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Name buddy👋 much love and respect Mama Bat 🦇🖤🦇🖤 appreciate the update 👍 keep your chin up
Sending you ALL the good vibes for your next labor! So happy to hear Severine is developing wonderfully after all the worries for her. You are our Real Addams Family, So much love to you all! You should do some family photo Halloween cards like boring people do for Christmas. :D
Congratulations! I'm a boy mom. Both my boys are adults, and my oldest gave me a grandson 4 years ago. From my understanding, boys are easier, yet harder to find cute clothes for.
im sorry for you you had to go to/through this.
For the love of all that is dark and unholy, PLEASE show us gothic baby clothes hauls!! Gothic baby clothes and toddler clothes are so freaking CUTE!
she did that already
She did a haul a while back :)
🎉that would be great Yess
@@ghoultoothanother one as I'm now half way too
Srsly and the nursery
I think having babies in general can be quite an experience. Mine was exciting, glad to hear your babeh came out safe and sound and happy :)
Montrose is a beautiful name -- I had the hardest time trying to think of names for if I had a son, but I did end up having a daughter (her name is Lillia.) When I was pregnant with her, it took a long time to show any sign of going into labor. They told me repeatedly that if I did not start by ~40 weeks, I would be induced. The prospect made me so anxious that I must have willed myself to go into labor, because it happened the morning before I was scheduled. 😅 Woke up with contractions at 5:30 am, and arrived at the hospital at 8:30 at 8cm already. I had time to labor in the room's bathtub, but very suddenly knew that if i stayed in there, that was where the baby would be born -- so I ended up walking across the room and giving birth dripping wet and naked much to the surprise of the medical students I signed off on allowing to watch the birth for educational purposes. 😅 My daughter was born at 10:30am with no issues (though she was also face-up). She was also much smaller than they had predicted. I was very lucky. I am always amazed to hear other peoples' stories.
Lillia is a beautiful name! ❤
I have had 5 kids. All of them naturally, I absolutely refuse to ever have an epidural! Labor is my favorite part of being pregnant. I get to basically show off how easy it is. I don't make any noise during labor and always stay in control. My 4 boys were all born in a bed, my last labor was in water (2020 and I was sad the family couldn't be there) and I had a girl. I never find out gender before birth with any of my kids. Labor is not a horror and it saddens me when others act like it is traumatic. (My first baby was born when I was 18, doctor induced because he had vacation plans. I was on a pitocin drip, needed an episiotomy, and still never screamed or broke any hands.) My biggest baby was my 4th son and he was 8 pounds 9 ounces. Movies and shows give an unrealistic expectation that is is a scary and painful event. All about your mindset!
@@chrystalteal4171 I don't understand why you're 'saddened' when some women say labor is a horror or traumatic??
It is, for many.
Just because it's not for you & you enjoy showing off how easy it is (your words), please try to examine how ignorant & arrogant it sounds to dismiss the experiences of those who have a tough time during childbirth. All the best 🖤
@@chrystalteal4171pain during birth and labor complications is not just about mindset??? Just because it's easy for you doesn't mean everyone else is doing something wrong or being dramatic
@@chrystalteal4171pain during birth and labor complications is not just about mindset??? Just because it's easy for you doesn't mean everyone else is doing something wrong or being dramatic
Oh love, when you said about the anxiety and epidural being a no-go I felt that! My first baby I worked in the surgery unit as a desk clerk and they had to wheel me down to women's in absolute tears because I was freaking out because I was trying to do all these charts and keep track who was going to what cubicle because it was a super busy day with people having surgeries and I couldn't keep track of my contractions and people coming out of the OR. So by the time I got to women's and they finally got an accurate blood pressure (I kept contracting while they were getting the blood pressure) and decided to keep me, I was just done. So I get to my room, my husband is there, I'm so emotionally spent I'm like sure yeah epidural sounds great - except again terrified of needles. I'm 4 ft 11.5 in, and at this point was 48 inches around, so not only can I not touch the floor with the bed the whole way down, I don't have much in the way of positioning myself, and the anesthesiologist who was doing the epidural was maybe 2 inches taller than me and across the bed to do the epidural. He's getting frustrated cause I can't get my back into the position he needs, I'm now freaking out, my husband offered to pull me back across the bed closer, but the anesthesiologist was like no. This is now a 30 minute process, and he ended up having to open a 2nd epidural kit and he finally told my husband yea pull her back towards him (the anesthesiologist). Night went well, got woken up at 5am so they could break my water (I now know what a stuffed turkey feels like at Thanksgiving), and then spent 3 hours from 10am to 1:13pm actively pushing. Because of the epidural I couldn't feel my contractions, so my sister would look at the monitor and tell me when to push. I went from cute polite little human to intense I will beat the snot out of you for looking at me human. Told my husband to shut up, and then my sister got quiet because she thought she should also not talk and I yelled at her to tell me when to push. Nurses put a bar up and gave me a sheet to pull on with my feet up on the bar, husband said I had the sheet so taut he was waiting for it to shred and every vein on my arms looked like I was roid raging. Get all the way to the end, baby is finally on his way out, delivery doctor (who literally is only there to catch at the end) shows up, tells me 3 more pushes, everyone in the room repeats that, and then he goes that's not what I said and everyone else in the room turns on him and is like yeah, you DID. Then he decided he wants the midwife to play catcher and tells ME to WAIT and I just bellow IM NOT WAITING!!! My sister said he gave him a look that said either you catch or I do and the murder you. Deliver Rowan, they put him on my chest, but I can't enjoy him because now they're touching me down below, I had a 2nd degree tear and I'm fighting them as they are trying to examine the damage. They had to knock my ass out to sew me up! It was well worth it in the end. As super round as I was, Rowan was only a tiny 6 lb 13 oz creature, he's 4 now. We are having another in October and I'm hoping the universe will be kind and make this next one an easier labor process 😂. Enjoy your babies, they grow soooo fast and become sassy preschoolers. I'm sorry you guys have had a rough go with travel and housing, but hopefully one day they can be memories that you can chuckle at. Glad to see you are well now! ❤
The babies screaming « OMG, Existence! » made me laugh because it’s so relatable
My daughter and I had a stressful labor, I was induced bc she had bad kidneys and a hole in her heart. Had an episiotomy - FUN. She ended up being absolutely fine and healthy with organs on par with proper development.
About 14 months later, my son came out naturally with 9 hours of walking, a nap and 2 pushes.
Birthing stories are the best!!!!
Even though I've never heard of Montrose and it's very unique, it also seems like a very 'normal' name for some reason, and I think that's cool
To be honest (speaking from experience) you wouldn't have felt the needle going in from the epidural as the contraction pain is so intense it acts like a natural numbing agent 😂 If you ever have more children, and end up in this sort of pain again, consider the epidural honestly it just helps SO much and this is speaking from a panic disorder sufferer myself.
Next time I am having ALL the drugs or getting it cut out. Not going through this again! 😝
This is pretty similar to how my first labor went. 24 hours later and we had to do an emergency c-section. I told my husband never again. And when I got pregnant again, I said "c-section please." Gods it was awful 🤣🤣
getting a human out of your body is METAL.
i'm just glad that you and your baby are okay
You are a Queen! Congratulations on your baby! I never had children-was the oldest child and always helped with the siblings so I think that’s why it never interested me. Montrose is a great name and here in America it brings to mind the great rock group of the same name of the 1970s founded by guitarist Ronnie Montrose and fronted by Sammy Hagar. It’s a very cool name!
Your story sends shivers down my spine.😭 I want kids in the future, but darn this was scary.
Montrose is where my late mother was born . I think it's a beautiful name. X
I had inductions with both of my kids, too. The second was longer and harder than the first, despite the midwives assuring me it would quicker!
I was told the exact same with my son that I'd have a massive baby and when he was born he was 7lbs 13.5oz
I am proud of myself for keeping my dog alive and you are keeping two babies alive!!!
Sometimes children come out differently when they enter a new dimension via the "lady part". I personally didn't start looking pregnant til I was 5 months pregnant. Because of this my son's father actually stopped being apart of our lives and told his friends and family I wasn't pregnant. To this day his father has had no desire to be in our lives despite the positive pregnancy and DNA tests.
Beautiful name!! Goes so well with Severines name. And Monty is super cute. I also had a horrible birth myself. My baby is a month old today. I had been induced just because he measured big. No other health reasons. Hes my first baby and my induction failed after days in labor. He was fine but i ended up with a csection. Which i really didnt want. I didnt want an induction either. I was really pressured into it and wish i had said no. I want a normal birth experience someday too. My baby ended up a bit bigger at 9 lbs, he had a very big head too so maybe it would have ended in csection either way. Idk.
My mom gave birth to all of us naturally, I hope I can do the same I'm gonna start my family soon. Congratulations on you're new baby boy. 🎉
I'm glad you and your baby is ok and love the name🖤🖤
I usually hate "unique" names but Montrose is actually a good name, and Monty is an easy nickname for both a child and a grown adult.
I hate normal names and Montrose is her choice don't try and change it to an ugly name it's not your child
Montrose is giving me proper vampire vibes 🧛🏻♀️ LOVE IT!
Totally!
Well he is super pale and looks eerily dead (silent, still) while sleeping ⚰🦇
@@itisblackfriday I used to put a mirror by my daughter's head whilst she slept because she slept so soundly it was as if she were dead. She wasn't and has grown to be such a lovely young lady. From 2.5 pounds at birth (our little Kilo) Yes, we were going to name her that but our parents threw an unholy fit so she became Katie instead : / Too normal, eh? Well, all's well that ends well. So happy for you and your beautiful children. LOVE Montrose, what an unusual but awesome name LOVE IT! My son is Zaknefein. Calling him Zak. We did it! Be well , my lovely girl and hugs and love from Florida USA
More like a bouquet of roses but nope xD
Loved when you called the other laboring woman a "fellow inmate"haha, I'm glad you and the baby are both doing well :) congrats
People are going to feel sorry for her children.
I would feel lucky if I had her as my mother, she seems like a genuine and loving person to me.
@@bobs1356aw yes. So sorry for having a loving devoted mother. So sad
@@CeeGeeFursuits Those kids are going ti be picked on I school when they see their mother. People find it hard to understand that some people lead a goth life, which is nothing wrong but the kids suffer from strangers.
I'm childfree, but I like hearing birthing stories from people who want babies. I think if you want kids, you should absolutely do it. You seem like a genuinely good person, and I'm not only pleased that you are living your life the way you want, but also that some new people in the world are being raised by such good parents. :)
Childless
@@RebeccaRoxannaRoot childfree.
@@enoumoh2039 implying children are a burden.
@@RebeccaRoxannaRoot implying they intentionally have no children. And children are a burden. Everybody is.
@@RebeccaRoxannaRoot childless is used for people who want kids but currently don't have them, childfree means someone doesn't have them because they don't want to.
Giving birth is horrible and it doesn't make it any better when you know your child has kidney problems.
No indeed, any sort of health problems add another huge layer of stress 😕
@@itisblackfriday my daughter got diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes and it changed everything. But I'm just happy she's healthy again.
Congratulations on your new blessing! I love the name you chose. I have one birth twice and both were crazy. My daughter came early, and was rushed another hospital while I was in ICU for pneumonia. I didn’t even know I was pregnant with my son, and he was almost born at a renaissance festival.
I’m 32 weeks and just found out he has achondroplasia…….he’ll be a little person, probably with a huge personality, as is the norm in my family……..
@@vvitch-mist20 Same my daughter has type 1 diabetes too, found out the hard way she got really sick with what i thought was covid, she’s okay now but it’s definitely stressful!
In my lifetime I've heard 2 non-horror birthing stories. One was lucky, the other was a natural water birth. Congratulations for surviving, Queen! 🖤
I had a pre-planned c-section due to my health conditions and it went great! (Recovery was horrific though...) I would say out of my friends and family it's been quite split between horror stories and chill planned c-sections. I guess I know a lot of other people with health conditions which might be why the latter is so high. I do know a couple of people who've had the nice water birth experience but it's definitely the minority.
I have a non horror birthing story. I was induced at 9pm Friday night, woke up at 4am Saturday morning and at 7.13am my son was on my chest. Barely painful and easy.
@@Sophie_Cleverly this counts as a horror story if you're recovery was terrible, sorry.
That's probably because people only really talk about the horror stories more. Most births go just fine - otherwise we wouldn't have survived as a species.
It's definitely not discussed enough how horrifying birth is, even with modern medicine. Majority of births do not go according to plan, And many end up having severe complications that without Western medicine would lead to death or physical trauma to to the child and/or the mother.
If you had a non-horrifying we'll planned birth experience, you are in fact the minority, not the majority.
Love the name, and shortened to Monty sounds awesome too! I never had babies, not interested but really enjoy hearing other women talk about their experiences, glad he managed to get out ok in the end!
😅 I was induced AND had a c-section AND had gestational diabetes. And my HUGE baby weighed a whopping, massive--6 pounds. Yup. She was borderline premie.
Do NOT get pregnant again until you had your whole body checked. All this takes a huge toll on your organs.
Love the name! Congrata!
my name is Montgomery so i'm always happy to hear of more Monty's in the world! congratulations, lovely - so glad you, Montrose, Severine and Mr. Owl are healthy and happy! hope to see you back in Scotland sometime!
Is your last name Montgomery? My last name is Montgomery too! 😊
@@merylmontgomery9932 my first name is Montgomery! 🖤
My brother-in-law and sis-in-law just had a boy they named Montana- and everyone calls him Monty 🥰
Oh detail I forgot to mention, had waters manually broken and it felt like my pelvis shattered 😅
I just can’t believe how incredibly hardcore you are, these stories are absolutely brutal, and you’re just sitting there, somehow still alive and not traumatised into absolute mutism. You are the strongest woman I have ever heard of, I think you and your family are absolutely wonderful and I wish nothing but sunshine and puppies and rainbows and happiness for you!
I just had my first child, my daughter Marilyn. They induced me as well and holy hell the pain. They eventually had to do an emergency cesarean due to her heart deceleration. She's 2 and a half months old now and thriving!
What a beautiful name!😍❤ I was born with an emergency C-section for the same reason.
I'm a type 1 diabetic so my pregnancies are wild as well. Women like us died during labour; modern medicine is nothing short of a miracle. I'm so proud of you, Sweet Girl!!!!!
I want to be a mom when it’s the right time but I am TERRIFIED of the pain and intensity of pregnancy and labor
Congratulations, mama. You are indeed a warrior for going through all of that. Beautiful name chosen, so happy for you and your family!
Congratulations on the new baby bat!! 🦇 Montrose is such a lovely name, I was so excited to see what you would name him after how perfect Severine’s name was, and I was not disappointed! Hope to see you in Scotland again soon!
All the pain was worth a happy, healthy baby! Congratulations to you and Mr. Owl!
What do they mean by it's too late for a c-section? What if you needed an emergency c-section? That makes no sense. I'm glad you and the baby are doing well.
I was JUST wondering when we would hear your birth story!! Montrose is a very handsome name 🎉
Good lord, every time I hear about birth stories I’m horrified. You’re amazing for living through all that, and congratulations on Montrose!
I have had 5 kids. All of them naturally, I absolutely refuse to ever have an epidural! Labor is my favorite part of being pregnant. I get to basically show off how easy it is. I don't make any noise during labor and always stay in control. My 4 boys were all born in a bed, my last labor was in water (2020 and I was sad the family couldn't be there) and I had a girl. I never find out gender before birth with any of my kids. Labor is not a horror and it saddens me when others act like it is traumatic. (My first baby was born when I was 18, doctor induced because he had vacation plans. I was on a pitocin drip, needed an episiotomy, and still never screamed or broke any hands.) Movies and shows give an unrealistic expectation that is is a scary and painful event. All about your mindset!
I am convinced that birth is almost always a nightmare and they just conspire to never let us know about it because no woman would get pregnant if they knew what was coming.
OMG. I was on a RUclips hiatus and I came back and just now learned that Black Friday is a mama of two! I’m absolutely late! How exciting!!
My 3rd baby was sunny side up and I PUSHED SO HARD after about 5 tries lol I was NOT going to get cut open
I ended up having 4! Even after my terrible first.. second perfect..3rd we both almost died and 4th another perfect! I’m 53 now and old as fook but would have carried on having them if I could have! Congratulations on your little Montrose. Many think us Goths don’t like children and are always surprised. Only thing I hated (in the 80’s/90’s) was I was like the ward freak show and people just popping in to look at me. So glad to see you ‘young uns’ taking up the glorious mantle and making future batlings. Out if 4 I only got 1 who loves my music 😢. I got 2 drum n base fans (SCREAM) one Beyoncé (my gay boy who I love!) and my dearest only girl who loves goth, scream and everything in between!! 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Your family sounds wonderful.
Hell yeah dnb!!
Sorry to hear you had another rough birth experience. I was induced for both of mine and just like you, refused epidural. They failed to get a drip in me so why would I trust them near my spine?! Although I never got the natural labour to compare it with I am sure it's far more brutal than it needs to be. I actually set my 2nd one up though cos my 1st was overdue and 9lb 11 - they said at all my appointments she was going to be tiny! Probably only because I was 17 - so I 'arranged' for my 2nd to be a couple of weeks early to avoid her getting too big (she was 8lb 5.5 so good call?). No forceps, no ventouse... but I did get retained membranes which led to a vet-shoulder-deep-in-a-cow scenario that still brings tears to the eyes almost a quarter century later.
Best wishes to you all xxx
I witnessed my nephew get stuck once his head was out… He was turning blue. I was absolutely traumatized and never want to attend another birth again 🥲
The fact that you're even considered more children, given your birth experiences to date, is both impressive and sort of nuts.
I almost died my third pregnancy, but still tried for a fourth. Sometimes the will to have children is stronger than the memory of the blood and pain. It’s actually almost beautiful.. so much for intensity to bring a child into the world!
Dumb not nuts, will for more children or possibility of death even in this day and age and leave your kids without a parent. It's irresponsible just because someone wants another one
The level of pain from hormone induction is 100x more painful than non-assisted labour. I got to 10cm with my second on my own, and it was so much nicer, but as soon as you add oxytocin etc = extreme unbearable pain
Hello.. I'm happy you're all doing great!
Love his name!
I hope you didn't get hemorrhoids from all the pushing. Yikes.
You are awesome! I’m and obgyn and mother and yes, what you say is all true, but mothers never cease to amaze me. Trying to get pregnant again right now :)
❤ Thank you for your work as an obgyn! Y'all are amazing 🫶👏
So you fuckin
I have had 5 kids. All of them naturally, I absolutely refuse to ever have an epidural! Labor is my favorite part of being pregnant. I get to basically show off how easy it is. I don't make any noise during labor and always stay in control. My 4 boys were all born in a bed, my last labor was in water (2020 and I was sad the family couldn't be there) and I had a girl. I never find out gender before birth with any of my kids. Labor is not a horror and it saddens me when others act like it is traumatic. (My first baby was born when I was 18, doctor induced because he had vacation plans. I was on a pitocin drip, needed an episiotomy, and still never screamed or broke any hands.) Movies and shows give an unrealistic expectation that is is a scary and painful event. All about your mindset!
@@chrystalteal4171 that's nice for you, but I was in the worst agony of my life and couldn't hold in my screams if I tried. every body is different, your labours being bearable doesn't mean that every other woman is just weak or exaggerating.
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you all. My first baby was ventouse, then forceps with Episiotomy. I really feel for you. My second baby was elective cesarean as there was no way I could face that again.
We met briefly at Whitby, where I drunkenly chatted (fangirled )with you for a bit then my hubby laughed at me for the rest of the night.
Take care of yourself, fantastic name choice xx
First off CONGRATULATIONS!! I really do love his name. It's unique and a little gothic.
My birth story was similar to yours, except I am actually fully diabetic. I didn't not have the epidural because of my panic as well, but I'm not afraid of needles, I was afraid I wouldn't be able to get out of bed. I got induced because my daughter had hydronephrosis. Which is liquid in her kidney that shouldn't be there. At 39 weeks I went in. For hours I was like, this is nothing. Then they broke my water. HOLY FUCK. It went from 20 to 180 as the pain scale. I was begging for that needle, but it was to late. I gave birth to a healthy little girl a few hours later. They put her in my arms and I only got a few minutes with her before I started to feel like shit. The doctor called for help and a moment later five nurses were rushing in and out getting things the doctor ordered as needed. Then they started pushing on my stomach to get me to stop bleeding. I am not a violent person, but I bruised the arm of the nurse who was doing it to me because she didn't warn me she was going to do it and she didn't tell me why she was doing it. I almost punched her, the doctor spared her from it when she finally explained that I was bleeding to much. They took the baby and ushered my husband out of the room. More monitors were strapped to me, I spiked a fever. I got oxygen. I was given more vials of medicine through my IV in my hand than I could count. My blood pressure was stroke level. One of the vials they gave me was pain medicine and it made me violently ill. So I was vomiting and bleeding everywhere. It took about an hour and a half for them to stitch me up and get me to stop bleeding. Eventually they got everything under control and then the shivers started. They tossed a headed blanket, turned off all the lights, closed the curtains and let me calm the fuck down. I was vaguely aware when my husband came back and he told me the baby was alright as he ran his fingers through my hair to help me calm down. Six hours and a private room later I got to hold my daughter again and oh boy did I cry.
I'm glad both of you are ok. Congrats on the new member of the family ☺️. I have been following your content for some time and it really makes me happy see all of this and that you share this little bit of your life with us, like I seriously take your word from time to time and it has helped me so much.
So I'm a physician, so to say about the difference between what they saw in the scans and when your baby was born, sadly it's somewhat common that it can happen, we can see a very big baby in the scans and on the time of birth get a pretty average percentile baby or in some cases we can see a normal baby in the scans and on the time of birth have to change gears quickly because that baby is so big not even a episiotomy will help.
Sadly it can be many factors that can affect the measurements, the principal one is that an ultrasound is a study that's operator dependent, meaning that according to the knowledge and schooling of the technician or radiologist it can vary. Also if the machine it's old or hasn't had a good maintenance it can affect the results.
You also had gestational diabetes, that by it self is a factor that can lead to a big baby, adding that you had a hard time getting your glucose on control even when following all of your doctor's orders. So I think this what made them say " ok, the scans say there is a big baby, the mom has GDM, she is going to have a big baby there is no doubt", but what has me little miffed is that knowing and everything"pointing" to a big baby why in the name of Hades they didn't plan accordingly, like it's marvelous that your baby was smaller and you had a "optimal" delivery, but like you had to suffer so much, making me almost sure that even with the epidural you would have still been in pain and suffering for more de 90 minutes the "I can't do this moment".
If you decide to have more baby's I hope that you have a better experience, with both momma and baby being healthy and safe.
Sending a huge hug from Mexico.
Okay I know this is old and I’m not going to share my birth stories. I hesitate to tell people since mine just basically walked out (there are four of them and yeah….all were stupidly easy and I’ve been given dirty looks by multiple moms when I share my birth stories). But I did want to mention how much I love your baby’s name! Makes me sad I won’t be able to use a newly discovered family name …Atlas. I had a great grandfather named Atlas and I’m so mad I didn’t know about him sooner. But hey, maybe you could use the name down the line if you like it. Glad you’re well, Toots!
I cannot imagine what you went through to bring your beautiful children into the world. I had two no fuss, no medication, natural births and I am extremely grateful!!!! Love the names of both your daughter and son. Congratulations to you and Mr. Owl. 🦇🦇🖤🖤
I was induced 2 also. I can attest it is HORRIBLE!!!! UNTIL you see your baby! ❤
I’m so happy for you and Mr. Owl! I’m thrilled that you and baby Monty are healthy. I’m expecting a new wee one in October, myself!
My son is big man and 19 years old. He got job. When he older he ready to move out. Not now, he still live with me. 👍😊😘🤟🏾🖤📱
I have no children, but I'm always happy to hear someone being honest about their experience. It seems like it'd hurt. And clearly it DID hurt in your case! Congratulations though and I love his name 🦇
Great storytime girly 😷💕💚💊💉 thanks for tge, UPDATE....!!!
I just found your channel and I love it! Thank you for sharing your birth story. My beebs are all grown now, but they all have their own war story. I will say, with the third, I somehow was able to have a powerful and wonderful experience, even if it was HORRIBLE pain, but my two girls were absolute war stories.
I love this lady. She never fails to have wonderful uploads, and perfect content for a goth girl who doesn't leave her house. AKA Me.
Hahaha "fellow inmate" 😂😂
Oh and by the way, you are a frekkin boss!
Montrose he sounds like a gentleman already lol absolutely love the name! I am wickedly happy for you and Mr Owl!!!!
Birth is HORRIBLE! 😅 When i had my son 14 years ago, i used 76 hours and then they deside to do a c section. When my almost 11 year old daughter came i HAD to have a planned c section. No way i would do that again. Btw did i mention i feelt EVERYTHING from the first c section? They had to put me down haha 😆 i screamed. The epidural like stuff thing was stuffed with dryed blood.
Me and my fiance are trying to have at least one baby. I had a miscarriage a few years ago and it broke my heart... but we're still trying! 😂
Your story telling skills are just awesome. No details left behind. Severine and Montrose sound like a cool duo ❤❤❤
Daily folic acid & take your temperature daily to work out exactly when you ovulate. That's what worked for me
Also, raspberry leaf tea is great for the uterus. I have a friend who tried for 12 years, with a few miscarriages, who had a successful pregnancy after adding raspberry leaf tea to her daily routine. I drank the tea during my pregnancies as well. Good luck.
What a lovely name for him! Thank you for sharing your birthing story! I’m terrified of having children, but I’m getting older every day lol I suppose I should also create tiny humans soon.
I love his name! I had my first at 18 and I also had gestational diabetes but I had a normal unmedicated birth since I was only in labor for 4 hours😅I drank lots of red raspberry leaf tea near the end of my pregnancy and ate dates. They say those help with dilating quicker idk if it's true or I just got lucky.
Congrats guys , we love you so much. Montrose is a beautiful name.. may have to steal it for my boy !! Don't want to upset you though lol. But YES honey, GET THE FUCKIN EPIDURAL!! the needle it just a quick prick, then it's OVER! And you never see the needle.or anything, then it's just a tiny tube on your back and u don't even feel it! The amount of relief is BEAUTIFUL!! Like I cried when I realized I was numb. The nurse looked at me terrified and was like... do you feel this one...? Because it was a really big one, and I just just started crying and I was like no I don't 😭😭😭 then my husband gave a huge sigh of relief and then my body finished dialating in 30 mins, then pushed for 22 and my girl was here! It just makes it so You can relax and breathe and lay there and your body does the rest honey. Then all you worry about is pushing, but the contractions are gone. I highly fuckin recommend.
I’ve been telling Mr. Owl that Monty should be the boy’s nickname! Thank you for agreeing! 😂 Mazal Tov to you and yours 🖤
Congratulations, he is SO sweet. You and Mr. Owl have such beautiful babies!
I always wondered if you got inspiration for naming your wee girl from The Mission song Severina? 🦇🖤
As a diabetic I know exactly how it felt being pregnant and diabetic. I had to test my blood sugar 7 times a day and had to inject insulin 4 times a day. I was also induced with my daughter (whom you have met with me, she still talks about it lol). I was told she would be 8-8 and a half pounds but she was only 7 pounds 5 ounces. My girl was spine against mine for the first hour and it was horrible, I couldn't even think to ask for pain relief so I did it all without pain relief. She came out with her hand on her head as well so it was a rather nasty tear that took them awhile to stitch up. They told me the next time they were shocked I wasn't taken to the or because I was close to needing a blood transfusion and meanwhile I was just laying there smiling at my daughter, none the wiser lol. I adore the name and the reason behind it. My kids names have meaning behind them as well which makes me love their names even more.
That weird "I have kids" feeling does eventually go away... Until they hit specific birthdays and then your brain WTFs out 😂
Your baby names are just amazing and so unique ❤❤
You are such a champion for going through 2 hard labors! Montrose is an absolutely perfect and unique name! I love both your children’s names so much! Wish you a speedy post pregnancy recovery!
I was induced because I was late. Unfortunately I ended up with one long continuous contraction for 12 hours with no breaks & all my contractions were through the back & sciatic nerve rather than across the tummy. Thank God for epidurals. I ended up caesarean
I’m a mom of 3, and I had bad gestational diabetes during my third pregnancy and had to do insulin injections as well. But I ended up having 3 c sections. Love the name!!
Oh my goodness! That sounded horrible!!! I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. You're more of a trooper than I would be!
I'm kind of torn with wanting children. In a way I wish I did have one, but when I really think hard about it, I'm glad I don't. I have too many spinal injuries and can't stop certain meds that would surely hurt the baby. Plus, how you feel about getting spinal injections is how I feel about ANYTHING gynecological. It's weird but can't help it.
Anyway, I hope all gets better with your new addition. Congratulations on another little peanut!!
I don't plan to leave offspring in this world, but I watched this video just for the love I have for you hehe 🖤
I've done induced, C-section and a "suction cup", and both my babies wanted to come out "sunny side up" and head in a weird tilt, the other one came out facepalming.
Induced labour is f*cking horrible. I much preferred the pain of a natural birth, even though that didn't go quite smooth either. If I have to "prefer" any pain 😬
My first kid was in trouble and they tried to induce with a "ballong". Worst pain ever - the idea is to mechanically force the cervix open. Then medically/hormones, went nowhere, got manhandled in variety of ways, went into uncontrollable shakes from pain, baby got even more in trouble and they decided on an emergency C-section. She had breathed in her own poop and the water stuff. While clearing her airways they pushed air with too much force on her lungs and one them ruptured 😳😳😳 But she was a really feisty little thing and got out of ICU after about 8 hours.
Second time, I went to hospital by public transport and by walking, baby was coming out quite quickly - I went from 1cm to 10cm (half inch to fully opened 4inch) in less than an hour. But I took a couple of epidurals mostly because I have emetophobia and the pain made me nauseous. The epidurals made the labour stop, so didn't have more. The whole thing still didn't take long, but I just didn't have the strength. I had a flu and after the baby came out we found out it wasn't positioned right and came out head and hand first, so that's why it was kinda stuck, I guess. They pulled it out with a suction cup and I got torn pretty badly.
But the relief when the baby comes out is SOOOO good. Didn't feel a thing or care after that. My then husband got a bit traumatized by the amount of blood that poured out of me.
Had pregnancy diabetes with both but luckily diet and eating schedule was all I needed.
Becoming a parent is wild. The love you feel for those little dudes is unimaginable before you experience it.
But being a parent can be really hard too.
Mine are already 8 and 12, but I still regularly look at them amazed by the fact these awesome people came out from my body. Like, I made these!?
Oh my gosh! I couldn't be more happy for you. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You have spoken such kind words to me on your live stream a couple years ago when I was still drowning in grief over my sister's death and it bought me such comfort. I watched your video of returning to Mr. Owl when the camera fell over, and i was so happy and proud of you for taking the journey your heart told you must be done. You feel like a friend. Im so very happy for your sweet family and the arrival of your baby boy! Beautiful as ever! 🖤❤️🖤
I can't wait till you have your third child, take the drugs and can finally say you had a normal, peaceful, comfortable birthing experience! Everyone I know says the epidural is not nearly as bad as they thought.
The name is beautiful! I love it! And yes, let yourself have the epidural if there is a next time, you will get over your fears fast because it can be the most immediate and satisfying pain relief and you are still awake and yourself; honestly a miracle. Both my kids were near death experiences for me so I am done : ) Motherhood is no joke.
I will look forward to your, ‘live screams’, lol. 😱 I loved the story, I’m not personally looking forward to child birth myself. It sounds traumatic. Like, I’m gay now. ✌️
Just came here to say I too was induced (9lb babe) but am yet to forget or be brave enough to ever go through childbirth again as a result. A year on and it still gives me the heebie-jeebies, but I find listening to other mothers stories helpful in overcoming the negative feelings I still have over it all. Thanks for sharing
Oh I pray for your 2nd baby health. I hope they take care of your 2nd baby. You go to hospital to see your baby everyday. My mom went to see me I was baby it’s very small because born early. Now I am okay where I was. She is worried. I hope you and owl pray for 2nd baby. I want your baby keep alive. I were pregnant with one baby. I were near my age that’s mean 40 year old dr told me that high risk. I went to section - c to get baby out. It’s beautiful baby boy. I can’t get other baby again the reason of high risk caution baby health is bad. Only one is fine. Your baby in hospital. I understand how you and owl worried. Peoples has same things happening. I am sadly. 👍👍😢🤟🏾🖤🙏😘📱
I'm not going to be having kids so I normally don't watch these kinds of videos, but I'm so happy that you got through it all and Montrose is such an awesome name 🖤 I'm always happy to see another goth mum in the world!
As a former midwife, I can say that ultrasounds aren't too accurate after 6.5 months. Best way is the old fashioned palapating of the abdomen.
My last labor was 5 days. My baby was diagnosed as dead in utero and no movement. Just like the other times I had stillborn babies. We expected this because fetal my drops was diagnosed. My reading if the scans matched everyone at hospital staff. So we decided to go with a home birth to lessen the trauma and to just be able to hold our dead baby and say goodbye before calling the mortician.
My labor was like all the other stillbirth labors, baby not working to get out. My water broke at 10 cm and fresh meconium came out, which doesn't happen with a dead baby. Still no heartbeat. She came out and the midwife suctioned for ages and a very weak cry happened. Born at 36 weeks and 9lbs 10 oz.and 17 inches long. A 17 inch long baby usually weighs 3 lbs. Nothing wrong and she was the baby that I was so happy to see.
She is now 22 and a mother who will go medical school year after next. She was my funnest child who loved matching mother daughter goth outfits. We had a formal Grandma, mother and grandson portrait done with the three of us wearing matching goth outfits.
You are such a wonderful story teller Freyja-you’ve managed to make a pretty horrendous birthing tale unnaturally entertaining 😮 I’m delighted that you’re all happy and healthy, and the name Montrose is wonderfully regal and very Scottish. Also wanted to add-how the hell do you manage to look so amazing with a toddler and a very new baby ?! Pass my congrats on to Mr Owl too 😊
Congratulations! Montrose is a lovely name, apt after the time you spent in Scotland, where I live BTW. I too was induced. Horrible. Labour doesn't come on gradually but boom! You're right in the thick of it screaming bloody murder over what I read later in my notes was "light to medium" Labour pains. Light to medium my arse. After 8 hours with gas and air they prised the device I was determined not to be parted from, out of my hand and rolled me into surgery for a c-section. It definitely was all a small price to pay for my beautiful wee Alistair though. Now a not so wee, bearded 18 year old. That day, and the pain is still so vivid in my memory, but I would still somehow choose to relive it if I had the chance. He definitely smelled better and made less mess then.
Anywho, welcome to the world wee Monty!
I'm so happy for you! You have such a great attitude about it all! That means you're a perfect parent.
I guess I should probably warn you that it may not change - our oldest is 7 and it’s still weird we’re the adults….
Congratulations! Montrose is a lovely name. Wishing you four well!
I had no clue I was in labor, even though my water had broke because I could not feel my contractions. I don't just mean they weren't painful, I mean I could not feel them. My husband took me to hospital anyway (which is a funny side story i would be happy to tell) and the scheduled C section I was supposed to have 5 days from then was promptly turned into an immediate emergency C section. Which went test book, and we got our surprise daughter because we didn't know the baby's gender. Then in the recovery room I started to hemorrhage and needed to have an emergency surgery, a code blue was sounded throughout the hospital and in a matter of seconds a dozen Dr's and nurses were all around me and several of them had to pin me down because there wasn't time to give me any pain relief. (Plus I am allergic to opioid and because I was hemorrhaging, could not be given blood thinners) I felt every single thing and couldn't get a deep enough breath to scream but that didn't stop me from trying, or begging them to stop. Afterwards I had to have something in my uterus to keep it from collapsing and 2 blood transfusions. When I was finally taken to my room many hours later (hadn't slept in almost 48 hours at this point) they made me move myself from the gurney to the bed which was excruciating. Then when they lowered the bed it caught on the edge of the crib which had been moved too closed and bounced me up in the air. This was so painful I went into shock and started coding. A few hours later I was finally able to receive my first does of pain medication and a day later it finally started working. That night I was made to stand up by the night nurses who felt i did not need any sleep and i popped a suture, I needed 2 more blood transfusions in the hospital because my body wasn't producing red blood cells on its own. After 7 days total I was able to go home. I would be happy to share more to anyone who has questions.
I hope you've shared with a lawyer because there seems to be several incidents of malpractice by the people who were supposed to take care of you!?
What a horrifying experience!! 😮
Love the name! Congratulations!! 🥳🎉 Babies are such a miracle. 🥰
I know the feeling of the gestational diabetes. Hated the diet but I lost weight during my pregnancy. But now I'm stuck with diabetes sadly. And of course my doctor wanted me to have an induced labor and C-section. We were shooting for natural birth but my doctor could not feel him at all. Turns out after he was taken out he had his umbilical cord keeping him from coming down. And my son wasnt big either hes 7 lbs exactly!
I'm so glad you are all healthy and doing well! Birth is so indescribably difficult and has definitely put me off ever having another 😂 well done you!!! I hope your kiddos have a lifetime of happiness and love 🖤💜