Natural hair isn't for everyone, yet it has the wildest COMMENT section !!

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 86

  • @Tinuola
    @Tinuola  4 месяца назад +3

    The old vs new natural hair movement: ruclips.net/video/l79fmSLC_24/видео.htmlsi=xMA5mAYWgzPH0Yr7

    • @DearBill
      @DearBill 4 месяца назад

      Hello , could you post a video about blaspheme rights in Northern Nigerian States ?
      Because many apostates, atheist, ex-muslims and homosexuals are jailed since 40 years , at least.
      Meanwhile i really appreciate your diaspora , you have to denounce the sharia law established in muslim majority states.

  • @divinemsm716
    @divinemsm716 4 месяца назад +84

    I have a strict policy of never accepting criticism from someone I wouldn’t go to for advice. So much for Sexy Red and her ilk.

  • @PrettyPrincess9609
    @PrettyPrincess9609 4 месяца назад +172

    I got dragged on multiple Natural Hair videos by both black people and non black people because I called out the texturism in the black community and I said women with type 4 hair should center ourselves and create our own movement since the original natural hair movement centered mixed women with type 2 and 3 hair. I was tired of seeing women with type 4 hair putting mixed women and non black women with type 2 and 3 hair on a pedestal and calling their type 4 hair nappy and bad. I got tired of hearing “ my 4c hair could never “ and “ I hate my type 4 hair I wish I had loose curls”. Black women with type 4 hair have to embrace our natural hair and stop comparing it to other hair types. Also I have 4a natural hair and yes I can still speak out against the texturism in the black community because I still have type 4 hair.

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  4 месяца назад +25

      oh yea, this has been the drill, and the gaslighting is fr, but we wont stop calling it out for what it is! thank you❤

    • @marajones1828
      @marajones1828 4 месяца назад +30

      You speak nothing but facts! And those same mixed women made there on movement (exoticals) which is all about how ppl with type 4 hair are envious and pedestal them. We gotta stop. We gotta start loving and embracing our own hair and texture. I can't even wear 3b curly crotchet hair now without hearing their words "they wanna be us..." I will fiercely love my natural hair just to prove that 3b is not the only way to be the "beauty standard". We helped make exotical women the beauty standard but it's not too late to put ourselves on the pedestal. ❤️

    • @somtochukwuonyeka4060
      @somtochukwuonyeka4060 4 месяца назад +17

      Exactly. On the subreddits for natural hair and black hair, we see so many posts like that nearly every week. Whenever I call it out, they tell me I'm mean, I have no empathy, and I don't understand because my hair is probably not short or type 4. But it is type 4 and I wouldn't consider it long since I'm quite a way from my goal length. They find it so hard to believe someone actually loves and wants type 4 hair. Even the ones with long and thick hair still complain and say they wish they had loose curls. It's exhausting.

    • @PrettyPrincess9609
      @PrettyPrincess9609 4 месяца назад +16

      @@somtochukwuonyeka4060 I have long hair and I love my type 4 hair. I don’t wish it to be loose curls at all. It’s like they think everyone with type 4 hair hates their hair.

    • @somtoobiorah206
      @somtoobiorah206 4 месяца назад

      ​@@somtochukwuonyeka4060 I love your name BTW

  • @Lili-p1b5t
    @Lili-p1b5t 4 месяца назад +138

    That's it, I'm tired of that sh!t. I'm going to start a space for ladies with 4A to 4C hair (the one that defies gravity only) to praise ourselves, keep track of our journey, share products and style recommendations. Only for girls who try to accept, love and grow their hair on the daily, no room for haters. We need our own bubble of positivity and appreciation. I'm tired of sharing the internet with some people.

    • @Loyalcolor6225
      @Loyalcolor6225 4 месяца назад

      @@Lili-p1b5t what about 3b hair?

    • @honks9484
      @honks9484 4 месяца назад +10

      I want to join! I have type 4a and 3c

    • @samanthamaynard6491
      @samanthamaynard6491 4 месяца назад

      @@Lili-p1b5t I'd join too. My hair is 4B with some type 4a

    • @princessinmittens4783
      @princessinmittens4783 3 месяца назад +9

      @@honks9484 I have type 3b and 3 c and some parts at the front are type 4a. I have a mix of so many different types. I am mixed race and and my hair truly proves that. 😂. All my childhood and teenage years was my white mother getting so angry with my hair. Threatening to shave it all off and then one day in 6th grade she took me to a hair salon and had them take my beautiful long hair(down to my waist) and had them cut it into a mushroom cut. I cried for days and days that I wanted my hair back. She was a white lady and was so inconvenienced of my hair and made me very self conscious. As a teen I had to straighten my hair so that my mother and my aunt would not make fun of me. I think she was embarrassed to have a mixed race child and tried very hard to hide me. My skin is brown how did she explain that I've no idea. And my father was not ever around because she did not allow him to be. I'm 38 and still haven't met him not do I know his name. I do know that he tried to see me many times for 5 years straight but gave up for some reason. I wish I wish he hadn't left me there.

    • @nellajoensalo2316
      @nellajoensalo2316 3 месяца назад +2

      Amazing comment. Love this supportive energy.

  • @AboutBritney
    @AboutBritney 4 месяца назад +75

    The self hate is embarrassing. Why do people feel the need to voice their ignorant opinions? If I disagree with something I don't seek out that content. I'm not going to go to a relaxed hair video telling people that thousands of black women are filing lawsuits against hair relaxer companies due to the product causing cancer.
    8:25 you look so beautiful here

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  4 месяца назад +3

      Exactly!!🤝🏾
      Thanks Britney

    • @Thelovebug030
      @Thelovebug030 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Tinuolayou ate that down ❤

  • @KeishaPalmer-wm2lu
    @KeishaPalmer-wm2lu 4 месяца назад +29

    I wear my hair natural because that pleases me. I think it's beautiful. I don't care what other people say, especially said through social media. When you truly love yourself, and know your worth. It doesn't matter. Thank you for your video.❤

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  3 месяца назад +1

      Exactly!!🤍

  • @JungleVineJewels
    @JungleVineJewels 3 месяца назад +10

    I’ve been natural for about 8 years. It’s so funny how some people will praise you for the “confidence” to wear your natural hair and others that say “your hair would look better straight” CRINGE. Yay for the 4c hair ladies! Our hair is beautiful. 💜

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  3 месяца назад

      Always beautiful!🫶🏽

  • @gb3776
    @gb3776 2 месяца назад +7

    I love my short natural hair. No one can ever embarrass me about my hair. I am comfortable in my own skin.💜🥰

  • @Mssweet25
    @Mssweet25 4 месяца назад +24

    Natural for over 10 years. It define the greatness in me. My intention is to bring more awareness to black women to embrace their natural hair, and body. We are made wonderfully.❤

    • @applepie6559
      @applepie6559 4 месяца назад +4

      🙌🏽

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  3 месяца назад +3

      Love it!!🙌🏾🤍

  • @princessinmittens4783
    @princessinmittens4783 4 месяца назад +17

    I absolutely love natural hair. I have natural long curly hair and I love wearing my hair down and just natural. I don't have type 4c but 4 c is the most beautiful to me.

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  3 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for sharing!🤗

  • @TheSharna23
    @TheSharna23 2 месяца назад +7

    I’m fine with women changing their hair - wigs, weave,dye, braids… My issue stems from women hating their own hair AND THEN projecting that hatred onto my hair. Baby, if you don’t like what grows from your scalp, change it. But don’t tell me MY hair texture is an issue in ANY circumstance, including a wedding, at work, or on the red carpet.

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  2 месяца назад

      Exactly!!

  • @JungleVineJewels
    @JungleVineJewels 3 месяца назад +12

    I also laugh at people who are surprised that my 4c hair is down my back. Lol. Like it doesn’t grow? It’s about learning to care for YOUR hair type and not the hair styles that are considered beautiful.

  • @dontpanicitsjustnaturalhai1631
    @dontpanicitsjustnaturalhai1631 2 месяца назад +5

    Raggedy Red is broken inside. I would never listen to a woman who calls herself "The Raw Dawg Queen".

  • @thewindsinger7687
    @thewindsinger7687 4 месяца назад +60

    What is a sexy red? Is that a dessert

    • @iheartcartoonz
      @iheartcartoonz 4 месяца назад +1

      she's a music artist

    • @thewindsinger7687
      @thewindsinger7687 4 месяца назад +27

      @@iheartcartoonz 😂😂 I know, I was being sarcastic 😂

    • @iheartcartoonz
      @iheartcartoonz 4 месяца назад +3

      @@thewindsinger7687 ohh omg 😭

    • @empyrea_2546
      @empyrea_2546 4 месяца назад +5

      Ikr?! What is that

    • @shanchan8247
      @shanchan8247 3 месяца назад

      @@iheartcartoonz I thought she was an IG 'model' or something.

  • @onesiewarrior
    @onesiewarrior 2 месяца назад +3

    there is nothing more glam and beautiful than what come out of your scalp naturally. it’s giving i woke up like this and i know it is beautiful, that’s the vibe and energy it gives. i pray all women can develop hair confidence. i am seeing a lot of wig companies selling $300 and up afro natural looking wigs. trying to gaslight is natural girlies. save your money and invest of your hair health ❤love what you have naturally and you will always win. take the extra time to figure out what is going on if your hair is not full and thick.

  • @IndigenousExotical
    @IndigenousExotical 4 месяца назад +8

    I love your content so much!!! Besides your logical and uplifting commentary, you are just stunningly beautiful!😍

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  3 месяца назад +1

      Wow, thanks for your kind words! Happy to have you here🥰🤗

  • @popstarprincess123
    @popstarprincess123 3 месяца назад +8

    I don’t understand calling it pubic hair
    Pube hair is natural too

  • @In_TheHouse
    @In_TheHouse Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for posting ❤

  • @tracyberry3617
    @tracyberry3617 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for encouraging us. I love my natural hair but right now we are in an awkward state so I am trying to be patient while it grows out. So depending on how I feel I wear my hair twisted (twists are short)or I will throw one of my Afro wigs on

  • @mzjeri7601
    @mzjeri7601 2 месяца назад +1

    Yesssssss, I totally agree.. if u don't have anything positive to contribute pls keep it to urself or click off. No one needs to knock or drag others when they can just go where they feel more comfortable. Go somewhere and pray for confidence 😂 ... I Love ur yt.. God Bless🎉

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  2 месяца назад

      Thanks babe!🫶🏽

  • @OilsFromEden
    @OilsFromEden 24 дня назад

    I love this. My full support and encouragement to all

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  24 дня назад

      Thanks for the encouragement 🙏🏾

  • @65May2
    @65May2 3 месяца назад +4

    You are naturally born with it!

  • @LoXena
    @LoXena 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm jealous of your beauty and natural hair but it motivates me to do better and take care of it, not to leave hateful comment ❤️

  • @Milly_in_denmark
    @Milly_in_denmark 2 месяца назад +1

    You can have all the 4 c hair you have, if it’s growing and healthy, they will say it’s not 4c hair. I rock my big fro and feel fabulous and did rock my tiny afro before it grew this big and still felt fabulous. Rock your natural hair sis😊

  • @nellajoensalo2316
    @nellajoensalo2316 3 месяца назад +1

    Amazing content. Very intelligent and thought provocing. Subscribed.

  • @tabithaAsher2171
    @tabithaAsher2171 3 месяца назад +9

    Soooooo u telling me that ppl who grow out their hair from their own head isn't for them?....yea ok

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  3 месяца назад +3

      People say “natural hair isn’t for everyone “ because no matter how much we promote it, some would rather style anything else but their natural hair.

    • @tabithaAsher2171
      @tabithaAsher2171 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Tinuola that's sad though, and cool u responded to my comment! 💕 thx

  • @steemycoinz
    @steemycoinz 3 месяца назад +6

    To say natural hair isn't for everyone is a most ridiculous statement on multiple levels. Say it slowly and think about it "natural hair is not for everyone" everyone literally has natural hair by the laws of nature

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  3 месяца назад +2

      Not the point.
      The point is not all BW are going to wear their natural hair out frequently.
      Excuses as to why they prefer anything but their natural hair will always surface.
      And people have the freedom to do so.

  • @kliciousone4706
    @kliciousone4706 4 месяца назад +2

    Carpet /sheep? your hair is in very good condition😅...and natural hair is sooo Glam!!!...in the past we were literally forced to cover it up! because it was so outstanding.. embrace your hair it's amazing😊

  • @CharlotteMasonTT
    @CharlotteMasonTT 3 месяца назад

    Is an internal health Issue

  • @Eveningbreeze721
    @Eveningbreeze721 4 месяца назад +40

    Carpet hair is not an insult to me lol

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  4 месяца назад +35

      Good for you!

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 4 месяца назад +64

      its an insult whether it offends you or not!! thats like saying “iM bLaCk aNd i FiNd iT FuNnY” YOU DONT SPEAK FOR ALL BLACK PEOPLE

    • @Eveningbreeze721
      @Eveningbreeze721 4 месяца назад +33

      @@littleleah310 Im not speaking for black people. Not sure what about my statement made you assume that. I was simply stating, maybe not clearly enough, that if someone tried to insult me with that, it would not work. My hair is carpet like or like sheep's wool when not stretched. So they would have to try again if the goal would be to insult me. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Eveningbreeze721
      @Eveningbreeze721 4 месяца назад +23

      @@littleleah310 really all caps? Chill. It really was not that serious

    • @shex7873
      @shex7873 4 месяца назад +6

      @@Eveningbreeze721 it’s definitely an insult