Big Sexy? Is that the basket of fruit at the end of the couch dressed in blue? That man was clearly molested as a child. He's definitely a product of a single mother. Not one once of masculinity.
No need to protect him, just keep raising your sons as single mothers and allowing them around pedophiles that will molest them. You can soon have a degeneration of people like "Big Sexy".
Now...I get it. They keep comparing themselves to women. And that's where they got they got the game messed up. You can't be a leader comparing yourself to the person you're leading
Not only that but use that as a way to pin point what he is saying. Just because he is gay does not invalidate anything he is saying. He is a gay black man, who grew up in a two parent black household, with his own experience but what he said is strictly truth.
@@msjay84 😂😂 they so weird it’s rlly sad I hope no female fw them. They are so fragile & fruity they want to be in relationships with a “manly” woman I believe!
This King Finesse person is speaking from deep hurt and insecurity. You can tell he is the type that no one wanted in High School and is still traumatized by that.
Men who are not financially stable will ALWAYS opt in to a 50/50 relationship. If I’m paying 50/50, he’s not my man, we roommates. I can do bad by myself 🤷🏽♀️
@@wapoj4220 you’re not understanding the words the men spoke. Yes you paid 100% of what YOU were comfortable with. A men with this mindset want their partner to end their lease to live in there home with a lease and bills that they never spoke of. It could be costing you more than you spent alone.
@@SimplyHydia I don’t care what they spoke tbh I know bye yourself you are responsible for %100 percent of the financial load. If a man comes in & pays the rent & other miscellaneous bills he is helping. Woman want to yell they “bosses” but want a Dad
Bryant… thank you. As a young black woman, I can’t believe these are my options of young black men to choose from. I’m so happy you CLEARED them. You 100% gained a new supporter out of me. You spoke nothing but facts. Im so disgusted at the stuff head-wrap and open legs was saying. Thank you for what you said Bee cause my gosh….
@tatttoon I like how you said it. I no longer care for bw dating below their social finacial class. Keep getting with bandits. If you dont want to limit yourself, set boundaries for ALL MEN.
I was making $15 an hour and kept my apartment & it’s big plus kept a Honda Accord Sport with a car note & insurance like what is he talking about 😂😂 you gotta make it work for yourself
My exact thoughts ….. like he wants praised for doing what he’s SUPPOSED to do ‼️……. And the amount that he said … like what tf is $100 light bill ? ….. yes people get behind on bills or can’t afford to pay the full amount all at one time ….. but he’s doing the BARE minimum and what is suppose to be done as an ADULT ‼️
Furthermore auto pay is wayyy more responsible. Like oh you so confident in your financial situation that you about to let these ppl draft automatically 😫😮💨 now that’s adulting lol
“No matter how much money a woman got, she still has to know her place.” 🤨 but it’s not about control? It’s aight, Ik my place, in my home and secure in my singleness🤣
He was annoying me we’re supposed to know our place but also pay 50/50 like nigga just get you a “ twink” male then he thinks he’s a catch nigga you’re a nightmare
I actually feel bad for dude in the black & white. He’s speaking from a place of trauma. There are loyal women out here paying their own bills 😭. Ima add him to the prayer list
If 70% of black women are single and he said only 20% pay their own bills..... that math ain't mathing. Who paying all our bills if we single and don't have a man lmao!
Black flag is TOO BITTER for this conversation. Y’all want a roommate that picks up your slack and give up booty every night but still make you feel like a king in the process.. move around 🙄 y’all want women to be naïve not submissive.. 🚶🏾♀️
Girl men will compete with a woman all day. And the black ones will dog a bw out for trying then go get another race and take care of her and she don’t do none. Idk what you are but it’s true.
The fact they kept blaming the women in false scenarios told me everything I need to know especially after the “she’s a bird” instead of hold the man accountable for lying just sad
I ain't moving into no man house and paying half of his bills unless I got my own room.😂 Roommate. And we splitting the chores down the middle and I aint having no babies either 😂
Facts! I’m not doing my roommate’s laundry, or cleaning up after my roommate, and I’m certainly not cooking for my roommate. In fact, I’m buying my own laundry detergent to use only for my clothes and putting my laundry detergent back in my own room in my closet so my roommate would not use my detergent for his own clothes. I’m paying everything just for myself and he better not be late on the bills. As a matter of fact, I will take my auto drafts off of all my accounts so my money won’t go to any parts of his bills. And if he can’t afford his part, I have no issues packing all of my stuff, including my seasonings that I bought, and move into my own place where I don’t have to deal with people who can’t afford half the bills. Lol 😂😂😂
First, plaid shirt is rude and overly defensive for no reason!! The real conversation is dating on your level. The problem is you going after a type of woman for her looks only and get mad when that’s all she bring to the table 🤦🏽♀️😂 When you go for a woman that’s all about money then you get what you get. When you date a man that wants you to be a housewife but you want a career outside of the home, then you get what you get. We always try to morph people into what we want, instead of being real about who they are and walking away if you don’t like it or a agree. But this conversation is crazy!! When you’ve been in a real, grown relationship….50/50 doesn’t exist.
OMG!!!! As a single, professional, successful woman I would love to have a conversation with these fellas. They have it all LOUD and WRONG. Thank you Big Sexy
Big Sexy always gets the gworls and boys together! It’s not a “old school” lifestlye for the man to take care of the household, it’s BIBLICAL. Black bandana is definitely showing heavy signs of a overt narcissist and you can definitely tell he’s heavily single and miserable and been tricking & got HURT 😂and light skin is showing signs of covert narcissism. A man of the flesh is not God. The only person you prove anything to is God. A relationship is 100% 100%. Black bandana saying that your the catch? Aren’t you doing the chasing man it’s giving woman vibes 😂 I’m confused. The the context that woman don’t pay their own bills? I ALMOST GAGGED! Women are definitely paying their own bills. Big sexy he may be UNDACOVA😂
@@melbagrady facts. that be they problem lmao they wanna compete with black women instead of other men. Do you think basketball players compare their stats to coaches of other teams lmao no cause they have different roles 💀 silly feminized boys
Right! And if I can pay my bill in full just like you can, you still haven’t shown me that you can lead me! We’re still doing the same stuff at the same level.
Wow! I hardly ever comment on videos, but I definitely have to comment on this one. The guy in the blue was speaking complete facts. When he said “there are some men who don’t like women”, that went completely over their heads but it’s something I’ve noticed and it’s totally true. It not about their sexual orientation - it’s the way they view, engage with, speak with, and talk about women that tells it all. You can definitely tell the difference between a hurt man and a healed man. Go for the healed one ☺️.
Wow, Big Sexy made logical & valid perspectives on both sides but King Finesse responding from a defensive and emotional (triggering) standpoint and it shows!!! But Von actually made some valid points as well
Dallas is taking everything Bryant saying personal and not listening at all. He’s just basing everything off of his own experience or his past traumas with woman’s.
Correct! When he said he has a a ex he really loved and she was just a hoe I said “ see ! That’s the trauma right there! “ 😂😂😂 that’s why he act like that
Exactly, what if the woman or the man doesn’t want their child being brought up in daycare? Can they raise their children without their contribution being questioned? Like I have so many questions 😩
His tone deafness and lack of understanding of what children need is glaring. Do they have children? Daycare is not a good full-time solution. We really have to get unlocked from the matrix.
And it’s expensive as hell for some families it cheaper for one parent to stay home plus no one really wants strangers spending more time with their children then them
Basically what I gathered is a woman… who is a human being… who works and makes a good living for herself…. can’t get a man because that’s too much of a boss status????💀💀💀 PLEASEEE
Thank you, big sexy, for confirming all of the hatred I felt as a little black girl and growing up in the inner city as a youth and now as a black woman you have made my day for shining a light on this
Blue shirt ate! He literally explained everything us girls are feeling but unable to explain. Him trying to get the other two to understand where he was coming from seemed frustrating tho bc most guys don’t understand how females operate🤦🏽♀️
Yeah they don’t. I feel for big sexy because they talking about what they hit. Big sexy talking about how the 50/50 need not to work. I can respect to both sides.
The man in blue is just stating facts. If a man is a proper leader, provider, & protector your woman will naturally submit to you . Submission is in the female nature, but you need to lay the ground for her to feel comfortable to trust your vision and guidance, a lot of women get defensive cause a lot of men lack these masculine qualities. I come from a family with healthy long lasting marriages, that embrace traditional gender roles 80% of the time, I can guarantee that this is true
You’re saying submission is a females natural nature , but then at the same time saying it requires a man to be a proper leader , provider and protector. Is it natural or does it require those conditions? Look I hear you and want to hear you, but I bump into women who are submissive up front naturally , before they even know anything about me … we haven’t even gotten into what we both require yet
First of all submission is not reserved for just women. Second submission is for marriage. Therefore, husband and wife submit to each other. Third what is a woman's place? Is he trying to be biblical? Because if that's the case then we need to talk about what a man's place is. See, a lot of men feel they are automatically qualified for all these things simply based on the fact that they have a penis between they legs. Every man dont deserve a wife therefore every man don't deserve submission. A boyfriend is not a husband. What's the point of marriage if a women has to submit to every man she come in contact with. There are so many lost people in this world smh.
@Timmera Kimp exactly 💯 and we already know men, especially black men, aren't lining up to marry anybody, so who they think want to submit to a forever boyfriend. I'm so glad my husband and I found each other cause I would hate to have to choose a life partner now. Cause if these podcast are any indication of the type of men out there now honestly I would've chosen to be by myself.
Dude in the white saying learn somebody character, but do you know how many stories of health care providers saying that you can know a persons REAL character when they get sick. WAY more women stay and WAY more men leave. It can be hard to see somebody REAL character.
I don’t understand how whole episode Von keep mentioning how Big Sexy gay and he’s a man so how could he understand women like huhhh ain’t you a man too ??? So because you’re not gay you understand women better since you date them. I feel like he’ll understand a woman better than any straight man could because he’s actually sitting down hearing us out to see where we’re coming from.
He really said the TRUTH. If you got offended, it just proves you’re not willing to MAN UP. He is gay but still a man that understands morally what’s important in the role of a household.
I’ve actually taken time to make the calculations of the true value if a stay at home wife. It comes out to around $150,000 a year. She’s his secretary, she’s an accountant, full time daycare, tutor, chauffeur for everyone, she plans out every outing and vacation, chef, house cleaner, therapist. It’s multiple jobs and no one sees that value. Even with wives and mothers who wirk full time, they STILL do all of that and go to work.
Sis, add $100k for each time the wife sacrifices her body for her husband to have his kids. Then add another $100k each time the doctor and nurses ignores the black wife’s cries for pain after giving birth and she comes close to death and has to to get a blood transfusions because the doctors and nurses didn’t take her pain serious.
It’s actually worth more than that but you on the right path. A good secretary costs at least 60k, a nanny costs 60k at least, a chauffeur is 50k, chef 50k, maid 30k, travel agent 20k. That’s $270,000 right there and I put the base salary and didn’t even add therapist/counseling and the biggest bill: SEX WORKER!!! And they ask what we bring to the table…..
What is the weird obsession with men thinking they are supposed to guide women. WHAT QUALIFIES YOU TO GUIDE ME?! If im paying all my bills, providing a decent lifestyle for myself, have a career, WTF kinda guidance do women need from yall. Just say yall want to CONTROL women, manipulate them into giving you your way. Once men understand that they have ZERO control over anyone but themselves, they develop better characteristics and attract women who have the same. They ask for a boss woman, but can’t handle them because they not “humble” meanwhile, GLASSES is sitting their bragging about going to brunch, and clubs everyday. Instead of judging the entire woman race based of your PERSONAL experiences with the whores you ALLOWED in your life. Lets do some self reflection and work on your character. You attract a certain group of women for a reason…and you choose these women for a reason. Go to therapy, go meditate, go do something and figure out the REASON why YOU are picking these women. I heard a lot of insecurity in Glasses answers, he needs to get a sense of self identity and stop living through social constructs of what a man supposed to be and be the PERSON he was meant to be.
He’s so quick to be like “the woman don’t gotta be home because the baby in daycare” why do your babies need to be in daycare if you as a man are bringing enough to the table. It’s a difference between completely depending on your partner vs having to do men’s and women’s job yet men aren’t helping in droves when it comes to “women’s work” like cooking, cleaning and caretaking. Pick a side.
He told the damn truth and this is exactly why a lot of so called straight men have a issue with blk women being friends with gay men because they be giving us the real tea at least the ones that actually care about us and not these queens that be messing around with DL men I am talking about the real gay men who have standards and respect 💯
And if you had any respect to yourself you wouldn't even came at people in that manner. There respectful one what about the disrespectful ass women. Like as in yourself. How you going say the ones that mess with the undercover men they're undercover because of women harassing them and making them feel like they're doing something wrong. But when you think about it women don't want them to mess around with gay men because they want to be with them knowing fully well that they are a gay men their self.
Black women it's our time to start dating out! This sh*t is sad! Other races of men gets it. We are our most happy when we date out! Open your options sis❤
Yes, you ladies should be open to dating outside. Put your happiness first and let go of the baggages. I am from a different ethnicity and country. Seeing the 2 men acting that way is embarrassing. In my community, men like that are looked down as they fail to be a proper leader and provider to their women.
@@nohharu6105 Yes. I agree, other ethnic group of men are just better men. BW is ready to be properly loved. Many are jumping to the other side and importantly we actually make really great wives because we are happy👩🏽❤️👨🏼
Bandanna is extremely defensive and emotional about that 50% chile. I hope whoever is dumb enough to get with him never forgets to pay her portion cause he might have a b**** fit 😮💨 6:27
Lmao paying a $100 light bill established financial responsibility. Mannnnn gthoh! That should be on auto-draft my guy. The bar gotta be in hell if that was impressive. 😂
Man. That's a red flag in my book. My bill is $25 a month. If your bill as a single person is upwards of 100, to me, you are a wasteful dude or missed several payments.
Big Sexy got them together spitting nothing but logical facts. He gay but that’s a real man there. Brought up in a healthy loving and respectful environment that’s obvious. These guys need to take notes
Yes Bryant dad was the reason she could be the WOMAN that she is because he treated her like a woman and allowed her to contribute and add to the partnership. He was a MAN. And there is nothing wrong with that. 🤷🏾♀️
It's always the dudes most gays would walk past that think they're trying to "recruit" them. Negro, the relationships you have with women are inconsistent, why would the gays want you?
Like sir don’t nobody want you and you on a RUclips podcast talking bout women like they dogs and wearing a scarf on yo head. Sir we good. Them straights can keep you.
Idk what he’s talking about becuz having supportive single friends is the best thing you can have. They speak from a perspective outside a relationship and can give great advice
The men that can actually provide a generous life to women NEVER complain about a “gold digger”. Always the 50/50 men worried about a gold digger. If you can’t provide for your family/woman why are you even dating?
The level of contradiction 😂 and delusion! They sounded a lot like these women who ain’t settling for less… • Most men tell us it’s our fault when we picked a hollow head idiot box but, we were supposed to feel bad when you do the same on the flip side? You picked her.
Thank you Big Sexy for speaking up for women. A lot of men are confused. On one hand they want a stay at home wife/mother but she’s too independent, too strong, too masculine, and she wants to make money. Then on the other hand you want her to pay half the bills and match your energy. different times if your lives. Every woman is capable of being soft, feminine, and contributing to the household but he sounds like he wants a roommate not a partner.
57:30 so the man who lied doesn’t have the character flaw but the woman who believed it does? This level of delusion needs to be studied and researched!
I had to rewind that part!! Like how is manipulation not a character flaw but trusting is???? Men they really believe everything they say outta their mouth and call it “logical”
@@geraldking9385 Sir, stop the cap. You know I'm talking about men in general and you know that men love telling women were going to end up single and alone AS IF it's a death sentence.
Buddy in the black is cocky. The same energy that has in this mindset & position is the energy that will be his downfall. Something abt him is angry and dark. And you can tell money rules him.
@@moviesinminutes4057 Real shit! I’m thinking to myself..he is not tall enough for his ego to be 10 feet off the ground. Sir ..my titties taller than you, relax. 😂😂😂
BIG SEXY, On behalf of all the women, we’d like to formally thank you for spitting TRUTH unapologetically- we salute you King! 🔥🔥
Big Sexy? Is that the basket of fruit at the end of the couch dressed in blue? That man was clearly molested as a child. He's definitely a product of a single mother. Not one once of masculinity.
Fax
That part 😝 okay
Wat is his @
He stated nothing but FACTS
Dude w/ the whole plaid outfit on said “I’m the catch” that explained EVERYTHING!!! LMAO this man is a princess in the relationship lol
Ik, and he had an attitude the whole time😂 he was extra sassy😚😂
Right! The whole time he was describing the “woman” he wants I was like poor tink tink wants a man. 😅
@@justque7080 but actually! He wants masculine qualities masked in femininity and the body of a woman smh… they really don’t like women fr
Girllllllll 😭🙄like bffr ,he was annoying me lowkey I’m happy BIGSEXY was popping his shit back
With a hole in his pants 🫠😂
So he wants a woman to be soft, but also be working and going 50/50? He wants a soft, submissive provider🤣🤣
Whew the delusion lmao 😂
Right ! Makes noooooo sense at all . A real feminine woman will never go for that .
This is why they’re single Lmaoo stupid niggas
He basically wants a gay man lol
Don’t forget he also wants a sandwich made when he gets home even though his women also went to work and is just as tired 😂😂😂
We need to protect BIG SEXY. Big Sexy is a national treasure. Thank you for speaking sense and making mature and valid points. You are appreciated.
No need to protect him, just keep raising your sons as single mothers and allowing them around pedophiles that will molest them. You can soon have a degeneration of people like "Big Sexy".
Yesss
THIS🙌🏽
Now...I get it. They keep comparing themselves to women. And that's where they got they got the game messed up. You can't be a leader comparing yourself to the person you're leading
A WORD!
You said it right . So many times they are In secret competition with they significant other
Yes!
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You better speak sis!
All I hear is fragile egos and toxic masculinity. Thank you Bryant for speaking facts.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@sammywilliams6 I see the hit dog hollering cause what’s funny? You triggered?
@@melanie890brooks sounds like ur triggered just cause he's threw laugh emojis in his comment
@@sammywilliams6 not the joke laughing..
@@geraldking9385 king bby he laughing at dam near every comment😭 TUH TRIGGERED
It’s crazy how gay men can speak from a man’s perspective but still give women the game and defend them
Not only that but use that as a way to pin point what he is saying. Just because he is gay does not invalidate anything he is saying. He is a gay black man, who grew up in a two parent black household, with his own experience but what he said is strictly truth.
He’s still a man at the end of the day
😂😂😂😂😂
Your point?
And your point nigga
A man that’s a true leader is NEVER somewhere trying to make a woman submissive unnaturally. She recognizes her King and follows
💯💯💯
This!!
Please say it again for the ones in the back.. lol
You won 🏆!!!
Exactly
Big Sexy ate y’all tf up💯… he cleared these two corny boys out especially the one with the bandana🎯
He’s battling.
ATE DOWN
Yesss
He said only 15 percent of women pay all they bills. 😂😂 who is this man? Black women are currently the highest earners.
They be making s*** up.
He’s arrogant for a black man that claims he’s wealthy … these men don’t understand women & they will never with that mindset
Lies
He’s getting his facts from a Snapple cap. Because, what?!
@@msjay84 😂😂 they so weird it’s rlly sad I hope no female fw them. They are so fragile & fruity they want to be in relationships with a “manly” woman I believe!
Do not lower your standards ladies for these DUSTIES!!!
🥂🍾✨️
Divest
Facts💯
And he's serious bout the other 50 😂😂😂 you better pay on time pregnant or sick or not 😂😂😂ewwwwwww
From a guy, the guy in the middle is DELUSIONAL!!!!😂
Bandanna guy is Mr. Delulu (delusional) frfr!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yes very
😂😂😂
This King Finesse person is speaking from deep hurt and insecurity. You can tell he is the type that no one wanted in High School and is still traumatized by that.
Men who are not financially stable will ALWAYS opt in to a 50/50 relationship. If I’m paying 50/50, he’s not my man, we roommates. I can do bad by myself 🤷🏽♀️
I thought it was “partners” bye yourself your paying %100 percent of the load. Only black folks argue about shit like this & we at the bottom
@@wapoj4220 you’re not understanding the words the men spoke. Yes you paid 100% of what YOU were comfortable with. A men with this mindset want their partner to end their lease to live in there home with a lease and bills that they never spoke of. It could be costing you more than you spent alone.
@@SimplyHydia I don’t care what they spoke tbh I know bye yourself you are responsible for %100 percent of the financial load. If a man comes in & pays the rent & other miscellaneous bills he is helping. Woman want to yell they “bosses” but want a Dad
I know that's right sis! We learned in first grade that paying 100% is better than paying 50! Dumazz
And if he paying all your bills. You're not his wife. You're his daughter 💯
Dude in the bandana sound so crazy lol. I’m sure he’d wanna be the “ leader “ & king of the household but he wanna go 50/50
Right he wants to feel like one not be one
A whole clown for real 😩
He wants another King in his household..to obvious
Wayyy too obvious
He reminds me of the DL man.
Bryant… thank you. As a young black woman, I can’t believe these are my options of young black men to choose from. I’m so happy you CLEARED them. You 100% gained a new supporter out of me. You spoke nothing but facts. Im so disgusted at the stuff head-wrap and open legs was saying. Thank you for what you said Bee cause my gosh….
I FEEL LIKE THIS IS YALL FAULT BECAUSE YALL REFUSE TO DATE OUT!! Don’t complain about your options, when you’re only limiting yourself to “1” option!
Not “ Head wrap and Open legs” 😂
Date interracial
@tatttoon I like how you said it. I no longer care for bw dating below their social finacial class. Keep getting with bandits. If you dont want to limit yourself, set boundaries for ALL MEN.
Not head wrap 😂😂😂
Plaid just said “ even if he’s working a minimum wage job.” But earlier he said “ she’s a bum cause she makes 15$ a hour.” Who broke is heart 😂😂
His momma!😂
@@aprilscorpio48 🤣🤣🤣
I was making $15 an hour and kept my apartment & it’s big plus kept a Honda Accord Sport with a car note & insurance like what is he talking about 😂😂 you gotta make it work for yourself
A bottle girl def broke his pockets and A-town stomped on his lil heart. He’s in the club everyday remember. That’s a sign of a lonely lonely man.
@@c.washington7368 you may be on to something.
Wait.. he said his girl was SURPRISED that he paid a bill like an ADULT is supposed to do? What type of bare minimum shit…
My exact thoughts ….. like he wants praised for doing what he’s SUPPOSED to do ‼️……. And the amount that he said … like what tf is $100 light bill ? ….. yes people get behind on bills or can’t afford to pay the full amount all at one time ….. but he’s doing the BARE minimum and what is suppose to be done as an ADULT ‼️
Lol I said the same thing girl
Furthermore auto pay is wayyy more responsible. Like oh you so confident in your financial situation that you about to let these ppl draft automatically 😫😮💨 now that’s adulting lol
The bar is below hell atp
The bar is clearly in hell. What grown person is paying partial light bills every month. If you poor just say that😮😮
“No matter how much money a woman got, she still has to know her place.” 🤨 but it’s not about control? It’s aight, Ik my place, in my home and secure in my singleness🤣
He was annoying me we’re supposed to know our place but also pay 50/50 like nigga just get you a “ twink” male then he thinks he’s a catch nigga you’re a nightmare
How is she going to know her place when 1: he’s competing with her and 2: he keep putting her in his place?
What’s her place?
@@ashdacraftthat’s my question too
I actually feel bad for dude in the black & white. He’s speaking from a place of trauma. There are loyal women out here paying their own bills 😭. Ima add him to the prayer list
Yesssss. Which makes him correct in a sense but it also makes him wrong cause that’s not “the reality” that’s YOUR reality.
Girl im praying that he heals so that God can remove the veil. He is been deceived and its so sad. 😢
Right
And you know he’s out here taking it out on every woman he comes across smh. Our men need therapy 😬
I ain’t wasting my prayers on this delusional ni66a
Big Sexy spoke facts hunny and I’m so proud of him for speaking in our honor with such class and grace. ❣️
😂😂😂😂
Yesss
If 70% of black women are single and he said only 20% pay their own bills..... that math ain't mathing. Who paying all our bills if we single and don't have a man lmao!
I guess they saying the government is
So, little homegirl in the black wants a woman to gas him up as the leader while she does all the actual leading, herself. 😂
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Not little homegirl 😂
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Not “ Little homegirl” 😂
While paying 50% of the bills. Make it make sense. Lol 😂 😂
Black flag is TOO BITTER for this conversation. Y’all want a roommate that picks up your slack and give up booty every night but still make you feel like a king in the process.. move around 🙄 y’all want women to be naïve not submissive.. 🚶🏾♀️
He had the nerve to call Big Sexy a Woman twice. Yet everything about his sitting posture screams RuPaul Drag Race contestant number one
Thank you. 😩😩🤣
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Ok I’m not the only one that noticed. Very sassy 💁🏽
Honestly I thought he was gay tbh
Any man that calls a woman a bum because of what she makes per hour is the root of the problem. I’m shocked.
Girl men will compete with a woman all day. And the black ones will dog a bw out for trying then go get another race and take care of her and she don’t do none. Idk what you are but it’s true.
Only dusties compare themselves to women
@@mekichey129 funny enough cause women always comparing themselves to men. If you want leaders, fall back.
The fact they kept blaming the women in false scenarios told me everything I need to know especially after the “she’s a bird” instead of hold the man accountable for lying just sad
Yes that something I noticed about von too, he blames women for men’s actions. Not just in this podcast but in many others. Pls make that make sense!!
Very very sad
I ain't moving into no man house and paying half of his bills unless I got my own room.😂 Roommate. And we splitting the chores down the middle and I aint having no babies either 😂
Nah seriously cause if we going “50/50” then everythangggg split, his ass better be in the kitchen cooking and cleaning that house up too Shitten me
Facts! I’m not doing my roommate’s laundry, or cleaning up after my roommate, and I’m certainly not cooking for my roommate. In fact, I’m buying my own laundry detergent to use only for my clothes and putting my laundry detergent back in my own room in my closet so my roommate would not use my detergent for his own clothes. I’m paying everything just for myself and he better not be late on the bills. As a matter of fact, I will take my auto drafts off of all my accounts so my money won’t go to any parts of his bills. And if he can’t afford his part, I have no issues packing all of my stuff, including my seasonings that I bought, and move into my own place where I don’t have to deal with people who can’t afford half the bills. Lol 😂😂😂
But yall want a man to pay all yall bills while yall spend money that yall have all day n night not doing shit for him. 😂 pathetic
Yes 50/50 means split everything. So when ya daughters hair need to be washed…go grab that shampoo! Lolol
NO BABIESSSSS cause all this 50/50 are you gonna be pregnant half the time??? Are you gonna get the stretch marks at hormonal storm ???
HE ATE EM UP 😩
Dude in the black wanna be a woman sooo BAD
Dude In the black giving lil d sendrom and has an ego problem .
Yeah he’s speaking in femininity idk
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They keep saying because hes gay he doesn't know what's he taking about. HE IS SPEAKING FACTS!!!!
Telling him to cut his parts off was a straight violation smh & calling him a woman
He is speaking facts fr fr he may not be straight but he understands the actions and perspective that women need from men
First, plaid shirt is rude and overly defensive for no reason!! The real conversation is dating on your level. The problem is you going after a type of woman for her looks only and get mad when that’s all she bring to the table 🤦🏽♀️😂 When you go for a woman that’s all about money then you get what you get. When you date a man that wants you to be a housewife but you want a career outside of the home, then you get what you get. We always try to morph people into what we want, instead of being real about who they are and walking away if you don’t like it or a agree. But this conversation is crazy!! When you’ve been in a real, grown relationship….50/50 doesn’t exist.
He was trying to cut him off after every factual line he was spitting okkk!!😂 I love Bryant 🙌🏽
Men good for that.
OMG!!!! As a single, professional, successful woman I would love to have a conversation with these fellas. They have it all LOUD and WRONG. Thank you Big Sexy
Even though I’m not in a place of success, I’ve always held my own. Everything I have, I had to work for without a man
Big Sexy always gets the gworls and boys together! It’s not a “old school” lifestlye for the man to take care of the household, it’s BIBLICAL. Black bandana is definitely showing heavy signs of a overt narcissist and you can definitely tell he’s heavily single and miserable and been tricking & got HURT 😂and light skin is showing signs of covert narcissism. A man of the flesh is not God. The only person you prove anything to is God. A relationship is 100% 100%. Black bandana saying that your the catch? Aren’t you doing the chasing man it’s giving woman vibes 😂 I’m confused. The the context that woman don’t pay their own bills? I ALMOST GAGGED! Women are definitely paying their own bills. Big sexy he may be UNDACOVA😂
This……
This‼️
💯 there's definitely not a bunch of provider men out here just paying that many women's bills 😂 he is definitely delusional
Plaid outfit is feminine by definition. Don’t argue with me argue with his yin energy 😂
You not lying! He’s hurt fr and is in competition with the women. That’s why he’s single lol
@@melbagrady facts. that be they problem lmao they wanna compete with black women instead of other men. Do you think basketball players compare their stats to coaches of other teams lmao no cause they have different roles 💀 silly feminized boys
I thought he was acting feminine as well
He is a DL competing with BW.
I just said his outfit is cute……for a woman😂
I cannot tell a man can lead just by him paying his phone bill or any other bills. That is the RESPONSIBLE thing to do
Exactly don’t get impressed by things that have nothing to do with you
I laughed so hard at that. “I never seen a man pay a full bill before.” Lol 😆 What? Poor black women. 😆 Yall love the bottom of the barrow
Right lmao his gf slow as hell
Right! And if I can pay my bill in full just like you can, you still haven’t shown me that you can lead me! We’re still doing the same stuff at the same level.
Pretty basic
What's frustrating is that they aren't really listening but only listening to respond.
A huge pet peeve of mines. Like what are we truly gathering and reflecting on?
Wow! I hardly ever comment on videos, but I definitely have to comment on this one. The guy in the blue was speaking complete facts. When he said “there are some men who don’t like women”, that went completely over their heads but it’s something I’ve noticed and it’s totally true. It not about their sexual orientation - it’s the way they view, engage with, speak with, and talk about women that tells it all. You can definitely tell the difference between a hurt man and a healed man. Go for the healed one ☺️.
Big sexy talking circles around them 😂 they’re not even on his level when he said I’m a Gemini it all made sense lol
Wow, Big Sexy made logical & valid perspectives on both sides but King Finesse responding from a defensive and emotional (triggering) standpoint and it shows!!! But Von actually made some valid points as well
😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine he calls himself a King with no kingdom to rule 😂
I’m surprised big sexy didn’t pop off on Dallas for saying his mom is only strong because of his dad paying bills. Like she not her own person. Lord.
Right 😭 he said if his dad wasn’t there she would’ve been on housing assistance… dude was trippin
I believe he lying. Cause ain’t no way if he in his right mind talking like that
He said he makes nearly 7 figures, but wants his woman to go 50/50 😂😂😂😂
Bandana need to just get him a man😂
Okkk😂😂😂
Literally
Factsssss he might as well just come on out
True 😂 but I don't think he can afford that lol 😆
He probably has one
Just wasting BW time and energy.
Dallas is taking everything Bryant saying personal and not listening at all. He’s just basing everything off of his own experience or his past traumas with woman’s.
Correct! When he said he has a a ex he really loved and she was just a hoe I said “ see ! That’s the trauma right there! “ 😂😂😂 that’s why he act like that
And I bet one of the reasons why he pushed himself so hard is to try to show her that he got it! So hurt poor tinky he fell for a trick 😂
Exactly what I was thinking. He needs to seek therapy and get that bitterness out of him. He’s a hurt lil boy.
Yea he getting too “EMOTIONAL” lol the favorite word they love to use to describe us. He’s too “SENSITIVE” by the truth 😂
Him saying 15% pay they own bills but turns around and says if they don’t want to pay 50/50 they pay more 😂😂😂😂. Him and his 3pc set is out of pocket.
Not 3 piece set omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 RIGHT!
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HE GOT THAT SHIT ON HIS HEAD, BECAUSE HIS HAIRLINE IS IN THE MIDDLE.
Not “ 3 pieces set” bih😂😂
That bandana hiding his receding hairline has me 😂😂😂
Daycare was invented for SINGLE PARENT HOUSEHOLDS. For a single father or a single mother. #I'm done
Exactly, what if the woman or the man doesn’t want their child being brought up in daycare? Can they raise their children without their contribution being questioned? Like I have so many questions 😩
His tone deafness and lack of understanding of what children need is glaring. Do they have children? Daycare is not a good full-time solution. We really have to get unlocked from the matrix.
@@Ms.Educated I couldn't agree with you more.
And it’s expensive as hell for some families it cheaper for one parent to stay home plus no one really wants strangers spending more time with their children then them
Men should want their children to be raised at home. Too many pedophiles nowadays.
Basically what I gathered is a woman… who is a human being… who works and makes a good living for herself…. can’t get a man because that’s too much of a boss status????💀💀💀 PLEASEEE
Basically 😂
Girlllll
The only man that RESPECTS women is Sexy. The other two men are shallow and have never experienced love at all.
Working and making a living is normal status. Meaning it's literally what most ppl do.
Only in blackastan. I don't do dusties. Divested and rested over here.
From the sentence plaid said about his mom you can hear his resentment towards her. That resentment is what’s wrong with him. Poor tink tink!
Big facts I caught that too...his mommy hurt him
She was out stepping on the dad and she took him along 😂
Facts she left and never told him why and all he saw was his dad perspective!
Thank you, big sexy, for confirming all of the hatred I felt as a little black girl and growing up in the inner city as a youth and now as a black woman you have made my day for shining a light on this
Blue shirt ate! He literally explained everything us girls are feeling but unable to explain. Him trying to get the other two to understand where he was coming from seemed frustrating tho bc most guys don’t understand how females operate🤦🏽♀️
He started off so proudly by saying 50/50 that shit was a turn off already . He got lil d sendrom & an ego problem .
Yeah they don’t. I feel for big sexy because they talking about what they hit. Big sexy talking about how the 50/50 need not to work. I can respect to both sides.
men: women only want money
anyone: what do men bring to the table?
men: money
*repeat*
Favorite comment !!
The man in blue is just stating facts. If a man is a proper leader, provider, & protector your woman will naturally submit to you . Submission is in the female nature, but you need to lay the ground for her to feel comfortable to trust your vision and guidance, a lot of women get defensive cause a lot of men lack these masculine qualities. I come from a family with healthy long lasting marriages, that embrace traditional gender roles 80% of the time, I can guarantee that this is true
You’re saying submission is a females natural nature , but then at the same time saying it requires a man to be a proper leader , provider and protector. Is it natural or does it require those conditions?
Look I hear you and want to hear you, but I bump into women who are submissive up front naturally , before they even know anything about me … we haven’t even gotten into what we both require yet
Big Sexy speaking all facts! As a black woman I appreciate you 🫶🏾
They called him a pick me just for empathizing with women. These so called straight men don't really like women. So glad he said it.
I’m so tired of this conversation 🤣🤦🏾♀️ You can not have your CAKE AND EAT IT TOO🗣️
You can't have Kate and Edith too 😉
First of all submission is not reserved for just women. Second submission is for marriage. Therefore, husband and wife submit to each other. Third what is a woman's place? Is he trying to be biblical? Because if that's the case then we need to talk about what a man's place is. See, a lot of men feel they are automatically qualified for all these things simply based on the fact that they have a penis between they legs. Every man dont deserve a wife therefore every man don't deserve submission. A boyfriend is not a husband. What's the point of marriage if a women has to submit to every man she come in contact with. There are so many lost people in this world smh.
i completely agree! he can't differentiate between a girlfriend and a wife.
@Timmera Kimp exactly 💯 and we already know men, especially black men, aren't lining up to marry anybody, so who they think want to submit to a forever boyfriend. I'm so glad my husband and I found each other cause I would hate to have to choose a life partner now. Cause if these podcast are any indication of the type of men out there now honestly I would've chosen to be by myself.
!!!! He lost me with “ a woman’s place” I said the same thing sooo what’s a man’s place then tf
Dude in the white saying learn somebody character, but do you know how many stories of health care providers saying that you can know a persons REAL character when they get sick. WAY more women stay and WAY more men leave. It can be hard to see somebody REAL character.
@@iamkelsyk9455 indeed 💯
Amongst the accurate points Big Sexy made, he hit the nail on the head about the comments 😂
I don’t understand how whole episode Von keep mentioning how Big Sexy gay and he’s a man so how could he understand women like huhhh ain’t you a man too ??? So because you’re not gay you understand women better since you date them. I feel like he’ll understand a woman better than any straight man could because he’s actually sitting down hearing us out to see where we’re coming from.
…without the expectation or desire to sleep with y’all-which BS also pointed out.
That went right over Von’s head unfortunately.
Great point
Exactly. I was tigger.
Thank you BigSexy, you really held it down for us, we love you.
Bryant Bee, you’re not a hammer but you keep hitting the nail on the head!! 👏🏽
He really said the TRUTH. If you got offended, it just proves you’re not willing to MAN UP. He is gay but still a man that understands morally what’s important in the role of a household.
He needs to be in Tonight Conservation with logical people
So Kita can open em’ up like she did with the “impressionable man”
BIG SEXY ate down on this and I appreciate him for having our backs fr !! 🫶🏾 DOWNNN!
A woman sees you as a leader cause she saw you pay ya bill? That’s like the bare minimum, what type of men she been dealing with?? 😭😭
Right and a $100 at that. 😂 she was simple minded 😂
A leader pays her bills? Lmaooo what r u on?
@@geraldking9385 uhh it wasn’t her bill, it was his own bill. Open ya ears next time buddy before you reply to me. Thank you. That’s what I’m on 😊
@@geraldking9385 and stop liking yah own comments 😂
I’ve actually taken time to make the calculations of the true value if a stay at home wife.
It comes out to around $150,000 a year.
She’s his secretary, she’s an accountant, full time daycare, tutor, chauffeur for everyone, she plans out every outing and vacation, chef, house cleaner, therapist. It’s multiple jobs and no one sees that value.
Even with wives and mothers who wirk full time, they STILL do all of that and go to work.
Sis, add $100k for each time the wife sacrifices her body for her husband to have his kids. Then add another $100k each time the doctor and nurses ignores the black wife’s cries for pain after giving birth and she comes close to death and has to to get a blood transfusions because the doctors and nurses didn’t take her pain serious.
It’s actually worth more than that but you on the right path. A good secretary costs at least 60k, a nanny costs 60k at least, a chauffeur is 50k, chef 50k, maid 30k, travel agent 20k. That’s $270,000 right there and I put the base salary and didn’t even add therapist/counseling and the biggest bill: SEX WORKER!!! And they ask what we bring to the table…..
Big sexy, made great points, Von, made some good point but he still was contradicting himself and GLASSES, needs to completely humble himself. Period.
What is the weird obsession with men thinking they are supposed to guide women. WHAT QUALIFIES YOU TO GUIDE ME?! If im paying all my bills, providing a decent lifestyle for myself, have a career, WTF kinda guidance do women need from yall. Just say yall want to CONTROL women, manipulate them into giving you your way. Once men understand that they have ZERO control over anyone but themselves, they develop better characteristics and attract women who have the same. They ask for a boss woman, but can’t handle them because they not “humble” meanwhile, GLASSES is sitting their bragging about going to brunch, and clubs everyday. Instead of judging the entire woman race based of your PERSONAL experiences with the whores you ALLOWED in your life. Lets do some self reflection and work on your character. You attract a certain group of women for a reason…and you choose these women for a reason. Go to therapy, go meditate, go do something and figure out the REASON why YOU are picking these women. I heard a lot of insecurity in Glasses answers, he needs to get a sense of self identity and stop living through social constructs of what a man supposed to be and be the PERSON he was meant to be.
He’s so quick to be like “the woman don’t gotta be home because the baby in daycare” why do your babies need to be in daycare if you as a man are bringing enough to the table. It’s a difference between completely depending on your partner vs having to do men’s and women’s job yet men aren’t helping in droves when it comes to “women’s work” like cooking, cleaning and caretaking. Pick a side.
Bandana dude is Sassy AF… 💁🏽♂️
he sure is.
1:13:31 she probably didn’t want to go 50/50 with you. She doubted a a bullet so happy for her.
Big Sexy knows what he’s talking about!! It’s all going wayyyy over their heads 😩
they think he jus takin up for us cuz he feminine and gay but truth is black women really feel this way
You’re so rich yet I still gotta go 50/50 with you? Lmao yea right
Right, that made no sense.
How you rich but u don’t trick is crazyyyyyyyyyyyyy
50/50 goes FAR beyond finances
He told the damn truth and this is exactly why a lot of so called straight men have a issue with blk women being friends with gay men because they be giving us the real tea at least the ones that actually care about us and not these queens that be messing around with DL men I am talking about the real gay men who have standards and respect 💯
And if you had any respect to yourself you wouldn't even came at people in that manner. There respectful one what about the disrespectful ass women. Like as in yourself. How you going say the ones that mess with the undercover men they're undercover because of women harassing them and making them feel like they're doing something wrong. But when you think about it women don't want them to mess around with gay men because they want to be with them knowing fully well that they are a gay men their self.
Black women it's our time to start dating out! This sh*t is sad! Other races of men gets it. We are our most happy when we date out! Open your options sis❤
Should of been doing that 😂😂
Yes, you ladies should be open to dating outside. Put your happiness first and let go of the baggages.
I am from a different ethnicity and country. Seeing the 2 men acting that way is embarrassing. In my community, men like that are looked down as they fail to be a proper leader and provider to their women.
Some of y'all can't date out 😂😂
@@nohharu6105 Yes. I agree, other ethnic group of men are just better men. BW is ready to be properly loved. Many are jumping to the other side and importantly we actually make really great wives because we are happy👩🏽❤️👨🏼
@@corieydadon boi bye I’m pretty sure don’t nobody want to dusty bum ass
Bandanna is extremely defensive and emotional about that 50% chile. I hope whoever is dumb enough to get with him never forgets to pay her portion cause he might have a b**** fit 😮💨 6:27
Him and his receding hairline is on the DL 😂
Not a BF!! It's giving White Chicks ferrrr sure
Lmao paying a $100 light bill established financial responsibility. Mannnnn gthoh! That should be on auto-draft my guy. The bar gotta be in hell if that was impressive. 😂
😂😂😂
Man. That's a red flag in my book. My bill is $25 a month. If your bill as a single person is upwards of 100, to me, you are a wasteful dude or missed several payments.
Big Sexy got them together spitting nothing but logical facts. He gay but that’s a real man there. Brought up in a healthy loving and respectful environment that’s obvious. These guys need to take notes
Yes Bryant dad was the reason she could be the WOMAN that she is because he treated her like a woman and allowed her to contribute and add to the partnership. He was a MAN.
And there is nothing wrong with that. 🤷🏾♀️
How is the supposed heterosexual male more sassy than the homosexual male? 🤣
then callin big sexy a woma. i waslike nigga yo lil tiny short gay azz a woman too
You noticed that too huh
Righttttt way too emotional for me 😂
It's always the dudes most gays would walk past that think they're trying to "recruit" them. Negro, the relationships you have with women are inconsistent, why would the gays want you?
AND I OOOOOP!
Like sir don’t nobody want you and you on a RUclips podcast talking bout women like they dogs and wearing a scarf on yo head. Sir we good. Them straights can keep you.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Idk what he’s talking about becuz having supportive single friends is the best thing you can have. They speak from a perspective outside a relationship and can give great advice
Big Blue was spitting FACTS! 💯
Protect Big Sexy at all cost PERIOD 😎. #GeminiSeason #GeminiGang
Lord help my black women because if this is the mentality of the straight black man I feel sorry for them
That man in the blk has such a young mind for being 31. What type of women is he dating?
Old buddy with the head scarf is a no😂. Ain’t no way somebody taking him serious
They wasn’t even trying to let Big Sexy talk like dang shut up!! 🙄
The men that can actually provide a generous life to women NEVER complain about a “gold digger”. Always the 50/50 men worried about a gold digger. If you can’t provide for your family/woman why are you even dating?
The level of contradiction 😂 and delusion! They sounded a lot like these women who ain’t settling for less…
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Most men tell us it’s our fault when we picked a hollow head idiot box but, we were supposed to feel bad when you do the same on the flip side? You picked her.
This was so interesting. This was my first time seeing all you individuals. BIG SEXY bless your parents they raised a wonderful SMART black man !
I liked this video because of Big Sexy’s very valid points! He was the only person who said anything of value!
Why a woman gotta be broken if she don’t want a husband or a family what kind of ignorance is that
I love seeing Big Sexy on here! He’s been my fave for a while. I love his opinions on the topics.
Thank you Big Sexy for speaking up for women. A lot of men are confused. On one hand they want a stay at home wife/mother but she’s too independent, too strong, too masculine, and she wants to make money. Then on the other hand you want her to pay half the bills and match your energy. different times if your lives. Every woman is capable of being soft, feminine, and contributing to the household but he sounds like he wants a roommate not a partner.
Plaid is too emotional. Omg, he's overwhelming.
Big Sexy got me here yesss I love how he protect and support us
57:30 so the man who lied doesn’t have the character flaw but the woman who believed it does?
This level of delusion needs to be studied and researched!
Right!😂 it’s not fuunnny- it’s so sad it’s funny
I had to rewind that part!! Like how is manipulation not a character flaw but trusting is???? Men they really believe everything they say outta their mouth and call it “logical”
He gonna be single his whole life 😂
Yes he is. The only way he will find someone is once he humbles himself and goes to therapy.
Being single isn't a death sentence
@@geraldking9385 When women tell yall that, yall don't accept it.
One thing about them tables...
they always turning.
@@tatianadaniel3569 whose yall? I'm not every guy yall talk to, sorry.
@@geraldking9385 Sir, stop the cap.
You know I'm talking about men in general and you know that men love telling women were going to end up single and alone AS IF it's a death sentence.
Why would i do 50/50 when i currently pay all my bills alone just fine?
Because 50/50 is regarding the housing. If yall living together u think the man supposed to cover all of it? Ok then daughter
Buddy in the black is cocky. The same energy that has in this mindset & position is the energy that will be his downfall. Something abt him is angry and dark. And you can tell money rules him.
Demonic spirits baby!!! He shows signs of overt narcissism for sureeee
He not even THAT! He should humble himself. He is super regular.
@@vwood8711 I’ve seen about 10 of him
@@moviesinminutes4057 Real shit! I’m thinking to myself..he is not tall enough for his ego to be 10 feet off the ground. Sir ..my titties taller than you, relax. 😂😂😂