your idea of marriage determines the spouse you get

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • Your image of what a marriage is impacts the way you feel about the process, which determines how you act.
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  • @adil.acoustic
    @adil.acoustic 8 дней назад +15

    I'm becoming the best version of myself financially, physically, spiritually, emotionally to get marry to my future wife. Ya Allah Grant me wife and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
    Please pray for me to get a righteous wife, I'm in search of her.. ameen

    • @nurazlinghazali33
      @nurazlinghazali33 7 дней назад +1

      Aameenn. Pls pray for me also brother, as I am also searching for that wonderful/dream husband whom I had been praying for. A wonderful father to my children ...aameen aamenn

  • @hajrakhan6396
    @hajrakhan6396 8 дней назад +5

    Your videos are so good, I've come across so many self help styled speakers and no one hits the nail as you do. Please keep up the good work the ummah needs to become way more grounded and empowered in these arena and your advice is definitely making a difference in'sha'allah

  • @irfaan_ayoob
    @irfaan_ayoob 9 дней назад +11

    Marriage is a responsibility. And accepting your spouse's flaws. Mutual understanding....and many more...

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 7 дней назад +1

      A man is the head of the house.
      He's not supposed to have flaws.

    • @irfaan_ayoob
      @irfaan_ayoob 7 дней назад

      @@ak-47intelligence75 Nobody is perfect, each person has their own flaws....

    • @bossmcawesome7854
      @bossmcawesome7854 7 дней назад

      @@ak-47intelligence75 that’s a dangerous mindset

    • @bossmcawesome7854
      @bossmcawesome7854 7 дней назад

      @@ak-47intelligence75 that’s a dangerous mindset

  • @abbyk7341
    @abbyk7341 8 дней назад +4

    Thank you for the video! Id love to know more about what marriage is and healthy expectations. I understand that many of us may have unrealistic expectations, but Im not sure what healthy expectations are in detail

  • @fathimaheenahasmi6706
    @fathimaheenahasmi6706 5 дней назад +1

    Unmarried folks out here, here's a bit of hope for y'all. Recite this dua to get a pious spouse in which we all could find peace in. I pray we all find the missing part of ours soon, In Shaa Allah..
    رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ "
    " وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
    (“rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama”)
    “Our Lord, grant us from among our pious spouse and offsprings comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
    (Surah Furqan:74)

  • @japhilhawari
    @japhilhawari 4 дня назад +2

    asalamwaalekhum wa rahmutahi wa barakatuh .currently i am beocoming my best version physially, mentally and socially. As a university engineering student its hard to maintain deen and duniya but alhamdulliha i am maintaining good connection with allah swt since i was in my first year and i am greatfull to allah for that . Allah changes alot me since i submitted myself to him. In past i hardly performed the tahajud prayer but now i pray every single day, bacause i started reading deen more closely and i am thankfull to allah for that. Now i am searching for my future wife( a righteous wife) who comfort my eyes and togather we both can make our life and better akhirah. May allah grant me with the righteous one ( my half one). So please everyonemake dua and pray for me to get that special one , i am in search of her ..... ameen.

  • @theBakinNoob
    @theBakinNoob 8 дней назад +1

    Your Videos are so beneficial ❤❤

  • @therapybliss1232
    @therapybliss1232 9 дней назад +3

    Pls do a video on how youd coach someone with limerence and the different stages of it, also from a muslims perspective

  • @gustavofring7969
    @gustavofring7969 8 дней назад

    Wow very great video. Very informative may Allah swt reward you. Shukhran

  • @theBakinNoob
    @theBakinNoob 8 дней назад

    Could you at the end of the series do a q&a answering all the questions that you got down here in the comments?

  • @aminullah2902
    @aminullah2902 9 дней назад +2

    MashaAllah

  • @mrvactnky
    @mrvactnky 8 дней назад

    Thanks for the valuable content ✨ I can't access your Instagram account.