How Did Your Friend Destroy the Friendship?
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How Did Your Friend Destroy the Friendship?
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I came out to her and she said "No you aren't." Tried to change her mind for a little bit to try what little of a relationship we had left, but eventually I threw my hands up and just cut her out of my circles. Very glad I did too, my current best friend is so much more accepting and doesn't try to talk to me like I'm a little kid.
Ouch
Lmao how you can act like other people’s basic settings are dependant on your opinion is insane lol
@@zoeisonline bitch what? Lol
I came out to a friend and she didn't say "no you aren't" but she did ask me why, she wanted to make sure I was in the right mindset and honestly it was the best thing someone has ever done to me, the reason was because of my ex who was abusive and a guy, she encouraged me to face my fear of men and the situation head on. She passed away when I was younger but I still hold her dear in my heart.
Listen to ur friend, you aren't.
He stopped taking his mental health medications (though he hid this for as long as he could). He wound up on a mandatory 72 hr psychiatric hold. While there, he struck another patient who wouldn’t give him a cigarette. He was transferred to jail after the 72 hrs, pled guilty and put on probation and pretended to be fine again, and eventually the mask slipped yet again. I realized I missed the incredibly kind friend he USED to be and had only stuck around because I felt bad for him. I mean, “Who chooses to be schizophrenic?” I thought. I realized he was dangerous to be around and that just because we’d known each other for 20 yrs I didn’t owe him anything, let alone my friendship.
An issue with psychosis if he experienced episodes more frequently is that it convinces you nothing is wrong with you, schizophrenics don't often genuinely choose to be psychotic. This is why psychotic people often go on and off medications and it can take patience to get them to stick with it and to not go off them. This also often happens with depression as well. People stop taking medication when they FEEL fine but then this causes issues when the medication is WHY they felt fine. When not having episodes, he very likely WAS fine... but the issue was that he very much wasn't when he was having episodes.
And sometimes you just can't take the stress of it all because for some people, it is an uphill battle to keep them well. And you can't always do that. Especially if you have other people to care for like children, parents, other friends.
@@ss.surprise it's hard, i get people like that are struggling, but also sometimes you just can't help them anymore and trying to fix things only hurts you both
you have to know eventually you can't love someone's mental health issues away, and that you don't have to remain friends with someone who's hurting you, but it doesn't make it any easier
i’m so happy
I realized how horrible she was. I had a classmate (her boyfriend by the way), and she would abuse him verbally, emotionally, and some point, physically. I was disgusted by her actions, and decided to protect him, by hanging around him all the time and check up on him frequently. Eventually she accused me of stealing her boyfriend and called me a w***e, a b***h, and other disgusting things. Honestly my self-esteem was wrecked, but recovering now.
ETA: I did try talking to my friend before deciding to "protect" my classmate. She didn't realize how hurtful she was, and she is actually proud of hurting him all the time because it made her feel empowered. She even runs to me just to tell me her latest abusive actions to him, and laughs as if it was a funny story. So it was pointless to talk some sense into her, really.
All of my old HS friends that try to reach out to me I leave on read. School was some of the worst years of my life and everyone around me (including myself) were horrible people and now as an adult with late diagnosed illnesses I just want to focus on trying to get better and having these people back in my life would 100% destroy that, I can feel it in my gut.
One of the only times that someone from my school years sent me a message, it was to apologize for bullying me. Kinda funny to me that he remembers who I am and I have no memory at all of him. I was tormented in school, I don't remember a single person's name who did it, and I don't care and am somewhat grateful as they gave me the thick skin I needed to get this far in life, but I'm sure he's not the only one who remembers me.
All the friendships I've lost are because they never made the effort to contact me while I tried to get ahold of them. My childhood friend stopped coming over and wouldn't answer the door when I stopped by. My middle and high school friends never returned my texts or calls. I'd always be the one trying to keep in contact only to be met with silence. College was the only time I met someone who didn't ghost me after a year and we talk every day. She's basically my sister now and I hope to have her in my life until one of us goes.
Just had to break off a friendship last night. It's a long story, but to sum it up, he was pretty manipulative and toxic. When things didn't go his way, he would threaten to kill himself. He would also push blame onto others if you called him out on something. The thing that finally broke the friendship for me was when he decided to break his promise to another friend of ours by telling a secret of hers in order to get back at her, reason being because she decided to also break off her friendship with him.
Ugh, sounds like a former friend of mine who would pull that, plus she gaslit people and made promises yet constantly broke them.
That's awful ..
I'm proud of all of these people. It's extremely hard to stop being friends with people. When we get partner in a romantic sense we always hold the idea that it could end but never think of it the same with friends. Friends can be so hard to let go off because ur grieving the loss of someone who you believed you'd be friends with forever.
Me who drifts apart from acquaintances on a monthly basis: "You underestimate my power!"
My grandmother, who raised me, died in 2021. I let who I thought was my friend know of the arrangements, hoping to get the same support I'd given them previously on the death of their parent. Not a word, never showed. I let it go because I was willing to give them the benefit of the worry of covid and being the type of person that wanted to be overly cautious. A week later they're in Manhattan (practically the epicenter, absolutely teaming with covid cases at the time) on a BTS prop scavenger hunt thing, just looking at cardboard cut outs etc... coming for 5 minutes to console me was WAY less likely to give you covid than going to a city of the highest rate ALL day to see cardboard cut outs with a group of other friends in very crowded streets because 'they're so hot'. Seeing where their priorities were, I just decided I wasn't going to be trying anymore.
I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR BELOVED GRANDMA 😢 THEY HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS🙏 ALWAYS KNOW THAT SHE IS STILL WITH YOU & WATCHES OVER YOU. PLEASE TAKE GOOD CARE, MAY YOUR GRANDMA REST IN PEACE 🙏 💙
With friends like that, who needs enemies?
She sounds like literal trash. Glad you're rid of her but sorry you had to find out in such a terrible way at such a painful time in your life.
My ex best friend screen shotted a bunch of comments I had made in messenger in reference to my husband venting when I was in a down phase of life. Of course they all were taken out of context. She sent them to him to try and break us up. After I ended the friendship because she spent an hour ranting at me about how autistic ppl are horrible ppl (I'm autistic but I'm okay ...) and did things like ghost me after a near end of life attempt only to come back and basically say how dare I have issues when she was having a sad night.
I now realize shes a victimizing narcissist. They are narcissists who perpetuatually play the victim to get attention. Which is why she tried to destroy my marriage when I called her on her BS.
@vile it was based on a kid she knew to be autistic who she interpreted his emotional overloads and hyper fixations as being arrogant, selfish and entitled. This is consistent with a narcissist who would struggle to not be the center of attention when in someone's presence.
The very first post is pretty much what happened to me too. We had started a band together which added a lot of unnecessary drama. I was really down and tried to talk to him about it and he called me weak. After that I was there for the music and didn't really consider him a friend anymore. Eventually he figured out I didn't consider him a friend anymore and kicked me out, making up tons of bs reasons rather than admitting he was a douchebag and apologizing.
That last story is so heartbreaking :,(
This happened with my middle school best friend. During school, I kinda idolized her and put her on a pedestal, because she was one of my first friends and she was popular, and when I realized she didn't think as highly of me, it hurt, but it wasn't exactly her fault. Though it did hurt that I blocked her to see if she noticed, and she didn't (then I told her at school, because when you're 13 you do passive aggressive shit like that). So we then had this kind of falling out for a year, and reconnected after going to different highschools. Then, I invited her to my birthday: this birthday was very low-key, I had only invited three of my friends, and she said she couldn't make it because she had another friend coming into town RIGHT that day, and she couldn't exactly leave her alone or drag her to my party, could she? So I said: "I care about you very much, if you promise you'll be there, I'll move my birthday party to the next day, so that you can be there." and she was all like "Of course!" Surprise, surprise, no one of the three people showed up. I was waiting in front of my porch like a dumbass for anyone to arrive, and no one showed up. That hurt a lot, because I had asked her, multiple times, if she would be there if I moved the party, and she assured me she would, and then left me like that. I decided in that moment that she was dead to me. I had my little passive aggressive revenge a year later, when I went to a place I knew she'd be, and after I saw her, turned around and waited for her to come to me. Sure enough, she's with some of her friends and she touches my shoulder like "hey girl!" and I simply turned around and asked "Who the fuck are you?" She walked away and I haven't seen her since.
People underestimate those of us who can actually lose feelings quickly. Once you reject me or play hot and cold, I’m not interested anymore……not wanting me is my biggest turn off. don’t try to come back to me unless it’s just as friends.
TLDR: Friend destroyed our friendship twice by being a toxic narcissist.
It was more of a slow burn rather than a single event. During high school we knew each other but didn't hang out much until our senior year. Once I was actually around him full time I began to pick up on his peculiarities. He had a lot of bad habits but I'll just mention the four that were the worst.
#1: Had to be the smartest person in the room. Even if it meant pulling complete lies or embellishments out of his butt he was going to win every argument.
#2: Typical narcissist, he's always right and everyone else is wrong. Plus he never did anything without it being self serving in some way. He would never admit to doing anything wrong even when faced with compelling evidence.
#3: He was pretty disgusting sometimes. Rarely bathed properly, all his crap spread all over the house, food been in the fridge for 6 months growing green fungi and floor of his car was black and sticky from multiple spills.
#4: Stalker like behavior, wouldn't leave ex's alone and parked outside where they went to work or school. Endlessly called my house whenever his girlfriend was visiting my wife. Sometimes had to unplug our phone.
In the summer of 2000 we finally had a big blow up. He failed to deliver on a project I was working on. Specifically messed up some photos. Rather than correct them he began heavily implying it was somehow my fault. Wasn't a big deal but ended up being the straw that broke the camel's back. Told him off and said we were done, don't call or show up at my place.
Fast forward 16 years, Mutual friend insisted he was a lot better than he used to be. Suggested we try being friends again. I agreed and at first he seemed alright. Within 6 months I was beginning to dread his visits. He slowly let down his façade and reverted to his younger self. One day I played a practical joke on him involving fake gold and a home made dredge. Instead of laughing it off he acted like I lit him on fire. Even told me not to contact him for 90 days.
Last thing I said to him was "Who the hell do you think I am? Your employee? Nah, don't bother, if 16 years hadn't changed you what can I expect from 90 days?!"
At the beginning of high school I hit it off extremely well with a classmate. I went to her house on my first day knowing her and we talked for hours. She accepted me for who I was, and was just extremely nice to me. I tried to do the same for her because of all she had done. Pretty soon I developed feelings for her, confessed them awkwardly, and she was totally fine with it and the friendship was unchanged. I just couldn’t believe how amazing this friend was and how lucky I was to have her. Eventually she stopped being excited to talk to me. Mind you, this was after she had reassured me and given me compliments thousands of times, and taken her own free time to watch my favorite show just so I could have someone to rant to about it. She just stopped. One day I asked her what was wrong over text and she said she didn’t want us to be as close of friends anymore. Apparently I was clingy and too negative. This was weird because a) looking back on it I don’t think I acted that clingy or negative at all, and b) if she really thought that, why did she pretend to like me as much as she did? I continued to ask her why she thought this and she kept dodging the questions in increasingly stupid ways. Eventually I called her out on her bullshit and asked “do you want to be friends or not, and why.” She responded with a whole list of all my worst qualities. I was shocked and tried to fight back, and she just continued to berate me. The next day I tried to make amends and asked for an apology. She said “like I would ever apologize to YOU” and then just kept insulting me and talking about what a horrible person I was and how bien of my dream sir accomplishments mattered. At that moment I couldn’t take it anymore and just blocked her. Afterward she just stopped talking to me and pretended we were totally cool, which… no. I confronted her about it one more time, and she didn’t seem that upset by what she said. I forced a pathetic apology out of her, and since then she thinks that’s enough and just treats me like any other person. So that little b*tch can’t even own up to her actions. I’m still confused to this day as to why she manipulated me and whether I did anything wrong. Her whole situation just baffles me.
Sorry for the essay. TLDR; friend randomly hurt me really bad with no prompt and then wouldn’t own up to it afterwards.
She kept yelling at my kids and didn’t let me discipline them my way. The final straw was when she started scolding my son in front of my husband instead of talking to my husband and me about it. I haven’t talked to her since. She refuses to see how wrong she was to try and scold my kids instead of talking to us what happened and talking to our kids about it ourselves. We’re still friends on Facebook, but it’s very strained, I feel like I should unfriend her.
Do it.
I don't have kids but someone like that shouldn't be near kids if your friendship is very strained you should block her and cut her out of your life thats what i would do
Bruh unfriend that b****
block her
Wait, block her at a right moment. If she doesn't stop, make the move then
She was part of the group of friends, had been for 10 years. We were all huge nerds, and she got into cosplay. She traveled to another city (with some friends from the same group) to a convention and met a guy. They start talking, he's from our city. They agree to meet here. Two weeks later and they are on arelationship. Ok, sometimes tyings just click and that happens. Dude admits he's seen her from way before, stalked her a little (via social media), foudn out she was planning to go to that convention and decided to meet her there. We (group of friends) all found that creepy, she found it charming for some reason.
Two months later, a friend of ours (let's call her C) celebrates her birthday with a BBQ. Free food, free drinks, stay over if you want to, gift entirely optional but please help with coocking / cleaning (also, optional). This girl wants to bring this dude, and the birthday girl says it's ok. Dude is loud, obnoxious, complains about the free drinks "not being his brand", food not being ready, doesn't lift a finger to help, berates C to the point of making her cry about how food was taking so long or not being able to "watch TV" (some of us were playing super smash bros). So, a few dudes and me got annoyed and confronted the guy, told him to either shut up and help, or get the hell out, he made C cry on her birthday, for crying out loud! Dude shuts up for about half an hour after that.
Then, people start to leave or get ready for some shut eye. Dude says since he's the only one with a GF there (not true) he should sleep in C's bedroom since it's got a big bed. C allows it only for our friend. Dude locks the door, locking other people's belongings (like backpacks) inside. The next morning, he gets up, goes into the bathroom, makes some "jokes" about how C should wash or burn her bedsheets after all the sex he had last night, and gets into the shower with his GF. Then gets out and they go away.
So, this girl then asks us in chat "how did we like her new boyfriend". We are all honest, we didn't. She later sends me a log facebook PM saying she's sad we aren't accepting of her BF after he "tried so hard to fit in", that she's gonna unfriend and block us all from facebook but I'm the only one she's bothered explaining why because of our "years of good friendship" and to please tell everyone she's no longer part of the group because she's not gonna bother with it". That was the last time we all heard from her. She lasted 1 year with the guy, and broke off because he cheated on her with another cosplayer. She hasn't tried to contact any of us again, either.
Tbh the BF sounds like an abuser to, he isolated the girl from you and then who knows what after, and left her for another girl/cosplayer.
@@0michelleki020 why feel bad for her? She's stupid, he's stupid and they deserved each other
She actively made my life worse doing the worst time of my life and lied to everyone in the friend group to the point where it made me uncomfortable at times and lied about the to her parents saying some very awful things, she also copied my schoolwork and never did her share in group projects. The final nail in the coffin was when I was telling her about how the school wouldn’t let me do gym due to medical reasons (said medical reasons where why that was the worst time in my life) and I was telling her about how I was happy I could do art instead because that way I could have a class I liked. She started calling me lucky and said that she was jealous since she didn’t like that she didn’t have to do gym. I told her that I physically could not do gym because my medical complications were so bad that I would probably not be able to function after it. She continued to call me lucky and said that I should be happy about what happened to me. That was when I realized that I was starting to hate her and that I no longer saw her as a friend.
My best friend and I from junior high just stopped being friends. 9th grade rolled around and we just didnt talk. No fight, nothing. It just ended. I dodnt even realize until the following year. It was so weird to just realize the person that was my best friend was a stranger
People who blame booze are just terrible people. You are just more of yourself when you are drunk. It removes your inhabitation, it doesn't change your personality. So if you are a jerk when you drink, sort yourself out and don't drink
had a best friend for nine years. met in grade school and we were inseparable. then i moved. we still talked and hung out a lot. then she got a boyfriend. i haven't seen her in two years. i'll text her, but it takes three weeks to get a response. but now i have a group that's better than i could've imagined. i feel bad about not reaching out to her, but then i remember she hasn't reached out either so it's pointless being upset over it.
I’m not sure if anyone will read this since this is literally the very first comment I’ve ever made on RUclips, but this ask Reddit question really hit home. I had two best friends who were sisters, I’ll just call them younger sister and older sister. We met when we were around 3 or 4 years old at church and were inseparable. We were practically soul sisters, we did everything together. Always went to each other’s birthday parties, always celebrated Independence Day, Halloween, and New Years together. We even gave each other presents on Christmas as well. We also went to anime conventions and cosplayed too since anime is what initially bonded us together.
Things began to change when younger sister got her first boyfriend, however. I was very happy for her and supported her of course, but then she began to prioritize him more and tried bringing him to functions all the time. I tried talking to him when I saw him but he would practically ignore me and anyone else that wasn’t younger sister. I tried giving her the benefit of the doubt since this was her first boyfriend so obviously she’s going to be over invested with the relationship, but then she would blow me off in favor of being with him even when we planned to do something way before. After a while, she just became a completely different person. She didn’t care about our friendship at all by the end, and so I blocked her on everything and just stopped talking to her. The last thing I said to her was happy new year after she texted me the same thing, just pretending everything was fine between us.
Now, with older sister. We had went to an anime convention together without younger sister, since she had basically been pushing away her family as well. We had a great time anyway without her. After me and older sister went to the convention, however, her father started messaging me on Facebook and Instagram, asking me strange things that sometimes didn’t make any sense at all. He didn’t say anything inappropriate to me (yet) but I was still very uncomfortable because at the time I was 21 and he was in his mid to late 40’s. I told older sister about it and how uncomfortable he was making me feel, and she just blocked me on everything.
So yeah, 17 years of friendship down the drain just because one friend suddenly thought her boyfriend was more important than anything else and the other friend couldn’t admit that her father was a disgusting creep. Younger sister is now married to said boyfriend, and older sister gave my phone number to her father so he could continue to harass me. He sent a picture of their cat’s butt hole and told me to kiss their asses since I “abandoned” them. Eventually my dad basically told him off and I haven’t heard from any of them since.
I learned a long time ago that friends will always let you down eventually. Your choice is whether to accept them for what they are or walk away. It's not worth getting upset about. My best friends have always been users, losers, or psychos. The ones that annoy me the most are the ones who dump you as soon as a man comes into their lives, and trust me - it doesn't happen only in high school. The one that hurt the most (even worse than the one who had an affair with my husband and later married him) was my narcissistic, sociopathic ex-best friend who turned on me TWICE (I had given her a second chance). It's amazing how some people can seem normal for a certain amount of time, and then BAM! Welcome to psycho-world. Any time you feel you have to walk on eggshells around someone and get sick to your stomach when they're around, that's a situation from which you should walk away.
I had to borrow 400 bucks from him for rent because it was slow at work and I didn't get enough hours in, after that it was slow aswell but I payed him 40 bucks every week over the next 10 weeks because I needed the rest of the money to survive, he told our other best friend after the fact that he shouldn't give me anything because I'd never pay it back (remember I was giving him most of my weekly money to pay him back) this other friend told me what he said and that was the end of it. We were best friends for over 8 years. All I know now is he's mooching off his dad's inheritance and I don't know much else about him, this was about 7 years ago
I'm a writer. I will always look out for my fellow artists. As long as they are open to constructive criticism and feedback. In order to do better, a person must want to be better and not be so sensitive that they take everything so personally. It's sort of an unwritten rule to working in the arts world.
I have a story about one such individual. I once knew another ’aspiring writer’ who needed some pointers on how to improve her skills. Let's call her Sally. I found Sally's claims quite suspicious. Despite having a four-year degree in which she majored in business and minored in drama, her writing was so bad it looked like two people had sex on a keyboard and it wrote something.
When I tried to coach her and help her improve, she would be extremely resistant to any kind of criticism or gave an excuse like: “Do you know how long it's been since I've been out of school?” For clarity, this was a middle-aged woman, with a grown daughter and a high school-aged son.
Sally's writing was beyond bad, it was almost indecipherable. She repeatedly mixed up her homonyms and homophones, let alone didn't know the difference between the two, used commas as end punctuation, often misspelled simple grade school-level words, wrote in run-on sentences consisting of only lowercase letters, consistently failed to capitalize proper nouns, etc. She couldn't even tell me the difference between a declarative and interrogative sentence. I recall I asked her to tell me what a noun is and she gave me the definition of an adjective. One would think all of this would have been covered in retained back in second or third grade at the latest. That's just the tip of the iceberg regarding the discrepancies with her writing. On the extremely rare occasion, when everything in what she had written was spelled correctly, there were usually numerous grammatical errors. When I pointed that out to her, she would spout the tired excuse of: “Well, spellcheck didn't catch it.” I shot back with the example of if she typed the but meant them, of course, spellcheck wouldn't catch it because, you know, it's a word. She refused to accept my logic and accused me of being purposely mean to her. Not at all the attitude a professional would have.
I haven't even touched upon her lack of creativity or diversity in any story she tried to ‘write.’ Every one of Sally's attempts at creating a written work was deathly boring and repetitive drivel i.e. there was never anything resembling a plot, the characters were so two-dimensional they barely qualified as caricatures, the dialogue was stilted and awkward, descriptions were often too long and full of redundancies that never got to the point, etc. I couldn't even get through the first few pages. Once I implored her to create an outline, take notes, write character bios, etc. She dismissed all of my advice stating those were all things ‘losers’ do then chuckled like an idiot as if she had said the funniest thing ever.
It should come as no surprise whatsoever, that Sally was envious of anyone who had a talent or a skill that she coveted. In my case, it was my writing talent. She claimed she wanted to read my work to ‘inspire’ her and better understand how to construct her own work. I was hesitant, but I allowed her to read a feature-length original screenplay that I had written. What a mistake that was.
I later found out that Sally was parading around my copyrighted script claiming it was her own. When I confronted her, she vehemently denied it. I told her I had proof and informed her that what she had done constituted theft of intellectual property. I also learned that she had sent hard copies of it through the mail to producers she had met online. When I informed her that transporting stolen property through the federal mail system constituted a felony, she almost crapped herself. She was quiet as I went on listing example after example of the plagiarism and copyright infringement she had committed. When her denials didn't work, she changed tactics and tried claiming she didn't know that what she had done was illegal. I called her out stating that ignorance of the law was not an excuse for breaking it. I further stated, that even if she didn't know her actions were against the law, she knew what she had done was completely unethical and immoral. Having realized I wasn't going to let it go, Sally devolved into a simpering mess, turned on the waterworks and begged me not to sue her. I was completely unmoved by her crocodile tears.
Adding insult to injury, I learned that she had ran off to a set of producers she knew from her time as a background actress. This no-talent phony tried to get my work produced behind my back as her own little vanity project. Naturally, she pitched it as a starring vehicle to jump-start her less-than-stellar, standstill acting career and demanded a producing credit. I told her in no uncertain terms that if she didn't fix everything and right her wrongs, I would expose her for the charlatan that she was. Sweating bullets, while stuttering and spluttering, she promised she would.
Since promises are just the hopes of fools (and, apparently, as meaningless as Sally's wedding vows), I knew I couldn't count on her to keep her word, I went to the producers myself with my copyright certificate as well as her fake resume and proof that, other than as an extra, she had zero experience in the industry. The fallout was exponential. Sally became an unemployable pariah and she blamed me for it. Unable to accept the fact that she had been bested by someone who knew their rights, she took to creating a smear campaign against me: telling flipped tales in which she was the victim and I was the butthole. Just when I thought Sally couldn't go any lower, she kept digging and found a sub basement. I wasn't surprised at all that she hadn't taken any accountability for her actions. I was even less surprised that she was too damn dim to realize she had libeled and slandered me.
I consulted an attorney. Without getting too specific, my mountain of evidence against Sally was more than sufficient for a lawsuit, but I chose not to file. In the end, I would have just been out the attorney fees and court costs. Despite my 100% chance of proving my case and winning, it's not like a court order would have compelled Sally to pay up. She was so broke she couldn't even afford to pay attention. I maliciously decided the court of public opinion was more than sufficient in getting my point across that I was not one to be fucked with.
I shared my copyright certificate as well as additional proof that I was the sole owner and creator of my written work. That coupled with Sally's already marred reputation and ample evidence of her less than amateurish writing ability, everyone saw her for what she was: a lying grifter with zero skills and even less talent. It should come as no surprise whatsoever, I was not the first person Sally had tried to screw over and I wasn't the last. I did hear it through the grapevine that Sally kept employing subterfuge and dubious tactics to get what she wanted while heading down a one-way road of self-destruction. I also heard that she was eventually sued when she messed with the wrong person. I also heard that she's now, allegedly, a completely unhireable outcast in her state of residence. If she wants any semblance of a career, she will have to move far away to where no one knows her.
Could've been her, could've been me. She kept making really inappropriate jokes and had taken up drinking (she was underage) and also made light of her becoming an alcoholic so most of the time we were talking I was made uncomfortable. I was also the one putting all effort into our relationship, and the time it would take for her to respond would range from a few hours to days, it was very one-sided. I was on the vent side of tiktok and there was an audio where it said "I wonder how many people would notice if I stopped talking" and I took that to heart, realizing a lot of my friendships were dependent on me, so I just stopped messaging people. Some came around and those people are still my friends but that one girl hasn't said anything to me, and I think it's safe to say we aren't friends because its been close to a year. It's sad cause we were friends for 2-3 years and she had me convinced that she cared a lot about me.
He was laughing at how I talked Spanish and English. He didn’t knew English, and he was laughing at how I spoked it. I also suffered bullying in school for how I spoke English. He knew it, but he still laughed at me for that.
I was homeless during lockdown, worried about keeping my job, separated from my family (state lines) and partner... I didn't even ask her for somewhere to sleep until I was absolutely desperate. She still said no. Made up excuses
Before that I just couldn't rely on her for emotional support for anything. She always made things about her, always tried to one up.
I told her I was homeless, she said 'just get a house'
I told her I was sleeping in my car in a bad suburb, she said she had vocational training in that suburb in 3 months time and was worried about possibly having to walk to her car at night.
She held a grudge for literal years for no reason, then blamed me because things didn't change
I could keep going but I'm glad it's over
sometimes the trash takes itself out.
I watch these videos to remind myself that friends are only there for you when you're worth enough to bother with.
Decided to plagiarise my work several times and then throw a tantrum when told nicely to stop stealing. Decided it wasn’t worth my time dealing with her immaturity. She’s still miserable and picking fights with people to this day.
I told them multiple times I didn't want them to drink alcohol because we're teens it's bad for us. They'd constantly say I really want to but I won't because I love you (like a mom) then they did drink alcohol and thought it was an amazing idea to tell me. I ignored them until they texted to see if I was grounded I said I was angry and why and haven't talked to them since
"He kicked a beach ball at me." Very dangerous behaviour.
For me my best friend didn't necessarily "destroyed a friendship" but I got evicted in April of this yr,and had no where to go for a month ( my home was in the middle of building ,I couldnt afford rent plus helping with building my home so grandpa stepped in to try to rush things since I was homeless) , she offered for me to stay with her as long as I wanted , about a week in she started to get irritated with me for little things ,she doesn't like the walking around at night , she's an early sleeper and expected me in bed 8/9 like her and during the day she'd pick fights which led to her telling me to leave , well I moved into my unfinished house till it was finished, fast forward many months now and we are good again but she constantly asks me to "spend the night or sleep over for a couple days " , I always make up an excuse with " having things to do" but I cannot shake the thought of her throwing me out when i needed her the most in that moment, I prefer to just visit her for a couple hours but come back home the same day lol.
She's weird lol
I had an online best friend named Mae. We met because of a love in a certain anime and we got along very well. I was 16 when I met her and she was 17. We became very close and shared each other's secrets and stuff. Thing is, I was too blind to see the red flags. She would always self-harm and post it on her socials. She was and is a popular digital artist so a lot would give her attention. I did too. I gave her a lot of understanding, love and patience. But as time went by, she became more and more toxic. She would block me and I had no idea what I did. Then, she would lash out her shame towards the world on me. I understand she's a by product of a toxic household, but I still did my best to understand her. On and off of friendship for 9 years. (we have also met a lot irl btw) But this is where I cut all the ties with her. She knew my boyfriend had admired her arts (way before he met me) and she planned on seducing him to purposefully hurt me (for no fucking reason) And she would go on to befriend the people who betrayed me just to purposefully hurt me. I cut ties with her after that.
But she still has the audacity to stalk me and use our common mutual friends to still stalk me. What a fucking bitch.
Lost a good friend cause I was too depressed and relied on them to help me through it. They said they needed a break from me and we never properly talked after that. Havent spoke to them in years. I miss them so much, they were seriously such an amazing person.
I'm not mad at them. I know now how toxic it was of me to rely on them so much. But I dont have the confidence to try and rekindle our friendship, since I was the one who hurt them.
To cut it short, she was always doing some crap like drinking way too much and taking other drugs, beating her boyfriend, getting picked up by the police, put into a psychward and getting fixated there...whilst I was in a mental hospital myself in which she never visited me or called me just to ask how I am or something like that. And when I had a day out, she called me 2 hours before our meeting and told me the story and wanted me to help, to listen and to be there for her even though she barely was there for me. It was always just about her, she even claimed a few times that I was not there for her enough. But that was after that one time she called me crying and drunk and wanted me to come and help her (she was in a big park near my workplace) so I went to that place after work to find her. I was searching for her for 4 hours till it got dark and still couldn't find her and my only fear was that if I couldn't find her she would be angry at me for not finding her. (that shows everything about this friendship) and when I still couldn't find her at 11pm I called the cops because I eventually found her pants(!) and some other stuff in the park. At the end of the day she was at another friend's house and the cops searched for her for nothing. But she was furious that I called the cops..... A few months after she threw a party with her bf and invited me but not my bf of that time and refused to tell me why...and when I told her that this was a great burden for me and that I wouldn't come, she screamed at me through the phone that if she told me why it would be even harder for me and that I was being pathetic and then she just hung up on me. We haven't talked since then but after half a year she texted me that if the friendship was important to me I should talk to her. But I think it's over. I'll tell her that it was enough. And that wasn't even half of the stories with her....
She told me her dog died. I told all of our other friends to be real nice to her because her dog died. When my other friends tried to console her, she flipped out and said her dog didn't die and that I was a crazy liar.
What the actual hell
First, she got super pissed when I told her she couldn't send her toddler with her brother to our d&d session and told me that I only cared about her and her daughter when it benefited me. The thing she was going to had child care.
When mutual friends got us together to talk about that, it turned out that she'd meant to send that to her mom who she was also arguing with specifically to get a reaction from her.
Then I started to notice we only texted when I started the conversation.
Last, another "friend" convinced her I was a druggie when I started trying to medicate my anxiety with anything stronger than St. John's wart and the likes. That friend was a whole different and even crazier story that I'm still healing from...
In short... I discovered that the friend I thought I knew for 15 years didn't even exist. And the sad thing is I think he's ruined every relationship he's ever had because he can't even be honest with himself.
Best friend of 4 years. Three years into the friendship, he started continuously treating me like crap and would never take any accountability. Whenever I told him about how I felt, he would say that it was 'not his intention' as some stupid excuse. He said that every single time. He was also really toxic and treated me like crap and gave not a single damn about stuff I told him in private. He told the whole friend group things i told him in private without my permission, and even on a Livestream!! I told him to get his shit together because I wasn't taking the shit much longer. I dropped him and he's all surprised. Blocked him in April and never looked back since.
It wasn't just anyone's fault for this hut we all just gradually stopped talking to each other and moved on with our lives. We just don't talk anymore as we used to
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This guy and i were best friends senior year, never went to romantic feelings, just close friends. After we graduated we were hanging out at his house and something felt different. We made out but i wasnt ready to do more than that, he kept trying but i shut it down. We were both digging each other and when i had to leave is said i will call him tomorrow. He wouldnt take my call and we never spoke again.
So to give a little bit of context, we're both neurodivergent (I have generalized anxiety disorder, he had autism/adhd/ptsd) and try to help others and each other out. I knew he wasn't comfortable with going to a therapist yet due to past trauma, but I tried begging him to talk to someone. Talk to his girlfriend, me, an adult he trusted, SOMEONE. But he would always deflect, saying that he could get through it and that he would be fine and didn't need help (he sometimes would use me opening up about my trauma as an excuse to not talk to me, which thinking about it now that sounds kinda gross). Now maybe if he hadn't been so close to me I wouldn't have minded, but he was one of the few people that I had opened up to about my trauma and suicidal thoughts that would come with my depressive crashes (I'm in therapy for these reasons and will be getting evaluated for this). He made all of these promises of I could always talk to him and that he wouldn't abandon me. But he did just that.
I don't know if he was having an episode or something, but he was dead set on him saying that I said I wanted to kill him. I don't know where that came from, and I was absolutely horrified and hurt he would accuse me of that after everything, and I tried to talk back and say I didn't. Heck, it got to the point that I started questioning if I was having a psychotic break and did say that!
And so that day I went to my counselor and asked if she could get one of the counselors to talk to him, just to check on him and show that people care about him. But in reaction to this, he said that he was cutting me out of his life. Maybe I was a bad friend and took advantage of him in some way, maybe he was taking advantage of my naivity and nature to want to help others. When I've talked to other friends about this, they always assure me that I wasn't being a bad friend, and what he did was awful. But I still question if I was the bad guy and somehow used him, and I'm so scared something like that would happen again.
I can say with confidence though that we were both in a toxic friendship, and it's better that I'm out of it now cause I now feel more free to hang out with more of my friends, open up to others, and I'm on the path to recovery and feel like I'm making actually making progress now.
It was in my first year of working, she was still doing her honours degree (I missed the mark to attend honours by a few points, I'm still a little bitter about it but I made the best of it and worked on gaining experience instead). She called me and asked if I wanted to help her out with her honours project by modeling some clothing, and I agreed. I woke up the day with insane period cramps (with a hormonal IUD so they were even worse) but I sucked it up and showed up. When she introduced me to the other models, she described me as "like my friend from honours but less intelligent". I was so conditioned to her blunt way of speaking that it didn't even click how horrible her statement was until I saw the other models' reactions. It wasn't like I hadn't had a conversation with her about how her tone affected me, but I asked her to be more considerate towards my feelings, to which she told me to take what she says with a bucket of salt. I realised after this that it in fact meant putting the responsibility of her way of speaking back on me, and she could continue behaving like a bull in a china shop. I laughed along but inside I felt my friendship with her corroding away. That day I posed and strutted like a show pony while ignoring serious backpain and cramps, after which I greeted her goodbye, climbed into my car and promptly started sobbing on my way home. I swore to myself that that was the last time she was going to see me, and I followed through. It's been 2 years since we last spoke and I got married in the meantime (didn't invite her to the wedding, although I did consider it). And now that I'm in a completely different place in life than her, I find I don't miss her at all.
my ex freind had tried to convince my ex to kill themselves because they found out they were transgender.
Ouch
Yikes, good to get rid of that friend
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He 33 tried to get into a secret relationship with our 15yo, found the pictures and videos and convos.
That one at 11:30, my best friend from my last few high school years did exactly that. She just disappeared from my life with no explanation, no signs of tension or problems.
Beating me up, stole my games, stole my action figures, destroyed my things, stab me in the back, hung out with my bullies, and abandoned me at a realy low point of my life, wasnt there for me when my abusive grandfather died and was hanging out with the bullies and neighborhood kids playing footbal, avoided me to go to church. [I was emo at the time and was abused and maligned by the church so it hurt worse]. And anything that I wanted, he would find out/would be there to hear it and would get it for himself and his brothers and gloat.
I just up and ghosted my friend of 15 years who I used to be extremely close with. We had been drifting apart and never really conflicted but honestly she was becoming someone I wasn't comfortable around and her partner is really obnoxious and annoying. I don't regret it and I doubt she even noticed but I feel mentally a lot better knowing they're not in my life anymore.
DLDR: I caught feelings for her after a decade and asked her out. Things got awkward. I apologized. She nuked my life.
She then went around to all our coworkers and called me a creep, but the way she phrased it she made me sound like an outright rapist. Like "he took me out for a long car ride so I couldn't get away." (We grew up in the country... literally all we did when we hung out was drive lol.) And how I "kept pushing things that made her uncomfortable." (I asked her out, then had the audacity to apologize and ask for my best friend back.) She did this on her last day of working there.
A few years later I was in an amazing relationship with the woman of my dreams. I was going to uni and planning on getting a place with the woman I love...
Well, I'm guessing here, that my former "bestie" was a little bit jealous. Because she just so happened to askme out a few weeks after my love left me for absolutely no discernible reason. She wouldn't tell me why. She wouldn't even look at me let alone talk to me... and this was no joke a fairy tale romance.
Not gonna lie, I spiraled. Within 3 years I hit bottom (like homless meth-head bottom). I'm sober now, but I still haven't healed. I still hate people. They aren't worth trusting.
When my only 2 friends decided to come to my house uninvited. Needless to say I had to cut them out. Couldn't be happier with that decision.
I had a friend I knew since jr high. Who changed when we got into high school he started hanging with the wrong crowd and started using heavy drugs.. Last I heard From him was August 2021 he was calling me to bail him out of jail. I blocked his number and haven't heard from him since.
2:34 In the old days before memes, there was this T-shirt slogan which said "My boss has friends he hasn't even used yet"
It was my friends Joe and Josh. Josh was throwing a party and invited me. Joe had a girlfriend, his girlfriend did not like me. So Joe spoke to Josh and got me uninvited from the party. All of this happened without anyone saying anything to me. it hurt for a while. But I moved on and I found out who my real friends were.
I'm the friend.
Dropped everything and pulled back from society. Everything has gone downhill in my life, I honestly don't see a way out of my mess now. In the past I'd send them a text just to get shit off my mind. I'd make plans to hang out with a small group and have fun... for them.
Now I've pushed them away, there were only 3 friends but they felt like family... Two took it well and haven't yelled at me, one hates that I use my mental health as a fallback to my excuses. I disappeared to spare them the pain of seeing me break down to a fraction of myself, pushed them back to make them focus their attention on something more meaningful.
How do I feel about it? Horrible, yet I find solace that everyone probably hates me and my plans were for nothing. I'm selfish and deserve what the world is willing to Dish out to me.
I'm sorry.
Those friends didnt care about you nor your needs. It’s always best to focus on yourself beforehand
My "best friend" in high school used to call me up to go hang out. Then I wouldn't see him again for weeks.
I eventually found out that I was his "last resort" friend.
He would want to hang out with me only when his other friends were busy.
After this revelation, I told him I was busy every time until he stopped calling.
I noticed that she would try to befriend my exes or any guy I expressed an interest in. She also seemed to encourage me to rekindle situations that were toxic. She used me (although I didn’t really notice until after our friendship was over). People would point things out to me and I ignored it because I loved her like a sister. Really sad that I had to cut her out of my life but it was for the best.
Asked me to marry him (he was serious). I said no because I didn’t feel that way and had no idea for the 3 years we’d been friends that he felt like that. Then he showed up uninvited to my house while I wasn’t home (I saw him on security cameras), we were online friends so he had never been to my house previously, nor had I told him where I lived. I told him if he ever came around my house again he’d be leaving in a body bag, that was the end of that. Weird
Former friend I was with turned out to be a manipulative scumbag that gaslit my other friends and also had a massive superiority complex.
I have a policy that if you *EVER* mess with my friends, you mess with me.
We called each other best friends. She was bullying me and was highly jealous of me but I didn’t realize it until people started making comments about it….even strangers..didn’t really see how until I got away from her and started thinking about her words and actions towards me. She later revealed she spent time with me just because I was available. She pretended she was interested in me, we had sex, she gave me an incurable disease and her response was “yeah I wasn’t feeling 100%”. Offered to “exclusively date”(so friends with benefits and she just wanted control over who I was around and who I talked to, even kept telling me to drop other friends bc “they were just playing with me, and I deserve better”) Had attitude when I had questions about what to expect, now having this disease. She called me a know it all, complained about my skin being clear bc hers weren’t. Offered to take pictures of me and put her thumb in all of them, got angry at me for mentioning that her face was bleeding… but also got mad no one mentioned she had something on her clothes. Gave a death stare anything we would go out and someone gave me attention. Bragged about me to people she knew like I was some shiny toy. Was extremely condescending and nitpicky. While we were “dating” she talked about her baby father every single time we hung out and not in a complaining way all the time, sometimes she would reminisce about places they had sex and tell me about it in detail. It was horrible, and felt like she was definitely doing all that on purpose after a while and I was kinda upset with myself for not listening to my intuition about her. I felt a huge weight off my shoulders when I told her I didn’t want to be her friend anymore but I’m still angry she added another thing I have to deal with in life. 2022 was really hard for me and they her games were icing on the cake
We had been friends for years. I helped her through her divorce, in her second marriage I would get phone calls at 2 in the morning saying they'd fought and he'd walked out, I would jump in the car drive for an hour down dark country lanes to talk to her all night then drive home to goto work. This happened multiple times.
I then slipped 3 discs in my spine and ended up in a wheelchair for a while just before Christmas.
I asked her to take me Christmas shopping at the beginning of Dec, she said she could only do it Christmas eve as she was busy. I said OK, but I really need to go as I hadn't got any other way of getting Christmas presents.
10pm the night before she rang me to say she couldn't take me as her husband thought it was too dangerous for her to drive on the motorway on Christmas eve.
Fortunatly a friend I hadn't had for long took me.
I said to my husband Im not calling her , she needs to ring me and apologise.She never rang me to apologise. So for me that was it.
3 years later I saw her in town, she didn't speak, neither did I, 4 days later she wrote me a letter saying she was pregnant. No I miss you or nothing or I'm sorry.
I peed myself laughing, she wrote me a letter because she thought I would think she was fat.
I didn't think of her at all. Other than what a sad idiot.
Had a close mate I know since 2017, we had same hobbies (cars) and drove similar cars (He has a Mitsubishi Lancer CK4 2WD exterior converted to EVO V, 4G93 Turbo engine, 4 speed Automatic, I have a Proton Wira C99 Limited Edition with 4G93 N/A, 2WD, 5 speed manual). We'd always drive around, hang out and take car photos (I am a photographer). I was constantly gaslighted into thinking I'm 'lesser' because my car was slower, always acting like he's superior in front of me and whenever I talk back, he'd gaslight me more into thinking I'm wrong and such. I had connection to a japanese street racing team, and he'd always try to dig his nose in around them like they knew him; most of them disliked him. We created a team and agreed to share 50:50 leadership, we had a few members joined. He'd always act like the boss in front of everyone yet they liked him. I was fine until one time I had a misunderstanding with a team member, the guy called me out and quit the team. Then this half leader decided to 'take matters into his own hand', went ahead and stripped me off my admin role in our group chat and said nonsense. I tried to call him for 2 days to learn what's up, didn't pick up, told me he was busy. I waited 3 days until one day I just woke up and decided 'fuck it, I'm cutting this guy off'. I quit the team with kind words, didn't made a fuss. Just clean quit. It was only then the guy was finally 'free' and started to call me and such. I blocked him on all Social Media including his mobile phone number. Told some of my other friends and they said that Lancer guy was a Narc. Cut him off in 2020, never felt freer since.
Brain Damage is posting a holiday you went on with someone else's Money🥴🥴...
I had a buddy who had a girlfriend. They had a REALLY bad breakup. For whatever reason ever since then he became a shithead towards me. In our friend group i was the butt of every joke. If there was something (for example music) i liked he criticized it and told me it was trash. If i achieved anything then instead of just congratulating me he had to talk about something he did that was MORE awesome. And on top of all that he would constantly say how he didnt like talking about politics because “he wasnt smart enough” but would never stop criticizing people from the party i supported. I held on to this friendship for way too long. We had known each other for like 8 years since highschool. But only after that breakup he became a bitter narcissistic shithead. After that initial breakup I tolerated his bullshit for 3 yearsish before he said some ignorant shit. I blew up on him in our discord server and then blocked him on every single social media platform i knew him on. The thing is. I know his old gf. Shes super chill and has ALWAYS been super cool. In other words she wasnt crazy or mean or anything, so the person who was the problem in that initial relationship was HIM. like bruh has no fucking self awareness whatsoever. And then has the gall to act surprised when i dumped his ass just like his gf did.
He chose the girl who emotionally manipulated/hurt him over our friendship, even after I lent him an ear and a shoulder to cry on
I really find it annoying when friends chose other people to be in their wedding who they complain about and fight with and then afterward they say to me that they should’ve had me in their wedding since I was the more easier going non-dramatic. It’s happened twice now. The good ones go on the back burner bc the bad friends have a way of charming others.
In HS I had to have emergency surgery & basically disappeared for 2 months. When I finally was back in school the girl I had been friends w/ since middle school just said "oh I thought you were dead" not oh thank god you're ok, not where did you go, what happened. She also had my phone number & could've texted or called at any time w/I those 2 months but didnt. I completely vanished & she just assumed I was dead & didnt even miss me or anything
Bruh my friend got mad at me for not hanging out w her for 3 weeks even tho I hang out w her everyday for a year like bruh I need time to myself and then got pissed at me for ditching her to go to a Halloween party but she literally told me she couldn’t go cuz she had to go work tf LOL a then she refused to pick me up when my friends car got towed cuz it’s not her responsibility yeah stupid we in our 20s childish ik that friendship ended real quick
She kept picking stupid reason why we “might” not be able to be friends
You were a rock for someone that needed it 😂
Best friend since preschool is a manipulative brat. She exaggerates crap about me to make herself look better, and ruins people's first impression of me, subsequently isolating me. She also talks about emotionally manipulating males in our grade to like her, then breaking their hearts for fun. She absolutely disgusts me.
I have 2 stories. in middle school my best friend and i were inseparable, talked all the time, facetimed all day, and when i would leave school she would be waiting on fb to talk to me. found out she was telling her other friends how annoying i am, how she cant stand me, and that i wont leave her alone. I forgave her against better judgment. later I posted a status that I didnt understand how people could wear short shorts in winter, and if their legs get super cold. she commented yelling at me that i was calling her a whore and how dare i make a status about her. I deleted and blocked her after that. 2 years later she started talking to me and asking if we could be friends again and how much she missed me, she was also talking to my best friend and telling him how fake i was and that she couldnt stand me AT THE SAME TIME OF ASKING TO BE FRIENDS AGAIN!
second story: little bit of back story, I have a really hard time speaking to people i view as an authority figure (like bosses ect) about serious topics. its due to a lot of childhood trauma from my mother and other adults in my life. I had to talk to my boss about something serious and I was having a lot of anxiety over it, I opened up to my really good friend about it and how i felt. he kept trying to talk to my boss for me and i kept saying no, that i wanted to do it. i stopped talking about it and was trying to get a good opportunity to speak to my boss, a lot of stuff was happening and i just couldnt find a good time for a chat. a week passed and someone else that over heard our convo asked if i had talked with my boss, i said no and that it was a bad week with a lot happening. my friend rolled their eyes and said "its been a week." I was a little caught off guard cause they knew that this type of thing was really hard for me, but i would get there in my own way. he followed up with "I dont want you coming to me with this stuff in the future cause it puts me in an awkward position." this was really hurtful cause he had come to me about work stuff multiple times as well, and i didnt want him to do anything other than just listen to me. this was kinda the beginning of the end cause he proceeded to be really mean to me for a week straight, and even after the week he just gave off the vibe that he thought i was annoying. fast forward a bit and i accidentally hurt his feelings, I took full owner ship and was apologizing and we were talking it out. in the middle of this convo he just started saying how much better he was than me and then said "im at a point in my life where i CAN talk to my boss about work stuff!" not only was this taking something i really struggle with and am trying really hard to work through and on top of that i am actually getting better with it. its also a straight up lie, I can talk to my boss its just more difficult. I had talked to my boss about the first convo in this text, and my friend knew that i had talked to them. this was kinda it for me, I didnt want someone in my life that took my struggles to tear me down and say how much better they were than me.
Suddenly turned on me and made all of our coworkers hate me and i became isolated after being like sisters for 5-6 years
Suicide baiting me, she kept doing it to manipulate me
I ruined a friendship around valentines day 2021 when I was so worried she'd be fucked over by a Chad (every time she's spoken about by others it's about how she's hot or something) so I offered to be her valentine for a comfortable evening - and in reality to ensure nobody got hurt
It went the wrong way entirely and she isn't going to trust me the same way again, she's expecting me to get attached again or still be from back then
Its all good, I'm in a new relationship now but I truly miss my friend
She forgot my dad died.
A majority of these stories are about perceived friendships, not real ones, so I guess that makes this video slightly less depressing.
We started dating. After a year of fun the following summer I was tasked with nursing my sister (full body cast). Never available to go out during the day, he was busy with mommy at night. Broke up sr year. Friends since grade school!
To preface, I'm a guy and she was I girl. About 12 years ago I was showing interest in another girl and friend feel into a groove of blaming someone else for, what i assume were, her insecurities. Most of the "I hate you rants from my experience was actually directed at me over the time we were friends, this was the straw that broke the camels back though. Know it may sound cliche but I'm actually just, in the last month or 2, starting to get over it all.
I had a friend who used me for the reason for her divorce, so stbxh would keep paying for her house and car, not hate her. She also said another friend of ours isn't really schizophrenic. I don't talk to the schizophrenic friend anymore because it escalated severely.
she flung butter at my face during lunch. i still can't believe her. /JOKING IF YOU SEE THIS BRI
She got mad because I couldn’t get her and our other friends tickets to my theater performance (I couldn’t get any for anyone). She lied to our friends and told them I wouldn’t get them tickets, turned all but three of them against me.
me taking notes to use these stories for my own characters 😅📝
Came out to my friend, he said that it was all in my mind and would trick me into talking to him about my feeling then went to tell my parents and even encouraged them to not support me. Mind you, this dude has two mom and yes, they are a lesbian couple.
He lied straight to my face when I found out he was sleeping with my gf of the time. I asked him point blank if something was going on by their behavior with each other if you would have saw us you would have assumed I was the third wheel. But he said no… I already had evidence that they where sleeping with each other I just wanted to see if he would be honest, because if he did I would have still broke up with her and told him good luck with her. And maybe salvaged the friendship. But I broke up with her and lost a person who I thought was a friend. And surprise surprise two weeks later they’re posting pictures on fb together and posted in relationship who would saw that coming!
Yeah my old friend/bf sexually assaulted me then after a month or so stopped caring about me at all
my friend would take a day to reply to any of my messages and would constantly text others when I was with her, if I'm not worth your time then there isn't much point in being friends
When I sat in her car while she cried about life. Then I told her I needed her atm a few months after and she was ignoring me. We got passed that. I canceled on a trip because I'm in between jobs and wont be paid till the end of the month she got super pissed at me. And is back to ignoring me. Girl bye.
Wow.. What convenient timing... 💔
Mine started billying me to fit in and i destroyed other friendships for this guy as they were shitting on him behind his back so i left thinking it was shitty, shouldve stuck with them
Had friends that I was close with dude a lot of hard time with - when we got out they treated my GF (who they never met before) very poorly
Had a "friend" (Beth) who was actually a nice person and I enjoyed her company. Her problem was that she ate and drank a lot of junk food and was constantly going to see the doctor so she always needed a babysitter for her two young girls. My boys were small at the time so I wasn't able to help out as much but my mom lived nearby so finding a babysitter wasn't as difficult for me.
One day my mom and I got into an argument and we stopped talking to each other. Beth called the moment after it happened and I vented to her about it. Next thing I know my mom is now watching Beth's kids and she would constantly be at my mom's house! Eventually my mom went back to NYC which left Beth with no one to watch her kids anymore. Of course my mom & I now talk to each other. Beth reached out to me a couple of times but I told her to eat a deck, Eff U Beth!!! 🖕
He punched me in my face on my birthday for being right
Tried desperately to convince me I was gay for like months. Still am friends with this guy but not for long
The plot twist pianist though
He had a twin sister that was into me, but i wasn't into her. When we went all plus some other friends went camping, she drugged me and tried to sexually assault me when he was helping me into my sleeping bag. When i told him years later that i got a gf, she drugged me again, and he was there to knock her out when she tried assaulting me again when no one was paying attention. He ended the friendship and said sorry that his sister put my life at risk. He apparently got arrested a couple months ago for first fighting his sister again, but in a restaurant because she wasn't going to be part of his wedding at all
He got a new girlfriend and ever since he's gone AFK. Granted he went AFK before her, but at least I would hear from him. Now I don't because she lives with him and I'm not important lol
19:07 things like this have me fully convinced that guys named Justin are assholes.