Did you see the clip? Ruby totally got under Sandra's skin, hence Sandra's mini meltdown at the end. Unfortunately, she took the bait. Ruby had been goading her the entire interview.
Sandy handled her sh*t impeccably. Ruby’s entire schtick was based around ridiculing and demeaning her subjects. Sandy is a smart, badass Alpha Female, in this instance, Ruby met her match. 💯
I dont feel as if Ruby is intentionally mean, she's just very ballsy and not afraid to ask the questions that viewers wanna know. she seems to have a deep fascination with people and I think that that can sometimes come across to people as "invasive" or "aggressive". she knows what it takes to be a good interviewer and that the last thing you wanna be seen as is boring. she no different than barbara walters. watch her other interviews and you will see she has an amazing talent for getting people to open up to her and getting a great interview out of them at the end of the day. which is what shes being paid to do.
@@gsotoaz .... It's show biz. Back in the day we did things like that to get people's interest (in what today you call views). Also we did "publicity stunts". We also had trend setters. All in all today you call it; views, likes, following etc. The generation after you (or us) will cultivate it to thire standards of their present time & if your still alive you'll see it for yourself to understand and experience.
She is absolutely gorgeous in this. She and Grace Jones were the most stunning and brilliant women of the '80's and the most poorly treated by inane journalists and talk show hosts.
CutZy McCall Oh yeah, us men hate traditional beauty and women don't want to be thought of as traditionally beautiful at all. We want the avant garde "out there" look with a big nose, crazy hair and crooked teeth. The beauty you have to dig deep, deep, deep to find? Yep, that's what everyone wants! You must be ugly to say what you said.
Ruby tries to get under Sandra's skin for the whole of the interview. Sandra lets it wash over her until 4:25 then turns the tables by setting a trap - "I understand you, I get you" - which Ruby stupidly falls into - "What do you get?" - thus enabling Sandra to take her to the cleaners: "Who the hell wants to be in England hosting a talk show?" She then completely dominates Ruby and doesn’t let her get another word in until Ruby hoists the white flag by terminating the interview. The fact that the audience whoops its approval of Sandra's revenge on Ruby's own show must have felt like a jug of iced water being emptied over Ruby's head.
I think it was mostly playful, but I will say that this is the least professional Ruby has ever been (she claims her Madonna interview was bad on her part but this eclipses it). And i'm glad Sandra was quick and intelligent enough to come and 'play'.
Are you serious?! Sandra went along with the whole sketch, up until she had enough and completely blasted her ass! I wouldn't be surprised if Ruby never invited her back again. She was clearly intimidated by Sandra, you could tell. Every question had a side-dig in it as if she was the Queen of England handing out orders to some peasant.
According to Sandra, Ruby took her out for lunch before this show and they got on famously, and so when turned on her during this interview it was all a bit of a surprise
It's odd that Ruby Wax told her she didn't look like that model when Sandra actually modeled in the 90s. Ruby certainly wasn't going to be featured at a Chanel show like Sandra. That's for sure.
Jack Mac 🤣 no. Ruby was never a beauty and she never got over that. She wanted to a great actress too. She loves to tell other women they are failures or aren’t attractive. She’s been humbled. I don’t wish a nervous breakdown on anyone but I have depression too and you’re just feeding the beast by letting your dark side run things. This is Ruby Wax all day long. When you see her being an asshole (to this day) on talk shows (that will have her) that’s the ugly duckling talking. She’s not being funny. She really is an asshole. Her parents really fucked her up too. It must hurt being told you’re ugly by your own dad.
As much as some narcissists would want you to believe differently: being an asshole is not gender specific to MEN. As we're learning everyday nowadays.
This was back when every chat show host had to be nasty - it was thought to be shocking or some rubbish Thank goodness that particular fashion has had its day
Thank goodness we have comedienne. What they do is make us laugh thru this struggle of life. Thank you Sandra, Ellen, Jerry Seinfeld, Jim Gaffigan and all the other ones for making us laugh at times we could have just cried. Thank you God and Goddess for putting these people here.
I agree with many of these posts. While I love Ruby Wax, she was clearly goading Sandra and sticking her with every needle she had. Sandra, brave bitch, didn't give in and finally fed it back to her. Fun T.V.
My goodness, Ruby really was an uncontrollable jerk in this stage of her life. This is really beneath any professional standard at all. She is just rude and aggressive. Probably to do with her illness as well. I like what she is doing now, kudos for that, but this.....she must have hated herself really very much.
Also if you see the abrupt way Ruby cut off the interview @ 5:03 - when she says "that reminds me" and talks about Grace Jones being next - you can see that was filmed later because her hair is different than @ 4:55 right after Sandra read her ass. I wonder if she ended the interview abruplty because she was butt hurt because Sandra humiliated her and later inserted the segway into Grace Jones all smiles just to save face on camera.
I don't understand what Ruby Wax was trying to accomplish here. This isn't her usual persona, is it? Did she genuinely dislike Sandra Bernhard? Or, was she trying to be funny, playing the part of a bitter, catty woman? I feel like when there's that much doubt on the audience's part as to what's happening, it just isn't working. Sandra handled it great though. Did Wax ever comment on this interview subsequently?
Ruby is a mean and bitter woman who never got over not being beautiful or talented. What other woman have you seen go out of her way to tell so other many women that they are not attractive? She’s paid for it. No career now. Numerous breakdowns later. Still bitter. Good riddance.
Sandra should have asked Ruby How many covers of playboy does one need to be featured on before they can consider themselves beautiful? Sandra:1 Ruby: 0
Nope. Sandra said Ruby took her to lunch and acted like a friend. Then tried to humiliate her on air. She’s paid for it too. In spades. No career and numerous breakdowns later she’s still bitter.
The comments are hilarious. For the uninitiated. This is how ruby's early shows were conducted (largely) with guests. To Mark herself out as distinct and different from other hosts on TV at the time. She'd often meet guests in advance. Build up a rapport with them prior and arrange these sort of mock hostile interviews. The guest would always come off the victor. The hostility isn't real. The premise and intonation of the interview was likely set up in advance. Ruby knew Sandra was a Great attack comic. Very sharp , deadpan with a very skillful acid tongue. She's drawing the best from Sandra and giving her a platform to demonstrate her strengths.
Nah, this was something totally different! You could tell by that final remark was like a silver stake through her heart when the audience applauded Sandra's comeback! Ruby hasn't had a single interview like this one! She cut Sandra off at the end, because she knew Sandra got to her! Sandra wasn't there to attack Ruby, you can tell by Sandra's body language and her carefree answering she just wanted to have fun, until Ruby made it a "I am better then you" show.
I’m such a Sandy fan so this makes me sad. San was bullied for her exotic beauty. She was prob having a bit of PTSD when Ruby got c@@t. But looks like this is Ruby’s thing right? Sh@@ty interviews. Sometimes if an Aries (Ruby) gets intimidated they bark. But Sandy kept her ducks lined up. Love her!
Ruby was only big in the U.K. because she was able to push that “brash American” character Brits love to laugh at. Here in the US she was nothing. How sad for her that in the country of her birth no one knew who the heck she was. That is why Sandra hit a nerve. She caught on to Ruby’s jealousy.
What a waisted interview. Sandra Bernhard would be a great / interesting person to sit and shoot the breeze with. King of Comedy is a quirky film and she was AWESOME in it, Sandra also had a really unique performance art show (not a comedy routine), and she's brilliant, so this was a missed opportunity.
It's funny ruby always goes on about Madonna interview being terrible .....but this was bad ....it could have been comedy gold but became a car crash ....interesting to know why ....I thought Sandra was really quick and funny.
I love both of them but this is not Ruby’s best moment, and Sandra definitely outclasses her here. I think Ruby was trying to project her own insecurities onto Sandra, because she envied her self-confidence, and Sandra was having none of it. “Honey, I have fame.” When she finally has enough and reads her at the end, it’s game over. Even Ruby’s fans in the audience are on Sandra’s side. I’m sure Ruby would admit this wasn’t her finest moment. She’s grown a lot since then.
Who didn't see this coming? Back to her appearances on David Letterman in the 1980's, I always thought Bernhard on some level had a bitterness about her for not being an A-list talent or classic beauty and while she can be very entertaining, Sandra has often been mean and come across as arrogant. Ruby has since spoken of her distain for having to interview people she didn't like or respect and it's pretty obvious here that she didn't think much of Bernhard.
The sorry fact is that Ruby Wax isn't really funny... "I have my own show" - Well Sandra blasts her shows on Broadway, and when she did 3 nights at Royal Festival Hall in London '94 Ruby and Richard E Grant were right behind me. She didn't seem particularly amused, probably jealousy: Sandra incorporates everything in her life and shows: Humour, glamour, singing, dancing, fashion, pathos... was Ruby ever invited onto a Chanel runway?
I love Sandra! She is way too smart to let ruby wax get under her skin and gave it to her at the end. Well done Sandra!!
I know right. Love it
Did you see the clip? Ruby totally got under Sandra's skin, hence Sandra's mini meltdown at the end. Unfortunately, she took the bait. Ruby had been goading her the entire interview.
@@NickeyONickes i didn't realize Ruby had delusional fans
Ruby isn't even 1/10th the woman Sandra is/was. She wishes she was though. As do I myself!
Sandy handled her sh*t impeccably. Ruby’s entire schtick was based around ridiculing and demeaning her subjects. Sandy is a smart, badass Alpha Female, in this instance, Ruby met her match. 💯
Don't bs a bs'er , Sandra is Gold 🥰🙌🌟
I dont feel as if Ruby is intentionally mean, she's just very ballsy and not afraid to ask the questions that viewers wanna know. she seems to have a deep fascination with people and I think that that can sometimes come across to people as "invasive" or "aggressive". she knows what it takes to be a good interviewer and that the last thing you wanna be seen as is boring. she no different than barbara walters. watch her other interviews and you will see she has an amazing talent for getting people to open up to her and getting a great interview out of them at the end of the day. which is what shes being paid to do.
These two are both similar but this is a side to Ruby that I've never seen. Almost vicious. Sandra is as always ..The bomb!
Almost? 🤣 God she’s awful.
Sandra read her near the end.
RUBY was dreadful to SANDY.....but SANDY was smart about it.
agreed the flow is off ruby is like grilling her off the top and sandra is doing a great job not playing a long.
@@JasonMenayan Really because she comes off as a total bitch
@@gsotoaz .... It's show biz. Back in the day we did things like that to get people's interest (in what today you call views). Also we did "publicity stunts". We also had trend setters. All in all today you call it; views, likes, following etc. The generation after you (or us) will cultivate it to thire standards of their present time & if your still alive you'll see it for yourself to understand and experience.
She is absolutely gorgeous in this. She and Grace Jones were the most stunning and brilliant women of the '80's and the most poorly treated by inane journalists and talk show hosts.
I love Sandra's looks. She's exotic and sexy. Frankly, the concept of traditional "beauty" has become very boring.
CutZy McCall agreed! Theres nothing sexier than a prominent nose....you can feel it digging into your cheek while kissing
i think she's fucking hot.
100%!
CutZy McCall Oh yeah, us men hate traditional beauty and women don't want to be thought of as traditionally beautiful at all. We want the avant garde "out there" look with a big nose, crazy hair and crooked teeth. The beauty you have to dig deep, deep, deep to find? Yep, that's what everyone wants! You must be ugly to say what you said.
Ruby thought she could bully and dominate the conversation. Did she know Sandra before this? Wrong pick, honey. 😂
Ruby tries to get under Sandra's skin for the whole of the interview. Sandra lets it wash over her until 4:25 then turns the tables by setting a trap - "I understand you, I get you" - which Ruby stupidly falls into - "What do you get?" - thus enabling Sandra to take her to the cleaners: "Who the hell wants to be in England hosting a talk show?" She then completely dominates Ruby and doesn’t let her get another word in until Ruby hoists the white flag by terminating the interview. The fact that the audience whoops its approval of Sandra's revenge on Ruby's own show must have felt like a jug of iced water being emptied over Ruby's head.
I think it was mostly playful, but I will say that this is the least professional Ruby has ever been (she claims her Madonna interview was bad on her part but this eclipses it). And i'm glad Sandra was quick and intelligent enough to come and 'play'.
+La Serpenta Canta You're wrong.
Are you serious?! Sandra went along with the whole sketch, up until she had enough and completely blasted her ass! I wouldn't be surprised if Ruby never invited her back again. She was clearly intimidated by Sandra, you could tell. Every question had a side-dig in it as if she was the Queen of England handing out orders to some peasant.
I know wtf ! Why was ruby being Sucha asswhole to her guest ? Sandra is brilliant- then and always
maybe, but Ruby was also working on Absolutely Fabulous. ya know, no big deal ;p
According to Sandra, Ruby took her out for lunch before this show and they got on famously, and so when turned on her during this interview it was all a bit of a surprise
Sounds about right. Terrible woman.
I never heard of Ruby but Sandra OWNS her here.
It's odd that Ruby Wax told her she didn't look like that model when Sandra actually modeled in the 90s. Ruby certainly wasn't going to be featured at a Chanel show like Sandra. That's for sure.
Seems like Sandra's time was cut off abruptly. Perhaps Ruby felt she was outdone... Ha!
100%
That was a very odd interaction.
Correctrix ...I know, I don’t know why Ruby is such a complete bitch
Hormonal. Pregnant
Jack Mac 🤣 no. Ruby was never a beauty and she never got over that. She wanted to a great actress too. She loves to tell other women they are failures or aren’t attractive. She’s been humbled. I don’t wish a nervous breakdown on anyone but I have depression too and you’re just feeding the beast by letting your dark side run things. This is Ruby Wax all day long.
When you see her being an asshole (to this day) on talk shows (that will have her) that’s the ugly duckling talking. She’s not being funny. She really is an asshole.
Her parents really fucked her up too. It must hurt being told you’re ugly by your own dad.
Yeah Ruby is such an asshole
Touché Sandra, you nailed her good.
Wow, Ruby really proved misogyny is not just a male trait.
As much as some narcissists would want you to believe differently: being an asshole is not gender specific to MEN. As we're learning everyday nowadays.
The two women didn't get along but that does not mean hatred of all women. Stop using words that you don't understand.
This was back when every chat show host had to be nasty - it was thought to be shocking or some rubbish
Thank goodness that particular fashion has had its day
This may explain why people like Ruby have nervous breakdowns.
Ding ding ding. If you feed that dark side it’s harder to keep it at bay when you start to go low again.
great TV moment here. go Sandra!
I take it they didn't do high tea together after the show
Ruby tamed the lion that is Sandra Bernhard, but lions are wild! Love this interview..
You have to come prepared if you want to one up Ms. Sandy. Ruby had her ass handed to her. #Next
The edit at the end with a totally different hairstyle on ruby is fascinating
Oh well spotted. That's suspicious!
@@SummerBayJournalWow, you are right. I didn't recognize it. Even the light is different.
Thank goodness we have comedienne. What they do is make us laugh thru this struggle of life. Thank you Sandra, Ellen, Jerry Seinfeld, Jim Gaffigan and all the other ones for making us laugh at times we could have just cried. Thank you God and Goddess for putting these people here.
I agree with many of these posts. While I love Ruby Wax, she was clearly goading Sandra and sticking her with every needle she had. Sandra, brave bitch, didn't give in and finally fed it back to her. Fun T.V.
its pretty obvious its scripted
I think that lady was jealous of Sandra
Ah, yes, the "jealous" accusation. The accusation of a simpleton and imbecile.
Ruby was a Bitter Host Sorry Vile and Rude...
My goodness, Ruby really was an uncontrollable jerk in this stage of her life. This is really beneath any professional standard at all. She is just rude and aggressive. Probably to do with her illness as well. I like what she is doing now, kudos for that, but this.....she must have hated herself really very much.
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Sandra handled this perfectly!
Madonna fixed Ruby in her interview
Also if you see the abrupt way Ruby cut off the interview @ 5:03 - when she says "that reminds me" and talks about Grace Jones being next - you can see that was filmed later because her hair is different than @ 4:55 right after Sandra read her ass. I wonder if she ended the interview abruplty because she was butt hurt because Sandra humiliated her and later inserted the segway into Grace Jones all smiles just to save face on camera.
Yes. And Amazing catch, btw
Woo Ow! Hurts to watch! Ruby is truly NAsty here.
I feel for Sandra!
Who the hell has on a guest like Sandra Bernhard and says I don’t know anything about you except King of comedy.
This is their act though - they're both quite similar, but I think it turned into a battle of who is going to beat who
Sandra would never tell another woman she wasn’t attractive. Especially for no reason and out of nowhere. Ruby’s just mean and bitter.
@@calebcostigan2561 True qq
I don't understand what Ruby Wax was trying to accomplish here. This isn't her usual persona, is it? Did she genuinely dislike Sandra Bernhard? Or, was she trying to be funny, playing the part of a bitter, catty woman? I feel like when there's that much doubt on the audience's part as to what's happening, it just isn't working. Sandra handled it great though. Did Wax ever comment on this interview subsequently?
Ruby is a mean and bitter woman who never got over not being beautiful or talented. What other woman have you seen go out of her way to tell so other many women that they are not attractive? She’s paid for it. No career now. Numerous breakdowns later. Still bitter.
Good riddance.
Sandra is the best! Love her.....
Ruby... you’re dealing with the wrong braud.
Sandra should have asked Ruby How many covers of playboy does one need to be featured on before they can consider themselves beautiful? Sandra:1 Ruby: 0
That edit at the end was jarring. The lighting, her hair color, the makeup, that was clearly tacked on after the fact. I wonder what the story is.
wow ,shocking , very revealing about ruby, sometimes there are no words , insightful !
Now let's push Ruby down the stairs and start the interview over. Hated her "Desperately Seeking Sandra"!!
I watched sandy have a fit like a child because bread was brought to her table at a restaurant. She made the waitress cry. Vile.
Elabaorate
I wonder what set Ruby off...maybe they're interaction before the taping was tense?
Nope. Sandra said Ruby took her to lunch and acted like a friend. Then tried to humiliate her on air. She’s paid for it too. In spades. No career and numerous breakdowns later she’s still bitter.
That was strangely contentious.
The comments are hilarious. For the uninitiated. This is how ruby's early shows were conducted (largely) with guests. To Mark herself out as distinct and different from other hosts on TV at the time. She'd often meet guests in advance. Build up a rapport with them prior and arrange these sort of mock hostile interviews. The guest would always come off the victor.
The hostility isn't real. The premise and intonation of the interview was likely set up in advance. Ruby knew Sandra was a Great attack comic. Very sharp , deadpan with a very skillful acid tongue. She's drawing the best from Sandra and giving her a platform to demonstrate her strengths.
And yet this is the only interview that displays such.
Nah, this was something totally different! You could tell by that final remark was like a silver stake through her heart when the audience applauded Sandra's comeback! Ruby hasn't had a single interview like this one! She cut Sandra off at the end, because she knew Sandra got to her! Sandra wasn't there to attack Ruby, you can tell by Sandra's body language and her carefree answering she just wanted to have fun, until Ruby made it a "I am better then you" show.
2 divas clashing together
That was painful. Why the hell have someone on your show if you don't like them?
I’m such a Sandy fan so this makes me sad. San was bullied for her exotic beauty. She was prob having a bit of PTSD when Ruby got c@@t. But looks like this is Ruby’s thing right? Sh@@ty interviews. Sometimes if an Aries (Ruby) gets intimidated they bark. But Sandy kept her ducks lined up. Love her!
Never heard of RW.
Sandra is very sharp.
Sandra owns any interview.And who was this broad trying to get under her skin?
I agree! ANY interview I have seen of her she dominates. The host becomes a side-kick IF they're lucky! LOL.
Ruby was only big in the U.K. because she was able to push that “brash American” character Brits love to laugh at. Here in the US she was nothing. How sad for her that in the country of her birth no one knew who the heck she was. That is why Sandra hit a nerve. She caught on to Ruby’s jealousy.
we all have our gentile fantasies
This must be a shtick they’re comfortable doing with each other.
Geez -what wolfish creature that Wax is. I bet at full moon she grows fur and runs around the woods. Yikes .
Ooh salty. Wax met her match !
What was the back story? I have always enjoyed Sandra tbh but it's true as a British person I have no idea what she does
Actress and comedian and she was best friends with Madonna in the late 80s ans early 90s
What a waisted interview. Sandra Bernhard would be a great / interesting person to sit and shoot the breeze with. King of Comedy is a quirky film and she was AWESOME in it, Sandra also had a really unique performance art show (not a comedy routine), and she's brilliant, so this was a missed opportunity.
Shame on Ruby.
It's funny ruby always goes on about Madonna interview being terrible .....but this was bad ....it could have been comedy gold but became a car crash ....interesting to know why ....I thought Sandra was really quick and funny.
Me-OW!!!
I love both of them but this is not Ruby’s best moment, and Sandra definitely outclasses her here. I think Ruby was trying to project her own insecurities onto Sandra, because she envied her self-confidence, and Sandra was having none of it. “Honey, I have fame.” When she finally has enough and reads her at the end, it’s game over. Even Ruby’s fans in the audience are on Sandra’s side.
I’m sure Ruby would admit this wasn’t her finest moment. She’s grown a lot since then.
Who didn't see this coming? Back to her appearances on David Letterman in the 1980's, I always thought Bernhard on some level had a bitterness about her for not being an A-list talent or classic beauty and while she can be very entertaining, Sandra has often been mean and come across as arrogant. Ruby has since spoken of her distain for having to interview people she didn't like or respect and it's pretty obvious here that she didn't think much of Bernhard.
My God, Ruby was absolutely nasty here.
Ruby is so shady aka predictable. What ever work$.
Ruby was being Ruby, 'nough said.
And today it's "Ruby WHO?"
Is Sandra a giant, or is Ruby a dwarf?
Both
i want dirt, and you to break down in 5 minutes... go!
This was reaaaaallllyyyyy awkward...
Awkward, party of two...
Ruby Wax used to be GB'd Trump (pre President)
Ruby was rough in this interview.
don't bs a bser lol love Sandra 👏👏💕
Love Sandra, absolutely dislike Ruby.
The sorry fact is that Ruby Wax isn't really funny... "I have my own show" - Well Sandra blasts her shows on Broadway, and when she did 3 nights at Royal Festival Hall in London '94 Ruby and Richard E Grant were right behind me. She didn't seem particularly amused, probably jealousy: Sandra incorporates everything in her life and shows: Humour, glamour, singing, dancing, fashion, pathos... was Ruby ever invited onto a Chanel runway?
Why was the host so mean to Sandra?
Ruby's ego always gets in the way
Sandra spilled the beans that Ruby would rather be in the States doing films. She hadn`t say that if ruby had not cornered her.
why is this so terrible they are both so great
Major magic behind AbFab, Ruby Wax. I love the snark and the (witty) bitchiness tbh.
Is IT a man or a woman.
I thought they were great. especially the gentile fantasy bit 😂
Sandra is a great comedian but a boring celeb