ATP Big Sexy should be a permanent part of the show it’s no shade! I do enjoy this podcast because it gives you different perspectives which makes for good conversations
Have respect people. Von was able to create a space for shared opinions which allowed balance within each and every topic. Shout out to everyone involved.
I love the fact that Von is CONFIDENT in himself. I love the fact that he knows exactly what he's into. I feel we need to have more men like this that are confident enough in themselves to sit and have conversations with gay men and not be uncomfortable or think that the gay man wants them because most of the time the gay man doesn't even be wanting most of those straight men. I totally agree with sexy, he's the definition of a STRAIGHT MAN PERIODTT !
BigSexy !!! YOU ARE RIGHT!!! Yessss most BLACK women are insecure about there body because of men…. I’ve always been told I don’t have a butt/ass an I don’t, an I’m okay with that… I know my worth and an I know who I am …. I am beautiful!! who I am as a person an the way I am set up inside… DOWNNNN 💯 💯
Exactly I don’t like the fact he didn’t admit that this is what men do. Social media & P*rn has poisoned their mind to think that women’s bodies are supposed to be perfect and hold us to this unrealistic standard.
As a personal trainer the way Von speaks on Rollie and surgery is just disheartening…. Move towards your body goals at you own pace with real professional and VALUABLE people around you.
35:55 I LOVE how it’s glorifying when a women’s being smart & not thinking w her emotions. Most of the time cheating is about both women fighting and feeling like they needa compete. It’s like it’s not as fun if she knows what’s up
We as women know her place! Von these female relationships run deep. Trust me we will say what needs to be said and a real friend will tell they friend, “you will leave when you ready”. We don’t convince our friends to leave we just put our friend on point. Sometimes we might have to tell our friends when they wrong or they need to apologize to they man. So don’t bash the friends cause little do you know we check our friends right or wrong!
But if you are afraid that a child can be “influenced” that a child can be gay by wearing a rainbow shirt, etc. then that does mean that in some way you don’t believe that being gay is right. Because if you did believe it was ok, there wouldn’t be a problem, and you wouldn’t be afraid that the gay would “jump off” on your child. When it simply DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT! Gay, bisexual, lesbian, pansexual, etc; it doesn’t jump off on you, either it’s in you or it ain’t!
Von get on my nerves cause he always want to control his situations and don't want no accountability for it.... he like to lead women on and expect her to be ok with everything he do behind closed doors and in front of her... which is why im glad she said why should I be a faithful side chick when he already had someone 😂😂😂like be fr
Von the song Brick house didn’t just come out of no where. Women experience body dysmorphia because of the monthly changes that we experience monthly. It’s a fact that men genetically has thicker skin. We worry about looser skin, stretch marks and we are often times chasing our body when is was prestine.
When you get weight loss surgery they make you see a therapist to make sure your mental ready for the changes to come. So yes men play into it but it starts at home aka YOU!
The guy in the white is so hell bent on giving men a pass & dismissing the part they play. I know he gives his woman hell arguing about everything instead of being a man & finding solutions.
Von be on point about gay vs heterosexual relationships......and I'm gay but The main point is that broken ppl create broken situations There is no real difference Von feels kids are being groomed..... homosexual has become too normal for him 90 percent of Blk males have already had same sex interactions even since young boys creating a bro code
I been watching all the episodes (not in order) It seems like Von and Big Sexy have guest but the guest are more a extra because Big Sexy is dominant in the convo and Von and him start debating without the guest. 😂 It's entertaining but Von and Big Sexy basically don't need guest. They should do a show or two of just them and topics every now and then and see how it hits or miss.
A lot of women who aren’t my size constantly belittle me for my size because they want to be that size vs being comfortable in their skin an who they are. I compliment anyone who look good regardless of size an if I don’t find you attractive I don’t say anything at all cause who am I am an idk what you going through
Yes i can dislike a friend man if he treating her wrong. Cmon now you can't tell me he doesn't know that. Y do he think women don't think for themselves every woman aint weak minded like cut it out.. If a dude is doing what he doing that woman ain't gonna be dogging you to her friends cut it out.
I don’t get how Von really think a single friend is going to poison or Hater to her friend relationship. If a Nigga ain’t shit or did my friend wrong I don’t like him he not going know but I’m going tell her she deserve better. Like that’s weird you can’t say mind ya business to ya relationship relationships. Von giving weird/ controlling . I do understand that bitches really do be hating but that’s not case in every scenario.
I’m small an petite an every guy I’ve met said I would look better if I had a fat ass or bigger boobs, I know my worth an don’t play into it but why do I need to hear that. Why downplay how I currently look to uplift what you would prefer and women
I disagree. I feel like when a female tells her friend about her man and she hates him so badly she wants them for herself specially, if you don’t even know him been there done that with a friend in my man behind my back, he never did nothing to her, and she had a big problem with him for no reason.
Big Sean please don't sit there and say there are lots of successful LGBTQ relationships. Like stop with the cap ,🙄.von is spitting facts .gay men will hook up anywhere at the drop of a dime
42:1044:27 First thing first men love saying “there’s no better 😻than new 😻” but also forget their girlfriend or wife 😻 can be a new cat to a new man Secondly it’s not about the gay men being over sexualized Vs Straight men community it’s not about the sexual preference of each party. The issue is MEN period 😂😂😂 and y’all came into that agreement w/o realizing it so it’s not about gay or straight. MEN are just the issue 😂😂😂😂😂
Von always talk like it's easy to just lose weight and going to the gym will help them get their body right. Men be funny shaped and bad bodied af but will have a woman feeling bad about her body 😩
Dayyum this convo is missing so much. Especially how women have been forced (historically) to conform their looks to get a job, for example. How much longer it takes to consider your day. Hence the harmful juxtaposition of terms such as good hair or wash and go. Let me not start on the daily language we endure. It’s self micromanagement. Topple that , for example, onto the conversation in the other podcast about single mothers. The lack of understanding of intersectionality, of stolen images of ourselves being used and sold commercially, the likelihood of experiencing micro aggressors choosing what’s marketable -- women DONT choose conformity in the form of body augmentation. IT CHOSE US. And a lot of times it’s not even the result when it comes to changing our bodies. What it is , is a symbol of social exchange. It shows you’ve had the means or money or social prowess to DO that. Gotttttttttta get deeper SMH. Anthropology 101 Yessss the word for today IS indeed delusional. Because the reasons given by the host, is harmful to the us period. The comment about us wearing weave that someone has grown out of their head. The historical and cultural reasonings being ignored 💀. It’s not equivalent. It’s a lot to say y’all. A lot missing. If my black ass wasn’t in Japan, I’d love to be in that room adding to the convo.
They honestly are forgetting the patriarchy is in play w EVERYTHING von is very ignorant for sure! Ofc women need to conform to male standards for survival!!!!! To say men play no part is ignorant at least and bold face lying at worse.
Yes! They don’t have someone who know how to articulate correctly. However it would not matter because the host seems to be deliberately dismissive, delusional and in denial. Yet he brings up these topics as if he is willing to have a real conversation. Now you do not have to agree with everything yet to deny everything and dismiss what the guests are saying is just gaslighting.
Men ain’t to blame for why women have insecurities but women are to blame for men liking and wanting the BBL girl. Dude sounds crazy. Men are never at blame for shit black men does.
Thank God for Big Sexy because that other guy was making me mad lol I am a gay male I disagree with a lot he said but Sexy got him right on together🫶🏽❤️
Yesss me too. I don’t want no one else but that one man. Unfortunately the ones who are with them be the ones to want others so yeah Von you cool but the gay community is soooo different you can compare to an extent but not all the way
You also can’t compare straight men and gay men when it comes to how their relationships are because they don’t have equal representation we know everything about straight men but not gay men because of discrimination
Big Sexy is always the voice of reason and comprehension 🙌🏼
This show would be NOTHING without Big Sexxy . Thank goodness for him and having a brain
I'm telling you! Because dude in the white makes me not want to watch.
Right!!! Cause he coming with the REAL !!!!! Downnn
I swear it’s truth to big sexy all day I swear.
EXACTLYYYYYY!!!!
Ive been thinking the same thing big sexxy needs his own shit
ATP Big Sexy should be a permanent part of the show it’s no shade! I do enjoy this podcast because it gives you different perspectives which makes for good conversations
Very true
Right he needs to be
Have respect people. Von was able to create a space for shared opinions which allowed balance within each and every topic. Shout out to everyone involved.
That point
We need IAMZOIE and BIGSEXY on an episode together DOWNNNN !
Big sexy’s mannerisms and his hands movements when he talks be having me dead asfff 😭😭😭😭 hes defff the voice of reason frfr
He is so entertaining and funny 🤪😭😂 I love him 🗣️DOWWNNN
No fr Big Sexyyy make the show! His energy. I respect a straight man not being uncomfortable and allowing him to rock out!
Big sexy is the addition this pod needed
This is a great discussion!!Von is very enlighten.This episode is needed.Absolutely needed conversation.We need to have the conversation
Von let that hurt go baby lol
Hopped back on here because of big sexyyyyyyy!!!! 😂😂😂 Love himmmm!!!
Big Sexy spoke facts as always🙌🏽
I love the fact that Von is CONFIDENT in himself. I love the fact that he knows exactly what he's into. I feel we need to have more men like this that are confident enough in themselves to sit and have conversations with gay men and not be uncomfortable or think that the gay man wants them because most of the time the gay man doesn't even be wanting most of those straight men. I totally agree with sexy, he's the definition of a STRAIGHT MAN PERIODTT !
Big Sexy be on point with his POINTS!! Speak on it !!!
BigSexy !!! YOU ARE RIGHT!!! Yessss most BLACK women are insecure about there body because of men…. I’ve always been told I don’t have a butt/ass an I don’t, an I’m okay with that… I know my worth and an I know who I am …. I am beautiful!! who I am as a person an the way I am set up inside… DOWNNNN 💯 💯
That's right Queen!! Appearance will change in time but if you're a good person, that will remain❤
Von really said he could never be with the same chick forever right in front of his chick 🤧 she has to be young and dumb cuz ain't no way 🫣
SMH
Frfr! Because not talking to your friends is crazy. That's too controlling.
Big Sexxy is correct when he says men play into it. We all saw those videos of DC picking Jacky's body apart
Exactly I don’t like the fact he didn’t admit that this is what men do. Social media & P*rn has poisoned their mind to think that women’s bodies are supposed to be perfect and hold us to this unrealistic standard.
Control and respect is two DIFFERENT things
Von, Big Sexy is your co-host.
I LOVE BIG SEXY ENERGY!
Von definitely need to sit back listen and learn
As a personal trainer the way Von speaks on Rollie and surgery is just disheartening…. Move towards your body goals at you own pace with real professional and VALUABLE people around you.
I love big sexy!!! He so real 😂
von was right on more shit than they gave him credit for. now on many topics they were all right.
Big Sexy comes through everytime with the nuggets.
He talking about single friends and then find out the ones in the relationship telling her to cheat back 😂 be careful what you ask for.
35:55 I LOVE how it’s glorifying when a women’s being smart & not thinking w her emotions. Most of the time cheating is about both women fighting and feeling like they needa compete. It’s like it’s not as fun if she knows what’s up
We as women know her place! Von these female relationships run deep. Trust me we will say what needs to be said and a real friend will tell they friend, “you will leave when you ready”. We don’t convince our friends to leave we just put our friend on point. Sometimes we might have to tell our friends when they wrong or they need to apologize to they man. So don’t bash the friends cause little do you know we check our friends right or wrong!
Von be deflecting and moving the goal post like no other…just be dodging accountability but placing blame everywhere…
But if you are afraid that a child can be “influenced” that a child can be gay by wearing a rainbow shirt, etc. then that does mean that in some way you don’t believe that being gay is right. Because if you did believe it was ok, there wouldn’t be a problem, and you wouldn’t be afraid that the gay would “jump off” on your child. When it simply DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT! Gay, bisexual, lesbian, pansexual, etc; it doesn’t jump off on you, either it’s in you or it ain’t!
Great conversation
Love this pod but the audio is too low, on most episodes. please fix it
This episode gave self hate like sexy said😂black people can have curly hair too lol, im convinced bro live under a rock.
Buffie the body changed the game.
Great content ❤
A man who has cheated tryna check her for being a side at one point of time in her life…. The irony…
Von get on my nerves cause he always want to control his situations and don't want no accountability for it.... he like to lead women on and expect her to be ok with everything he do behind closed doors and in front of her... which is why im glad she said why should I be a faithful side chick when he already had someone 😂😂😂like be fr
Big sexy yassssssss Von sounds very Toxic!!!! And hurt. But great episode….
Von the song Brick house didn’t just come out of no where.
Women experience body dysmorphia because of the monthly changes that we experience monthly. It’s a fact that men genetically has thicker skin. We worry about looser skin, stretch marks and we are often times chasing our body when is was prestine.
So true. I'm 51 & look good for my age but as long as I look good to me, I don't care what nobody else think lol😂
When you get weight loss surgery they make you see a therapist to make sure your mental ready for the changes to come. So yes men play into it but it starts at home aka YOU!
♐️♐️♐️ energyyyyyyy 🤣
The guy in the white is so hell bent on giving men a pass & dismissing the part they play. I know he gives his woman hell arguing about everything instead of being a man & finding solutions.
Von be on point about gay vs heterosexual relationships......and I'm gay but
The main point is that broken ppl create broken situations
There is no real difference
Von feels kids are being groomed..... homosexual has become too normal for him
90 percent of Blk males have already had same sex interactions even since young boys creating a bro code
Now I totally agree with this 23:34
I love this pod! ❤
I been watching all the episodes (not in order) It seems like Von and Big Sexy have guest but the guest are more a extra because Big Sexy is dominant in the convo and Von and him start debating without the guest. 😂
It's entertaining but Von and Big Sexy basically don't need guest. They should do a show or two of just them and topics every now and then and see how it hits or miss.
When you said ts i knew u was a sag lol team sagggggg
A lot of women who aren’t my size constantly belittle me for my size because they want to be that size vs being comfortable in their skin an who they are. I compliment anyone who look good regardless of size an if I don’t find you attractive I don’t say anything at all cause who am I am an idk what you going through
No it’s true most of the time men do tie in to women body insecurities
Yes i can dislike a friend man if he treating her wrong. Cmon now you can't tell me he doesn't know that. Y do he think women don't think for themselves every woman aint weak minded like cut it out.. If a dude is doing what he doing that woman ain't gonna be dogging you to her friends cut it out.
21:15 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
that boy want to be a woman so bad, he just talking to sound like a female blaming men for everything 🤣
Tell your girl too quit telling your business to her friends
I dated a married man. He said his wife was his dead sister and he wanted me to like him before he told me. This shiiiiiii getting out of hand.
I would have recorded him and sent it to his wife. Because why tf would someone do that?!
We do mind our business, but y’all woman be bringing the bs to us!
"His grandma is black as these cameras" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree w/ big sexy! Men do play a part
I don’t get how Von really think a single friend is going to poison or Hater to her friend relationship. If a Nigga ain’t shit or did my friend wrong I don’t like him he not going know but I’m going tell her she deserve better. Like that’s weird you can’t say mind ya business to ya relationship relationships. Von giving weird/ controlling . I do understand that bitches really do be hating but that’s not case in every scenario.
It’s all about sexyyy
I’m small an petite an every guy I’ve met said I would look better if I had a fat ass or bigger boobs, I know my worth an don’t play into it but why do I need to hear that. Why downplay how I currently look to uplift what you would prefer and women
Okay but a MAN created the surgery for BBL the kardashians just made it a trend
I disagree. I feel like when a female tells her friend about her man and she hates him so badly she wants them for herself specially, if you don’t even know him been there done that with a friend in my man behind my back, he never did nothing to her, and she had a big problem with him for no reason.
😂😂😂black women and big sexy 😂😂😂
Big Sean please don't sit there and say there are lots of successful LGBTQ relationships. Like stop with the cap ,🙄.von is spitting facts .gay men will hook up anywhere at the drop of a dime
So he don’t remember Buffy the body? 11:32
If we put the same or half the amount of energy to unite then we do w these trivia shows we would be better off as blacks but we dont want that
I don't think she got a bbl, but she's definitely had lipo. You gotta ask the right questions
42:10 44:27
First thing first men love saying “there’s no better 😻than new 😻” but also forget their girlfriend or wife 😻 can be a new cat to a new man
Secondly it’s not about the gay men being over sexualized Vs Straight men community it’s not about the sexual preference of each party. The issue is MEN period 😂😂😂 and y’all came into that agreement w/o realizing it so it’s not about gay or straight. MEN are just the issue 😂😂😂😂😂
Von always talk like it's easy to just lose weight and going to the gym will help them get their body right. Men be funny shaped and bad bodied af but will have a woman feeling bad about her body 😩
You can tell she lying. She kinda slow
So how did the gay ppl come about. A lot of ppl ddnt learn abt gay and still is gay.
Like he sound ignorant on every topic 😭😭😭
Dayyum this convo is missing so much. Especially how women have been forced (historically) to conform their looks to get a job, for example. How much longer it takes to consider your day. Hence the harmful juxtaposition of terms such as good hair or wash and go. Let me not start on the daily language we endure. It’s self micromanagement. Topple that , for example, onto the conversation in the other podcast about single mothers. The lack of understanding of intersectionality, of stolen images of ourselves being used and sold commercially, the likelihood of experiencing micro aggressors choosing what’s marketable -- women DONT choose conformity in the form of body augmentation. IT CHOSE US.
And a lot of times it’s not even the result when it comes to changing our bodies. What it is , is a symbol of social exchange. It shows you’ve had the means or money or social prowess to DO that.
Gotttttttttta get deeper SMH. Anthropology 101
Yessss the word for today IS indeed delusional. Because the reasons given by the host, is harmful to the us period. The comment about us wearing weave that someone has grown out of their head. The historical and cultural reasonings being ignored 💀. It’s not equivalent.
It’s a lot to say y’all. A lot missing. If my black ass wasn’t in Japan, I’d love to be in that room adding to the convo.
They honestly are forgetting the patriarchy is in play w EVERYTHING von is very ignorant for sure! Ofc women need to conform to male standards for survival!!!!! To say men play no part is ignorant at least and bold face lying at worse.
Yes! They don’t have someone who know how to articulate correctly. However it would not matter because the host seems to be deliberately dismissive, delusional and in denial. Yet he brings up these topics as if he is willing to have a real conversation. Now you do not have to agree with everything yet to deny everything and dismiss what the guests are saying is just gaslighting.
I really hate Von'rhe's nose 😂 no shade but it looks like a person who has a cleft lip. It's just weird looking to me 🥸🤷🏾♀️
She slow to me.
Men ain’t to blame for why women have insecurities but women are to blame for men liking and wanting the BBL girl. Dude sounds crazy. Men are never at blame for shit black men does.
Von is lame fr
Big Sexy needs to tone it down a bit, I only say that cause I think of hypertension and what it does to the heart, plus he overweight. Calm down!!
What are u even talking about
Great Interview
Thank God for Big Sexy because that other guy was making me mad lol I am a gay male I disagree with a lot he said but Sexy got him right on together🫶🏽❤️
Yesss me too. I don’t want no one else but that one man. Unfortunately the ones who are with them be the ones to want others so yeah Von you cool but the gay community is soooo different you can compare to an extent but not all the way
Okay but a MAN created the surgery for BBL the kardashians just made it a trend
You also can’t compare straight men and gay men when it comes to how their relationships are because they don’t have equal representation we know everything about straight men but not gay men because of discrimination