This came at the perfect time. As a woman in her late 20s with a chronic illness looking back I was in survival mode, in and out of hospital etc I wasn't ready I knew that deep down. Now I am in my healing era with opportunities coming my way alhamdulliah. If god can support and guide me through all that, I have tawwakul it will happen one day insha allah ❤ just have to continue to make dua 😊 Ngl it can be hard with people commenting in real life but I also trust god there's a timing for everything 🙏🏻
Same here but I’m 34 …. Still on heavy meds and probably can’t even have kids if I stay on them even though I need them . Such is life . We should learn to accept the Qadr of Allah and find happiness in his decree
This is soo helpful am 40 this year and this has changed my ways of thinking Jazakallah Khairan pls can you do a video about what single women can doing to get even closer to Allah ❤ and ways to stop worrying about the future ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm 29, i have a patience but sometimes the urge pop up to have a wife, that's a basic need for a man. So, i feel something is missing in my life. The other half imaan needs to be fullfil.
You will only know how serious this if you reach 35. If you are in your 20s and early 30s you have the luxury to say age is just a number and you can marry in your right time and all this mantra. It is not society it is your hormones that demands that if you care about having kids you need to plan and have the intention to marry by 40. However if Allah did not write this for you despite you did the effort by reaching out to matchmakers or praying or meeting people who can introduce you then you need to accept Allah decree and keep patience and prayer. I am not talking about the people who are really wants to get married and did all the effort and prayer I am talking to the people who wants to get married but they are masking this desire by thinking that they can marry anytime in their life. But I argue you to revise this notion and stop repeating feel good mantras. For all the girls in their 20s: Intend to get married. Work on yourself. If you want to be single that is ok but be true to yourself and do not have relationships outside of marriage. It is not a sin to be a single person if you can maintain your chastity. If you are a woman who wants to have a family think very well about your life plan
What is a woman in her 35s to do when she never had the opportunity when she was in her 20ies? It's not like what she says that it is Allah's timing when it comes to marriage suddenly becomes untrue when you hit 35. I would know this as a 35 y.o. myself If Allah didn't decree for you to be married yet, then this is exactly where you're supposed to be or do you think we have more control over our lives like we imagine to have? Truth is, our rizq is written for us and we can't have anything more and less than what was decreed for us.
@@MissSraG my point is do not mislead young women that they have their lifetime to think about getting married. I am also a 35 🤣 It is the harsh reality and we should know it before it hits us. Some of us can work and plan to get married. Women do not need to stay passive and not plan as they plan other projects in their lives. Then if you took the mean and it was not written then it was not written. Allah knows everyone circumstances are different. But lets not repeat false mantras. It is rizq but we can pray and search. Even the Prophets had to pray for they wanted before Allha granted to them. (Zakaria and Moses peace be upon them)
comparison is the thief of joy. Everyone has their own book and just because your friends are at a different chapter, doesn’t mean you are behind. You will rewarded for your patience and have tawakkul in Allah’s plan, written by the Greatest of Writers. When it eventually happens and you find your naseeb, it will all be worth it and you are being saved for something greater at another time. Have trust and keeping you in my duas
I am about the turn 33 in a day and unmarried ♥️😊 . I am grateful to Allah SWT for where he put me in life. During this time, I have been healing myself and working to become the best I can be for my future husband. I am learning to become the wife my future husband envisions, I educate myself, doing activities that help others in my community, cooking, decorating, gardening and it helps so much! Do not let the pressure of others influence you to rush into marriage. Many people have been pressured into it, did not heal their wounds or learn to be a pious individual and are regretting their choices. Work on evolving yourself and remove marriage off the pedestal. Then Insha’Allah when the time is right for Allah SWT to fulfill your desire for marriage it will occur and you will have the spouse you have always desired. ✨♥️💕🌷
@@Habiba__Jannatibut isnt't it so hard trying constantly improving yourself, to be the best version of yourself, and he still not exist... Cause I'm 27 and I'm just so tired of this. Some (just few) people wants me but I don't want them and actually I'm even offended that they can think that we could be a match.. For instance they spend all of their times watching football, playing games etc. while I'm trying to be a better version of myself and spend all my energy and time on bettering myself while they're looking bad, and they don't do anything about it they think that we're equal or sth?? Not just phisically by the way. And at the end of every day, I'm just done by how all the effort that I made made no difference, again and again. I'm so sick of being alone and take care of everything by myself. And unfortunately I've been always a hopeless romantic. And I've done nothing wrong in this area, like I always stayed out of haram relationships and now my nefs kinda wants a price. I found myself wishing that I wish I made some mistakes and sins, at least I wouldn't blame Allah's plan. Now all I want is making peace with his will for me.
This came at the perfect time. As a woman in her late 20s with a chronic illness looking back I was in survival mode, in and out of hospital etc I wasn't ready I knew that deep down. Now I am in my healing era with opportunities coming my way alhamdulliah. If god can support and guide me through all that, I have tawwakul it will happen one day insha allah ❤ just have to continue to make dua 😊
Ngl it can be hard with people commenting in real life but I also trust god there's a timing for everything 🙏🏻
Same here but I’m 34 …. Still on heavy meds and probably can’t even have kids if I stay on them even though I need them . Such is life . We should learn to accept the Qadr of Allah and find happiness in his decree
This is soo helpful am 40 this year and this has changed my ways of thinking Jazakallah Khairan pls can you do a video about what single women can doing to get even closer to Allah ❤ and ways to stop worrying about the future ❤❤❤❤❤❤
SoubhAllah your videos always come at the right time !! Thank you for what your doing ❤️❤️
Thanks i needed this😊
I'm in mid twenties, i feel pressure from family & my thoughts sometimes i do it to my self...
I will change the way i think ❤
I'm 29, i have a patience but sometimes the urge pop up to have a wife, that's a basic need for a man. So, i feel something is missing in my life. The other half imaan needs to be fullfil.
Trust me bro, I can’t be bustin these nuts anymore
Too many nuts busted.
This video was very helpful. I am herewith tears. Thank you.
You will only know how serious this if you reach 35. If you are in your 20s and early 30s you have the luxury to say age is just a number and you can marry in your right time and all this mantra. It is not society it is your hormones that demands that if you care about having kids you need to plan and have the intention to marry by 40. However if Allah did not write this for you despite you did the effort by reaching out to matchmakers or praying or meeting people who can introduce you then you need to accept Allah decree and keep patience and prayer. I am not talking about the people who are really wants to get married and did all the effort and prayer I am talking to the people who wants to get married but they are masking this desire by thinking that they can marry anytime in their life. But I argue you to revise this notion and stop repeating feel good mantras. For all the girls in their 20s: Intend to get married. Work on yourself. If you want to be single that is ok but be true to yourself and do not have relationships outside of marriage. It is not a sin to be a single person if you can maintain your chastity. If you are a woman who wants to have a family think very well about your life plan
What is a woman in her 35s to do when she never had the opportunity when she was in her 20ies? It's not like what she says that it is Allah's timing when it comes to marriage suddenly becomes untrue when you hit 35. I would know this as a 35 y.o. myself
If Allah didn't decree for you to be married yet, then this is exactly where you're supposed to be or do you think we have more control over our lives like we imagine to have? Truth is, our rizq is written for us and we can't have anything more and less than what was decreed for us.
@@MissSraG my point is do not mislead young women that they have their lifetime to think about getting married. I am also a 35 🤣 It is the harsh reality and we should know it before it hits us. Some of us can work and plan to get married. Women do not need to stay passive and not plan as they plan other projects in their lives. Then if you took the mean and it was not written then it was not written. Allah knows everyone circumstances are different. But lets not repeat false mantras. It is rizq but we can pray and search. Even the Prophets had to pray for they wanted before Allha granted to them. (Zakaria and Moses peace be upon them)
@@MissSraG i am sorry if my words were harsh or insensitive. May Allah grant us blessed husbands that we love and respect for His sake.
I am 43 and I always wanted to get married. But I guess god has other plans for me. I am childless and still single. 🤷🏼♀️
I’m laughing right now because I thumbed down the comment about the shackles and thought “did he/she not listen to a word you said?” Lol
Pray for me i realy need a good husband😢😢😢
Don’t display yourself as it can cause harm such as evil eye and in general we shouldn’t be. 🌸
How to make peace with what Allah's will for me?
I am 27 i am desperate to get married and feels i am late. sometime i feel that marriage is not in my naseeb all of my freinds getting married😢
comparison is the thief of joy. Everyone has their own book and just because your friends are at a different chapter, doesn’t mean you are behind. You will rewarded for your patience and have tawakkul in Allah’s plan, written by the Greatest of Writers. When it eventually happens and you find your naseeb, it will all be worth it and you are being saved for something greater at another time. Have trust and keeping you in my duas
For now, keep focusing on yourself and your growth and hobbies and may Allah make it easy for you and grant you a righteous spouse 🩷
I am about the turn 33 in a day and unmarried ♥️😊 . I am grateful to Allah SWT for where he put me in life. During this time, I have been healing myself and working to become the best I can be for my future husband. I am learning to become the wife my future husband envisions, I educate myself, doing activities that help others in my community, cooking, decorating, gardening and it helps so much! Do not let the pressure of others influence you to rush into marriage. Many people have been pressured into it, did not heal their wounds or learn to be a pious individual and are regretting their choices. Work on evolving yourself and remove marriage off the pedestal. Then Insha’Allah when the time is right for Allah SWT to fulfill your desire for marriage it will occur and you will have the spouse you have always desired. ✨♥️💕🌷
@@Habiba__Jannatibut isnt't it so hard trying constantly improving yourself, to be the best version of yourself, and he still not exist... Cause I'm 27 and I'm just so tired of this. Some (just few) people wants me but I don't want them and actually I'm even offended that they can think that we could be a match.. For instance they spend all of their times watching football, playing games etc. while I'm trying to be a better version of myself and spend all my energy and time on bettering myself while they're looking bad, and they don't do anything about it they think that we're equal or sth?? Not just phisically by the way. And at the end of every day, I'm just done by how all the effort that I made made no difference, again and again. I'm so sick of being alone and take care of everything by myself. And unfortunately I've been always a hopeless romantic. And I've done nothing wrong in this area, like I always stayed out of haram relationships and now my nefs kinda wants a price. I found myself wishing that I wish I made some mistakes and sins, at least I wouldn't blame Allah's plan. Now all I want is making peace with his will for me.
Thank you for your videos it helps me a lot reflecting 🤍🥹🫶🏼