The reason I love Dan so much is that he always tries to explain something from a positive light, without bashing the woman(red pill & shit?) but actually putting the control in our hands so we can be better men, thank Dan! 🔥
I used to think "Why should I be confident? I'm shy and that's the way I am. Women should like that I'm being myself. Why should I change for them?!" but then I realised this: being shy is not a trait. It's a problem you should solve. It means that you care too much about what people think of you and that shows lack of confidence which is unattractive to women.
+simontmn - Thanks mate. Yeah, most good guys think that they are the only good guy in this world. No one is perfect, but most people are alright and are just trying to do the right thing in the best way they now how. Of course, there are a lot of bad guys out there, but they really are the minority, not majority.
My god. your tips of how to behave are EXACTLY how I behave when I am just casually having fun with my people and when I have no intention to hook up. most of the time the girls around are all taken. and then they wonder why I arent taken too. when I talk to girls I could be with, I am this serious type of guy and really carefll about what I say. wow. that really hit me like a steam train ...
its not about what you talk about its how confident you are while being yourself. creating sexual tension happens naturally when expressing your true personality without fear or desperation. u have to realize you are good enough already and be proud of all your qualities as a man. your humor, charisma, confidence happens naturally when u allow it to. girls are turned off by men who are afraid of showing their true personality and put on an act when they are with her or in public. trust Dan if u really wanna find the right girls for u, his advice comes from years of experience with women and honing his ability to be himself in every moment.
Man I've been having this issue for such a long time. Not being able to attract women I want. I'm gonna try being like this now. Wish I would've discovered this advice a long time ago
This is why I'm probably going to be single lol. I agree with what youre saying Dan but man all this charm stuff seems tough. Making me feel like Im not worthy. Makes me feel like I have to be someone I'm not to attract a woman. But I agree as I've seen this work with friends I know.
Hi Dan, just started following you. Your videos are a revelation. I plan on getting The Flow course at some point. But for now, I just want to say thanks for all the great content!
This is a good video to keep the vibe after the honeymoon faze wares off in a young relationship. It’s a good way to just say a little bit and keep things moving.
That's why women reject you. You care too much about their reactions. Watch this (mistake #2): www.themodernman.com/blog/5-pick-up-mistakes-that-lead-to-rejection.html
great advice. at last someone sincere who knows where many of us fail as the eternal friend. an example of selling something without lying or repeating bullshit.
Very informative video to say the least! i have purchased 'The flow' and naturals and although I'm 1/2 way through the course, do find the material of a high standard!
@Dan_the_man: Dan if you are reading this comment then I wanted to tell that you provide some of the best advises that I have come across on the internet for men like myself who want to succeed with women. There is tons of information on the internet on how to pick women or how to attract women or how to flirt with a woman etc etc. But for the most part I have found them to be a bunch of crap. They don't tell you the actual truth. But so far I have found your material to be some of the most genuine information out there today. I feel like I have learned quite a lot about women and how their mentality works just by watching your videos. Usually I am very skeptical about spending money online on purchasing any provided by so called pick up artists or dating experts. But after having researched a lot on similar topics I must say your material seems most genuine and honest. No gimmicks to sell your book. Just the honest truth. With that being said for the very first time I am convinced enough to purchase your book and give it a shot because I am very curious to learn as to what more tips and advises you have for us men to succeed with women. Thanks man I truly appreciate it.
I'm in a weird spot. I'm single after 7 years. I'm not currently in the mindset of dating or approaching women or anything, but I know at some point I likely will be. My last relationship started before the age of online dating (or just at the beginning of it), and all of the success I've had with every woman in the past has been because they came on to me or made it abundantly clear that they were attracted to me. Now that I'm 30, I don't see that being the case anymore. So now I'm 30, have never had to take charge and flirt with a woman before because they all started it with me, no exceptions, and now I kind of feel like I'll be fucked when I want to get out there again. What do?
Would this also work in a night club? To practice this in a safe setting I'd go out at night so I wouldn't hurt any ongoing relationships in my professional life.
Excellent video, and it answers a lot of questions. Thanks Dan, I've been doing it all wrong. I think men are very logical, so we make the mistake of thinking that women will respond to a good rational argument. Not true, as you've so eloquently put. Women are more emotional, so we need to 'move' those emotions regardless of the logic. Obviously in a sexual attractive way that demonstrates masculine traits. 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus', I guess. Fundamentally different ways of communicating.
When you say that you have developed more than 100 ways to attract women, what program is that referring to? Or are the 100 ways spread across all of your programs and products?
Hi - it's across the programs. You can watch the video at the top of this page to find out which product is for you: www.themodernman.com/success/which-product-is-for-you.html Cheers, Dan
Hey Dan. First of all I like your style. It convinced me into buying “The Flow“ and until now I don't regret it. Now there is yet a problem: I am 28, study in Germany and I think I prefer the type of women who have their own domain - know what I mean? Who have their field of occupation which they are passionate about, e.g. sciences, literature. So up to now my contacts with many of them gave me the impression, that they're repelled of that kind of “nurse talk“. As for myself, when someone makes a joke about me writing a novel it's probable I will be pissed off, they also seem to be. They might wanna be respected as an intelligent woman and feel girly at the same time - but how can that be done? I am desperate.... Thanks!
+Joseph Schneider - Thanks mate - I'm glad that you took the first step to read The Flow. These posts will now help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-dominate-a-woman.html and www.themodernman.com/blog/what-to-say-to-a-woman-to-make-her-melt.html and www.themodernman.com/blog/what-is-flirting-and-why-does-it-turn-women-on-so-easily.html
I think a key point is that I am easily embarrassed when talking to girls and anything I talk about other than serious topics are just embarrassing myself. and *I HATE TO BE EMBARRASSED*. Please help Dan.
I want to be together with a woman the thing is that i only have her insta and have been talking to her a little but i dont know how to draw her attention to me so i can be funny and create all this things you are recommending, would love to hear what tips you have Dan
You are soooo fucking right, that is exactly what happens to me, I make every mistake you listed, what frustrates me the most is that chicks from my class for example are often phisically attracted to me, but after going out a few times they turn off and forget about me. Btw I just stopped by your website, definitevely buying that audiobook.
Hi Dan Whatever u said is true But most of the women also get turned over by sincere & honest men I have never done any thing to attract women but most of the women like me as a person & come & talk to me themselves What is ur opinion on that ?
Thanks! Yes, as you would know, you get what you pay for in life. Toyota is cheaper than Ferrari for a reason. About your question: USD. See question 6 here: store.themodernman.com/payment.html
The reason I love Dan so much is that he always tries to explain something from a positive light, without bashing the woman(red pill & shit?) but actually putting the control in our hands so we can be better men, thank Dan! 🔥
Most underrated RUclips channel ever
I'm married and am learning this to keep my wife's interest and add to becoming the best version of me! 💯💯 Thanks. Love this channel.
I used to think "Why should I be confident? I'm shy and that's the way I am. Women should like that I'm being myself. Why should I change for them?!" but then I realised this:
being shy is not a trait. It's a problem you should solve. It means that you care too much about what people think of you and that shows lack of confidence which is unattractive to women.
oh thanks lol wasn't expecting a reply. Just wanted to share this.
"What good guys don't realise is that most guys are good guys" - LOL, great line & true.
+simontmn - Thanks mate. Yeah, most good guys think that they are the only good guy in this world. No one is perfect, but most people are alright and are just trying to do the right thing in the best way they now how. Of course, there are a lot of bad guys out there, but they really are the minority, not majority.
My god.
your tips of how to behave are EXACTLY how I behave when I am just casually having fun with my people and when I have no intention to hook up. most of the time the girls around are all taken. and then they wonder why I arent taken too.
when I talk to girls I could be with, I am this serious type of guy and really carefll about what I say.
wow.
that really hit me like a steam train ...
You have the best angle/attitude about these topics. Seems like you honestly want to help men connect with women. No evil intentions.
He really hits the nail on the head! Its not about being a good guy, its about how to create sexual tension!
i cant believe you posted this knowledge 5 years ago.
**ABSOLUTE LEGEND**
its not about what you talk about its how confident you are while being yourself. creating sexual tension happens naturally when expressing your true personality without fear or desperation. u have to realize you are good enough already and be proud of all your qualities as a man. your humor, charisma, confidence happens naturally when u allow it to. girls are turned off by men who are afraid of showing their true personality and put on an act when they are with her or in public. trust Dan if u really wanna find the right girls for u, his advice comes from years of experience with women and honing his ability to be himself in every moment.
this guy is a genius! every video gets my attention so well !! pure genius!
Men attracted to a woman looks.womens attracted to mens energy
I laughed when you said to avoid topics like "death, murder, rape, disease". So true though.
Yep, funny, but true!
I just find out this series a few days ago. It's the best knowledgeable channel for ppl grow their social skills
9:43 "cut his leg off." I am in tears xD Lmao
Man I've been having this issue for such a long time. Not being able to attract women I want. I'm gonna try being like this now. Wish I would've discovered this advice a long time ago
This is why I'm probably going to be single lol. I agree with what youre saying Dan but man all this charm stuff seems tough. Making me feel like Im not worthy. Makes me feel like I have to be someone I'm not to attract a woman. But I agree as I've seen this work with friends I know.
Hi Dan, just started following you. Your videos are a revelation. I plan on getting The Flow course at some point. But for now, I just want to say thanks for all the great content!
"All right a nurse yeah nurses are hot, I like nurses" lmao
This is a good video to keep the vibe after the honeymoon faze wares off in a young relationship. It’s a good way to just say a little bit and keep things moving.
This has really changed my life! Thank You!
You're welcome. Glad I could help you!
Dan is singlehandedly curing humanity's low birth rate problem !
Great Info !
I usually get worried that I will run into that one girl with a really bitchy attitude that will take everything I say to literally
That's why women reject you. You care too much about their reactions. Watch this (mistake #2): www.themodernman.com/blog/5-pick-up-mistakes-that-lead-to-rejection.html
man, you just exposed them, so good
Good voice and sound! You are really keeping a good pace while shifting between facts, Thank you
+Richard Jovan - Thanks Richard! :)
great advice. at last someone sincere who knows where many of us fail as the eternal friend. an example of selling something without lying or repeating bullshit.
I could really have a one on one conversation with you because you make a lot of sense
This makes so much sense. Tyvm.
This words are reality and if properly used or applied, u are sure of results. Thanks D.B
Thanks Dan ... its superb ... keep helping more people!
thank you dan. My confidence level is up by far
You're welcome bro. You might also find this video helpful: www.themodernman.com/videos/what-is-your-skill-level-with-women.html
Awesome Dan, I wish you know how much you helped a brother from kenya
On point man, on point, I have to deploy these tactics.
Brilliant content, thanks!!
Excellent advice and well said!
Your book is unavailable through audible. Can you make it available?
Very informative video to say the least! i have purchased 'The flow' and naturals and although I'm 1/2 way through the course, do find the material of a high standard!
Words of wisdom.
My life took a turn for nurse
Haha...nice one. That would work.
What if I am not shy at all but I just can't flirt? How I learn how to flirt?
@Dan_the_man: Dan if you are reading this comment then I wanted to tell that you provide some of the best advises that I have come across on the internet for men like myself who want to succeed with women. There is tons of information on the internet on how to pick women or how to attract women or how to flirt with a woman etc etc. But for the most part I have found them to be a bunch of crap. They don't tell you the actual truth. But so far I have found your material to be some of the most genuine information out there today. I feel like I have learned quite a lot about women and how their mentality works just by watching your videos. Usually I am very skeptical about spending money online on purchasing any provided by so called pick up artists or dating experts. But after having researched a lot on similar topics I must say your material seems most genuine and honest. No gimmicks to sell your book. Just the honest truth. With that being said for the very first time I am convinced enough to purchase your book and give it a shot because I am very curious to learn as to what more tips and advises you have for us men to succeed with women. Thanks man I truly appreciate it.
This is the most helpful piece of advice.
Dan is a genius. I think a key role to change my life
what if she's a co-worker?
Great stuf. My problem is that I cannot control creating sexual attraction. I am not aware when it happens.
your stuff is great, you are helping people, keep it up
I'm in a weird spot. I'm single after 7 years. I'm not currently in the mindset of dating or approaching women or anything, but I know at some point I likely will be. My last relationship started before the age of online dating (or just at the beginning of it), and all of the success I've had with every woman in the past has been because they came on to me or made it abundantly clear that they were attracted to me. Now that I'm 30, I don't see that being the case anymore. So now I'm 30, have never had to take charge and flirt with a woman before because they all started it with me, no exceptions, and now I kind of feel like I'll be fucked when I want to get out there again. What do?
You are my idol Dan bacon
Would this also work in a night club? To practice this in a safe setting I'd go out at night so I wouldn't hurt any ongoing relationships in my professional life.
You are the man Dan
Love your videos. Dude, you look just like Lars Ulrich.
The nurse or any in the medical field. I always lead it into "CPR" 😂
Awesome! Absolutely...Awesome! Very True!
U got the whey, things do synthesize here as you talk, U are ultimate men tutor)
Excellent video, and it answers a lot of questions. Thanks Dan, I've been doing it all wrong. I think men are very logical, so we make the mistake of thinking that women will respond to a good rational argument. Not true, as you've so eloquently put. Women are more emotional, so we need to 'move' those emotions regardless of the logic. Obviously in a sexual attractive way that demonstrates masculine traits. 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus', I guess. Fundamentally different ways of communicating.
Dan I enjoy watching your videos! Thank you!
What if a woman is electrician...t "no wonder i felt electricity in the air here ;)" Lol.
Simoly the best coach!!!!
Thanks man for this video
Gold advice
I need to be by my side when I’m talking to woman lol 😂
Thanks Dan, great advice
Sexual attraction is everything these days..Its easy for us, See a sexy lady, we are game... but its not just physical for them
man that was helpful
When you say that you have developed more than 100 ways to attract women, what program is that referring to? Or are the 100 ways spread across all of your programs and products?
Hi - it's across the programs. You can watch the video at the top of this page to find out which product is for you: www.themodernman.com/success/which-product-is-for-you.html Cheers, Dan
GOD BLESS YOU GUYS THANKS
Hey Dan. First of all I like your style. It convinced me into buying “The Flow“ and until now I don't regret it. Now there is yet a problem: I am 28, study in Germany and I think I prefer the type of women who have their own domain - know what I mean? Who have their field of occupation which they are passionate about, e.g. sciences, literature.
So up to now my contacts with many of them gave me the impression, that they're repelled of that kind of “nurse talk“. As for myself, when someone makes a joke about me writing a novel it's probable I will be pissed off, they also seem to be. They might wanna be respected as an intelligent woman and feel girly at the same time - but how can that be done? I am desperate....
Thanks!
+Joseph Schneider - Thanks mate - I'm glad that you took the first step to read The Flow. These posts will now help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-dominate-a-woman.html and www.themodernman.com/blog/what-to-say-to-a-woman-to-make-her-melt.html and www.themodernman.com/blog/what-is-flirting-and-why-does-it-turn-women-on-so-easily.html
Thank you
great fucking video advice. ..dude you are my hero. .lol
+Gustavo Portillo - Lol, thanks mate
Hi Dan, love your videos .. is your book on Audible ??
this guy is a machine
You got it right man
this is nice bro
Best wingman💯💯
I think a key point is that I am easily embarrassed when talking to girls and anything I talk about other than serious topics are just embarrassing myself. and *I HATE TO BE EMBARRASSED*.
Please help Dan.
thanks, good video
Sometimes I find it hard to find things to say that would trigger feelings of attraction
Dude I need that guide
Outstanding videos. I ordered the flow and 21 ways to meet women via the audio download
what kind of accent do you have?
arash elli he's Australian.........gtfo
Where can you buy them?
I want to be together with a woman the thing is that i only have her insta and have been talking to her a little but i dont know how to draw her attention to me so i can be funny and create all this things you are recommending, would love to hear what tips you have Dan
Girl : “what’re you doing?”
Guy: “I’m eating dinner but I’d rather be eating you”
You are soooo fucking right, that is exactly what happens to me, I make every mistake you listed, what frustrates me the most is that chicks from my class for example are often phisically attracted to me, but after going out a few times they turn off and forget about me. Btw I just stopped by your website, definitevely buying that audiobook.
someone plz help me ibjeedbtobhenconfident with women I'm tired of being single everbsonce my wife left me 2 years ago idk how to start again
How can I download the flow on audio
How can this be applied in an LTR?
great video
Hi Dan Whatever u said is true But most of the women also get turned over by sincere & honest men I have never done any thing to attract women but most of the women like me as a person & come & talk to me themselves What is ur opinion on that ?
bruh you look 100 times better here without beard.
I’d be saying; “I’ve heard Nurses are kinky.” Which to my experience is true.
right on man! Brilliant work, keep it up
Why are your products so expensive? Is the amount in Australian dollars or American? Good content tho !
Thanks! Yes, as you would know, you get what you pay for in life. Toyota is cheaper than Ferrari for a reason. About your question: USD. See question 6 here: store.themodernman.com/payment.html
THANK. YOU.
This guy figured out the game a long time ago.
Spot on
anybody actually bought these audio books? Are they really any good?
Yes, they are awesome. Check out some success stories here: www.themodernman.com/success/modern-man-success-stories.html
Worth every penny bro!
Very good video.
Thanks for the tips Dan. :)
I m here cause I m getting bored of having the same boring conversations with woman, and if I get bored they get bored