If I knew this 21 years ago. When I first started dating my wife and I'd visit her apartment it was a dump. I should have said no thank you. I convinced myself that I was being superficial and silly. In hindsight I should have turned around and said goodbye.
This is so true ! My wife’s home is a pig sty ! She never smells, she always said her “p” was platinum ( which it was) , and she did not just give it up. She never slept with me until we were engaged. She was always clean. Always cleaned herself . Even right before we had sex. She always used a PH Vijay cleaner. The issue is the house is a mess. She would rather buy new clothes then wash old dirty ones ( broke the bank). She is just totally disorganized and can not keep a clean house .. I should have realized that a messy home meant a messy mind. She is a mess. No money management etc… despite being a PHD !
@@LoveSamanthaLee wow, you divorce a good man, you are getting 10k in child support, you are the definition of what's wrong with women, you will suffer, I am speaking this into existence.
Growing up everything my mother had my sisters doing was tied to their ability to get and keep a husband and a family. The amount of times i heard my mother tell one of my sisters "you'll never keep a husband doing that young lady" absolutely blow my mind. I never understood why my mother was so obessed with my sisters being on point with their femininity and having the ability to get and keep a husband til now. A lot of 304's are nasty and have no idea how to even properly take care of their own hygeine let alone care for a family.
Ladies aren't raised to be wives these days. They are either raised to be career women who don't need no man or they're not raised at all and just let totally loose and free
@@AntiquatedApe Men ain't raised to be husbands because when they were young instead of doing the work on themselves to receive the fruits of their labour, they were too busy chasing women for there pride and ego. Impregnated women along the way that came with babies that they didn't want. Fatherless children and the list goes on. This would especially be true towards a certain demographic of people.
@@AntiquatedApe What are they raising you as? Good for nothing incels who hate women, or gamer boys who live 2d girls and love in mom's basement? The women being raised are clearly doing better than the mediocre crew on the other side.
They put out unattainable goals that most people can’t achieve, all to keep us on the hamster wheel that only deals with the external and not the internal 🙏🏽🤗
@Love, Samantha Lee 10:10 you're still telling the woman to chase after what is considered to be "high value" vs having a higher values of respect for the men in their communities.
I love Melanie and agree with everything she said! For 10 years I used to work for a healthcare corporate office. And when I tell you the vaginal stench that was left behind in the restroom by some of my former female coworkers was enough to make you pass out. I’m talking about a stench, so profound it lingered long after the woman had already left the bathroom. It was a very distinctive odor very different from normal feces or urine. It literally smelled worse like a rotten vagina. There were times I completely refused to even use the restroom because it smelled so horrible in the ladies bathroom. That PH was off the chain and is not normal or healthy.
My mother and my yayas always taught me and my sisters . We got up early every Saturday and cleaned the house from top to bottom , scrub the rugs cleaned . And yes and shower or bath twice a day three of on monthly friend . No body hair and wash hair at least once a week , always keep yourself up. My mom would kill me if I ever walked out the house a mess. Love your content ❤
My mom sat me down and made me read the book of Proverbs as a kid. When we got to Proverbs 32 she explained some things about the expectations for the women in my family. It was eye opening. Met my wife when we were 18, knew immediately she could hold her own with old folks in my family, but more importantly that she would raise my future daughter to be womanly. 22 years later, she’s telling my 12 y/o daughter, (who is 4 yrs ahead scholastically), “baby, I should not be able to smell you when you walk by me”. Lol. They’ve read spiritual & biology books about the changes happening pre-puberty & have developed a self care plan so my daughter can take care of herself. We discuss this with my 10 year old son too, so he knows what to look for in girls his age. THANK GOD! You’d be surprised how many grown women don’t have basic understanding of their cycles or feminine hygiene. Yogurt and Apple cider vinegar, just saying.
I hope that smell extends to perfumes as well. Someone some where misunderstood "a stranger should think they smell a hint of, and the wearer unable to smell it at all" to mean "if they aren't coughing and passing out from down the hall, use another bottle" .
Interesting comment. Would also like to understand your meaning by saying "what a 10 year old boy should look out for in girls his age". And if you are teaching boys how to be hygienic, in addition to other values, as well. Proverbs has 31 chapters😊.
I am glad that I came across your channel because it helps to know that a grown woman is holding women accountable and trying to teach them that they are supposed to be more than just a pretty face thank you ma’am peace
I agree 100% with that woman, especially her logic about Ph balance in a woman's body. In a long-term relationship, it is very easy for a woman to know if her man is sleeping around especially if he's doing it raw because it throws off her Ph balance and she'll get an infection easily, whether mild or serious. Conversely, it is easy for an experienced man to know if a woman sleeps around a lot, or knows how to take care of herself ( diet, etc ) simply by how her "peaches" smells, especially in the AM During sex, body fluids from BOTH PARTNERS are exchanged, and body fluids contain all kinds of living organisms, good and bad, that affect each other's Ph balance, ostensibly, the body parts involved in sex are also the same body parts designed to eliminate waste from our body. If your breath smells bad, it means there is rotten and decaying food particles in your mouth, stuck either in your teeth or throat. If your feet/toes smell bad, it means that there is dead and decaying flesh between your toes. Similar applies to your underarm. Therefore, if the natural bodily fluid of a woman's ve-jay-jay doesn't smell good...No thanks, I'll pass. Also, if a woman's home or room is nasty, ( not disorganized ) she can't be trusted. If a man's place is nasty, ( not disorganized ) he'll always be baggage, ( emotionally, financially, and sexually ) in a relationship, no matter how attractive he appears at first.
I like this post!🤔... and I actually think this goes for men too... men we need to keep ourselves clean too. And our rooms/living spaces. "The room is the reflection of the mind"🧐
I do agree with what I heard in this video but thanks for your comment because there is so much negativity toward women and men are excused or not held accountable for these same things like poor hygiene, dirty homes and not being taught that men should work and take care of their families. I have seen it because no man won't tell the truth and do a video but how many men are teaching their sons how to be men. Not many. I am seeing way too many effiminate men in these streets and so a lack of teaching is on both sides. Truth be told, young men come to work and go to school smelling just as bad as the girls but these are the same ones expecting a woman not to have a smell. And yes king, the room is a reflection of the mind and the spirit. External clutter often reflects internal chaos...
(Toward the end) Thank you. True. We are not worth our net worth. We are priceless. Society has us think we are worth our net worth. Which would mean, if someone has zero dollars and zero cents, society says that person is worthless. The only thing society sees is money. Thank you for what you said, Sam.
The elites manufacture alot of falsehoods and indoctrinate females with it because they are susceptible and from each other. Like alot of things its all backwards bullshit
3:08 There has been a situation where I have seen some women having their nails done and the rest of their body looks questionable. So I think looking at a woman's nails doesn't always tell the whole story. It is the same when a woman looks at what kind of car a man drives and makes an assumption about the man. I find a lot of people are very shallow and are afraid to look deeper to get their answers.
I was thinking the same thing when I heard that. I keep my body very clean and keep my feet very clean and polished but I have a nutritional deficiency that makes the nails (on my hands but not my feet) break and chip alot so I dont get manicures or keep them polished because it would be a waste of time and money. So if a man looked at my nails or I had on shoes with my feet covered a man may look at me and assume that I am not clean or worth his time. As people we cant always judge a book by it's cover. If the book is interesing to you dont judge the cover-open it up and read the beginning, that will tell you what you need to know.
This logical voice needs to be THIS real when trying to educate these unlearned. They need to carry the shame of their decisions as shame is a precursor to change. They need a brutal dose of frank reality to realize why good men wont have them and bad men keep using them. I totally love your content and appreciate your mission.
Hey sis, this is so dope. I’m a man and I appreciate what you and the other Queen is talking about. There is so much truth in this. I don’t usually comment on videos but I had to show you love on this one. 👑
I appreciated hearing her say this too because I am not the prettiest crayon in the box, as they say and I stay covered up since I am a Christian woman so I dont get alot of attention from men and that can make me feel some type of way sometimes BUT I oustanding character, always educating my mind and my box don't stink so my future husband will be blessed!
I believe men & women body odor has alot to do with your diet, as well as good hygiene. I seen a couple of people who didn't like water, but they ate alot of salt & sugar; and their face was dry and you can see white substances on their face. I think we should all focus on internal cleansing as well as external. But the greatest of these is internal. Because what you eat & drink dictates how you smell.
I totally agree with the role model issue on social media. My role models may have celebrity, but it's their character that I admire. I admire humility, charity, and how they treat people around them. I also agree that our mothers play a big role in teaching us feminity and caring for ourselves. I learned about my body, the changes at puberty, etc. from my mother. I learned that I'm judged by the company I keep. I learned to respect others. You don't mistreat others because they are different than you. I believe she tried to teach me to be a real high-value woman. Not the narcissistic type that expects all of her wants and needs to be met. I so appreciate a woman of your character trying to reach young women and show them that magazines and social media do not promote qualities they should strive for. Keep up the good work.❤️
This is an awesome message delivered with love. I bathe my 2 young kids every single evening and make sure they are cleaning everything properly, including teeth, it seems basic but the learning starts young!
My mom taught me at a early age how to keep my surroundings clean, and she also told me as I got older to watch how the female im dealing with keep their kitchen, bathroom n bedroom cleaned.
3:00 - I’m glad you mentioned this, I practice this and have never known of other men to, so it’s nice to know I’m not alone. I had a huge crush on a girl in high school, up until the day that I noticed that all of her fingernails had a heavy buildup of dirt. Since that I day, I observe the hands of any woman I find attractive as that is an instant deal-breaker for me. My homeboy laughs at me when I say, “If a womans’ fingernails are dirty, her ***** ain’t clean.” I’m just saying. 🤷🏾♂️
I think we should be careful about hating on each other. I'm seeing so much hate in the comments. I think we forget that we are supposed to compliment each other. Not be exactly like each other. I remember my mom cooking and then washing dishes and my dad would dry the dishes because he knew that my mom left streaks and it erked him when she left streaks. He could've judged her but instead, he chose to complete her. Just one example of how to be in a complimentary relationship.
Nice video. I hope women like you guys catch traction. I really do. There are so many confused women today. Young women need solid direction. I’ve witnessed too many squirm or retaliate from simple conversation because they’re not mentally healthy. Sometimes it’s heartbreaking because seeing they’re not going anywhere in life and not being able to help them gives of hopeless vibes. “Thank You!” for sharing ❤️🖤💚
How can you tell if a woman keeps herself based on her nails? A lot of women who get their nails and feet done shows they might be a materialistic woman, not a show there near and tidy people. Cause some women want to focus on dressing up like a hot girl, but their houses, cars, and spaces is always dirty.
Most girls are taught to not be told what to do by a man but never been taught to wash their rear end. They walking around acting like they boss with a dirty rear end. SMH...
Only real men do though. Most have low standards, they just care for box and that's it. And men having low standards lets dem women get away with stuff like this.
Because you don't keep your hygiene up doesn't mean MOMMA didn't teach you. A lot of females neglect theirself out of their own negligence to stay on top of theirself❤
@@LoveSamanthaLee yes as am I it’s why I believe I’m so different I’ve watched my folks be happily married for my 45 years- that just is sooo rare, pops still protects her at 83 like he did at 35💙 They absolutely don’t understand any of this and tbh almost everyone who knows ME- doesn’t get it I stopped trying to- not worth my peace💙
I believe that a lot of women nowadays haven't been shown or learned how to properly take care of themselves. Social media has taught them how to be for da streets. Hygiene iz a must 4 for me. If you no better than you do.
I just wanna give her kudos for speaking out with her own observation, authentically. Why we can't just eat the meat and spit out the bones... There is no pamphlet, to go by and speak thereof. Ijs
Hygiene is a must for everyone especially women cause if they don’t wash down there that thang can be outrageous and I know they be smelling themselves, like someone said they really don’t know how to wash that thing till they get in High School
Samantha, L❤VE your message about femininity & sexuality. I believe in your mindset. Not tryin’ to shame anybody else out there. But I dig what you’re sayin’. Thank you
Thanks, Samantha. Integrity is priceless. What's that line from the bible ? What benefits a man ? to gain the world but lose his soul .. I'm my experience, and mothers are always harder on daughters. Vs fathers. And fathers on sons vs. mothers and sons. And I think it's a healthy thing .Once the daughter or son matures, the relationship changes 5 Fathers and daughters are more daddy's little girl . And Mama's baby boy ..
Great conversation from your standpoint with the breakdown and from what they were talking about. I want to hear the whole podcast I couldn't find the show.
I appreciate your video and this dialogue. As a christian, this is so important, accompanied with godly integrity; my future mate must have character and integrity, from a human perspective, so glad you said this, that's not just for a male!!! God help us! Women please love yourself, open your ❤️ heart to understand you created by God, in His image, God should be your first love, not that guy whispering in your ear! I'm 50-something, wisdom, life experience is priceless! Show restraint, wait for the ring, instead of the rubber, you're worth more!!!
Melanie King is the standard. She’s the type of woman who actually speaks truth and has a conventional raising. It’s in her spirit. She hasn’t lived one life and is now trying to sell a different life. She is the standard.
Sometimes it can be of trauma when embarrassing and knowledge of buying products that's inexpensive keeping up with doctors and trying to not get a lot of attraction of no more care from your significant other.
10:25 facts, I honestly try to stay away from women who show skin online and especially the wanabee instagram models with thousands of imaginary friends, definite red flag
Thanks Samantha! I Feel I can Show My Daughter age-12 This Video.Perfect Timing recently funny smell in bathroom Air. Not knowing if her mother did a good job explaining these important things to her.Now My Daughter Can Hear/Learn From her Same Gender most of these things Felt Weird telling her but I made a joke out of it as telling My Daughter.Now Finishing up 4-yrs. Custody Court.I Have too be Careful How I Speak.Now She Can Watch Video and Program it in Her Mind like a Library For NOW & FUTURE. Thanks Again.Continue Being You Samantha.💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾❤✌️
Finally! Now Sam get with her (Mel), Dnieka Marie and Olivia Alexa when you all come together you’ll basically form the power equivalent of Voltron and break the internet trust me and within that process what each of you strive to do individually will be accomplished in this singular future podcast.
Ok- I completely understand why some females get UTI’s etc MUCH more often than others😂 it’s not what they say- it’s the fact they get run through, nothing off limits yer gonna always have those problems. Unfortunately we’ve already been through all that 😞 thanks and keep being you🙏💙23:47
I get the concept cleanliness and it’s good message. However, there were several points that should not be taken as Bible. From being clean shaven to the use of vinegar is not necessarily sound doctrine. Bottom line find what works for you. Try to live and eat clean.
I’m loving this so far! When a woman lay it in, they are listened to. But if Kevin Samuels says the same thing he is gay, he is misogynistic, etc. RIP KS.
If I knew this 21 years ago. When I first started dating my wife and I'd visit her apartment it was a dump. I should have said no thank you. I convinced myself that I was being superficial and silly. In hindsight I should have turned around and said goodbye.
Hear ya! 🚩
This is so true ! My wife’s home is a pig sty ! She never smells, she always said her “p” was platinum ( which it was) , and she did not just give it up. She never slept with me until we were engaged. She was always clean. Always cleaned herself . Even right before we had sex. She always used a PH Vijay cleaner.
The issue is the house is a mess. She would rather buy new clothes then wash old dirty ones ( broke the bank).
She is just totally disorganized and can not keep a clean house .. I should have realized that a messy home meant a messy mind. She is a mess. No money management etc… despite being a PHD !
Experienced Tha' Same simular Story,
But knew the whole time it was a Set Up.
@@stevenkovler5133 ...She sounds dangerously close to being a horder...Good luck brother...
@@LoveSamanthaLee wow, you divorce a good man, you are getting 10k in child support, you are the definition of what's wrong with women, you will suffer, I am speaking this into existence.
Growing up everything my mother had my sisters doing was tied to their ability to get and keep a husband and a family. The amount of times i heard my mother tell one of my sisters "you'll never keep a husband doing that young lady" absolutely blow my mind. I never understood why my mother was so obessed with my sisters being on point with their femininity and having the ability to get and keep a husband til now. A lot of 304's are nasty and have no idea how to even properly take care of their own hygeine let alone care for a family.
❤️
Ladies aren't raised to be wives these days. They are either raised to be career women who don't need no man or they're not raised at all and just let totally loose and free
@@AntiquatedApe Men ain't raised to be husbands because when they were young instead of doing the work on themselves to receive the fruits of their labour, they were too busy chasing women for there pride and ego. Impregnated women along the way that came with babies that they didn't want. Fatherless children and the list goes on. This would especially be true towards a certain demographic of people.
Let me guess, your mom also never told you about what it takes to keep a wife, right?
@@AntiquatedApe What are they raising you as? Good for nothing incels who hate women, or gamer boys who live 2d girls and love in mom's basement? The women being raised are clearly doing better than the mediocre crew on the other side.
"My soul is more important!" Love that!!
❤️
They put out unattainable goals that most people can’t achieve, all to keep us on the hamster wheel that only deals with the external and not the internal 🙏🏽🤗
Exactly!!
@Love, Samantha Lee 10:10 you're still telling the woman to chase after what is considered to be "high value" vs having a higher values of respect for the men in their communities.
I love Melanie and agree with everything she said! For 10 years I used to work for a healthcare corporate office. And when I tell you the vaginal stench that was left behind in the restroom by some of my former female coworkers was enough to make you pass out. I’m talking about a stench, so profound it lingered long after the woman had already left the bathroom. It was a very distinctive odor very different from normal feces or urine. It literally smelled worse like a rotten vagina. There were times I completely refused to even use the restroom because it smelled so horrible in the ladies bathroom. That PH was off the chain and is not normal or healthy.
Trifling
She’s a fraud.
Tuna
@@antoniomitchell1883 Because of men sleeping around and them carry most of these diseases on there nut sack. 🤢
This is a GREAT message that should be in HIGH SCHOOLS. A lot of young woman don't have this Lesson.❤
Thanks Regina ❤️
Elementary school age 10...these kids need to understand daily hygiene.
High school is late. This starts from childhood. You teach the little girl to do the dish and clean the sink. Avoid the dish washer for long enough.
@Pump da Brakes I can't wrap myself around the fact that you've tagged yourself in your own comment.
My mother and my yayas always taught me and my sisters . We got up early every Saturday and cleaned the house from top to bottom , scrub the rugs cleaned . And yes and shower or bath twice a day three of on monthly friend . No body hair and wash hair at least once a week , always keep yourself up. My mom would kill me if I ever walked out the house a mess. Love your content ❤
Thank you ☺️❤️
That’s cool
My mom sat me down and made me read the book of Proverbs as a kid. When we got to Proverbs 32 she explained some things about the expectations for the women in my family. It was eye opening.
Met my wife when we were 18, knew immediately she could hold her own with old folks in my family, but more importantly that she would raise my future daughter to be womanly. 22 years later, she’s telling my 12 y/o daughter, (who is 4 yrs ahead scholastically), “baby, I should not be able to smell you when you walk by me”. Lol. They’ve read spiritual & biology books about the changes happening pre-puberty & have developed a self care plan so my daughter can take care of herself. We discuss this with my 10 year old son too, so he knows what to look for in girls his age. THANK GOD! You’d be surprised how many grown women don’t have basic understanding of their cycles or feminine hygiene. Yogurt and Apple cider vinegar, just saying.
I hope that smell extends to perfumes as well. Someone some where misunderstood "a stranger should think they smell a hint of, and the wearer unable to smell it at all" to mean "if they aren't coughing and passing out from down the hall, use another bottle" .
Interesting comment. Would also like to understand your meaning by saying "what a 10 year old boy should look out for in girls his age". And if you are teaching boys how to be hygienic, in addition to other values, as well.
Proverbs has 31 chapters😊.
I am glad that I came across your channel because it helps to know that a grown woman is holding women accountable and trying to teach them that they are supposed to be more than just a pretty face thank you ma’am peace
Glad you found it Jamaal. Welcome to the fam ❤️❤️
@@TheUpwardbound1 not starry eyed brother just happened to come across the channel and video these females need to be held accountable
@@TheUpwardbound1 not starry eyed brother just happened to come across the channel and video these females need to be held accountable
@@jamaalandrews2306 do u even know who this is
@@TheUpwardbound1 facts.
I agree 100% with that woman, especially her logic about Ph balance in a woman's body.
In a long-term relationship, it is very easy for a woman to know if her man is sleeping around especially if he's doing it raw because it throws off her Ph balance and she'll get an infection easily, whether mild or serious.
Conversely, it is easy for an experienced man to know if a woman sleeps around a lot, or knows how to take care of herself ( diet, etc ) simply by how her "peaches" smells, especially in the AM
During sex, body fluids from BOTH PARTNERS are exchanged, and body fluids contain all kinds of living organisms, good and bad, that affect each other's Ph balance, ostensibly, the body parts involved in sex are also the same body parts designed to eliminate waste from our body.
If your breath smells bad, it means there is rotten and decaying food particles in your mouth, stuck either in your teeth or throat.
If your feet/toes smell bad, it means that there is dead and decaying flesh between your toes.
Similar applies to your underarm.
Therefore, if the natural bodily fluid of a woman's ve-jay-jay doesn't smell good...No thanks, I'll pass.
Also, if a woman's home or room is nasty, ( not disorganized ) she can't be trusted.
If a man's place is nasty, ( not disorganized ) he'll always be baggage, ( emotionally, financially, and sexually ) in a relationship, no matter how attractive he appears at first.
She's speaking facts plain and simple. The pace of change in society is leaving behind the principles that brought it this far.
"You've been degraded by the street."
Such a simple truth that so many do not understand or believe.
I like this post!🤔... and I actually think this goes for men too... men we need to keep ourselves clean too. And our rooms/living spaces. "The room is the reflection of the mind"🧐
Very true Dan ❤️
I do agree with what I heard in this video but thanks for your comment because there is so much negativity toward women and men are excused or not held accountable for these same things like poor hygiene, dirty homes and not being taught that men should work and take care of their families. I have seen it because no man won't tell the truth and do a video but how many men are teaching their sons how to be men. Not many. I am seeing way too many effiminate men in these streets and so a lack of teaching is on both sides. Truth be told, young men come to work and go to school smelling just as bad as the girls but these are the same ones expecting a woman not to have a smell. And yes king, the room is a reflection of the mind and the spirit. External clutter often reflects internal chaos...
(Toward the end) Thank you. True. We are not worth our net worth. We are priceless. Society has us think we are worth our net worth. Which would mean, if someone has zero dollars and zero cents, society says that person is worthless. The only thing society sees is money. Thank you for what you said, Sam.
Thank you Jason ❤️
The elites manufacture alot of falsehoods and indoctrinate females with it because they are susceptible and from each other. Like alot of things its all backwards bullshit
Right only Jesus could count us out people swear is over for u judge u cuz they think u don’t all this material bullshit
This message is awesome. We need a million more of her. Keep pushing this message. It’s all positive.
We are living in times where people are living more in flesh than in spirit
Truth!
Next to Godliness Is Cleanliness💯
Yep
3:08 There has been a situation where I have seen some women having their nails done and the rest of their body looks questionable. So I think looking at a woman's nails doesn't always tell the whole story. It is the same when a woman looks at what kind of car a man drives and makes an assumption about the man. I find a lot of people are very shallow and are afraid to look deeper to get their answers.
I was thinking the same thing when I heard that. I keep my body very clean and keep my feet very clean and polished but I have a nutritional deficiency that makes the nails (on my hands but not my feet) break and chip alot so I dont get manicures or keep them polished because it would be a waste of time and money. So if a man looked at my nails or I had on shoes with my feet covered a man may look at me and assume that I am not clean or worth his time. As people we cant always judge a book by it's cover. If the book is interesing to you dont judge the cover-open it up and read the beginning, that will tell you what you need to know.
Well said Sam. We need more women of virtue, no question. God bless.
Thanks Jesse ❤️
You are absolutely one beautiful woman, Samantha Lee!
God Speed!
Thanks Jesse ❤️
This woman is sincere and 100 percent right! Completely Agree with her on all her points!
Finally someone speaks about these things. I really love your mindset! 💕
Thank you for your support! ❤️
BV is often gotten from pharmaceutical antibiotic prescriptions that kill good gut flora🤷🏻♀️ It can also come from poor or improper diet…
That’s right!
This logical voice needs to be THIS real when trying to educate these unlearned. They need to carry the shame of their decisions as shame is a precursor to change. They need a brutal dose of frank reality to realize why good men wont have them and bad men keep using them. I totally love your content and appreciate your mission.
Thank you for the support ❤️
Hey sis, this is so dope. I’m a man and I appreciate what you and the other Queen is talking about. There is so much truth in this. I don’t usually comment on videos but I had to show you love on this one. 👑
She’s a 💯 percent right. Women should always smell amazing and women should be with the right man not devalued.
High personal hygiene is key, just as mental hygiene, a hand and hand...
Mental hygiene. I love that
There was nothing but truth in what she said and how she said it was not harsh.
I'm covered up. I'm using my mind! That was powerful. 💪💪💪
☺️❤️
Yes i liked when she said that also
I appreciated hearing her say this too because I am not the prettiest crayon in the box, as they say and I stay covered up since I am a Christian woman so I dont get alot of attention from men and that can make me feel some type of way sometimes BUT I oustanding character, always educating my mind and my box don't stink so my future husband will be blessed!
I believe men & women body odor has alot to do with your diet, as well as good hygiene. I seen a couple of people who didn't like water, but they ate alot of salt & sugar; and their face was dry and you can see white substances on their face. I think we should all focus on internal cleansing as well as external. But the greatest of these is internal. Because what you eat & drink dictates how you smell.
Very true!
I love the way Samantha broke down all the relevant points in the video.
Thanks Dede
I totally agree with the role model issue on social media. My role models may have celebrity, but it's their character that I admire. I admire humility, charity, and how they treat people around them.
I also agree that our mothers play a big role in teaching us feminity and caring for ourselves. I learned about my body, the changes at puberty, etc. from my mother. I learned that I'm judged by the company I keep. I learned to respect others. You don't mistreat others because they are different than you. I believe she tried to teach me to be a real high-value woman. Not the narcissistic type that expects all of her wants and needs to be met.
I so appreciate a woman of your character trying to reach young women and show them that magazines and social media do not promote qualities they should strive for. Keep up the good work.❤️
Yes the character of a role model is very important..Thank you for the support Jacquelyn! ❤️
This is an awesome message delivered with love. I bathe my 2 young kids every single evening and make sure they are cleaning everything properly, including teeth, it seems basic but the learning starts young!
Yes it does start young! It’s all coming from love. ❤️ Thank you!
My mom taught me at a early age how to keep my surroundings clean, and she also told me as I got older to watch how the female im dealing with keep their kitchen, bathroom n bedroom cleaned.
Smart woman
The streets don’t degrade in itself, it’s what each individual allows to happen to them.
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3:00 - I’m glad you mentioned this, I practice this and have never known of other men to, so it’s nice to know I’m not alone. I had a huge crush on a girl in high school, up until the day that I noticed that all of her fingernails had a heavy buildup of dirt. Since that I day, I observe the hands of any woman I find attractive as that is an instant deal-breaker for me. My homeboy laughs at me when I say, “If a womans’ fingernails are dirty, her ***** ain’t clean.” I’m just saying. 🤷🏾♂️
Lol it’s a good thing to take a look at
I totally agree!
Dirty hands and nails are absolutely a no go!
You told them the truth.
I'm confused about the whole showering thing. Who can go a week without showering and still smell clean??? Nobody!
Exactly just from sweat eww 😷
I think we should be careful about hating on each other. I'm seeing so much hate in the comments. I think we forget that we are supposed to compliment each other. Not be exactly like each other. I remember my mom cooking and then washing dishes and my dad would dry the dishes because he knew that my mom left streaks and it erked him when she left streaks. He could've judged her but instead, he chose to complete her. Just one example of how to be in a complimentary relationship.
Nice video. I hope women like you guys catch traction. I really do. There are so many confused women today. Young women need solid direction. I’ve witnessed too many squirm or retaliate from simple conversation because they’re not mentally healthy. Sometimes it’s heartbreaking because seeing they’re not going anywhere in life and not being able to help them gives of hopeless vibes.
“Thank You!” for sharing
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If her soul is pure and her mind is clean her body will be too.
Yep ❤️
She Taught That Thing 🍎
That’s why I’m Celibate💪
Thanks for sharing Samantha❤
#It’sAChoice🧐
Thanks for the support ❤️
As they say: If you want to know what the inside of someone’s house looks like, take a peek in their car.
This! ❤️
A Virtuous Woman Is A Precious Jewel
Very true!
This was excellent...it needed to be addressed! #payattention #cleanlinessisGodliness #selflove #selfcare guard your mind your heart and your temple!
Best video you've made yet. On point. Hit the spot. Told the truth.❤❤❤❤
Thank you DeMontrion ❤️
A spiritual and Virtuous Woman,can help a worldly woman,by living your thuth,be blessed
Yes!
Girls, your PH balance! 😂😂 I can't even 😄
Lol
Sam, your points are spoken perfectly and well received.
Thank you ☺️
How can you tell if a woman keeps herself based on her nails? A lot of women who get their nails and feet done shows they might be a materialistic woman, not a show there near and tidy people. Cause some women want to focus on dressing up like a hot girl, but their houses, cars, and spaces is always dirty.
Most girls are taught to not be told what to do by a man but never been taught to wash their rear end. They walking around acting like they boss with a dirty rear end. SMH...
3.25 yep. A clean home is a clean women.. but don't let them fool u also..
This large world we live in in it’s hard to fine a respectable woman🤷🏾♂️
They are out here
Well I’m going to let God bring that person to me🤷🏾♂️🙏🏾
Men notice morals and values. Save the element of surprise for your husband and not the streets.
Loved this!
Only real men do though. Most have low standards, they just care for box and that's it. And men having low standards lets dem women get away with stuff like this.
Because you don't keep your hygiene up doesn't mean MOMMA didn't teach you. A lot of females neglect theirself out of their own negligence to stay on top of theirself❤
Also could be true Regina ❤️
Sorry a lot of mom in the USA are 304s.
Nails are my #1 thing I look at after eyes🤷🏼♂️ blame my moms she always had beautiful nails never went to salons… at 78 still does it🤷🏼♂️
Good for her ❤️ she’s blessed
@@LoveSamanthaLee yes as am I it’s why I believe I’m so different I’ve watched my folks be happily married for my 45 years- that just is sooo rare, pops still protects her at 83 like he did at 35💙
They absolutely don’t understand any of this and tbh almost everyone who knows ME- doesn’t get it I stopped trying to- not worth my peace💙
Very inspiring. Your daughter has such a good role model ❤
Thank you. This means a lot to me! ☺️
We need more ladies like you doing this great video!
A WISE WOMAN WILL LISTEN TO WORDS OF WISDOM!
Ran the whole video and all I heard was positivity and empowerment. Love it! Keep it going!
Cleanliness is next to godliness.
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Damn,I struck Big time last time around . Clean space failed,nail test failed....🤦🏽♂️ Loved is Dead only Lust remains and that's starting to fade.
Men and women both have a responsibility to respect their house. Home or body 🤔
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Melanie ain't holding no punches. 👌
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My mom always told me a man can stand up and bathe but a woman needs to sit down and bathe.
I want to see Melanie King and Samantha Collab 🙏
That would be fun ❤️
That's what the Divine masculine brings. Order to chaos❤💪🏽. Both are needed for balance 💯
Yes both are NEEDED
@@LoveSamanthaLee 💯❤️💪🏽
Great show, thanks for putting this info/energy out there!
I believe that a lot of women nowadays haven't been shown or learned how to properly take care of themselves. Social media has taught them how to be for da streets. Hygiene iz a must 4 for me. If you no better than you do.
Hygiene should be a MUST ❤️
Hi Samantha, you have a awesome channel and very educational,
Thank you so much Robert ❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee I enjoy your content Sam, you keep it real,
Awesome that this is brought to the light. Hopefully hopefully EVERYONE can do a self-analysis. Man & Womb-man❤💯💪🏽
Self analysis is 🔑
I just wanna give her kudos for speaking out with her own observation, authentically. Why we can't just eat the meat and spit out the bones... There is no pamphlet, to go by and speak thereof. Ijs
Hear ya
Samantha is so classy !! Beautiful and amazing !!!
Sister is the real deal, love this!❤🔥
Hygiene is a must for everyone especially women cause if they don’t wash down there that thang can be outrageous and I know they be smelling themselves, like someone said they really don’t know how to wash that thing till they get in High School
Lol unfortunately this is the case
@@LoveSamanthaLee I see 🤣
Samantha, L❤VE your message about femininity & sexuality. I believe in your mindset. Not tryin’ to shame anybody else out there. But I dig what you’re sayin’. Thank you
Thanks for your honesty
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Very deep and proud this topic is being brought out truly real!!
As a traditional man I want a traditional woman. This era as a whole has failed women
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Thanks, Samantha. Integrity is priceless.
What's that line from the bible ? What benefits a man ? to gain the world but lose his soul ..
I'm my experience, and mothers are always harder on daughters. Vs fathers. And fathers on sons vs. mothers and sons. And I think it's a healthy thing .Once the daughter or son matures, the relationship changes 5 Fathers and daughters are more daddy's little girl . And Mama's baby boy ..
Very true Shane ❤️
Great conversation from your standpoint with the breakdown and from what they were talking about. I want to hear the whole podcast I couldn't find the show.
Thanks Will! ☺️. I think they took it down
THE REAL TRUTH WILL SET YOUR MIND FREE ON PLANET EARTH ❤🎉😊
It is what it is , act accordingly.. keep your standards...don't settle if you got it together....if.....
I appreciate your video and this dialogue. As a christian, this is so important, accompanied with godly integrity; my future mate must have character and integrity, from a human perspective, so glad you said this, that's not just for a male!!! God help us! Women please love yourself, open your ❤️ heart to understand you created by God, in His image, God should be your first love, not that guy whispering in your ear! I'm 50-something, wisdom, life experience is priceless! Show restraint, wait for the ring, instead of the rubber, you're worth more!!!
Agreed. This is he best and most valuable comment here!
Yes and Amen 🙏💖🌈. It is written!
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Melanie King is the standard. She’s the type of woman who actually speaks truth and has a conventional raising. It’s in her spirit. She hasn’t lived one life and is now trying to sell a different life. She is the standard.
Yes, she is the pick-me standard!
Bet you single
@@RM-nz3mg Yes I am as matter of fact! And I’m proud of it!🙂🙂
@@girlbrittneygirl I'm sure
@@RM-nz3mg Ok go live life! Don't let my single ass stop you! 😂😂
Sometimes it can be of trauma when embarrassing and knowledge of buying products that's inexpensive keeping up with doctors and trying to not get a lot of attraction of no more care from your significant other.
Very important conversation keep it real keep it classy keep it keep it clean!!!!!
Exactly ❤️
I told my woman 4 rules she thought was joke so Time exit just how it is plus men should know how to do house work any way.
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10:25 facts, I honestly try to stay away from women who show skin online and especially the wanabee instagram models with thousands of imaginary friends, definite red flag
Thanks Samantha! I Feel I can Show My Daughter age-12 This Video.Perfect Timing recently funny smell in bathroom Air. Not knowing if her mother did a good job explaining these important things to her.Now My Daughter Can Hear/Learn From her Same Gender most of these things Felt Weird telling her but I made a joke out of it as telling My Daughter.Now Finishing up 4-yrs. Custody Court.I Have too be Careful How I Speak.Now She Can Watch Video and Program it in Her Mind like a Library For NOW & FUTURE. Thanks Again.Continue Being You Samantha.💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾❤✌️
Thank you for the support!
As women of today, we need to pay more attention to our hygiene. Todays millenial EVE is smelly, ran through, selfish and narsassistic
I like the way the black man is simply going with the vibe,he is also unbiased 😂😂😂😂😂
Finally! Now Sam get with her (Mel), Dnieka Marie and Olivia Alexa when you all come together you’ll basically form the power equivalent of Voltron and break the internet trust me and within that process what each of you strive to do individually will be accomplished in this singular future podcast.
Samantha is my boo😍😍
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Awareness fosters growth!
Ok- I completely understand why some females get UTI’s etc MUCH more often than others😂 it’s not what they say- it’s the fact they get run through, nothing off limits yer gonna always have those problems.
Unfortunately we’ve already been through all that 😞 thanks and keep being you🙏💙23:47
Lol thanks for the support
@@LoveSamanthaLee always! I appreciate honesty more than anything ✌️🩵
I get the concept cleanliness and it’s good message. However, there were several points that should not be taken as Bible. From being clean shaven to the use of vinegar is not necessarily sound doctrine. Bottom line find what works for you. Try to live and eat clean.
Thanks for sharing this important topic...
Sure thing! ❤️
❤ Prayers and have a blessed day 🙏
Thanks Larry! You too ❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee I love you too God bless ❤️🙏
I know. Plenty of women you have perfect nails who reside in a home that is a wreck.
That’s also true
I’m loving this so far!
When a woman lay it in, they are listened to. But if Kevin Samuels says the same thing he is gay, he is misogynistic, etc. RIP KS.
Thank God for this wonderful expression and format valuable format of important conversation. Totally assencial. This is so real!
Thanks Gary ❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee you're welcome Poppa's baby.🤓