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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @Krobler
    @Krobler 2 года назад +11

    Let’s go! Not only is this a blessing that we have a 30 minute relaxing video. But we have some great answers so thanks Derek! Can’t wait to watch the rest

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      Its still processing the HD version so it might be slow right now. I don't normally post this early. Gonna take more than one video to answer all the questions. It's great that I have no problem with what to talk about but I feel bad for the people that have to wait for their answers.

    • @Krobler
      @Krobler 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality yea absolutely! Video is great quality so far, and I’ve loved seeing how many questions have rolled in, hopefully you don’t get overwhelmed! Can’t wait for the rest of the content

  • @ArtCE47
    @ArtCE47 2 года назад +9

    I don't comment much, but I LOVE your whispers!! And, I really needed this! I was diagnosed with swimmers ear yesterday morning and spent all this morning in urgent care because the pain is SO EXCRUCIATING, it's terrifying. I haven't stopped crying in 2 days and I feel insane from the pain. So this is so much needed as a distraction and I'm really looking forward to all you have to say!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +3

      I'm so sorry to hear about the physical pain you are in. Health problems are the worst of all problems to have and I sure hope you feel better soon. I really hope this does help you.

  • @EggZema_
    @EggZema_ 2 года назад +6

    Thanks for this highly tingly upload again! Nice to see the dogs in de background hanging around as well.
    For me, playing video games is entertainment and it helps me to relax after a day of hard work. For me it’s not different than watching a 3 hour long movie, or enjoying an asmr video.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      I respect that and certainly don't judge you for it. I just missed out on it and figure there is just no reason for me to start now. There are many things that a lot of my friends do that I don't do like golf too but I figured since I don't know what I am missing, I might as well not start it. I will get to your questions on the next video!

  • @laurens9781
    @laurens9781 2 года назад +2

    Loved the answers and really cool hearing that story about the car dealership. Also 30 mins of relaxation such a blessing!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      So glad you liked it and glad I got to cut you in line:) It's the least I can do for your extra support.

  • @KarmaWhispersASMR
    @KarmaWhispersASMR 2 года назад +3

    Super excited to watch, just got off work too. Perfect timing..... Got the 1 year mark on my end, not sure why it disappeared for you. An updated religion video would be great.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      Yours did not disappear, it was lemonshatter that disappeared. Sorry if it sounded like I was saying yours disappeared. Your questions took most of the video...LOL! But you deserve it. You've been so good to me for a long long time! I will definitely get to the updated religion video soon!

    • @KarmaWhispersASMR
      @KarmaWhispersASMR 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality After watching I realized it took up like half the video lol

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      @@KarmaWhispersASMR You deserve it!

  • @yungkeg
    @yungkeg 2 года назад +4

    Great video, thank you for taking the time out of your day to make this. Can you make a life advice video by itself?

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      Consider it done. Since I didn't get any question from you, I will make the life advice video for you after I make the next answer video! I got way more questions than I expected!

  • @--p--2726
    @--p--2726 2 года назад +5

    I would love a life advice video for young adults. I turned 23 last year and i have a average paying job. I workout and eat healthy, but i always feel like i want to do something else jobwise. Alot of times it causes me anxiety to think about where should i go on with my career.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +2

      I will definitely make this video after I make the next answer video!

  • @汉卿-u3l
    @汉卿-u3l 2 года назад

    I like the decoration in the back too much. As a native of China, I want to experience the American way of life and feel that you are all so happy.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      We welcome you here with open arms. we still have our struggles but I definitely feel blessed to have been born in America.

  • @rosieposie9564
    @rosieposie9564 Месяц назад

    Having a low activity Sunday here so I am watching a couple of old videos including some of yours. I have quite a lot of questions for you about this video and a couple of your other older ones I watched so far today because your honest responses might be thought provoking. Do you think in marriages that women should be submissive to their husbands? If so what are the advantages and disadvantages if any of a submissive wife, dominant husband dynamic?
    Do you know any couple with a long term truly happy fulfilling relationship for both people in the marriage?
    Also, may I ask, why specifically would you like to visit Japan?

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  Месяц назад

      I do believe women should be submissive. I am a traditionalist that way. I think a man should bring strength, security and financial support and the women should bring the kindness, warmth and care. I do think men abused their positions in the family and created the madness we have today. They became abusive and cheaters and drunks and forced women into creating the feminist movement. Not all men but some men ruined it for all of us. I do hope the pendulum will swing back to us respecting our separate roles in the family but I don't have a lot of hope that it will. As for Japan, I worked for Toyota for 20 years and developed such a respect for their culture.

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Месяц назад

      ​@@ASMRReality Yes, I can see that you have very traditional views on this matter and as expected, your thinking is interesting and honest. I am happy feminism happened because it helped to give women freedom and choice. It is not sensible for anyone, man or woman to rely on anyone else for their financial support in my opinion as 'anything' can happen. I would hope in a healthy marriage that the man also brings kindness, warmth and care. Maybe the person who heads the household should be whoever is a better leader/manager whether it is the male or the female but I think the marriage might be happier if there is no overall head and people take leadership of whatever aspects they are good at or enjoy and the couple has true union and equality though they are different. That is what I have seen in the few happy marriages I know of. I have always seen the preference for female frailty and submissiveness (outside of intimacy/s*x) as the opposite of what mentally strong , psychologically secure men admire and desire and more like what those nerdy, runt of the litter type men who go to Asia to find a child like looking and acting woman is into. I hope you find a relationship soon with someone who is truly genuine and also happy with who you are and the reverse for you.

  • @Draig_ASMR
    @Draig_ASMR 2 года назад +1

    Great video my friend, was very interesting to hear your answers and as always, very relaxing. See you on the next video.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      I will get to your questions on the next one! See you there!

    • @Draig_ASMR
      @Draig_ASMR 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality Haha, no problem my friend. I seen you had a lot of questions to get through. Someday when I'm better off financially I will become a member of your channel.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      I have mentioned in past videos that I only would want someone to be a member if they are already financially strong. I don't really need the money but it does help to justify all the time it takes me to make these videos. You have to know I sure don't do this for the money. You keep working on yourself and you will get there. It was a long road for me but I am so glad I was diligent and finally made it out of the struggle. You will too!

    • @Draig_ASMR
      @Draig_ASMR 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality Definitely, but your videos bring so much to me. And I would love to be able to pay it forward by potentially helping this magnificent channel grow and evolve.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      @@Draig_ASMR Well your encouragement helps me keep going so just know you are doing what you can! I appreciate you so much!

  • @abersber6683
    @abersber6683 2 года назад +1

    A good way to get your youtube channel more out there is making some youtube shorts could increase the flow of subscribers as more people will see it, pretty easy to make youtube shorts as well

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      I've thought about making a few of them but curious what I should do. Do you have any recommendations....like do I whisper in the short or do I talk about my channel?? I've never seen any other ASMRtist on a short video so I just haven't come up with a good idea yet and thats why I haven't made one. I'm all ears if you have an idea that you think might help me. I would greatly appreciate it.

    • @abersber6683
      @abersber6683 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality Gentle giant and sweet pea do a lot of shorts and have expanded their channel by a lot since. I suggest just doing shorts of you whispering. Apparently you can make shorts from your own videos so you could do that to be honest

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      @@abersber6683 Ok I am going to do it! I really appreciate the advice!

  • @MrCrow2014
    @MrCrow2014 2 года назад

    Portland asmr reality meet up 😂 where you at karma? Haha. That story about the dealership you helped us crazy. So inspiring.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      It will be crazier if you find out your like in the same neighborhood or even work in the same building! On the dealership journey I could go into more detail for sure on that experience. One of the questions I have to get to from another subscriber is my work history so I'll get to mention it again then. I could make an entire series on dealership life but I sure don't want to live it all over again. It was hard as hell. I should get to your questions tomorrow!

    • @KarmaWhispersASMR
      @KarmaWhispersASMR 2 года назад +1

      Haha. I live in beaverton.

    • @MrCrow2014
      @MrCrow2014 2 года назад

      @@KarmaWhispersASMR oh nice, I work over there. Small world

    • @MrCrow2014
      @MrCrow2014 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality yea i wanna hear a whole video about that!

  • @wayne3704
    @wayne3704 2 года назад +1

    Hi Derek...I'm still here!
    Great video again!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      AWESOME! I was a little worried!

  • @SylwiaPoland79
    @SylwiaPoland79 2 года назад

    Nicee 🌹 going to listen and watch part 2 😊

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      Hope you enjoyed part 2. I just made part 3 and got to your questions:)

    • @SylwiaPoland79
      @SylwiaPoland79 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality niiice. 😊

  • @lemonshatter2454
    @lemonshatter2454 2 года назад

    Sorry about the member stuff being cut off, there's been some weird stuff going on with my bank lately I'm just gonna switch to another one, should be back with ya in a few days for that one year mark!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      All good brother....like I said in the last reply to you...you've done enough for me with all of your support already. You'll always be a channel member now no matter what!

  • @toohda
    @toohda Год назад

    Even in the USA, a preacher doesn’t marry you,after the wedding ceremony you still have to go to the courthouse and fill out legal paperwork. That paperwork is what has to be “broken” by the judge/lawyers for a legal divorce . The preacher just is a symbolic thing for a church marriage. A lot of people don’t even have ceremonies, they just fill out the paperwork and then go on a honeymoon.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  Год назад

      This is true other than most people get the marriage certificate before the ceremony.

  • @studentstudent5044
    @studentstudent5044 2 года назад

    Hello it’s your Swedish friend here😄❤️

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      Hello from your American friend!

  • @Thingma
    @Thingma 2 года назад

    AMAZING VIDEO ❤ I loved the whispers.
    By the way, i want to say that I am a Muslim but i am not wearing hijab, i am praying every night, i drink alcohol occasionally and more! The thing is i am in love with God. I believe all the religions but i think the books were changed at some point. I know how you feel by saying raping, killing innocent people, children and all but we have free will as you know. Unfortunately this world is basically a lie. But our acts are important. I am 27 yrs old and I have always tried to be a nice person. Ofc i made mistakes, i still do but not kind of mistakes that can lead me to a bad life / afterlife… I would love to speak about religions and God with you all day.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад +1

      I respect that you are a Muslim and certainly don't wish to change anyone's mind. I envy people of faith because you get the fellowship part with other believers and you also get the peace of mind of feeling you have all the answers to life's big questions answered for you. I just have a hard time with saying I believe but then not following what the books say. I will definitely make a video just on my religious beliefs in order to help better explain why and how I got to this mindset but I could definitely talk to you all day about it too. I didn't get to your questions yet except for the one you made on the request for this video but at least I snuck you into this one too:).

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      Hi Thingma, I read this news article and thought of you. Are things bad in Turkey right now?? www.foxnews.com/media/enes-kanter-freedoms-speaks-out-500000-bounty-turkish-government

    • @Thingma
      @Thingma 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality hi! This case is not that important when you consider all the stuff that is happening in turkey rn. Everything got very fucked up tbh. If someone says something bad about president they go to jail directly lol. What can i say? We cannot even “criticize” anymore.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      @@Thingma Wow...thats crazy. You need to come here:)

    • @Thingma
      @Thingma 2 года назад

      @@ASMRReality i really do but not only usa but also every country except middle east will not accept my citizenship request since i am Turkish lol. Trust me.

  • @rosieposie9564
    @rosieposie9564 Месяц назад

    (replying here to your other comment which has disappeared)Yes, I can see that you have very traditional views on this matter and as expected, your thinking is interesting and honest. I am happy feminism happened because it helped to give women freedom and choice. It is not sensible for anyone, man or woman to rely on anyone else for their financial support in my opinion as 'anything' can happen. I would hope in a healthy marriage that the man also brings kindness, warmth and care. Maybe the person who heads the household should be whoever is a better leader/manager whether it is the male or the female but I think the marriage might be happier if there is no overall head and people take leadership of whatever aspects they are good at or enjoy and the couple has true union and equality though they are different. That is what I have seen in the few happy marriages I know of. I have always seen the preference for female frailty and submissiveness (outside of intimacy/s*x) as the opposite of what mentally strong , psychologically secure men admire and desire and more like what the nerdy, runt of the litter type men who go to Asia to find a child like looking and acting woman is into. I hope you find a relationship soon with someone who is truly genuine and also happy with who you are and the reverse for you.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  Месяц назад

      I can't say as I disagree with you on your take on the relationship roles. Sadly I know way too many men that have no business leading anything. It makes me wonder about the chicken or egg issue....did allowing women into positions of leadership make men weak??? I don't have the answers but would be happy to have a strong woman beside me and don't blame most women for going it alone and figuring life out without a man. Also forgot to address your question about if I know of any healthy happy relationships. Sadly I cannot bring one to mind. Most married people I know are miserable.

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Месяц назад

      @@ASMRReality There have always been weak men even when women were not in positions of power and there will always be weak men, they come about due to nature and nurture I think.
      I think many men do like strong woman who can hold their own in the world, what many dislike is domineering, rough, masculine type women who try to be like men. Heavens, I don't even like those kinds of women myself.
      Most marriages I know of are miserable as well. I think they went wrong from poor/incompatible partner selection and lack of good relationship role models in early life. Then undesirable personal qualities like disloyalty, dishonesty with self and others, indiscipline, low empathy and inadequate communications amongst others just make for marital disaster.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  Месяц назад

      @@rosieposie9564 Once again....I agree completely with everything you say here. Probably a good thing for me you only have an aqua r as your thumbnail as I am starting to develop feelings of attraction to you:) If I could see you....it would be worse! Now, please don't take those comments as me being some slimey creep. I'm attracted to intelligence so it's actually one heck of a compliment!

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Месяц назад

      @@ASMRReality Thank you, you are massively cool as well and it is always appealing to interact with your mind and hear your thoughts! I think I have a bit of a beef with the good and wonderful ladies of Indiana that they have a fine not to mention naturally s%xy man such as yourself being single.

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 Месяц назад

      @@ASMRReality 😄Thank you, you are massively cool as well and it is always appealing to interact with your mind and hear your thoughts! I think I have a bit of a beef with the good and wonderful ladies of Indiana that they have a fine not to mention naturally s%xy man such as yourself being single.

  • @triggbe
    @triggbe 2 года назад

    Blessed with 30 mins haha😊

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      Time flew on this one because I have so much to get to. It felt like 10 mins and I looked at the counter and almost panicked. LOL!

  • @rosieposie9564
    @rosieposie9564 Месяц назад

    Thank you, you are massively cool as well and it is always appealing to interact with your mind and hear your thoughts! I think I have a bit of a beef with the good and wonderful ladies of Indiana that they have a fine not to mention naturally s% xy man such as yourself being single. (had to make a whole new comment as my response to your last comment kept disappearing).

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  Месяц назад

      Well...I still feel like there is someone out there for me...hopefully for you too...you never know what the universe has in store for us!

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 29 дней назад

      @@ASMRReality I just cannot believe that with all the great traits you possess that you will stay single and not find a healthy, satisfying relationship in the near future when the time and person is right. The universe better act right on this one.

  • @LukeYoussef
    @LukeYoussef 2 года назад

    Sadly because satan rules this world. I ask the same things myself but us humans barely use our brains in general so we wouldn’t be able to wrap our head around an almighty creature and what he does. Even through all the destruction, life is too perfectly designed for it to be a Big Bang. Every nerve and vein in our bodies, every tree, the ocean and it’s creatures. It’s all too perfect. Even our souls. You have a soul and I do too and that’s how we are communicating. Through our personality’s. We are all so complex yet simple. It’s pretty amazing

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 года назад

      I truly respect your opinion, Luke. I used to believe the exact same thing. I wish I could get it back and maybe someday I will.

  • @shanecorley4475
    @shanecorley4475 2 года назад +1

    🔥🎥

  • @Loiter562
    @Loiter562 Год назад +1

    Submitting to your husband is not oppression it’s the role of a wife in marriage. Nobody wants an un submissive wife, anyone who says else wise likes getting walked over. I’ve seen it, I’ve seen differences in how men allow their women to act. The men who were strict had better more loving relationships and the ones who didn’t don’t have that relationship anymore.

  • @user-gd7mr5bx1l
    @user-gd7mr5bx1l 7 месяцев назад

    Dog making too much noise if you want to take the asmr to the next level

  • @Sa17648
    @Sa17648 Год назад

    Love your vids I’d just like to touch on the point on Islam and women. If you take some time to deep dive into islams stance on women you’ll come to realise they are highly respected, just not in the way people in the west would look at as respected. The west look at the burka as oppression, whilst the women who wear it do so with pride believing in chastity.. I think a lot is to do with societies norms, for example the gender argument you mentioned whether I agree or not is irrelevant, rather that in places other than the west the notion would be absurd.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  Год назад

      I'll accept your explanation since you seem to speak as someone with first hand experience and I do not have that. Surely though you would have to agree that there are some women who wish to be liberated. I see in Iran, for example, women are protesting, sometimes to great peril. Also, the fact that girls cannot be educated in certain Islamic cultures could be seen as detrimental to women. I must say as a man who believes in the traditional patriarchy where a man should truly be the leader of his home I would much prefer to have an Islamic family rather than a western one where the women wear next to nothing and are promiscuous. So I do respect the Islamic faith. I just know that if I were a woman, I would likely prefer to live in the west.

    • @YouhavetoBelieve3347
      @YouhavetoBelieve3347 Год назад +1

      Oh please. Muhammad literally owned women as s3x slaves and made beating ur wife permissible if she denies you intercourse in Quran 4:34. He also married a 6 yr old little girl.
      It was a woman who ultimately poisoned & killed Muhammad cause he genocided her entire Jewish tribe the Banu Qurayza. Doesn’t sound like someone who respects women so cut the lies

    • @YouhavetoBelieve3347
      @YouhavetoBelieve3347 Год назад +2

      Killing women for leaving Islam (Apostacy) and making their own informed choice doesn’t sound very respectable either.
      Ur book literally calls for the execution of those who leave it’s way of thinking. Pretty barbaric stuff.