I'm an INTP, so I say this: in order for the world to be devoid of misunderstanding, everyone must think alike. For everyone to think alike he/she must live like everyone else. Neither is EVER going to happen.
Enfps are basically everything I love about people in one person! They’re energetic and fun and very supportive but very deep and intelligent, my close friend is an enfp and she’s so awesome in many ways, always stands up for those who are wronged and never lets anyone steps on them. -an infj
Aww u r so sweet. One of my best friends is an infj and I really love our enfp & infj combination. I love how we understand each other so well and how we both understand that we need energy to give and energy to keep. I don't know, it's just so awesome, cause she also laughs at my bad jokes hahaha
You know you're an ENFP when you're 3 seconds into the video and the dude says something that makes you look up ten other things about what he just said
all my friends are enfp’s and let me tell you. you all are hilarious and caring but scattered as all hell . pls for ur own sake. use the reminders app on ur phone. sincerely, an INTJ
I asked my friend to describe me and her answer: "You can make friends so easily, all you need to do is open your mouth and then you're bffs with everybody. But a lot of times you actually chose not to do that and just keep to yourself which kinda confuses me. I don't know if you're actually a people person or not!" Honestly i just like communicating with people not making friends if that makes sense.
I understand, it's the same for me, it's easy for us ENFPs to connect to people. But I can't be friends with everyone, cause I would not have the time for everyone, but I would like to.
I get this. I will talk all evening with someone and by the end of it they feel like we just became best friends and I feel like "That was an interesting evening. Wonder who I'll meet tomorrow" They feel so blown away by the connection but don't realise I connect with everyone. Everyday. ENFP
It's not that I don't have time it's just that I'm picky whom I choose to continue sharing my good energy with. We can get to know each other but if you don't have what I am looking for then acquaintances is as far as we'll go🤷🏾♀️
Haha. So true. But I do like having a few close friends. And I usually choose the outcasts who love me and care about me and appreciate my friendship most of all. Their loyal and stick by my side. But like others said, I'm picky. I can do REALLY well flying solo. And it ain't no good to have someone come along who's gonna try to slow me down. You do that for even 1 second and you look over your shoulder and I'll be gone. I need someone who's down for whatever, while simultaneously not putting a damper on what I'm about to go do next.
As an ENFP, I'm fully in control of my emotions, atleast people around me believe so. I don't express my feelings at all and sometimes I have difficulty in forming sentences because my thoughts run just too fast and I'm always scared that people will perceive me a dumb person. Edit: Took the test again and I'm an ENTP now. What can I say, life happens.
well - they think we are stupid when they don't know us. Try talking about something you know about! People tend to call me weird haha but not often stupid bc ill randomly say facts and they'll be like.. wtf girl how do you know that?
Daniel Nwaozuzu I was always being called stupid by my friends at high school. “ are u dumb?” “ are u stupid” whenever I was trying to do or say something funny. And I always laughed it off sort of taking it as a joke but deep down it hurts so much. It has been 3 years since I finished highschool but I’m still depressed.. one time my friends did a party and invited everyone to the party except me, I saw that on Snapchat. After that some girl told me that because of me they cannot talk about meeting up in the group cuz I might see it, and that everyone hates me and wants me to stop hanging out with them. It has been 3 years and I still hurt inside, so much.
@@katyk6912 hey don't be sad. Your better than those idiots anyways. I also got bullied in school because everyone thought I was dumb and weird. Now idc because those people are just boring as hell and close minded
Hi (intp intj thing here)! I really like to try to understand people, but it’s hard because I take these sorts of things as I see them generally and if you put up a facade, we’re not going to get anywhere. I find it’s really helpful with my ENFP friends to have a couple of meaningful conversations so that I don’t offend them by misunderstanding them.
I (INTJ) just sent my wife (ENFP) this video - but she won't watch it because she refuses to be pigeonholed into a personality type - exactly what an ENFP would say ;-) xx
I think this really clarified for me the difference between INFP and ENFP and I definitely think I'm an ENFP. It's hard because I love writing fiction and studying languages like INFPs do, but I noticed that what sparks my inspiration for wanting to learn a new language or writing a character is my interactions with people. And ENFPs sounds a lot like ambiverts which is probably why I'm always so confused!
Lindsey Your comment solved a lot of my own confusion between the two.. I'm truly fond of learning new languages and I never thought why I love this.. Then you got it. I often have so many amazing online friends from all over the world, I always feel like supporting them and have a better communication with them, loving to understand people and to get understood makes me love learning languages. At the same time I get tired of spending too much time with real-life people and even friends ,that's what made me doubt myself as an INFP, but no, ENFPs also like socializing the least among extroverted types.. So the summary is :we do like people but we need our alone times to recharge from interacting with them, so we would rather keep in touch with people, talk and express our values but from a distance (like online communicating) , this is what an ambivert is, this is ENFP :)
Yeah, I'm definitely an ENFP, but I LOVE learning languages and writing fiction, and sometimes I would be confused as to why I was more like an INFP in some respects. But it all makes sense
As a fellow ENFP:, i would like to reassure myself that i'm not alone, and would like to ask some questions to someone out there who'd be kind enough to share their thoughts and why not, experiences with me.1) Do you feel as if everyone thinks you're a shallow dumb person? 2) For the most part would you say you wear your emotions on your sleeve? 3) Do you have this unquenchable thirst for social knowledge and how things work? 4) Do you often feel that you have a great thought or idea in mind but find it hard to put into words or even explain? 5) I didn't realize that there were more ENFP women than men, what does this mean to us men? thanks for answering and god bless wherever you are fellow ENFP brother/sister
1)yes 2)Sometimes yes, but there are also times when I feel extremely detached. It's maybe a 70-30 split. 3)Yes 4)Yes 5)I'm a woman, but I don't think it means much. I have a few male Enfp friends and they're all lots of fun to be around. I do think at times some Enfp men struggle with fitting into society's view of masculinity - but I say screw that and embrace your emotions! Guys with emotional intelligence are seriously attractive :P :)
Mauricio Rincon C 1)yes,likd whenever im supposed to like do smth,lets say in a team work, they dont trust me and say im dumb just cause i dont see the the things the same way they do🙄
Mauricio Rincon C 3) yesss i could just sit in like a park or smth like that just to look at how ppl act and communicate and stuff and i could do smth to someone just to see how they react
They’re so warm, intellectual but not passive. I love them. They always help “new” people like it’s their instinct. Coming from INTP. Where can I meet more of this type haha?
As an ENFP I am really sensitive and not great at leading people. I don't know how to say no sometimes. I also suck at taking complements. To me, I'm just being what everyone should be like. Do I really deserve such kind words? uwu
"the truth of the tale - the imagination of the heart" - what a wonderful quote which represents an ENFP. And I liked the way you showed Introverted Feeling.
ENFP Nice to find others! My life’s mission is to pursue the infinity of love and inspires others. I am full of ideas and find it difficult to just stick to one. I try to harbor a sense of community at my work and my city. I have a fire burning to learn about your passions! I’m open ears and compassionate.
I'm INTJ in the best relationship I could ever ask for with the most love I know, and it's with an ENFP. I love her so much and it's really just the best relationship ever. Highly recommend..
My 3 of my cousins and 2 of my friends are ENFP and everyone Knows and LOVES them! They are the most socially confident people I've ever met. They never judge and they socialize 24/7. They get free meals, go to clubs for free, and borderline famous. ENFPs to me are how people should be and for that have my respect. Sincerely INTJ
INFP here and I can say ENFPs make the best company around! So fun and exciting to be with. They're great at initiating and holding conversations even if its new to them. A trait I observe however is they can be too sociable in a way that they jump people to people like a tourist and moving on once it's over. It's not bad per se but, in a way, that shows their enthusiasm to the world at large rather than being in a small circle of experience. Does my observation sound accurate?
I feel like we get bored easily and always seek new experiences which comes with new people. I am definitely guilty of that, we just make friends so easily and we’re not good at showing emotions. I guess I got rid of some friendships because I felt misunderstood a lot and I can’t bother with negativity so I just move on to the next great person I can meet :)
A lot of people seek us out.. So sometimes we're just simply being polite & sociable, because people matter... But we're not as "surface" about things, as it might first appear... If we have a genuine connection with you & know you understand or care, then others can't replace that.. We truly value "good people" wherever we find them..
“…jump people to people…”. It’s VERY true. I can walk into a room knowing no one, yet by the time I leave, I’ll have interacted with most or all of them. I have a large acquaintance base. I love having close friends, especially when processing and feeling more introversive. The part about sharing enthusiasm with the world, for me, is that I want to learn from everyone AND have them feel accepted. I’m very much in the moment with most people. If you’re in my immediate space, you get my attention. If you’re far away, I’ll always want to know what you’re up to. But the people near me get most of my attention because talking and sharing face to face is what makes me happiest. If you want to find something good in most anyone, talk with an ENFP - I think we try to find the good like pigs find truffles.
@@klikbate8916 I don't want to get to technical but introversion and extroversion is more than just how you act in social situations, its how you view the world. An extrovert can act introverted sometimes and vice-versa. But when it comes to mbti you are either one or the other. For example i am an ENTP (one of the most introverted extroverts), i used to think i was a INTP however i am an extrovert regardless of whether i feel more introverted some days because my dominant function Extroverted Intuition (same as yours assuming your ENFP and if your INFP its your second function) Extroverted Intuition is trying to create connections in the outside world and therefore i am extroverted. Look at each type and decide whether you think more through personal values introverted feeling (Fi) or seek big picture connections extroverted intuition (Ne) and you will know whether your introverted or introverted in terms of the mbti system. Hope this helps.
@@Prometheus7272 that does make sense, but i still think you can be a mix. Like you can identify as whichever one is dominant, but if you aren't purely one or the other then you're a mix, in my eyes. Another reason i mentioned the percentages is because in the test i took, it gave you percentages Edit: but if you're like an expert in this field or something i won't argue XD
I love one ENFP person he's really positive, cute and funny! I like his original sense of humor, his simple and careless style, his aura, when he's next to me.. INFP~
@@muddymallow80 I can basically make a new friend in 10 minutes, and become good friends in an hour...and then never meet this person ever again... 😗 Which is a rather annoying and painful part of life (because I will actually never forget those people).
This video makes me smile and laugh. I am ISFJ but my brother is ENFP and he's hilarious. He's totally nuts. He's the most social guy i know. He loves being in room full of strangers and talking w all of them. I would never do that. He just loves interacting w ppl. Kinda blows my mind but he's super nice and awesome and hilarious. I feel like he just lives life like it's a party.
Alexis Plummer i agree it definitely seems that ENFP are always happy, but that’s because they’re really good at hiding their negative emotions. think robin williams
I asked my cousins how I act because I was curious. and they said I'm crazy, always drunk, needing to be in an asylum, etc but I also heard from some that I am insanely the most positive, funny person when we're all together.
As an ENFP, watching these videos makes me feel proud to be myself and valued by others who really love them. I doubt myself a lot in my abilities, success, and making friends. Thanks yall
pretty accurate, although i don’t identify with the part about hiding feelings... but most ENFPs i talk to say they relate to that. i have to say i’m getting tired of hearing how ENFPs don’t like routines or rigid structure because of boredom. sure it can get boring, but my biggest problem is when these things get in the way of FUNCTIONALITY. people constantly push THEIR way of doing things onto me, insisting that it is the RIGHT way, without paying attention to the fact that THEIR way doesn’t just not work for me, but actually PREVENTS me from doing things effectively. things like drawing with guidelines, writing with outlines-- those are the first two things to come to mind for me-- don’t work for me. i don’t avoid them due to “boredom” though. there are other things as well, things related to organization mostly, and nobody else can tell me how to do these things effectively because nobody else knows how my mind actually works. xSxJ types might work well with alphabetizing, neat little boxes in straight lines, etc., but i lose efficiency when i copy those systems. it’s hard getting people to understand this (especially SJs in my experience, although that’s to be expected from having opposing functions). it’s also hard not to dig in my heals in those scenarios to the point where they brush me off as being completely disorganized or single-minded though.
broken heartstrings Idk if I'm Enfp or Entp...so take what I say with a grain of salt...but I've come to think of the tedium of someone giving me guidelines to do something as an opportunity to learn an entirely different perspective. I find it an opportunity to grow and add an insight that I never would have thought of on my own. Thus the end result is a refined fusion of my own ideas and the ideas of others... making it that much stronger.
Yeah, same, like, sometimes I hide my feelings, cause I don't really like showing them, so I guess I can relate. But I've cried in front of people several times, sooo... Getting used to it
i think you feel that way bcuz we just don't like the rules, we don't want to do something just bcuz someone else said so, even as a young girl my mum always told me i never liked taking orders by anyone🤣. Just do it on your way, nobody have a right to push you into something if you don't want to!
I RELATED SO MUCH TO THE 'GOOD AT MOTIVATING PPL BUT NOT NECESSARILY GOOD AT LEADING AND ORGANIZING PPL' LIKE I STRUGGLED WITH THAT A LOT GROWING UP. PEOPLE WOULD PUT ME IN LEADERSHIP POSITIONS AND I WOULDNT DO AN AMAZING JOB AND I KEPT FEELING REALLY DOWN ABOUT IT. It made me feel like ppl thought I was all talk but no action. This video taught me why im not meant to lead. I can't be a kiss up or stay in a routine for too long
Any other ENFP’s usually get stressed at social events with friends because they just want everyone happy and you are so in tune with what each friend likes and dislikes and are constantly worried they aren’t having a good time so you end up not having a good time because you worry to much about the people around you?? 😂😭
Oh yeah. So, I usually try to lead conversations and get people interacting. It’s fun for me and helps get me off the hook for feeling like I need to entertain everyone. It’s funny that I almost always play “host” at a gathering…even if it’s not my house. :)
Please help. I dont know if any other ENFP's can relate to this, but people often see me as dumb. Whenever i get into a discussion or if i get provoked people often get shocked because i am being serious for once, and all of a sudden people tell me im "actually really smart". I dont know how to explain it, but whenever im trying to express something, i do it in a VERY informal and silly way and i cant put words as to why i do so. i feel like the only person who really knows me is my boyfriend, he knows whats actually going on inside my mind and knows that im not as silly and dumb as people might assume. For instance if i were to express to my boyfriend that i am feeling exhausted and tired and depressed, i would just say it as it is while being serious, but if i were to tell this to my friends i would be like "my life sucks, i need pizza right now or i will die". Does that make any sense? I express myself all the time, but im never being serious about it, its like everything inside my head goes through a filter to make it sound less serious. Sometimes i just want people to actually know that im not feeling well, but instead they just laugh at me and respond with something silly back. I hate it. I think im just so used to being the fun, always happy person who just makes everyone laugh. I also feel like i act very silly to make people approach me easier if that makes sense. So i dont seem so harsh and serious. I want people to not be afraid of being themselves around me, i want people to not be shy or afraid of saying something they might think will come out weird. I just want to kinda "lower" myself to make them feel good and be able to express themselves how they want. Okay im just gonna stop writing now, but honestly i would be so grateful if anyone would help me with this problem or just share your own experience. Does anyone else feel this way? Ps sorry my english is not perfect, its not my native language.
Omg I do understand it. Everybody thinks I'm just clumsy and dump, and it makes me feel aggressive, because on the inside I feel very intelligent and deep
My boss told me that I'm so popular (which I also used to be in uni) in the office because every morning when people come in, they go to my desk and greet me or ask me out for lunch. I told my bestfriend that sometimes I get drained with all the connections that I'm making and that for me, I consider only a few people as my real friends. I just want everyone to get along. She said that I'm very good at making people feel good and at ease and that's why people get drawn to me and that's fine until they make demands of my time which I really cannot afford to give to everyone because I have a lot of things to do (hobbies). And I see myself hanging out with people more if we share the same interest/ passion. Being an ENFP is awesome because we can bring people together but sometime we also feel the need to be alone and re-charge.
ARIES AND ENFP? I MUST BE THE QUEEN OF CROISSANTS AND COFFEE... i fucking hate myself. i promise i’ve changed in the two years that this comment was made.
I find this so funny to me because it speaks my personality 😭 When I was in middle school, our classroom is separated with the "geeks", "athletes" and "famous people". And I'd be friends with all of them for them to be friends too 🤣. Im also taking Special Education and as you said, I wanted to meet new people and discover the beauty and talent of every child. I truly am an ENFP. 😭
I'm an Enfp with anxiety, so that might have something to do with it, but I saw some things that kind of contradicted me in here. 1. I don't consider everyone and everything in their best outcome, i have hope and give second and third chances, (you can screw up twice, that's human) but i won't give you a fourth if you cross me or my beliefs in an aggressive manner, that's just irresponsible and cruel to myself. 2. I don't have trouble talking about something i consider a problem unless it directly affects me in an extreme way (i.e.; i can tell you that i'm feeling anxious and depressed, but i can't tell you that I've been feeling a lot of pain in my right abdomen, because then i'm having to address a serious issue that takes me places i don't understand in a terrifying way. 3. I do not appear as a happy adhd puppy, literally no one has said that about me since i was nine years old, I'm mostly quiet and reserved, but i can completely explode in several emotional ways if i'm overwhelmed in a workspace or friendship. 4. I do not have any sort of problem with structured by-the-book workspaces, i may have a hard time keeping track of all the rules, or may be overwhelmed with a workload of too many things i piled up for myself, but i never feel issues with expressing creativity.
Two things this makes me think of~ one is that I wear my heart completely on my sleeve and aren't that private at all, ENFPs (and INFPs) are quite aware of the nuances of our internal states and the extent to which we express that must vary from person to person, but I absolutely love talking about how I feel and what I think whether it's day to day thoughts or my endless spiritual/philosophical ideas, we're people people and the richest conversations can come from sharing the depth of my own feelings and thoughts first second, often the main thing people first notice is our extroversion and bubbly nature, that along with the fact that we're so damn curious means (at least for me) I tend to ask people so many questions, all of which combined could create the impression that we're naive and clueless which is a shame since we have such great depth and intelligence that in general conversation won't always get a chance to be shared, it's another reason why I so actively express myself since there's just so much I love and resonate with and I don't want it to be lost in small talk
Probably the most accurate description of me, I mean ENFP. My desired educational pursuits are in psychology, genetics, and a bit of human evolution, nutrition, sexuality all thrown in.
3:40 the part that scares me the most about being in relationships with enfps (which I otherwise find amazing). they're going to feel restless and bored without constant novelty, and will never be satisfied with "settling down"...
That's not true, I find that we are fiercely loyal to people. Thing that would put off an ENFP is if you stopped growing as a person or as a couple, but that's just a personal experience
We are not afraid of settling down, but what we are really looking for is real and deep connection. If you have that with your ENFP partner, he/she will be using their imagination in the relationship as opposed to being wondering about other people and they will do everything they can to continue in the relationship.
step tb we can settle down, but we need something to keep the romance alive, and a partner who constantly shows that they love us. We are high maitenince 😂(yes I know I spelled that wrong)
A little advice....ENFPs are usually said to have ADHD, you guys are talking while putting up words to be read that go away a bit too quickly to even understand either of the two......the talking or the words... It's so busy with all the video details that it's taking from the point of the video.
Wish I had learned more about this ENFP world before I started my Pharmacology Degree lol. Excited to meet and talk with patients, but nervous of the fast paced and stressing environment.
I am ENFP and this video basically is a bio about me and my life 😱😱 I’m scattered brained, daydream a lot, super spontaneous (sometimes a bit too much) and impulsive. But I make up for these with my big heart and happy persona. Please give us more love 💕 and talk to use beyond a superficial level
This so me! Im totally an ENFP. I loved this video. I listened to everything and I took notes, so I can use it when asked to introduce myself. Also I translated it to my mother tongue, maybe it would be useful for any other BRAZILIAN as well: [EM PORTUGUêS]: ENFP é espontâneo e tende a lidar com as coisas, com ânimo e ambição. Estão ligados com o que acontece em seu redor e veem potencial em desenvolver ideias de maneira inesperada. Eles tendem ser cabeça aberta, e geralmente são bons em persuadir pessoas para contribuir com causas e problemas de algum modo. No entanto tendem ser melhores em motivar outros do que agrupando, liderando e instruindo-os. Isso porque um ENFP geralmente não gostar de fazer favor por fazer ou terem que expresser suas emoções de um jeito “convencionado” ou como fachada. ENFP tende a ser mais sensível do que parece. Eles podem parecer empolgados e animados mas por dentro gostam de ser como realmente sentem. De algum jeito são fechados quanto a suas emoções, podem ser defensivos quando sente alguém se intrometendo inconvenientemente ou sendo insensível com seus valores ou algo com que se importa bastante. ENFP é geralmente utópico/idealista e se importa muito com o mundo e as pessoas e estão geralmente trabalhando em prol dos marginalizados e menos favorecidos. O ENFP vai geralmente ver as coisas sob um ponto de vista externo e procurer maneiras de ganhar sua causa. ENFP tendem a aceitar todo tipo de pessoa, incluindo aquelas com posturas drasticamente diferentes do seu modo de pensar. Essa tolerância pode ser um resultado do seu modo de viver. Querem que todos se deem bem e está disposto a ajudar os desafortunados. Eles estão interessados em estruturas sociais, como a comunidade onde vivem e gostam de ter certeza que todos se sintam únicos e apreciados por terem algo a acrescentar. Com toda energia que os ENFP tendem a gastar motivando outros, eles de vez em quando precisam passar um tempo consigo mesmos para descansar/descarregar a mente. Mesmo sendo muito sociáveis, podem se cansar em ter de lidar com pessoas, suas necessidades e expectativas que os outros impoem. Se as coisas são muito estruturadas, ENFP vão tipicamente começar a se sentirem reprimidos, isso é, vão sentir que não tem tempo ou espaço para serem eles mesmos, para serem livres. Gostam de pegar as coisas como veem (início), e podem achar repetição e instruções pré-planejadas entediante e chato. ENFP tendem a ser intelectualmente orientados para assuntos relacionadoas a pessoas. Vão tipicamente achar o mundo fascinante e as pessoas que o habitam ainda mais, como consequencia é normal um ENFP variar entre as áreas de psicologia, sociologia, antropologia e outros nessa linha. São intrigados pela diversidade da humanidade e todas ideias e como são expressadas dependendo do tempo e lugar, o que nos conecta e os que nos torna diferentes. Tendem a ver multiplicidade em tudo, onde não existe um meio certo de viver, amar ou resolver um dado problema. No campo pessoal, ENFP tende a ter um comportamento engajado, sendo bom de conversa, mudando de um assunto para outro, brincando e rindo. Gostam de converser com outros adim de aprender o que pensam, o que fazem, como pensam sobre algum problema e o que é importante para cada um. São brincalhões (?) e numa conversa podem vir com ideias esquisitas e” fora da casinha” para fazer. Podem impressionar outros com o quão rápido pensam. São incansáveis e não gostam de ficar sentados ou fazendo algo por muito tempo. Gostam de trabalhos que os desafiam mentalmente e procuram pessoas que acreditam ser criadores de novas ideias. São percussores de mudanças importantes e tem a urgência de serem livres pra fazer o que quiserem.
WOW makes sense that im an anthropology major with a minor in psych. Cool stuff. Nice to see a bunch of ENFPs in the same place, Ive noticed some differences between the ENFP-A and ENFP-T, however. Quite interesting how we differ!
I wonder if your mood at the time could affect your results. Look for a RUclips video called "10 struggles of ENFP" and see how you feel about what she says.
When I first started taking MBTI tests about 2 months ago, I got typed as an INFJ multiple times. I’ve been through a lot of social changes lately though and discovered myself more, so I took the test again about a month ago and got typed as an INFP. It still felt a little off somehow, even though it described me pretty accurately. About 2 weeks ago I got typed as ENFP from a couple of tests. I decided to look more into the cognitive functions since I learned any online test probably isn’t very accurate, and god . . . NeFi describes me PERFECTLY. can’t wait to learn more about it.
I'm talking to an ENFP girl and I'm here to do my research to understand her more. Suffice to say, the video and the comment section is very helpful in making me understand. But I wonder why it's never stated how short their attention span is.
Im an enfp. I think this video is lacks how much depth an enfp has. How they are a sponge and value intelligence and learning from others. How they can become hyper focused on a specific topic and then become a wealth of knowledge on that topic. How under positive self motivation, a healthy environment or supportive mentor the enfp can accomplish great things. They are able to grasp abstract concepts and absorb information from books. If you are an enfp, please please read
i feel like many enfps periodically show their introverted side, and they are pretty much balanced on the introversion-extraversion scale (i went from infp to enfp in a year)
Im an INFP... Ive noticed that most of the people i choose to have around me are also either INFP or ENFP. My boyfriend of almost a year is a ENFP and my 2 best friends are INFP. I think the reason me and my boyfriend work so well is because we can both understand each other spiritually and that we both think the same and see the world the thru the same eyes.... We also challenge eachother and kind of force each other to discover new things too
at first i was against the MBTI types because every human is unique and i don't want to be put inside of a box of stereotypes or whatever- but LITERALLY THIS HELPS SO MUCH. its crazy how accurate!!!!!
I’m genuinely curious about why people develop these different personality types ! I’m thinking like Nature vs nurture, maybe various Past lives haha! Idek! Thoughts ?
"...they just want everyone to get along and lend a hand to those in need..."
Me: Why is that so hard for everyone to understand?
Thank you!
I feel you
Are they the guy in the office who never shuts up and wants to be the centre of attention all the time. If so they are annoying
I'm an INTP, so I say this: in order for the world to be devoid of misunderstanding, everyone must think alike. For everyone to think alike he/she must live like everyone else. Neither is EVER going to happen.
Trinity IKR
PEOPLE TELL ME THAT I’M JUST PRETENDING TO BE POSITIVE AND HYPED ALL THE TIME
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I JUST CAN’T BE ANY OTHER WAY
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Enfps are basically everything I love about people in one person! They’re energetic and fun and very supportive but very deep and intelligent, my close friend is an enfp and she’s so awesome in many ways, always stands up for those who are wronged and never lets anyone steps on them.
-an infj
Insfires man!! Thank you for those beautiful words ❤️🌈
Taehyung is enfp lmao
They say enfp and infj make the perfect match.
Aww u r so sweet. One of my best friends is an infj and I really love our enfp & infj combination. I love how we understand each other so well and how we both understand that we need energy to give and energy to keep. I don't know, it's just so awesome, cause she also laughs at my bad jokes hahaha
Heyy im an enfp and my bff is an infj haha
Sorry I got distracted with a daydream halfway through this
AlmondRose SO TRUE LMAO
You know you're an ENFP when you're 3 seconds into the video and the dude says something that makes you look up ten other things about what he just said
Me too 😅😅😂😂
Hahhahahha i thought I was the only one haha
omfg same lol
all my friends are enfp’s and let me tell you. you all are hilarious and caring but scattered as all hell . pls for ur own sake. use the reminders app on ur phone.
sincerely,
an INTJ
OMG THIS COMMENT CAME FOR ME
I feel both attacked and touched at the same time 😂😂
you didn't have to do me like that
Lana the Satan lmao thanks
O U C H lmao
I asked my friend to describe me and her answer:
"You can make friends so easily, all you need to do is open your mouth and then you're bffs with everybody. But a lot of times you actually chose not to do that and just keep to yourself which kinda confuses me. I don't know if you're actually a people person or not!"
Honestly i just like communicating with people not making friends if that makes sense.
I understand, it's the same for me, it's easy for us ENFPs to connect to people. But I can't be friends with everyone, cause I would not have the time for everyone, but I would like to.
My friend said to me last week, you have a million acquaintances but only 3 real friends.
I get this. I will talk all evening with someone and by the end of it they feel like we just became best friends and I feel like "That was an interesting evening. Wonder who I'll meet tomorrow" They feel so blown away by the connection but don't realise I connect with everyone. Everyday. ENFP
It's not that I don't have time it's just that I'm picky whom I choose to continue sharing my good energy with. We can get to know each other but if you don't have what I am looking for then acquaintances is as far as we'll go🤷🏾♀️
Haha. So true.
But I do like having a few close friends. And I usually choose the outcasts who love me and care about me and appreciate my friendship most of all. Their loyal and stick by my side.
But like others said, I'm picky. I can do REALLY well flying solo. And it ain't no good to have someone come along who's gonna try to slow me down. You do that for even 1 second and you look over your shoulder and I'll be gone. I need someone who's down for whatever, while simultaneously not putting a damper on what I'm about to go do next.
ENFP = mood maker in the room.
This is so me.
YES!!! I can approve cuz I'm enfp
Yup we love this
And they leave the room after they made a mood
@@eunkim9665 exactly. Like "our work is done, carry on without us"
As an ENFP I always want to meet new people and make them feel loved, and I always fight discrimination ,because it’s stupid.
Same!! 🙌🏼
Me tooo! Enfp's unite!.... we're the best personality type.
@@villainscurls8113 Agreed 😂
hear, hear! do you guys also feel a strong sense of this but sometimes get tired? that's how I feel as an ENFP :
@@frankinsaneandmyrrh1202 It's here here, but I know what you mean :)
As an ENFP does anybody have the urge like me to go to space with a significant other? Or live in a place like Colorado with beautiful mountains?
YESSSSS
yesyesyes
I say this all the time 🤣🤣🤣
Yes I moved to colorado when I turned 18 and moved after that and have seen Colorado as Home ever since
I wanna travel the world
Who else was scrolling through the comments section instead of listening to the video ??
DAMN YOU GOT ME
Damn, u got me
Damn it is me
this is the most ENFP thing I read.. and did today
dharani soundarapandian haha! 100%!
As an ENFP, I'm fully in control of my emotions, atleast people around me believe so. I don't express my feelings at all and sometimes I have difficulty in forming sentences because my thoughts run just too fast and I'm always scared that people will perceive me a dumb person.
Edit: Took the test again and I'm an ENTP now. What can I say, life happens.
dharani soundarapandian OMG YOU JUST DESCRIBED ME
iyeiks.. me
Same, friend !
I-, me
Very relatable
I swear everyone thinks we are stupid. Very few people try to see past the smile smh
well - they think we are stupid when they don't know us. Try talking about something you know about! People tend to call me weird haha but not often stupid bc ill randomly say facts and they'll be like.. wtf girl how do you know that?
Daniel Nwaozuzu I was always being called stupid by my friends at high school. “ are u dumb?”
“ are u stupid” whenever I was trying to do or say something funny.
And I always laughed it off sort of taking it as a joke but deep down it hurts so much. It has been 3 years since I finished highschool but I’m still depressed.. one time my friends did a party and invited everyone to the party except me, I saw that on Snapchat. After that some girl told me that because of me they cannot talk about meeting up in the group cuz I might see it, and that everyone hates me and wants me to stop hanging out with them. It has been 3 years and I still hurt inside, so much.
I’m so sorry! That’s like what much if middle school was like for me. Hope you’re doing better now:)
@@katyk6912 hey don't be sad. Your better than those idiots anyways. I also got bullied in school because everyone thought I was dumb and weird. Now idc because those people are just boring as hell and close minded
Hi (intp intj thing here)! I really like to try to understand people, but it’s hard because I take these sorts of things as I see them generally and if you put up a facade, we’re not going to get anywhere. I find it’s really helpful with my ENFP friends to have a couple of meaningful conversations so that I don’t offend them by misunderstanding them.
So what I'm hearing is I should start a peace cult
me_ ugh lmfao
Think of that money....and the matching outfits...
*WE WILL TEACH THEM OUR PEACEFUL WAYS BY FORCE*
I'm so down for this rn
i’m joining
I (INTJ) just sent my wife (ENFP) this video - but she won't watch it because she refuses to be pigeonholed into a personality type - exactly what an ENFP would say ;-) xx
Nick Templeton Hahahah YEP
For sure. Hehe
tell her it doesn't make her any less orginal or interesting. It just helps you appreciate and harmonise with ppl better
Facts 😂
U're best match ,as an intj im looking for an enfp guy 😂😂
ENFP's are awesome! Sincerely an INFJ
INFJs are awesome too! Sincerely, an ENFP.
♥️
INFJ types are so unique. Glad I got to marry one! ENFP here.
i like infj so much 😄
i'm enfp
When the panda was on the whale and said "weeeee" ....I felt that.
Same.
me too oh goshhh
Me toooooooo :D
HAHAHA IM LAUGHING SO HARD AT THAT RIGHT NOW BECAUSE I COULD FEEL IT FROM THE PHOTO HAHA
I think this really clarified for me the difference between INFP and ENFP and I definitely think I'm an ENFP. It's hard because I love writing fiction and studying languages like INFPs do, but I noticed that what sparks my inspiration for wanting to learn a new language or writing a character is my interactions with people. And ENFPs sounds a lot like ambiverts which is probably why I'm always so confused!
Lindsey Your comment solved a lot of my own confusion between the two.. I'm truly fond of learning new languages and I never thought why I love this.. Then you got it. I often have so many amazing online friends from all over the world, I always feel like supporting them and have a better communication with them, loving to understand people and to get understood makes me love learning languages. At the same time I get tired of spending too much time with real-life people and even friends ,that's what made me doubt myself as an INFP, but no, ENFPs also like socializing the least among extroverted types.. So the summary is :we do like people but we need our alone times to recharge from interacting with them, so we would rather keep in touch with people, talk and express our values but from a distance (like online communicating) , this is what an ambivert is, this is ENFP :)
that's totally me
Yeah, I'm definitely an ENFP, but I LOVE learning languages and writing fiction, and sometimes I would be confused as to why I was more like an INFP in some respects. But it all makes sense
Same omfg
Now that you say it, they do seem like ambiverts
As a fellow ENFP:, i would like to reassure myself that i'm not alone,
and would like to ask some questions to someone out there who'd be kind
enough to share their thoughts and why not, experiences with me.1) Do you feel as if everyone thinks you're a shallow dumb person?
2) For the most part would you say you wear your emotions on your sleeve?
3) Do you have this unquenchable thirst for social knowledge and how things work?
4) Do you often feel that you have a great thought or idea in mind but find it hard to put into words or even explain?
5) I didn't realize that there were more ENFP women than men, what does this mean to us men?
thanks for answering and god bless wherever you are fellow ENFP brother/sister
1)yes
2)Sometimes yes, but there are also times when I feel extremely detached. It's maybe a 70-30 split.
3)Yes
4)Yes
5)I'm a woman, but I don't think it means much. I have a few male Enfp friends and they're all lots of fun to be around. I do think at times some Enfp men struggle with fitting into society's view of masculinity - but I say screw that and embrace your emotions! Guys with emotional intelligence are seriously attractive :P :)
Mauricio Rincon C 1)yes,likd whenever im supposed to like do smth,lets say in a team work, they dont trust me and say im dumb just cause i dont see the the things the same way they do🙄
Mauricio Rincon C 3) yesss i could just sit in like a park or smth like that just to look at how ppl act and communicate and stuff and i could do smth to someone just to see how they react
Mauricio Rincon C 4)yes like all the time
1. yep
2. not always, i think i try to be moderate
3. totally
4. yesyes!!
5. idk, haha
hope u have a nice day:)
They’re so warm, intellectual but not passive. I love them. They always help “new” people like it’s their instinct. Coming from INTP. Where can I meet more of this type haha?
True - We do help "new" people, like we think it's our job or something!... haha!
An ENFP here! If you need one :)
I'm INTJ but I'm obsessed with ENFP personality.
Elvis Mata , And we with yours.
Elvis, yours too! I'm an ENFP and one of my best friends is INTJ!
I’m an ENFP and my bf is an INTJ. Maybe there’s something to it.
My girl is an enfp and I love it. A good balance.
I'm ENFP and my wife is INTJ
s/o to the ambiverts
HELL YEAH
Are you ENFP?
Heck yeahhh
My gosh, they are perfect. -INFJ
Alex Hernandez ❤️❤️
As an ENFP I am really sensitive and not great at leading people. I don't know how to say no sometimes.
I also suck at taking complements. To me, I'm just being what everyone should be like. Do I really deserve such kind words? uwu
Alex Hernandez WE LOVE INFJs!!
@@hotrodjmanofficial448 wooow fellow ENFP here and you took the words right out of my mouth, haha! gosh.
@@frankinsaneandmyrrh1202 What do INFJ like about ENFP? This world doesn't favor us generally. Still good to your comments.
"the truth of the tale - the imagination of the heart" - what a wonderful quote which represents an ENFP. And I liked the way you showed Introverted Feeling.
enfp here! i'm so glad you guys finally uploaded an updated version! i love it!
Cool! :)
ENFPs are basically the nicest and humblest people on earth ^^
I’m an ENFP and I feel that :)
That .. XD
The irony of this statement is very ENFP
ENFP
Nice to find others! My life’s mission is to pursue the infinity of love and inspires others. I am full of ideas and find it difficult to just stick to one. I try to harbor a sense of community at my work and my city. I have a fire burning to learn about your passions! I’m open ears and compassionate.
I feel you on this 100%. Just continue staying true to yourself and put things into action rather than just thinking all those brilliant ideas!
I feel you my life goal is to know what true happiness feels like I love to inspire others but I wanna fine my happiness first .
@@RosieN can't thats the problem my will power sucks
I'm INTJ in the best relationship I could ever ask for with the most love I know, and it's with an ENFP. I love her so much and it's really just the best relationship ever. Highly recommend..
My 3 of my cousins and 2 of my friends are ENFP and everyone Knows and LOVES them! They are the most socially confident people I've ever met. They never judge and they socialize 24/7. They get free meals, go to clubs for free, and borderline famous. ENFPs to me are how people should be and for that have my respect.
Sincerely INTJ
INFP here and I can say ENFPs make the best company around! So fun and exciting to be with. They're great at initiating and holding conversations even if its new to them. A trait I observe however is they can be too sociable in a way that they jump people to people like a tourist and moving on once it's over. It's not bad per se but, in a way, that shows their enthusiasm to the world at large rather than being in a small circle of experience. Does my observation sound accurate?
Painfully accurate
I feel like we get bored easily and always seek new experiences which comes with new people. I am definitely guilty of that, we just make friends so easily and we’re not good at showing emotions. I guess I got rid of some friendships because I felt misunderstood a lot and I can’t bother with negativity so I just move on to the next great person I can meet :)
@@Lalinox ないす
A lot of people seek us out.. So sometimes we're just simply being polite & sociable, because people matter... But we're not as "surface" about things, as it might first appear... If we have a genuine connection with you & know you understand or care, then others can't replace that.. We truly value "good people" wherever we find them..
“…jump people to people…”. It’s VERY true. I can walk into a room knowing no one, yet by the time I leave, I’ll have interacted with most or all of them. I have a large acquaintance base. I love having close friends, especially when processing and feeling more introversive. The part about sharing enthusiasm with the world, for me, is that I want to learn from everyone AND have them feel accepted. I’m very much in the moment with most people. If you’re in my immediate space, you get my attention. If you’re far away, I’ll always want to know what you’re up to. But the people near me get most of my attention because talking and sharing face to face is what makes me happiest. If you want to find something good in most anyone, talk with an ENFP - I think we try to find the good like pigs find truffles.
Anyone else here fluctuate between ENFP and INFP?
Me (i'm 56% E, 44% I)
klikbate Percentages don’t matter your either one or the other
@@Prometheus7272 have you ever heard of an ambivert...?
@@klikbate8916 I don't want to get to technical but introversion and extroversion is more than just how you act in social situations, its how you view the world. An extrovert can act introverted sometimes and vice-versa. But when it comes to mbti you are either one or the other. For example i am an ENTP (one of the most introverted extroverts), i used to think i was a INTP however i am an extrovert regardless of whether i feel more introverted some days because my dominant function Extroverted Intuition (same as yours assuming your ENFP and if your INFP its your second function) Extroverted Intuition is trying to create connections in the outside world and therefore i am extroverted. Look at each type and decide whether you think more through personal values introverted feeling (Fi) or seek big picture connections extroverted intuition (Ne) and you will know whether your introverted or introverted in terms of the mbti system. Hope this helps.
@@Prometheus7272 that does make sense, but i still think you can be a mix. Like you can identify as whichever one is dominant, but if you aren't purely one or the other then you're a mix, in my eyes. Another reason i mentioned the percentages is because in the test i took, it gave you percentages
Edit: but if you're like an expert in this field or something i won't argue XD
As an INTJ, I've had some great interactions with ENFPs.
I love one ENFP person
he's really positive, cute and funny! I like his original sense of humor, his simple and careless style, his aura, when he's next to me..
INFP~
I'm enfp too. Let's be friends
mhkq 786 me with literally ANYONE I come across; I probably drive them all crazy
That seems like very enfp statement. . . :D!
@@muddymallow80 I can basically make a new friend in 10 minutes, and become good friends in an hour...and then never meet this person ever again... 😗
Which is a rather annoying and painful part of life (because I will actually never forget those people).
Yay!
Halo frienz
This video makes me smile and laugh. I am ISFJ but my brother is ENFP and he's hilarious. He's totally nuts. He's the most social guy i know. He loves being in room full of strangers and talking w all of them. I would never do that. He just loves interacting w ppl. Kinda blows my mind but he's super nice and awesome and hilarious. I feel like he just lives life like it's a party.
I love ENFPs because they are usually always happy while I(an INFP) am either very very happy or really really glum.
I am an ENFP and have a best friend who is an INFP.
Im an ENFP and im that way a LOT
Usually happy? No offense but Robin Williams was one.
I'm not ALWAYS happy .. it seems like this .. it SEEMS.. Greetings; an female ENFP
Alexis Plummer i agree it definitely seems that ENFP are always happy, but that’s because they’re really good at hiding their negative emotions. think robin williams
I asked my cousins how I act because I was curious.
and they said I'm crazy, always drunk, needing to be in an asylum, etc
but I also heard from some that I am insanely the most positive, funny person when we're all together.
I just want to party with everyone in the comment section and start a gang of optimism. ENFPs, come!
I am learning to say No
Having an ENFP party would be so much fun!
That video made me love myself even tho i usually do but u always want someone else to tell u that
Ur beautiful in every way!! :3
As an ENFP, watching these videos makes me feel proud to be myself and valued by others who really love them. I doubt myself a lot in my abilities, success, and making friends. Thanks yall
Ahhh this is so me to a tee... jack of all trades master of none... Yet loves everybody and just wants to have fun :)
Steve Guinto - Yes, Jack of all Trades indeed and I always said "Renaissance Woman" or Man, in your case! ; )
Yep, that describes me too
Lol. Yes! I love it!
Astrology speaking, it sounds so gemini 😂 I'm a gemini asc myself so I can relate to ENFPs
-ScorpSun
@@iknowimgaywhenisaythisbut1369 I think it sounds more like Libra but they're both air signs so that's probably why.
-ENFP, ScorpioSun LibraMoon
As an INFJ myself, I really think ENFPs are attractive and well to get along with. My only BEST friend is an ENFP :)
Thank you. UwU
So much more accurate than many other simplified versions, great job! :)
I'm a Cancer with a moon in Sagittarius and a Gemini rising and I'm an ENFP. It makes sooo much sense.
i really admire ENFPs (i'm an INTJ)
aw tysm!! INTJ r amazing 2!!! totally admirable! :)
“He’s always so out going “ “again, they just see the facade...”. I felt that...
pretty accurate, although i don’t identify with the part about hiding feelings... but most ENFPs i talk to say they relate to that.
i have to say i’m getting tired of hearing how ENFPs don’t like routines or rigid structure because of boredom. sure it can get boring, but my biggest problem is when these things get in the way of FUNCTIONALITY. people constantly push THEIR way of doing things onto me, insisting that it is the RIGHT way, without paying attention to the fact that THEIR way doesn’t just not work for me, but actually PREVENTS me from doing things effectively. things like drawing with guidelines, writing with outlines-- those are the first two things to come to mind for me-- don’t work for me. i don’t avoid them due to “boredom” though. there are other things as well, things related to organization mostly, and nobody else can tell me how to do these things effectively because nobody else knows how my mind actually works. xSxJ types might work well with alphabetizing, neat little boxes in straight lines, etc., but i lose efficiency when i copy those systems. it’s hard getting people to understand this (especially SJs in my experience, although that’s to be expected from having opposing functions). it’s also hard not to dig in my heals in those scenarios to the point where they brush me off as being completely disorganized or single-minded though.
broken heartstrings Idk if I'm Enfp or Entp...so take what I say with a grain of salt...but I've come to think of the tedium of someone giving me guidelines to do something as an opportunity to learn an entirely different perspective. I find it an opportunity to grow and add an insight that I never would have thought of on my own. Thus the end result is a refined fusion of my own ideas and the ideas of others... making it that much stronger.
Thank you yes ! Someone finally articulated this perfectly for me haha
Yeah, same, like, sometimes I hide my feelings, cause I don't really like showing them, so I guess I can relate. But I've cried in front of people several times, sooo... Getting used to it
i think you feel that way bcuz we just don't like the rules, we don't want to do something just bcuz someone else said so, even as a young girl my mum always told me i never liked taking orders by anyone🤣. Just do it on your way, nobody have a right to push you into something if you don't want to!
I RELATED SO MUCH TO THE 'GOOD AT MOTIVATING PPL BUT NOT NECESSARILY GOOD AT LEADING AND ORGANIZING PPL' LIKE I STRUGGLED WITH THAT A LOT GROWING UP. PEOPLE WOULD PUT ME IN LEADERSHIP POSITIONS AND I WOULDNT DO AN AMAZING JOB AND I KEPT FEELING REALLY DOWN ABOUT IT. It made me feel like ppl thought I was all talk but no action. This video taught me why im not meant to lead. I can't be a kiss up or stay in a routine for too long
Any other ENFP’s usually get stressed at social events with friends because they just want everyone happy and you are so in tune with what each friend likes and dislikes and are constantly worried they aren’t having a good time so you end up not having a good time because you worry to much about the people around you?? 😂😭
This is sooooo me 😂😂😂
yup
Oh yeah. So, I usually try to lead conversations and get people interacting. It’s fun for me and helps get me off the hook for feeling like I need to entertain everyone. It’s funny that I almost always play “host” at a gathering…even if it’s not my house. :)
Please help. I dont know if any other ENFP's can relate to this, but people often see me as dumb. Whenever i get into a discussion or if i get provoked people often get shocked because i am being serious for once, and all of a sudden people tell me im "actually really smart". I dont know how to explain it, but whenever im trying to express something, i do it in a VERY informal and silly way and i cant put words as to why i do so. i feel like the only person who really knows me is my boyfriend, he knows whats actually going on inside my mind and knows that im not as silly and dumb as people might assume. For instance if i were to express to my boyfriend that i am feeling exhausted and tired and depressed, i would just say it as it is while being serious, but if i were to tell this to my friends i would be like "my life sucks, i need pizza right now or i will die". Does that make any sense? I express myself all the time, but im never being serious about it, its like everything inside my head goes through a filter to make it sound less serious. Sometimes i just want people to actually know that im not feeling well, but instead they just laugh at me and respond with something silly back. I hate it. I think im just so used to being the fun, always happy person who just makes everyone laugh. I also feel like i act very silly to make people approach me easier if that makes sense. So i dont seem so harsh and serious. I want people to not be afraid of being themselves around me, i want people to not be shy or afraid of saying something they might think will come out weird. I just want to kinda "lower" myself to make them feel good and be able to express themselves how they want. Okay im just gonna stop writing now, but honestly i would be so grateful if anyone would help me with this problem or just share your own experience. Does anyone else feel this way? Ps sorry my english is not perfect, its not my native language.
Omg I do understand it. Everybody thinks I'm just clumsy and dump, and it makes me feel aggressive, because on the inside I feel very intelligent and deep
I started crying because this is literally me, word by word. Oh god
Not quite leaders, not quite followers. We're the people who stand on the sidewalk, crazily flipping the sign to point people where they need to go.
As an ISFP, the best relationship I have ever had was an ENFP. Very inspirational people. A bit like a muse if you will.
My boss told me that I'm so popular (which I also used to be in uni) in the office because every morning when people come in, they go to my desk and greet me or ask me out for lunch. I told my bestfriend that sometimes I get drained with all the connections that I'm making and that for me, I consider only a few people as my real friends. I just want everyone to get along. She said that I'm very good at making people feel good and at ease and that's why people get drawn to me and that's fine until they make demands of my time which I really cannot afford to give to everyone because I have a lot of things to do (hobbies). And I see myself hanging out with people more if we share the same interest/ passion. Being an ENFP is awesome because we can bring people together but sometime we also feel the need to be alone and re-charge.
ARIES AND ENFP? I MUST BE THE QUEEN OF CROISSANTS AND COFFEE...
i fucking hate myself. i promise i’ve changed in the two years that this comment was made.
Marry me
I'm also Aries and ENFP lol
LOL! ENFP and Virgo! Beignets and cappuccino!
Aries and ENFP here! Don't you think it's too much for us?
Oh my god, we have to join our forces! An Aries ENFP here too 😂🤩
I find this so funny to me because it speaks my personality 😭 When I was in middle school, our classroom is separated with the "geeks", "athletes" and "famous people". And I'd be friends with all of them for them to be friends too 🤣. Im also taking Special Education and as you said, I wanted to meet new people and discover the beauty and talent of every child. I truly am an ENFP. 😭
my biggest fear is feeling like every day is the same.
I'm an Enfp with anxiety, so that might have something to do with it, but I saw some things that kind of contradicted me in here.
1. I don't consider everyone and everything in their best outcome, i have hope and give second and third chances, (you can screw up twice, that's human) but i won't give you a fourth if you cross me or my beliefs in an aggressive manner, that's just irresponsible and cruel to myself.
2. I don't have trouble talking about something i consider a problem unless it directly affects me in an extreme way (i.e.; i can tell you that i'm feeling anxious and depressed, but i can't tell you that I've been feeling a lot of pain in my right abdomen, because then i'm having to address a serious issue that takes me places i don't understand in a terrifying way.
3. I do not appear as a happy adhd puppy, literally no one has said that about me since i was nine years old, I'm mostly quiet and reserved, but i can completely explode in several emotional ways if i'm overwhelmed in a workspace or friendship.
4. I do not have any sort of problem with structured by-the-book workspaces, i may have a hard time keeping track of all the rules, or may be overwhelmed with a workload of too many things i piled up for myself, but i never feel issues with expressing creativity.
I'm an INFJ and can't wait to meet an ENFP guy
I’m an INFJ female finding an ENFP guy. I do really like him & he likes me.
I (ENFP) found my INFJ guy and am very happy, love him so much
Two things this makes me think of~
one is that I wear my heart completely on my sleeve and aren't that private at all, ENFPs (and INFPs) are quite aware of the nuances of our internal states and the extent to which we express that must vary from person to person, but I absolutely love talking about how I feel and what I think whether it's day to day thoughts or my endless spiritual/philosophical ideas, we're people people and the richest conversations can come from sharing the depth of my own feelings and thoughts first
second, often the main thing people first notice is our extroversion and bubbly nature, that along with the fact that we're so damn curious means (at least for me) I tend to ask people so many questions, all of which combined could create the impression that we're naive and clueless which is a shame since we have such great depth and intelligence that in general conversation won't always get a chance to be shared, it's another reason why I so actively express myself since there's just so much I love and resonate with and I don't want it to be lost in small talk
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Im ENFP 😄
I’ve never felt more understood in my life! Thank you!
As an INFP I love ENFP‘s a lot! ♡
Wow. This was spot on. I feel like my whole life and personality was analysed and made into a video.
Wow, this was accurate!
Probably the most accurate description of me, I mean ENFP. My desired educational pursuits are in psychology, genetics, and a bit of human evolution, nutrition, sexuality all thrown in.
3:40 the part that scares me the most about being in relationships with enfps (which I otherwise find amazing). they're going to feel restless and bored without constant novelty, and will never be satisfied with "settling down"...
That's not true, I find that we are fiercely loyal to people. Thing that would put off an ENFP is if you stopped growing as a person or as a couple, but that's just a personal experience
We are not afraid of settling down, but what we are really looking for is real and deep connection. If you have that with your ENFP partner, he/she will be using their imagination in the relationship as opposed to being wondering about other people and they will do everything they can to continue in the relationship.
i totally agree w you Priscilla
lol i always say im flaky with jobs but i am NEVER flaky with people
step tb we can settle down, but we need something to keep the romance alive, and a partner who constantly shows that they love us. We are high maitenince 😂(yes I know I spelled that wrong)
I feel that the bincat meme in the middle was a deleberate trap for ENFP's such as myself. I paused the video to laugh out loud. Well played IDRlabs.
As an INFP girl it sounds like an ENFP guy would be perfect for me!
I'm very ENFP, and I dated an INFP once and we clicked like nothing else.
the fact that i’m super interested in people is spot on
I literally hate most books with a passion, but I love writing my own.
enfppp (same here
spot on! especially in the realm of being seen as "extroverted" I mean, I am but also can get tired of people.
Helllloo ENFP pepole 😍😍😍 I love being am ENFP!!😎
I can not believe how accurate this was. I never heard a better description of me.
A little advice....ENFPs are usually said to have ADHD, you guys are talking while putting up words to be read that go away a bit too quickly to even understand either of the two......the talking or the words... It's so busy with all the video details that it's taking from the point of the video.
Wish I had learned more about this ENFP world before I started my Pharmacology Degree lol. Excited to meet and talk with patients, but nervous of the fast paced and stressing environment.
I started reading comments halfway through because I was bored 😂
Took me 30 seconds
20 seconds
I am ENFP and this video basically is a bio about me and my life 😱😱
I’m scattered brained, daydream a lot, super spontaneous (sometimes a bit too much) and impulsive. But I make up for these with my big heart and happy persona. Please give us more love 💕 and talk to use beyond a superficial level
so basically an ENFP is like a deep version of the ESFP (I'm new to this Myers-Briggs thing and apparently an INTJ).
Every Year in Music Playlists and a lot more random
Yeah, as I am an ENFP/ENFJ and ESFP to others. ESFP can be deep too, just expressive on the stage no doubt.
No, big difference
Esfps are more into enjoying life and it’s passions and fun while enfps are more Into enjoying and exploring the ideas and actions of people
This so me! Im totally an ENFP. I loved this video. I listened to everything and I took notes, so I can use it when asked to introduce myself. Also I translated it to my mother tongue, maybe it would be useful for any other BRAZILIAN as well:
[EM PORTUGUêS]:
ENFP é espontâneo e tende a lidar com as coisas, com ânimo e ambição. Estão ligados com o que acontece em seu redor e veem potencial em desenvolver ideias de maneira inesperada. Eles tendem ser cabeça aberta, e geralmente são bons em persuadir pessoas para contribuir com causas e problemas de algum modo. No entanto tendem ser melhores em motivar outros do que agrupando, liderando e instruindo-os. Isso porque um ENFP geralmente não gostar de fazer favor por fazer ou terem que expresser suas emoções de um jeito “convencionado” ou como fachada. ENFP tende a ser mais sensível do que parece. Eles podem parecer empolgados e animados mas por dentro gostam de ser como realmente sentem. De algum jeito são fechados quanto a suas emoções, podem ser defensivos quando sente alguém se intrometendo inconvenientemente ou sendo insensível com seus valores ou algo com que se importa bastante. ENFP é geralmente utópico/idealista e se importa muito com o mundo e as pessoas e estão geralmente trabalhando em prol dos marginalizados e menos favorecidos. O ENFP vai geralmente ver as coisas sob um ponto de vista externo e procurer maneiras de ganhar sua causa. ENFP tendem a aceitar todo tipo de pessoa, incluindo aquelas com posturas drasticamente diferentes do seu modo de pensar. Essa tolerância pode ser um resultado do seu modo de viver. Querem que todos se deem bem e está disposto a ajudar os desafortunados. Eles estão interessados em estruturas sociais, como a comunidade onde vivem e gostam de ter certeza que todos se sintam únicos e apreciados por terem algo a acrescentar. Com toda energia que os ENFP tendem a gastar motivando outros, eles de vez em quando precisam passar um tempo consigo mesmos para descansar/descarregar a mente. Mesmo sendo muito sociáveis, podem se cansar em ter de lidar com pessoas, suas necessidades e expectativas que os outros impoem.
Se as coisas são muito estruturadas, ENFP vão tipicamente começar a se sentirem reprimidos, isso é, vão sentir que não tem tempo ou espaço para serem eles mesmos, para serem livres.
Gostam de pegar as coisas como veem (início), e podem achar repetição e instruções pré-planejadas entediante e chato. ENFP tendem a ser intelectualmente orientados para assuntos relacionadoas a pessoas. Vão tipicamente achar o mundo fascinante e as pessoas que o habitam ainda mais, como consequencia é normal um ENFP variar entre as áreas de psicologia, sociologia, antropologia e outros nessa linha.
São intrigados pela diversidade da humanidade e todas ideias e como são expressadas dependendo do tempo e lugar, o que nos conecta e os que nos torna diferentes. Tendem a ver multiplicidade em tudo, onde não existe um meio certo de viver, amar ou resolver um dado problema.
No campo pessoal, ENFP tende a ter um comportamento engajado, sendo bom de conversa, mudando de um assunto para outro, brincando e rindo. Gostam de converser com outros adim de aprender o que pensam, o que fazem, como pensam sobre algum problema e o que é importante para cada um.
São brincalhões (?) e numa conversa podem vir com ideias esquisitas e” fora da casinha” para fazer. Podem impressionar outros com o quão rápido pensam.
São incansáveis e não gostam de ficar sentados ou fazendo algo por muito tempo. Gostam de trabalhos que os desafiam mentalmente e procuram pessoas que acreditam ser criadores de novas ideias. São percussores de mudanças importantes e tem a urgência de serem livres pra fazer o que quiserem.
Aesome! For a while I thought I was INFP, but then I thought nah!!! I'm definitely an ENFP!!! Awesome video by the way.
Wow, as an ENFP and enneagram 7w8 sx I'm blown away by how accurately this video gets me!
I love being an enfp although it’s difficult at times.
My enfp. I’m infj 😍❤️
I just did a personality test for the first time, and it's crazy how accurate this is 😊 I never expected it to be an 95% match!
I wanna know how many enfps watched this on x2 speed
👁️👄👁️ how did you know ?
WOW makes sense that im an anthropology major with a minor in psych. Cool stuff. Nice to see a bunch of ENFPs in the same place, Ive noticed some differences between the ENFP-A and ENFP-T, however. Quite interesting how we differ!
Whenever i take the test, my results always flip flop from ENFP and INFP 🤷🏻♀️
Mel Marie for me it’s enfp or ENTP but I’m definitely enfp
Same!
I wonder if your mood at the time could affect your results. Look for a RUclips video called "10 struggles of ENFP" and see how you feel about what she says.
When I first started taking MBTI tests about 2 months ago, I got typed as an INFJ multiple times. I’ve been through a lot of social changes lately though and discovered myself more, so I took the test again about a month ago and got typed as an INFP. It still felt a little off somehow, even though it described me pretty accurately. About 2 weeks ago I got typed as ENFP from a couple of tests. I decided to look more into the cognitive functions since I learned any online test probably isn’t very accurate, and god . . . NeFi describes me PERFECTLY. can’t wait to learn more about it.
Stop this accurateness omg
i have never felt like i was a part of something more than this video's comment section
I'm loving this comment section! Hello fellow ENFPs!
and everyone else here for that matter!
hii :))
@@imgoopgoop hellooo :)))
I'm talking to an ENFP girl and I'm here to do my research to understand her more. Suffice to say, the video and the comment section is very helpful in making me understand. But I wonder why it's never stated how short their attention span is.
INFJ here. Looking for an ENFP to see if MBTI‘s recommendation is working. Hit me up ✌🏻
Im an enfp. I think this video is lacks how much depth an enfp has. How they are a sponge and value intelligence and learning from others. How they can become hyper focused on a specific topic and then become a wealth of knowledge on that topic. How under positive self motivation, a healthy environment or supportive mentor the enfp can accomplish great things. They are able to grasp abstract concepts and absorb information from books. If you are an enfp, please please read
Who else went from an INFP to an ENFP
I went from INFP to INFJ to ENFP all within about 3 years!
me 2 ! ... last year I was INFP now I'm ENFP . I noticed the change though ( but I think I still got a little introvertion in me ;) )
i feel like many enfps periodically show their introverted side, and they are pretty much balanced on the introversion-extraversion scale (i went from infp to enfp in a year)
I go back and forth
It’s impossible to change types, you probably just developed some of your cognitive functions
Im an INFP... Ive noticed that most of the people i choose to have around me are also either INFP or ENFP. My boyfriend of almost a year is a ENFP and my 2 best friends are INFP. I think the reason me and my boyfriend work so well is because we can both understand each other spiritually and that we both think the same and see the world the thru the same eyes.... We also challenge eachother and kind of force each other to discover new things too
Me, totally me.
at first i was against the MBTI types because every human is unique and i don't want to be put inside of a box of stereotypes or whatever- but LITERALLY THIS HELPS SO MUCH. its crazy how accurate!!!!!
I'm such an ENFP and I'm a student in anthropology, touché XD
I’m genuinely curious about why people develop these different personality types ! I’m thinking like Nature vs nurture, maybe various Past lives haha! Idek! Thoughts ?
This video explains this type really well. Thanks😄
This reminds me of how a Gemini would behave in astrology. FYI I am both Gemini & ENFP