so... i left my job | last day of work (a mini vlog)
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
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it's been a while since i last made a video that's personal to me; this is one of them. i'm not too sure why i decided to record my last day at work in the first place - perhaps part of me just wanted to remember this small slice of life.
at the age of 29, while everyone seems to be going somewhere and making progress, i once again decided to pause and rethink about my life decisions. it's scary, not gonna lie, and it's tiring - i feel like my mind will never stop making noises that it could explode anytime.
so to anyone who's feeling lost, like the world is just a giant aquarium and you're tired of swimming without any direction - hang in there. this too shall pass.
just like you, and probably millions of people out there, i'm still navigating life.
we just gotta keep swimming.
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00:36 - last day of work
03:28 - thoughts and feelings
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- Sheren, born in 1995
- An Indonesian, who came from Hong Kong (yes, both are my homes!)
- Currently living in Seoul, South Korea
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I lived in Korea, Japan, Washington DC, and now San Francisco California. I'm now in my late 30s and had several jobs. Experiencing ups and downs from every country. Eastern Asia has the stigma of toxic work culture and it definitely is quite demanding compared to America. Ironically, I actually had the absolute worst job and best job in San Francisco meanwhile Korea was somewhere in the middle. Japan was the most difficult to adjust to because how demanding it is to conform to their societies expectations. Korea at least allowed you a bit more freedom to be yourself. However when I look back and I realize how much I do miss living in Korea and Japan.
By the time I was in my mid thirties and living in Japan, I finally realized how to balance my work life and personal life. My hobbies, hiking, and few good friends really kept everything together. I still flew to Korea occasionally since it's a short flight. Finding your PERSONAL BALANCE is the key to everything where ever you live. I now live in San Francisco and I'm relatively happy but it's not easy living here either. It's far more expensive to live here compared to Tokyo or Seoul. There is no perfect place. No where. San Francisco has a lot of issues within the city itself but mentally i'm in a good place because my perspective on life itself has changed.
This was your first job so don't be so hard on yourself. It's so rare for anybody that sticks with their first job. What's amazing about you is that you realized what you needed to do. Most people would be afraid to let go but you had the strength to do it. You're still fairly young so create new opportunities and memories. Whether you stay in Korea, or go back to Singapore, Hong Kong (I notice a lot of people saying you should move back), or a completely new country, just remember that you're naturally going to have struggles. So just hang in there and take it step by step and find something that allows you to find balance between all things in life. "It doesn't have to be TOO serious". Remember to laugh, cry, eat, slip, and love. Enjoy the whole process.
Well, you gave it a shot and it didn't work out. It sucks but you shouldn't regret trying. Whatever choice you make in life there is always a "what if". You could have been in HK or anywhere else in the world and be wondering the same thing. The important thing is to reset yourself and comeback stronger than ever. We know you can! We are rooting for you.
hii i just wanted to say that i really feel grateful for your comment!!! i think you just pointed something i always fail to “feel” - be present in the moment. always been so caught up with my what if-s 🙁 thank you so much!!! i appreciate you
You’re doing really well! I’m 29 years old and just starting my life again! I wish you the best on your journey! Always remember to pray 🙏 especially when things get tough. Can’t wait to see what’s in store for your life 🎉
aww thank you so much!!! it's nice to know that im not in this journey alone. :') and thank you for the reminder. appreciate you!! :)
Oh Sheren, this hit home for me because I had a very similar experience during my year working in Korea. I spent the entire year asking the same questions you asked here - "What if I had taken the job offer back home instead?" "What if I had never left Hong Kong?" You did the best you could to adapt to the situation and it is a sign of wisdom and strength to know when it's time to move on! I left my job in Korea nine months ago, and this month I finally received an offer for a dream job back home. You will get there too, it just takes time! Thank you for sharing; I'll definitely follow along for as long as you share your journey!
I lived through the same thing, the part about how the thing we wanted the most and dreamed about turned to be one of the worst thing that has happened to me. You just feel a void inside. But you will find your way back to yourself and to simplest dream, there is no « dream » job, what we can focus and build is to crave out our happiness everyday. Take all your time you need to heal ❤❤❤
It's harder to quit a job for your wellbeing than to just stay there and be miserable. You've taken steps to build the best life for you. Just because you don't know where the next step goes, you know that the last step didn't work.
I think your self awareness is something to be proud of. You've spotted what isn't good for you and changed it.
I found you a long time ago through your HK permanent residence card video (because I was also applying for mine at the time). You know what, I also handed in my resignation in early Aug! My last day will be Sept 6. After 3 years at this company I'm completely burned out and my health is starting to deteriorate, and I also don't have a new job lined up yet, so I know exactly the feeling of being lost and confused (and worried about finances). I'm glad we're both not alone in this. I'm sure we'll both figure it out eventually and have this just be another chapter of our lives ❤
I am a foreigner currently working in Korea as well and a westerner (which honestly makes it even harder to adjust to the work culture here) and I had the exact same experience. I quit my last company and the feeling was exactly the same - I felt like all the frustration from work and just bad feelings that were expressed to me were making me a bad person myself. Eventually, I found a new work place and I am the only foreigner in the company now and it’s so so so much better. It’s hard to find a good company and I think 8 months is a great achievement for such a struggle. You will find your place for sure :)
Sorry to hear that. Sounds like it's a good thing you left. Don't stress too much, you'll find something a lot better! Ive worked in Korea for a long time and it's certainly not the easiest. Everything is going to work out!
ahh i hope so too :') thanks a lot for writing this to me - i appreciate it a lot!! hope you're doing well
I have experienced in korean company, and it was my first job too... I can say that was so difficult for a person who starts work since of korean culture demand us as a fast worker-learner.. I'm pretty sure that you are also find many difficulities to adjust, moreover in Korea directly... So im so proud of your attainment and your presistence!! I believe you will find the better life's condition ahead, but first thing first is stay healthy please ❤
thank you so much!!!🥹 im glad to know that im not the only one who has gone thru this… you did great for surviving too!! i hope i’ll find something better outside korea 🥹
You're a lovely person :) Please share with us the Pros and Cons of living in HK, Indonesia and Seoul... The food, the culture, etc..
You're so strong, it's so cool that you choose yourself! While watching i cried a little with you because I also had the experience of doing something that seems necessary, but realizing that it’s not your thing and deciding to change direction
Is okay just to quit a job, it is not the end of world, really (I'd experienced it also when I'm 40 and still now I can survived and have a new life and career) and now you are still younger than me... it's okay, don't push yourself too much, take time to relax, just breath in and out without burden. Nothing are perfect, life is just about up and down.
hi sheren! i deeply felt your feelings, i have the same feelings recently in my mind but trying to hard find a new opportunity to change my job. but if i leave one day, i know i will never regret. so please don't be sad or regret, and believe yourself. You are a strong woman who has shown the courage to leave your job and follow your dreams so we both know you will do your best. Please use this time for yourself until you find a new job. I’m sure we will hear great news from you soon. 🙏💐💐
Im really glad you chose yourself over a company! Im also in a similar boat. It is so hard to leave a job! So im real happy you had the strength! Best of luck to you!
right!! indeed its never an easy decision 🥹 thanks for sharing this with me - good to know that im not alone. thank you again, pls take care ❤️
Thank you so much for this video. I also had to quit my job and I know how difficult it is to make that decision. You are so strong, and I also believe that you will figure the next step out !
❤❤I am always proud of you
this means a lot. ❤️ thank you!
Hello Sheren, goodday. I've been ur subscriber since ur HK days. Still following you in SK. I'm 46 yrs old a mother of 17 & 13 & a full time office employee feom Philippines. I actually understand you. Just let your mental & emotional health a priority. Your still young just go with the flow. Follow your heart what best for you. I want you to be happy, someday you will find your happiness in life & in your future work. Just pray, be kind, be patient, be humble & be grateful.
aww hellooo i remember you!! 🥹 thank you for writing this to me and wishing me well, i appreciate it a lot! ❤️ take care always!!! ps- i hope one day i get to visit Philippines 🥹
I still believe there is no right or wrong decision. But your choice today will lead to a different place only. So, stay strong and take care yourself! Sending love from here :) 🤟
i really wish you all the best for your new journey 🧋
means a lot to me. ❤️ thank you!
You are so great, brave, and sweet in my heart. We often get confused and worried about our future. It's an advantage that you have the right to choose. Thank you very much for your sincere sharing. You just take some rest now. Tomorrow will be an interesting day. 🎉❤
nooo thank YOU for always supporting me 🥹 and you’re right - im glad that i still have the privilege to “choose” my path. thank you again!! you take care:)
Omg ! So cool that you quit your job! You can come to visit me ! No need to think about jobs, right now, think about going out , have fun, joining some meetups , meet some like-minded people , don’t work for a company that didn’t value your contribution, instead, work for yourself. Travel a bit , trying to film more about the nature, roads, transportations you’ve been passing by 🌞😎💕 so proud of you 😘 don’t cry, you should be celebrating right now , cherish the moment. Take some rest , sleep well, eat well.🧚♂️😇
Hi! You are able to do anything, you put your mind to. You are such a beautiful woman.I enjoy watching your videos
i'll come back to this whenever i need some encouragement :') thank you so much!
I feel youuu!! future's gonba be okayy ❤
I hope so too!!! 🥹 thank you i appreciate you somuchhh
I've got to say, you have courage to leave your company and job. I'm in a similar situation where I don't like my job, my managers are being very mean to me, and worst of all, it has nothing to do with what I studied and want to I want career wise so my job was hindering me from the work experience and time I could've been doing on data analytics. I am now applying for every job I'm eligible for (applying for up to 5 jobs a day), because I'm desparate to get a new job.
I hope everything works out for you in the future.
Tomorrows another day, so make it a great day and that it includes all the tomorrows from that day, Make every day Count
From your last episode it seemed things were unsettled with your job so leaving maybe the beginning of something better. You will decide whether you go to H.K. or Indonesia. I'm partial to H.K., but it is your choice. Waiting just means more time to decide. Thanks for sharing. Keep at it.
You made the right choice at this point in time. Happy Breakup, Sher! Miss you.
appreciate you always mich. 💖 miss you!!
After hearing all this didu...i would suggest you to read a holy book..either of yours or our GEETA . It will help you much to find your wayy along the lifee..❤❤
Nd happy new life ahead..!
Yours Khushi🫠💗
thank youuu!!
I always be supportive ❤
thankyouuu i appreciate this so much 💖
Made a good decision take care of yourself ❤ try to make good decisions about your future its important tooo💗🗣️🫶🏻
i’m not even sure if this is a good decision, but thank youu!! i appreciate you ❤️
why don't u try doing this full time..yt videos short form content anything that fulfills ur heart....just give it a shot.
also i m proud of how far u have come and how brave u have become, u have done a great job
please take care
ahahah i don't think i can do this full time :( so far making videos is just a hobby!
but thank you so much!! i appreciate you a lot. i hope you're also doing well :)
hi ka sheren! would like to appreciate your big step with warm hug! i know how it feels to be uncertain about what's next and what should we do in the next morning knowing that the 'routine' has stopped. but as you said, this too shall pass. i don't know you personally but I think you'll have the greatest and finest adventure ahead. While figuring out what comes next, I hope you stay healthy and happy wherever you are. You'll be fine
Good luck.
thank you! 😊
Add oil!
ga yau!!! thank youu 😆
Hi. What’s the song title of the background music please?
hi! i actually put the song names in the description :))
Hi Sheren, I enjoy watching your vlogs and they are very relatable to me. I would like to buy you a coffee or become a part of a patreon to help support you. Do you have something like that?
Hellooo!! thank you so much i appreciate this a lot 🥹 i havea kofi account but i dont really check that so often hehe it’s ok!! By watching and appreciating my vid, it already means a lot. Thank you!!
I am tagging you. Let's do a project.
ask any old person, the only things that really matter in life are kids, and lets be honest: given your demographic, it's unlikely that you'll ever have kids. so relax, and just live your life without any anxiety and fear. in the end, none of it will matter.
I get you, and i said before, you should live and stay where you are happy. Anyway you tried, now move on and change country. You should also read some books about live in present, what is really important in life and mental health
appreciate this. thank you! ☺️
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I found you a long time ago through your HK permanent residence card video (because I was also applying for mine at the time). You know what, I also handed in my resignation in early Aug! My last day will be Sept 6. After 3 years at this company I'm completely burned out and my health is starting to deteriorate, and I also don't have a new job lined up yet, so I know exactly the feeling of being lost and confused (and worried about finances). I'm glad we're both not alone in this. I'm sure we'll both figure it out eventually and have this just be another chapter of our lives ❤