First step out of depression - Cleaning my room

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  • Опубликовано: 6 янв 2021
  • In this video, I am going to clean up my room. While a chore for many, to me this represents the first step out of depression and signals the beginning of my journey towards self-improvement.
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Комментарии • 202

  • @JakePhillips022
    @JakePhillips022 2 года назад +158

    “It’s not like anyone is going to visit me anyways” that hit hard 🥺

  • @LindseySawyer223
    @LindseySawyer223 3 года назад +105

    You said, " It's not like anyone is going to visit me anyways.".... I would want to be your friend if you lived near me. I have terrible depression too and it's never fun being alone. Thank you for sharing with me ❤ Life is very hard for some of us.

    • @askeladd448
      @askeladd448 2 года назад +21

      No you would not "be friends" with him or "visit him" if you knew him irl. Stop this empty virtue signalling and sympathy

    • @jdf3972
      @jdf3972 2 года назад +12

      @@askeladd448 you could be right but i don't think they're vurtue signalling, in fact I would visit him too so I'm not alone xmas eve

  • @tomwatson7626
    @tomwatson7626 3 года назад +128

    This is big my dude, thanks for sharing. Remember, there are lots of people out there who genuinely care. Please keep uploading your journey. Sweet monitors too

  • @MisisH
    @MisisH 3 года назад +73

    Great step, brother. Happy for you.

  • @jywn
    @jywn 3 года назад +61

    this is a great first step! I'd try using baking soda, scrubbing it in with a toothbrush that I don't need anymore, and let it set in to absorb any odors, I'd give it around 30 minutes before vacuuming. thank you for the motivation, I'm going to try cleaning my room

  • @gucciflipflopsbro
    @gucciflipflopsbro 2 года назад +16

    This video is old now, but I just want to say: I'm proud of you. This is a huge accomplishment. I hope you're doing better and you've been able to keep a clean space, that's super important for your mental health too

  • @Glorakoth
    @Glorakoth 3 года назад +37

    Great job!
    I don't think you'll need to replace the carpet, other cleaning options exist like steam cleaning or a stronger vacuum.

  • @tammy6496
    @tammy6496 2 года назад +18

    I just want to say. Thank you. You have no idea how much this motivated me to shower and clear my bed. I have been feeling so utterly lost and numb, you know how it is. When you said “it did not deliver turbo results”
    I don’t know why but it had me howling. It is the first time I’ve laughed at anything in months.
    It looks amazing!!! So happy you got it done. I know we don’t always have visitors but it’s YOU the space should be nice for ❤️ You really do deserve it

  • @scorpiosin
    @scorpiosin 23 дня назад

    hey brother just want to let you know that me- a random stranger on the internet- is proud that you're still going and making content to better your life.

  • @melly_y3
    @melly_y3 2 года назад +1

    I wish you all the love and strength in the world. 🙏🏼

  • @nyx8927
    @nyx8927 Месяц назад

    So grateful to finally see a realistic one of these. Proud of you for conquering this! I know personally how hard it is. Thank you for the motivation!

  • @kn3390
    @kn3390 15 дней назад

    I love a good cleaning video, but I love to see people overcome their biggest challenges even more...well done! Please continue to take the steps to improve your mental health, no matter how big or small. Wishing you all the best!

  • @Rkitt8
    @Rkitt8 2 года назад +1

    Found you on Reddit…just wanted to say: keep going. Transform yourself. You will be rewarded and you will learn to love yourself.

  • @bleep150
    @bleep150 2 года назад +1

    I know how hard that is. Respect

  • @aquamarinequeen1951
    @aquamarinequeen1951 2 года назад +3

    "it's better late than never" exactly right. I call my depression room a depression hoard. I am so incredibly embarrassed by my habits when I am not in a state of mania. It's like my garbage can doesn't exist and my home turns into a dumpster. Even tho this was a very small mess I understand how hard it is and this video has been the most transparent I've watched. Thank you for sharing and making us all feel stronger in our fight with our illnesses.

  • @yousef7x
    @yousef7x 2 года назад +1

    We are here for you. Keep posting

  • @mylitomutalisk
    @mylitomutalisk 2 года назад

    being clean always gives me the feeling of having more space, which is important for mental health. on a side note, I recommend just buying a carpet cleaning vacuum, or renting one from a home depot. You'd bhe amazed at how much more dirt is in your carpet, i have almost the same exact carpet as you.

  • @jzen1455
    @jzen1455 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this video! It has lit a fire under my ass to FINALLY clean my filthy apartment. There are tons of "depression cleaning" videos of women cleaning, but very few of dudes cleaning.

  • @katetucker1452
    @katetucker1452 2 года назад +4

    As an experiencer of frequent bouts of depression, I just want you to know my heart goes out to you. Thanks for making this. You moved me.

  • @lust4lyfe101
    @lust4lyfe101 Год назад

    Definitely an improvement, 1 thing I recommend is to purchase something that would hide the wires and that will also give u a much clear looks n no worries with tripping on them.

  • @camaulay
    @camaulay 2 года назад +2

    Well done man

  • @awesomemagicstarlovegirl2005
    @awesomemagicstarlovegirl2005 3 года назад +42

    Your room looks great now! You did an amazing job! This is a big step on your journey :D hats off my friend, keep going!♥️

  • @xmzru
    @xmzru 3 года назад +7

    baby steps man, baby steps man, now this is how your setup should be treated, a little bit of wire management and it will look more cleaner!

  • @Peteraugust
    @Peteraugust 2 года назад +1

    We are rooting for you! wohooo

  • @liltich6312
    @liltich6312 2 года назад

    Bet you totally felt the difference with your room! Keep us up to your journey

  • @TheMandyHiggins
    @TheMandyHiggins 2 года назад

    I read the other day that the beat time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, but the next best time is now! Good for you. Hope you’re doing well on your journey.

  • @frankferter6462
    @frankferter6462 2 года назад

    I'm proud of you. It's hard for me to care about myself, but it's nice to see others find care for themselves. Keep it up.

  • @pendlelancashire
    @pendlelancashire 2 года назад

    *I love your calm gentle voice.*

  • @tacticalgunsgaming127
    @tacticalgunsgaming127 2 года назад

    People can appreciate someone exposing themselves and being vulnerable while also demonstrating how the change that concured. Thank you.

  • @PiYodTong
    @PiYodTong 2 года назад +1

    Keep working on yourself man, you can do it! One step at a time!

  • @LardBucket_
    @LardBucket_ 2 года назад

    Hey man, thanks for making this. It may seem very meager and underwhelming, but the fact that you stuck with making this video, from its conception to uploading, is ample evidence that you have what it takes to improve yourself. I'm also depressed - I've thought about making videos like these a lot but my self-hating brain shoots the ideas down somewhere along the process as being not worthwhile or futile, but I can use this video to fight that feeling. Be proud of this man; tackling a long-neglected situation like your room requires strength and you did great.
    Also your hair is awesome.

  • @PaulAirs
    @PaulAirs 2 года назад

    Keep up the self care, it's always one day at a time✌

  • @anitawu
    @anitawu 2 года назад

    Proud of you 👏👏👏

  • @jeremymcfarland4243
    @jeremymcfarland4243 3 года назад +20

    Great job cleaning up your room! I know than a messy environment affects my mood a lot. It can be really peaceful too, like decluttering your space is decluttering your mind. I hope you're feeling relieved in your new and improved room!

  • @Zzzxx2
    @Zzzxx2 3 года назад +9

    Good for you man. I know how tough it can be to do something like clean your room. Baby steps, life isn't perfect but don't forget what being a hikikomori taught you.

  • @weilinberkey2831
    @weilinberkey2831 2 года назад

    I know this is from a year ago but I am so proud of you!

  • @RichMerry
    @RichMerry 3 года назад +17

    Good luck and keep up the work. Make sure you avoid the traps of social media and other time sinks. It’s worth noting the editing on the video and the background music is stellar.

  • @wretchedegg9042
    @wretchedegg9042 3 года назад +5

    Good job dude! Small but important step! Much love.

  • @mandrake3383
    @mandrake3383 3 года назад +14

    You seem like a really cool person! I hope you a lot of success in your journey!

  • @muddabuwshi6510
    @muddabuwshi6510 2 года назад +1

    I'm currently in the process of making this step too and have been watching youtube videos of people cleaning their room for motivation. Being so isolated and alone, i really struggled to keep my life together. This video really motivated me, thank you for sharing!

  • @AarynlynnAbbassi
    @AarynlynnAbbassi 2 года назад

    You did a great job keep it up take it day by day we all have our ups and downs no matter what remember take care of yourself and love yourself first

  • @zey2639
    @zey2639 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing with us, you helped me.

  • @Sarabeth7
    @Sarabeth7 2 года назад +2

    you did such a good job! i just saw you haven´t posted in 8 months... i hope everything is fine. 💕

  • @Oversat_
    @Oversat_ 3 года назад +1

    Some green plants or pictures on the wall can definietly help with mood in my experience. Also sunlight is important.

  • @rebeccaschanlaub2863
    @rebeccaschanlaub2863 Год назад

    This is something to be proud of! Your room looks so much better!

  • @coolkidstatus2554
    @coolkidstatus2554 Год назад +1

    Great job

  • @delwyneffendi8688
    @delwyneffendi8688 3 года назад +15

    Looks great man. Cleaning your room after a while truly hits different

  • @erichimes5042
    @erichimes5042 2 года назад +1

    Honestly mate, good for you. This is a genuinely inspirational video, I hope you make it.

  • @fascinatinglist9654
    @fascinatinglist9654 3 года назад

    Great and wonderful things await you. Keep up the improvement

  • @DanielWillen
    @DanielWillen 2 года назад

    I have the same shit going on, however it's the entire apartment. It's lke a war, so overwhelming. To not clutter the room after you cleaned it you have to start by focusing on a small area to maintain until it becomes 'easy' or habitual.

  • @apollyon9946
    @apollyon9946 3 месяца назад

    Nice video. It's actually super courageous that you could share this picture of your life. Mine is similar and would never want anyone to see my living situation. I put this video on when I'm cleaning sometimes. It helped me greatly to see that I'm not the only one like this. No one is perfect all the time. I have family members that seem put together on the outside but I visit their home and wow it is not as it seem. I hope you are doing well man.

  • @PeaceArt1
    @PeaceArt1 2 года назад +2

    I care and want to see more videos.

  • @Sam_A_Sam
    @Sam_A_Sam Год назад +1

    Nice! Thanks for sharing this. The tricky thing about dust is that it comes back SO fast, right? But at least it will be easier next time because you have less things in the way, and you've done it once, so you'll also be better at doing it.

  • @julieelsen5689
    @julieelsen5689 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your story! Wish you lots of energy 🍀🍀🍀

  • @pamelamarie2607
    @pamelamarie2607 2 года назад

    Great job! Thanks for sharing.

  • @tiedtruth1071
    @tiedtruth1071 Год назад

    I'm so proud of you! Hope you're well. Love an update🖤

  • @spiltglitter7139
    @spiltglitter7139 3 года назад +10

    I'm really happy that you're taking the first step to improve your life! I know that it's hard, but I know you can do it! Good luck and I wish you the best :)

  • @Psychomech5
    @Psychomech5 2 года назад

    Hell yeah!

  • @appleeater2120
    @appleeater2120 2 года назад +1

    Awesome man

  • @Cptkiller2010
    @Cptkiller2010 2 года назад

    Just found this video, hope you're doing better man. I know me, and many others feel similar, this is extremely motivating. Thank you

  • @iAteTheRamen
    @iAteTheRamen 2 года назад +1

    FINALLY a depression cleaning video that isn't from the perspective of a white mother! And it's more relevant to my lifestyle as well, with all the wires and electronics.
    Idk how you are right now, but I hope you're well, and thank you for sharing this bit of your self-improvement journey!

  • @user-vv1vt7zi7g
    @user-vv1vt7zi7g 3 года назад +10

    That was satisfying, wish you luck on your journey!

  • @n.ff.
    @n.ff. 2 года назад

    Bravo 👏🏻 I wish you nothing but happiness and good mental health. I hope you’re doing much better, and I hope to see an update.

  • @StickyBumLove
    @StickyBumLove 2 года назад +1

    Good shit man

  • @joycenothing7852
    @joycenothing7852 2 года назад +1

    hope youre doing good dude! wishing you the best

  • @takeaim420
    @takeaim420 2 года назад

    Watched this while taking a break from cleaning my own neck beard nest. Thanks for posting this, homie. Good vibes to you!

  • @grazie-dc6we
    @grazie-dc6we 2 года назад

    Big first step my dude. Well done. On to more good stuff in 2022

  • @12Tecpatl
    @12Tecpatl Год назад +1

    Great job dude, hope you are doing good

  • @bagelluvr6062
    @bagelluvr6062 3 года назад +3

    This is truly inspirational, thank you.

  • @backgroundmusik
    @backgroundmusik 2 года назад

    I hope you are doing well. You have our support.

  • @pendlelancashire
    @pendlelancashire 2 года назад

    *Very beneficial therapeutic video.*

  • @anastasia7966_
    @anastasia7966_ 2 года назад

    This is the motivation I needed to clean my room!! You did awesome. This is great.

  • @viveleqc360
    @viveleqc360 2 года назад

    YOU GOT THIS

  • @Den-rt7rm
    @Den-rt7rm 3 года назад +5

    Good job! Keep it up man we are watching your progress!

  • @squidtree8900
    @squidtree8900 2 года назад

    This was beautiful. Thanks

  • @boy_porige
    @boy_porige 3 года назад +4

    So proud of you my guy, good to see you taking steps in the right direction!

  • @zarifeseymaozdemir4450
    @zarifeseymaozdemir4450 Год назад

    Bravo👏🏻

  • @Mist261
    @Mist261 2 года назад

    Great job dude! Trust me you can escape it, time doesn't heal everything but it sure as hell helps sometimes. In my case I just had to ride it out over 3 years and eventually just naturally dropped off my SSRIs.

  • @soleilcruz9995
    @soleilcruz9995 2 года назад

    "It did not give me a turbo result..."
    Made me do a "Hah!" lol
    Also for future reference, Dyson for vacuums, a bit expensive but great investment and definitely gets all the hair off the carpet, I have the V11 Torque and it really does help especially when I'm shedding hair like crazy because stress and compulsive hair strand pulling and picking.

  • @djtx14
    @djtx14 2 года назад

    I'm here for the journey my guy, we're pulling for ya and want to see you pull this off. I've been there and I bet many others have been too. Keep this shit up, keep kicking ass.

  • @cyclopeluigi4922
    @cyclopeluigi4922 2 года назад

    Thank you for these videos, they help a lot. You are doing great taking this step !!

  • @ryanofottawa
    @ryanofottawa 2 года назад

    Huge move man. Very inspiring. Wishing you all the best.

  • @Zeonlover
    @Zeonlover 3 года назад

    Good luck and great to see you taking a good first step. I hope that things will go well for you. I'll be cheering for you.

  • @shuffle5080
    @shuffle5080 2 года назад

    Good work friend. I suffer with depression too.

  • @hungryyumyum3813
    @hungryyumyum3813 3 года назад

    Great job! I know how satisfying the results of cleaning a mess that has been there for ages.

  • @tiffanyspates2872
    @tiffanyspates2872 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing this you did a good job

  • @cgrace06
    @cgrace06 3 года назад

    Awesome step forward. The room looks wonderful and by the end of the video you looked a lot brighter too. I wish you the best on the next next of your journey

  • @drbukowski9490
    @drbukowski9490 2 года назад

    Hope you’re doing good, my man. Keep on keepin’ on.

  • @UniverseOfAtoms
    @UniverseOfAtoms 2 года назад

    You go, my friend! Wishing you the best ♥️ Also, you're pretty funny! And it says a lot about your personality that you can maintain a good sense of humor even during a difficult time in your life. Stay well!

  • @pingu1252
    @pingu1252 2 года назад +1

    I know I'm a bit late, but I just want to say that I'm so proud of you for doing this. I know how hard it is to clean when your space has gotten to this state, and the fact that you managed to do this is amazing. keep up the good work!

  • @victoriaalfred-levow8807
    @victoriaalfred-levow8807 2 года назад

    good work here! even if it got dusty and trashy again since this video, this proves you can clean up and accomplish your goals. thank you for the inspiration. and good luck with whatever you're up to now.

  • @bug688
    @bug688 Год назад

    Omg this is so cool. I stumbled onto this somehow and it really feels like I am the only one watching your journey. So cool

  • @staceylee9688
    @staceylee9688 2 года назад

    Thank you for making this video. I have the same struggle. I still backslide a lot and find myself in a home filled with clutter, dust trash and dirty dishes piling up, but I try to push myself do small things more often to not let it take over as often. It’s very easy to feel shame and stress when things get out of hand, but that’s the depression talking. Ultimately having the strength for gestures like cleaning off your desk, or doing dishes means you’re fighting it. Keep going and good luck!

  • @terribrantley9875
    @terribrantley9875 2 года назад

    This is a great job! Wishing you all good things!

  • @SainiTaveras
    @SainiTaveras 2 года назад

    Yess I'm all for this. I need to do this tomorrow and I'll film it too but I've been procrastinating for the longest time. Also when I only share happy moments it seems hard to let people see another side of you, so thank you for being open and brave, it does help others too. I'm prouddd!

  • @jeanmarshall0017
    @jeanmarshall0017 2 года назад

    Keep going. You got this!

  • @philippam7844
    @philippam7844 2 года назад

    you’re amazing that you’ve even making that first step to change, more power to you. God bless you, you’re very loved by Him than you even realise

  • @Tangentbordsblues
    @Tangentbordsblues 3 года назад

    It is such an improvement! Wow!

  • @hellstarremina3693
    @hellstarremina3693 2 года назад

    Great job on cleaning everything up, this inspired me to do the same and I know inspired many others. I know it's an incredibly difficult to even be able to get started when you've lived like that for so long, you did such a great job.

  • @sarahcecilia152
    @sarahcecilia152 2 года назад

    You did an amazing job!!!