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Am I Dating the Right Person? - The Difference Between Men and Boys
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- Опубликовано: 26 апр 2017
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I think it's time we talk about the big elephant in the room...
Actually, I can't even compare this to elephants because unlike some of the guys you might be dating, elephants have the wisdom, self-awareness and capability of giving full love to their heard.
Today we are going to get real about WHO you are dating because I've been getting email after email about the so-called "men" in your life and let me tell you... I think we need a bit of help defining what it actually means to be a man.
There's a huge difference between dating a man and dating a boy but too often we are confusing the two and trying to build a life with a boy who is NOT capable of a sustainable relationship.
Now, you are definitely not off the hook as I truly believe that if you are dating a boy, then there is some unresolved issues within yourself that's keeping the little girl in you running the show INSTEAD of the woman in you... But that's a video for another day.
In today's video I'm going to help you get clear on whether you are in fact dating a man... or if you are setting yourself up for failure because you are trying to build a life with someone who's just NOT capable sustaining the type of love you desire.
Why is this all important?
Because we are trying to "make" house with someone who can only "play" house and then get frustrated and hurt when years down the line, you both want different things.
The truth is, the signs have ALWAYS been there, most the time, we just choose to not pay attention to them. Well... NOT anymore! It's not cute anymore to play as if we don't know our partners. We do! And it's time to take responsibility for the relationships we allow in our lives...
Characteristics of a FULL man:
A FULL man knows his worth and in-turn, knows the worth of his partner. He's not going to settle for anything short of what knows he deserves and that's EXACTLY what you want, why? Because, he will also know the value of who he's with!
A FULL man will NOT play games. This on and off again crap I hear going on in relationships only happens when you are in a relationship with a boy, NOT a man.
A FULL man is certain of who he is and won't feel the need to suppress, restrict or belittle his partner. If you are with someone who tries to control you, manipulate you to get what he wants, or feels the need to say hurtful things, it is a sure sign of unresolved fear, that a BOY wouldn't even know how to process…
A FULL man will take responsibility for his wrongdoings. Humility and vulnerability is at the core of a full man. A BOY will backlash and turn the table on you without taking ownership of his actions.
A FULL man will see a grander vision for the relationship and will want to share his world with you. A BOY can't see a grander vision and will rarely discuss plans with you in them.
A FULL man is the true definition of confident. A BOY is arrogant and cocky. Remember we've discussed before the difference between confidence and arrogance ladies. Confidence comes from trust and self-love… while arrogance and cockiness is a compensation for the lack of love within.
As always please leave any "Ah-has" in the comment section below and SHARE this with anyone who needs it!!
I'm so glad I found your videos, you are amazing. ❤️
We are so happy our videos are helpful to you! XO
Your brain wash
Video actually starts at 2:42
THANK YOU.
A boy plays ‘house’ while a man makes a home 💜💜
Shaming language is so yesterday
Ladies how do you feel about a man “making house” for his children (a worthy goal) but only and exclusively consulting their mother (not you) about making that environment… and you live there and you love those kids …and you want the kids to be first priority too, you want to have a voice and a place in the decisions in the home. How do we determine what boundaries are healthy for making a home with our man’s kids 50% of the days? Thanks for *constructive* input. No shaming.
I’m dating a boy!!! 😭😭😭😭
And I’m starting to act like a little girl now too 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
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I WAS DATING A BOY ALL ALONG!
He broke up with me a month ago. He said that he isn't happy anymore and can't control me. In addition to that, he doesn't take responsibilities for all he did wrong to me. He just apologised and that's it.
I can't believe a guy broke up a sweet kind Women like you.
It’s a good thing he can’t control you
It's your mistake why you get in realation with him. World is like that only
Yeah same
I was dating a boy all along and he said he isn't happy anymore
Also just like you he told me that he can't control me and apologized and broke up over text
Sigh.
When she says "controlling and manipulative" what she means is he does not allow behavior that is conducive to cheating and does not tolerate her being disrespectful. Most of the time "saying hurtful things" is nothing more than the man pushing back and putting her in check because she blatantly insulted him.
these women know nothing about being a man.
As a man, I absolutely agree with her. Crystal Fuentes is on point here. And although, this video was uploaded 2 years ago, the content still stands true today, and always will when dealing with real men.
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You are here because you are a boy, this is our place for ladies only, what are you doing here?
Well said and thank you! NOTE I enjoy your videos because it very educated for me to have some understanding of some women. :-) As a man I do care. :-)
Thanks for backing up my point. 👍💖
arrogance and self love never would have thought but i think it makes so much sense better to be a man than a boy.
Man has the power of youth and can act like a boy and you have to accept it.. cause those qualities will make him a good father some day. You don't want a super serious man in your life.
She's not talking about being playful and fun. That's good. She's talking about being immature. Not being able to deal with real world problems, having a lack of patience, etc... Same coutns for women.
I'd definitely like a woman that's cute and playful. Just not a 20+ year old woman with the mind of a 13 year old girl.
Off topic while watching this:
i know that i am still pretty young adult (lady) and learning my ways but this video seriously explains why i was so negative about starting dating as a child/in younger age. I can't change my past but i was more mature than many others back then and i still don't like all that "playing". My life is for a while been better than before as a single person but i just find it funny how i watch this out of boredom at (almost) 12 pm. Anyway thanks for reading, have a nice day
Honestly made lots of sense... thank you for sharing great advice... honest I appreciate it as I know many of us do... thank you💝
Thank you so much for watching Cam! XO
Yep I really need to know foreal cus I really think I have a man baby foreal
Interesting thoughts thanks Christal
I just shared a photo of an actor and my bf gets mad af that he gets cold or saying he hates me a lot. I cant handle him any more but I love him so much😢😢
Hi please make another video am I dating the right person... difference between women and girls
I like how a man is defined based on how much validation a woman can drain from him.
Fucking leeches. Love them all blood-sucking vampires. 😂❤
That's amazing!
Love you what you do!
I am a boy if this video is true, how will i become a man than?
How abt a man-child that cant make up mind, talks rubbish n suddenly leans so close? Made me so angry coz acted so lost but clingy wanted to continue following me. Hate boys like that!
Well said and thank you!
Thank you for watching!!
Nice video.♥️✅👍
Don't control people but if someone does something or will do something that does not sit wrong with you or will effect there further in a bad way Adress it or push them in the right direction
Thank you for video loves your channel
Your video was very helpful your a very beautiful lady as well :-)
What age range is this for? I feel its good but a little superficial for anyone over 25.
My cousin thought she dated a Real Man, but turns out she really dated a Boy, which he's 42 years old; Now she regretted it marrying him.
Actually I was dating this guy, we brokeup like 2 months ago , that that was because he treated me in a very bad way. And now idk why he’s spreading rumours that I cheated on him by hooking up with someone n that’s why he brokeup with me ? Which is so not true . So what does this even mean ? What’s he tryna prove ?
Maybe he has a guilt. And is scared that people may ask why he dumbed you.
Amazing video. I just wish I could get help personally from someone. I get mixed signals between if they are a man or a boy. I've been with him for over a year now and he's recently acting childish in my opinion but cant find good advice online.
Go to reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
We shouldnt be judgemental towards others. Because no body is perfect. We all have weaknesses.
What if he’s all but 1?
Im 5/6 on thst list. Im happy about that.
Preach it gurl
GOD i'm dating a boy. I know he love me, but sometimes he such a annoying. He won't listen to me. But we have been dating almost 3years and i can't break up with him. Because i have nothing. I forgot what it feels to be single. Im scared
Are you single now?
How do u knw if ur WTH the right person
What makes women lovable?
Crystal, when you say full, it sounds like the the guy just ate food. I think you meant to say Mature or any synonyms like that. Your beautiful and if you live in the LA area let's go get coffee.
So my man is confident . He take responsibilities ..but yaa mostly all the time i have to do everything by my self .. as i have to do all the household chors and aslo have to spent equal expense as he say that we both earn same to expenses should be same ... thats right in some way but he always deny the household chords by sayng i don't know how to do or i don't want to do nd all... so sometimes it make me angry that what type of equality is this
What camera did you use?
Ooh I am boy and want to be boy forever but I think I am mature enough but eager to know human psychology More.
You are the best
I am a boy if this video is true, how will i become a man than?
Watch fight club and do what Tyler Durden teaches
Oh, no i'm not dating either :p
It don't matter Isabel being honestif I want to run down a hit I'm going to let her know I want to run down and hit that I don't want no relationship unless it's a power couple other than that take care of them pay somebody bills not their head off give them money take them out and just keep it 💯
How to know that if you are dating a URL or a grown woman
Wow I never realised I was tricked by a hyperlink this whole time!
All comes down to high treated you look at your jewelry look at your gifts look at your birkin bags and saying somebody else going through that that's it
How sure are you that a full Man can't play games?
Do you trust all full Man?
Am I dating a woman, or a little, entitled girl?
If you're dating, the answer is yes.
I’m a dude, I approve this
Are you a boy?
Trustworthy and relationships? Hi I’m Mariah Goehring.
Let's start with these visions of forever and this beautiful love that you're supposed to sustain for a lifetime. If your goal is a fairytale romance then you are approaching the relationship as a little girl. No man or boy is ever going to be good enough to fulfill your childish dreams. Throw those ideas out the window then we can talk about men and boys.
Communicating and building romance is so important!!
💙💙💙What about “Women vs Little spoiled girls?”👻
If you are a real man, then any spoiled girl will become a real woman under your influence. So your question is a boy's question, not a man's.
Starts at 2:49
Be aware of who we are trying to “make house” with because a boy can play house fir a little while, a man makes a home.
A MAN "never plays games"
* while*
A BOY "always plays game"
This made me realize I'm the girl and he's the man when I watched this to see if he was a boy LOL
This is a very fixed and rigid way of thinking... There is one problem with all this. WHEN YOUR IN LOVE, NOTHING MAKES SENSE... No two men are the same... How and when you meet him will change and he will evolve...
Only those relationship works where men and women accept eachother as the way they are. And along the way they becomes source for improvement for one another
Hey womens i want you to correct me if i'm wrong girls stay away😅 look, i'm a men and i just want hookup without breaking her heart and giving all respect to her telling the truth that i'm not interested in relationships is it sounds bad? Tell me
WAS dating a boy 😅
There aren’t any men or women in the U.S. only children. Sorry if I’m being a little harsh.
Im dating a Boy... 😢😢😢😢
You gotta get yourself a man!!!
Hmmm, im obviously dating a boy i guess :/
a leas daeing someone
Women: I am over 6 feet tall, I work out at the gym, have a middle 6 figure income, three nice cars, and a nice house. I made my money in tech, and I want to make one of you my very special one-and-only. No kids, never married. Have some things going right now, keeping me way busy like managing my late-mother's estate and selling off most of her property. I'm going to keep the beach villa though. I want to find the right one, do the ring thing and get married and start a family. I'm 35, and my dream lady should be about the same age. Your looks are only one small part of what I think is important, I adore intelligent and funny. I'll be ready in two years. I am out here looking for you - the guy at the corner table.
For a second I thought you were Gal Gadot!
im dating a boy
good but a little superficial
I'm dating a boy
A boy don’t have a world to share , in face he wants to have yours
An absolute man..m lucky 🥰
so girls what do you want to be a ? a little girl with her dad like lady coach want you to be or a mom with her son ! i can tell you you better be a mom cause soon as you ll get more wrinkless he ll desapear cause girl you are now a old little girl lool ! dont be a little girl be a Wonder Woman , dont wait things from him ,be autonome , make money by your own ! be the boss ,surprise men! WOMEN are stronger than what they think they should be ! dont wait for your man to fight for you ! be a lioness ! a lioness do every thing ! they dont wait for anything back they do that s it
cyr le u commented like a man.. Cool
thanks buddy
cyr le I kinda agree with you... taking me a long time... I’m deff working on just me take care of me, be happy being lonely... it’s not a bad thing... my problem is I’m an older woman but the few guys that talk to me are younger 25 I don’t care for any hookup even if he’s really attractive... I want someone to love... that’s all to do things with he doesn’t always have to pay I have my own money to... girls can pay to.. :/
Hi Cam G i think it is not a problem to be older woman who attracte Young boy cause Young boy can also be romantic and looking for love so that great cause love dont have age :) bisous
If you are a man and your girl is often spending time with her guy-friends - you should leave her, she is no go
Freud used to say something on the lines of "people tend to set their own destiny because of their rooted tendencies"... I am gay by the way, men are an enigma for me as well.
I'm i simple boy. I watch this video to learn and pretend
"little boy"=playa or bad boy who ran through her before she hit the wall, and now she's scrambling like a fighter jet for a "nice guy". Bwahaha!!!!!!! good luck!
this shit is funny ....
sneak apeak - Yeah, it's so cringy you have to laugh...
You took too long to get to the point.....
A fish cannot teach a fisherman how to fishing
Dating a boy so... getting rid
How so. I don't understand.
Plenty of us men out there. There only one problem the word NO keeps spilling out of women mouth anytime we ask them anything. If it working for yall its working for me hahahahaha
jump to 2:40 and thank me later
many men act like boys to try and make women laugh cause us men always hear that women are attracted to funny men
It's good to have a sense of humor but you shouldn't be focusing on that. Women want a man who is serious and intelligent but can make her laugh AT TIMES not all the time like a joker.
I'm simply amazed at how women will always say they want a nice and vulnerable guy publicly. I won't be surprised if this girl is currently dating a tattooed up felon who treats her like trash.
Jeff Ogola Yea, women hate weak men.
Jeff Ogola sorry we do want a good confident man well us real woman... but honestly those are rare and hard to find...
Jeff Ogola “nice” guy spotted.
EdgeofDavid being genuinely nice and vulnerable is NOT a weakness you fool.
Cuz tattoos mean he’s a felon....
I'm dating a boy trapped in a soldiers body
I don't understand. Is he a soldier?
@@nawrsalsham8443 yes
@@nawrsalsham8443 hasn't matured back then
@@IDFCSwagatron I'm sorry to hear that. How hard that is. 💔
I loved a girl, too, and we split up after a time when she wasn't mature.
@@nawrsalsham8443 yeah but patience is key. I love this idiot
I just wish some tiny things can change.
Yay, I'm considered a man! Thanks!
Does your girlfriend also think so?
shit i’m dating a boy
I believe I am a man as u described but u forgot to tell that many “women” behave like little girls today and we cannot do anything because is considered unethical...
This proved that you NEVER take advice or even life advice from a woman. You are all so self-centred and self-observed. Man is not there to serve you but to create a loving family, and make the world a better place. You selfish leaches. Love all of you. 😅❤
A woman attracts a man
a girl attracts a boy
A girl under the influence of a man becomes a woman, without a man she will remain a girl.
I I don’t find this video very good. You kinda sound like you need a perfect person or they suck. Urgh
lol
Wtf she talking about so everything we be the man fault . I thought it has to be even not just on a man
MAG MIKE Bro, you took it too personal, and didn't listen to her. She said she would address the ladies inner girl behavior feeding the guys boy behavior, in later videos. Keep your chin up though. I think shes absolutely right, and I agree with her, because ive seen examples my whole life. I know I'm still unsure if i can trust a woman with all of me, because most woman are little girls in disguise trying to play house, like she said about boys. It's why I agree with her. I know I still have insecurities, so i dont throw myself out there. In my head, I'm not ready for a relationship right now. We can all take steps to learn from our mistakes, and move forward, but the first step is, acknowledging our mistakes, so that we can learn from them.
This is a failure of society, which does not allow boys to communicate with men and grow up themselves. This society is womanly, and a woman cannot raise a man. A woman can't even raise a woman, a woman can raise boys and girls. And who is mainly engaged in the upbringing of children? Women. So men have to take the situation into their own hands - themselves. That's what men do.
Woman just want resources . Your money and your time
of course, because they have to give birth to children and take care of offspring, this is their basic instinct.
All haters are the boys