Asexual Whispers Are So Relatable
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2020
- Just a lighthearted video after my coming out!! I wanted to do something fun and kinda debunk some myths about being Asexual. I am thinking about making this into a series so if you like it give it a thumbs up to let me know you wanna see more!
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haha that one about the mom saying your hormones haven't kicked in yet, so relatable! I am 25 and about a year ago (when I figured out I was asexual) I was having a conversation with my mom, I did not plan to come out or anything, honestly not a super important thing for me, but my mom herself was like - the thing about you is that you are not sexually attracted to anyone. I was like - hm hm thank you for noticing, this is called asexuality. And then my mom continued - you just haven't find the right person yet! Me: -_-
holy moly I am SO GLAD I found your channel! I'm figuring out my asexuality right now and seeing this kind of content is seriously so helpful to me right now. thank you!
Awwww that’s one of the biggest reasons I wanted to start making content was to help other aces know they aren’t alone. Thank you for liking my stuff☺️
My little ace heart loved this video :)
I feel like saying 'I can change that' isn't the same as saying 'you haven't met the right guy yet.' Lesbians get the 'I can change that' thing too. It feels far more threatening than just 'you haven't met the right person yet'. But that may be because I've experienced someone being way too invested in trying to change my asexuality. Asking him 'would you say the same thing to a lesbian' didn't work. He literally said 'I mean yeah they can keep the ugly ones, but the rest, what a waste.'
I had sucky friends at the time, and they left me alone in a hotel room with him (after he'd said all this shit, on a different day) and shit very nearly really hit the fucking fan.
So yeah, it's a serious thing, is what I'm saying. It's a threat.
came out to my ex on being on the asexual spectrum, he told me "for now"
glad hes out of my life.
It's taken me a long time to feel comfortable labeling myself as an asexual even though I've known from the second I learned about asexuality that I am one. Conceptually, I don't struggle (much) thinking about sex when applied to other people, but if conceptually applied to myself I am repulsed. I've never wanted sex and I never will.
I think one of the biggest reasons why it took me so long to be comfortable with my chosen/realized asexual label was because I didn't realize it was a spectrum. For a long time I thought that asexuality and aromanticism were synonymous; therefore knowing that I want to have a romantic relationship with someone, with kissing and cuddling, I didn't understand that that feeling was valid without wanting sex. Another part to my struggle was that I had it in my head once I found a label then I couldn't change it. Even once I found out that ace and aro are different and I found out that labels can change, and that that's okay, I kept finding reasons to not fully embrace my reality. Honestly, even though I now feel much more comfortable with the label I'm still working on it. I just found your videos and I'm finding them very helpful because they help clarify for me some of my conflicts I'm facing against myself. #Overthinking
I currently identify as a hetero-demiromantic asexual. I now accept that time can bring new experiences and new self discovery which can change those labels, and that that's okay, but those are the labels that fit me right now and I don't expect them to change much.
This was sooo good, you are breaking down so many stigmas and just society norms that people have to realize you can’t just categorize someone and only live based on society norms... I was sad it was only 5 mins!!!
ive looked far and wide thru the asexual spectrum and saw that i related to a lot of them, and then i cane across aceflux, and i wuz curious, so i looked at wut it means and i wuz like "o h, so THIS is wut i am... this is kinda awkward after years of thinking i wuz just being innocent"
I'm sorry sad because even though I still have zero attraction towards anyone, my libido "woke up" out of nowhere about 5-6 years ago and I hate it ☹
THIS WAS AMAZING
When I told my grandma I'm asexual she thought I'll become a nun 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I don't even belive in God 🤣🤣🤣
Honestly if I could take hormones to become “hetero” I totally would. I just wish I was straight man. Life is so much easier when you’re straight.