Episode 99: How To Create Authentic Friendships
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Discover the power of authentic relationships and join us on the brave journey of embracing uncomfortable truths and growing into one's authentic self. Learn how to identify and create new friendships that align with your soul and stand in your truth.
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I miss your episodes. Hope everything is well with all of you.... ❤
12:33 I love Jenna’s comment here. As a heavily masked, late-diagnosed autistic individual, I’m observing everyday how I’ve absorbed others behaviors, interests etc to fit in or seem “neurotypical”. There’s a great line in Devon Price’s book “Unmasking Autism” (HIGHLY recommend!) that says, “We have to keep other people at arm’s length, because letting them see our hyperfixations, meltdowns, obsessions, and outbursts could mean losing their respect. But locking ourselves away means we can’t ever be fully loved”.
It’s scary to be vulnerable enough to let other people see you as you authentically are, but you’ll never have authentic relationships if the other person is learning to love someone who is inauthentic. We’ll never connect with people who know us if we refuse to show ourselves whole and be known.
I went to a tarot event yesterday by myself - none of my current relationships are into that kind of thing. It was a little anxiety provoking, but I met some people with a genuine similar interest. Eye contact was still hard lol but I’m still proud of myself for taking a step towards vulnerability and authenticity!
Where have you gone? Can’t wait for episode 100 xx sending you all love x
As someone who has ADHD I really appreciate the visual component on RUclips to fully absorb the knowledge and wisdom being shared 🙏 I also feel so represented, comfortable and safe connecting with your content as a queer female that struggles so hard with having genuine friendships (100% ppl pleaser 🤬😂) Y'all are helping us all to collectively heal our world 🌍🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🇦🇺
Miss your weekly podcast. It's therapy for me and helps so much each week. Hope there will be more in the future.
Hoping the three of you are all OK, sending love ❤️
This was much needed as I just moved to a new state. I want to make authentic friendships as I’m lonely here trying to make new friends
I terribly miss your episodes. I haven’t seen anything for almost a month now. I so look forward to hearing your podcast every Sunday. I so hope you guys will be returning soon ❤️
I hope episode 100 is on the way shortly? I miss my girls on my drive to work! Have I missed something ?❤
I second this! Im still a little confused as to why they stopped..? 😮 Anyone has more info? 🤞❤️
So glad to find you gorgeous, beautiful ladies on here....Instagram not for me these days, YT feels gentler 😍❤️ I've been in a major health crisis and so healing stalled, now back and able to listen to podcasts....lots to catch up on! Hoping you're all well! Sending LOVE ❤️❤️❤️🏴🏴🏴🏴🏴
HI Dr. Nicole & Jenna, I loved listening to the poscasts, thank-you. i listened to all 99 of your podcasts on the podcast app and am a member of the circle (Junie). I''m really puzzeled that you choose not to say "good bye" in this community. I listened intently a few weeks ago to episode 99 as I saw there had benn no others posted. for anything that would put a wrap to the poscast or let us know you are taking a break. Anyway, you are amazing and I enjoy the circle very much.
Yes I intently listened on Spotify last year, and found the episode incredibly helpful in my journey to self-love and healing. I came on RUclips to see if there was any notice of a return, or why the episodes stopped, but to no avail. I am hoping all is well with the Jenna and Nicole and sending them positive vibes and love ❤
I really appreciate your time and effort to make this videos and can't wait to listen to new episodes
Hi, you can see them on the self healers circle. There is a reasonable monthly fee.
They were doing these without any ADS and they were great. 5:55
What disappointments me however, is they just ended at 99 without letting their podcast community know they had decided to take a break or end. Anyway..hopefully one of them see this.
Sure hope the same thing never happens in the circle.
Love this. You both have helped me change my life. Appreciate you both ❤
This came out 8 days ago, and I'm only listening today. But it's coming precisely at the moment that I'm reflecting on what authentic means in friendships and how to be in authentic connection without intensity. I only know intensity, and I want to know low key. Thank you so much for this. ShineDee ❤
Amazing episode! Thank you so much, also for all the personal examples 😊😊 It’s helpful to hear what things actually look like. Like Nicole saying she doesn’t meet people in the evenings; made me realise this is what is authentic to me as well! I didn’t see it yet, as I was still in the “don’t be difficult” mode. Thanks again!!! ❤️
Love this topic, looking forward to listening. I just watched videos a out Limerance and fearful avoidant attachment style by someone else on youtube, is there deep dives by yall on those two topics? I’m devouring info on these things and toxic shame rn to improve my ability to show up the right way in friendships/relationships.
Such a great listen
I like this topic thank you I think I make the jump really deep.
Love you two! Thank you.
how do you stay connected with yourself today? I have been on this healing journey for a while now, I became aware in the last 2-3 years that I am very disconnected from myself. Mostly in the emotions department. I still tell stories to friends and family that would for some people cause them to show emotions as they may be stories of tough stuff and I am disconnected from the story and so can say it with no emotion.
I’ve had a counsellor tell me it’s like my mind and heart are disconnected. I feel this to be true. I feel this is why I’m stuck or struggling on my healing journey because I’ve told many of my tough stories many times and they still haven’t moved anywhere because the emotions are still stuck.
I hope this makes sense. So how do you feel your way through the tough stuff? How do you connect with yourself and connect with others on a deeper level to release some of emotions you are experiencing?
Could you please make an episode about people who worry too much?
Are there more episodes? Ends at episode 99?
Hi! I love your videos. When you are referring to the 'workbook', which book is this and where can I order it?
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