What’s Worse A Crazy Step Dad or An Absentee Real Dad |
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- Опубликовано: 6 окт 2024
- Welcome back to another episode of #GetSome
Man this wasn't my best week when it came to football predictions, but you live and you learn. One of the biggest things that happened over the weekend was that Jess Hilarious was named as the newest host of The Breakfast Club. Congratulations Jess! This week I talk about both my Dads. My crazy step dad and my absent dad. This is episode is a whirlwind. Hope you guys enjoy. See yall next week!
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#GetSome is a weekly podcast hosted by comedian and actor Gary Owen. Each Get Some episode Gary Owen serves up a hefty dose of ADHD, barbershop-style storytelling focused on his most recent experiences on the road as a stand-up comedian. Gary Owen is sometimes joined by special celebrity guests to discuss the latest in popular culture, sports, and live entertainment.
:25-2:51 Dates
2:52-4:17 Super Wrong Predictions
4:18-7:29 Breakfast Club
7:30-9:30 Wait for the Bricks to Roll
9:31-12:17 Corey Holcomb
12:18-17:54 Comments
17:56-22:45 Step-Father Soccer Dad Story
22:46-24:47 Morning Person
24:48-25:08 My First Audience
25:09-26:44 Prince Tape Story
26:45-29:08 Saturday Morning Cartoons
29:09-33:05 Real Dad Absence
33:06-39:22 Worlds Collide Story
39:23-40:25 Not Ready for Full Time
40:26-45:05 Vow Renewal Story
45:06-46:42 Post Traumatic Step Dad
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An abusive parent is worst than an absent parent. So people are thanking there lucky stars that their abusive biological parents were absent; they probably turned out better for it.
How can you compare? 🤷🏼♀️ Both cause lifetime damage!! 👏🏼
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Gary, your stories are so authentic, personal, relatable, and just so damn funny! BUT what I love the most is that you present your podcast as if you're just speaking to one viewer. It's so captivating and engaging. That's why you're great at your profession. I'm here for it!
Both Gary. Both. 😂 I’ve got the emotional receipts. They got me coming and going.
If you read this you are AWESOME.
Nothing better as a kid than making your friends laugh.
Long brown hair, goatee, white wife beater tucked into jeans and boots. This is what I picture every time I hear a stepdad story from Gary. 😂
I feel for you Gary, I saw many a parent be cruel to their child , I never understood it, my dad was a saint ! You would have loved him , all the kids that didn't have a father in their lives, wanted to hang with me and my dad ! I didn't know how good I had it !!!!
The kids are gonna need you before you need them
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Gary, it's amazing that you used laughter to heal your heart. A many a dude that had dealt with those types of parents could easily end up on 48 Hours. You are operating in your gifts and the world is a better place because of it.❤❤❤❤ As far as your kids go, you maintain authenticity in who you are and your honest feelings about the relationship you desire with them. God's gonna work all that out! Until then, protect your heart and don't allow them to disrepect you, not as a Dad or a human. Everyone deserves that.
That Irvine show was amazing! I was part of the attentive crowd. 🤣 Best stand-up that I've been to thus far!!!
😂🤣😂 No disrepect for laughing at your trauma, Gary...but...these stories are hilarious! Thanks for sharing.
Love your solo pods. Good stuff Gary Owen!!!
Love you man, you have no idea how much your stories help heal my soul
As a step dad who is tough on my boys I definitely needed to hear this episode. I’m no where near as crazy as your step dad but nevertheless Im sure I can do better.
Not me fighting tears while listening to a Gary Owen podcast !!!
Hell yeah Gary, you’re a mother fuggin Star! ⭐️🔥⭐️
I made this comment within the first 10 minutes of this podcast but then you start talking about your step dad and the days that were great because he was fishing and the little tv with just an antenna and it’s really crazy because it was almost like you were describing my childhood and I’m just a little shook up right now. I feel ya Gary, like really feel you. 😢
I had an abusive stepdad, and I currently have an absent real dad.
I'm too grown to worry about my real dad. He has my number.
It's 4 am on a Saturday and i am listening to this classic. Gary's step dad is insane. Hella good stories in this podcast. 😂😂😂
My momma was equally crazy Gary. I feel you 😂
i had both. my dad left when i was 4 and after 2-3 years my mom found a violent alcoholic and i can tell you that i've never hated my real dad for leaving after all the years of abuse from my mom and his new husband.
Love you Gary!! I always looked forward to your Crazy Step Dad stories back during the quarantine. Bring those back along with your 1 verse raps!!
I am so glad I found this. We grew up in very much the same way. My stepdad has been my stepdad for 47 years. I left and went to LA when I was young to get away from him. I was in Indiana. I am now in Phoenix AZ and so is he and my Mom. They came out to be close to my half brother. I spent 7 years homeless after a bad motorcycle accident and have had zero help from them. I am still struggling with homelessness because I can't be around him. I am now 55 years old, 3 years ago he attacked me..choked me then started throwing punches...I didnt hit back. I have health problems now and live in a broken down motorhome that I have to move every 72 hours. I tried to break free...but it didn't work.
Gary I commend you for being able to talk about your step dad. What I take from this is hurting people hurt people. I'm convinced he was mistreated as a child and he is jealous of you. Look at it on the bright side. He gave you a ton of material to talk about. Look at you now. In the meantime I'm going to pray that you and your children are able to mend your relationship. Keep professing your love for your children and they will eventually see these podcasts and know how you feel. Plus your kids are young. Once they experience their own relationships, they will understand how relationships really work.
This will be a great episode
Step parents, in my experience, come from hell
Patience, Gary. It's not going to happen when you want to, and it WILL HAPPEN!! Keep sharing and you'll reunite with them in due time. I know it's hard though.
Gary’s giggle that he does mid sentence when he’s basically laughing at himself is probably more funny than whatever it is he’s actually saying 🤭
❤❤❤❤ Man. 😢 Fairplay for recognising that your dad was a different person back then. That takes something.
i know u probably wont see this and it doesnt matter much but so sorry u had to go thru that man
As someone who grew up without my father around most of the time, I think having an abusive step father would be worse. My mom never remarried or really had a relationship with anyone else.
I am glad I wasn’t around my dad as much in his younger years. He said the same thing. There are things I wish he was around for, but he struggled with addiction and didn’t want me to see that as much as possible.
Things got better once my son was born. My dad went to prison a few years before that and calmed down a lot, but he was still an addict and was wild.
He passed away almost 3 years ago.
I was NFL bound until them Sebring Lightning bolt boys took out my knees in the Heartland Championship game of the 7th grade Junior high school round of 64 in 1997. Them good ole days as the running back for them Hardee Junior High Wildcats.
Your podcast episodes help me throughout the week bro. A great way to reflect on your stories help me out figure shyt out. I went through my divorce when you did, and your breakfast club interview was insightful on how to move. 💯🤙
Man, comedians have lived some of the toughest lives 😢
It's a trip you maintained any kind of relationship with step dad or Mom fr. I would've left & never turned back
Kids shouldn't pick sides. Hopefully with time y'all can repair the relationships. 🙏✌
As a fatherless... 👀.. ive been adopted by my husbands dad and trying to get jesus to adopt me too 🙏
Appreciate you for sharing your story, G.
Damn Gary that broke my heart hearing how you felt when you saw his picture. That is absolutely ptsd. Praying for true healing for you. And moving on isn't healing. Sending you love.
Unfortunately, Moms have been guilty of turning the kids against very good, very present fathers for generations! 😡😡😡
All we can do is KEEP SHOWING UP! 👊🏾
#SaluteToTheGoodDads 🫡
Good story, thanks for sharing
Gary brilliant pod. I love hearing your stories about you growing up
It's sad what you went through
Damn the marriage Gary...you need a show based off your childhood 😂
I know your Stepdad rocked a mustache too 😂 🔥
Pleasantly surprised at how good this podcast is - Gary is good story teller
Gary
I pray you and your children heal & reconnect soon.
As someone who’s had a dad been there but left. And also had an abusive stepdad. I can tell you the abusive stepdad is way worse.
Unfortunately I can relate to your story regarding your step dad. I had a bad experience with my mother's husband as a child! Thank God, I turned out just fine!
Love this pod cast. Keep it up
Stay strong and vigilant. Your children are gonna need u one day
Lmao the tv story you told my pops and your step dad me be twins
Your dad probably does feel guilty for not being there for you, but he was young. He was being the best parent he knew how to be at that time. I often say rejection is protection. Who knows how you would have turned out if he was in your life. I'm a firm believer that the steps we've been ordered is what made us who we are today. I'm also praying for healing with your relationship with your real dad.
While I do empathize with your childhood traumas, the story about your father and Stepdad is hilarious. 🤣🤣
We'll be at the 7pm Tampa show Saturday. Can't wait!
Let’s get down has me in tears 😭
Man Gary I love you mannnn………u are hilarious. 😂 come to Atlanta. I’m there
Gary, I can relate to your childhood stories about your stepfather. Mine was an asshole too.
😔I am sad. 😔 I love you Gary you make me laugh with every little thing you say even listening to your upbringing with your step dad, you made a horrible situation into a laughabale teachable moment. I’m sad because the same days you are coming to Tampa Kat Williams is also coming. I brought tickets to Nate Jackson and Kat Williams. I hope I can make it the Orlando one ☝️. I have to get the in person experience. Watching you on RUclips is nice but I can only imagine how much more intense it is in person. ❤❤❤❤May this year be the year you get recognized and May your career continue to grow and please keep up the humble spirit. Much Love from JM. ❤❤❤❤
Greetings Gary, I'm sorry I missed you here in Irvine! Yes, we have the best weather here in Cali! I hope to see you do your thing soon! I love the Prince , Sign of the Times shirt! Peace 🙏🏾💜
Man this podcast is genuine. 🤌🏾🤌🏾
Man! Gary grew up in some real-life Joe Dirt shiggedy.
That’s sad 😢but I understand so glad you made a better life for yourself ❤
When Gary tells stories about his stepdad it hurts my heart.
My top 5 is Dave, Eddie griffin, Katt, Gary, Martin.....That order. GOATS!!!!
Gary, This is so sad, I pray you and your kids reunite. I'm so glad your childhood hasn't made you bitter.
When’s the Australian tour?? Love ya work gaz, always rib splitting brother, love ya from Australia
This why Gary was looking for Richard Pryors approval and he found it. 🎭😏🙏🏽🌎🇪🇨
you crack me up about your bets on sport's i laughed so hard i farted lol 😅
The football story is giving ME trauma😂
My ex lied and did her best to ruin my relationship with my kids. I kept letting them know I loved them. Stay prayed up about your kids and just keep letting them know your here for them. God answered my prayers and he will answer your also.
Yo gary your life always reminds me of the book "demon Copperhead".. it's a great read if your into books n stuff
Gary, that was fun and for you really, I laughed. I hope it was good for you,
Listening to the podcast I remembered when I was a kid, my stepdad shot my real dad.
My dad lived.
They were fighting because my dad wanted us to stay with him, and my stepdad wasn't having it.
Tri County North. Haven’t heard that in a while. Is that Winton Woods? Wow
Enjoy your pod story time Gary, your kids will come around. Remember you've had them since birth, let them have their moment, again they'll come back. They know you're a good dad.
We love you Gary. I’ve seen kids only listen to the mom and poison their minds, wives hold grudges till the moon turns to cheese! Fuck it. We love you!!’
this episode broke back some buried memories
Anyone who says their biological parent made them who they are , didn’t have enough hate or anger pure enough to see clearly enough to learn they have to be better people than their parents. It take a special kind of anger to want to be better than your parents in every way imaginable. And in a good way. The kind of anger to confront a bully or to protect loved ones from a bigger danger and no way to survive. The anger gives 🔥 and strength to do things
Anger is the secondary emotion. The primary is usually hurt/pain. The mistreatment does make you better because it teaches you who you DON'T want to be. But you don't have to get to angry or hateful in order to decide to be better than what you lived.
I met my father once but he never interacted with me although I spent a summer with him and my grand dad and grandma I had fun being with them 😂
Bro I’m so sorry you had shit for dads bro
Big FAN LOVE FROM TXAS
🔥🔥🔥 dis pod was fye
See you in Nashville!! Any idea who will be opening?
Lmao about the dad and step dad story
Me too Gary none of my teams won till San Francisco beat the lions and I'm from Michigan
Gary ur mental is very important and ur happiness. U deserve peace and happiness. Pls talk to a therapist and hopefully ur kids will come around. I don’t know both sides of the story with Corey, 2 different dynamics.❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸 can’t wait until u hit East coast, caught Flame Monroe tonight.
Me thinking when I’m in the same boat. Shitty step father or ghost of a father with a nameless face. 🤔 😂
I think your kids will come around eventually gary just keep your head up
You know Gary this may sound Crazy but this story just made me realize that both your father and Stepfather both LOVEd you … they just weren’t GOOD AT IT… and sometimes it happens … they just didn’t know how to..
Damn Gary that story about your step and your football career made me SO SAD. That man was SOOO misersble about who he was or had become as an adult, he didn't want YOU to feel good about yourself. It's VERRRRY sad. Your MOM for allowing that in HER dysfunction. It's soooo sad. Says sooo much about YOUR character because of how you turned out, DESPITE everything you dealt with as a child that was meant to BREAK you. When I say generational curse breakers, this is what I mean. YOU ARE THAT!❤
"yo, have you've seen Purple Rain?"
Not being happy as a kid really affects you years later. As a parent you try so hard to not let year children feel what u felt as a child.
Deep great podcast
Your daughter is going to come around eventually, she just hurt by you right now for destroying her world which is you and her mom being together,but with time, she will reach out to you, your a great father and the universe going to bring her back to you, stay patient and positive
WOW your kids should makeup with you. You sound like a great father and husband. Many people don’t know how to count their BLESSINGS 😇😎🙏🏽
Crazy step dad. At least some effort was made. My dad... he still alive? Robbed my mother.
Thanks for the therapy, Gary! 😊
Gary, IF these chiefs do win, maybe you can come out to chumash in the 805. Im sure you will do good
Even though you smiling and laughing it off Gary, I know you're really hurting inside because of your kids. But as you know from experience with you family sometime you talk and sometimes you don't. It suck that it your kids but I hope that the can see the videos ,see you're hurting and reach out. Take care and never give up, cause that will make it worst.
Yeah your real dad didn't want no parts of that step dad. Sorry you went through that, but I pray that your kids will come around and come back into your life before it's too late.
Anyone who says Cali has the best weather has never been to Hawaii. Hawaii is paradise and has THE ABSOLUTE best weather in the U.S.
Luv u such a good dude the best