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Emmitt Smith is one of the few Black athletes that has a lot of business's outside of sports.The grass is not always greener on the other side and that is the problem with American women,and then when they mess up and find out they want to come back.
@Trenell She's gonna try like heck to do something though. Make up for lost time. Lol! She's probably engaging in all types of demonic rituals as we speak.
Potomac Housewives, Gizelle Bryant would either like her or see her as competition with their stuck up beauty. The Potomac Show would have three Green Eyes Monsters. Instead of of two Green Eyes Monsters🤷🏾♀️
Players, learn how to be a player for life, wtf don't get married, you're end up broke, they are out for the money, as the song goes, what love got to do with it!!!
Like most things men get tired of playing with pretty little toys. 2 high profile men is a red flag. Old heads used to say get you an ugly woman lol. I see why
I don't trust the average old head in the community, either. They also taught us to have no standards over all and tolerate fuckery while trying to impress overgrown children with tits. Old heads were largely old fools.
Black Mind all the ones I know still married with property and money in tact. The thing about beauty is it fades. Even for women like this. She’s going to be 50 year old woman back on the market after 2 failed celebrity marriage so much for being fine
@Ricky Fontaine brother hang in there I understand your pain......just make sure you dont fall in love..... oh and get something if you spending your money bro
He maybe not make the money he used to while playing but Emmit is not poor! He's not in the limelight as she's used to him & her being and she loved that lifestyle. Now that he's settled down and out of the spotlight she'll take whatever she can and scram. On to the next!!
Facts! I just said that on another video. Unfortunately it ain’t too many women like me around. Kind, compassionate, & will love a man for who is instead of what he got.
Emmitt Smith has been a good husband, he is high-status, a good father, and provides a good life for his wife and children, and she still wants a divorce. There just doesn’t seem to be much hope for any of us to be in a marriage.
You said a line I've been saying for over 20yrs.."Women don't leave a relationship unless there's already one in the works.." Keep speaking the truth Brotherman..👊🏾 💯
That makes no sense. Emmitt retired 16 years ago and still makes money post retirement. That's the reason why Emmitt was trying to tell Dak to take a Dallas Cowboys discount and sign a long-term deal because he could make good money after his career if he retire as a Dallas Cowboy.
I agree with Richard! Her career is finding rich SIMPs putting the moves on them get a contract stay for awhile then hit the courts! America's courts are slanted towards women especially ones married to rich SIMPs!Men make sure you really really know who you are getting involved with!There are plenty of shovel bearers out there who don't mind digging for GOLD!It leads to puppy love leading to a dogs life!Stay safe people and just think about this:In a few days Sleepy Joe Biden will rest his head in the white house while humpty trumpty will be heading down 95 in their Uhaul truck followed by the Secret Service!Lol
It's because she's a fine woman. She gets hit on non stop. Her friends and family that know her have been trying to set her up. Come on. Even though after all that time together if she does have someone else it's probably been going on for a while. If she doesn't then I believe she would chill out for a while. Plus she has the money and knowledge to hide her side action.
Twenty years? They both wanted out of this, but toughed it out for the kids. Now that they're gone, they can both go and be happier with their own endeavors.
Y'all really listening to the commentary of this man? Come on now... If you watch clips from their reality show, Emmit isn't easy to be married to at all.. And as women, we know how hard it is to be in a relationship sometimes..it's like men are from another planet at times..I don't think she was a gold digger like this vlogger is portraying...I think she loved her husband. She was in it for 20 years 🤷🏾♀️
@@anthonysanders7407 yep it was all about securing the bag.. these chicks ain't fooling nobody 💯.. the wall is undefeated though and that will be their pay back
They will be fine. He will shave his beard and start dating women half his age. She'll take half of his money and hopefully find a younger man to take care of business.
Lord have mercy I have exactly the same perspective. WHY does the government or the legal system have to intervene in a emotional relationship between 2 people. IF they love one another, KEY WORD is LOVE, if you marry for LOVE and solely LOVE, the government or legal system shouldn't have any purpose whatsoever in your relationship NONE !! When you marry for material things or fame and fortune, clout etc that's when you want the government to be apart of your marraige because that was your motivation to be married from day one.
Uh ohhh not you too?? Most women, black women WILL NOT agree with that!! So what you are saying is: YOU WANT TO CONTINUE TO GET THE MILK FREE BUT NOT BUY THE COW? (Persay)
Dtox Brewer most of the women I deal with feel the same way I do about legal marriage. You just have to talk to women that are independent and have things going for themselves
I have been saying this for years...It is why I am a PROUD ,BLACK, BALD and BOLD Bachelor at 55 years old and look and feel 25 with women of all legal ages are never,ever a problem...when I break it down why it is not beneficial for a BLACK MAN to be married in this SOCIETY....Trust me...they GET IT!!!...One day I will discuss this in depth for the world to hear and I assure you...THEY WILL UNDERSTAND
@@reginacameron3011 I wish @jayedeblack wouldn't completely take the side of a guy in a neutral move like this......Emmitt definitely was to mucho sometimes, and especially during this Quarantine, it probably was too unbearable to deal with for her.
That Guy Bill That’s interesting. I never heard anyone suggest someone sign a trust. Makes you think of alternatives to ensure people can be together amicably without taking advantage of the others resources.
She will be nobody if she changes her last name. Most ex wives keep their ex husband's name just to be relevant. My ex-wife is still keeping my name despite that she got married twice and divorced
its funny how women can easily leave their husband, celebrity and regular everyday women. Just watch one of KS shows and listen to how these women proudly talk about divorcing their man over silly reasons.
@Azrael6394 that toilet seat got me, i've had to stay away from few women complaining about me leaving the toilet seat up. Whenever i finished using the Toilet i always got paranoid whether i left the set up or not.. 😂😂😂. you'd be surprised at silly things they get upset or hate your gut for
@Azrael6394 i get it and understand, got it all through my dating experiences but the extent some go. Its like they despise/hate you. Trust me whenever i feel that energy from a woman, i stay the F away and never going back. No one likes to feel hated and please dont come with the can't hamdle a strong woman narrative lol..
It is easy for a woman to leave you at any stage of dating or marriage because she is never in love with you in the first place. She is only in love with the comfortable lifestyle you afforded her. Most men are too naive until they are blindsided with no remorse whatsoever.
She was always jealous of Emmitt, especially when He won Dancing With The Stars! Her "Acting/Modeling" career went NOWHERE. Now, Emmitt will lose a lot of $$$$$ in the Divorce Settlement, that will include Alimony Payments.... This Pandemic exposed many so-called Marriages that NEVER had a solid foundation to begin with... Emmitt, U just FUMBLED inside the Red Zone, & it will cost U a lot of $$$$$.
Well he wanted someone to parade around on his arms, he didn’t care if she loves him as long he can show off his trophy of a wife. He is jus as shallow as her, it just turns out to bite him in his ass, but he had a good 30 years run showing her off🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
I will never understand why men get married in America it's like signing a business deal that has a 90% chance of failure married my wife overseas kept her in her country best decision of my life
As Snoop says in Bad 4 me, Now the question is this for now...are you really in love with that b#÷? now. Wow! Another man's trash is another man's treasure, what's your pleasure.
Facts bro.. Most older high value men normally date younger women and don't deal with use older "golddigger" women who has gotten older and set in there ways vs a younger women who is a blank canvess that don't come with alot of baggage for except for......money problems.
Why yall dogging her...she was married most of her adult life!!! Yall acting like she was out there with everybody. Stop it. For real...evolve. Step up and speak up.
If a high value man is going to get married he should look for a high value woman still no guarantee the marriage will last but why marry a woman who has no goals in life
20yrs no outside children no known spats or feuds no known entanglements children are all straight literally and figuratively I'd say a solid run good job and good luck to both of these exemplary adults and role models of how you do it.
Ase Kavy 50% of marriages end in divorce. 80% of divorces are initiated by the wife. This is reality, stop trying to put sugar on a big brown turd. Sure there are lasting marriages, but the statistics are what they are. Knowing the stats, men should take their time and not rush into marriage, especially when a woman pressures them to
She was never really into him to begin with, apparently; remember, she was once with Martin Lawrence but prolly got tired of his craziness by the late 90's. This was likely a "Level-Up" in her mind, and with 4 young kids to raise right around the time he left Dallas for Arizona, she wasn't going anywhere. Why this dude would take someone else's leftovers (plus an extra kid) just to wife up someone is beyond me. Not sure how much action he was getting as "THE Emmit Smith", but he certainly could have done better -- or stayed a bachelor until his playing days were over and then marry young. Weave-and-Wig witches are a dime a dozen -- especially in the Sports community. So, try before you buy, and if at first you don't succeed, try, try try again -- and bounce each and every time before the bill comes due while always looking for the newest model. Ya' herd?
I like your style playa. Real Talk. Weaves and Women Period are a dime a dozen. They have mastered the whole weave thing and gracefully so. U can't tell them nothing.
@@mrtruthhurts2307 Welp she's 49 years old, and you know she's going to win in the divorce court. Hopefully he has a prenup in place. Then again most prenups last up to 18 years.
MJ already went thru it and lost half of his assets from his first marriage...I believe MJ has a very strong prenup this time around....which mean the Mrs. has a secret acct overseas because of it of the prenup.....also watch on tv talk shows about wives hiding money from the hubby, incase of a divorce
She packing her bags in Dallas right now. She headed to LA. She will join the X wife club with Dre and Scottie X wife. Deon Sanders better watch out! His girl about to join the club!
Deion Sanders messed up by getting with a known dude's ex-wife. Too many women walking this earth and you go dumpster diving for a woman who's Babyface's and Eddie Murphy's ex.
Men always want that young pretty trophy wife but fail to realize they love the lifestyle you give them , goes to show you can give them everything and they still not satified
Emmitts bag is prolly not what it used to be. These celeb wifeys refuse downsize or cooperate. Its gut wrenching to know that these celebs just pass each other around.
Not necessarily- some wives get insecure. It has nothing to do with how rich a man is. Some women don't want their man to be rich- because they know other women will chase Him. More money more problems. I'm speaking from experience.
I live in Dallas. I know several people who has met Pat at charity events, book signings, etc..They all have said Pat wants to be a star!!! She wants to be known and felt as if she never got the attention she deserved.
20 years gone down the drain. My daddy always told me not get with a woman I like,get with a woman that like a is genuinely into you as a person and knows your worth.
You don’t divorce your husband because he ignores you. You go to counseling to try to fix the problem especially if the man is willing to work on the marriage. They took vows before God & they should honor those vows unless someone has committed adultery. Too many times we women through in the towel when we don’t get our way. We be the main ones wanting marriage so we can put on our pretty little wedding dresses & have a big wedding to impress our family & friends, & then we’re the first ones to ask for a divorce over any little problem, That’s not what God intended for marriage. Unfortunately this woman is a straight up gold digger, it’s just something about her spirit that rubs me the wrong way. I doubt if she even loved Emmitt.
These “fine” women view themselves as the prize and ultimately that’s why it can’t work...she will always see herself with more leverage and more valuable in the relationship....just based of off looks and the attention of men...no matter how much status you acquire no matter how much money you acquire you will be seen as expendable to her
@@sharon123422 Yes, I agree. There are many things that come into play here. We could go on and on but ultimately a grown man with millions and a beauty queen chose to marry one another for all the wrong reasons. This is a very old story that keeps repeating like so many others.
Centuries men are blamed, cause they are seen, not women. Until now. So....its not just athletes. Wonen are good manipulators . Girl's learn to fake cry at 2,3yrs old. Add Fake smiles,clothes,makeup .....they deceivers,snakes.
It's supposed to be til death. Marriage is a serious undertaking and those who are able to make it from marrying young until dying of old age is nothing shorter than a miracle.
I have known Pat since her years at JMU. She IS and has ALWAYS been one of the kindest most selfless people that you ever want to meet. Pat met Martin while working with BET in D.C. She did NOT marry either Martin or Emmitt to advance her career. She married for love. She is a very committed Christian who is at a place in her life where she wants to live her dreams without have to ask permission or be labeled ‘so and so’s wife’. Pat Southall had a name in her own right. She will rebound and soar. Shame on you for trying to portray her as ANYTHING but a courageous AMAZING woman.
If that's the case and the fact she filed for the divorced. Then don't ask for anything from him and create for herself the life and freedom "you say shes looking for.
None sense... Love is unconditional. When you walk away from a marriage that you bring nothing to or added to then you are a user. If she married for love then why is she just with celebrities?
His wife is Beautiful. After 20 years, you would think they would just stay together and work it out. Although, I don't know why he went behind Martin's seconds, and married her.
Martin probably went behind another celebrity seconds when he got her..Heard she was a groupie at those celebrity parties. She been chasing the bag. Probably been putting millions in separate bank accounts for years from Martin and Emitt
Black culture has changed so much, so much superficial bullish...it, it’s not real. Seems like a good guy whose wife got caught up in all this social media BS and franchising your marriage!!!! She does not seem she’s about anything!! I miss Starpoint, Till the end of Time!!!!
If she were truly talented enough I think she'd have no problem shinning. It's easy to say after twenty plus years of being married to Celebrities now you want to shine.
I have always said: get with people that you know for certain would get with you even if you had no money because unfortunately there are some people out there that have no problems buying their time and making a move regardless of kids being involved. She may hold all the cards now but she now has to wonder if the next person she's involved with wants her for her or her money
Emitt will get himself a 25 or 30 year old hottie and he will move on . Pat will struggle to find another man in her generation . She may get pump and dumped by younger guys looking to get practice .
There is a commenter named Amelia MacCarthy who is constantly taking unnecessary jabs at me. And, when I strike back, I notice that my comments to her get deleted. I have told her to not comment to me again. This unfair that I can't insult a person the same way he or she insults me.
Never cared about the NFL but I've heard and known about Emmit Smith years ago from his playing days, this is the first time I've even heard of this women, she was definitely a looker but I had no idea she was married once before to Martin Lawrence.
Enmity got 20 years out of her and had it bent forwards, sideways, backwards, to the best of her ability. Time to pay the poon-poon tax and keep it moving. Crazy thing is, when the bed is empty and dudes ain't checking her like she thought, she'll be cooking those "remember when" breakfasts, lunches, and dinners over at his place and seeking to get a health and welfare assurance key to his home.
@18billions - The rules were drawn up earlier to the turn of the 1900's to prevent husbands from dumping wives of 10, 15, 20 years plus with no compensation. I say both parties argue what they believe is a fair split, allow the judged to negotiate, and both go their separate way, because Patricia will be back, even if just making visits. Once she starts putting requirements and expectations in getting the poon-poon, very few men are going to jump those types of hoops, because at near 50, she offers no man anything he can't get from a 39/40 year old woman.
@@thespadestable Any woman in her 30's is WASHED up. 18 to 26 are better deals. I know a lot of women in their 30's who are dating men in their early 20's because they have been used up and worn out
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Emmit was just a security investment. No doubt she going after that bag
Facts brotha!!!
Emmitt Smith is one of the few Black athletes that has a lot of business's outside of sports.The grass is not always greener on the other side and that is the problem with American women,and then when they mess up and find out they want to come back.
I think two most men do not take the lead in their own house Emmitt Smith look like a quiet type guy don't see much and she just have her way
In addition I want to add marriage is overrated and love
They want privacy but still post their business on social media. Smh!
🤔
A lot of celebrities are so fake
They in wrong life for Privacy!!!
Exactly smh
I hear you ! However if they post their business on social media then they really dont want a private life.
She had two men of high status and couldn’t be happy with either of them?
She wants to be a star...aint happening.
Women don't care about them but their lifestyle.
@@tmat2024 been 20 years
@Trenell She's gonna try like heck to do something though. Make up for lost time. Lol! She's probably engaging in all types of demonic rituals as we speak.
@@tmat2024 😅😅😅 facts bro
This quarantine has claimed another marriage
Theyre dying faster than a hooker in winter. Lol
@@wizeguy26 😂😂😂😂😂
It did not. It just bring out their true color
I'm sure the divorce rate this year will be highest it's been in a long time
@@wizeguy26 lol
Pat Smith has another man already... when do woman leave the relationship naked. She already have a boy toy right now
Bruh are you serious? 🤣
Sounds about right to me
Pat getting her back BLOWN OUT
Actually most men won't leave even if they are unhappy UNTIL they have the next one lined up.
Who is it?
People Need To Stop Using GOD-Most High As An Excuse...(After Much Prayer)Get Outta Here With That Mess!!!
FACTS!
People use this phrase to try and limit negative feedback and sway public opinion. To keep tabloids from putting their spin on the relationship.
Right! 🙌🙌🙌
Ture brother
@@vernonmosely3213 Peace.Love.Blessings To You !!!
I wouldn’t be surprised if she stars on a housewife show 😳
she will.
😂
Oh it's coming!
I can't see her on a Housewife show
Potomac Housewives, Gizelle Bryant would either like her or see her as competition with their stuck up beauty. The Potomac Show would have three Green Eyes Monsters. Instead of of two Green Eyes Monsters🤷🏾♀️
This is the reason I love Celine Dion. She married that old man and stay until he died. She worth almost a billion.
Bussy shut up
She met him when she was 11... How long were they romantic I wonder...
@@tipsims5997 At 18 when he first kiss her. They were secretly dating for years until they made their relationship public because of getting married.
Players, learn how to be a player for life, wtf don't get married, you're end up broke, they are out for the money, as the song goes, what love got to do with it!!!
AMEN
Like most things men get tired of playing with pretty little toys. 2 high profile men is a red flag. Old heads used to say get you an ugly woman lol. I see why
@GEMINI RISING 😂😂😂😂
I don't trust the average old head in the community, either. They also taught us to have no standards over all and tolerate fuckery while trying to impress overgrown children with tits. Old heads were largely old fools.
Black Mind all the ones I know still married with property and money in tact. The thing about beauty is it fades. Even for women like this. She’s going to be 50 year old woman back on the market after 2 failed celebrity marriage so much for being fine
Ture my older coworker said that his second wife ugly but its ture love
@Ricky Fontaine brother hang in there I understand your pain......just make sure you dont fall in love..... oh and get something if you spending your money bro
These women marry for money cause if you really love someone you can love them when they poor
He maybe not make the money he used to while playing but Emmit is not poor! He's not in the limelight as she's used to him & her being and she loved that lifestyle. Now that he's settled down and out of the spotlight she'll take whatever she can and scram. On to the next!!
Facts! I just said that on another video. Unfortunately it ain’t too many women like me around. Kind, compassionate, & will love a man for who is instead of what he got.
@andrew cook jr that some ish a broke man would say. Why should she be with a broke man. You think he would be with a fat and ugly woman?
U aint marrying someone ur not attracted too let alone date ..lies
2 failed marriages to dudes with my money..smh..track record
Emmitt Smith has been a good husband, he is high-status, a good father, and provides a good life for his wife and children, and she still wants a divorce. There just doesn’t seem to be much hope for any of us to be in a marriage.
Big factz marriage was cool for our grandparents and their parents but our generation u can forget about it
Im like donald and duck😁
Facts
The changing environment has charged marriage with a slow death...
Especially if you’re a successful black man
Me and the Mrs. Just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary on 7/31/20.
Congratulations 2 the both of you!!! 💞
Congrats Bp.
@@HolyGhostBabyTV1
Thanks. 👍
Congratulations and God Bless
Damn
Women are never satisfied with the role of being the co-pilot.
They want to be the pilot in command so bad but don't even know how to fly!
They should never be the Co-Pilot. They should be the Flight Attendant. Their nature will come out and want that
Exactly Only One CAPTAIN of The Ship!! Sit Yo Ass Down!!!
Exactly! Which is a major reason we have such dissension in the home, schools, and for some who go, churches.
@@darthflyer257 HAHAHA
This quarantine has told an obvious truth. There's going to be a lot of (entanglement) going on. Thanks Jada!🙄
Hahaha entanglements a setback for fems
Reverend Richardson. Say it again, hallelujah.
Yea.... quarantine just interrupted These broads extracurricular "ENTANGLEMENTS"....
@@kutzaudiolive979 🤣🤣🤣😅😅🤣🤣😅😅🤣😅🤣,,,, Absolutely!👍
A lot of entanglements and a lot divorces.. as well, some people are rediscovering each other..definitely a year to remember.
You said a line I've been saying for over 20yrs.."Women don't leave a relationship unless there's already one in the works.." Keep speaking the truth Brotherman..👊🏾 💯
Very, very true. You ain't lying bro. Women are still 10 to 12 men deep while in relationships. A lot of men have no clue of this foolery by women
FACTS!!!
She would still want to be with him if he was still playing football.
GOOD POINT
FACTS. $$$$$$$$$
That makes no sense. Emmitt retired 16 years ago and still makes money post retirement. That's the reason why Emmitt was trying to tell Dak to take a Dallas Cowboys discount and sign a long-term deal because he could make good money after his career if he retire as a Dallas Cowboy.
@@itsmebedazzle gtfoh lol
@@itsmebedazzle when you a new model u get paid more..when you old model u have to take want u can get..Dak vs emmitt
You can best believe she’s gonna want half if not more. She’s about to turn 50; her career options are limited.
What career?
@GRONK ROCKS hilarious
Her career is marrying rich guys.
I agree with Richard! Her career is finding rich SIMPs putting the moves on them get a contract stay for awhile then hit the courts! America's courts are slanted towards women especially ones married to rich SIMPs!Men make sure you really really know who you are getting involved with!There are plenty of shovel bearers out there who don't mind digging for GOLD!It leads to puppy love leading to a dogs life!Stay safe people and just think about this:In a few days Sleepy Joe Biden will rest his head in the white house while humpty trumpty will be heading down 95 in their Uhaul truck followed by the Secret Service!Lol
Right.
Emmitt is the man in Texas and she will never be able to compete with him for the spotlight.
I left my husband without having someone else. These assumptions are so crazy to me.
It's because she's a fine woman. She gets hit on non stop. Her friends and family that know her have been trying to set her up. Come on. Even though after all that time together if she does have someone else it's probably been going on for a while. If she doesn't then I believe she would chill out for a while. Plus she has the money and knowledge to hide her side action.
A woman like her is a chess player and I would bet my paycheck, she has someone in mind already. Emmitt has become stale to her.
@Anthony Bush More assumptions
Why and did you truly live him?
EXACTLY!! Three snaps and a wiggle...
Twenty years? They both wanted out of this, but toughed it out for the kids. Now that they're gone, they can both go and be happier with their own endeavors.
Take it the me all these women want is the money
And fame
Y'all really listening to the commentary of this man? Come on now... If you watch clips from their reality show, Emmit isn't easy to be married to at all.. And as women, we know how hard it is to be in a relationship sometimes..it's like men are from another planet at times..I don't think she was a gold digger like this vlogger is portraying...I think she loved her husband. She was in it for 20 years 🤷🏾♀️
It's about money...now the kids are taking care of...now it's the split of the money and free to play the field...the CC and guys (Betas) will line up
@@anthonysanders7407 yep it was all about securing the bag.. these chicks ain't fooling nobody 💯.. the wall is undefeated though and that will be their pay back
$$$$$$$$$$$
They will be fine. He will shave his beard and start dating women half his age. She'll take half of his money and hopefully find a younger man to take care of business.
True enough
And that young boy is going to take half of her money
Getting married legally is always a bad move. If the love is real you can be together without involving the government and making it a “business”
Good luck on convincing Most Women on that!
Lord have mercy I have exactly the same perspective. WHY does the government or the legal system have to intervene in a emotional relationship between 2 people. IF they love one another, KEY WORD is LOVE, if you marry for LOVE and solely LOVE, the government or legal system shouldn't have any purpose whatsoever in your relationship NONE !!
When you marry for material things or fame and fortune, clout etc that's when you want the government to be apart of your marraige because that was your motivation to be married from day one.
Uh ohhh not you too?? Most women, black women WILL NOT agree with that!! So what you are saying is: YOU WANT TO CONTINUE TO GET THE MILK FREE BUT NOT BUY THE COW? (Persay)
Dtox Brewer most of the women I deal with feel the same way I do about legal marriage. You just have to talk to women that are independent and have things going for themselves
I have been saying this for years...It is why I am a PROUD ,BLACK, BALD and BOLD Bachelor at 55 years old and look and feel 25 with women of all legal ages are never,ever a problem...when I break it down why it is not beneficial for a BLACK MAN to be married in this SOCIETY....Trust me...they GET IT!!!...One day I will discuss this in depth for the world to hear and I assure you...THEY WILL UNDERSTAND
Everybody getting a divorce this year 2020 really showing how people are and showing even more how women are never satisfied no matter what you do
Our society isnt built on substance.....
Even for HVM isn't good enough. Aint that a b***h.
2020 is a good year for lawyers.
Truth!!
Never amen
This is so discouraging for guys who want to get married. It seems like corona exposed the fragile system currently in place.
But Emmitt was too controlling, and Pat is not a total airhead.
@@reginacameron3011 I wish @jayedeblack wouldn't completely take the side of a guy in a neutral move like this......Emmitt definitely was to mucho sometimes, and especially during this Quarantine, it probably was too unbearable to deal with for her.
*Never marry. Have her sign a TRUST.*
That Guy Bill That’s interesting. I never heard anyone suggest someone sign a trust. Makes you think of alternatives to ensure people can be together amicably without taking advantage of the others resources.
@@reginacameron3011 that s whats up...sometimes these niggas really get too crazy.
Well if she stays in Atlanta she’ll probably end up on housewives of Atlanta.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m dead Lawd 😂😂😂😂
So she suppose to go somewhere and die because she divorced...boy bye....
Easy money and a free promotional Range Rover.
If she wants a separation & divorce to be her own independent woman then she shouldn't remain with the married name Smith. 🤔😉
big facts
Facts
I agree
I totally agree!
She will be nobody if she changes her last name. Most ex wives keep their ex husband's name just to be relevant. My ex-wife is still keeping my name despite that she got married twice and divorced
Well he is still very handsome and she is still pretty they will move on to other mates the end ...
its funny how women can easily leave their husband, celebrity and regular everyday women. Just watch one of KS shows and listen to how these women proudly talk about divorcing their man over silly reasons.
But Honestly the Men Check out First Mentally and she has to deal with that....But for how long before you throw in the towel.
@Azrael6394 that toilet seat got me, i've had to stay away from few women complaining about me leaving the toilet seat up. Whenever i finished using the Toilet i always got paranoid whether i left the set up or not.. 😂😂😂. you'd be surprised at silly things they get upset or hate your gut for
@Azrael6394 i get it and understand, got it all through my dating experiences but the extent some go. Its like they despise/hate you. Trust me whenever i feel that energy from a woman, i stay the F away and never going back. No one likes to feel hated and please dont come with the can't hamdle a strong woman narrative lol..
Anthony Bush who supports men in their ignorance? Other ignorant azzez?
It is easy for a woman to leave you at any stage of dating or marriage because she is never in love with you in the first place. She is only in love with the comfortable lifestyle you afforded her. Most men are too naive until they are blindsided with no remorse whatsoever.
She was always jealous of Emmitt, especially when He won Dancing With The Stars! Her "Acting/Modeling" career went NOWHERE. Now, Emmitt will lose a lot of $$$$$ in the Divorce Settlement, that will include Alimony Payments.... This Pandemic exposed many so-called Marriages that NEVER had a solid foundation to begin with... Emmitt, U just FUMBLED inside the Red Zone, & it will cost U a lot of $$$$$.
Well he wanted someone to parade around on his arms, he didn’t care if she loves him as long he can show off his trophy of a wife. He is jus as shallow as her, it just turns out to bite him in his ass, but he had a good 30 years run showing her off🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Good point!
Her oldest child is a daughter she had with Martin Lawrence
Wtf 🤦🏾♂️
Yeah i know, 24yrs old, looking gorgeous.
He played the step father role just to be shitted on at the end
@@Ahch_not_op_of_Judah lol they was together for 20 years and we don't know what happened so stop it
Yep!
Damn I remember her she from Chesapeake Va. She was definitely a money chaser. It was a good run Emmit. Cash out bro.
Wow for real I didn't know. I used to stay out there.
Most light skin green eyes always marry for money & clout, she reminds me of Nicole Murphy
Crystal Moore What an ignorant statement 🤦🏽♀️
I will never understand why men get married in America it's like signing a business deal that has a 90% chance of failure married my wife overseas kept her in her country best decision of my life
@user black She's from the 757.
2020 has to go down the most split up marriages in modern day history. I see divorce rate continue going up and up. There's no turnback.
2020 is a year for the history books all together and we still have a few more months of it Lord help us
@@dawnhunter3807 Yes my fam. 2021 need to come faster.
When will these guys realize... She's never yours, just your turn. Smh
Can we say TOXIC MASCULINITY?! HEAL Brotha HEAL!!
Same thing goes a for men you all so one sided you're f#@king someone's leftovers and so is she
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@@concernedcitizen8448 I agree the hurt is deep for our black men did slavery do this to them......
Funny thing is, yall think men be hurt, cause they stop dealing with y'all. Imagine that,
The question is how much does Emmitt smith have to pay?
As Snoop says in Bad 4 me, Now the question is this for now...are you really in love with that b#÷? now. Wow! Another man's trash is another man's treasure, what's your pleasure.
That's a good question 🤔
He at worst will have to pay alimony for 7 years. Texas ain't with that half of the money bs
@@chrisburton713 TX on point...
@Erick Onassis he should be worth more than that!!!!
Another celebrity marriage bites the dust!!
Marriage isn't a worthy long-term investment for men!!
Men in the US
Facts
@Gordo Papí one of the big problems is that in America they get a pass for being hypergamous.. other cultures don't play that mess 💯
Shit happens in a marriage whether it's a celebrity marriage or not. Marriage is hard work.
She thinks that she is going to go back on the dating market with 2 failed marriages?What high valued man would fall for this?
I'd love to hear her call on Kevin Samuels show LOL
Sidenote these 30+ women are delusional
McDowell's Human Resources Department Kevin would annihilate her lol
Facts bro.. Most older high value men normally date younger women and don't deal with use older "golddigger" women who has gotten older and set in there ways vs a younger women who is a blank canvess that don't come with alot of baggage for except for......money problems.
Gerald Wills facts!The sad part is that women will argue with you about this and you all ready know the truth
A lot 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Anyone women who starts that im not happy talk... Just end it.
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Facts
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...well jada said that about will at the red table talk ijs 🤷🏿♂️
Lol
Why yall dogging her...she was married most of her adult life!!! Yall acting like she was out there with everybody. Stop it. For real...evolve. Step up and speak up.
Man get off the Mike! You done with this case!
If a high value man is going to get married he should look for a high value woman still no guarantee the marriage will last but why marry a woman who has no goals in life
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Maximus Rex 🤣 🤣 🤣 💯
20yrs no outside children no known spats or feuds no known entanglements children are all straight literally and figuratively I'd say a solid run good job and good luck to both of these exemplary adults and role models of how you do it.
He does have an outside child, she talked about it on Dr. Phil when she promoting her book, "Second Chances".
That's why high valued men must protect the bag from deceptive pretty women
Emmitt looking older than uncle Remus at 50 something. She drained him he is going to need this break to catch his breath.
Uncle Remus...🤣😂🤣
You need to stop! 🤔🤔🙄🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, you right about that one brotha. Heal Emmitt and renew your vitality.
NEVER MARRY when you have money 💰 💯
Only to a person who you been with before you got it or a person who has the same or more money
yep.
@jackiebennett63that makes no sense 04
Marriage is really becoming a little less of a reality for me! Ain't nobody making it these days.... talking about last days! Smh
@Ase Kavy I'm just generally speaking, I have a family full of long lasting marriages. This is down time playing around.
Shit I don’t... I’ve never seen a successful marriage, scary shit.
In person at least
@@kakashi5320 you could be the 1st success story....don't let outside influence dim your light!
Ase Kavy 50% of marriages end in divorce. 80% of divorces are initiated by the wife. This is reality, stop trying to put sugar on a big brown turd. Sure there are lasting marriages, but the statistics are what they are. Knowing the stats, men should take their time and not rush into marriage, especially when a woman pressures them to
Did she go celebrity hopping?
Martin to Emmitt?
Another example
Babyface ex to Eddie Murphy to Deion Sanders?
Moral of the story...fellas watch out
She was never really into him to begin with, apparently; remember, she was once with Martin Lawrence but prolly got tired of his craziness by the late 90's. This was likely a "Level-Up" in her mind, and with 4 young kids to raise right around the time he left Dallas for Arizona, she wasn't going anywhere. Why this dude would take someone else's leftovers (plus an extra kid) just to wife up someone is beyond me. Not sure how much action he was getting as "THE Emmit Smith", but he certainly could have done better -- or stayed a bachelor until his playing days were over and then marry young. Weave-and-Wig witches are a dime a dozen -- especially in the Sports community. So, try before you buy, and if at first you don't succeed, try, try try again -- and bounce each and every time before the bill comes due while always looking for the newest model. Ya' herd?
This heffer had 4 kids prior to Emmitt?! He an even bigger simp
She was never really into him but was married to him for 20 years not 2 but 20 kml.....you sound like you're apart of their divorce lol
@@annann8635 😂😂😐
She had one child with Martin...she amd Emmitt had 3 kids together
I like your style playa. Real Talk. Weaves and Women Period are a dime a dozen. They have mastered the whole weave thing and gracefully so. U can't tell them nothing.
She already got another celebrity man she's waiting for the divorce
Sounds like she wants the opportunity to sleep her way to the top without guilt.....
LOL NO COMMENT HOWEVER
She has already started
Mission accomplished
Hollywood is not checking for women her age. She wants a career like her oldest daughter but she has to realize her daughter is in her 20's
It’s not just the women doing the falling out. Men do too, because I was married for 27 years, and he left for a younger women. I’m 55.
I bet guys still try to talk to you, regardless of your age.....
Are you older than him ?
Anthony Sanders what makes you think that ?
Same age
Lol, her own legacy? She's always gonna be known as (insert celebrity here) wife.
THE 49ers wins again!😂😂
You dumb
@@mrtruthhurts2307 Welp she's 49 years old, and you know she's going to win in the divorce court. Hopefully he has a prenup in place. Then again most prenups last up to 18 years.
lmao
Wow whose next. Michael jordan and his cuban wife. Derek jeter when his kid grows up. Its coming
Mj wife is a white Cuban.
Steph Curry also in the pot
@@mcaremcare4317 Oh yes, she been in long enough to get a nice bag
MJ already went thru it and lost half of his assets from his first marriage...I believe MJ has a very strong prenup this time around....which mean the Mrs. has a secret acct overseas because of it of the prenup.....also watch on tv talk shows about wives hiding money from the hubby, incase of a divorce
@@mcaremcare4317 she became a wife and mother very early... So it won't be surprising
She packing her bags in Dallas right now. She headed to LA. She will join the X wife club with Dre and Scottie X wife. Deon Sanders better watch out! His girl about to join the club!
Deion Sanders messed up by getting with a known dude's ex-wife. Too many women walking this earth and you go dumpster diving for a woman who's Babyface's and Eddie Murphy's ex.
But Tracy Edmonds actually has a career. She’s Stanford educated, and has her foot in the entertainment industry for as a producer and executive.
@@DeCurtaRican -
No one knew who she was before the Soul Food movie. The same movie that Babyface's clout and music hits made possible.
Lol
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Quarantine gets another one!!!!
Martin was a smart man and got out😂😂😂
Yup, I think so too lol.
Men always want that young pretty trophy wife but fail to realize they love the lifestyle you give them , goes to show you can give them everything and they still not satified
Emmitts bag is prolly not what it used to be. These celeb wifeys refuse downsize or cooperate. Its gut wrenching to know that these celebs just pass each other around.
These men always get dumped when the money run low. Disgusting. Then they take most of what little money is left. Sad.
antonio dozier of course she gave him 20 years he was still the man. She just want something different now since them DMs been popping for a few years
So true
He's worth 18 million
Not necessarily- some wives get insecure. It has nothing to do with how rich a man is. Some women don't want their man to be rich- because they know other women will chase Him. More money more problems. I'm speaking from experience.
I met Emmitt Smith he is really nice, but I didn’t know she was married to Martin wow
Yeah I was surprised that he would take somebody else's leftovers
Old news decades old
He appears to be nice.
Is she “contract wife”? Nicole Murphy and Russell Simmons ex wife automatically go to the next big names
Yup 👍🏾
They all do this when the athletes are no longer important and being the Mrs. Of the washed up ain't popping
Its called Retirement! Hes a Hall of Famer!!
Exactly.
She's Beautiful💅
I bet several of his close associates are DM'ing her as soon as she/they post their separation🤭🤭
I live in Dallas. I know several people who has met Pat at charity events, book signings, etc..They all have said Pat wants to be a star!!! She wants to be known and felt as if she never got the attention she deserved.
That marriage was not of love but for popularity and money.
Women don't want love, they want lifestyle!!
Not everyone…
Here’s a novel idea, If you don’t want to be in the shadow of someone famous then stop getting with famous people! Duh!
Daryl524 exactly she could just get with a nobody like us lol
Tyten Mitchell She could but I’d pass. I got my life just the way I want it. Don’t need any headaches like her screwing it all up.
What's with those grey contacts that Pat has on?
20 years gone down the drain. My daddy always told me not get with a woman I like,get with a woman that like a is genuinely into you as a person and knows your worth.
Funny thing my grandmother told me that when I was a young kid
Women get tired of being ignored. 20 years is a good run✌🏾
She was jealous that people recognizes Emmitt. She wants to be in the spotlight...with no talent.
Naaagh she got what she wanted
You don’t divorce your husband because he ignores you. You go to counseling to try to fix the problem especially if the man is willing to work on the marriage. They took vows before God & they should honor those vows unless someone has committed adultery. Too many times we women through in the towel when we don’t get our way. We be the main ones wanting marriage so we can put on our pretty little wedding dresses & have a big wedding to impress our family & friends, & then we’re the first ones to ask for a divorce over any little problem, That’s not what God intended for marriage. Unfortunately this woman is a straight up gold digger, it’s just something about her spirit that rubs me the wrong way. I doubt if she even loved Emmitt.
True and taken for granted. NO one has the right to treat you like a doormat. And for all who thinks so, you will be alone.
@@cynthiamitchell5748 Right! Emmitt was sick of that woman treating him like a doormat.
From Martin Lawrence to Emmitt Smith...yeah, Pat Southall Smith is definitely savvy and smart with her fine ass (literally and figuratively).
My heart is with them both divorce is never easy. I went through a divorce while in a relationship and it still was hard.
These “fine” women view themselves as the prize and ultimately that’s why it can’t work...she will always see herself with more leverage and more valuable in the relationship....just based of off looks and the attention of men...no matter how much status you acquire no matter how much money you acquire you will be seen as expendable to her
a fact that should be taught at a young age
Definently FACTS!!!
He chose her .......so who should he be mad at......
@@sharon123422 Yes, I agree. There are many things that come into play here. We could go on and on but ultimately a grown man with millions and a beauty queen chose to marry one another for all the wrong reasons. This is a very old story that keeps repeating like so many others.
He should definitely be mad at himself
That's the nature of every relationship. It can end at any moment. Good luck to both of them. They have a lot of life left to live.
One of the most mature things Ie heard through out these comments it can end boyfriend and girlfriend relationship or man and wife.......
I hope he got a prenup. She will never find a man of that value
"EVERRRRRR"!!!
Centuries men are blamed, cause they are seen, not women. Until now. So....its not just athletes. Wonen are good manipulators . Girl's learn to fake cry at 2,3yrs old. Add Fake smiles,clothes,makeup .....they deceivers,snakes.
Save the marriage it’s hard to find a good man
They need to figure it out but after 20 years. You are going to mess your children up. If you think it’s not your crazy!
We need more fighters on our team loyal and knowing there are enough broken homes. This is not an ok
Bro the marriage never had a foundation to begin with if its coming down to this my man. It is what is it. Marriage aint what it us to be
A solid 2 decades. Marriage's aren't forever.
False,
marriages are forever,
People just can't hang that long lmaooo
Ninja need a break
It's supposed to be til death. Marriage is a serious undertaking and those who are able to make it from marrying young until dying of old age is nothing shorter than a miracle.
Have prenup, will travel
Viktor Creed. I was married for 27 years. My husband just left me on Saturday for a younger woman. 15 yrs his junior.
@@joanneclegg939 There's still hope for you..What's your Instagram?
I have known Pat since her years at JMU. She IS and has ALWAYS been one of the kindest most selfless people that you ever want to meet.
Pat met Martin while working with BET in D.C. She did NOT marry either Martin or Emmitt to advance her career. She married for love. She is a very committed Christian who is at a place in her life where she wants to live her dreams without have to ask permission or be labeled ‘so and so’s wife’.
Pat Southall had a name in her own right. She will rebound and soar.
Shame on you for trying to portray her as ANYTHING but a courageous AMAZING woman.
If that's the case and the fact she filed for the divorced. Then don't ask for anything from him and create for herself the life and freedom "you say shes looking for.
None sense... Love is unconditional. When you walk away from a marriage that you bring nothing to or added to then you are a user. If she married for love then why is she just with celebrities?
His wife is Beautiful. After 20 years, you would think they would just stay together and work it out. Although, I don't know why he went behind Martin's seconds, and married her.
Martin probably went behind another celebrity seconds when he got her..Heard she was a groupie at those celebrity parties. She been chasing the bag. Probably been putting millions in separate bank accounts for years from Martin and Emitt
Black culture has changed so much, so much superficial bullish...it, it’s not real. Seems like a good guy whose wife got caught up in all this social media BS and franchising your marriage!!!! She does not seem she’s about anything!! I miss Starpoint, Till the end of Time!!!!
Emmit was a high value rebound after Martin. This is no surprise. Steph Curry is on the clock
Now I can see what happened to the show "Martin". Back then, she was the spitting image of Tisha Campbell.
Not at all! Patty is beautiful!
If she were truly talented enough I think she'd have no problem shinning. It's easy to say after twenty plus years of being married to
Celebrities now you want to shine.
They all want new peen with the freedom of not having to cheat.
We keep getting reasons time & time again why not to get married
Lol exactly, looks like it’s not even worth it
Yea, just turned 27 and im taking the Too Short route
Who wants a celebrity Hollyweird marriage anyway real folks don't live like this
And I see reasons time and time again to stay married. 😂😂😂
tmat 2020 ???
The truth will soon come out after they split,it always does
This braud didnt even wana cook for him it's a clip on own you should look up
The fact that she is black and dies her hair blond, speaks volumes.
She’s about to come up again. DAMN 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ Damn Gina
I see why Martin married her, she almost looks exactly like Tisha Campbell. Lol
Betr
Teron Sidney Please! You need glasses.
I have always said: get with people that you know for certain would get with you even if you had no money because unfortunately there are some people out there that have no problems buying their time and making a move regardless of kids being involved. She may hold all the cards now but she now has to wonder if the next person she's involved with wants her for her or her money
I need to adopt that “evil Jaye” laugh lmao 😂
She's probably the reason he's got so much grey
Emitt will get himself a 25 or 30 year old hottie and he will move on .
Pat will struggle to find another man in her generation .
She may get pump and dumped by younger guys looking to get practice .
Get ready to move on emmit! Somebody's waiting for you who really loves you man! Be strong! It will be alright! Prayers up! I'm out! One!
There is a commenter named Amelia MacCarthy who is constantly taking unnecessary jabs at me. And, when I strike back, I notice that my comments to her get deleted. I have told her to not comment to me again. This unfair that I can't insult a person the same way he or she insults me.
She is very pretty.She aged better than him..but she probably already has a friend or two
Make up and weave
Mr Smith is a person who don’t want drama so he just playing the game as it is
Never cared about the NFL but I've heard and known about Emmit Smith years ago from his playing days, this is the first time I've even heard of this women, she was definitely a looker but I had no idea she was married once before to Martin Lawrence.
I would've been hesitant if I were Emmit knowing that from the jump....
H~
ANOTHER ONE bites the gad damn dust. Black women can not be tied down. Simple and plain fellas.
Athletes Men once you RETIRE and home everyday with wifey...its a wrap..
PREACH!
Enmity got 20 years out of her and had it bent forwards, sideways, backwards, to the best of her ability. Time to pay the poon-poon tax and keep it moving. Crazy thing is, when the bed is empty and dudes ain't checking her like she thought, she'll be cooking those "remember when" breakfasts, lunches, and dinners over at his place and seeking to get a health and welfare assurance key to his home.
@18billions -
The rules were drawn up earlier to the turn of the 1900's to prevent husbands from dumping wives of 10, 15, 20 years plus with no compensation. I say both parties argue what they believe is a fair split, allow the judged to negotiate, and both go their separate way, because Patricia will be back, even if just making visits. Once she starts putting requirements and expectations in getting the poon-poon, very few men are going to jump those types of hoops, because at near 50, she offers no man anything he can't get from a 39/40 year old woman.
@@thespadestable Any woman in her 30's is WASHED up. 18 to 26 are better deals. I know a lot of women in their 30's who are dating men in their early 20's because they have been used up and worn out