How about we stop with the personal attacks thanks cob cheers mate good on ya yep thanks yep no worries yep catch ya yep no worries mate rightio yep good to see ya yep you too yep no worries rightio yep sweet rightio better get going yep easy as catch ya yep now worries good on ya yep have a good one yep you too
Points and two cents: You only feel the way you do because it's based off what you find important. Generally women tend to derive significance from connection and men a sort of usefulness. This can be changed/learnt. There's a mirroring of energy and vibe. Some people are naturally better than others but you can notice it an adapt to that environment. It's a skill. Put out a similar energy as what's around you and you're halfway there. People with similar interests tend to get along because whatever they're into comes from the same place, the vibe is 'already there.' so if you don't have a vibing ability you're likely to connect with SOME people provided you're not a gremlin. I'd add there's a variedness to whether someone values breadth and depth of connection. Perhaps they'll meet hundreds of people and 'vibe' but still feel lonely as the interaction lacks complexity. Comes down to what personally defines your sense of loneliness. You may even need an assortment of connection and activity to feel satisfied. Perhaps drinking with xyz people isn't the social value you're looking for, but a pottery class (God knows) might, as you're amongst people who obviously value learning something tangible and new. It's all situational.
Dear Agony Aunt, how do you figure out what to do with your life/ as a career? All I know is I like languages, animals and solving problems but can’t figure out what I want to do. This has left me as a 33yr old loser with no direction and low self esteem, please help. (Ps, yes I am already taking your advice and studying daily).
Hello Jordan, I have a question, how do you confidently stand up for what you believe in? How do you maintain your beliefs when they are constantly tested? I am a school teacher and have been given terrible advice, yell at students to gain respect, public humiliate them to show them who is boss, don't let that girl use the coloured pencils because her parent haven't paid the school fees yet, if she asks why she can't use them tell her to tell her parents to pay the bills! I have stood up in these situations but I need to work on my confidence in doing so, also I worry that I might be wrong after I make my big stands. Love your videos and would love some advice. From Violet
5. Do you think young women between 18 to 25 are more successful in life on average than their male counterparts because they are more emotionally and socially intelligent.
Where do I make friends/get a social circle. I'm in my mid 20's now so I can hold an intelligent conversation, I just don't know where to find people to make friends with.
Good advice man , cheers. I’ve got a question for you mate; How do I create momentum , like how do I stay consistent and not fall off when chasing down my goal ?
Question for Jordan: Hey I just watched your relationship video and sorry this is a long question but I really struggle with relationships and I would like to get better at them (and by struggle, he means he doesn't ask people out because he'd rather be close friends with them first so he can make an informed opinion as to whether or not he should date them, but if he chooses yes its too late cause he just put himself in the friendzone). I find this very interesting. It feels like a simplification of the 5 personality traits (openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness and Neuroticism), or the MBTI 16 personality types. Its also probably because I spend so much time thinking about and researching this topic that I struggle to fit into these 4 types of people. Now I could be wrong, but the way I understood this was that there are 4 types of people, each with two of these traits e.g. testosterone with dopamine. If this is the case my first thought from what you described is that I am testosterone and dopamine, testosterone because I am very poor at socialising, I hate chit chat, I only really want to talk about my interests, or put up with talking about my very close friends interests cause I like them and I dont find many people I like. I also think I'm dopamine because I am highly creative, and while like a testosterone I only care about my interests, I can just focus on one, my whole life I've been pretty good at most interests I've tried, and I've spent so much time learning and focusing on all of them at once, which I've always found easy to do as it stops me from being bored. However, I can't be a testosterone because I'm terrible at making decisions, I absolutely hate it. I hate menus too. This one time I was out with two friends. The first dropped me home with the other, and when we got to my place he said he was coming in for a chat. He then asked the second friend if she wanted to do the same or stay in the car. She said that it was up to me. I said that I was quite happy for her to come in, but I wouldnt mind if she didnt either - it was up to her, as i didnt want her to feel forced into anything. This led to a legit half an hour argument at the front of my house in this car where she keeps saying NO JUST TELL ME WHAT TO DO and I keep refusing cause i hate telling people what to do, probably because I despise being told what to do. Now that I think about it, you could chalk this up to my dopamine side playing against the testosterone, as dopamine people seem to also struggle to focus on one thing, and by extension might not be good at making decisions - like me. However, the trouble with calling me a dopamine is that while i know i am one (because its the trait i am most similar to with my creativness and the spontaneous way i tend to live (i hate plans), I am ironically not a very happy person. Now, thats not really a fair assesment - i have bi polar, so perhaps if I didnt have bi polar i would tend to be a more happy excited person like you described (I know i tend to be more like his when im in my highs). However, I'll never be as social as what you described the dopamine to be, but again this is probably just my introverted testosterone side which only cares about the topics im interested in conflicting with my dopamine side. Idk, I think I've now satisfactorily resolved the issues I had with this formula of sorts for understanding people, but I'd like to here what you think Jordan, as you are probably far more well versed in this topic than I am! Edit: Well shit I just actually finished the video and my whole understanding of this system has been thrown away because the presumption i made that you have to be two of the personality types is wrong. Jordan just said you have to choose one. Fuck. Now I really need help, if Jordan or anyone else can explain to me which type I am that would really help thankyou
@@obnoxiousvf yes because this was clearly not me rambling it was actually a well thought out essay with an actual structure 😂😂😂. RUclips comments are not exactly the epitemy of good grammar xD
@@SkerikIsBae Rambling or not just hit the enter key after every few sentences. It makes a HUGE difference. I was interested in the start of your comment, I hit read more, saw the wall of text and said fuck that I'm out. Readability matters
Question: I’ve recently been reading the Quarterly Essay and finished Nikki Savvia’s book on the LibSpill. I was wondering how you read? Teach our dumbasses if you take pauses, note-take, read all in one go, summarise etc. how does one READ Mr Shanks?
Read because you're interested. If you're not interested you aren't going to absorb anything, and you won't feel motivated by curiosity to continue reading
I'm sure you've mentioned picking one skill to get hectic on as the way to go before, but I'm afraid to shut my hobbies out. I want to question how on earth people are managing their meditiation, podcast listening, exercise, study (either uni or personal reading), fiction reading, creative/ entrepreneurial endeavours (youtube, art or otherwise), social lives, and work, and eating well. Is it a well crafted lie? Or can it actually be done, inclusive of 8-9hrs decent sleep a night? Restricting/ timetabling my life is exhausting and sad-making, so my efforts are sporadic (chronically ill as handicap). Halp.
Does this also apply to sociopaths and the way they are sometimes very charismatic and naturally good at "vibing" although they're actually really doing it on a superficial level and for their own gratification.
Hey Jordan, could you give some book reccomendations for social skills? I've read the charisma myth and how to win friends. Also a self help list would be great. Recently I read 5am club by Robin Sharma which was great.
Braden Georgeson look people in the eyes whenever you start to feel nervous, you are unable to judge yourself when staring into the eyes of another individual, give that a go and see if that doesnt dampen the ugly voice telling you you arent good enough (or whatever you are feeling at the time)
@@VeNoMziV I feel like anxiety and rumination is something that occurs after the interaction, not during. I'm a bit more interested in enhancing the ''flow'' of a conversation. Interestingly enough I am reading Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi so maybe that has the answers.
Question: how do you deal with debilitating chronic illness at the age of 30? Losing the capability to do what you trained 6 years to do and losing all your physical prowess. what advice do you have to completely restructuring your life and making the best out of the loss of your physical strength and financial position?
24. How to tell when your approach toward your long term goals isn't working. Or more like when do you start changing your approach toward a long term goal.
What if I have no issue "vibing",or seeing the best in people? What if I can get lost in the moment with a friend or a stranger... but as soon as I walk away, i collapse internally? What if I have lots of connections but are still left wanting and lonely?
how do you make a vision for yourself? also English derives from Anglo-Frisian (which is a Germanic Language from where is now Holland) but has heavy Latin influence due to the fact the the Old-English speakers lived in territory that used to be occupied by the Romans and also had many relations with the French so there was lots of cross-over. The most notable time of this was 1066 when the Normans of France conquered England and french became the language of the upper-classes, which is why Modern English is 29% French, 29% Latin, and 26% Germanic (Old English, Dutch, and Norse Because Vikings.) P.S. Modern English is most similar to Dutch (specifically the dialect Flemish) than any other Modern Language.
How can I be more assertive/ less afraid of confrontation? I'm not talking about something related to goals either, in general I am afraid to tell people "no" or tell them what they don't want to hear
Question: How can I manufacture hope for my future? I am really interested in politics because I want to help people but I can't help being bluntly realistic with myself; I probably wont ever achieve any position of authority to do that. I know that contributing is what brings me happiness and I want to live for others but I'm scared that I'll end up being some 50 year old economist who wishes he was a politician or in a position to influence government policy or popular opinion. Wtf do I do! Delude myself? Give up? Sacrifice my life to kill Rupert Murdoch? Work towards the impossible? If so how!? Above all how do I establish some kind of hope. Pls
How to get motivated, specifically physical fitness? I've been watching your videos and writing goals but sometimes I just cant be bothered so I sit there apathetically wishing I was doing more, especially in terms of fitness.
Question: I know what I want to go uni and study somthing to do with engineering or technology when I finish the HSC in December but I'm not sure exactly what I want to do in that field. How do I decide what course to pick? Also do you have any HSC tips. Keep up the great work, I only found your second channel 2 days ago after watching your main channel for a year or so, keep up the good work you have improved my life already!
Vid idea "how do I know what to do with my life" I think about it a lot since I'm about to finish highschool and all the things I'm good at I won't be able to turn into a living and I dunno what to do
Hi Jordan. You keep saying reading does all wonders. I have never read a book outside my school/uni course (not that i read those regularly haha) and im 21 and im not a godd reader either. Whick books would you recommend to start with. Cheers
Oh Jords you need to reel it in just a tad. We have to be able to follow you eh! Love ya love ya but mate. Hey. Right? I drift off if I have to try too hard to follow you because I'm not on the same drugs you are. I take stuff for anxiety... I'm way dooownnnn lol
Q. My friend and I agreed women are good at and like to multitask and we are taught to wat and have it all. However when it comes to career path we agreed focus was the problem. You discussed focusing on a task however with me and my friend we have broad interests or for her too much variation with her music stuff and doesn’t know what skill or gift to focus on. For me I have very broad interests I try to overlap and intergrate them but sometimes one interest overtakes and others don’t evolve. How to find focus on what your career goals should be? Help
How do i get out of an abusive relationship with the youtuber who keeps making fun of my loneliness?
You dont
just STOP BEING FRIENDS with em
You need to vibe with them better
vote liberal.
Being lectured to about loneliness by an online warhammer enthusiast...
wer is de worhamer videeo??!?!!?
@@gregorycomey on his main channel
@@zacharyeslick8697 me sory i not no dis rong channell
Fuck off ass hat
I love how this channel is slowly turning into Jordan's punching bag with us as the punching bag.
@generic goose Exquisite video.
"Next time you are at a party..."
Mate, do you know your audience at all?
thoughts exactly
Even more ADHD than usual
He is never lonely, with all the multiple ADHD personalities.
Can you please say class dismissed at the end of these videos?
I think he's actually going insane
Question for next video: what do I do about my wet socks?
Please send help
More important question, what about me crusty socks?
Throw them in the bin so your mum doesnt see them.
Let them dry.
Take them off fungus boy
Good advice but Jordan try to keep a train of thought longer than 5 seconds please lol
How about we stop with the personal attacks thanks cob cheers mate good on ya yep thanks yep no worries yep catch ya yep no worries mate rightio yep good to see ya yep you too yep no worries rightio yep sweet rightio better get going yep easy as catch ya yep now worries good on ya yep have a good one yep you too
Points and two cents:
You only feel the way you do because it's based off what you find important. Generally women tend to derive significance from connection and men a sort of usefulness. This can be changed/learnt.
There's a mirroring of energy and vibe. Some people are naturally better than others but you can notice it an adapt to that environment. It's a skill. Put out a similar energy as what's around you and you're halfway there.
People with similar interests tend to get along because whatever they're into comes from the same place, the vibe is 'already there.' so if you don't have a vibing ability you're likely to connect with SOME people provided you're not a gremlin.
I'd add there's a variedness to whether someone values breadth and depth of connection. Perhaps they'll meet hundreds of people and 'vibe' but still feel lonely as the interaction lacks complexity. Comes down to what personally defines your sense of loneliness.
You may even need an assortment of connection and activity to feel satisfied. Perhaps drinking with xyz people isn't the social value you're looking for, but a pottery class (God knows) might, as you're amongst people who obviously value learning something tangible and new. It's all situational.
I knew all this before watching the video do I get a reward?
Jordan. You are definitely drunk in every one of these videos. Dont deny it. Own it lol
Dear Agony Aunt, how do you figure out what to do with your life/ as a career? All I know is I like languages, animals and solving problems but can’t figure out what I want to do. This has left me as a 33yr old loser with no direction and low self esteem, please help. (Ps, yes I am already taking your advice and studying daily).
Project management for an international dealing with animals?
Dr Doolittle for sure
Teach engineering at a school for horses?
Maccas
26. How do you raise yourself up from your lowest point or How to you stay motivated toward your goals after a big failure.
Q. How do you decide between 2 major goals/directions in life that are both fulfilling and meaningful, yet intrinsically opposite?
Hello Jordan, I have a question, how do you confidently stand up for what you believe in? How do you maintain your beliefs when they are constantly tested? I am a school teacher and have been given terrible advice, yell at students to gain respect, public humiliate them to show them who is boss, don't let that girl use the coloured pencils because her parent haven't paid the school fees yet, if she asks why she can't use them tell her to tell her parents to pay the bills! I have stood up in these situations but I need to work on my confidence in doing so, also I worry that I might be wrong after I make my big stands. Love your videos and would love some advice. From Violet
Ah another good one. The importance of understanding the reasons people selectively share personal baggage through the span of a friendship.
Talk about hobbies and the balance between necessity of it for people and when it becomes obessive or consuming.
Come for the life motivation, stay for the eternal mocking
I'm now convinced that Jordan shanks is a crazy person.
Hands up for being a viewer who knows some Latin.
For friendly jordies: yilmaz, or New Zealand which party to vote for and why
For this channel: how to date an alpha female ft. All your wigs
Vibe probably come from either the Latin word
vĭbrātŭs- quivering, tremulous motion
or
vĭbrātĭo- brandishing, vibration.
5. Do you think young women between 18 to 25 are more successful in life on average than their male counterparts because they are more emotionally and socially intelligent.
Where do I make friends/get a social circle. I'm in my mid 20's now so I can hold an intelligent conversation, I just don't know where to find people to make friends with.
Vibing idea is profound, I will try out not caring about the ideas that someone is trying to express and focus on their energy.
Thanks Shanks!
I like this guys vibe
HeRe'S a QUesTIOn FOR Ya Jordies
Where do you start when you feel out of place in social circles in the workplace/feelings on non-competence
Good advice man , cheers.
I’ve got a question for you mate;
How do I create momentum , like how do I stay consistent and not fall off when chasing down my goal ?
Jordan Shank. You are a national treasure 😂❤️🌠
He’s so handsome and funny can’t imagine him being lonely
There was so much babbling noises in this video that my 5 month old thought it was great entertainment.
Seriously though, great tips.
Self help for pre-Kindies is an underdeveloped market segment.
Question for Jordan: Hey I just watched your relationship video and sorry this is a long question but I really struggle with relationships and I would like to get better at them (and by struggle, he means he doesn't ask people out because he'd rather be close friends with them first so he can make an informed opinion as to whether or not he should date them, but if he chooses yes its too late cause he just put himself in the friendzone). I find this very interesting. It feels like a simplification of the 5 personality traits (openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness and Neuroticism), or the MBTI 16 personality types. Its also probably because I spend so much time thinking about and researching this topic that I struggle to fit into these 4 types of people. Now I could be wrong, but the way I understood this was that there are 4 types of people, each with two of these traits e.g. testosterone with dopamine. If this is the case my first thought from what you described is that I am testosterone and dopamine, testosterone because I am very poor at socialising, I hate chit chat, I only really want to talk about my interests, or put up with talking about my very close friends interests cause I like them and I dont find many people I like. I also think I'm dopamine because I am highly creative, and while like a testosterone I only care about my interests, I can just focus on one, my whole life I've been pretty good at most interests I've tried, and I've spent so much time learning and focusing on all of them at once, which I've always found easy to do as it stops me from being bored. However, I can't be a testosterone because I'm terrible at making decisions, I absolutely hate it. I hate menus too. This one time I was out with two friends. The first dropped me home with the other, and when we got to my place he said he was coming in for a chat. He then asked the second friend if she wanted to do the same or stay in the car. She said that it was up to me. I said that I was quite happy for her to come in, but I wouldnt mind if she didnt either - it was up to her, as i didnt want her to feel forced into anything. This led to a legit half an hour argument at the front of my house in this car where she keeps saying NO JUST TELL ME WHAT TO DO and I keep refusing cause i hate telling people what to do, probably because I despise being told what to do. Now that I think about it, you could chalk this up to my dopamine side playing against the testosterone, as dopamine people seem to also struggle to focus on one thing, and by extension might not be good at making decisions - like me. However, the trouble with calling me a dopamine is that while i know i am one (because its the trait i am most similar to with my creativness and the spontaneous way i tend to live (i hate plans), I am ironically not a very happy person. Now, thats not really a fair assesment - i have bi polar, so perhaps if I didnt have bi polar i would tend to be a more happy excited person like you described (I know i tend to be more like his when im in my highs). However, I'll never be as social as what you described the dopamine to be, but again this is probably just my introverted testosterone side which only cares about the topics im interested in conflicting with my dopamine side. Idk, I think I've now satisfactorily resolved the issues I had with this formula of sorts for understanding people, but I'd like to here what you think Jordan, as you are probably far more well versed in this topic than I am!
Edit: Well shit I just actually finished the video and my whole understanding of this system has been thrown away because the presumption i made that you have to be two of the personality types is wrong. Jordan just said you have to choose one. Fuck. Now I really need help, if Jordan or anyone else can explain to me which type I am that would really help thankyou
Mate: Paragraphs! Please!
@@obnoxiousvf yes because this was clearly not me rambling it was actually a well thought out essay with an actual structure 😂😂😂. RUclips comments are not exactly the epitemy of good grammar xD
@@SkerikIsBae Rambling or not just hit the enter key after every few sentences. It makes a HUGE difference. I was interested in the start of your comment, I hit read more, saw the wall of text and said fuck that I'm out. Readability matters
You could play the joker, honestly. Would be a great watch.
Loneliness is a self punishment. Go out and do stuff you enjoy, treat people they way u want to be treated, the rest will sort itself out.
Steve Irwin would like a video about your opinion on psychedelics and if you think they have a place in the self help process.
man oh man, he got us clowns to a T
not too mention I literally subscribed on this video
pretty good advice for being 90% Jordan laughing at his own childishness
Question: I’ve recently been reading the Quarterly Essay and finished Nikki Savvia’s book on the LibSpill. I was wondering how you read? Teach our dumbasses if you take pauses, note-take, read all in one go, summarise etc. how does one READ Mr Shanks?
Read because you're interested. If you're not interested you aren't going to absorb anything, and you won't feel motivated by curiosity to continue reading
58. Overcoming personal barriers. That could be a question.
I'm sure you've mentioned picking one skill to get hectic on as the way to go before, but I'm afraid to shut my hobbies out. I want to question how on earth people are managing their meditiation, podcast listening, exercise, study (either uni or personal reading), fiction reading, creative/ entrepreneurial endeavours (youtube, art or otherwise), social lives, and work, and eating well. Is it a well crafted lie? Or can it actually be done, inclusive of 8-9hrs decent sleep a night? Restricting/ timetabling my life is exhausting and sad-making, so my efforts are sporadic (chronically ill as handicap). Halp.
7. What would be the best mindset for a successful career and how do successful people differ in behavior from the general populous.
We are all technically friends because you interact with us.
Does this also apply to sociopaths and the way they are sometimes very charismatic and naturally good at "vibing" although they're actually really doing it on a superficial level and for their own gratification.
Where can I buy Jordan's bath water? I need to feel connected.
Extra zany today Jordan did you take some speed beforehand
He's looking a little zonked
@@justiceforjoggers2897 It's ritalin.
Thanks Jordan, I knew I never needed a father
9:33 this just transformed me from a fan to a disciple.
FriendlyJordies videos need to be played at 0.5x speed, Jordan Shanks videos need to be played at 3x speed.
Hey Jordan,
could you give some book reccomendations for social skills? I've read the charisma myth and how to win friends. Also a self help list would be great. Recently I read 5am club by Robin Sharma which was great.
Braden Georgeson look people in the eyes whenever you start to feel nervous, you are unable to judge yourself when staring into the eyes of another individual, give that a go and see if that doesnt dampen the ugly voice telling you you arent good enough (or whatever you are feeling at the time)
@@VeNoMziV I feel like anxiety and rumination is something that occurs after the interaction, not during. I'm a bit more interested in enhancing the ''flow'' of a conversation. Interestingly enough I am reading Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi so maybe that has the answers.
Love the extra ADD in this vid
25. What are good tecniques to remain a persistent goal achiever both long and short term.
Tbh this thumbnail was the best in awhile.
21. What is love, baby dont hurt me, dont hurt me, no more.
Question: how do you deal with debilitating chronic illness at the age of 30? Losing the capability to do what you trained 6 years to do and losing all your physical prowess.
what advice do you have to completely restructuring your life and making the best out of the loss of your physical strength and financial position?
60. Something something power of derision and how it could change your life.
43. What are good mental techniques for overcoming addiction. Substances, sugar, social media, ect...
Absolute legend
32. Can you be a productive night owl. Does the time you wake up really matter in term of your own productivity. Not for job\work but your goals.
How do I start being proactive rather than reactive in social situations?
The title of this video should be "The affects of amphetamine".
Jordan sounding like Alex Jones in this newest episode !
14. Why is social politics, Political Correctness, social justice and alternative genders suddenly so popular. What draws people to this.
"no-one doesn't not know that"
Parse that triple negative and it comes out to "everyone does not know that"
24. How to tell when your approach toward your long term goals isn't working. Or more like when do you start changing your approach toward a long term goal.
31. What is the best way to put emotion into learning.
3. How do you remain creative when you get creative blocks
I stop everything else I'm doing to watch these videos as fast as possible
What if I have no issue "vibing",or seeing the best in people? What if I can get lost in the moment with a friend or a stranger... but as soon as I walk away, i collapse internally? What if I have lots of connections but are still left wanting and lonely?
33. Whats the best skin routine for reducing pimples.
34. What is the best way to ponder your past failures, what about changing your perception on past failures.
how do you make a vision for yourself? also English derives from Anglo-Frisian (which is a Germanic Language from where is now Holland) but has heavy Latin influence due to the fact the the Old-English speakers lived in territory that used to be occupied by the Romans and also had many relations with the French so there was lots of cross-over. The most notable time of this was 1066 when the Normans of France conquered England and french became the language of the upper-classes, which is why Modern English is 29% French, 29% Latin, and 26% Germanic (Old English, Dutch, and Norse Because Vikings.)
P.S. Modern English is most similar to Dutch (specifically the dialect Flemish) than any other Modern Language.
The subtle obscure dig at games Workshop 😂
Hey Jordan, great vid! Could you do a video on getting positive people in your life that make you a better person and the benefits of doing so?
Are self help apps and podcasts beneficial
17. Why are some young people afraid of growing up and embrace nostalgia.
How can I be more assertive/ less afraid of confrontation? I'm not talking about something related to goals either, in general I am afraid to tell people "no" or tell them what they don't want to hear
6. Do you think charity work can make someone who feels empty inside happier.
this was the perfect video to play while i cried in the shower
Question:
How can I manufacture hope for my future?
I am really interested in politics because I want to help people but I can't help being bluntly realistic with myself; I probably wont ever achieve any position of authority to do that.
I know that contributing is what brings me happiness and I want to live for others but I'm scared that I'll end up being some 50 year old economist who wishes he was a politician or in a position to influence government policy or popular opinion.
Wtf do I do! Delude myself? Give up? Sacrifice my life to kill Rupert Murdoch? Work towards the impossible? If so how!?
Above all how do I establish some kind of hope. Pls
I'd recommend you start local. Check out your town's committee, role as mayor, or even a neighborhood thing
Thats what i meant 😬 yeah, what she said
I imagine you'd be losing more than Rupert Murdoch if you gave up the rest of your life to kill him, unless you're in your 90s too.
Do a video on David Goggins, what do you think is the most useful thing he talks about?
Don't worry about it. Black Eyed Peas is music for people who don't like music.
Compile your favourite self-help books in a single video.
Reading list thanks dad
How to get motivated, specifically physical fitness? I've been watching your videos and writing goals but sometimes I just cant be bothered so I sit there apathetically wishing I was doing more, especially in terms of fitness.
61. How to break the ice with introverted people.
baby noises at a camera made me proper lol
79. How to start a business of your dreams. What did you do.
I'm still trying to work out the takeaway of this video other than I have no friends and will die alone
Beautiful video thu
Please do a video on how to handle a genuinely stressful job straight out of uni. Uni is an utter joke compared to working.
Question:
I know what I want to go uni and study somthing to do with engineering or technology when I finish the HSC in December but I'm not sure exactly what I want to do in that field. How do I decide what course to pick? Also do you have any HSC tips. Keep up the great work, I only found your second channel 2 days ago after watching your main channel for a year or so, keep up the good work you have improved my life already!
54. How do you ask girls out. From approach to speech to posture to body language to eye contact to overthinking this.
Vid idea "how do I know what to do with my life" I think about it a lot since I'm about to finish highschool and all the things I'm good at I won't be able to turn into a living and I dunno what to do
Hi Jordan. You keep saying reading does all wonders. I have never read a book outside my school/uni course (not that i read those regularly haha) and im 21 and im not a godd reader either. Whick books would you recommend to start with. Cheers
47. What is it that is making people emotionally fragile in today's society. With everyone getting offended and triggered and what not.
Jordan, this really helped me. Thank you
Oh Jords you need to reel it in just a tad. We have to be able to follow you eh! Love ya love ya but mate. Hey. Right? I drift off if I have to try too hard to follow you because I'm not on the same drugs you are. I take stuff for anxiety... I'm way dooownnnn lol
Q. My friend and I agreed women are good at and like to multitask and we are taught to wat and have it all. However when it comes to career path we agreed focus was the problem. You discussed focusing on a task however with me and my friend we have broad interests or for her too much variation with her music stuff and doesn’t know what skill or gift to focus on. For me I have very broad interests I try to overlap and intergrate them but sometimes one interest overtakes and others don’t evolve. How to find focus on what your career goals should be? Help
9. How can you introduce someone to self help and convince them that it works.