I get really heavy periods that I can manage now as an adult but really used to struggle with. I recently found out that my younger brother, who was a teenager at the time (probably around 16) used to clean up any blood spots he noticed that I'd missed and never mentioned it so I wouldn't feel uncomfortable. If my awkward teenager little brother could manage, a grown man definitely should be able to cope with the idea of a little blood!
Rachel going from pissed off to calm and soft "Baby girl if you see this leave him" and then back to pissed off again is top notch. And the way her eyes flash when she says '"Oh you're a gaslighter" the ones who know, know. I vote Rachel and Joy do their own podcast on the opposite wednesdays of Rachel Uncensored just reading reddit post. I also would love to see Andrew on a am I the asshole video.
Second story really triggered me. Cruel humiliation and sadly will be imprinted in her memory being on a holiday. I hope she never looks back at him or his trash family (the cousin excluded). Hope the post’er uses BetterHelp to get some clarity about why his inaction and actions of his family were so cruel, damaging, and inappropriate.
I keep thinking about this story. The whole family is sick and cruel, with no consideration for her feelings. To then make "ugly xmas sweaters" with her face on them. (I'm wondering if this story is even true. Or was this guy trying to get ya'll riled up? Just seems so unreal.) If it's true, I hope she walks out on him...forever.
@@aleta5873 unfortunately it’s probably true if it’s from AITA reddit as they have strict rules ab lying/shit posting. some people are just truly that much of an asshole it’s insane
I hope she didn’t stay with him. And that it didn’t start because he was the first guy who paid attention to her. If you have low self esteem. Sometimes you take the first guy who shows interest. And you don’t leave because you are afraid that no other guy will be interested in you. I know from first hand experience. I didn’t think I could attract ANYONE. Then I met the wrong guy and stayed for a couple years. Even though he treated me like crap because I didn’t think I could do better. Then the guy who a few years became my husband stood up for me. We were at a party and my then boyfriend was making fun of me behind my back and actually to my face. And my husband walked up to him and told him that wasn’t cool. And he should stop. I didn’t deserve to be treated this way. And then the guy made a dirty comment that as soon as he got sick of my p**sy he would drop me then he could take a poke. I was a virgin. My husband decked him. And apologized to me. Then asked if I wanted to leave. We did and dated the next 4 years. Then got married the day after we graduated from high school. That was 36 years ago. We are still happily married.
Yes I really hope she doesn’t stay with him and his cruel and, quite frankly, evil family. I feel so bad for her and I hope she gets better bc she deserves it
@@maryallison0509 this is the cutest story I’m so sorry that your bf was a jerk it sounds terrible but the part where he stands up for you is amazing we need more people like that in the world
The second AITAH about the scar being made fun of is definitely a red flag. My boyfriends mom referred to me as a “princess” in a way that I need everything perfect and whenever I can I expect my boyfriend to run to me. Which is honestly not the truth because we only see each other once or twice a week due to work and school schedules. When this happened it was in a conversation between him and his mom that he after having it came to me and asked if it would offend me to be referred to a a “princess” when it’s in that light so that he can tell his family to not make comments like that about me. I have never felt so loved and validated than in that moment
Man Emily did a good job finding some of these! That period boyfriend is giving off awkward daddy vibes 😳 or maybe he just needs to skip to being 80 and covering everything in plastic 😂
Ya, my first thought was "sheets", that won't work, you need to use plastic. Maybe he has a thing about blood, or maybe his parents were very protective of the furniture.
I had a money issue when I first started seeing my partner and it did cost me more him sleeping here 3/4 nights, but I did not ask for money. Instead I asked if we could reduce the ‘sleepovers’, he didn’t want to do this so instead he moved in and we 50/50 the bills.
I would like to thank Rachel and joy for posting this when Rachel did bc I was being stupid and went through old texts and crying a lot but this has made me so much happier Thank you Rachel Thank you
Every point I bounced off Rachel’s comments(to myself, outloud), Joy immediately said them almost verbatim to what I had just said, as if she could hear me🤯 Our brains are synced up Joy, I think we’re strong enough to crush the patriarchy👯♀️
I love how Rachel doesn't just sit there and calmy agrees when someone is an asshole. She really goes in and expresses how much of an asshole that person is.
I just wanted to give that girl a hug 🥺 the one who was getting bullied for the scar on her face. I hope she DID end up leaving that guy. What a toxic environment with toxic people. She deserves to be with someone who would love all of her and who wouldn’t put her in a situation like that.
The one with the family playing a "joke" on the girlfriend is repulsive. I can't imagine if my mom and I did anything like that to my brother's girlfriend who we met recently
Growing up, my father instructed my brother and I to wash our hands and comb our hair before we came to the dinner table. That kind of a request has stuck with me. I don't let my husband come to the table without a shirt on or with a hat on. When we had a bunch of his family members over for dinner, as we sat down I requested that all those wearing a hat to please remove it. I got some groans but they all did as requested. I wouldn't be surprised if they all talked about me behind my back about this but it is a sign of respect. Especially when your ball cap bill is covering your face. We, as Catholics, are not allowed to wear hats in the church (except for female dress hats) and even at the Legion everyone must leave their hat on the table in the entrance. Maybe it's the way I was raised (though back in those days hats at the table was not an issue as ball caps were not a 24/7 accessory back then - the 1970's) but I just cannot accept it. As you say, my house my rules. I worked hard to make a meal, keep a nice house, you can be respectful in my house.
How is wearing a hat disrespectful 😒 this seems like a personal issue for you that you need to lighten up a bit about. Nobody is insulting you by wearing a hat . Maybe they are wearing a hat because it makes them more comfortable. Unless it's a fancy dinner party, this is a really stupid personal issue that has to do with your religious upbringing and is sounding straight of the 1950s.
@@kassinwonderland22 Sorry, but this is the way I was raised. I was raised in an era when people were more respectful... example is we called our elders Mr. or Mrs. Call me old fashioned but heck, I'm close to being a senior citizen.
@@patriciagallant8133 seriously? I've seen so many senior citizens who are less respectful to others than the younger generation is to them. You could learn to be a little more understanding and try compromising with people. This sounds like a my way or the highway situation. Also respect is not something that should automatically be given. It's earned with time
Rachel getting angry and how she said you’re a fucking piece of shit made me laugh. A passionate anger for someone she doesn’t know. Makes me respect her more. She’s so kind by putting that guy in the light for what he has done. I hope girlfriend is ok:(
As a woman, I can’t even with the bf in the period one AITA, I personally would’ve been laughing my *ss off if i saw them doing that HAHAHHAHAHA I agree with joy he’s prob traumatized
The second story made me think of how one time when me and my boyfriend were just starting to date his uncle made a comment to the degree of “are you babysitting today?” I have a baby face. I look 12 but I’m 21 at the time I was 19. I tried to laugh it off but my boyfriend took offense and yelled Spanish cuss words at him as we were leaving. I didn’t even realize until we left the party that the uncle was insinuating that my boyfriend was dating me because I look like a child, also meaning my boyfriend was into kids. I’m not sure I’ve seen that uncle of his since. I’m super happy he stood up for me even when I didn’t realize the situation
I’m curious if these people who sent in these questions/comments if they will watch this and if they will comment defending their actions lol 😂🤔 Ps Love Joy lol So fun to see her in the vlogs and in the podcasts like this one
I LOVE JOY SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!! And I just need to comment on the AITA (period) The guy who placed sheets on his furniture when his girlfriend was on her period. I don't think he understands how they work. My first REAL boyfriend was weirded out by periods. He truly just didn't understand how they worked. And what really happens, he literally thought it was like a tsunami down there. He thought from the moment it started until the end it was that strong a flow. He didn't understand how I didn't know when my period started sometimes. And was mistafied when I told him on a average day you only bleed like a Tablespoon worth of blood. And on the heavy days it was like a Tablespoon per hour. He had no clue what a tampon or pad looked like (back then those were the only 2 options us ladies had). He thought that was why I took iron supplements. So I literally gave him a full lesson on how periods worked and what they were like, and what I had to do to take care of it. I taught him how to put a tampon in and what toxic shock was. His Mom walked out on the family when he was little. He was something like 3 or 4 when she walked out on him. So he wasn't around any woman to find out anything about females. And his Dad never told him anything either. We stayed friends after we split up. We were together less then 2 years. But he is married and ha kids and now grandkids. Every time I see his wife she thanks me for educating him on it, and wiping out his dumb ideas.
The first story kinda had me like "well maybe he's NTA?" but then if she's paying $400ish of his $1800 rent, yeah he's awful. Maybe like, $100 and that's only if they both talked about it beforehand and it was a "hey would you mind paying a little bit of the rent since we're starting to live together a bit? no worries if not" type of thing
The second one about the sweater Me: let me put the boyfriend or boyfriends family on an ugly sweater and see how he would feel . Me guessing he wouldn’t like it. If u wouldn’t like it done to u don’t do it to someone else. Lol was just a joke happy walking
I get really heavy periods that I can manage now as an adult but really used to struggle with. I recently found out that my younger brother, who was a teenager at the time (probably around 16) used to clean up any blood spots he noticed that I'd missed and never mentioned it so I wouldn't feel uncomfortable. If my awkward teenager little brother could manage, a grown man definitely should be able to cope with the idea of a little blood!
We love your brother
yesss! i love when joy is on! she should become a permanent co-host for rachel uncensored!!
Idk though love jojo too
@@maceyjo. that’s not what I meant I meant that if we had a permanent cohost then there wouldn’t be a surprise person every episode
Ok agree that I freaking love her but I do also like Emily and the others I want them all on
Yes please!!
can’t leave out brother bear!!
Rachel going from pissed off to calm and soft "Baby girl if you see this leave him" and then back to pissed off again is top notch. And the way her eyes flash when she says '"Oh you're a gaslighter" the ones who know, know. I vote Rachel and Joy do their own podcast on the opposite wednesdays of Rachel Uncensored just reading reddit post. I also would love to see Andrew on a am I the asshole video.
Second story really triggered me. Cruel humiliation and sadly will be imprinted in her memory being on a holiday. I hope she never looks back at him or his trash family (the cousin excluded). Hope the post’er uses BetterHelp to get some clarity about why his inaction and actions of his family were so cruel, damaging, and inappropriate.
I keep thinking about this story. The whole family is sick and cruel, with no consideration for her feelings. To then make "ugly xmas sweaters" with her face on them. (I'm wondering if this story is even true. Or was this guy trying to get ya'll riled up? Just seems so unreal.) If it's true, I hope she walks out on him...forever.
@@aleta5873 unfortunately it’s probably true if it’s from AITA reddit as they have strict rules ab lying/shit posting. some people are just truly that much of an asshole it’s insane
I hope she didn’t stay with him. And that it didn’t start because he was the first guy who paid attention to her. If you have low self esteem. Sometimes you take the first guy who shows interest. And you don’t leave because you are afraid that no other guy will be interested in you. I know from first hand experience. I didn’t think I could attract ANYONE. Then I met the wrong guy and stayed for a couple years. Even though he treated me like crap because I didn’t think I could do better. Then the guy who a few years became my husband stood up for me. We were at a party and my then boyfriend was making fun of me behind my back and actually to my face. And my husband walked up to him and told him that wasn’t cool. And he should stop. I didn’t deserve to be treated this way. And then the guy made a dirty comment that as soon as he got sick of my p**sy he would drop me then he could take a poke. I was a virgin. My husband decked him. And apologized to me. Then asked if I wanted to leave. We did and dated the next 4 years. Then got married the day after we graduated from high school. That was 36 years ago. We are still happily married.
Yes I really hope she doesn’t stay with him and his cruel and, quite frankly, evil family. I feel so bad for her and I hope she gets better bc she deserves it
@@maryallison0509 this is the cutest story I’m so sorry that your bf was a jerk it sounds terrible but the part where he stands up for you is amazing we need more people like that in the world
Just have to say how much I love Joys laugh. It definitely needs a compilation to brighten everyone’s day.
Right? I could listen to her all day!!
Someone made one of Andrew’s laughs. This is a wonderful idea, too
Where ?
I love Joy laughing. She is a joy.
The second AITAH about the scar being made fun of is definitely a red flag. My boyfriends mom referred to me as a “princess” in a way that I need everything perfect and whenever I can I expect my boyfriend to run to me. Which is honestly not the truth because we only see each other once or twice a week due to work and school schedules. When this happened it was in a conversation between him and his mom that he after having it came to me and asked if it would offend me to be referred to a a “princess” when it’s in that light so that he can tell his family to not make comments like that about me. I have never felt so loved and validated than in that moment
Joy's laugh during the period story LMAO😭
I love “am I the asshole” stories. This was awesome. I laughed so hard. More of these please!
Ugh! I love Joy! Her eye rolls are on point!! Your energy together is fun and up beat, I love it!
39:42 I love the totally in sync "Oh my god" lol amazing
If you're willing to ask for rent you should ask her to move in. Not expect her to pay for staying the night with you.
Unless you ask to spend half the time at her place, and she says no.
I love when Joy is on the podcast! I think we can all agree that we’d love to see more Joy!!
the period story has me DYING
I am dying at how angry Rachel is getting LOL my exact reaction hearing these stories! GO OFF haha!!!
Please the period sheets one had me rolling 🤣
Joy dying laughing during the period story is my absolute favorite thing 😂😂
28:16 Joy's laugh makes the whole thing even better 😂😂😂😂
Clicked so fast this is my favorite uncensored duo ✨
I love this series with joy on Rachel uncensored
This episode had me in tears laughing. Joy is a great cohost.
Man Emily did a good job finding some of these! That period boyfriend is giving off awkward daddy vibes 😳 or maybe he just needs to skip to being 80 and covering everything in plastic 😂
Ya, my first thought was "sheets", that won't work, you need to use plastic.
Maybe he has a thing about blood, or maybe his parents were very protective of the furniture.
can i take a moment to say joy is literally GLOWING as a queen should (?!???) in this video!!!!!!!! UGH love you joy 💛
Yay another podcast with Joy, this is gonna be good!!
28:14 joys laugh brought me joy😂😂
THE SHEETS ONE LOL IM CRYING
I had a money issue when I first started seeing my partner and it did cost me more him sleeping here 3/4 nights, but I did not ask for money. Instead I asked if we could reduce the ‘sleepovers’, he didn’t want to do this so instead he moved in and we 50/50 the bills.
Joy laughing is priceless, I love them together.
I would like to thank Rachel and joy for posting this when Rachel did bc I was being stupid and went through old texts and crying a lot but this has made me so much happier Thank you Rachel Thank you
I love this mini series and Joys contagious laugh!! Please make this a series :))
The period thing reminds me of a dog going in heat. Maybe the only thing he was taught as a child about periods was from a dog🤣🤣
"Oh wait, she means the furniture is white."
12:50 omg the sweaters.. that made me tear up.. that's so mean. They are bullies.. 😡
Every point I bounced off Rachel’s comments(to myself, outloud), Joy immediately said them almost verbatim to what I had just said, as if she could hear me🤯 Our brains are synced up Joy, I think we’re strong enough to crush the patriarchy👯♀️
I'll help.
It's the synchronized OH MY GAWD at 39:44 that got me 🤣🤣🤣
💙💙💙💙💙 I love King Louie's head on Joy's shoulder!!!!!!!! So adorable
I love how Rachel doesn't just sit there and calmy agrees when someone is an asshole. She really goes in and expresses how much of an asshole that person is.
Rachel is cathartic I love it
The second story literally pissed Rachel off. Which is correct , ur family shouldn’t be making fun OF NO ONE FOR ANYTHING
That girl telling her husband to get a real job lol she’s my hero
i just wanna say how entertaining i find these videos. you two made me laugh so hard. let’s make it a series rachel!!
I just wanted to give that girl a hug 🥺 the one who was getting bullied for the scar on her face. I hope she DID end up leaving that guy. What a toxic environment with toxic people. She deserves to be with someone who would love all of her and who wouldn’t put her in a situation like that.
Hope your eye surgery went well Rachel! 💕
I really do love you Joy!!! You should be on here more doing more of these! another great episode Rachel ♥️🌹♥️
WOOOO new content! And Joy content! Let’s gooooooo
Joys hair is SO cute!
I absolutely love your guys energy!! This was HILARIOUS!
of course we love you Joy!! 😂💜
This was such a good episode!
Do more of these please, I love it lol 😂
I was looking at Joy’s hair the whole time. It’s fantastic!!
joy is my spirit animal
Literally the best podcasts!! This and part one literally my favourite! Do more do more
Joy, STUNNING MAKEUP YOU GET IT GIRL
I Love-Love-Love AITA!!!!!
love the episodes with Joy!!
Here to comment on how much I love Joy ❤️.
I was absolutely CACKLING at the period story
For the last one after they read “I found it in maculating” I too verbally said oh my god at the same rate they did 😂
Love when Joy is on !!
referring to the period one; the ONLY mostly valid reason is if he had a severe blood phobia but he should communicate that with her
The one with the family playing a "joke" on the girlfriend is repulsive. I can't imagine if my mom and I did anything like that to my brother's girlfriend who we met recently
i so wish that all the people who wrote these things would listen to this podcast
WE LOVE JOY
Can we talk about how Joy's pug is in the same place as their last AITA? I love it.
yesssss ive been waiting all wEEK FOR THIS >:)
0:23 What a great way to start out Am I the Asshole lmao
I Love joy, she's my favorite
these are my favorite i love the AITA
But also, she's still having to pay her own rent and utilities....even though she's not even at her house because she's with him....
Can we please get joy to make her own podcast I just love to hear her uncensored thoughts. She is freakin hilarious and awesome
Absolutely love these episodes. ❤️ I spent the whole time looking at Louis though, such a cute little guy.
Hey . im big of both of you. I hope the surgery went good .
WE LOVE JOYYY
Lewie resting his head on your shoulder is so precious 🥺🥺🥺
Growing up, my father instructed my brother and I to wash our hands and comb our hair before we came to the dinner table. That kind of a request has stuck with me. I don't let my husband come to the table without a shirt on or with a hat on. When we had a bunch of his family members over for dinner, as we sat down I requested that all those wearing a hat to please remove it. I got some groans but they all did as requested. I wouldn't be surprised if they all talked about me behind my back about this but it is a sign of respect. Especially when your ball cap bill is covering your face. We, as Catholics, are not allowed to wear hats in the church (except for female dress hats) and even at the Legion everyone must leave their hat on the table in the entrance. Maybe it's the way I was raised (though back in those days hats at the table was not an issue as ball caps were not a 24/7 accessory back then - the 1970's) but I just cannot accept it. As you say, my house my rules. I worked hard to make a meal, keep a nice house, you can be respectful in my house.
How is wearing a hat disrespectful 😒 this seems like a personal issue for you that you need to lighten up a bit about. Nobody is insulting you by wearing a hat . Maybe they are wearing a hat because it makes them more comfortable. Unless it's a fancy dinner party, this is a really stupid personal issue that has to do with your religious upbringing and is sounding straight of the 1950s.
@@kassinwonderland22 Sorry, but this is the way I was raised. I was raised in an era when people were more respectful... example is we called our elders Mr. or Mrs. Call me old fashioned but heck, I'm close to being a senior citizen.
@@patriciagallant8133 seriously? I've seen so many senior citizens who are less respectful to others than the younger generation is to them. You could learn to be a little more understanding and try compromising with people. This sounds like a my way or the highway situation. Also respect is not something that should automatically be given. It's earned with time
Love the pug napping on her back
Rachel getting angry and how she said you’re a fucking piece of shit made me laugh. A passionate anger for someone she doesn’t know. Makes me respect her more. She’s so kind by putting that guy in the light for what he has done. I hope girlfriend is ok:(
As a woman, I can’t even with the bf in the period one AITA, I personally would’ve been laughing my *ss off if i saw them doing that HAHAHHAHAHA I agree with joy he’s prob traumatized
Woo girl that second story really fired me up i cant stand when people use "dark humor" as and excuse to bully people is absolutely disgusting
Joy is so pretty!!! 💖
Gosh Joy you are so gorgeous!!
The second story made me think of how one time when me and my boyfriend were just starting to date his uncle made a comment to the degree of “are you babysitting today?” I have a baby face. I look 12 but I’m 21 at the time I was 19. I tried to laugh it off but my boyfriend took offense and yelled Spanish cuss words at him as we were leaving. I didn’t even realize until we left the party that the uncle was insinuating that my boyfriend was dating me because I look like a child, also meaning my boyfriend was into kids. I’m not sure I’ve seen that uncle of his since. I’m super happy he stood up for me even when I didn’t realize the situation
clicked on this so fast. i love you and joy!
Joy look so damn good, She is so beautiful 😍 🥰
One of my favorite Wednesday things!!
More of this please!,,,
please have kylie prew on an episode:)
I’m curious if these people who sent in these questions/comments if they will watch this and if they will comment defending their actions lol 😂🤔
Ps
Love Joy lol
So fun to see her in the vlogs and in the podcasts like this one
I LOVE JOY SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!! And I just need to comment on the AITA (period) The guy who placed sheets on his furniture when his girlfriend was on her period. I don't think he understands how they work. My first REAL boyfriend was weirded out by periods. He truly just didn't understand how they worked. And what really happens, he literally thought it was like a tsunami down there. He thought from the moment it started until the end it was that strong a flow. He didn't understand how I didn't know when my period started sometimes. And was mistafied when I told him on a average day you only bleed like a Tablespoon worth of blood. And on the heavy days it was like a Tablespoon per hour. He had no clue what a tampon or pad looked like (back then those were the only 2 options us ladies had). He thought that was why I took iron supplements. So I literally gave him a full lesson on how periods worked and what they were like, and what I had to do to take care of it. I taught him how to put a tampon in and what toxic shock was. His Mom walked out on the family when he was little. He was something like 3 or 4 when she walked out on him. So he wasn't around any woman to find out anything about females. And his Dad never told him anything either. We stayed friends after we split up. We were together less then 2 years. But he is married and ha kids and now grandkids. Every time I see his wife she thanks me for educating him on it, and wiping out his dumb ideas.
Love love love these episodes!!!!!
She has to pay to stay with him but she also has to pay her bills at her place to me that’s not fair! He is the asshole there!!
The first story kinda had me like "well maybe he's NTA?" but then if she's paying $400ish of his $1800 rent, yeah he's awful. Maybe like, $100 and that's only if they both talked about it beforehand and it was a "hey would you mind paying a little bit of the rent since we're starting to live together a bit? no worries if not" type of thing
The period story is giving me major snake from Love Is Blind vibes….come to think of it wasn’t his couch white 👀
i love joy so much. and rachel. and louie
Funny episode. So many weirdos out there!
Keep doing these rachel
The second one about the sweater
Me: let me put the boyfriend or boyfriends family on an ugly sweater and see how he would feel . Me guessing he wouldn’t like it. If u wouldn’t like it done to u don’t do it to someone else. Lol was just a joke happy walking
PART 3 PLEASE!
King louis!!
Joy is really gorgeous
Ok for the sheets. Honestly who cares about the sheets.. BUT MAKING HER SLEEP IN THE GUEST BEDROOM AND NO CUDDLING?! NAW THATS MESSED UP