My daughter in fun sometimes has little digs at me for sleeping in until 10am but I say I have deserved to do that. I started work at 15. Gave all of my hard earnt money to the bank, the plumber, electrician, shops, tax man, power and electric company etc etc. Gave my life for my family because it was the expected thing to do. So much pressure, so much stress along the way...wake up everyone and listen to this young lady.. you cant take that money with you, besides someone else will have their hand out for that hard earnt cash...you could die tomorrow and it would all be for nought...so enjoy your life as best you can for yourself not for what others think you should be or do....and have fun along the way. I personally don't know anyone who has totally enjoyed their jobs they fought hard for. Too much competition, hateful boss, bullying etc etc...life as we know it is tough. **Thankyou for paying homage to all jobs and careers. I hate that word "just".. just a barista, just a waitress, just a cleaner...where would we be without these wonderful people who do whatever job? Everybody is JUST as important as the next....

  • @tonetburac
    @tonetburac 2 года назад +33

    Nowadays, corporate life is becoming stressful. This video is like a medicine for a healthy life

  • @gransattic
    @gransattic 2 года назад +99

    Thank you for talking about this. I am a registered nurse and have a lot of guilt for not picking up extra shifts. Almost all of the other nurses pick up at least one 12 hr shift per week, but I almost never do. I'd much rather spend my days off knitting, reading, crocheting, and playing cello, and no amount of bonus pay is worth that time for me. Thank you for reminding me of my values.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +6

      I’m so glad you choose to value your time off! It’s so necessary to recharge and relax and to feel happy, but I know how hard it can be when your peers are choosing something different. It’s also great to hear how someone finds balance in a career, it’s not always about leaving a job! Thanks for all you do as a nurse, and I hope you keep enjoying your lovely days of crochet, knitting, reading, and more. Best to you!

    • @jenniferjemison636
      @jenniferjemison636 Год назад +4

      Retired nurse here. I did barely any overtime. They thought I was strange and I thought them crazy. Retired early and am very grateful. No guilt here. I have done more than I ever planned. Burn out can destroy your life if you don't take steps to change things. Being selfish is okay. It means that you love yourself enough to take care of you. Why burn yourself out taking care of others while you neglect yourself?

  • @amandlathree
    @amandlathree 2 года назад +87

    Misery loves company. Most people are afraid to step out of the corporate rat race for fear of the worst. We cling onto this misery for dear life without truly realizing that we are clinging to misery. This video was just what I needed.

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

    • @elizaeri1295
      @elizaeri1295 Год назад +4

      It's difficult for most people as they have debts to serve...most are shackled to 30 years housing loan...I know some of my colleagues can't just walk away though they really hate their jobs....they can't see the way out and see that rat race is normal...

    • @jenniferjemison636
      @jenniferjemison636 Год назад +2

      Read the book Who Moved My Cheese. It helped to change my life. Also The Joy of Not Working by Zelensky. He is a Canadian author. Worked as an engineer until things went south. Lovely book. Gives you a lot to think about. Should be on Amazon.

    • @zila626
      @zila626 Год назад +3

      I mean, the bills gotta get paid... I'm sure most people would leave their jobs if they could figure out what to do instead

  • @alokasiablackmagic3444
    @alokasiablackmagic3444 2 года назад +36

    This is similar to what I’m experiencing now. I studied hard, worked hard for 9 years already, I’m quite successful and well-paid and I mainly like what I do, but the question is the same “what for”. I don’t spend all the money I get, I don’t travel more, I don’t like luxuries things but thrifting do.
    What I do love is being outside, enjoying summer which has again passed away while I was at a computer desk. I want to be an artist, to have kids, to care about my family because the family is the future, the company doesn’t last a lifetime. So I might do the same thing

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin
    @awakenthegreatnesswithin 2 года назад +128

    “Two roads diverged in the woods and I took the road less traveled, and that has made all the difference.” Robert Frost
    All the best on your journey. We should all have the courage to live the life we have imagined rather than being a sheep.

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

  • @cristina_em
    @cristina_em Год назад +38

    This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story.
    I left my 10 year job as a competitive project manager in Canada, sold my stuff and moved to Europe to purse a creative, slower life. Followed my intuition and heart. Everyday is intentional and meaningful … even the “siestas” ❤

    • @rmiao9191
      @rmiao9191 Год назад +3

      ❤❤❤ I recently left my job as a project manager in CA, I think I understand what you mean. Giving up a well-paid job & career is a hard decision , bringing up a lot of good questions about life and meaning and self……Hope you are doing well and enjoying your life in Europe!

    • @belmapalaciosgonzalez6396
      @belmapalaciosgonzalez6396 Год назад +2

      Hi Cristina Em. What do you do for a living now?

    • @cristina_em
      @cristina_em 5 месяцев назад

      @user-cp8uw7gg1g it was the worst. I was always stressed and anxious.

  • @oceanandsoil
    @oceanandsoil 2 года назад +187

    Dear Ariana, I can fully resonate with you and your feelings. I decided to leave a very comprimising job 7 years ago. It was 2 years after my graduation from university. Even though I got an excellent degree, did groundbreaking research in the field of microplastics in the ocean, I had not a promising future ahead of me (living in Germany). Society is so stubborn and unflexible, focussed only on monetary success. *sorry for being a little dramatic. However, going into the unknown was very scary but like you said, suddenly so many good things happened! Now, 7 years later, I would NEVER change that. Not a pandemic, not a war in Europe can hold me back from pursuing my dream: which is living independently after my own rhythm. I send you A LOT of energy & confidence for your future. No matter how hard some times will be - as long as you keep moving they will pass by. All the best, Sina

    • @alejandraalejandra4700
      @alejandraalejandra4700 2 года назад +7

      To start to live independently doing nothing you must to have enough money and good support

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад +1

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

    • @lenac3587
      @lenac3587 2 года назад +4

      @@alejandraalejandra4700 Not everyone has the luxury to live independently without an income. Most have to slog through on jobs they dislike to put food on the table and roof over the heads. You don't work you don't eat. Having said that I put my foot down and throw in the towel when a company expects me to drop my personal time at the beck of its call on weekends and after office hours

    • @rajdeepamaity8065
      @rajdeepamaity8065 2 года назад

      I truly believe that

    • @christaq3528
      @christaq3528 2 года назад +1

      I am so proud of you, Sina. Thank you for sharing that.

  • @mendyviola
    @mendyviola 2 года назад +27

    My job transitioned to working from home full time during the pandemic. I now have the flexibility to have lunch with my aging mother, piano lessons during my lunch hour, and the ability pursue education and training for thing I enjoy, not NEED. I am degreed with a 4 year science degree with 30+ years of work experience. This is a nice transition to retirement. With this type of work arrangement, I can work through my 70’s and still have a positive contribution to my paid work and have time for what I want to do with the time saved from not having to drive several hours a day. Welcome to the new, more healthy normal.

    • @jaleesa00
      @jaleesa00 Год назад

      But you already put in your time

    • @lingvomira
      @lingvomira 4 месяца назад

      I have a remote job but my workload is much more stressful than when I worked from office
      I am diagnosed with depression

  • @narcissistichealingforempaths
    @narcissistichealingforempaths 2 года назад +20

    Yes, I concluded the same thing after 10 years in corporate life. It is very narcissistic. Things are worse now. They were much better 10 years ago.

  • @savasanessa9477
    @savasanessa9477 2 года назад +27

    I chose to stay at home, since I gave birth to my son. I’m lucky, that my husband has a good job, so I don’t have to work.
    Just enjoying every day outside and watching my kid grow and discover the world 😍 now pregnant with my second. Being a stay at home mom is just so fulfilling for me 😌

  • @camkhuyennguyen1306
    @camkhuyennguyen1306 Год назад +20

    I cried so hard since finally there’s a video talking about me, my dread of being “just a normal adult”. Deeply resonate. Thank you so much for this piece of art, it means the world to me. I’m dying to leave corporate job forever. It’s been 4 years for me and I need to listen to this video whenever a mental breakdown comes on the days I cannot function as expected by others. I have a plan to leave corporate job at the end of 2024 and hopefully, I’ll find the inner peace, self love, self esteem which have been damaged since forever. Adults are different from each other. Some folks are still kids in a grownup body. Some are tragically traumatized as a child and normality seems triggering, overwhelming as deep down we know we’re incapable of living the way others always do.
    Send you lots of admiration from Vietnam 🎁 thank you so much for being our voice.

    • @Astrid-cc3mg
      @Astrid-cc3mg 10 месяцев назад

      How are you doing now?

    • @ArabellaTales
      @ArabellaTales 9 месяцев назад

      I’m curious too. How are you doing?

  • @ThePatterofTinyPaws
    @ThePatterofTinyPaws 2 года назад +73

    You only mention that you have a husband right at the end. That makes a huge difference to your story. Much harder to change careers if you're alone.

    • @smuky_
      @smuky_ 2 года назад +32

      This, we all want to enjoy our life and be happy but we have bills to pay. If you have someone to lean on it’s much easier to change your lifestyle.

    • @Amy.PCB.home.
      @Amy.PCB.home. 2 года назад +10

      very true, with rent, food, electricity, car bills.

    • @TheAllyFlow
      @TheAllyFlow 2 года назад +26

      I was looking for this comment. When you're leaving your job without a proper plan and without a supportive partner, you're just going to have another level of anxiety that you have to find another job asap.

    • @fairy7101
      @fairy7101 2 года назад +3

      @@TheAllyFlow yep, so true

    • @fairy7101
      @fairy7101 2 года назад +7

      @@Amy.PCB.home. yea, my cousin is my age and works part time thanks to depending on her husband’s retirement income for the rest of the bills. I’ve been working non stop full time from age 24-43 and I’m on anxiety medication for years but I couldn’t afford to live if I quit to work part time as a barista.

  • @aj--0019
    @aj--0019 2 года назад +92

    Exactly how i feel right now. I feel sad that my whole day just revolved around my work. Watching this gives me goosebumps as if the writer is reading my mind. But not all of us have the courage to leave our job especially if we have children or parents who rely on us.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +22

      That is so true, thank you for saying that. It's not always an option to leave a job. My parents didn't have that option when raising me. I hope that in whichever job situation you're in, you are able to find happiness or find balance that you need. Sometimes it's small changes that can really end up making a huge difference in life. Sending you my best wishes.

    • @oceanandsoil
      @oceanandsoil 2 года назад +10

      So true! However, I have seen people changing a lot under very "limiting" conditions. Maybe you find, year by year, some little things you can change? Maybe you can reduce working ours and find another small job, that is more fun and gives you energy so you stand the other one better by knowing, that change is evolving?

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

    • @ralisimon4848
      @ralisimon4848 2 года назад +2

      You always have a choice, we have three kids and more than anything the kids need a good example and parents who are happy and there for them.

  • @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870
    @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870 2 года назад +63

    This is like my story..I quit my nursing job in January and ventured into the unknown but I've never been fulfilled☺️I love waking up next to my kids, cooking for them playing with them, building my coaching practice and investing in the development of others.i have also started a vegetable garden and looking forward to growing more produce and living my best quite slow life at 36..my bank account is on negative as we speak but I live with the grace for the day,I have chosen this path and I'm willing to walk it and embrace the duality of both the positive and the challenges

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      I’m so happy to hear that you’re happy! That time with your kiddos and building the life you want sounds priceless. Wishing you all the best on your journey. 🥰

    • @malinisarovar
      @malinisarovar 2 года назад +1

      How do you pay the bills? And how do you get food on the table? If you feel ok to share, it will help me as well.🙏

    • @alejandraalejandra4700
      @alejandraalejandra4700 2 года назад +1

      @@malinisarovar she won't share the whole truth. According to her story, she is spoil brat. Her parents worked like horses, while she was depressed from to be a lazy student. Later, lazy nonresponsable worker.

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

  • @rondrake3720
    @rondrake3720 Год назад +2

    So this person had another in her life, she’s not going it alone

  • @DyanaMariie
    @DyanaMariie Год назад +9

    Oof, this is so painfully good. I remember having this mindset. Sacrificing my health & happiness, using the “it’s only temporary” line to justify why I should keep at it. Walking away from that life was the best thing I have ever done.

  • @gayathriiyer5207
    @gayathriiyer5207 2 года назад +76

    This is so beautiful. You are so lucky to be courageous to make such a decision to live life and not be controlled by societal pressures. Your video has been so invigorating and I feel that its really motivating me to spend time mindfully even though I cant leave everything and move into the countryside. I love the content you are posting. Please keep making these videos.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +9

      Thank you so much!!! honestly it’s those tiny every day changes of being more mindful that make a big difference in how we see life-sometimes even more so than the big changes like leaving a job. I wish you all the best 😊

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

  • @lauraneaves6912
    @lauraneaves6912 2 года назад +34

    Thank you for sharing! I get you!!! I left my corporate job after 17 years (because I had to in 2022). It was devastating as I was forced out. However it's allowed me to see life from new perspectives and see what else I can do. I also don't know what the future looks like, but believe this happened for a reason. Would love to go for a walk with you!

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

    • @markaralvin7919
      @markaralvin7919 2 года назад

      Hello Laura

  • @chessc.3407
    @chessc.3407 Год назад +11

    Completely agree, as a single woman is harder to quit since I don’t have the support of a husband. I wish I could quit and work part time even if I had less things I truly don’t care about those.I also have children that still need my support so kind of just waiting for them to be on their own and then hopefully I can prepare to work part time and downgrade it all. Leaving my career isn’t painful, staying is.

    • @Notesha
      @Notesha Год назад

      Me and you Sis, a single mom also with kids still dependent on my only income, I hate it everyday, and dread waking up for work daily, quitting is all in my mind everyday, but I know I can't quit.
      But am glad in a few months my work contract is coming to an end and I look forward to it.
      All the best ❤️ take care

    • @chessc.3407
      @chessc.3407 2 месяца назад

      @@Noteshahow’s life going now? I’m happy to say one more year and I’m going to quit. Getting rid of debt this year as I moved to a smaller place to save up too. Best to you and stay strong - nothing stays the same forever

  • @KAMZA.
    @KAMZA. 2 года назад +12

    I am watching this on a day that I quit my job. An 8 hour shift of standing on my feet as a cashier for 6 days a week. My off day I would spend sleeping. I don't drive so I spend alot of hours in buses..
    However, my college is marine engineering so I can either work these cashier/waiter jobs as they are the only jobs in my small tourist city or go to a ship.
    I feel so lost and alone and scared for my future.

    • @paulinaf8763
      @paulinaf8763 2 года назад

      I feel you 🌌 same but still at that not fulfilling job trying to find a way to escape and figuring out how to be able to provide for myself without coporate job being in the center of my life. Money and social's expactations are huge blockers I need to admit. But hope you will find your way and I will find mine. 💕

    • @Whojimmo
      @Whojimmo 2 года назад +1

      Trust the process. Each opportunity is a steping stone and a way for u to learn more about yourself and what u want. Keep the faith! ❤

  • @minhazzmajumdar2057
    @minhazzmajumdar2057 2 года назад +8

    Hello from India. In today's world we forget we are human be-ings not human doings

  • @trulymagyar7169
    @trulymagyar7169 2 года назад +22

    In my opinion, this is one of the BEST and MOST VALUABLE videos on RUclips, PERIOD. :). Thank you...💛

  • @Amz11_13
    @Amz11_13 2 года назад +10

    This ❤
    Edit: you told the story of the fisherman, and now I'm on the verge of crying. I have read this story over and over again the past few weeks. This video feels like a beautiful synchronicity. Thank you.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      What a coincidence! It is a really lovely story, one that will always stick with me. Thank you for the kindness and best wishes to you :)

  • @jamieparks4678
    @jamieparks4678 2 года назад +30

    Preach! This is so beautiful and TRUE. This is the new wave of life. It’s time for human kind to prioritize joy over all else ♥️♥️♥️

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

  • @veganrican606
    @veganrican606 Год назад +6

    This story is very familiar, I'm at a job where I gave my body and sanity for nothing, I've wasted 7 years in this job and I'm ready to quit, get a part time, and work in my dream of being an artist. I'm still in the crossroad and full of fear and I'm 41 years old, but I have this pull to do more than be a cog, a pull to create and explore.

  • @SuzanneKelmanAuthor
    @SuzanneKelmanAuthor 2 года назад +24

    This is so perfect. So many people don't understand this until they are much older. My younger self is proud of you for taking this brave step. My son is 23, and I am constantly telling him this as I am originally from Europe and now live in America, and the culture here is crazy. I remember being shocked when I first came here, and people told me they never took any holiday. As if it was a badge of honor. You will find your way because you have your priorities right. I look forward to following your journey if you are willing to share :-)

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! Your son is lucky to have such a role model. I appreciate your kind words and wish you the best as well 😊

  • @pamboyles8395
    @pamboyles8395 Год назад +4

    I spent the last 23 years in a stressful and toxic corporate office working 45-50 hours a week. I now work pt at an elementary school cafeteria, all the stress is gone and I have summers off. However, it's very hard to leave the money and benefits of a career no matter how miserable you become.

  • @ElizabethGonzalez-wc5if
    @ElizabethGonzalez-wc5if 2 года назад +5

    Do what makes you feel comfortable and happy. Walk away from what doesn't give you happiness and joy. Finding a job that makes you happy it won't even seem like work. Dream manifest your own life allowing yourself to take time for self relaxation and control of your mind soul and body. Time is precious use it well

  • @deidradexy5307
    @deidradexy5307 Год назад +4

    This video is just so beautifully made it brings me so much comfort.

  • @ROSTOVOKIN
    @ROSTOVOKIN Год назад +3

    As an 18 year whose life is just starting i am so down to do these types of thing people might think i am just lazy but i do not see myself doing the rat race of a 9-5
    But at the same time i am not doing anything to make my future secure but these stresses makes me wanna abadon life and live in the middle of nowhere without anyone around and keep myself at discipline at the same time when there's no one to judge you do things for yourself

  • @annamaria1929
    @annamaria1929 2 года назад +20

    I know you will likely never read this comment but I hope that it helps just one person as your story has helped me.
    I am a 60 year old woman who has had enough of working full time. I am about to throw in the towel as my work life has become soul destroying. It has filled me with dread, depression and anxiety.
    I asked for a sign that I was about to do the right thing and your video came up on my RUclips feed.
    Thank you, young woman and thank you universe. Anna, greetings from Ireland x
    (Incidentally I am taking a barista course this year and hope to work in a coffee shop)

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +3

      Anna, I am so sorry that your work has been making you so unhappy… that is a very difficult place to be in. I’m so glad you are thinking of making a change! I wish you all the best on whatever your path forward looks like. Thank you for sharing your story 🥰 best wishes from the US!

    • @annamaria1929
      @annamaria1929 2 года назад

      @@thewonderingmind I am truly blessed, thank you, x

    • @jackiegerarde9938
      @jackiegerarde9938 2 года назад +1

      Me too. There are a lot of us.

    • @shivakoliar4846
      @shivakoliar4846 2 года назад

      How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution
      1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped
      We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less.
      We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc.
      Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only.
      If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced.
      If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour.
      2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form
      We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops.
      But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads.
      So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world.
      Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home.
      Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems.
      If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own.
      Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world.
      Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming.
      Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future.
      3. Electricity Pollution
      We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur.
      As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated.
      4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk
      Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped.
      For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use lime with tea and coffee or just plain tea and coffee. A lime should be cut into a few pieces and cooked with tea and coffee or something else can be used instead of lime.
      5. How Much Should Be The World's Population
      Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population.
      Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

  • @skipperallen205
    @skipperallen205 2 года назад +2

    So true hurry make others people rich and retire as a old man or women and your beautiful productive years looking at a computer and the irony you will probably be replaced by a 🤖 robot.. Work is important but we all have gifts that can brings us money invest in self discovery and peace will follow corporate hell can get you your down payment on a more quality life after that get out.

  • @saminahmed2228
    @saminahmed2228 Год назад +8

    Oh my God! I can't believe that this beautiful piece of inspiration just popped up on my RUclips so randomly yet resonates my life right now. Being an Interior Architect it's been absolute crazy and here I am waiting after my resignation to see what tomorrow brings and of course training for barista was the first thing that came to my mind. Sending lots of love and prayers your way. May we all find what we are looking for.

    • @cynbod
      @cynbod Год назад

      I’ve been thinking of becoming a part time barista for years…only thing missing and common to all these stories is a husband to take care of the main bills.

  • @littlehomeinthevalley
    @littlehomeinthevalley 2 года назад +6

    Beautiful, beautiful message and video.

  • @vff2786
    @vff2786 2 года назад +5

    Ive never wanted a career. I’ve always loved studying because then I’m learning something for myself, but at a corporate job you are just there to make money for other people… I don’t like it. That being said, I’m fine with my current job, so far it hasn’t been stressful, and it’s pretty fun. But my dream is to be a writer, and that’s what I hope to be in the not so far future :) and if I can work as an author “full time” then I don’t think I would go back to my old job…

  • @amystell4230
    @amystell4230 8 месяцев назад +1

    Just gave my notice at my corporate job. My new opportunity could be great, more money even. But I SO SCARED. I know this will be a life changing thing but for now..its very hard

  • @mtnshelby7059
    @mtnshelby7059 2 года назад +8

    This is a lovely video, very thoughtful. One thing to consider in the conversation is many of us who are older were raised at a time when it was a bold choice for a woman not to get married out of school but to go into the workforce for a career. So we were excited about that. And yes, many of us burned out. You will find the hybrid that works. Keep posting please.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your perspective! I think that’s really valuable, for many people a career can be a wonderful and empowering thing. It wasn’t the fit for me but I hope I find what does fit! Best wishes to you :)

  • @ainmartinez8186
    @ainmartinez8186 2 года назад +4

    This is beautiful 💚 thank you!
    I'm 22 and looking for contents on RUclips about "things I wish I knew in my 20's" I don't find the genuine and beautiful message on the videos I watched, but yours different, thank you!
    Wish me the best in my 20's! 💚😆

  • @kaileesears4573
    @kaileesears4573 2 года назад +8

    This video made me cry! My perspective on life has completely changed and I've been doing every little thing I can to transition to making this happen. The leap is definitely scary but worth it - thank you for this 🙏

  • @RRiaz-np4lr
    @RRiaz-np4lr 7 месяцев назад +1

    Youre like truth itself. Thankyou for teaching me. Love you from pakistan.

  • @sanjanaprakash1240
    @sanjanaprakash1240 2 года назад +7

    I really Appreciate your wisdom in such topic about slow living between you are new in youtube I guess but still your videography is stunning.
    worth watching video.😌
    Have a great day
    Much love and power to you😇💝
    A High five from india✋️🇮🇳

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад

      Aw thank you so much!! I really appreciate that :)

  • @sandysimmer1279
    @sandysimmer1279 2 года назад +4

    Left my job in a hospital four years ago. Never looked back. I am single, my kids are grown . It was a decision I had to make to love myself more and find a beautiful Life. Working in a job I am happy in now, a lot less cash, a lot less stress! I am more balanced and centered and truly enjoy my Life now!

  • @Sisu
    @Sisu Год назад +5

    Resonated with so many things you said. So much self-reflection & maturity. It's impressive and surreal to see how you can have such a similar journey with someone on the other side of the world. Thanks so much for sharing! 💕

  • @CitrouilleCitron
    @CitrouilleCitron 2 года назад +4

    Lovely video ! One advice "enough to pay my bills" isn't enough : you should have an emergency fund, in case of renovations in your home or sickness, for instance. You should save money for retirement, too.
    For me, enjoying life is also not worring about future : I don't want to earn a big wage, but I need to be sure to have enough in my bank account if I have a problem.
    Love from France.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +3

      I agree! It’s important to be financially prepared for life, and I definitely factor in being prepared for emergencies and retirement into my budget, even on a lower salary. Best wishes to you!

    • @CitrouilleCitron
      @CitrouilleCitron 2 года назад +1

      @@thewonderingmind aaah great !! I was afraid that you had only to pay daily expenses 🙃

  • @BunBento
    @BunBento Год назад +2

    Thank you for making this video; it gave me so much comfort in knowing I am not alone in this phase of my life. Also, I would like to share a book that changed my perspective on life and finances: 'Early Retirement Extreme: A Philosophical and Practical Guide to Financial Independence' by Jacob Lund Fisker. I hope it will help someone else too.

  • @obd3256
    @obd3256 2 года назад +4

    I can't wait
    To stop working
    So that I can afford the serenity
    of drinking hot tea
    like that

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      I'll only date men who are at least six feet tall
      and make at least eighty thousand dollars per year
      that way, I get to make my tea in my luxurious room
      and tell other people how awesome life could be

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      Such a beautiful reply, me!

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      Thanks, me 😄

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      Hug!

    • @obd3256
      @obd3256 2 года назад

      Hugs Back!!!!

  • @rani777ify
    @rani777ify 2 года назад +5

    I used to work for the United Nation and a major pharmaceutical company. I was tortured by the arrogance nature of the jobs. I now work as an English Teacher, run my own tutor business, and be there for my daughter. Money can be tight for sure, but strangely enough, I am anxious on just the slightest thought about going back to those corporates! You're not alone..

  • @dhanchu6137
    @dhanchu6137 2 года назад +3

    OK, am only 5 mins into the video and I had all these feelings too. I quit my corporate career of 10 years in march 2022 and am not going back and I don't know what the future holds.

  • @norinefitzgerald5259
    @norinefitzgerald5259 2 года назад +5

    This is what I ask myself now.... “ Who am I and how do I want to show up in my life... is this congruent to me now? “ This is a wonderful and inspiring upload..
    Much appreciation... ☕️✨

  • @missevolucion7737
    @missevolucion7737 2 года назад +3

    The comment section is Golden... Blessings to all of you free spirited individuals 💖 we are changing the world one job dropped at the time 😂

  • @allenthammavong5875
    @allenthammavong5875 2 года назад +6

    Wow, thank you so much for sharing! This story deeply resonates with me and how I’ve shared many of the same perspectives, challenges, n choices as U have. I’m in my 3rd yr of learning to enjoy the unfolding of it all. Thank you ❤️

  • @janaldr8472
    @janaldr8472 Год назад +3

    this resonates with me so deeply, I started crying. it's not that I'm unhappy with my work or at my workplace - I like my coworkers, we get along well. but I do see more of them than my fiancé and I've been unhappy for a while now, but could never quite put a finger on what actually makes me unhappy. I did know I was spending too much of my precious lifetime working, but... this video has opened my eyes. I don't want to spend the next 40 years like this, living for work and only looking forward to the weekends and time off. thank you.

  • @samanthaduke8728
    @samanthaduke8728 Год назад +2

    I've been a barista for the past three years for this same slow living you're sharing about. Nice to know I'm not the only one ;)

  • @kellys7291
    @kellys7291 Год назад +1

    😮 don’t leave out that you work for RUclips and they pay you a good chunk 😮

  • @thandimthethwa7749
    @thandimthethwa7749 2 года назад +4

    I’m 42 years old and have been feeling like this a lot lately.

  • @daughterofthemosthigh3366
    @daughterofthemosthigh3366 2 года назад +4

    I so wish I had taken time off from work and traveled in a van. I am 61 now. I am so ready to slow down and do more things I enjoy. I don't want to die in front of my computer!

  • @askanidayspring3705
    @askanidayspring3705 2 года назад +2

    I would love to do this, but in what universe does being a minimum wage coffee barista pay anyone's bills? Oh right, she has a husband.

  • @MHdollrevievs
    @MHdollrevievs 2 года назад +1

    I loved the story about the Mexican and the American, Mexican happy American not so much :)

  • @clairevillanueva8802
    @clairevillanueva8802 Год назад +4

    This is one of the videos that made me decide to let go of my other jobs and focus more on making myself better and enjoying even just the most simple of things in life instead of sitting in front of my computer for 10 hours.

  • @swlittledaeng5382
    @swlittledaeng5382 2 года назад +6

    You really inspire me , Thank you. I quit my job on Jun ...I looking for peace , i trying to healing my soul. I will stronger again.🙏

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      How very brave of you!! Sending you lots of encouragement and love, keep moving forward!!

    • @swlittledaeng5382
      @swlittledaeng5382 2 года назад

      Many thanks🙏 first thing i should do now healing myself, left toxic social behind just focus on self.

  • @jeremytorgersen
    @jeremytorgersen 2 года назад +7

    Great video, I relate to so much of this. After 17+ years in a high stress corporate career, I quit a few months ago to finally embrace the slower, simpler life.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +1

      Amazing. Best wishes to you in this new phase of life!

    • @aroraji9966
      @aroraji9966 Год назад

      What do you do now sir for a living.. I'm 31 and already looking for ideas to retire and lead a simple and basic life

  • @moshpitmilacorn477
    @moshpitmilacorn477 11 месяцев назад +2

    On my second architectural design job since graduating last year and I’m feeling the same way you were a year ago. You should be proud of yourself for walking in the other direction, when everyone else is throwing their life away to climb the corporate ladder.

  • @ellietv2958
    @ellietv2958 9 месяцев назад +1

    i was expecting in her video she will show her being a barista hahahah ok

  • @elvirafelisarta7712
    @elvirafelisarta7712 2 года назад +3

    Woaaah I just watched your vlog. I hope you upload more. I love your content. I can watch and listen to it multiple times. 💕

  • @BeautybyRoxie
    @BeautybyRoxie 2 года назад +3

    This reminds me of The Cottage Fairy!!! Love Both of You!

  • @elizabethmesser2412
    @elizabethmesser2412 2 года назад +4

    I am currently going through this with school and my future career. I served a few years in the military where I was overworked and extremely burned out because of my dependability. After my service, I went right into college, got my undergrad, and am now in graduate school. I hate it and I am unsure what to do anymore. I am unhappy and my soul is telling me to quit and take another path. It is all a process I guess but I am slowly learning to listen to my intuition. I am in desperate need of finding the courage to take the leap.

    • @annamaria1929
      @annamaria1929 2 года назад

      if I had your choice, i would see it through then leap! it's such a small amount of time and you've came so far!... i am 60 yrs old and only just lept!.. Good luck and trust that your path will reveal itself... because it will. greetings from Ireland, anna x

  • @snowwhitecupcakes272
    @snowwhitecupcakes272 2 года назад +2

    I don’t understand how anyone can leave corporate employment. I could have a job I love, and be so happy, but it doesn’t provide health insurance. I wish we had universal healthcare in the U.S.

  • @sarahf1155
    @sarahf1155 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ah the fisherman story gave me chills. I also now work as a barista part time! After working various office jobs. I also now have a daughter too. Subscribed :)

  • @tyeshaglam8907
    @tyeshaglam8907 2 года назад +5

    This video is so touching on so many levels. Many of us are living someone else’s life and not a life of our own. Thank you for your candor and for sharing this beautifully narrated video with us all.

  • @christinagalloway5914
    @christinagalloway5914 2 года назад +5

    I'm barely 5 minutes in and am already happy to have found you and your channel. I quit my job just a few weeks ago and am starting a similar journey of self love, discovery and healing. As foreign as it feels, I'm ready for the next chapter. Looking forward to watching you bloom here on your beautiful channel while you navigate your latest chapter. Love and Light. ~Stina

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад

      Hi Stina, thanks for your kind words. I'm excited for you and your next steps! Sounds like your starting an amazing journey. Best wishes to you ❤️

  • @bethfarley6969
    @bethfarley6969 2 года назад +17

    I turned 60 in May…I have always had the mentality of feeling joy vs Corporate World. Everyone has that capacity to make a change. I work from home-Corporate job - but every hour for 10 minutes I take time to walk around the lake, feel the dirt and deep breathe. Your video has inspired me to start evaluating my own retirement and make some changes. For today? I have sunshine, loving family, roof over my head and peace. Follow your heart.

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +2

      I love that you make that ritual for yourself! That’s really beautiful. I am trying to appreciate my days more by taking intentional moments like you described. Thanks for the inspiration, I love how you cherish the precious things you have in your life. It’s a wonderful mentality to have. Best wishes to you in retirement 😊

    • @franklinstephen3268
      @franklinstephen3268 2 года назад

      Hi 👋 how are you doing?

    • @deborahlee8135
      @deborahlee8135 2 года назад +1

      Everyone has the capacity to change, but not necessarily the privilege to do so. Some will be supported by family and partners, some do not have this support. We need to recognise that to be able to do this we are working from a position of privilege. Perhaps one day this will be the norm, but that day is not yet here. 🙏

  • @cleophea777
    @cleophea777 2 года назад +3

    lovely video 🎀 🌈 🌸 💫. lots of love from Switzerland 🇨🇭

  • @lifeisfun9755
    @lifeisfun9755 2 года назад +5

    Such an awesome video. Thank you for making and sharing with the world!

  • @nadineholden3148
    @nadineholden3148 2 года назад +4

    Your video is so INSPIRING to me! This is exactly what I cherish. It brought tears to me knowing spirit was talking to me through your message. Sending Love and Light from Sacramento,California ❣

  • @hannahrutledge4926
    @hannahrutledge4926 Год назад +3

    This is resonating with my soul, so deeply. Thank you for making this video.

  • @Moon-gd4nn
    @Moon-gd4nn Год назад +2

    I am constantly told to "be more ambitious" or "how can you not be ambitious"....but I am. My goal is to be happy by myself without the unnecessary social noise and no matter what life throws at me I hope to stay myself and never vindictive or manipulative.

  • @Aco747lyte
    @Aco747lyte 2 года назад +4

    You narrated this beautifully and I can only hope that one day you will write a book. I fully agree with your sentiments, although my career was very different; 30 years as a naval surgeon in the Royal Navy. Now I live with my 4 daughters a much slower life that in many ways is reflective of yours, every day fulfilling with my twin sister. I wish you good health in your everyday life, and I think you should know your videos are helping many others, including my girls and I. All the very best, Wendi UK 🌻

    • @thewonderingmind
      @thewonderingmind  2 года назад +2

      Hi Wendi, thank you so much for your kind words. And wow, that’s incredible that you did 30 years in the Royal Navy, what a service to be proud of! I’m so happy you and your girls have been able to relate to my video. It’s so incredible to find out even across the world people are feeling the same things! I wish all the best in life to you and your girls. Take care 😊