HIS PARENTS DIDN'T APPROVE AT FIRST & HOW WE NAVIGATED THAT SEASON! TOLULOPE AND GBEMIGA ADEJUMO
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- Опубликовано: 30 апр 2022
- Finally sharing a part of our story that I have promised for a while now. I just really hope it inspires or enlightens or heal. Let me know if you found this helpful in the comments below. xo
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Thank you for sharing your story. My husband and I also faced heated and heart breaking parental consent issues for about 3 years. My dad eventually consented last year in September 2021, and 3 months later, January 1 & 6, 2022 we celebrated our traditional and church wedding ceremony. God fought all our battles and moved every mountains. Today we are happily married to the glory of God.
How was your relationship in those 3 years?
Where there times either party felt uncertain about the fight or second thoughts ??
@@shalomtutu we were never uncertain. Infact, it made our bond stronger. The storms were from external parties, but we were intentional with being united.
I like how you tell us stories about yourself but still manage to keep a lot of things private. Yes we like gist but a lot of RUclipsrs don't apply wisdom when they are creating content.
Your last sentence 👏👏🏿👏🏽👏🏾
Ok hunty!
It’s called wisdom just like you rightly mentioned, before someone will now use it against them tomorrow. Some Nigerians are wicked
So good!!!! Like you’ve said it all📌
Thank you so much 🥰
In my case it was association of my husband's friend because one of them had made advances at me and I rejected.
My husband told them he doesn't mind loosing all of them as friends
We had the wedding 17 yrs after waxing stronger and stronger
The devil will always rage against the will of God
Madam tolulope looks exactly like her mom in the video
May 10th will be our 12th anniversary. We had similar story. Not hear say but more of tribal difference. I knew from.the get go what tribes were off limits for me but in my mind it was just friendship. So when now friendship turn marry me, the conversation changed. I forewarned my husband and Marshalled forces with my uncles to go ahead of me to.my parents. I made my uncles access him n when they approved i had all the support i needed to face my parents. We triumphed. 2 weeks to.the wedding his mom out of no where said " NOPE" We had to fight that too. Marshalled all the church elders n pastors to go ahead of us
We won. Hasn't been smooth sailing all the way but to Gods glory we r still standing. 3 precious girls n 12 years of Gods goodness.
Wow! Today May 1st is my wedding anniversary. It is my 12th year of marriage and it has been God all the way. This particular matter is relatable. I won't say more than that. Thank you, Solutions mama for putting this out. It will help so many relationships and even marriages. God Almighty will continue to bless your home and ministry.
Happy wedding anniversary! 12 years to the glory of God and forever to go in Jesus name
I can soo relate with this. My mom said soo many nasty things to dissuade me for no just cause;honestly. My elder sister made matters worse but we had soo much peace and joy being with each other.When I didn't introduce any other person to them after 3years; they let me be. It was then my mom worked on it spiritually and got a go-ahead. Most reasons are trivial and bias honestly. 4.5years in marriage,I couldn't have asked for a better partner. Tables have turned,the stone that wasnt wanted is now the chief cornerstone.
Glory be to God.
May God continually keep you guys together in peace and bliss( amen)
How did you do it. Because I'm facing the same thing. My elder sister is making matters worse.
@@amarachiinyimah1073 hi,sis! I feel you totally. We were tenacious as we had both prayed about it from the scratch and was double sure we were meant to be. We also enjoyed each other's company soo much that the heat didnt have effect on us at all. We cried together (tbh), held each other's hands,communicated more often,fantasized together, hung out without sending anyone. Once it's meant to be ehn,it will be. Loads of love from me to you🥰
Imagine letting go of a woman like Tolulope, you're both incredibly strong. Such a spiritual woman with a dignified spirit.
May the Lord continue to bless your home and shower you with love. AMEN
To think that i was in that phase but mine was on the basis of culture and i prayed to God that "God, let your perfect will be done" the relationship didn't work and here i am fulfilling purpose and waiting on God. God bless you and PG so much. I don't usually comment but your lives, marriage and parenting has been nothing but a blessing to me.
I love this couple and I'll keep voicing it. Being african, Nigerian to be precise, i didn't really grow up in a home where love is very evident, never heard my dad say "i love you" to my mom or we his children verbally. Almost impossible for my mom to say "I'm sorry" when she offends us. So i really do appreciate the love you share with each other and the kids too. I pray to get a man this intentional about God, love and all of what you have❤❤❤
Happy Father's day PG
Thank you! May we always be better for ourselves and generations coming through us
@@TolulopeSolutions
Going through similar situations also
I messaged you on instagram that I needed to talk to someone pls can u reply
I need to ask u someone pls🙏 or I can even call you
I kind of understand where PG parents are we’re coming from. For the kind of background he’s from they wouldn’t want anything to soil that. And looking out for their son wasn’t a bad idea at all. I must applaud his parents for that. And I’m thankful for what you guys have it’s divine and strong. Blessings thanks for sharing.
To God be the glory amen. Great testimony and I really respect PG much more!!!! May God Almighty continue to bless your marriage and your family in Jesus mighty name !!!! Amen
The conclusion of this video is God's grace and faith....
Am 24yrs old boy, i sometimes still ask myself why i watch your videos but Aunt Tolu, thanks for the mentorship...
Thank you Pastor Gbemiga, your sense of thinking is second to none... Baba with the vibes
Tolu, you look so much like your mom today.
PG I salute you.
*Pause Video*
Aunty Tolulope is so fineeeeeee... Such a flawless beaut! Kaiii, Abba dey create abeggggg...
*Back to the video*
Wow! I love the Adejumos, I was a founding member of Agape Christian Assembly at Oluwatuyi then, my sibblings and I did choreography tire in that church. Lol. They are great people, you are blessed to have them as in laws and vice versa. I am not suprised they could apologise to PG when they realized the truth. Most parents will not, they will just turn it to ogboju.
I totally agree! I celebrate you Ma
Mine was tribe issues and my husband now parents fought him because we are not from the same tribe, Igbo and Yoruba thing, but thank God for him , he knows what he want and he fought for us, he came out to tell me that his parents said he can't marry me too and I was really down and I told him we can prove them wrong, it's wasn't easy but here we are today happily married ❤️
Sis please how can I reach you ?. I’m currently in this situation and I really need wisdom on how to move ahead.
@ADA, WHERE ARE YOU BASED. I CAN SUPPORT YOU THROUGH. 💯
I'm currently in this situation too, pls I really need help/wisdom to pull through....
@@omolaraokunade4092 i don't know how I will reach out to you, but you can message me on my Instagram page too
@@faithonu2655 what's your handle?
This marriage is one that assures me that good marriages still exist 🥰
Tolulope Solutions, you are beginning to look like your mother in law ooo💕
I am currently in this phase since middle of last year..the resistance is coming from dad. I have prayed, fasted and still praying and right now it up to God to do his path and I know with word of the lord it will come to past
Amen
One key lesson for me: as parents, the life you live can affect your children's lives in ways unimaginable. Thankfully you mum is an amazing person, but just imagine if the rumors were true.
May God help us to 'live' a name that would open doors for our children not the reverse.
True. Amen
Oh yes!!!! Oh yes!
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS. MY FAITH HAS BEEN FIRED UP!!
You are both heroes and champions. The man was bold enough to tell you. God granted you wisdom also. These matters is a very tricky one. May God help us
Thanks for sharing this. Showing that situations are not always rossy and it not at every issue you run. Sometimes you face it, if not you might be missing out of something beautiful.
Can we take a moment to acknowledge PG's accent!✨👏
Watching for the second time 🔥🔥. The wisdom here is too much. It's always a time to learn. Is it just me, it's been so long we had PG on the channel.
You are so wise ma! I love listening to you so much!!! I just learn the importance of having that strong relationship with God!! Thank you💕
The way he looks at you❣❣❣❣awwwwww❣❣❣you guys look so cute. God over everything🙏🙏🙏🙏
I watched this twice,I love your calmness, Tolulope is my daughter name too,may God continued to bless your home
You’re so right!!! The will of God that has been revealed to you should always be your anchor in decision making. Loved this!
I just opened RUclips and this is the first video that caught my eye. I'm going through issues of Parents refusal steming from fake prophecies. Thank you Sir and ma. This video is an answered prayer to me.
went through same last year.....hope you are good sis.....finally he went with his mums
I really can relate!! The Test came from family members that we trusted!! But thank God for the conviction we had and the input of prayers!! Thank you for sharing!! I love you Fam!!
This really blessed me. Hearing your story help start a healing process
Thank you the Team solutions for putting this together. God bless you richly.
Thank God you stood your ground. It showed you are truly a man and you truly wants her otherwise, it would have been over. Tolu owns you a lot of gratitude FOREVER for being a man!!!
Mama Solutions, you're amazing. God bless you for being in tune with the spirit.
Oh I have always loved to hear this because during your traditional wedding’ mother’s night’ I heard mummy Funky say ‘at first we didn’t approve of her because of what we heard’ I think you were kneeling in front of her then oh my God! glad you finally shared this. God bless your union to forever. I connect to this in Jesus name 🙏
Yes i remember this part..when mama mentioned it...God indeed has the final say and i am soo grateful for where you guys are now and where he is taking you and your family...eyes have not heard or seen....your home is built on the solid rock....God will never leave or forsake you and your beautiful family...thanks for sharing...very deep...kids to your beautiful children
"Our parents have foresight and experience" No truer words! They see more than we can and it's important to listen to them, as much as it is 'importanter' to pray. Just that evil manipulations come through those counsels of theirs sometimes. Emphasis on "Prayer-cover your relationship/marriage", it's the most important thing.
Thank you Solutions!
Thank you so much! This video is just timely. Cos I've been asking God questions. Let the will of God be done.
Mine came in a different dimension, it was really hot but God was and is still with us..Fast forward, my marriage is more than a month now and it's been bliss..to God be the Glory
Your hubby has hus mums personality to an extent.its nice to see.Your mother -inlaw is Gold a treasure . Her messages has transformed my life soo much .Thanks for sharing.
This message was delivered with so much wisdom. God bless you both and your family.
It looks like this is for me. God, thanks very much for always coming through. Your will be done.
Thanks very much for this video sir and ma.
So much wisdom! Thank you for sharing this Solutions mama and PG
It's the way he looks at her with so much love for me
This video came in at the right time !!!
I am in this phrase with my parents
God bless you for sharing
Minister Solutions this is so timely.... God Bless You
Thanks for sharing. Bless your heart. A lot of marriages failed in my family because proper checks were not done about the families before the marriages , not a lot was known about praying about the union,asking for the will of God to be done and finally waiting to hear specifically from God.
Most of the knowledge I have now is like knowledge or wisdom after the devastating stories/lives. Praying now for the God of restoration to intervene in all the cases.
God bless you and your husband for this video.
Thank you so much Ma for sharing. This is answered prayers for me. God bless you richly!
Only the counsel of the LORD shall stand. Glory!
Being in the will of God is key. Always wonderful to see how much you both love God and trust His direction. God bless you and your family always!
So looking forward to this! Thank you for sharing. 😇❤️
Thank you for sharing. To me this shows that everything that will be built will be tested, but it's important to stay anchored by God.
I relate with this 100%
A piece of my story as well.....
In the end,God is praised and glorified.
Thanks for sharing , your in-laws onced again proved themselves to be good , disciplined, matured , flexible and understanding parents. The story here has only taught how to wisely and Honourably tackle such challenges blc no one will comfortably here certain things and not take action.
It also went to show how matured and good the family of the girl was as they didn't let their emotions out of control.
Thanks So much for this Solutions... This came at the right time 🥺
PG is a whole vibe and more! 🔥🔥🔥
Wow. Thank you for letting us know that you had some challenges before the wedding and the will of God prevailed. Congratulations on the journey so far. More grace to you in Jesus name.
Thanks so much for sharing. This came in season for me. God bless you and continue to keep you both.
Team solution aaah u are a blessing to me .I always get motivated anytime i listen to u
A blessed home indeed.
I feel blessed after seeing this video.
Thank you, ma and sir.🙏🏾
PJ is so amazing! God bless you Tolu
Ma/sir ,thank u for sharing this. It's indeed deep and I have learned alot. God bless u🙏
We here oo 🏃🏾♀️😆😀popcorn is ready 🍿🍿
This video is timely. Thank you for sharing. 💓
PG always bring vibe to this channel . Thank you. The will of God is where my security/peace is
Amen, thank you so much for sharing this, I really got to note alot, may God continue to bless, protect, guide and direct this family greatly, Amen
WOW💃💃💃Thank You, Solutions Mama. I key into this Testimony for My Fiance and I.. Many are they who surround us in Christ Jesus in Jesus Name.. Amen. We are established on Christ, The Solid Rock and Our Home shall be Filled With God's Beauty, Bliss and Peace in Jesus Perfect Name... AMEN AMEN AND AMEN🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Wow never knew your hubby was so funny 😂
He's a lovable person with great sense of humor 😀
I feel like God sent you guys to make this video for my sake. This video has calmed me down. Thank you for listening to God and making this video
Thanks for sharing guys,I really needed dis discussions.. God's will is always the foundation of such issues.
BLESSED! POWERFUL!! LORD LET YOUR WILL BE DONE IN MY LIFE
Gosh,you guys are great today,a joy to watch .Wow,pls keep it up.❤️
The place of God and believing in one another is key.
May we not make costly mistakes in life
The Solutions family
Full of wisdom✌
Top notch content. Thanks for sharing 👏🏽
Ps. PG is hilarious 🤣
This is indeed a blessing, thanks for sharing
The video we have been waiiiiiting fooor.... Osheeey 💃💃💃💃 I remember your Mum and mother in law little conversation during your WOMEN ADVICE celebration day(abi wetin them dey call am) let me get my popcorn and watch 💃💃
I definitely need to watch this, its a phase of my life right now😢😢...
Great video thanks for sharing. Always good to conduct due diligence to aviod stories that touch. Pray we all meets God's plans and purpose for our lives Amen.
But why do people want to ruin other peoples happiness? Why would you fabricate lies about someone just to steal their joy? Thank God for God! At the end of the day what’s meant to be will always be!
Aside lies, telling 'stories' from childhood. A 14/15 year old
Thank you for this Aunty Sols...!! 👏💕
You are the epitomy of what i think of a young beautiful, smart, strong Christian wife is like. I wish to be like you Tolu. I feel very small like by the time I get to be like you ill be old trying. 😕 God help me
Wow! I love this testimony. All glory to God.
Guys... you both literally said my story, chai the rocky waters was so real but just like you said Tolu "God's Will ONLY " tough prayer when in love but necessary for your peace... here we are excatly 4½yrs in Marriage still in God's will and counting. Love you both 😘😘😘
PG is cracking me up🤣🤣been so stressed all week,this is good to watch.African parents always look out for their children when it comes to marriage honestly😁but God’s will prevails.
Love you both, God bless you for this!
That will of God prayer yeah! It's powerful. I'm not married yet but I've seen it work things out for me. And I know it'll work in my life in Jesus' name. Amen.
This was so helpful. I look at both of you and I pray and desire a union tgis beautiful and whole
The efficacy of prayers cannot be overemphazised.
May God continue to bless and uphold your home and may your marital wine never go sour.
Thanks a lot for this because you opened my eyes of understanding .when you said if this marriage is not the will of God let it scatter God’s will is always the best.God bless you mama sols thank you for uploading my regards to baby soso and Tovi Shalom.
Always so good!!! Thank you both 👌❤️
Thanks so much for this, it's so timely 🙇♀️
Thank you for always reaffirming that good marriages exist. You always inspire me
Thanks so much for this, I love you both.
In my case, my parents refused and fought the relationship because he's non-nigerian. It took 3yrs for their minds to change. God made name for himself o. Here we are today, happily married to the glory of God. There's nothing God cannot do.
Wow
Could imagine the battle
Really how where you able to handle all the issues. Can relate because this is me right now
@It's all about nenye, I prayed, I fasted and I spoke to them about it. I made them understand in a polite way that this is what God wants for me. It was difficult because my parents are not born again but I am and my husband is. I spoke to God to touch their hearts and grant me favour in their sight. Although a lot of odds were against us, God showed up. I'll advice you pray in agreement with God's word and then speak to your people. It won't be easy but it's worth waiting on God to take the wheel while you take the back seat. I wish you God's favour and may His will prevail.
What will be will be. Most marriages today had one parent or family say No or have a reservation. At the end of the day, God has the Final say. All Glory to him. May God Bless your marriage 🙏
I caught the vibe from the beginning mehn
Good one
solutions you're looking exactly like your mom..... spitting image of your mom.. please waybill this top to me😅😅😊😊😊 love you loads
No be lie, I thought is her mom
So true😁
Love love love this!!!
See how enemies could have hindered the manifestation of this glorious maariag. Thank God the will of God prevailed.