Lesbian Short Film | RHUBARB | Award Winning | [TW: Domestic Violence, Gaslighting]

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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2020
  • "A gay couple argues whether a drunken interaction qualifies as assault."
    An award-winning drama short film featuring LGBTQ+ characters and actors, and touching on issues of consent, gaslighting and domestic violence, emotional abuse, and communication in wlw/queer relationships.
    Written and Directed by Alicia Shenreice.
    Starring Haley Jacobsen and Lillian Noonan.
    Cinematography by Ben Enke.
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    #lesbian #gay #gaslighting #shortfilm #film #abuse #lgbt #lgbtq #rhubarb #shenreice #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceprevention #emotionalabuse #assault #butterfly #deaf #labyrinth #childabuseawareness #consent #consentmatters #argument #drunk #bipoc #liar #communication
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Комментарии • 103

  • @xslawson9178
    @xslawson9178 3 года назад +135

    Silence is not consent.

  • @posh.b0y
    @posh.b0y 3 года назад +68

    This was so intense, and the reality is that relationships can have their highs and lows but sometimes it's always at a high. Great acting.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for watching!

  • @classicclassycluedup8505
    @classicclassycluedup8505 3 года назад +81

    Amazing short, well written and acted. A story that needs to be told. The story of manipulation and abuse is one so many of us have experienced. Thank you for being courageous to tell this story

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  3 года назад +4

      Thank you so much!

  • @RedWanheda
    @RedWanheda 3 года назад +29

    Unfortunately, situations like this happens more than we can admit to ourselves.
    Good acting!

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @clarissafielder530
    @clarissafielder530 3 года назад +38

    Whether she said out right no or she didnt feel like it just wanted to go to bed is the same as knock it off and stop. Pushing the if you love me you will let me do this to you is manipulative rape. You dont push someone's feelings over so to have sex with them. The girlfriend is a dominant over a more submissive gf who let's her get by with it. The minute she slapped her across the face would have been the end of the relationship. She didnt want to acknowledge the hurt or anger she caused so popped her. The apology was insensitive and insincere so sounds like she will most likely keep pulling this on her.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @gemmini6
    @gemmini6 3 года назад +11

    It's no other option to end this, but to wake up early next morning and leave.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 3 года назад +40

    I love it when the offender becomes the "victim" smh

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @peyotecactus9588
    @peyotecactus9588 3 года назад +82

    The emotional invalidation and manipulative behavior remind me of my abuser. Penn gotta break free, there is so much better. Especially after being slapped when a panic attack was coming- just no

  • @dianebarron-kelsey8022
    @dianebarron-kelsey8022 3 года назад +21

    She said no from the beginning. Just wanted to go to bed!

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @celinel9750
    @celinel9750 3 года назад +26

    So glade you made that movie, even more happy it has been reconized and won! Now it have to be seen. So well done, leaving the ppl with their own questions and reactions, who is right, who is wrong? was it or not an assault? what could have been different to change the way that they are both feeling after? does alcool is truely an excuse? So well done. Thank you!

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  3 года назад +2

      Thank YOU! So glad you liked it!

  • @ethanallen9683
    @ethanallen9683 3 года назад +20

    This is the first short film I've seen almost 8 times. great short film❤️

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it. 😊

  • @lu8201
    @lu8201 3 года назад +48

    😞
    it's a good short film but rape is horrid thing. She didn't deserve to be treated that way. She's gotta get away.

  • @BurnWithinQT
    @BurnWithinQT 3 года назад +10

    "Do you love me" is calculated emotional manipulation. "If you love me, you'll..." is even worse. "I would never hurt you" defines EVERYTHING I do as unhurtful - it's the same as the President saying "if I do it it's not a crime", or God saying "if I do it it's not a sin."
    Failing to take responsibility, whether blaming alcohol or blaming the victim not using a definite "No" or "Stop", is narcissistic & borderline gaslighting & very unhealthy for a relationship.
    If she feels used or taken advantage of or violated, she should learn to be more resistant & definite in setting boundaries & stating her wishes or pushing away from something unwanted... But the violator should learn to "take a hint" & not manipulate to get what she wants.
    Simple forgiveness or "letting it go" will not put this rel back on track. Being sensitive to each other's weaknesses or triggers or harmful tendencies & being willing to change one's own harmful perspectives/behaviors are NECESSARY to relationship success.
    In the end, whether it was innocent fooling around or assault/rape, isn't as important as recognizing what each one did "wrong" that could/should have been done differently or not done at all. Without changing HOW one loves oneself or a partner & how to interact in more positive/caring/honest ways, "mistakes" & misunderstandings will continue to poison the relationship.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      This is a great comment. Thanks for watching!

  • @Mtnsunshine
    @Mtnsunshine 3 года назад +8

    Tough subject but so well written and So well acted. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍

  • @josefonseca4155
    @josefonseca4155 3 года назад +6

    Excelent ! I hope she eventually escapes from this toxic relationship.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @taylorraven9765
    @taylorraven9765 3 года назад +7

    This is so simple yet so good. Wow

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @markford4946
    @markford4946 2 года назад +2

    Agree with the other comments, well acted and written! Great job.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @fat_boy647
    @fat_boy647 2 года назад +3

    Don't simply blamed beers and wines , blame why what and who....

  • @nickinixon9089
    @nickinixon9089 3 года назад +9

    Hell of a topic! Very well done. I just wish it were five minutes longer in order to have some closure and have a good ending. Or at least an ending.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @Laffingrl
    @Laffingrl 2 года назад +3

    Can a woman violate another woman's emotional and physical boundaries? You bet your ass she can!

  • @techajohnson5783
    @techajohnson5783 3 года назад +3

    Love this 💯👭🌈❤❤❤❤❤

  • @techajohnson5783
    @techajohnson5783 3 года назад +3

    Love this movie I've seen this 6 times for today ❤❤❤❤

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!

    • @markford4946
      @markford4946 2 года назад +1

      Me too!

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@markford4946Thanks for watching!

  • @chissstardestroyer
    @chissstardestroyer Месяц назад

    *I* for one hope deeply that these actresses don't wind up in situations that're morally hazardous in their workplace tasks.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  21 день назад

      They are fine.

    • @chissstardestroyer
      @chissstardestroyer 21 день назад

      @@shenreice Good, as this kind of workplace task can easily get morally hazardous; yet these ladies really are playing the roles of villainesses- I'm really only concerned about their *own* morals as far as what they'd be tasked with doing in the meantime of portraying these evil women they're showing on-screen.

  • @frogmouth
    @frogmouth 3 года назад +4

    Chilling. Very well acted . Great script.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @milliejane8476
    @milliejane8476 3 года назад +3

    She keeps trying to forcee herself on her and guilt tripping her by saying "oh but you love me" "you know I love you"...
    Like that's toxic and it doesn't make it okay-

  • @techajohnson5783
    @techajohnson5783 3 года назад +2

    Good movie ❤❤

  • @piyali9163
    @piyali9163 2 года назад +1

    Very good film.

  • @landslave
    @landslave 3 года назад +4

    Well that turned dark in a hurry.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @Kelmakek
    @Kelmakek 2 года назад +4

    Sadly this happens alot. Its happened to me. They just wouldnt take no for an answer.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  2 года назад +2

      Sorry this happened to you.

    • @Kelmakek
      @Kelmakek 2 года назад +1

      @@shenreice I appreciate it. Im sure its happened to many of us. It hurts when its someone you trusted.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@KelmakekThat makes it really hard.

  • @risstone200
    @risstone200 3 года назад +2

    Well done.

  • @madelynvanzant6810
    @madelynvanzant6810 2 года назад +2

    If it had been a guy, it would have been labeled as rape so the same thing applies here in my opinion

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Very true. Thanks for watching!

  • @pawlakar
    @pawlakar 3 года назад +1

    Very Sweet 💘💘

  • @tharas5127
    @tharas5127 3 года назад +2

    Everyone need there own freedom🗽

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @barb2435
    @barb2435 3 года назад +2

    i was going to write somthing but i really dont know what to say about this problem,,except thank you,,;) ,,,,,

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching! It's a tough topic.

  • @chissstardestroyer
    @chissstardestroyer Месяц назад

    Domestic violence and gaslighting? Basic bullying behavior- well, seeing as these ladies would be rated as "villainesses" as that's the *only* kind of individual to go for a same-sex "marriage" or even support that kind of "lifestyle" it does behoove one to conclude domestic abuse will ensue.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  Месяц назад +1

      Why are you watching the video if you're against same sex marriage? Go somewhere else.

    • @chissstardestroyer
      @chissstardestroyer Месяц назад

      @@shenreice Think about the elements to this: basically domestic abuse- that's a correlation between this kind of fake marriage between these two villainesses, and their lifestyle.
      And under what basis would I? Also, why would this be here if it wasn't intended that it be able to be viewed, pray tell? Not that I'm in any realistic way against these cautionary tales of domestic abuse in this kind of fake marriage, not in the least... nor ever could I be against this kind of a claim.
      Likewise, nor am I against their safety, my concern is the safety of the actresses, moral safety, from being corrupted by portraying *actual* villainesses.

  • @MzGumby02
    @MzGumby02 Год назад +1

    Wow...the gaslighting.

  • @nurulaisyah9855
    @nurulaisyah9855 3 года назад +2

    Ohhhh... 🤭🤭.the good couple knowing and understand each others. The bad couple is always make it trouble. But... Hehehehe.. Ending for that is.. Very cool on bed... Hehehehe 😁😁😁😀😀

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @diudang8271
    @diudang8271 2 года назад +1

    Duy

  • @kimpham7040
    @kimpham7040 7 месяцев назад +1

    🧡🧡🧡🧡

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @93Enthusiast
    @93Enthusiast Месяц назад

    44%?!? Wtf ladies?

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  Месяц назад

      I agree, thanks for watching!

  • @MariaReyes-mr3um
    @MariaReyes-mr3um Год назад +1

    Megusta

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Gracias Para ver.

  • @krishnakadirvel1134
    @krishnakadirvel1134 3 года назад +1

    Karsten wtf

  • @lynnmyatthu8668
    @lynnmyatthu8668 Год назад +1

    ဖြစ်ပြန်ပြီ၊အပြား၊အပြားချင်ဆိုဘဲ

  • @olartedaisyagusa3784
    @olartedaisyagusa3784 2 года назад +1

    Hi I'm 32 single lesbian are you single?

  • @lestudio76
    @lestudio76 3 года назад +1

    Gaslighting.

  • @twintkda
    @twintkda 2 года назад +1

    Wtf man

  • @omotolafalohun2653
    @omotolafalohun2653 3 года назад +1

    What the fuck 😳

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @CandiceLikes
    @CandiceLikes Год назад +1

    This is terrible. Just terrible.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      The film is terrible or the topic?

  • @chipsahoy1122
    @chipsahoy1122 Год назад +1

    I totally misunderstood that word. I thought it was a pie of some sort. Like strawberry rhubarb pie

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Rhubarb is also a vegetable.

  • @fillup40
    @fillup40 3 года назад +1

    Well done.

    • @shenreice
      @shenreice  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!