Be Hard on Yourself - Grant Cardone

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
  • We all need to be tough on ourselves. That means being honest with ourselves. Taking a hard look at our environment, situations and how we are acting and making decisions. You need to make sure you are protecting yourself and personal environment. And sometimes, many times in fact, that will involve making hard decisions. The right thing is almost always the hardest thing to do.
    For example, if you are doing a business deal with a friend and someone else presents better terms, you have a hard decision to make. Your deal with your friend would be detrimental to you. You have to make the hard decision and ensure you are ok. You might risk the relationship by doing the right thing for you. But remember no one thing will ever blow the deal. So why should it blow a friendship?
    You need to practice being hard. Tell yourself the truth. Ask for the truth. Hear the truth.
    Being hard takes effort and commitment. Others around you will appreciate it though. If you are soft on people, they won’t respect you. They’ll grow bored and unappreciative. But when you are tough and have a tough environment, it challenges people. They’ll be engaged, committed, happy to have problems to solve and they’ll be satisfied.
    When you make the hard decision, you help more people.
    Make the hard decision to work the weekend to earn more income. Decide NOT to spend your money on something you don’t need. Don’t go out and party. Decide not to spend money you don’t have or were saving to invest. That’s when you’ll be the best person you can be.
    Make a list where you’re tough and where you’re soft. Most will find the soft outweighs the tough by a large margin.
    Be tough. It won’t mean you’re angry, upset or a nasty person. It means you’ve made the commitment to be someone better. Someone willing to have a purpose and defend their position and protect what’s important to them.
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Комментарии • 166

  • @mystiquek
    @mystiquek 5 лет назад +50

    "Don't lie to yourself! The whole world is going to lie to you, don't be first in line!"💣💥
    Thank you sir! 🙏

  • @lordpimpjuice1503
    @lordpimpjuice1503 6 лет назад +79

    If you do what is easy, your life will be hard

    • @Soopmadeofbeans
      @Soopmadeofbeans 4 года назад +1

      Kurt Hajroja if you do what is hard your life will be easy.

  • @mikeopatik8705
    @mikeopatik8705 6 лет назад +57

    6:40 Write this one down! "GET HARD - PEOPLE DON'T RESPECT SOFT" (in fact, they resent it). Business Wisdom GOLD.

  • @tinagvardanyan8627
    @tinagvardanyan8627 6 лет назад +36

    I've been too hard on myself for being too hard. Mr. Cardone, thanks for the confirmation. I'm not too hard, "they" are simply too soft (or not hard enough). Salute to the HARD!

    • @GabrielMartinez-ng1wi
      @GabrielMartinez-ng1wi 5 лет назад

      Yeah girl! Get it!

    • @nitishgautam5420
      @nitishgautam5420 Год назад

      One Warning ⚠️ his meaning by hard means Hard actions , hard environment not psychologically hard .

  • @chanceewell7838
    @chanceewell7838 6 лет назад +33

    Some of the best advice I’ve ever heard. My family has gone through some serious shit in the past due to business partners taking advantage of my father. Gotta be hard.

    • @Dammmguddd023
      @Dammmguddd023 4 года назад

      You got to be firm and fair with such people. My father and family business was taken advantage of as well. You have to speak out your boundaries and be selfish and know where the line ends and show em that. Good luck with everything. God bless.

  • @hypernano5395
    @hypernano5395 6 лет назад +32

    'It is better to be feared than loved.' Machiavelli The Prince.

    • @hypernano5395
      @hypernano5395 6 лет назад +2

      I WILL I agree but i don't think Grant plans to be around for an eternity.

    • @matthewmccone2126
      @matthewmccone2126 6 лет назад

      You need both to be perfect, if you can't be perfect that's only an excuse.

    • @SpyderBlackOfficial
      @SpyderBlackOfficial 5 лет назад +1

      @I WILL eternity is an illusion (death does exist)

    • @christiandawson5031
      @christiandawson5031 4 года назад

      Being hard on yourself is much different to being a “hard” person that others fear. Do you like being around people you actually fear?

  • @teodoraduma2437
    @teodoraduma2437 6 лет назад +11

    I listen to you all my spare time. Actually, you are the only one I watch, the only one relevant from internet, touching every sensitive and important things in life. And more and more people love you and thank you and The Lord for you. God bless you and your family!

    • @renelvital
      @renelvital 6 лет назад

      Teodora Duma I enjoy Cardone but you're not feeling Patrick Bet David⚓️️

    • @SHE3e23
      @SHE3e23 6 лет назад

      Teodora Duma Grant gives me one set of nourishment - He’s a kicking my ass, yelling in my face, handing out the checks, we’re a awesome team, pure awesome sales manager who is your incredible cool uncle. Pat Bet-David is a professor giving you the instructions and boosting the moral compass in a loving Dad way. Gary is “that guy” who is the king-guru at that one important thing and shouts/whispers/anything that gets thru the skull, and adds infinite patience and love. Tai is the kid you grew up with, who still looks like he did in junior high but is somehow crazy rich surrounded by hot women and cars, with unexpected knowledge, making you say Damn I gotta hear him out. Then Evan puts it all together in a totally selfless way, feeding you quietly in your deepest mind & heart, so you always go back when you need to reestablish the foundation.

  • @martinesalomon5334
    @martinesalomon5334 6 лет назад +15

    The hardest thing I had to do lately was do leave my partner two days before father's day due to physical, and psychological abuse. I've been too soft with men in my life. Trying to save them when I needed to save myself.
    Grant is inspiring me to be harder (not in a bad way) and stronger.

    • @renelvital
      @renelvital 6 лет назад +3

      Martine Salomon Good going! Develop assertive behavior and boundaries ⚓️️

    • @gaiakombeauty
      @gaiakombeauty 2 года назад +1

      you did the right thing, Martine.

  • @jimjrrs5819
    @jimjrrs5819 3 года назад +1

    15:25 Not everyone is aware of the importance of prosperity.. until life hits them back...

  • @donaldmorckel1684
    @donaldmorckel1684 6 лет назад +6

    Captain Cardone ! Set Sail !!
    " Cash Flow Is King "

  • @ProjectCourage
    @ProjectCourage 6 лет назад +10

    This content was really HARD.. Hitting everyone bull's eye.. You're the best Uncle G!!!

  • @robertgleason7012
    @robertgleason7012 5 лет назад +5

    @grantcardone needed this this morning.... Ive been to soft latley...I felt like I needed to spend QUALITY TIME with Loved ones..Oh boy was that the wrong move...meaning when I chose to do that instead of grinding out my side work that I have (im a carpenter) arguements and disagreements came into play...I should of kept tunnel vision...I have to accept my role as the provider and if that means I leave before ever pne gets up and come home when every one is sleeping thats what I have to do...

  • @arbazhossain1032
    @arbazhossain1032 3 месяца назад

    Really miss this version of Grant Cardone.

  • @alexanderholguin631
    @alexanderholguin631 2 года назад +1

    Grand Cardone you are my mentor and inspiration ❤️

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  • @123Camaya
    @123Camaya 6 лет назад +2

    Truth hurts, but it’s better than a fantasy. Thanks Uncle G and keep being hard!!!

  • @chuckshaw8762
    @chuckshaw8762 6 лет назад +6

    Men need hardness if they ever want to have any success in life. A women’s power is in her smile, kindness and gentleness.

  • @CC-mj3zq
    @CC-mj3zq 6 лет назад +2

    bring it GC. I absolutely need the hard truth and love when people are straight up enough to speak it.

  • @blackfootgunner8872
    @blackfootgunner8872 5 лет назад +4

    Uncle G droppin' straight BOMBS here. Love ya, Uncle G! #10X #GrantCardone

  • @djchrisroxx
    @djchrisroxx 6 лет назад +11

    Thx as always uncle G for dropping knowledge.

  • @richardsmith6855
    @richardsmith6855 6 лет назад

    Grant Cardone, hero to millions.

  • @fdglawrence
    @fdglawrence 5 лет назад +2

    Your right Grant this video helped me a lot today and is very needed. Always be truthful and do the right thing.

  • @delecekatauskas4520
    @delecekatauskas4520 3 года назад +1

    Grant, you say when most people first meet you they don’t like you. I loved you from the first minute!

  • @joshquador4439
    @joshquador4439 6 лет назад

    Like you asked me Wednesday Grant, am I too hard on people? Never. It's a reflection of your success and drive. Keep crushing.

  • @teodoraduma2437
    @teodoraduma2437 6 лет назад +13

    i pray God to protect you and give you strength to work and to be there for us - for many many years :)

    • @user-ok7nw3hd4k
      @user-ok7nw3hd4k 6 лет назад +1

      I find the harder I work, the harder I get, the more I use my brain instead of wishing and praying, the more blessed my life is.

    • @matthewmccone2126
      @matthewmccone2126 6 лет назад

      @@user-ok7nw3hd4k Wishing isn't praying, praying brings a non reality into existence. Learn the difference. When you pray you talk with God, if you don't believe what you pray for when you pray then your not praying, you're wishing.

  • @anthonyvargas9896
    @anthonyvargas9896 5 лет назад

    I love this guy! I just finish is audible book be obsessed or B average and after about the fourth date into it it all clicked! There was someone out there telling me it was OK to be psycho about your dreams your wants and your desires and after that my sales doubled with in the first week, since then I’ve ordered just about every damn audible book he has LOL. Money is tight right now but I’m gonna find a way to go to the 10x conference 2019! This guy has been a blessing in my life, only a week and a half in just listening to the Audible books and my life is changing, most important I’m changing, God bless you GRANT!

  • @diamonddonn7809
    @diamonddonn7809 6 лет назад +1

    Grant cardone keeps it's so real.

  • @martinjoshevski3754
    @martinjoshevski3754 6 лет назад +1

    Shoulda found this guy little bit earlier he is a beast !

  • @LopouRachelleGuilavogui-ib8iy
    @LopouRachelleGuilavogui-ib8iy Год назад

    I will not lie to myself, thank you my king

  • @svenw.6918
    @svenw.6918 6 лет назад +2

    This is your best episode ever. Even my wife liked this one !!

  • @andrewdennis9245
    @andrewdennis9245 6 лет назад +2

    The right thing is always the hard thing to do!

  • @palmtreesmimosas8053
    @palmtreesmimosas8053 6 лет назад +5

    Just business, don't take it personal 👌

  • @eridmusictv3456
    @eridmusictv3456 5 лет назад +1

    This is the Video that made me stick to all your materials UncleG , you are the Greatest! 🙌🏼❤

  • @tralvisbellamy5875
    @tralvisbellamy5875 6 лет назад +1

    10x yourself all day

  • @BryanGuerratv
    @BryanGuerratv 6 лет назад +28

    This was a gut check 💪🏼

  • @moeakadazz2697
    @moeakadazz2697 6 лет назад +1

    Amazing advices people need to hear this everyday 24/7 thanks Cardone you the best 👍

  • @teodoraduma2437
    @teodoraduma2437 6 лет назад

    Love your honesty from the beginning. I could feel that from the very first time I watched your content. So if you ask me, this is the second most valuable thing that you deliver. The first is YOUR THEORY ABOUT MONEY!

  • @TheIfarted
    @TheIfarted 4 года назад +10

    "When people get hard they get happy"
    Yes....yes they do grant lmao

  • @jaykoussevitzky6036
    @jaykoussevitzky6036 6 лет назад +1

    you came from heaven for me.

  • @jeremyraglin8170
    @jeremyraglin8170 4 года назад +2

    Great video, being honest and hard on yourself is really the only thing that matter when it comes to living a fulfilling life.

  • @franciswathika1202
    @franciswathika1202 3 года назад

    Cash is not king. Cashflow is king.🔥🔥🔥

  • @mattng4707
    @mattng4707 6 лет назад +1

    Love the
    HARDON ZONE

  • @sirpatrickiwu7403
    @sirpatrickiwu7403 4 года назад

    Made some hard choices remove so family for my better. Thank you for all you do!

  • @knightinsuranceservicesinc1217
    @knightinsuranceservicesinc1217 5 лет назад

    I love you Grant.

  • @hiebelmossman2120
    @hiebelmossman2120 5 лет назад +2

    I don't care how short or tall he is, he is handsome

  • @MARIORODRIGUEZ-jq5ph
    @MARIORODRIGUEZ-jq5ph 6 лет назад +1

    MR CARDONE YOU ARE SUCH INSPIRATION THAT MY LIFE IS CHANGING EVERY MINUTE OF IT. MY KIDS ARE PART OF THIS INSPIRATION THANK YOU...

  • @martinmorris1197
    @martinmorris1197 6 лет назад

    I have listened to this video once a day. This combined with the Hubert Humphrey is keeping making the salex.

  • @charlierobles316
    @charlierobles316 5 лет назад +2

    I'm hooked on this guy's videos I wonder if his sales tequniques work for Network Marketing?

  • @omarzulu3584
    @omarzulu3584 5 лет назад +1

    Uncle g! One time to your team and your wisdom

  • @shapirate
    @shapirate 6 лет назад +2

    Invaluable content! Thank you for always bringing it!

  • @hiebelmossman2120
    @hiebelmossman2120 5 лет назад +2

    People laugh at Grant because he is only 5'7" but this man has done more than many 6 ft tall people ever have

  • @kelvinxg6754
    @kelvinxg6754 4 года назад

    I will watch this every time i feel I'm not being hard

  • @ssttraining3109
    @ssttraining3109 5 лет назад

    Cant change the neighbourhood, yet you can change the world.....

  • @jsantiago1145
    @jsantiago1145 6 лет назад +6

    Grant I just eliminated my soft list, now I only have a long hard list!

  • @carl9826
    @carl9826 11 месяцев назад

    If you can't handle the truth, don't play in the game...

  • @SHE3e23
    @SHE3e23 6 лет назад +1

    Love your graphic design btw

  • @ilianaschuring866
    @ilianaschuring866 4 года назад

    Be hard to yourself ,get selfish you will always win!!!!!!!

  • @JoseGarcia-ip4pl
    @JoseGarcia-ip4pl 6 лет назад

    señor black gracias poe este video. estoy aqui dandole y este video me dio el empujon. gracias

  • @williamcaldwell4059
    @williamcaldwell4059 6 лет назад

    Love your books listen to young hustler and learn so much keep doing what you’re doing

  • @raidernation3536
    @raidernation3536 5 лет назад

    Everyone needs someone to call them out on their bullshit

  • @gusypoo
    @gusypoo 6 лет назад +2

    The Hardon Zone haha! excellent topic and advise Grant!

  • @kanishksaini7945
    @kanishksaini7945 2 года назад +1

    i love you man!

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  • @ayokamoss9314
    @ayokamoss9314 4 года назад

    Perfect show for me this morning

  • @Ahmed-Benazzi
    @Ahmed-Benazzi 5 лет назад

    excellent advice got to be hard no more softness

  • @LopouRachelleGuilavogui-ib8iy
    @LopouRachelleGuilavogui-ib8iy Год назад

    Waooo very much super, God is great.

  • @matthewmccone2126
    @matthewmccone2126 6 лет назад

    When he says hard people, he's stating CONFIDENT, NOT arrogant. There's a huge difference and completely opposite.

  • @goodmanvuma3581
    @goodmanvuma3581 5 лет назад +2

    "if it a good deal go buy"

  • @oslich91
    @oslich91 3 года назад

    That outro music is fire, love it!

  • @szabolcskomaromi
    @szabolcskomaromi 6 лет назад +1

    Daily inspiration by GC. Great topic! 💪🏻

  • @willzjc
    @willzjc 6 лет назад +16

    These callers who constantly talk over GC needs to learn some proper conversation etiquette... dude u are calling to ask for advice, don’t be talking over the person who will help you when he starts talking

  • @user-cv9no7mh7c
    @user-cv9no7mh7c 6 лет назад

    great speech! great motivator! soo grateful!

  • @gregorysweeting2512
    @gregorysweeting2512 3 года назад

    Soft n nice guys finish last.

  • @domingodeanda233
    @domingodeanda233 3 года назад

    11-06-2020, Thanks Grant, keep on kicking ass

  • @loreelaw4733
    @loreelaw4733 Год назад

    I fucken LOVE you Grant!!!!💯🙌🏻

  • @fourhappiness4176
    @fourhappiness4176 5 лет назад

    Life changing

  • @johnoshea9619
    @johnoshea9619 6 лет назад

    Loving this message

  • @isidorolopez265
    @isidorolopez265 6 лет назад

    MOST. EXCELLENT. BRO. G8. TRUTHISMSSSS

  • @LizaDydyshka
    @LizaDydyshka 6 лет назад

    Loooooved the video! Thanks Grant - you are the best 💯

  • @anthonyperez2747
    @anthonyperez2747 6 лет назад

    Fucking genius man

  • @thankyoujesus2836
    @thankyoujesus2836 6 лет назад

    I’m not as hard as I want to be. I’m not as hard as I can be.

  • @whosoeverpress5144
    @whosoeverpress5144 6 лет назад +1

    Great show!

  • @javascriptkiddie2718
    @javascriptkiddie2718 5 лет назад +2

    I am definitely happier when I'm hard and so is my wife!

  • @FightStrategistMMA
    @FightStrategistMMA 2 года назад

    Grant tripped with the Bitcoin…other than that he’s spot on

  • @Marc_Masters
    @Marc_Masters 6 лет назад

    At 24:00 it's just business

  • @michaelfoster8961
    @michaelfoster8961 6 лет назад +1

    100% Be Real. Hit it Hard. Thank you

  • @jjm121
    @jjm121 6 лет назад

    Uncle GRAAAANTTTTT

  • @interessantegedachtes5448
    @interessantegedachtes5448 5 лет назад

    TRUUUTH!!

  • @JP_AZ
    @JP_AZ 6 лет назад

    💪 Shared.

  • @JoseGarcia-ip4pl
    @JoseGarcia-ip4pl 6 лет назад

    Be Hard On Yourself

  • @brandanmeister2057
    @brandanmeister2057 6 лет назад

    Grants an Aries like I am I know that drive he’s talkin about . We love the action No matter what it is.

    • @Dammmguddd023
      @Dammmguddd023 4 года назад

      Thats bullshit made up for these weak whimpsies who need excuses to freakin whine and cry. But if your using it in a positove way and doing more nothing greater than that.

  • @LiveLittv
    @LiveLittv 4 года назад

    Superb intro 👌

  • @tristanpiano3806
    @tristanpiano3806 5 лет назад

    10X Cigars!!!

  • @palmtreesmimosas8053
    @palmtreesmimosas8053 6 лет назад

    Get that moneyy!

  • @kelvinxg6754
    @kelvinxg6754 4 года назад

    BE HARD ON YA SELF

  • @robertswanger9342
    @robertswanger9342 5 лет назад +1

    How do you balance this when you're so hard on yourself that it's actually holding you back?

  • @teodoraduma4164
    @teodoraduma4164 5 лет назад

    Cool !

  • @kingomeke
    @kingomeke 6 лет назад

    Be hard on yourselves guys - GC

  • @rhythmindset6996
    @rhythmindset6996 6 лет назад

    Grant Hardone

  • @ElmwoodParkHulk
    @ElmwoodParkHulk 6 лет назад

    Ask yourself the question ... If I say yes to this person am I saying no to myself .

  • @mrcompensation365
    @mrcompensation365 5 лет назад

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @zubeirmohamed8551
    @zubeirmohamed8551 4 года назад

    I need to be hard... I check myself, I’m sooo damn soft cake 🎂 😂😂😂