That really is terrifying. It's one thing to have fantasies, but it's an entirely different animal irl. I happen to have a preference for bigger people, but there's a limit.
Yeah that is scary and I’ve definitely seen it on these types of shows before. The feeder partner is scared that if they lose weight they’ll abandon them.
Same as meth addicts and their partners dealing it. They hold them hostage and they can't escape. Sadly have a family member going through this. She's in her mid 40s and looks 70 now. It's truly heartbreaking 💔. Sad thing is he knows the consequences of his actions and that he's enabling it. So to me I see in a way this guy doing the same by slowly killing her. He doesn't care. He only cares about his own gratification.
I love how Ken will notice and point out the most random and interesting things in a scene, lol. Just listening to it and suddenly, "Look at this fly swatter!" LOL.
If he thinks she’s beautiful, then great. But even if someone likes that sort of thing, how could you be okay with your partner probably passing away at an early age?!? Becoming a widow would be an absolute nightmare to me.
I really don’t get it man. I put on a lot of weight since middle of last year, I didn’t do much over the summer and worse I started college last fall, I weighed about 240 and now I’m 275lbs and I feel SO sick at times because of the food I eat. I really can’t imagine being anymore than 300 so luckily spring is hitting (very slowly in upstate NY! JUST HAD A BLIZZARD LAST WEEK FFS) and my classes are getting lax so I’ll actually be able to make my own food before heading out. I am also getting a job as an auto technician so I’ll be losing weight while working and hopefully I’ll have some time to workout.
@D44RK_Iced_Yogs I have 2 Bachelor degrees in Kinesiology. Helpful tips for your weight lose journey to health: always do weight lifting/training before doing cardio (a 10-15 minute warmup is not considered cardio). If you have a sweet tooth, then wait until after doing at least 20 mins of cardio before indulging. Insulin sensitivity increases for 16-20 hours after cardio and will allow for you to process the carbs/sugar instead of storing it as fat. Also if you have lots of sugar before your workouts, then it will cause your insulin levels to spike (which will diminish your abilities to sustain a workout). Hope this science based advice is useful. 🤓
It's really sad that her weight has become her entire identity. There's nothing wrong with liking herself, but actively growing larger to be loved is certainly unhealthy both mentally and physically. Also it's nice that her husband loves her, but his fetish is going to kill her.
@bigdongussarita hate to say but doubt... most partners who's sexual gratification is based on size will leave as soon as weight comes off. You see it all the time, even on My 600 Pound Life.
You know when you lay on your side how the fat you might have goes to the bottom side? It could be extra skin I was a mom at 22. I don't let my husband hold me there it's not comfortable to me. I can't imagine being over that size even pregnant, I was so uncomfortable pregnant and i had a 10 pound baby I'm 5 foot 9 i was 200 lbs. I'm glad she love's herself... I hope she loves herself to lose some, to live long and happy.
Right after he talked about how she didn’t get on top anymore in the bedroom, I got an ad for Clorox bleach, like RUclips knew I needed to drink some after hearing that 💀
I've lost a total of 50 pounds in a year. Eat your desired weight in protien and you'll spread fat. Example: Want to be 160 you eat 160 grams of protien. It keeps you full. When I tell you. Even if your a woman get in the gym, and lift. Lift weights you don't NEEEEEED cardio, it's nice to up your endurance. If I could put my picture here, you would be gobstopped. Try it for a month lift heavy if you can lift to 12 counts up the weight and do overloading. Try to get to 6 if you can't do anymore take a break then do 6 again after a 2 minute break. Put you headphones on and focus on you for an hour. And hour a day, to focus on yourself isn't much to ask. Remember when you start this journey it's not a diet or a fad. This is your life, as you grow older it's harder to do things. You want to be 80 and able to drive a car not a wheelchair. 80% of your fat loss is diet. ♥ start a tracker don't stop till you get what you want then you can just maintain. Good luck on your journey And remember you can spot reduce fat. Look into body composition. ♥
I'm so jealous that she has no stretch marks. I gained 40 lbs pregnant, and I'm covered in stretch marks. They looked worse after losing the baby weight. Genetics...
I think if she lost the weight they'd show up I used to weigh 220 with absolutely no stretch marks went down to 170 and now I have stretch marks all over
stretchmarks are most likely to appear after you lost some weight too! I had them appearing during my pregnancy too, gained 35kg my whole belly is covered in them even after losing the weight. so you are not alone :)
Age also has a lot to do with it. If a teen suddenly loses their “baby fat” their skin is still elastic enough to snap back into shape. If this woman lost a great deal of weight she’d look like a deflated balloon.
I had lost weight to not be overweight anymore and then I gained the weight back recently. I can tell a difference in the way I feel, even though I already have chronic pain it's still a difference
Don’t give up. Ive yo yo’ed before too. I’ve luckily never been morbidly obese but being overweight still sucks and yes there’s a huge difference how it feels
You actually shouldn’t be “embracing” being morbidly obese, mainly because you will die before 65 in most every case, and yes it is painful. I used to work a bariatric unit. If you think you need motivation to lose weight, go volunteer at the nursing home, and visit the bariatric unit… Shit scared the fat right off my ass
All these ‘fat positivity’ and ‘love yourself at any size’ tiktoker’s are just making it worse. I don’t understand why people would want to get to be like that 🤷♀️
@@micahstealyogirlbell8010 didn’t say I want to be skinny just healthy and not obese and not be able to do anything or work. How did you get that from my comment?
Unfortunately BuffPro those of us with narcissistic parents have very clear favorite children and it doesn't have to be one child, one day someone can be the favorite, someone can be the most hated and it can switch.
@@jordanrambles7127 I did that as well. Amazing how many people write “angles” as “angels” and vice-versa online, sometimes the results are hysterical. 😂
There’s a difference with being fat and purposefully trying to be fat. If you’re living a relatively healthy lifestyle and just happen to be fat, that’s fine. You shouldn’t be shamed for it. But if you’re actively trying to get bigger, there’s a 100% chance you’re actively making unhealthy choices to be that way. Glorifying that is not healthy in any way.
But if you're living a healthy lifestyle as someone's who's fat, then you should be loosing weight. No such thing as a healthy fat person. Dr. Now would be laughing his ass off on this comment!
@@wintermoon7003 No. Morbidly obese sure, but there’s a difference between that and just being overweight. Medications can cause you to become overweight/fat, and if you need that shi to live then what do you want them to do? Get off it so they perish but at least they’re skinny? Also it can be genetic too, I’m in a nutrition class and my professor said that last week. It’s not always because someone overeats and has an unhealthy lifestyle.
Every time I see someone say "how am I still single" when they see someone they deemed unattractive for whatever reason, I think to myself "it's because your personality sucks". So many people lack the awareness to see that others find different types attractive and typically their personality has a lot to do with it.
It's not always personality. It could just be that the guys are assholes. There's tons out there. I wouldn't call myself a self centered, narcissistic, lady and yet I can't get any guy to want to even go on a single date without making me feel like the most disgusting thing on the planet because I have a bit of weight. I wouldn't even call myself fat, but I'm not Eugenia Cooney skinny either. I even go to the gym, well, started that about a year ago. Lost a good chunk of weight, though I still wasn't fat fat. Just barely plump. Like, I had a tummy protruding but my boobs always protruded more and they aren't super huge. Ample about C- D depending on the sizing of the bra.
Its not always personality. I had two friends who waaaay are bigger than me who ended up married with children, and they are, let's just say it nicely, not the brightest crayons in the box. How they managed to get married still blows me away. I am shy and a little socially awkward but I am always cheerful and kind to people. I am definitely overweight but not severely obese, as my friends are. Yet men barely glance at me. I just don't get it. Maybe it's because I don't make myself easy and don't sleep around.
That's just completely false. I know plenty of narcissistic and abusive jerks who have had no problems getting into a relationship and know plenty of wonderful people who are single. If personality was the deciding factor then narcissists and abusers would not have a relationship.
Who wants to drag all that around??! After having my 2nd child I blew up to 200lbs and felt absolutely awful....My stomach felt so large and in the way. Took me a couple years but I lost the weight and will never be that large again.
*”They’re not hurting anyone.”* *What about all the emergency workers who would have to get involved when (not if) she has a medical emergency?* *She poses a risk to everyone involved because of her weight. Good luck getting out of the structure fire on your own, because if you don’t, you’re not gonna make it.*
You could apply that to anyone: smokers, people who drink, who do dangerous sport activities ... nearly everyone does things that could potentially harm them, in which case they'd seek help which we would give them. Because we're social creatures that depend on one another from time to time
The "wow" non-stretch mark moment made me laugh. Aspects of this are funny, and I feel like I can laugh because I'm obese. This lady probably has: good family, friends, an outgoing personality and doesn't have autism, anxiety or a mental illness because less than half of her size, I have issues with those, and I could never, ever display myself like that. All the power to her, I am glad for her. I wish I had even half of the confidence. I've gained like 30lbs in the last two years and feel like I'm gonna die soon because of it. And also if you have a favorite kid: You're a narcissist or at the very least, have narcissistic tendencies. Also, the most hilarious part about the 'diarrhea and die' comment was the response of "that's unfortunate." haha
I also struggle with depression and anxiety, to name a few. It's OK to have a sense of humor and even laugh at yourself. Please, don't give up. You are worth the fight.
I mean, everyone's got their thing. It's a little tragic that his thing happens to be extremely unhealthy for his partner. It's giving if the people who supported Nickado Avocado were doing it for fetishist reasons, but to each their own.
Supersized model = Spectacle for ridicule on purpose. I feel bad for them. No ones actually aspiring to look like that. Anyone says "Your just as healthy and beautiful at 700 lbs as 150" is aliar, to themselves, you or both.
Not everyone thinks the same. I don't think bone skinny is attractive at all. I like thick and curvy for women and bulky for men. Just a preference on what I find attractive.
Well…there are legitimate people who do aspire to be that big. Whether it’s for financial reasons, trauma, love, fetish… similar to how some people want really really thin partners or themselves to be that way. Not saying it’s healthy, but there’s no way there is nobody wanting to be that way.
She probably meant that most people in her family were fat so she thought that was normal in early childhood. Then she started school and the kids there exposed her to the outside view of fatness.
3:00 my parents loved to tell everybody and their neighbor how wonderful my older two siblings are, and how they wish they didn’t have my lil sibling and I. Literally 14 years old shopping with my dad he decided yet another stranger needed to know.
My parents have a very obvious favorite too and everyone knows it. I’ve run into people they know who weren’t even aware they had more than one child (there are 5 of us.)
There is a difference between slightly above weight and dangerous weight. Being unhealthy shouldn't be glamorous. If you don't have a medical condition, no excuse.
@@ambrooks5nah i just think you’re in a sort of echo chamber-by no fault of your own! social media is horrid for that. it’s all Bad News and outrage clicks that get flooded to us plus the loud minority getting very much louder and then we just think that everyone is like that. merely a magnifying glass on a problem (that should be addressed!) when in reality most people agree that being morbidly obese isn’t great
She definitely enjoys the appreciation, positive attention, and encouraging feedback from her admirers (both online and her husband), which she only gets because of the belly and the weight. Normally I'd suggest her close friends & family show her appreciation and validation for other parts of her personality and such, so over time she realizes she's worth more than just a walking bouncing belly for online fetishists, but her husband is probably the main culprit + she eventually won't be able to leave the house & make those close friendship connections if/since he's a feeder (he doesn't seem like he's going to change anytime soon, either). I'm glad she's at least happy for the moment, but that's not going to last as her health quickly nosedives, and I wish she understood the distinctions between what's really making her happy, and what's filling in the gaps of (maybe) a neglected/traumatic/abusive childhood like Ken said. P.S. Today IS my birthday, Ken! I've missed this for years now, because I keep forgetting my birthday until it's far gone, and watching you guys on all those boring non-birthday-days, but this time I 'membered!
10:50, I think that when it comes to loving your own body, I get where she's coming from. The more people I encountered that have loved my body helped me realize that I'm not gross and disgusting and that I have a loveable body. But it also takes yourself to reframe your mindset. I don't know, I never comment just wanted to give my perspective, I guess. Cheers 💜
I remember the show "1000 Ways to Die." There was a chubby chaser salesman who suffocated under a 400 lb woman he hooked up with. She passed out, fell on top of him, and woke up to him dead. At least he went out doing something he loved.
Ok, he likes big women, but how can you accept the woman you love being this big when you know it will shorten her life? If you love someone you would try to help them get healthy. You don't just sit there and watch them dig their own grave.
In many cases, I agree with the "they aren't hurting anyone" thing. In this case? No, because regardless of them acknowledging it or not, they are hurting her health with this.
Well....I'm glad they are happy together, and that she has so much confidence. I hope she gets to live a whole life, but a big belly is the most unhealthy shape of all. And to add some body positivity, Ken has the most beautiful eyelashes in the world.
What worked for me was: - becoming an adult (metabolism slowed down a bit) - living on my own (getting to pick my own food) - track your calorie intake on apps like FOOD. I found out I ate way less than I thought. - food high in fats like chocolate milk. Also try to add more olive oil while cooking Hope this helps a bit!
@@Temmsi wouldn’t recommend calorie tracking for someone underweight and most likely in a calorie deficit. this can actually make the situation a lot worse in majority of cases. i am glad that it worked for you though!
I was told i was pre-diabetic when i was 315 lb. That shit scared the ahit outta me. Now, i weigh 185. I'd be surprised if she didnt have type 2 diabetes.
5:10 As someone with a fetish myself (Not this one, something milder and safer) I'm 96% sure that you're actually right about this. Fetishes do be extremely specific, so the "stuck in chair" thing is almost certainly a thing.
My mom didn't have to tell us she has a favorite kid. My brother's birthday and I are 1 month apart. She spent $700 for his birthday (He's also 8 years older than me) and I got a gift card she didn't want. Then she asked for the gift card back and got annoyed I already used it. lol
Wow...$700 for a birthday party. That's ridiculous. I'm lucky if I get acknowledged. 😂 But my parents will travel hours to my younger brother's house and we'll all go out to eat for his birthday. I don't care...I've learned to accept it over the years. At some point you just gotta accept the reality of your position.
:(( From a lady to another lady, you are BEAUTIFUL and deserve to be treated like a QUEEN. I'm so sorry your mother didn't see you as an individual worth loving to the equal degree. That's not a you thing, that's her. My friend is actively living with her abusive mother rn (who thinks she is the BEST mother and stepdad forces my friend to say this word for word) and they gave her some hand me down socks for Christmas while everyone else got like iPads n stuff. It was ridiculous and the whole family including uncles n grandparents are in on it, treating her badly. You aren't alone and I hope you are/were able to get away from that
Ouch felt this on a personal level. I have an identical twin sister and she is definitely the favorite twin. We literally have the same birthday and theres times when i didnt get a present or something but she did.
Actually jelly of their love. ❤ I was an obese child, lost weight- turned international model, then anorexia, dancing, showgirl, covergirl..and every size I was -I never found such a love. Now went through chemo, and back to "normal" weight...*sigh ..I gttg & serve master his coffeee and breaky
Would you believe me if I told you: 2x4s are not actually 2 inches by 4 inches because of the milling and planing processes that lumber goes through. So it's usually 1½in by 3½ft.
If only people knew that the fat acceptance/body positivity movement was started by NAAFA, which was mostly made by men who had fetishes for fat women. They had conferences that were basically dating events for feeders and fat women, and their newsletter had plenty of personal ads as well. It's sick.
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The end game for feeders is often immobility and complete dependence on the feeder. That's the really scary part
Imo it is abuse
That really is terrifying. It's one thing to have fantasies, but it's an entirely different animal irl. I happen to have a preference for bigger people, but there's a limit.
Yeah that is scary and I’ve definitely seen it on these types of shows before. The feeder partner is scared that if they lose weight they’ll abandon them.
It's kinda crazy.
1 adult would put there self in that kind of situation.
Same as meth addicts and their partners dealing it. They hold them hostage and they can't escape. Sadly have a family member going through this. She's in her mid 40s and looks 70 now. It's truly heartbreaking 💔. Sad thing is he knows the consequences of his actions and that he's enabling it. So to me I see in a way this guy doing the same by slowly killing her. He doesn't care. He only cares about his own gratification.
Doesn't matter how big you are - there is still a normal sized skeleton underneath that has to deal with all that weight on a regular basis
This!
😬 That makes my bones hurt thinking of it. I can feel my bones. Ew.
Very true. I’m worried about her knees.
Yep! We went from early 2000's forcing people to accept it's not okay to glorify anorexia but now we glorify obesity and binge eating. :(
I work in a hospital and the dr told someone part of their issue was their weight.. and to imagine a big door on a normal hinge..
I love how Ken will notice and point out the most random and interesting things in a scene, lol. Just listening to it and suddenly, "Look at this fly swatter!" LOL.
It’s his latent OCD surfacing.
I suspect that might be a spanking device instead of a fly swatter…? 🫠
Rat Swatter. 🐀 They are after the giant pancakes! 👀
😂right?! Why is that flyswatter so big?
If he thinks she’s beautiful, then great. But even if someone likes that sort of thing, how could you be okay with your partner probably passing away at an early age?!? Becoming a widow would be an absolute nightmare to me.
I really don’t get it man. I put on a lot of weight since middle of last year, I didn’t do much over the summer and worse I started college last fall, I weighed about 240 and now I’m 275lbs and I feel SO sick at times because of the food I eat.
I really can’t imagine being anymore than 300 so luckily spring is hitting (very slowly in upstate NY! JUST HAD A BLIZZARD LAST WEEK FFS) and my classes are getting lax so I’ll actually be able to make my own food before heading out. I am also getting a job as an auto technician so I’ll be losing weight while working and hopefully I’ll have some time to workout.
I wonder if that's part of the kink for them
@@D44RK_Iced_Yogs good for you, I really hope this works out :)
But yeah.. it really doesn't make sense of how this can be a 'fetish'.. bruh
@D44RK_Iced_Yogs I have 2 Bachelor degrees in Kinesiology. Helpful tips for your weight lose journey to health: always do weight lifting/training before doing cardio (a 10-15 minute warmup is not considered cardio).
If you have a sweet tooth, then wait until after doing at least 20 mins of cardio before indulging. Insulin sensitivity increases for 16-20 hours after cardio and will allow for you to process the carbs/sugar instead of storing it as fat. Also if you have lots of sugar before your workouts, then it will cause your insulin levels to spike (which will diminish your abilities to sustain a workout).
Hope this science based advice is useful. 🤓
It’s like guys that are okay with their spouse being anorexic. Even if that’s what you’re attracted to how are you okay with them hurting themselves?
"My favorite sister was fat" makes me think that the sister she didn't like was probably skinny, or at least thinner than the rest of the family 😅
I just imagine her sister finding out this way 😂😂
@@lolineko2083
I’m sure the family dynamics in her home come as no surprise to anyone by now.
Skinny sister is probably a porn star 😂
Buff’s laugh just gets me every time.
If only Scott can be convinced to make a compilation video of just Buff's laughs, without context of course.
@@RevikraI'm here for it 😁
It’s the reason I watch these videos😊
He has the best laugh!
@@missmew5240 He really does! It makes me so happy!
It's really sad that her weight has become her entire identity. There's nothing wrong with liking herself, but actively growing larger to be loved is certainly unhealthy both mentally and physically. Also it's nice that her husband loves her, but his fetish is going to kill her.
I wonder if he’d love her the same if she lost the weight
@bigdongussarita hate to say but doubt... most partners who's sexual gratification is based on size will leave as soon as weight comes off. You see it all the time, even on My 600 Pound Life.
You know when you lay on your side how the fat you might have goes to the bottom side? It could be extra skin I was a mom at 22. I don't let my husband hold me there it's not comfortable to me. I can't imagine being over that size even pregnant, I was so uncomfortable pregnant and i had a 10 pound baby I'm 5 foot 9 i was 200 lbs. I'm glad she love's herself... I hope she loves herself to lose some, to live long and happy.
Exactly it’s disgusting
@@sarachiichanthe answer is no. Remember when Tammy dates a feeder? He said he’d be upset if she lost weight
*“Fatty, fatty two by four…”* has to do with the ratio; “two by four.” It translates to twice as wide as tall, not the literal 2”x 4” piece of lumber.
Her husband looks like he sells lumpy pillows😂
He sells what he loves most lol
is this a mike lindell (mypillow) reference 👀👀
😂😂😂
@@bjoink-yh4hr nailed it
@@bjoink-yh4hrI was about to say he looks like an off-brand Mike Lindell! Since he would sell lumpy pillows, they could be “our pillows” 🤣🤣🤣
Right after he talked about how she didn’t get on top anymore in the bedroom, I got an ad for Clorox bleach, like RUclips knew I needed to drink some after hearing that 💀
Maybe it was to cleanse your eyes with after watching this video
You got covid?
That’s for your eyes not for drinking.
I got a McDonalds ad! 😅😅😅
Bahahaha
When you try not to bodyshame or be mean but she recounts the bullying in the funniest way possible with a completely straight face.
IM DEAD LOL
I couldn't help but laugh at the 2 by 4 song. My dad has the EXACT same experience as a kid, mostly from his parent's tho 😅
BOOM BOOM BOOM💥
Had me rolling
Right!! It’s like don’t tell us what they said to you and expect us not to laugh 😂😂😂😂
I lost 16 pounds just recently and im super proud of myself. I want to be better. I want to do better.
Nice
You got this! I’ve lost around the same! We got this!
wooo good job you can do it!!!
I've lost a total of 50 pounds in a year.
Eat your desired weight in protien and you'll spread fat.
Example:
Want to be 160 you eat 160 grams of protien.
It keeps you full. When I tell you. Even if your a woman get in the gym, and lift. Lift weights you don't NEEEEEED cardio, it's nice to up your endurance.
If I could put my picture here, you would be gobstopped.
Try it for a month lift heavy if you can lift to 12 counts up the weight and do overloading. Try to get to 6 if you can't do anymore take a break then do 6 again after a 2 minute break.
Put you headphones on and focus on you for an hour. And hour a day, to focus on yourself isn't much to ask.
Remember when you start this journey it's not a diet or a fad. This is your life, as you grow older it's harder to do things. You want to be 80 and able to drive a car not a wheelchair.
80% of your fat loss is diet. ♥ start a tracker don't stop till you get what you want then you can just maintain.
Good luck on your journey
And remember you can spot reduce fat. Look into body composition. ♥
I'm so jealous that she has no stretch marks. I gained 40 lbs pregnant, and I'm covered in stretch marks. They looked worse after losing the baby weight. Genetics...
I think if she lost the weight they'd show up I used to weigh 220 with absolutely no stretch marks went down to 170 and now I have stretch marks all over
stretchmarks are most likely to appear after you lost some weight too! I had them appearing during my pregnancy too, gained 35kg my whole belly is covered in them even after losing the weight. so you are not alone :)
Age also has a lot to do with it. If a teen suddenly loses their “baby fat” their skin is still elastic enough to snap back into shape. If this woman lost a great deal of weight she’d look like a deflated balloon.
But did you have the same lotion routine? I'm kidding, stretch marks are gorgeous!
It is cuz my skincare routine was fire and it didnt matter lol but Im proud of my "tiger stripes"
Her back and knees are going to hate her for this when she's older.
Don't worry. She's not going to make it to older.
Pretty sure they already do lol
My overweight friend is 25 and her knees already are hurting and she's not even THAT overweight. Just a chubby girl
Her back and knees hate her for it now.
That's if she gets much older, this weight isn't good for her heart
“We’re in the wrong side of the internet now, Dane”😂😂😂
I love how Ken's brain picks up on all those little details...., and then points it out for us! Much to our delight!
When he said she picked him up in the truck stop I lost it 😂😂
She meant it literally… and his vehicle most likely.
Best part of the day.. getting off work and seeing Ken has posted 👏🏼👏🏼
Titanic Tummy Time
LITERALLY
100%
The three frame shot of that woman sinking the Titanic intercut with rushing water and fog-horn sound was… *>MUAH
I had lost weight to not be overweight anymore and then I gained the weight back recently. I can tell a difference in the way I feel, even though I already have chronic pain it's still a difference
You've shown yourself you can lose the weight! Dont give up 😊❤
@@daytripper0912 ❤️
Don’t give up. Ive yo yo’ed before too. I’ve luckily never been morbidly obese but being overweight still sucks and yes there’s a huge difference how it feels
You actually shouldn’t be “embracing” being morbidly obese, mainly because you will die before 65 in most every case, and yes it is painful. I used to work a bariatric unit. If you think you need motivation to lose weight, go volunteer at the nursing home, and visit the bariatric unit… Shit scared the fat right off my ass
All these ‘fat positivity’ and ‘love yourself at any size’ tiktoker’s are just making it worse. I don’t understand why people would want to get to be like that 🤷♀️
That's actually really funny
I take care of a relative that’s morbidly obese and same…. The worse part is they have to be cleaned constantly
@@Nutritionqueen I don't understand why you'd wanna be skinny.
@@micahstealyogirlbell8010 didn’t say I want to be skinny just healthy and not obese and not be able to do anything or work. How did you get that from my comment?
PICK UP THE PHONE!!!
Dr. Now is calling...
😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately BuffPro those of us with narcissistic parents have very clear favorite children and it doesn't have to be one child, one day someone can be the favorite, someone can be the most hated and it can switch.
There are no "favorites", it's scapegoats vs. enablers.
What I mean is that being the favorite in that scenario is not a good thing either.
That’s just circumstantial stuff and not overall favoritism
Gotta love those reality tv angles LOL
Yep...
They know what their doing :/
They're. And I agree. @@BRIANNA_00
First read it as ‘angels’ and thought yep makes sense somehow
@@jordanrambles7127
I did that as well.
Amazing how many people write “angles” as “angels” and vice-versa online, sometimes the results are hysterical. 😂
that belly was shinier than a shiny pokemon.
🤣
☠️
I know my brother is my mom's favorite
I think you commented on the wrong video @@lilydr9364
BRUH
It's not a fly swatter, it's a paddle for the bedroom
I was looking for this comment lol
For real? 🤣 I don’t think a lot knew
Flies that land on her butt in the bedroom… 😏
Ken & Buff are so innocent 😇 lol
My mom used to smack me with the fly swatter
"they're not hurting anyone" nah that ladies definitely hurting
We ran too fast and fell into the deep end of OnlyFans.
The dark side of OF 😂
@@ambrooks5 💀
Oh my God, the titanic video editing was absolute gold
I hope she can get healthier and is happy. I think she was a sweet lady. They seem happy together and that's awesome!
Sadly parents do pick a favorite child & I'm the black sheep..lolll
Same!
Hey, me too! ❤
Same lol
wow i love Buff’s laugh! so contagious.
There’s a difference with being fat and purposefully trying to be fat.
If you’re living a relatively healthy lifestyle and just happen to be fat, that’s fine. You shouldn’t be shamed for it.
But if you’re actively trying to get bigger, there’s a 100% chance you’re actively making unhealthy choices to be that way. Glorifying that is not healthy in any way.
But if you're living a healthy lifestyle as someone's who's fat, then you should be loosing weight. No such thing as a healthy fat person. Dr. Now would be laughing his ass off on this comment!
@@wintermoon7003 No. Morbidly obese sure, but there’s a difference between that and just being overweight. Medications can cause you to become overweight/fat, and if you need that shi to live then what do you want them to do? Get off it so they perish but at least they’re skinny? Also it can be genetic too, I’m in a nutrition class and my professor said that last week. It’s not always because someone overeats and has an unhealthy lifestyle.
@@wintermoon7003Even commonplace medications can change your weight… Adderall makes me not want to eat, so I lose weight.
As a bigger girl, being seen as just a fetish in a relationship is my greatest fear. Especially if it turns into this.
Every time I see someone say "how am I still single" when they see someone they deemed unattractive for whatever reason, I think to myself "it's because your personality sucks". So many people lack the awareness to see that others find different types attractive and typically their personality has a lot to do with it.
Yea but this is different though. Its ok to have an attraction to bigger people; this is just a fetish and super unhealthy
It's not always personality. It could just be that the guys are assholes. There's tons out there. I wouldn't call myself a self centered, narcissistic, lady and yet I can't get any guy to want to even go on a single date without making me feel like the most disgusting thing on the planet because I have a bit of weight. I wouldn't even call myself fat, but I'm not Eugenia Cooney skinny either. I even go to the gym, well, started that about a year ago. Lost a good chunk of weight, though I still wasn't fat fat. Just barely plump. Like, I had a tummy protruding but my boobs always protruded more and they aren't super huge. Ample about C- D depending on the sizing of the bra.
Its not always personality. I had two friends who waaaay are bigger than me who ended up married with children, and they are, let's just say it nicely, not the brightest crayons in the box. How they managed to get married still blows me away. I am shy and a little socially awkward but I am always cheerful and kind to people. I am definitely overweight but not severely obese, as my friends are. Yet men barely glance at me. I just don't get it. Maybe it's because I don't make myself easy and don't sleep around.
That's just completely false. I know plenty of narcissistic and abusive jerks who have had no problems getting into a relationship and know plenty of wonderful people who are single.
If personality was the deciding factor then narcissists and abusers would not have a relationship.
5:06 Dane gets me every time, I love him so much HAHAHAHAH
Her skin really IS beautiful and looks soft to the touch. ❤
The "two by fours are skinny" comment got 😂I know he meant it with confusion, but it came out so mean
Who wants to drag all that around??! After having my 2nd child I blew up to 200lbs and felt absolutely awful....My stomach felt so large and in the way. Took me a couple years but I lost the weight and will never be that large again.
Underrated titanic edit from Scott that probably took hours. Props to the editor 🙌🏻🤙🏼
“My favorite sister is fat”. Now that’s a quote
She seems like a very sweet person
*”They’re not hurting anyone.”*
*What about all the emergency workers who would have to get involved when (not if) she has a medical emergency?*
*She poses a risk to everyone involved because of her weight. Good luck getting out of the structure fire on your own, because if you don’t, you’re not gonna make it.*
Bodyshaming is good sometimes.
Bruh
@@Temmsright? Lol
They were hurting my eyes with that finger in her pouch thing💀
You could apply that to anyone: smokers, people who drink, who do dangerous sport activities ... nearly everyone does things that could potentially harm them, in which case they'd seek help which we would give them. Because we're social creatures that depend on one another from time to time
Being happy with your body is fine, but being healthy is another thing. You can't be both if you weigh too much or too little. It goes both ways.
He took out a huge insurance in her name and he is the lone beneficiary. He needs to feed her more to get the money asap.
The "wow" non-stretch mark moment made me laugh.
Aspects of this are funny, and I feel like I can laugh because I'm obese.
This lady probably has: good family, friends, an outgoing personality and doesn't have autism, anxiety or a mental illness because less than half of her size, I have issues with those, and I could never, ever display myself like that.
All the power to her, I am glad for her. I wish I had even half of the confidence.
I've gained like 30lbs in the last two years and feel like I'm gonna die soon because of it.
And also if you have a favorite kid: You're a narcissist or at the very least, have narcissistic tendencies.
Also, the most hilarious part about the 'diarrhea and die' comment was the response of "that's unfortunate." haha
I also struggle with depression and anxiety, to name a few. It's OK to have a sense of humor and even laugh at yourself. Please, don't give up. You are worth the fight.
I mean, everyone's got their thing. It's a little tragic that his thing happens to be extremely unhealthy for his partner. It's giving if the people who supported Nickado Avocado were doing it for fetishist reasons, but to each their own.
Ken making videos like this is Like Sisyphus rolling these people up a Hill. Never ending
Every year I forget to come hear Ken say "If today's your birthday, happy birthday " gonna try to be here this year ...dont let me forget again 😆
When is your birthday ?
The silence after the “she used to be on top” talk took me out 😂
Supersized model = Spectacle for ridicule on purpose. I feel bad for them. No ones actually aspiring to look like that. Anyone says "Your just as healthy and beautiful at 700 lbs as 150" is aliar, to themselves, you or both.
Lol you would be surprised. There are lots of men that are truly attracted to it.
OR it's a fetish. Some people are attracted to what many others find grotesque.
Not everyone thinks the same. I don't think bone skinny is attractive at all. I like thick and curvy for women and bulky for men. Just a preference on what I find attractive.
Well…there are legitimate people who do aspire to be that big. Whether it’s for financial reasons, trauma, love, fetish… similar to how some people want really really thin partners or themselves to be that way. Not saying it’s healthy, but there’s no way there is nobody wanting to be that way.
It's funny because if you compare the looks of someone who's overweight with someone that loves to compliment them, suddenly they get all offended
"i didnt know i wasnt supposed to be fat"
literally 10 seconds later
*THE OTHER KIDS WHERE MAKING FUN OF ME FOR BEING FAT*
make it make sense Ma'am.
She probably meant that most people in her family were fat so she thought that was normal in early childhood. Then she started school and the kids there exposed her to the outside view of fatness.
3:00 my parents loved to tell everybody and their neighbor how wonderful my older two siblings are, and how they wish they didn’t have my lil sibling and I. Literally 14 years old shopping with my dad he decided yet another stranger needed to know.
My parents have a very obvious favorite too and everyone knows it. I’ve run into people they know who weren’t even aware they had more than one child (there are 5 of us.)
@@LiathTclassic ha! Lol
Thank you for saying ITS UNHEALTHY without fear of conforming 🖤
I just wanna say this is a proud of this I love this channel and have been watching for years
the titanic edit as well as others was so funny as always editor I love you
I was wrecked at the comment, “Just proves you don’t need to be skinny to have a thigh gap!” Like holy shit that was savage
There is a difference between slightly above weight and dangerous weight. Being unhealthy shouldn't be glamorous. If you don't have a medical condition, no excuse.
It’s the world we live in now. EVERYTHING is suppose to be accepted even when it’s obviously wrong. Ridiculous. 🙄
@@ambrooks5nah i just think you’re in a sort of echo chamber-by no fault of your own! social media is horrid for that. it’s all Bad News and outrage clicks that get flooded to us plus the loud minority getting very much louder and then we just think that everyone is like that. merely a magnifying glass on a problem (that should be addressed!) when in reality most people agree that being morbidly obese isn’t great
@@ambrooks5
Ultimately her weight is nobody’s business but her own. I’m ready for “her fat azz is gonna’ burn in hell” next. 🙄
She definitely enjoys the appreciation, positive attention, and encouraging feedback from her admirers (both online and her husband), which she only gets because of the belly and the weight. Normally I'd suggest her close friends & family show her appreciation and validation for other parts of her personality and such, so over time she realizes she's worth more than just a walking bouncing belly for online fetishists, but her husband is probably the main culprit + she eventually won't be able to leave the house & make those close friendship connections if/since he's a feeder (he doesn't seem like he's going to change anytime soon, either). I'm glad she's at least happy for the moment, but that's not going to last as her health quickly nosedives, and I wish she understood the distinctions between what's really making her happy, and what's filling in the gaps of (maybe) a neglected/traumatic/abusive childhood like Ken said.
P.S. Today IS my birthday, Ken! I've missed this for years now, because I keep forgetting my birthday until it's far gone, and watching you guys on all those boring non-birthday-days, but this time I 'membered!
I don't think that's a fly swatter...😏😂
10:50, I think that when it comes to loving your own body, I get where she's coming from. The more people I encountered that have loved my body helped me realize that I'm not gross and disgusting and that I have a loveable body. But it also takes yourself to reframe your mindset. I don't know, I never comment just wanted to give my perspective, I guess. Cheers 💜
The editing on this video is insane 👌🏼 love it!
I remember the show "1000 Ways to Die." There was a chubby chaser salesman who suffocated under a 400 lb woman he hooked up with. She passed out, fell on top of him, and woke up to him dead. At least he went out doing something he loved.
Omg I haven’t heard someone mention that show in so long
Always happy to see BuffPro and CTK together doing content!❤️
That belly was shinyer than king Neptunes bald head in the spongbob movie
The absence of stretch marks was the first thing I noticed too! So jealous!
when ken thinks the paddle is a fly swatter lmao
OMG LMAO SCOTT AS ALWAYS ON POINT WITH THE EDITING 🤣 AND KEN AND PRO ON POIT BUT KEPP IT UP SCOTT I LOVE YOUR EDITING. 💯 THE PERFECT TREEO
The fat distribution being almost all in the stomach is wild. It must be something else to walk and also be kicking your stomach….
Ok, he likes big women, but how can you accept the woman you love being this big when you know it will shorten her life? If you love someone you would try to help them get healthy. You don't just sit there and watch them dig their own grave.
In many cases, I agree with the "they aren't hurting anyone" thing.
In this case? No, because regardless of them acknowledging it or not, they are hurting her health with this.
Dane's joke always spontan and funny as heck ~Blank page~ "have you try to scrolling, incase it was just a model"😂
In Medieval times, IIRC, it was also believed that a woman on top would conceive a bishop. A fine fate for a second child. 😂
Everytime i catch one of these videos a few hours after release i get so excited
Well....I'm glad they are happy together, and that she has so much confidence. I hope she gets to live a whole life, but a big belly is the most unhealthy shape of all. And to add some body positivity, Ken has the most beautiful eyelashes in the world.
Reminds me of the feeders that keep Amberlynn and Foodie Beauty in business 🤮
Im on the opposite side of what she's on, so i feel for her. I'm dangerously underweight, but i dont know how to fix it. It hurts :/
Eat stuff that tastes good in small amounts throughout the day so it doesn't hurt your stomach
See a dietician
What worked for me was:
- becoming an adult (metabolism slowed down a bit)
- living on my own (getting to pick my own food)
- track your calorie intake on apps like FOOD. I found out I ate way less than I thought.
- food high in fats like chocolate milk. Also try to add more olive oil while cooking
Hope this helps a bit!
I drink boosts, and instead of three big meals i "graze" throughout the day. I was 75 pounds im 120 now ❤
@@Temmsi wouldn’t recommend calorie tracking for someone underweight and most likely in a calorie deficit. this can actually make the situation a lot worse in majority of cases. i am glad that it worked for you though!
What Ken said "Get stuck in that chair" I lost it LMFAO
I was told i was pre-diabetic when i was 315 lb. That shit scared the ahit outta me. Now, i weigh 185. I'd be surprised if she didnt have type 2 diabetes.
5:10 As someone with a fetish myself (Not this one, something milder and safer) I'm 96% sure that you're actually right about this. Fetishes do be extremely specific, so the "stuck in chair" thing is almost certainly a thing.
My mom didn't have to tell us she has a favorite kid. My brother's birthday and I are 1 month apart. She spent $700 for his birthday (He's also 8 years older than me) and I got a gift card she didn't want. Then she asked for the gift card back and got annoyed I already used it. lol
Wow...$700 for a birthday party. That's ridiculous. I'm lucky if I get acknowledged. 😂 But my parents will travel hours to my younger brother's house and we'll all go out to eat for his birthday. I don't care...I've learned to accept it over the years. At some point you just gotta accept the reality of your position.
:(( From a lady to another lady, you are BEAUTIFUL and deserve to be treated like a QUEEN. I'm so sorry your mother didn't see you as an individual worth loving to the equal degree. That's not a you thing, that's her. My friend is actively living with her abusive mother rn (who thinks she is the BEST mother and stepdad forces my friend to say this word for word) and they gave her some hand me down socks for Christmas while everyone else got like iPads n stuff. It was ridiculous and the whole family including uncles n grandparents are in on it, treating her badly. You aren't alone and I hope you are/were able to get away from that
Omg
Ouch felt this on a personal level. I have an identical twin sister and she is definitely the favorite twin. We literally have the same birthday and theres times when i didnt get a present or something but she did.
I feel guilty eating and watching this video
Bro the edit of her in the titanic was crazy 💀
Actually jelly of their love. ❤
I was an obese child, lost weight- turned international model, then anorexia, dancing, showgirl, covergirl..and every size I was -I never found such a love. Now went through chemo, and back to "normal" weight...*sigh ..I gttg & serve master his coffeee and breaky
that zoom out comment was gold!
"Don't body shame me bro!"
*dies of obesity*
This world disappoints me
🙋♀
@@IWantToPetYourDog yup
It’s been in the shitter for awhile and it’s not getting any better
both of your laughs brightened my day today! it was much needed 💚
Ayo, I'm gay, single and skinny. I think I been going about this the wrong way
Would you believe me if I told you:
2x4s are not actually 2 inches by 4 inches because of the milling and planing processes that lumber goes through. So it's usually 1½in by 3½ft.
I got fucking 3/8s 2x4s once in the past year. I was so pissed when I assumed 1/2, cut for it, had gaps, and checked.
That thigh gap one killed me 😂
If only people knew that the fat acceptance/body positivity movement was started by NAAFA, which was mostly made by men who had fetishes for fat women. They had conferences that were basically dating events for feeders and fat women, and their newsletter had plenty of personal ads as well. It's sick.
All I need to hear is that this couple is from Alabama. LoL
Alabama has only rednecks or rocket scientists
Hahaha that titanic edit was epic 😂😂
Now that’s… a fupa!!
kens hair is lookin luscious!!!🤗🎉🎉
Hair looks great Ken!
1:23 was so unhinged lmfao
I dont usually burst out laughing. But holy jesus " fatty fatty 2x4 couldnt get thru the bathroom door" annihilated me
I love how you're trying to analyse the food
I'd love to see how Buff responds to the cat lady one from yesterday