'The Earth is Flat' 🌎 Wife Swap Sneak Peek
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- A by-the-book school teacher swaps lives with a conspiracy-obsessed homeschooling mom who teaches her kids the world is flat. New episodes every Thursday at 9/8c on Paramount Network!
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The lady without the braids was just being too harsh. She’s acting like she walked into a house with shit on the floor.
It wasn't foul but it certainly wasn't clean lol.
@@elitrobloxgaming wtf?
@@elitrobloxgaming don't de disrespectful
they are all actors idiot. this isn't real.
I mean the house was nasty. Imagine leaving your (presumably) nice clean house to stay there 🤢
“I’m not affectionate. I could care less about hugs and kisses”. How did she get married? Business merger? And oh those poor kids. I got emotional when the other mum started crying cause when you’ve lost a baby you know how important it is to make every moment count. How important it is to hug and kiss them and tell them you love them every chance you eat cause you don’t know when you’d never get the chance again
I can't imagine not showing my child affection. She's a bit much. My hear goes out to the mother who lost her daughter. It's heartbreaking. 😔💔
Fuck have you never met another black women?
Amen
Sharon Eniye can’t believe she’s a teacher
There are other ways of showing affection: by taking care of each other, knowing the other person very well and making sure they are aware of it, etc. Not everyone is a physical-affection kind of person. I’m guessing her husband is the same, cause otherwise he would’ve missed physical affection way too much m. I love hugs and kisses as well and wouldn’t be able to date someone who doesn’t, it’s difficult for me to even have close friends that are not physically affectionate, but some people are just a bit colder. Also, she never said she doesn’t tell her kids she loves them.
When the mom started crying it hit me so hard. She seems like shes very loving and cherishes her kids because shes suffered an incredible loss. Rest in Peace beautiful Deim
Ashley Nicole ❤️
rip to him 🥺❤️.
her*
honestly
She’s my coworker and the sweetest woman I have ever ever met one day she over heard me talking about how I wanted to try Reese‘s cups but I’m allergic to peanuts and she came into work on her day off to bring me some peanut free sunbutter cups ones she found at Trader Joe’s she’s such a thoughtful woman I love her to bits
She may believe the Earth is flat but at least her children believe they're loved... geez
On point
Hello 💕👍🏽Good Mommas hear you💃
@UrBrain Washsomeone doesn't know shit all about grammar or how to not be an asshole.
@@kberrie38 🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 get em
@UrBrain Wash bruh if you're going to an asshole at least keep your subscriptions on private......big yikes from me little person 🥱
That woman is supposed to be a teacher? How could I expect her to show compassion for my kids when she doesn’t even love on her own? Her heart is shivering.
@ִ teaching isn't just about information, there's a human/emotional element as well. For instance how will she deal with bullying? A sick child? A child with trauma & emotional issues? She should not be in the classroom.
I agree
I said the same thing. wouldn't want her as my kids teacher. Children learn more than just facts from teachers.
she, as a teacher, should know that children develop well with affection.
I'm like her and I'm a teacher and my students love mt subject.
Imagine saying another house is untidy... but you have an entire room with clothes thrown about.
Chenoa H. I was so confused about that... at one point I thought the lady was back at her house for a second. Lol
Naw! She didn't think "nobody" was going to see that room!😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️girl!
I have ocd but I have a hard time arranging my clothes 😂😂😂😂
The cleaners aka her kids aren't allowed in there
Clothes on the floor in the closet is different from all that dirt and mess in obvious places where guests can also see. Lmao.
I’d rather my mom believe the earth is a square or hexagon and still let me know I’m loved than a mom who follows “all of the data” but can’t give me no kisses.
Thank you😊
Mohammad Harake why settle tho...it shouldn’t be either or. If you are a parent it’s your job to teach your kids proper education and not fill their heads with false information making them look stupid when they get older and it’s also your job as a parent to give the love that your kids need and not control them but parent them. I would hate to have both of them as moms to be real
@@imaniannissa6989 we don't control what family we are born in she's saying she rather have a family that she knows shes love before a family thats education based. In most homes those things do happen but we all have those not so ordinary homes or those strict homes
Teryn B regardless if you get to pick your family or not you missed the point. Kids shouldn’t have to choose either orrrrr. There should be a healthy balance and if a parent isn’t willing to give that they aren’t ready to parent. Period.
@@imaniannissa6989 I didn't miss your point I agree with you but at the same time we have to realize some families aren't like that and hold different values.even if we see them as unfit to parent as long as their basic needs are met no one will think twice about it. All im trying to say is if we lived in a world and we had to choose one or the other most people will probably choose the person who believe in all these conspiracy theories because they know at the end of the day they are going to be loved.
So now I see why the flat earther mom is so relaxed with her kids. She just wants them to feel loved and happy. Not saying the other kids arent happy but, come on, you gotta love on your kids atleast while they're young enough to let you
That's not relaxed that's abusive. Teaching your children to be stupid and crazy is not loving.
Jess S I thought see it.
If she really loved her children she wouldn't be telling them the earth is flat.
Melburys Brick, She teaches them flat earth because it helps her escape the pain of her child’s death. Many flat Earthers have went through a trauma or a moment in life that makes them feel abnormal to reality and flat earth helps them to escape that reality.
That is the lamest excuse i have ever heard. I lost my fiancee and my son to a drunk driver, she died right there in front of me at the hospital. I didn't abandon reality and think the earth is flat.
It’s so rude to come into another persons home and immediately say it ‘stinks’ and then proceed to nitpick every part of the home. The only people that feel the need to bring others down are the ones who feel insecure about themselves.
Well... If it stinks, it stinks? smh
No one should go into anyone's house and insult it especially on tv. This woman is judfemental to anyone that does not measure to her standards
@@belindagore8125 And she has no right to be with that room she's storing all her clothes in. It looks like an unorganized junk room.
Levent Oerkue Some people think lavender ‘stinks’, but I quite love the smell. Smells are a matter of opinion. Obviously this woman has serious self esteem issues which is why she chose to approach the home negatively instead of pointing out the positive aspects. Not feeling lovable, or feeling the need to show love to her own children proves that. Sad.
@@karacreswell8437 What positive aspects? I lived poor and out in the country but my home was clean and well maintained. There were never big gobs of cobwebs in the corners.
That woman sounded so cold when she said sorry to hear that. A mother’s grief is lifelong
all grief sis
Nah she sounded genuine, her eyebrows furrowed. Some people just aren’t outwardly emotional, as she said
Our son past from brain cancer. When I hear other ppls kids, I do the same thing as she did. Sorry to hear that 🤷♀️ (everyone dies, some of us don’t wear our grief on our chest tho!)
Ikr....I liked that they put those clips side by side for the comparison for their reaction....she sounded almost clinical when expressing sorrow for the loss of that woman’s child and started reading again immediately after ....while the other woman obviously genuinely expressed grief/sadness just because she read that the woman doesn’t show her kids much emotional affection.
I think she sounded sincere, she doesn't show emotion.
1:30 “I don’t always have time to study but when I do I still don’t” it really do be like that 😂😂😂😂😭 how did she not laugh at that
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 that lady was mortified reading that quote
I found it funny when I put it up.
I think she didn't find it funny bc she's a PS teacher
Aloni Dutcher Haha it was funny. Shows you have a sense of humor.
The Great Saffouf
Ikr
No kisses or hugs for your own children , that's f****d up man
Aw sawbona bitso.
Bahlukile labantu, bafana nathi kodwa bahlukile ngemphela.
Ayanda Moloi welcome to my childhood
Not really, my mom used to do that and I told her to stop because it's cringy, personally I'd prefer if affection wasn't shown.
Ayanda M.T abafani nabanye nyhani
Ayanda Moloi I turned your likes from 666
To 667 you’re welcome
I prefer the flat earth mom over the other mom any day. She is so empathetic and a very very sweet, genuine soul.
The little girl is more educated than her father and the boy is disrespectful
The flat earth mom can be educated. Empathy can't. Poor kids. Feel really sorry for her students!
I’d rather take the flat earth mom who loves me, I’m sorry 😭 I grew up in a militia style household, while it did teach me reform, I never felt loved in that way. so what if she thinks the earth is flat! she loves those babies.
Feeling loved is a great thing, but being loved while being taught misinformation and down right lies is wrong and harmful. I can't believe in this day and age that people believe the earth is flat when there is absolutely no evidence to support it.
@@reedlawrencej Agreed. Wish she would drop that flat earth nonsense, buat at the same time the cold and nonemotional mom probably doesn't know how much damage she could be doing to her kids by not showing them direct affection. My parents and many parents were/are the same. They think just providing the necessities and structure/rules is all that's ideal.....No...emotional neglect is a thing. Neither mom is perfect but like you also think it's horrid that the mom is teaching her kids such bullshit as far as the flat earth thing... but at the same time those kids can read a book when they're older and quickly/easily learn otherwise...… take it from someone who has experienced first hand....learning emotional maturity/intelligence as an adult is a lot harder than learning and accepting academic facts.
Good point. Lets just hope the flat earth moms' kids grow up smarter than their mother.
@@reedlawrencej sorry, but you have been lied too and there are is so much evidence the Earth is flat at this point it's kinda sad to see people who still don't think it is. You just have to be willing to look into it yourself. Even though it's very tough to find real information out on the internet now days do to massive censorship. No curvature and seeing way way too far should be a huge red flag for the globe theory. But there is just so many more test that destroy the globe
imtypingwords 41 you know what I find the most ironic about you flat earthers and your argument that there is so much evidence proving the earth is flat....is that most of you are theists 😂
Deim was such a beautiful child.. feel so bad for her loss ❤
She used to have a RUclips channel. Showing her pregnancy etc. it was really sad when she lost her child.
Jeannette Draper I thought so!! She looked so familiar and then as soon as I heard the twins names I remembered her channel and came to the comments to see if anyone else knew her too!!!
Thank you. I am blessed to have a platform to show the world how much I love my children and what they mean to me.
I follow her on IG and she is just a breath of fresh air. Her relaxed and carefree attitude is so refreshing. She adores her children as well as his.
DElaine Garland whats her insta name please?
The first lady attitude when she reached the other mother's home was disgusting. The comments before even entering. Bougie and nasty.
Charity B yes! her laughing outside of the house in disbelief, like it was made out of twigs or something. She’s definitely someone I’d never be friends with (I’m sure I’m not “good enough” to be her friend, anyway).
The house didn't even look that bad (before entering) I mean I know that's America, and the houses are way bigger than here in England therefore they look more elegant naturally. Kinda disrespectful.
She definitely has a superiority complex
@Tam Possible nice, you are a candle.
But she doesn’t see that she has a masculine attitude and shopping problem...okay.
I never thought I'd say this but I'll take the flat earther. 🌎
Definitely
I'm a flat earth researcher too. Check it out. The globe is a story. Its not in real life, just government cartoons.
@@simplequestioncanuanswer2457 no you're not an FE researcher. You watch RUclips videos and believe what they tell you. Go and research photos of earth from space. Plain and simple. They're not CGI. They're not photoshopped. Trust me.
Watch people like Scimandan, dead Kennedys in space, creaky blinder and Bob the science guy.
FE believers don't pray for you, they prey on you.
Andy Frost same❤️🤣
@@jacktheladfrost They admit the images are photoshopped. Why would anyone trust you? Thats not things to say on the internet . No one trusts anyone on the internet . Make a point. If you believe the government images are proof of a spinning globe then great. I do not believe they are genuine nor do I think its a spinning ball.
This can not be real!!! No hugs or kisses!!! For your own kids?
And I hope the mother that lost her kid be ever blessed.
I got no hugs and kisses either and i felt very loved
@@jonaswild1153 that's Lovely for you sweetie.
She said she could care less that doesn’t mean her kids don’t get them from get or her husband
It's real. I'm 45, my mother still doesn't show affection nor tell me she loves me. I'm starting to dislike her 😔
Simm Simmer I was never hugged or kissed growing up. And my mom loved her work more than being a mother. I would much rather be a mother
Having losing a child she understands the importance of telling your children you love them
I love the dynamic here. This goes to show that black women are not monolithic.
So true!
C'mon man!
Anyone who believes that has worms for brains. Black women aren’t 10 people
Me too.
Mom calling house nasty, but look at her damn closet??? Nasty as well.
Most old closets have Tom Cruise lurking about in them.
@@rogermoore7868 hehe
The closet isn't nasty is just a mess that's different
Well a closet with just clothes scattered across the place shouldnt be compared to muck and grim and fucken cobwebs in your house ;0 and it stinking like .....
A closet she doesn't even clean or organize...her daughter does it. Just like the house...the kids clean it. 😏
Hm.. I feel like the flat earther mom isn't a fan of chores and rules for her kids bc she still grieves the loss of her child and wants to see her other children happy so she doesn't like being strict. But that's why her house doesn't look too clean. The other woman is too strict and emotionless. A mixture of both parenting styles would be best.
You are spot on! My 1st priority is making memories with my kids not a clean house.
And there is a strong possibility that the grieving mother is also doing everything she can to simply function. If the loss of a child in my stomach can cause me to take time to grieve and heal and rest and fight to function, then I know that losing a child that you have had the opportunity to spend years with (or even just moments) will cause that level of challenge and struggle and pain and exhaustion and etc., as well.
@@alonidutcher8409 and I totally get that (and the house doesn't look unhygienic or a mess just not as perfect as the strict moms house). But I know from experience that you don't do your kids a favor if they get spoiled and don't learn any responsibilities. My sister has been sick her whole life and got bullied bc of it so she had no social life. My parents tried to compensate for that by spoiling her. She never did any chores and lived like a princess. now she is 23 and still lives at home, expects everyone to do everything for her, doesn't know how to be an independent adult. I love her its not like she is a total brat but like she goes out partying and my dad drives her home at two in the morning although he is old and has health problems. Every little problem she has, my parents solve for her. She doesn't know how to manage your time like an adult. For example she says she doesn't have time for chores bc she has to study for uni and has a social life. She doesn't take into consideration that in order to be an adult you have to learn to organize your life so you can fit chores, work, caring for kids, social life into your day. I moved out at 18 and had to learn that too.
@@alonidutcher8409Mrs. Dutches I pray that your heart is healing. A lose never goes away but your somehow God gives us the ability to laugh & love despite the hurt. Find many moments to laugh! You deserve it. I assume from how you respond to ppl that you have a kind heart. I'm cheering for you!
I could care less about your stance in a flat earth. We all have our opinions. It doesn't make you a bad or uneducated because I know plenty ppl worth degrees who believe in that theory. However you do want your kids to have the skills to stand in this world as adults. I have a cousin who refuses to send her kids to school. She home schools yet she's not equipped to teach and I've seen other kids make fun of them when they can't answer a
Remember this anything in extreme isnt good. An extremely strict parent is suffocating to a child but likewise a parent that over compensate love is also suffocating to a child. Life is a balance. Everything in life is a balance. If your body isnt will balanced then you get sick. When the weather isnt balanced it create earthquakes and floods.
damn that makes me cry 😭 you know it hurts that woman to the core about not giving hugs & kisses bc she lost her own lil one & would give anything to be able to give her hugs & kisses again
💔😭
Yes, God. I picked my 10 month old up out of his crib and held him, just bawling.
I cried too... Bless that family smh
Yo bruv my mum the same way,no hugs & kisses. She just not affectionate, basically tough love.
Earth flat people have interesting beliefs but she seems like a good human and loving mother.
She is ❤
@Роман М. I hope your comment was sarcasm 😂
@@hapustatw No its not. To believe in the globe at this point shows huge lack of awareness. Not trying to be offensive or insulting. But its basically just government thought passed down to the masses. If anyone takes real time and clears the table and starts over to find what the earth is, then it becomes clear that earth is not a globe.
@@simplequestioncanuanswer2457 If only you knew what I did for a living 😂😂 the flat earth conspiracy is just that - a conspiracy and a pretty outlandish one at that. I'm absolutely fascinated that people genuinely think there are hundreds (if not thousands) of employees from every single space agency lying about the shape of the earth.
@@hapustatw That's cool be fascinated. I don't think all the workers are lying. Plenty of them believe they are building a panel to be used for heating on some rocket or ISS compartment. Sure a lot of them believe its a globe. That is philosophy though and I don't get into it too much over the internet. just because you believe a bunch of people at space agencies wouldn't lie is not proof of a spinning globe. If you focus on curvature and what comes from NASA it just takes the attitude of finding out the truth yourself and you will find it. If you believe the moon landings and the Mars rover then I can't really help you. I am not trying to convince you or anyone just explaining my view. Have a great day.
When the mother felt that the other children didn't get hugs and kisses? I felt that. She has the type of compassion I strive for.
It’s common to see in African homes, the parents not showing any affection. It is really sad and can have some life long repercussions. We never even say things like “I love you”. In my home, the only time we really express our feelings is when we fight and it’s just really unhealthy and toxic. I always say to myself that I can’t wait to graduate and leave. I can’t stand it because it mentally and physically drains me. I think it’s just the way I have been brought up. Whenever I fought with any of my siblings, the situation is never resolved. My mum just tells us to stop arguing or separate us until we calm down. We don’t speak and the next day we all kind of act like nothing happened. As a result, I don’t talk or go anywhere near one of my brothers. I try to stay out of his way as much as possible because we just really hate each other. My mum is fine with us not talking. We fought so bad that she just said to me to just never speak to him. So I said okay and I think for the sake of everyone else in the house, it was a good decision. My parents are immigrants from Somalia and to them, feeding me, access to education and having a roof over my head is probably their way of saying that I have given you everything in life that you need to be successful so it would be selfish of me to complain. I feel emotionally broken and it has affected my relationship with other people such as my friends. If I argue with one of my friends, I don’t know how to control myself emotionally and make my point at the same time. Or even any debate or simple conversation, I just struggle. There’s definitely some resentment in my family towards each other but we don’t ever express our feelings unless we’re angry. It’s sad but it’s my reality.
The moral of my story is that if I ever choose to become a mum, I will always try my best to show affection as well disciplining them. Kids NEED to be shown love and they NEED to know that they are loved.
I didn’t know that I would end up writing all this but this just feels like a place where I can say what I can to get things of my chest. Like a weight has been lifted off my shoulder.
Fishcakes Peru a i can relate and sorry to hear that theres so much emotional immaturity in your home . I truly hope you can find peace and healing in yourself .
Fishcakes Peru a
Thank you for telling your story, it really hit home. My dad + his side of the family is exactly like that but my mum is the complete opposite and i’m so thankful. Now they are divorcing she’s seen the affects of how my dad raised us and is trying her hardest to keep what’s left of our family together. I’ve never experienced any affection from my dad but my mum always tells me she loves me and brother in every phone call I have with her now.
Even though I’m now 21, the love I have received in the past 2 years from my mother has made such a positive change in my life. I know i would be a horrible place if it wasn’t for her. A simple “I love you” makes such a huge difference
When I say to you that you EXACTLY described my mother and siblings and our dysfunctional upbringing, you probably won't believe me, but please trust that you are not the only one going through this. My advice: work on you! I never really had "friends" because I never truly allowed anyone to get close to me--sure, I knew lots of people and had many associates I joked around with but never real friends. My mother told me from a young age that I didn't need any friends, only Jesus and family. That was her isolating me for control. I didn't know how to speak up for myself without going into crazy mode, and I allowed people to walk over me because I wanted to avoid conflict, like I had taught myself to do avoiding my family at home. I thought no one who knew how messed up I was and where I came from would ever love me. I was embarrassed and thought I was broken beyond repair. I'm not religious but I love God. Through Him, and not the teachings I had been taught to believe, I can say I'm changed. I still have my bad days but I know it too shall pass. I wouldn't call it a miracle because it would detract from the day to day work I put in reading, journaling, and listening. You wrote that long comment because you needed to get it all out. Continue doing that. Heal yourself then free yourself, and go off to create the life you always wanted and so lovingly deserve. Don't hold it against your brother because just remember he was raised in a messed up environment just like you. He's suffering too, that's why he's so anger. But, also remember that if people don't change (which they rarely do because it takes A LOT of work) then love them from afar and don't take them into the new and healthier life and family that you're going to create for yourself. It may seem a little extreme but don't let your dysfunctional loyalty to them keep you sad...you don't want to take that sad version of yourself home to your future family. They deserve the happy you. You deserve to be the happy you too. Cut ppl out your life who brings your happiness level down.
Fishcakes Peru a “African” it happens in white households too. You bottle up feelings and don’t talk about it because it means you’re weak.
Fishcakes Peru a
The Somalian people seem to have a really hard time assimilating. I am so sorry for your pain.
Stay strong and learn patience, the art of waiting.
Dream big and let your mind escape into your imagination. Remember to love yourself and smile when you look at yourself in the mirror every morning.
Love from another mother to you. Happy St. Valentine’s Day.
The lady who started crying about no hugs and kisses is amazing. I may not agree with her beliefs but at least she loves her kids
Comparing different black families I love it. Not just the black family vs another race. We get to see how different white families live so loving this.
The southern family isn’t “black” they look like an interracial family.
so I came here all prepared to make fun of the mom that believe the world was flat, and now I just feel sympathy for her. She's clearly traumatized from what she went through and is now trying to be the best mom she can be. she clearly loves her children and just wants other moms to just focus on and love their children because she knows what those moms will think if they lose their children. I respect her. All my sympathy for her loss.
The rich mom is more grounded in reality the simple mom is more grounded in love. Simple as that
Ain't reality loving and hugging yo kids
@@marcosmith9315 i dont call believing in flat earth being ground in reality but yeah loves her kids thats what really matters.
Rob T the wealthier mom is not grounded in reality. She is following illusion regarding healthy ways to raise children. Shes halfway sane just like the other woman
@Drgnfli yeah but i was trying to be nice about it
Shes not rich at all lmao my house is way bigger and i dont even like the title rich or weathy a teacher does not make enough money to be rich lmao i have a more higher paying job
Lmao damn the mom who doesn’t show affection seems to be very cold hearted. Gah dayuuumm
Hoodoo Queen Scorpio exactly, what was the point of having kids.
but fam... she a teacher! that's what scares me. not only is she being an ice queen to her kids, but she's sharing her icicles with her community. ahhh... the wonders of the public school system
First of all, how is she gonna talk about that lady’s “hillbilly” house and call her dirty when her closet is looking like that ???
And wow poor lady ! She lost her child and really can’t fathom such a cold mother who doesn’t want to hug and cherish her children. So sorry to that loving mama !
Both are in the wrong not hugging your kids is bad. But so is teaching your kids misinformation
“I could care less for hugs and kisses” 🥺🥺😲😳
I know the whole "earth is flat" was suppose to be the most shocking, but to me the "no hugs and kisses" shocked me more
Sa Rah absolutely
Exactly! You can have different beliefs in science and still be a good person. Mercy when she talked about her baby! Such a deep hurt.
Hit home for me because neither of my parents hug or kiss or say they love us
God love you! Have you both said something to your parents? 💕💕💕
jewa tokes LOL same
me too my parents arent even coming to my graduation this may
Alonzo Sanchez damn that’s rough. For my older brother, my dad couldn’t make it to his highschool graduation & that was same year I graduated from grade 7.
He couldn’t make it cuz he was out there CHEATTINGTT
* marrying a whole nother lady in kenyaaaa
Alonzo Sanchez I’m sorry to hear that! Congratulations on graduating!!!!!!
I didn’t come here to cry but here we are 😭
Will you pass the tissues please? I don't want to reach over you. 💖
I feel like a combination of these moms together is the ideal parent (minus the flat earth conspiracies). Organization and rules are key but showering you children with love and affection will only build them up to be stronger people and to understand what love and support is ❤
I was thinking the samething, a combination of both will be great. They both have their strengths
@Ugly Barnacle I personally think people should teach their children about things that can be verified to be true. Religion, 'flat earth', unicorns and dragons etc can't be verified, so I wouldn't teach my child those things to be true and I don't think anyone else should either.
@@hapustatw Evidence supports earth not being a ball. Children are taught theories all day long. Do you even know this?
@@pessimisticpianist582 Overwhelming, undeniable evidence shows the earth is mostly spherical. You have been grossly misinformed.
@Axel Drans the fact that you just called a mother hugging her children “clingy” and equated it to a stranger hugging you for no reason tells me all I need to know. Sorry you grew up in an affectionless household ❤️
I’m so sorry that one woman lost her daughter to a brain tumor 😢 I can’t imagine the pain she must feel. Losing a child is one of the hardest things a person can go through.
These two moms together would be 1 perfect mother. Like every wife swap is like that
This made me tear up. I know Aloni would give anything to hug and kiss her baby girl. I can tell she has a beautiful, loving spirit. All children deserve hugs and kisses.
the way they played her becoming emotional to the no-hugs, no-kisses juxtaposed to the other mother learning that she lost her daughter was very clever. because then it makes so much sense why she had that reaction and what the other mother is missing.
The why she broke down after hearing she doesn’t hug or give kisses broke my heart you can tell she’s a amazing mother that cares about her kids.i feel like she the kind that will take in her kids friends or others kids if they needed a place to stay
No hugs is how you raise a sociopath
Hyacinth Niemann welp, guess that's what iam?
ash 2018 i understand..i can see that's why many kids are the way they are 😭 but dang me too? 😂
😂
I can count how many times my parents hugged me...and I agree with you. I cant really show empathy or love. Its a weird feeling to explain when I know what normal people would do in such cases but I cant do it myself...it doesnt come naturally...nor do I have a maternal instinct around kids...or the desire for any.
Axel Drans That's counter time research and mammalian biology. We NEED touch and affection and by denying it completely you don't teach that child about when it's appropriate and how to develop healthy boundaries around touch in their body and with others. You're CREATING the void that you're talking about and also creating the space in their psyche for them to fetishize touch and associate ALL touch as being sexual sine it's the only outlet for touch they've been given. What you're talking about here is not only incredibly damaging but has no basis in any kind of research or fact. I'm not sure where you got this from.
Anyway, please hug your children...😔
Watching her cry made me cry
It's honestly heartbreaking 😢😭😭
what a swap lol something’s wrong with both of them.
Courtney Bailey best description for every wife swap ever.
It really is the entire idea behind the show, swap extremes
And not with you?
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 I choked on my coffee laughing at this comment
Ian no I’m perfect 😏
Watching the mom get all emotional after reading "I could care less for hugs and kisses" first thing id do when I seen them kids was give them hugs and kisses. Children deserve love. They deserve to be cherished. The mother who lost her child understands you have to hold onto them babies as tight as you can, until you cant anymore.
I could understand why she got emotional. She understands how important it is to spend every second with love with a child. Even if she didnt believe in science, she knew it was important to love her family.
Not hug and kiss my kids??? They're all grown and I'm a grandmother and you bet I still get at least the hugs. I never understood NOT wanting to snuggle with your child. Or grandchild.
Awwww I bet your a lovely person
@Axel Drans to be honest, in my opinion you should always ask if you can give a hug or a kiss to the other person. That way you will have consent and people might not become aggressive about it
I thought that was Remi Ma for a second.
She said a home of organization... those clothes were everywhere... you knew those cameras were coming... if she was a real one... she would have made sure that was handled... fraud
That poor woman no mother should have to bury her child
That womans reaction to hearing that the other mother doesnt do affection literally just broke my heart. The physical reactions she had to that just triggers ptsd.
The earth is flat lady was sweet but weird .. 🤷🏾♀️
Dannie Richie the first 4 words of your sentence are bang on
The love she has for her children definitely makes me forgive her for believing that the Earth is flat.
lool at her reaction to the 9/11 n space conspiracies "despite all the books, despite all the data huh"
I got pretty emotional when the lady started crying, it hit home! I don’t understand how a mother wouldn’t want to cuddle and kiss their kids. Fly high Deim, your mummy loves you
When the lady said "I'm so sorry to hear that", about the daughter dying of a brain tumor, she did not sound genuine at all in my opinion. Anyone else think so or is it just me? It was just her tone of voice and the way she said it. It just didn't sound genuine.
I caught that. Meanwhile flat earth mom is distraughf with grief. And if I lost my child 2 yrs ago... I can't seen wasting time cleaning my house while I have other children that I could hug and love to help me through such a huge and devastating loss.
I'd rather have Mum believe the Earth is a freaking concept construed by the gosh darn government then never show me she loves me. Damn woman.
I think people are confusing hugs and kisses with love. Hugs and kisses do not necessarily show love. They can show affection but love is about more than what you do outwardly. Taking care of your kids, sacrificing for them, setting them on a right path, teaching them to respect themselves and others...these are also signs of love. Think of the 5 Love Languages book, everyone displays and receives love differently. One day your parents will be gone and the hugs and kisses will cease, but what they instill in you is what goes on forever. I grew up in a household where hugs and kisses were not my parents primary love language. But, I never grew up thinking I was unloved. I knew they loved me based on every single sacrifice they made so I could have a much better and fruitful life than they had.
Remember, a stranger can also hug and kiss you, it doesn’t mean they love you.
Preach!
5 Love Languages is a nice book but it’s not a guide for raising children. The textbooks I had to read in psych classes taught that it’s an imperative part of nurturing children to be physically affectionate. There are actually more negative side affects of not receiving physical affection even with all the other needs being fulfilled. I’m glad it didn’t seem to affect you but the studies show that is not the reality for most children that grow up with minimal physical affection.
Yeah my mum didn't give me and my siblings hugs and kisses but I know she would give her life for me and my siblings. We definitely are loved
Lily KB I completely disagree. Children NEED hugs and to be shown affection. A 3 year-old isn’t going to give a crap about how tidy the house is or equate a full belly and clean clothes with love. Those things are the responsibility of parents - no points for providing for them because that’s just part of the job we agreed to when we decided to have children.
I see your point but being touch starved is a real thing and if you don’t show affection to your children it can actually hurt them psychologically and stunt their growth.
I think many wives appreciate the limo ride to their new homes😂😂😂
I’m sorry, but not everyone shows love with hugs and kisses.
Maybe not as adults thats fine (communicating to your partner etc) but children need for their healthy development. You can say it as much as you like but until they see it they wont believe it.
Yes but i believe kids need that for them to understand that you love them
But if you create a person you have to be the example of all the love languages cus they will have their own too. The world is ugly and you have to show them what healthy love and respect looks like so they know when they are not getting it from others
@@taiefurrahman3943 yes, it's important to show all the love languages so you make sure they understand. It also teaches them how to speak all of them, so they can do the same for their friends and future family.
@@apollofateh324 Well coming from a person who hates hugs and kisses I was glad my mom only hugged me during important or emotional times. Hugs feel like acid and are so uncomfortable I just don't get the appeal. I take after my mom in that aspect and I think if my mom had forced that on me I would resent her rather than the unbelievable amount of love and respect I have for her as an adult. People show and experience love in different ways and you can't be the judge of a family and people you don't understand.
.... she... she doesn't even hug her kids?! She doesn't give them love or affection?? That's heartbreaking....
I’m sorry, I lost it when the girl read “We believe that the Earth is flat”😂😂
1:15
It's not the kid's effing job to clean the house.
Their own rooms sure but kids should not be responsible for cleaning everything
Exactly what I thought. You had them, they didn't chose to be here and adhere to your bourgeoisie wanna-be pantomime.
She's a conspiracy theorist.so what. I am too. My kids are loved.
Reva Brown-Walker ♥️♥️♥️
Awwwww your a good mommy
9/11 didn't happen the way they said though...
Also, she straight up doesn't show love to her kids. That might not be the way you show affection but kids need that kind of reinforcement. Wow.
The mom with the braids is so sweet and beautiful inside 💜👑
I have 2 females I call mom.
My birth mom told me she didn’t like me when I first met her at the age of 10. She continued to show me she didn’t like me until I stopped dealing with her at all when I was 14.
My stepmom has physical been in the house. She has not a single affectionate cell in her body. I have never had a hug a kiss or anything from her. I don’t remember ever seeing any kind of affection between her and my dad.
They are both cold people. I would take a flat earth believing affectionate mom any day. She can believe that as long as I can get some of that motherly love I hear people talk about.
When I see those “you have to respect your mom” and other stuff I just keep on moving.
Damn that teacher was just downright rude... She's obviously hurt somehow
“Kids need to do THEIR jobs and make sure that the house gets back together” - a supposed mother.
Nothing wrong with questioning what you read, and that includes data!
oh my heart 🥺 when the mother started crying i started crying with her because it also hit home for me. losing a child isn’t easy.
I have two sons 18 and 21 and I hAve two daughters 17 and 19 and I hug, kiss , squeeze and express my love to and for them every chance I get. And, we give long strong hugs till you feel our energy transfer. My parents were NOT affectionate and so, you can understand why physically loving on your children is important.
She heard the children never get affection, it really hurt to think about her limited time with her own child
Also it’s a pattern with all tidy or obsessive cleaners to have one room that’s always a mess
I don't always have time to study but when I do I still don't lol that had me laughing
For any loving mother to read the hugs and kisses part would be so hard...plus the fact she knows what it truly means to not get to do those things????my heart goes with her.
The flat Earther just wants her kids to know that she loves them and wants to cherish the time she with them because she lost one of her babies. The other mom will probably be o e of the women that live alone and none of her kids come by because they were finally fed up with their cold hearted mom.
One of the wives: Starts crying when she hears the other lady doesn't hug or kiss her kids
The other wife: *Reads the other wife's child died from a brain tumor* "Sorry"
@Oluwanimike Makwini lol gurl calm down it was just a joke
@Oluwanimike Makwini Ya I was just oversimplifying it for comic effect
One woman *Cries* after hearing other woman doesn't show affectionate
Other woman *hears baby died* "sorry to hear"
She may be a flat earther but heck... I'd rather that than the heartless robot
i feel bad cause she lost her child,but as someone who's uncle was a firefighter during 9/11 i am kinda mad at her for saying that about 9/11, i all so don't agree with not showing affection my family make it a point to never leave the house without saying i love you to each other,no matter how angry we are at each other we will always so affection before leaving,cause you never truly know when it will be the last time you see your loved ones
Not everyone is raised with affection though☹️
And that have problems believe me, take a psychology course
she can teach her kids whatever conspiracies she wants.She makes them feel loved, and she's kind.
This got real emotional real quick 😭
1:28 the way she read that quote 😂😂😂
That made me cry
I feel so sorry for the woman who lost her baby I can't imagine how hard it must be to then read that someone doesn't give her children hugs or kisses when all you want is to be able to hug your child again xxx
Where the hell is the full episode though
I was so prepared to judge the mom for all of her conspiracies and beliefs ... how quickly my heart was turned towards compassion.
The flat earther has such a big heart I wish I could give her a hug 💕💕💕
As a teacher, shouldn't she know about the school system and its inherent flaws?? Like it's not even an insult to her personally.
Nah this was two extremes of a parenting spectrum that I'm happy to never had experienced.
i started crying when she was talking about her daughter
Interesting clip.... I want to see the full episode. Something very.....not ideal on both ends imo….it's like they took two extreme sides of a spectrum. 1. Agree with why the woman at the end was crying.... kids need to know they are loved and shown affection. Emotional neglect is a thing and it can have a lot of bad effects throughout adulthood. I would know as my parents were the same. Doesn't matter how big or crystal clean a house or pristine a drive way you provide for them or the loads of clothes you buy them, if they go throughout their entire childhood not being shown direct affection or learning from example from their parents on how to express their feelings in a meaningful manner, then they could end up lacking emotional intelligence/maturity, which could result in all sorts of issues and deficiencies in many areas of their lives both as children and even more so as adults. Not to mention like this woman unfortunately had to learn, you never know when you could lose someone, so not showing them how much you care about them could be a big mistake. Only day that's guaranteed for anyone of any age is yesterday.
2. I don't agree with that one woman's stance on what she believes about the earth and space travel etc... but at the same time thought it was weird that the other (teacher) woman would begin to say she's offended immediately after she read that the other mom didn't embrace the public school system.... I mean you're seriously offended even if she was legit an adequate home school mom or sent her kids to private school?? I mean I have respect for all teachers, but apparent by how behind academically our kids are compared to other first world countries and just the lack of important knowledge and critical thinking skills in general amongst the average citizen etc, it's very clear to me that the Public school system is far from perfect, especially for those who can't afford to live in middle or upper class neighborhoods/towns.
At the same time also side with the teacher mom in that it's indeed important for children to have rules and organization and for kids to learn how to take care of a home, but her calloused rudeness upon getting onto the other woman's property and going through her house was definately uncalled for.
I don't know what's more damaging to a child, teaching them false truths or neglecting them love
This women will be filling up lakes because their is a hand full of parents don’t care for hugs or kisses. :/ but the reason I feel she cried during that moment was because of her child.
It’s probably so embarrassing to have someone saying that your “Home” is disgusting 🤦🏽♀️
The lady with the braids was beautiful inside and out
How is she talking about cleanliness with her closet looking like that ?
my grandma doesnt like hugs and kisses so i give her hugs and kisses anyways lol
I lost my best friend on October 14 of this month to AML (leukemia). I felt that woman's pain when she got emotional about how the other mother doesn't do love and affection. I can't imagine what it's like to lose a child to cancer. But knowing what its like to lose a best friend and sister at heart, I felt this and immediately was brought to tears. I hope the other mother learns how to be affectionate and loving for her childrens sake. You never know what you have until it's gone.