multifandom | "you have a great life..." [mental illness]
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- Опубликовано: 2 июн 2018
- So this morning I received some really bad news. My dad's step-father is in hospital in a coma after he overdosed. It's not something I want to go into, but this video was almost finished and I felt like there was a message in it.
My step-granda has always seemed like such a happy man, and the last time I saw him was at my 18th birthday party, when he gave me a hug and three bottles of champagne. He's been there for as long as I can remember, and he's been happy and fun and goofy and outgoing and loving.
This video doesn't tie in to that very much, but it does show the messy, overwhelming presence of mental illness, even if it's behind closed doors. It may look like someone has a great life, and hey, maybe they do, but that doesn't mean they aren't struggling, or that they don't need any support. Sometimes everything builds up and it feels like you can't go on. I've been there. At my lowest point, I wrote goodbye letters to everyone I care about, and that was the only thing which brought me back, the fact that I knew I had all these people who I loved and who loved me.
It breaks my heart that there are so many people out there who don't have those people in their lives. It hurts me that there are people who feel so utterly hopeless that all they can think to do is take their own lives. And if they're lucky, someone takes notice, and someone helps them. Things can get better and I wish I could express that more than I am.
Thanks for watching, and please keep my step-granda in your thoughts. No one deserves to feel so awful and like there's no way out and like the only option is suicide.
"There are always more reasons why not."
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Fandoms:Chicago Fire, Supernatural, One Tree Hill, Riverdale, 13 Reasons Why, One Day At A Time, The 100, Lucifer, The Walking Dead, To The Bone, The Fosters, The DUFF, Teen Wolf, The Vampire Diaries, Reign, Fear The Walking Dead, The Fault In Our Stars, Hart Of Dixie, Supergirl, Sweet/Vicious, Red Band Society, Edge of Seventeen, Jane The Virgin, The Flash, Girl Meets World.
Song:Cloud
By:Elias 
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2:56 God it hurts how much i relate to that...
It's so true about how shockingly common mental illnesses are, even among people who seem outwardly perfectly happy and seem to have it all... But at least nowadays the overall attitude towards mental health is gradually changing, with these things actually being talked about more and more people getting the help they need...
Anyways, thi is edited beautifully! Hope your grandpa recovered and your family is doing okay...
People don't get help they need they are psuhsed aside
I would show my parents this, even though I know it won't make a difference, it would just be me telling them what they already know. I feel like that saddest part of my life was feeling not feeling embarrassed when I would commit suicide and make it and then go to school the same morning after waiting for a counselor to arrive and tell me the same repetitive things they all say, walking through those doors and cutting my hospital bracelet off was not embarrassing. It was embarrassing and sad to have a mental illness and to be discouraged to ask for help because my mother didn't want that kind of attention, I never realized it but I never told anyone about me having bipolar and my manic depression, my mom would hide it from family and friends and so I hid it from everyone else, I wish I told someone, I feel like I probably could have become someone better not still dealing with these raging emotions at 20 years old. I just wanted someone to talk to, I needed someone to reach out to me in that hall and see I was in so much pain. Panic attacks from bathrooms to classrooms and tearful mornings and nights were my everything. I love my family and I would die for them but I can't be the only one to be blamed in this situation and I wish they would take notice of that. Thanks so much for your video, it touched my heart and brought me to a really great space to clearly think about myself. I'm struggling with job and college and family and some people don't understand that when your like me and in school, you don't believe you will make it to your adulthood and then you make it and you're lost. Thank You
@Shaun The Good Doctor You got this mate, I'm 23 now and I'm trying to live for myself. I wish you the same
if that's your small shout for help... i'm telling you, your life is much worth than you think.
I've been there.. have seen this before...
Stay Calm.. Keep it UP. as you are worth it
Thank you. It's good to know that someone is there, spreading positivity. I made this video because so many people struggle with this type of thing every day, and I am part of that group of people. I was really low for a really long time, and when I finally started to get out of it, I was feeling strong enough to post about it and in a way share my experiences. Thank you for watching!
this video shows a lot about what is like to have a mental illness and try to do your best to just keep going. Because this is it, we have to keep going despite how hard it is. It's hard but we have people with us and ways to try and make things better. Just breathing a day at a time is good. Amazing video!
No one gives a shit about me
I cried because Lincoln died from the 100
And this song played
incredible video, love it! the music, the timings of the clips, everything was perfect😙
Lincoln anyone? From the 100?? 😭
When I seen Justin foley I almost broke 😭💔💔💔💔💔💔😭💔💔💔💔💔
YOU ARE LOVED
If I could show that to my parents, to know the way I really feel bad inside everydays, showing a fake smile evertime ☺,I'm done
I'm here because I'm unable to cry and I really needed to cry ...
You know what's kinda funny is No one who knows you See's your suffering and that no matter how many times you try to tell them no matter how many cuts you make drugs you take they refuse to see it.
No matter what they will refuse to see you suffering they choose to see the little kid who would play and smile and say I love you they refuse to see the person who you are now someone who is so busy fighting something they can never win someone who just wants to die.
Beautiful edit though.
Cheryl Blossom
Maggie and Beth Greene
Penelope Alvarez
This is such a good video, I miss chilli from Chicago fire too
Wow I love it
Hay días en los que me siento vacía,que nada de lo que haga vale la pena simplemente algo en mi cabeza se apaga.Pero después hay días en que siento angustia de la nada cuando en el momento anterior estaba bien.En mi cabeza pasa siempre la idea que el sufrimiento,el dolor o lo que me pase es una tontería yo no he sufrido como otra gente yo no tengo derecho a sentirme mal cuando otros lo han pasado peor que yo .
Accurate.
What episode & season from the first scene
how i feel all the time im so sad someone help me pleaseeeeeeeee
REIGN 🥺💔
Which episode is the chicago fire scene? Amazing video
Very beautiful edit, what is the song called?
Cloud by Elias
By the way, where are this scenes from?
1:46
2:37
2:56
1.46 is Lucifer
2.37 is The 100
2.56 is One Day at a Time
Someone told me just turned it off I said its not that easy
What show at 1.00
To the bone.
which show or movie is that scene from 00:01
Chicago Fire Season 11
What’s the spoken words at 3:41 from?
It's from One Day at a Time
elysian chaos. How do I find that specific bit?
elysian chaos. Like what season and episode
From where the first scene??
TV show called chicago fire
where is the scene on 0:35 from?
The 100
Emily Bachmann thank you)
whats the song name and who sang it ?
simplyrosie cloud by Elias
whats the song
Cloud by Elias.
Anybody know 3:10 ?
Beautiful video but whats 2:02. It seemed intense af
It's 13 Reasons Why, and thank you
elysian chaos. Really? I watched it and I canr remember that
What show is at 2:07 ? This is such a good edit. ❤
the fosters!
@@safwaalomari7360 Thank you 💗
which series name 1:25???
Parenthood
2:07 anyone?
The fosters
I hate my fucking life. I hate being unique!
I wish to disappear from this world
That I never existed
Please god help me
Uhhh... Shameless? Where the h*ll is Ian Gallagher!? 😕