The Psychology of Love

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  • Опубликовано: 3 ноя 2024

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  • @DwyaneWadeCounty
    @DwyaneWadeCounty 2 года назад +27

    8:50 relationship should make you and your partner better people not bring out the worst in each other.
    10:08 physical and emotional abuse CANNOT coexist with love
    13:47 Opposites do not make great relationships
    15:35 Simple "Hi, how are you?" makes people like you
    21:15 Similarities are one of the main factors for long term relationship. But opposites do attract for short term
    22:11 For basic mating purposes, we are actually compelled to mate with someone different to us but problem is that it is not good for long term relationship
    23:30 Self fulfilling prophecy. If you believe that someone likes you, you will behave in a positive way towards that person creating a cycle of liking.
    27:35 Men are right upfront about placing attractiveness in their top 3; Women place it 6, 7, or 8, but when you evaluate women's behavior, it's no different than men.
    37:30 Share your beliefs, your goals, ect, to create intimacy, attraction and commitment. However, some secrets were meant to be taken to the grave
    39:50 Sad reality, marriage dies out after 5 years. Not that you are with the wrong person, just the nature of love
    43:40 Do small act of love and appreciation like saying thank you for doing the laundry or stroking shoulders. Do not insult your partner, or berate them; it's the worst thing you can do.
    47:35 Physical and psychological and emotional abuse show up the same way on brain scans. _Fighting is not the only way to inflict damage upon the opponent; a man's spirit can be broken in much easier ways_
    56:00 Hurting someone is not a sign of love, as some abusers may claim. Physical and emotional abuse and love cannot coexist. Often time, it is a male abuser, but women could abuse, as well. Abusers will not change unless they get professional help. You cannot fix an abuser, unless maybe you are a professional (???)
    58:00 Say to yourself, "I am Worthy of love".

  • @allaboardthegravytrain5987
    @allaboardthegravytrain5987 2 года назад +17

    This is one of the best explanations of love, relationships, and attraction.

  • @The_torero
    @The_torero 8 лет назад +222

    All of this resonates with me. People that deny it are nothing more than "blue pill" thinkers. Looks matter and the only people who it is safe to say are NOT visual are the blind. Both sexes judge by looks first and foremost and looks can influence how you feel about and treat someone. Period.

    • @dgiintl
      @dgiintl 8 лет назад +2

      y

    • @briytonwilliams1337
      @briytonwilliams1337 8 лет назад +1

      for real

    • @perliva
      @perliva 7 лет назад +28

      You might be interested in a study in which blind men found women with a certain hip-to-waist-ratio the most attractive. Suffice to say, that that ratio was is the same which was the most attractive to men who could see the women instead of touching her.

    • @EVILONE021377
      @EVILONE021377 6 лет назад +10

      Looks can be deceiving.
      Lots of good looking people are ugly inside, but the significant other chooses to stick around for “looks” sake.......probably for social status purposes

    • @crubs83
      @crubs83 6 лет назад +16

      Actually, looks DO matter to people who are blind. Those who are blind form a mental image of an individual by touching them. The blind can, in fact, 'see' with their hands, similar to how bats 'see' with sound. That being said, most people probably aren't comfortable with having their face felt up by a stranger, so those who are blind are forced to learn about someone and appreciate their personality before knowing how they look.

  • @mpolanetz
    @mpolanetz 12 лет назад +29

    This should be shown in High Schools, so the teenagers get knowledge and understanding about true relationships and what it is about.

    • @crazyflamefox
      @crazyflamefox 7 месяцев назад +1

      11 years late but at my school they do show this video in psych classes

  • @valeriacerrato6770
    @valeriacerrato6770 11 лет назад +18

    so passion is when you're PHISICALLY attracted to someone and intimacy is when you can tell someone about EVERYTHING and trust them..in order for LOVE to work, you need to have intimacy, passion and COMMITMENT..

  • @joydarling314
    @joydarling314 12 лет назад +8

    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

  • @af9125nna
    @af9125nna 11 лет назад +11

    relationships are so much work - sometimes i honestly feel like i'm happier being alone

  • @danthemanporto
    @danthemanporto 11 лет назад +261

    my right ear felt alone in this

    • @artistic2742
      @artistic2742 4 года назад +21

      Thoght my earphones where broken

    • @rupaltrivedi307
      @rupaltrivedi307 3 года назад +15

      I thought my earphone broke

    • @inexp1
      @inexp1 3 года назад +12

      Same bro i got scared for my headphones

    • @therealtanah
      @therealtanah 3 года назад +9

      Same situation here

    • @alinesanchezramirezbaruchi2658
      @alinesanchezramirezbaruchi2658 2 года назад

      Tradução incorreta
      "Minha orelha direita sentiu que formigou descolada da cabeça "
      🤣
      Meme

  • @CareerDropout.
    @CareerDropout. 2 года назад +3

    I’m confident enough to believe I deserve an honorary degree in this field, I believe I communicate love accurately without ever going to college.

  • @cyberminky64
    @cyberminky64 11 лет назад +29

    I think that initial physical attraction is important, even if we don't like to admit it, but like this guy points out, you also need passion, intimacy and commitment and when you get to know the person, that initial attraction won't be as important, you'll be attracted to how thoughtful and caring and funny they are and then it's just a bonus that person's good-lucking. and also, this proximity thing, the more time you get to spend with someone the more you realise how attractive they are..

    • @FloppaTheBased
      @FloppaTheBased Год назад

      It obviously is lol. I mean how are you supposed to enjoy sex with physically unattractive partner

  • @Picallo1cat
    @Picallo1cat 8 лет назад +65

    This man is very easy to listen to - thank you, great lecture!

    • @jedim1ndfux619
      @jedim1ndfux619 2 года назад

      I couldn't stand that the audio only worked from one ear to be honest. I only made it about 30 seconds but im sure it was a good lecture.

  • @marleygoot174
    @marleygoot174 2 года назад +35

    i could listen to this even 2 more hours . it gets even more complicated . but the end is really emotional . i'm just used to using 5 drops of natural sex drops spanish fly and the love is on!!he isn't even thinking of some other girls. simple trick uh? and these aphrodisiacs are really easy to use.

    • @chloemarlon39
      @chloemarlon39 2 года назад +2

      yeah i know them too. my man gave me these natural drops as a birthday gift since he thinks i'm so bad in bed. but after 5 drops he completely changed his mind and now he wants me to be like that all the time

  • @ACEducation
    @ACEducation 9 лет назад +12

    Great lecture for ESL students. Clear and easy to understand and good use of supporting visuals. Works well with text book units about LOVE.

  • @iconbeats6159
    @iconbeats6159 6 лет назад +39

    Interesting course, I think the best way to maintain a long term relationship is to be brutally honest with each other.

  • @Myztyrio
    @Myztyrio 9 лет назад +19

    It all makes sense now. I don't assimilate with people because I'm the most attractive.

  • @KenRapz
    @KenRapz 5 лет назад +10

    This lecture was amazing ! Professor is beyond wise .

  • @napoleonk.5146
    @napoleonk.5146 11 лет назад +11

    I'm so thankful and grateful to this professor and all of the questions, they helped me learn a lot.

  • @donndiva3168
    @donndiva3168 7 лет назад +17

    I have my degree in psychology. I love these videos😀

  • @petersaints1864
    @petersaints1864 10 лет назад +5

    This lecture made me reflect on my self and made me aware of the important things a couple need to keep a relationship going. Is love a choice ? Maybe...! Got so much love to give and yet so much to learn.

  • @RaikenXion
    @RaikenXion 9 лет назад +5

    Love is completely letting go and discovering your absoute, true inner self, which you see in that other person.

    • @markem9415
      @markem9415 9 лет назад

      +Raiken Xion Lol good luck with that.

    • @RaikenXion
      @RaikenXion 9 лет назад

      Mark EM No bad luck (for me) cause I lost that person

  • @robotpanda77
    @robotpanda77 9 лет назад +44

    He should have just said at the end "In summary, bitches be crazy" and then left to uproarious applause.

    • @uzernam3
      @uzernam3 8 лет назад

      +robotpanda77 LMAO

  • @masonscott3518
    @masonscott3518 8 лет назад +53

    For people to understand. 70% of love is physical appearance alone. Forget the personality even exists. 70% is looks and that is it. What he is talking about is the the other 30%. And he does a great job at it. It's sad that the human mind is so attracted to the human body rather then the personality.

    • @Tootjuhmusic
      @Tootjuhmusic 8 лет назад +14

      +Mason Scott thats called animal attraction, what is alllot diffferent then LOVE, everybody has an animal attraction to smell, appearence & Physical engagement!

    • @jagheterjonteh
      @jagheterjonteh 8 лет назад +4

      +Tootjuh Werta That IS love. What do you think "love at first sight" means?

    • @shanshanlin6864
      @shanshanlin6864 8 лет назад +5

      for an INTJ, it means meeting all my expectations. His behaviours and thoughts fall within my estimated range. So I know very quickly he is the right person for me and we can enter a long-term relationship. So I fall in love at first sight.

    • @moormanwright8624
      @moormanwright8624 8 лет назад +4

      It is terribly sad. It is a source of much unhappiness.

    • @justint3986
      @justint3986 8 лет назад +10

      Mason scott. Your reality is how you perceive it mate. Looks do matter in attraction, but not as big as you might think it would be. For example... Imagine that you are really ugly but have a good personality and a mountain full of talents... Then you can attract people. You ARE what you believe in. Your perception to reality is what you believe in.

  • @sabatam4483
    @sabatam4483 4 года назад +1

    If I could, I’d get each person to view this video at least once a year. Insightful and superbly delivered.👌🏽

  • @zahrashaaban4596
    @zahrashaaban4596 7 лет назад +3

    It's balance between harmony of spirits & personality ❤️❤️

  • @trumpnotedcruz5554
    @trumpnotedcruz5554 10 лет назад +30

    my left ear like this.

  • @marynaryan
    @marynaryan 13 лет назад

    I'm proud and happy of being your virtual student...

  • @jasperbhogal4953
    @jasperbhogal4953 4 года назад +1

    FOR ANYONE WHO DOESN WANT THEIR RIGHT WAR TO DISAPPEAR
    Settings -> accessibility -> audio -> mono. Pretty much the same for windows.

  • @thessbest123
    @thessbest123 8 лет назад +71

    my right ear disliked this video

    • @Lonely.Nation
      @Lonely.Nation 8 лет назад

      nah fam your headphones are just broken

    • @Lonely.Nation
      @Lonely.Nation 8 лет назад

      thessbest123 that's disgusting. you need to shave

    • @deirdreberry4130
      @deirdreberry4130 8 лет назад

      Today I want to show you a really absurd,
      but extremely effective "LOVE FORMULA"
      >>===>>MakeHimDesireyou8.blogspot.com ...

    • @iwishyouknew3413
      @iwishyouknew3413 8 лет назад

      +thessbest123 +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me you're feedback was nothing more than one of +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me that you aren't medically challenged due to any past head injuries? Are you creeping over into the double digits, 10 year old. Bc There is no greater insult during a misunderstanding, lacking interpersonal skills, experiences and knowledge around the subject of choice. Just wanted to know about meaning behind the message.

    • @iwishyouknew3413
      @iwishyouknew3413 8 лет назад

      +thessbest123 +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me you're feedback was nothing more than one of +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me that you aren't medically challenged due to any past head injuries? Are you creeping over into the double digits, 10 year old. Bc There is no greater insult during a misunderstanding, lacking interpersonal skills, experiences and knowledge around the subject of choice. Just wanted to know about meaning behind the message.

  • @wilsonater5000
    @wilsonater5000 10 лет назад +2

    There is only compassion as true love. Co-together passion-suffering. To simply be fully present for another because you recognize on a spiritual level that they are a part of you. Anything else is delusionally caused attachment arising as some form of co-dependency.

  • @tdogharty
    @tdogharty 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for saying physical and mental abuse is not Love..

  • @95TurboSol
    @95TurboSol 10 лет назад +10

    Good talk overall but I thought the "how to have a good relationship" part was not very clear, if anyone wants the keys to long lasting love that is backed by loads of scientific data look up John Gottman's book or audiobook "What makes love last?" the dude has been studying this stuff for like 30+ years, he is known as one of the leading experts in the world, great stuff.

  • @Alexandraahlblad
    @Alexandraahlblad 2 года назад

    4 things i took out from this lecture (could watch again!) Passion might stop earlier than intimacy if it starts As passion, if u wanna go back with ur ex u gotta analytically Measure, relationship dynamics n behaviour, attachment styles, personality = come values, where u wanna live etc

  • @TheeFinalSolution
    @TheeFinalSolution 11 лет назад +1

    You are not picky if you have ONE trait that you want, it is a mere desire. You can want whomever you want. Let those who fall into love fall into love, and those who fall into true love fall into true love. Allow nature to take its course, that is of utmost importance.

  • @lebogangmmalane5928
    @lebogangmmalane5928 11 лет назад +5

    i have always wanted to know what to expect in a relationship and how to make it work. I almost gave up in seeking cos i was afraid it wil fail again. learnt a lot from this. It is not easy but does help. thank you

  • @MrsTruthTeller
    @MrsTruthTeller 12 лет назад +2

    What people also forget is that your flaws have to be compatible. For instance, if I am overly sensitive or emotionally unstable and you are non-chalant, self-absorbed, and easily irritated we would not work out very well. People always focus on the positive things we have in common but the truth is, our negative traits have to be compatible too.,,i.e I'm unstable but your patient, etc.

  • @flowewritharoma
    @flowewritharoma 13 лет назад

    Dr.Frank Conner is a real visual presentator!

  • @balayahhassan2525
    @balayahhassan2525 8 лет назад +16

    knowledge source , quality based lecture.

  • @MikaAltidorMMC
    @MikaAltidorMMC 10 лет назад +9

    I love psychology and love, great combo in video.

  • @subashpanta5790
    @subashpanta5790 9 лет назад +7

    best lecture of love i have ever heard...

  • @thecrazymuzician1
    @thecrazymuzician1 6 лет назад +5

    Whoa, what a great and engaging instructor! I wish he taught at my University.

  • @Hijodeganas1
    @Hijodeganas1 12 лет назад

    You're right, no intellect argues. Intellects, by definition, cannot argue. But intellectuals do.

  • @mrloop1530
    @mrloop1530 8 лет назад +3

    This is an amazing lecture. Thanks a lot for uploading!

  • @zhaziraissina2221
    @zhaziraissina2221 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for the lecture! one of the best and practical lecture i've ever heard about love and relationships.

  • @sagedavis4004
    @sagedavis4004 9 лет назад

    The fact he had quoted the negatives is a part of our lives'.! Rather than some of our lives'.! Some nt believe in divorace, and no other options'.!

  • @JesurunBenjamin
    @JesurunBenjamin 11 лет назад +9

    I've learned a few things here. Thanks for the post!

  • @lisaariottiart
    @lisaariottiart 2 года назад

    I have only ever had 2 out of 3 in any given relationship ... but its not over yet and my ❤️stays open.

  • @jalilbaouzi
    @jalilbaouzi 9 лет назад +5

    thank you dr conner for the amazing lecture, it was very informative :)

  • @xMBx3000
    @xMBx3000 12 лет назад

    I could listen to this man forever.

  • @christopherhuerta9854
    @christopherhuerta9854 9 лет назад +3

    This guy is the real deal

  • @dharmabum8888
    @dharmabum8888 9 лет назад +53

    well I'm never gonna get anyone..

  • @Lippreader
    @Lippreader 12 лет назад +2

    being "in love" and to "love someone" is not the same however. Because when you're desperately in love like teenagers you're not really yourself and you're unable to make rational decisions. But to "love someone" is when that phase has passed

  • @sinhle610
    @sinhle610 4 года назад +5

    Love this lecture. I learned lots of important information from this. Thanks a million.

  • @DalalAlsharif
    @DalalAlsharif 2 года назад +1

    Wholesome, informative, and helpful in putting things im perspective. Thanks 🌹

  • @jennygibbons1258
    @jennygibbons1258 2 года назад

    Excellent breakdown of what real love is. It’s view of attraction, however, is very Anglo-centric because many cultures have an ancient tradition of not meeting until the wedding day. I would love to see an honest study of those marriages. Of course, it’s all dependent on whether people are prepared to be truthful, despite custom or religious beliefs.

  • @LateshaRenee
    @LateshaRenee 3 года назад +3

    Be picky! I dont believe in being "too picky". If you don't want to settle, don't! Your soulmate will show up soon!

  • @ZosiaSamosiaOo
    @ZosiaSamosiaOo 11 лет назад +1

    Wow... Love for certain people happens for a certain reason and that's the psychological side of it. You apparently didn't even bother to reach halfway of this amazing video.

  • @kernelsukses6921
    @kernelsukses6921 11 лет назад +1

    Thanks for upload this video. I find it that equip my self by knowing love from the psychological side is very helpful in my love life.

  • @sevilaymarasli895
    @sevilaymarasli895 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely awesome ! Thank you for sharing the knowledge 🙏🏽

  • @alba1345
    @alba1345 12 лет назад

    I like the "acceptance" factor for a successful relationship....My parents have been accepting each other behaviors for 40 years...

  • @spaceflow03
    @spaceflow03 12 лет назад

    This is such a great lecture. Wish the students were more engaged.

  • @yume816
    @yume816 13 лет назад

    Which is more correct? The need for one to explore and be secure with oneself before getting into a relationship or the use of relationship to grow and be secure with oneself in who he/she is and what he/she has to offer.

  • @misamisa2677
    @misamisa2677 2 года назад

    everything is a business thats why people need these courses
    life is too short to have to go through
    love happens different and yes love exist when unconditionally and not forced fake manipulated
    it should just flow
    but dating is a huge business it includes many areas of professionalism and commercialism that benefit out of love, relationships, etc

  • @mins332
    @mins332 11 лет назад +1

    It's exactly what people think it is love is not the full package. Love can never be the full package. The truth is that people will never get the full package. They can get parts of the package which are important but can never get the full package. Because the "full package" is not always their unless provoked by many events in a random order. For example you won't know if they can protect you unless you get hurt yourself.

  • @nerektakeilla
    @nerektakeilla 11 лет назад

    ...continue. and the most shallow one of all is people who keep saying how unfair this life is 'cause they're not taken while other people can be taken only by appearance. if you're single you're not oppressed at all. and who says being picked by tons of people makes you lucky?
    if people only see you as sex object then it is worse than being single. especially if your sexuality is exposed by rich people but then you are accused of ruining people's morality. being demonized is worse!!!

  • @Edd13Xx
    @Edd13Xx Год назад +1

    3/4 through realizing this hasn’t aged that well.

  • @leearmstrong4423
    @leearmstrong4423 10 лет назад +1

    This sucks because we can't see the pictures he is talking about. We keep getting shown the same picture of celebrities...why?

  • @abigailelizabeth8419
    @abigailelizabeth8419 10 лет назад +1

    This is really good information. I am so glad I came across this...

  • @Lippreader
    @Lippreader 12 лет назад

    But then again, it's a natural part of the human being to consider whether life with someone else would be better, especially given the fact that we, as opposed to animals, are able to reflect intellectually over the future, and possible consequences of the choices we make. That's where "commitment" comes in, because some might feel that they would have an easier life if they marry a wealthy person.

  • @someone20150
    @someone20150 11 лет назад +34

    I thought something was wrong with my right ear headphone lol

  • @JB-op4ty
    @JB-op4ty 4 года назад

    I'm glad for the long form on the lecture, & thx for the mirror GRCC...

  • @26crustacean
    @26crustacean 11 лет назад +1

    I always assumed that unattractive people are less promiscuous than attractive people because less people are drawn to unattractive people.

  • @Via-vd6ou
    @Via-vd6ou 5 лет назад +8

    13:00 (don’t mind me just making a time stamp so I can go back to it lol)

  • @1rd69
    @1rd69 14 лет назад +1

    @pmccarthy001 Being a student a of psychology..i can very well say psychology *is* a science, though not as objective as natural sciences like Physics & Chemistry, primarily because of its subject matter "human being". Its aim is to describe human behavior and other related things as objectively as possible and while doing so it doesnt hesitate to use mathematical analysis and models wherever possible, On a ending note, this series is intended to stimulate interest in psychology not douse it ;-)

  • @v1coaching771
    @v1coaching771 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this talk I got a lot out of it.
    Regards Sean

  • @nerektakeilla
    @nerektakeilla 11 лет назад

    ...continue. and as i said, people who say they are not picky are hypocritical... unless they don't have any preference, consideration, priority at all and let someone else abuse them, then yes they are not picky. and all people always have many options even though they are not taken and nobody wants to be with them. you still have options when you're single as long as you are alive. its just you are not with the options. so you're NOT oppressed at all. and its never someone else's fault.

  • @maximnovakov2779
    @maximnovakov2779 8 лет назад +1

    Quote: "Love is a Trojan Horse" - The greatest best known autor who will sue your head off, if you use that phrase in your proffesional, private and public life. And after that he will torture your soul till the rest of your life and after that. Cheers.

  • @berkin96
    @berkin96 11 лет назад

    i loved how you started wisely then swore :D

  • @sherlockholmeslives.1605
    @sherlockholmeslives.1605 7 лет назад +10

    "I do not believe in the existence of what is called love!"
    Lord Byron ( 22 January, 1788 - 19 April, 1824 )
    English Poet and Politician

  • @ALHat22
    @ALHat22 8 лет назад +5

    Limerence... Is the state of being infatuated with another person. Typically this infatuation is involuntary, there is a Strong requirement for reciprocation and validation one the limerent persons feelings. Generally, it's a non-sexual relationship. You should ask yourself why you're seeking validation from this particular individual? Limerence and love are two different things mainly the strong sense to find a validity. In love this finding validity is mutual but on limerence it's more one sided. This relates to attachment theory and other aspects of psychology that psychological relationship experts learn or those who deal with the relational aspects of society and groups. (Family, couples and even individuals who need help with these things).

    • @waakkeuppp
      @waakkeuppp 6 лет назад

      P H very insightful; can you recommend any books or lectures on the subject?

  • @Ilovecultureandhistory
    @Ilovecultureandhistory 6 лет назад +1

    What a great video! Very educational.

  • @elle9082
    @elle9082 4 года назад

    Now I know where my professor in RS1 got his lecture about love....Very amazing tho. 😊

  • @127veeru
    @127veeru 11 лет назад

    dr.frank conner,i want to congrajulate you for making this valuable,knowledgable video available to all the viwers of youtube,and i must say you are pretty good and left an undying impression on my mind by ur knwledge and skill mof delivering it,god bless you...

  • @IanHollinhead
    @IanHollinhead 10 лет назад +3

    You should watch " WTF Bending a Mans Mind " You would love it!

    • @luvbug_beth3164
      @luvbug_beth3164 10 лет назад +1

      OMG... wow... just.... wow...

    • @shelbysmain38
      @shelbysmain38 10 лет назад +2

      That was amazing, I wish it wasn't so short though, I wanted to keep watching more. Pure brilliance!

  • @DrakenGuardz
    @DrakenGuardz 12 лет назад +1

    My left ear is full of love.

  • @LadyBludgeon
    @LadyBludgeon 12 лет назад +1

    I agree. It's the very reason why I am being more like my life partner each day... disliking the bureaucracy, politics & cultural world of jobs & careers. I am discouraged & distraught-ed over needing to wake up every weekday @ 6am like a trained pup just for a pathetic paycheck. The idea that there is something noble, prideful & honorable in being a slave or slaving away at some occupation,,, even that which you enjoy... is quite alarming & revolting. All due to indoctrination & predictability.

  • @MrSindy21
    @MrSindy21 11 лет назад +1

    im from Colombia and im thankful for to see this thank u so much....this its very interesting for me ... nice day bye :)

  • @The-Esoteric-One
    @The-Esoteric-One 4 года назад +71

    I'll save you 1 hour and 30 minutes: Just be Chad.

    • @Sombra_Azul_
      @Sombra_Azul_ 4 года назад +4

      XD Thank!

    • @businessboy2770
      @businessboy2770 4 года назад +3

      Whos Chad?

    • @kevinwilson3337
      @kevinwilson3337 4 года назад +7

      Yep , the black pill is very real

    • @cashdollar6695
      @cashdollar6695 4 года назад +1

      @@kevinwilson3337 i thought it was red pill

    • @kevinwilson3337
      @kevinwilson3337 4 года назад +1

      @@cashdollar6695 no , the black is when the moment you where born it was over .

  • @rashmiguruverma
    @rashmiguruverma 10 лет назад

    GREAT INFO NICE SIMPLE WAY OF SAYING COMPLICATED THING , THANKS FOR POSTING

  • @singsiriiiriiriss
    @singsiriiiriiriss 11 лет назад +1

    You are right! But I do believe that more attractive women than men exist, also women are more willing to trait attractiveness for other qualities, I think it was kind of over simplified in the theory...

  • @Hulkitout
    @Hulkitout 11 лет назад +1

    This was a very good lecture! Wish I had this teacher

  • @ggglamelousy825
    @ggglamelousy825 12 лет назад +1

    if we men want to be honest, most of us actually don't want women who have kids or look unattractive. most unattractive women are still avoided. while attractive women still have to be careful, they maybe targeted as sex objects by some jerks.
    not all men and women are lucky. regardless how good or bad they are. i have witnessed women who were dumped because they are maternal, wise, kind and want serious relationships. i have also witnessed a man who was dumped because he was too kind.

  • @karendegenerous8044
    @karendegenerous8044 2 года назад

    I've just switched on, there's a bit of a problem with my EE connection - I just thought I'd anti-plug that in there, so nobody spoken yet, so I wanted to say that I am very surprised by the cover of this video as I can't see any minds. nor hearts there, only faces.

  • @Khloe_dancer_model
    @Khloe_dancer_model 12 лет назад +2

    I love this class!! thank you SO MUCH for posting!

  • @Joxman2k
    @Joxman2k 11 лет назад

    On another note I watched a lecture that said females that are attracted to greater sexual dimorphism tend to be faithful. Females who are attracted to less dimorphism tend to be unfaithful. It is an evolutionary trait across species that helps ensure that genes have the greatest chance of spreading. Males that are a good parent will look after her young so she can continue procreating.
    Evolutionary biology is fascinating stuff.
    :P

  • @goldro100
    @goldro100 11 лет назад

    This video is great. I have come to better understanding of how relationships work.

  • @thealmaherself
    @thealmaherself 9 лет назад

    very interesting, thank you Dr. Frank Conner

  • @IanHollinhead
    @IanHollinhead 10 лет назад +1

    You need to watch " WTF Bending A Mans Mind ". Such a great movie.

    • @baybe_gurl5920
      @baybe_gurl5920 10 лет назад +1

      That video was crazy man. Why you wanna get crazy essay? lol.

    • @summa_tyme4893
      @summa_tyme4893 10 лет назад +1

      Fuuuu.... thats a crazy movie man, I just watched it online the other day.

  • @k.d.4702
    @k.d.4702 2 года назад

    Excellent explanation on love! Thanks!

  • @Faithmaster
    @Faithmaster 13 лет назад +1

    I really enjoyed the lecture given. I was some great food for thought and was very informative. I am going to recommend my friends to see this.

    • @wilsonalex7159
      @wilsonalex7159 2 года назад

      dr ozoey love spell just fixed my relationship. We have been fighting every day and you’ve just fixed it and I cannot thank you enough..Thank you Dr Ozoey for saving my broken relationship and brought my boyfriend back to me. If you have any problem in marriage/relationship.

  • @mirrormiddle
    @mirrormiddle 12 лет назад

    Thank you very much for sharing this on youtube!