i need to respect my father and my mother even tho is not my real dad and he has been the one only there for me i should treat him like my dad thank you Pursuegod for this tip to help me to thrive and move one with my mom and dad love you guys
Love and respect (at least the appearance of respect) can be synonymous. If they love you they will treat you with respect. You can’t have one without the other.
No matter whatever I do it is considered to be disrespectful to my parents .If I try to prove my point , my parents accuse me being disrespectful. The thing is my parents never see my part of the story and stick to their part. I am poor in expressing myself in the right way . We always have difference of opinion and most of the time believe it or not my opinion turns out to be right , but my parents never seem to accept what I do . How do I prove them that I am not being disrespectful but just trying to make them understand. If I say this to them , they say how dare you argue against me . Sometimes my mom beats me up brutally . Finally they never get my point. The first time I try to explain to my parents normally and they pretend like I never exist , second time they just shoo me off , third time when I talk a bit in a louder tone to explain myself they say I am disrespectful.All I want them to do is see things from my perspective and listen what I have to say before deciding which is right and wrong just like I accept their perspective and listen to what they have to say . I want my parents to listen to me what I have to say . They just shut me up in the first few words before i can say something which really hurts me . Please give me a solution for this problem
@sayee shivaani please just take it one day at a time. it will be helpful to talk to only one of them about how you feel. pick a time for example when mum is in the kitchen cooking , offer to help her and then while at it , ask her if you can talk to her about something that has been bothering you. then you take it from there. ok?
If they don’t respect me, I don’t respect them. And more then that, if they don’t SHOW respect, they will not be shown respect in return. This goes beyond parents. This goes for everyone. And no. They are not in charge of me. I am in charge of me. Oh and while we’re on the topic...Dr. Pepper is so much better😂 If you continue on with Ephesians 6:1 it will say “Fathers, do not provoke your sons to anger.” This verse is often overlooked when parents use Ephesians 6:1 to make a Biblical case as to why their kids should listen to them. Now, I’m not bashing the video or the message, but a continuation of Ephesians 6:1 as well as generalizing the message to “respect everyone in general” would have made the message more complete. Just because there is scripture for the kids does NOT mean the Scripture for the parents should be overlooked. That’s all I’m saying.
1 Corinthians 7:17 But each one should continue to live the way God has given him to live-the way he was when God called him. Be an example before them. Once they see the God in you, as God blesses you, they will start asking you questions. You can change their, and your, lives if you stay faithful and true to the cause. Let God guide you. Speak when He says to speak and stay silent when He says to stay silent. You aren't a mistake and He didn't, accidentally, give you to the wrong parents. He has a plan and it a GOOD plan!
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I need to work on being more respectful to my parents! Heavenly Father, help me! 😢😭😟😔😢
i get mad really FAST ! i always want to be a good child but its really hard
I know the struggle! Keep trying though!
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I need to work on my attitude towards my parent and listen to what she has to say Heavenly Father please help me 🙏🏽
They always get on my nerves I try my best to hold my anger in but it just dosent work
i need to respect my father and my mother even tho is not my real dad and he has been the one only there for me i should treat him like my dad thank you Pursuegod for this tip to help me to thrive and move one with my mom and dad love you guys
Love this!! Thank you!!!
me and my mom have had a bad relationship, and i feel like ive hurt her. im so sorry for all that ive put her through even though i love her so much
I love my dad, he's a good guy, but love and respect are two different things.
Are you saying you don't respect him?
@@PursueGODYouth believe me I wanna say I respect him but no. Not when he's jobless, lazy, sexist, racist, stubborn... and so on.
Love and respect (at least the appearance of respect) can be synonymous. If they love you they will treat you with respect. You can’t have one without the other.
No matter whatever I do it is considered to be disrespectful to my parents .If I try to prove my point , my parents accuse me being disrespectful. The thing is my parents never see my part of the story and stick to their part. I am poor in expressing myself in the right way . We always have difference of opinion and most of the time believe it or not my opinion turns out to be right , but my parents never seem to accept what I do . How do I prove them that I am not being disrespectful but just trying to make them understand. If I say this to them , they say how dare you argue against me . Sometimes my mom beats me up brutally . Finally they never get my point. The first time I try to explain to my parents normally and they pretend like I never exist , second time they just shoo me off , third time when I talk a bit in a louder tone to explain myself they say I am disrespectful.All I want them to do is see things from my perspective and listen what I have to say before deciding which is right and wrong just like I accept their perspective and listen to what they have to say . I want my parents to listen to me what I have to say . They just shut me up in the first few words before i can say something which really hurts me . Please give me a solution for this problem
@pursue God can one of yoy reach out to sayee and offer some one on one chat to help him with this please. he could use some personlised help. thanks
@sayee shivaani please just take it one day at a time. it will be helpful to talk to only one of them about how you feel. pick a time for example when mum is in the kitchen cooking , offer to help her and then while at it , ask her if you can talk to her about something that has been bothering you. then you take it from there. ok?
If they don’t respect me, I don’t respect them. And more then that, if they don’t SHOW respect, they will not be shown respect in return. This goes beyond parents. This goes for everyone. And no. They are not in charge of me. I am in charge of me. Oh and while we’re on the topic...Dr. Pepper is so much better😂
If you continue on with Ephesians 6:1 it will say “Fathers, do not provoke your sons to anger.” This verse is often overlooked when parents use Ephesians 6:1 to make a Biblical case as to why their kids should listen to them. Now, I’m not bashing the video or the message, but a continuation of Ephesians 6:1 as well as generalizing the message to “respect everyone in general” would have made the message more complete. Just because there is scripture for the kids does NOT mean the Scripture for the parents should be overlooked. That’s all I’m saying.
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I am trying so hard! I can't, It's hard for some reason😭
We know your pain! But, keep trying because it's what God wants!
My family cusses so much and I've asked them to stop bit they wont and I'm trying to stop...any advice??
I feel you, bro.
1 Corinthians 7:17 But each one should continue to live the way God has given him to live-the way he was when God called him.
Be an example before them. Once they see the God in you, as God blesses you, they will start asking you questions. You can change their, and your, lives if you stay faithful and true to the cause. Let God guide you. Speak when He says to speak and stay silent when He says to stay silent. You aren't a mistake and He didn't, accidentally, give you to the wrong parents. He has a plan and it a GOOD plan!
I am not really disrespectful, I just joke around when tension high
Amen
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Guys my ma is so annoying like she jus won't ever leave me alone for once its always do this an th at an keep doin it till I say stop
Well she is your mom...
Weeks later I've really done better , getting many blessings
Im going to make my son watch this right now😀
😂that's awesome!
Wow; much true; i learnt mucho
Good!
Wuau tank you. So much
God bless you
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PS PARENTS I AIN'T DONE YET
Thi every word what you said is true
Glad to hear you say that!
Oh my Gawd I can see the light I get it now i was soo foolish XDD
Not gonna lie I’m a bad kid I need help
Good hellugh I love you lord
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Winner of a video, I have been researching "zombie survival guide read online" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Ryanzon Survival Genie - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.
I dont beileve in god
Sorry to hear that, we encourage you to keep investigating though!
Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still respect your parents