Being a 20 year old, now I am so settled with all these friendship breaks & dramas that I just don’t care. We have different phases in our life & who ever stays in it stays rest we eventually drift apart & that too is completely okay
So at 21, I have been struggling with friendships and relationships, everything turning long distance and alot of them ending. I'm still trying to navigate through all this and finding my people, but listening to you makes me feel a little normal, like this happens with other people too, I'm not alone. So, thank you.
That was a wholesome conversation, Tarini! As we grow up, we eventually end up aligning with people with similar mindsets. As much as it is tough to let people go, focusing on the things that matter in the longer scheme of things only strengthens us.
"Every year I lose friends and every year I have different friends" Literally the most relatable line evaa gurll i too have different friends but not like the real ones I think from the past 1year i have been kinda self isolated but for the best and just pushed everyone away for my own mental being but it also made me really hard to make friends too... Ugh I wish I too had a podcast to yap bout these stuff
I know it’s tough and I’ve been there. Self isolation is great and much needed a lot of times for personal growth but I would also say, try putting yourself out there sometimes. You never know what happens when 😌❤️
at my 21 i m miserable right now... i have not even joined the college due to a stupid exam neet.. its very depressing but at the same time i have really good friends not much but yes i have 2 best friends and with them i can share everythng without getting judged and also i have my cousins with me and they are my life .. i love them so so much and they love me too... these people uplifts me so much that i m so grateful to have them... and my love life is not so good... i have been in love with a person for past 4 years and 3 days back i confessed him my feelings because he started flirting with me out of nowhere and i played along with him and when i got suspisious that he is not serious he is just flirting for fun i asked him directly and he said i consider only GOOD JUNIOR FRIEND and this broke my heart into pieces but still i have to move on with life and prepare for my exam so that i can move out and have fun in my life and i just hope that in 2025 i just want a govt medical seat thats it and that will make me and my parents happy......
And maybe you can find friendships in your family. As I was struggling with my connections in college that gave me an opportunity to bond with my sister and we are besties now❤ and we play and chill together and I am so grateful for that.
Hey Tarini, i m also just another fish in sea who's been struggling with myself lately, because of how these past 3 years have been for me. 3 years ago me would've loved that he was the centre of attention of the friends group, but the journey from "being the centre of attention" in the group to being the "centre of attention" to solitude was a good journey. And yes, it all happened because i was in love, maybe for the last time. (spolier alert). And if you ask me was it all worth it, being where i am and what i've become! i'd say yes, coz i have no regrets. Though i did learn to keep things private (meaning everything) Before i started exploring myself i always felt like i was not the part of the group, that i dont belong here and wouldn't belong here, the only difference was that, instead of feeling different in a better way, i'd been feeling like the black sheep. COZ it was so profoundly pointed out to me by their words and actions. i've had my fair share of bad friendships and i gotta say, the people i m currently friends with can be easily counted on fingertips, and i love that now. The lesser people you're friends with, LESSER the drama. and by that, i mean unnecessary drama which also includes unneccsary heartache, emotional and mental breakdown, mindfu*k and "What If' and "What Could've Been" and whatnot. I was the most open person as an individual but these personal experiences have changed me (Dont know if its for the better or not, coz only time will tell), but luckily, i've had such amazing friends who accepted me after everything and i wouldnt be here if it weren't for these 3 most amazing and beautiful people. May this decade long friendship only continues to grow. i may have stumbled from believing and having faith as to where my potential can take me, but i hope it works out like it always does. I've always wanted to communicate w you but always lacked the time, place and well words. Your videos are your efforts in reaching out to us. Consider the comments as us reaching out to you. And i really hope i would be able to have a conversation w you in person, hopefully. P.S. with all the self exploration i m doing, i've had the immense fortune of getting the tickets for coldplay for their concert at mumbai. I just hope i m ready to have that emotional and mental breakdown to see them perform. _ Love, S
Hey Tarini ! Hope you are doing good physically & mentally ! I have been following you since the past 3 years now , and I was missing your content on RUclips but with this video it explains it all . I just felt like you were speaking my heart out because even I am done with college now and it’s funny how everything you talked about your friendship life was almost identical to mine ! And honestly it was so heartbreaking to lose friends but the best part about all those broken friendships is that I have finally found myself. So I hope you are feeling better about things that you didn’t speak about in this video ! Sending you love and light ❤ And yes let’s be friends 😌
Tarini i wish someone im as cool and comfortable with losing freinds the way you are man,your an honest gem,I didnt even know i needed this but I actually resonate with all of this and this is so true and i pray to be strong in this department as you are
First of all , i loveeeeeeee everything about you since I was in 10th grade 🌟❤️ Secondly this video came out at the right time 😭 idk why but i can feel the disconnection between me and my friends since months now tho we all hang out together every alternative day still there is no sense of togetherness this maybe because i am the different one I don't like partying and other cool stuffs like they do and therefore im left behind but as you sadi its all for good ⭐
To be honest, every year I have a different personality and lifestyle depending on my growth pattern and sometimes it aligns with a lot of friends and sometimes it doesn’t and sometimes it affects those friendships and sometimes the core is strong that subtle things like this doesn’t affect it. We as people are so complex with our way of life and just the humans that we are so it’s okay to not like what people around you like ( I literally sleep at 10:30pm everyday so I get you) maybe just finding like minded people and people who love you for who you are is all you need ❤️
Hahaha.. Friends!!!!??? I've stopped making friends... Khud ka benefit dekho or badhte chalo. It's the best thing you can do for ur mental health. SO STOP MAKING FRIENDS .
Hiii...i just watched your video and i don't know how come ...i was questing the same are my friends...my true friends.... are theyyy... today only 4 hrs before my friend was really talking wierd about my dressing sense for library i mean i was comfort but she was continuously questioning me about my t-shirt and i really didn't understood what's really wrong. She is my friend for 5 yrs but very frequently she makes me feel that's this friendship is not much important for her.
Being a 20 year old, now I am so settled with all these friendship breaks & dramas that I just don’t care. We have different phases in our life & who ever stays in it stays rest we eventually drift apart & that too is completely okay
So at 21, I have been struggling with friendships and relationships, everything turning long distance and alot of them ending. I'm still trying to navigate through all this and finding my people, but listening to you makes me feel a little normal, like this happens with other people too, I'm not alone. So, thank you.
That was a wholesome conversation, Tarini! As we grow up, we eventually end up aligning with people with similar mindsets. As much as it is tough to let people go, focusing on the things that matter in the longer scheme of things only strengthens us.
"Every year I lose friends and every year I have different friends" Literally the most relatable line evaa gurll i too have different friends but not like the real ones I think from the past 1year i have been kinda self isolated but for the best and just pushed everyone away for my own mental being but it also made me really hard to make friends too... Ugh I wish I too had a podcast to yap bout these stuff
I know it’s tough and I’ve been there. Self isolation is great and much needed a lot of times for personal growth but I would also say, try putting yourself out there sometimes. You never know what happens when 😌❤️
at my 21 i m miserable right now... i have not even joined the college due to a stupid exam neet.. its very depressing but at the same time i have really good friends not much but yes i have 2 best friends and with them i can share everythng without getting judged and also i have my cousins with me and they are my life .. i love them so so much and they love me too... these people uplifts me so much that i m so grateful to have them... and my love life is not so good... i have been in love with a person for past 4 years and 3 days back i confessed him my feelings because he started flirting with me out of nowhere and i played along with him and when i got suspisious that he is not serious he is just flirting for fun i asked him directly and he said i consider only GOOD JUNIOR FRIEND and this broke my heart into pieces but still i have to move on with life and prepare for my exam so that i can move out and have fun in my life and i just hope that in 2025 i just want a govt medical seat thats it and that will make me and my parents happy......
And maybe you can find friendships in your family. As I was struggling with my connections in college that gave me an opportunity to bond with my sister and we are besties now❤ and we play and chill together and I am so grateful for that.
so good!! I'm 16 currently but i can totally feel you, in friendships my luck is also same as you and maybe that's why I truly felt this ❤️
Hey Tarini, i m also just another fish in sea who's been struggling with myself lately, because of how these past 3 years have been for me.
3 years ago me would've loved that he was the centre of attention of the friends group, but the journey from "being the centre of attention" in the group to being the "centre of attention" to solitude was a good journey.
And yes, it all happened because i was in love, maybe for the last time. (spolier alert).
And if you ask me was it all worth it, being where i am and what i've become!
i'd say yes, coz i have no regrets.
Though i did learn to keep things private (meaning everything)
Before i started exploring myself i always felt like i was not the part of the group, that i dont belong here and wouldn't belong here, the only difference was that, instead of feeling different in a better way, i'd been feeling like the black sheep. COZ it was so profoundly pointed out to me by their words and actions.
i've had my fair share of bad friendships and i gotta say, the people i m currently friends with can be easily counted on fingertips, and i love that now.
The lesser people you're friends with, LESSER the drama. and by that, i mean unnecessary drama which also includes unneccsary heartache, emotional and mental breakdown, mindfu*k and "What If' and "What Could've Been" and whatnot.
I was the most open person as an individual but these personal experiences have changed me (Dont know if its for the better or not, coz only time will tell), but luckily, i've had such amazing friends who accepted me after everything and i wouldnt be here if it weren't for these 3 most amazing and beautiful people.
May this decade long friendship only continues to grow.
i may have stumbled from believing and having faith as to where my potential can take me, but i hope it works out like it always does.
I've always wanted to communicate w you but always lacked the time, place and well words.
Your videos are your efforts in reaching out to us.
Consider the comments as us reaching out to you.
And i really hope i would be able to have a conversation w you in person, hopefully.
P.S.
with all the self exploration i m doing, i've had the immense fortune of getting the tickets for coldplay for their concert at mumbai.
I just hope i m ready to have that emotional and mental breakdown to see them perform.
_ Love,
S
Hey Tarini !
Hope you are doing good physically & mentally !
I have been following you since the past 3 years now , and I was missing your content on RUclips but with this video it explains it all .
I just felt like you were speaking my heart out because even I am done with college now and it’s funny how everything you talked about your friendship life was almost identical to mine !
And honestly it was so heartbreaking to lose friends but the best part about all those broken friendships is that I have finally found myself.
So I hope you are feeling better about things that you didn’t speak about in this video !
Sending you love and light ❤
And yes let’s be friends 😌
Felt every pinch of it, being in my final year of college. I have seen my group of 15 to just 2
Keep posting love your podcast
U literally spoke my😊 heart out bro❤
U literally spoke my heart out bro❤
Tarini i wish someone im as cool and comfortable with losing freinds the way you are man,your an honest gem,I didnt even know i needed this but I actually resonate with all of this and this is so true and i pray to be strong in this department as you are
You should do podcast I think your insights are really helpful
You're so prettyyy
Thankyouuu for giving words to my thoughts!❤️
you look really pretty in the thumbnail
First of all , i loveeeeeeee everything about you since I was in 10th grade 🌟❤️
Secondly this video came out at the right time 😭 idk why but i can feel the disconnection between me and my friends since months now tho we all hang out together every alternative day still there is no sense of togetherness this maybe because i am the different one I don't like partying and other cool stuffs like they do and therefore im left behind but as you sadi its all for good ⭐
To be honest, every year I have a different personality and lifestyle depending on my growth pattern and sometimes it aligns with a lot of friends and sometimes it doesn’t and sometimes it affects those friendships and sometimes the core is strong that subtle things like this doesn’t affect it. We as people are so complex with our way of life and just the humans that we are so it’s okay to not like what people around you like ( I literally sleep at 10:30pm everyday so I get you) maybe just finding like minded people and people who love you for who you are is all you need ❤️
Girl I love your voice.
Which lighting do you use on the top of your head?
In tears, relationships next❤
this woman is an epitome of postivity yrr,it shows she has gone through a lot and came out stronger
Hahaha.. Friends!!!!??? I've stopped making friends... Khud ka benefit dekho or badhte chalo. It's the best thing you can do for ur mental health. SO STOP MAKING FRIENDS .
sooo cuttteee 🥹🥹
Hiii...i just watched your video and i don't know how come ...i was questing the same are my friends...my true friends.... are theyyy... today only 4 hrs before my friend was really talking wierd about my dressing sense for library i mean i was comfort but she was continuously questioning me about my t-shirt and i really didn't understood what's really wrong. She is my friend for 5 yrs but very frequently she makes me feel that's this friendship is not much important for her.
Same same never had friendship that lasted more then 2 years.
Ohh god i can feel every word she said😭
Beautiful❤, also what light r u using ?
Literally and ikea lamp 😭
You really resemble to Madelyn Cline✨
That’s so sweet thanksss
Your voice is fab
Thank you!!!
First view❤
Thank you so much for watching 🥰
😍🤍