Ftm - Coming to terms about being Transgender

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024

Комментарии • 53

  • @KainLightsworn
    @KainLightsworn 9 лет назад +30

    Seriously wishing I could thumb this up a million times. I swear, with most of the community, it seems all you hear is 'I knew since I was practically a fetus', and when you hear that so often, it really makes you doubt yourself. Doubt that what you're experiencing, what you're thinking of is actually real. Sometimes, all it takes is one voice saying 'It's okay not to have known since you were young' to help combat a tidal wave of 'are you sure you want to do this'.
    Been watching a few of your videos this morning Caden, and I have to say, I really admire your courage in posting your journey online. Speaking as someone who is more and more convinced they are ftm themselves and are nervous as hell about the wrong people finding out, that takes a lot of guts. A LOT. Of guts.
    Thank you for having the courage to share your journey- it really gives us hope.

  • @Tody809
    @Tody809 9 лет назад +6

    I felt the same way too bro I see your facial hair and side burns are kicking nicely bro looking awesome man.

  • @pedroquintela9300
    @pedroquintela9300 9 лет назад +6

    Looking back at my past since i was a kid all i see is a male inside me, i was always a male in every way, and that´s it, end of story. Thank you for this Video Caden. Peace out!

    • @felix121984
      @felix121984 7 лет назад +1

      Pedro Quintela Hideous thing !

  • @eleannakorakas3691
    @eleannakorakas3691 9 лет назад +3

    I don't know how i got here but omg this guy is so cute!

  • @gracianaaldrighetti8027
    @gracianaaldrighetti8027 9 лет назад +2

    I really do enjoy your videos. It helps me realize that me being "weird" (in societies eyes) is perfectly normal. I am not trans but I am considered pansexual. Thank you for your existence and looking forward to more of your videos in the future. Stay rad, man! :3

  • @pookie121790
    @pookie121790 9 лет назад +5

    I love the way you put forth your.. Some things are what I think but have never talked.. Praying for courage to come out and feel accepted.. Thanks for this video

    • @caden4860
      @caden4860  9 лет назад +1

      madhuri kashyap thank you :)

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u 5 лет назад

    Caden, this is excellent. As a counselor of young people, I totally endorse your words here. Thank you for the time, effort, and intensity you put into this to help others. You're amazing.....!!

  • @Lee-Yut-Lung
    @Lee-Yut-Lung 5 лет назад

    You've just described my experience. I didn't think I'd be able to find anyone who I could completely relate with. Thank you so much.

  • @kristelsouthpark1
    @kristelsouthpark1 8 лет назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your story, it really opened up some memories from my past which could have been the consequence of gender dysphoria.

  • @brandonvarnon2161
    @brandonvarnon2161 9 лет назад

    I love how you put this. My friend is transgendered and she is such an amazing woman even though right now she's having to live as a man because of her parents...you are such an amazing guy. Thank you.

  • @KAK3S808
    @KAK3S808 9 лет назад +2

    You're doing great things for the community. I hope your speech goes well bro

  • @eLurkr
    @eLurkr 6 лет назад +1

    Very relatable! I would drop the definitions... they aren't very solid.

  • @leedaniels617
    @leedaniels617 9 лет назад

    Thank you Caden,for this video, and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us as well.You are amazing:)

  • @parrisrochelle2539
    @parrisrochelle2539 8 лет назад +2

    Ur really cute!!! One of my family memebers is Trans!!! I never heard anything about this n don't know anything about it!!! This video helped!!!

  • @charliep5991
    @charliep5991 9 лет назад +1

    Everything that you said is me. I have 2 younger sisters and while they were trying on mums makeup I was trying on dad's t-shirts and leather jacket. They had dolls and I had lego. I went to schools in the boys uniform and would not go near a dress or skirt! I hate my chest and my bottom dysphoria is through the roof. I have a short hair cut and wear mens clothes but my parents think that I am a tomboy and I am not coming out yet due to my mum. You are a great role model to me. Thank you.

  • @jordancam296
    @jordancam296 9 лет назад

    Of course with my therapist letter the surgeon is working with me and using letting to help coverage and the ban was lifted on health insurance coverage for transgender care

  • @Ambernomi
    @Ambernomi 9 лет назад +2

    Oh wow! Handsome !

  • @devinpeirce7152
    @devinpeirce7152 8 лет назад +1

    Looking good dude !

  • @-soul-2514
    @-soul-2514 7 лет назад

    as I lesson to him I see a lot of parallels with him and how im feeling and have been

  • @forrestadventures5038
    @forrestadventures5038 7 лет назад

    this was posted on my birthday!

  • @jordancam296
    @jordancam296 9 лет назад +1

    I'm starting T next month, not sure I'll b doing RUclips but am updating fb friends via video..

    • @caden4860
      @caden4860  9 лет назад

      Jordan Cam do it man ill check them out!

  • @justvibez4057
    @justvibez4057 9 лет назад +1

    What you said about gender and the identity was so true

  • @chloe6784
    @chloe6784 7 лет назад +1

    i am transgender as well cant afford hormones tho :/ but js you are cute af

  • @tristanfry1367
    @tristanfry1367 8 лет назад

    Hey Caden there's a part in this video where you talk about the lack of intimacy with your partners and not being excited/in the mood. Have you overcome that and if you did, what helped you?
    I am currently going through that and have been since I realized that I am transgender and its affecting my relationship with my fiancee. I would really appreciate it if you can get back to me or if anyone who has had this happen, if you could reply. Thanks!

  • @mindymickevich8957
    @mindymickevich8957 9 лет назад

    Except who you are. Great video

  • @renagain1
    @renagain1 8 лет назад

    wish you would have talked a little bit more about how you feel know. I guess we can see from watching your videos.I know its not a cure all all humans experience things but do you feel amazing?

  • @ninamayful
    @ninamayful 9 лет назад

    I saw him on block city wars he's my friend

  • @maorinattydread1916
    @maorinattydread1916 6 лет назад

    👍

  • @jordancam296
    @jordancam296 9 лет назад

    Hey caden what's up, I asked you for your private email in another video couple weeks ago but forgot what vid you gave me it but wanted to just tell u I'm getting the nipple sparingly mastectomy because my insurance covers it with a general surgeon and no cosmetic Dr's that I know are taking insurances yet here but talked to a ftm top surgery Dr who said they will get it looking just. The same and they are small too so shouldn't b to bad and I'm starting T next month and off course want them off asap when starting T just wanted to tell you if you have insurance that may help you.. But do you have a Facebook?

    • @caden4860
      @caden4860  9 лет назад +1

      Jordan Cam I don't have insurance and can't get it because I'm not a citizen, i have covered this before in many videos! But right on thats awesome you spoke to someone about it! And congrats on starting T thats great news!! Best of luck with T and surgery man! y emil is cadenmanchev@yahoo.com

    • @cameronj1295
      @cameronj1295 9 лет назад

      Thx a lot and I came out after discovering the transgender brain scans in Spain and found transgender brain disections only utube here search "MTF brains.mov " it's evidence on the mtf but scans on both mtf and ftm just Google transgender brain scans in Spain " it's good back up for all trans ppl for argument and it took years to collect the brains but we are all coming in together strong in the year 2015 together and everyone will see being trans is normal and can happen in womb, they just have to educate themselves, i also have a twin ftm transitioning with me! After discovering evidence I came to youtube to watch and meet others like myself and you all have been an inspiration and we all went through similar stuff in life, stay strong, it's getting better for us and sorry I didn't ser all your vids so didn't know about you not being a citizen, u live in CA I think I remember you saying

    • @cameronj1295
      @cameronj1295 9 лет назад

      I have to screen names by the way lol I don't have a channel or ever made videos just started so I could talk to ppl

  • @williamwallace7195
    @williamwallace7195 6 лет назад

    hey caden this is bill im on face book if you went to talk

  • @khowji437
    @khowji437 9 лет назад +3

    One hot man,who doesn't look or sound feminine or a butch lesbian. Keep up with the good work dude

  • @Slasherations
    @Slasherations 9 лет назад

    Are you saying gender is solely a social construct?

    • @caden4860
      @caden4860  9 лет назад +2

      Go look up the definition of "gender" and you missed the whole point of this video. Im not saying anything other than how i felt as a kid.

    • @caden4860
      @caden4860  9 лет назад +3

      Slasherations Did you hear those exact words come out of my mouth? No you didn't because i didn't say that. You are hearing what you want to hear.

    • @Slasherations
      @Slasherations 9 лет назад

      i don't really remember what you said rt now off the cuff but it was a legitimate question.

    • @caden4860
      @caden4860  9 лет назад

      well if you watched the video then you would know the answer.

    • @esthertube1
      @esthertube1 9 лет назад +1

      Slasherations Yes, gender is a social construct.

  • @FeedMeJuice
    @FeedMeJuice 9 лет назад

    Wtf. Would never be able to tell

  • @MistressSweetPeachesFeet
    @MistressSweetPeachesFeet 6 лет назад

    Caden do you have a Facebook? I would love to add you and ask you some questions.