Why broken hearts hurt | Yoram Yovell | TEDxBeitBerlCollege

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @cute_cookie7496
    @cute_cookie7496 Год назад +159

    Broken people attendance here ☝

    • @evenow
      @evenow Год назад +2

      Here 🖐🏻

    • @CavariousTheCompletedTactician
      @CavariousTheCompletedTactician Год назад +2

      it's hard , only time can dull the pain not heal (haven't heard the whole thing atm)

    • @cute_cookie7496
      @cute_cookie7496 Год назад +5

      @@CavariousTheCompletedTactician True time doesn't heal anything it just teaches us how to live with pain

    • @smoot2337
      @smoot2337 Год назад +2

      @@cute_cookie7496Time wounds all heals

    • @phoenixpersonified3484
      @phoenixpersonified3484 Год назад +2

      There should be at least a million people giving their attendance here, assuming they watch this video, but again, one needs courage to admit to themselves and to others that they are broken 🤔

  • @visionsofablackherstorian
    @visionsofablackherstorian Год назад +35

    I literally have a tattoo that says, "Love is Pain", because it was something I discovered after a Heartbreak. I finally feel validated.

    • @maypap13
      @maypap13 Год назад

      have you found new love since your heartbreak?

    • @visionsofablackherstorian
      @visionsofablackherstorian Год назад

      @@maypap13 No

    • @maypap13
      @maypap13 Год назад

      @@visionsofablackherstorian I'm sorry to hear that

    • @billyLego4855
      @billyLego4855 6 месяцев назад

      Love is not pain, love is being loved for who you are. Your life has tried and people failed too you for who you were. And pain was, you were lessoned for it. Live is warm and loving and good feeling. Heartbreak and unrequited is what has happened. I'm very sorry for that had happened too you.

  • @jcjs33
    @jcjs33 Год назад +10

    pain is the touchstone to growth...depression precedes growth and it is always 'lonely' on the growing edge...pain doesn't mean, necessarily, 'damage' but 'healing is going on' , 'repair' ... pain is simply a 'pointer' and varies with what is presented with each person...OMski

    • @wolfferoni
      @wolfferoni 8 месяцев назад

      I don't know if I necessarily agree. Depression does not always precede growth. There are many people who struggle with depression for life and who may go on to commit suicide.

  • @abhiramtadi
    @abhiramtadi Год назад +25

    Well we should be brave enough to love someone knowing that they might not be with us for the rest of our life, in the end we might think is it a fair sacrifice that we made for the time being with them.

    • @dragonfly9209
      @dragonfly9209 Год назад +6

      I agree. The pain of losing them is horrendous...but what we gained from having them in our lives helps us to find a measure of comfort. The love gained outweighs the pain--and wins in the end.

    • @sukhino4475
      @sukhino4475 Год назад +2

      True, I realised, my son recently passed away at 39,bachelor, all alone in US, ...he has taught me the purpose of life, meaning to live,when I suffered from severe wife abusing husband, and utterly selfish unlaws, who had turned him to be a parasite. My son at the age of 15, stood by me and my younger daughter to enable us to complete the career we were in. Even at this time of irreplaceable loss, my husband continue to wield threat,bullying....

    • @OcelotlAlma13
      @OcelotlAlma13 Год назад

      ​@@sukhino4475I am so sorry for your loss 💚

  • @maypap13
    @maypap13 Год назад +3

    Yoram Yovell is one of my favorites.

  • @蘇小玉-t6b
    @蘇小玉-t6b Год назад +19

    😢😢😢my mother died when I was 13 years old😢my mum was my hero 😢it hurts 😭

  • @charliefern3568
    @charliefern3568 8 месяцев назад +2

    Summary: The knowing is worth the pain.

  • @lismabatubara3455
    @lismabatubara3455 Год назад +6

    I feel the same, while my husband died four years ago. But i believed God.

  • @dannyspromise
    @dannyspromise Год назад +14

    Absolutely fabulous. Makes me wish I was a scientist. Thank you for this TED Talk. So sorry for the loss of your father at such a young age.

  • @AlessandraAlonso
    @AlessandraAlonso Год назад +2

    Out standing!

  • @ArslonQalqonov
    @ArslonQalqonov Год назад +4

    This is spectacular story

  • @sifarak.fathima792
    @sifarak.fathima792 Год назад +2

    This was very informative....your hardwork have paid off..Yoram Yuvell.....that's great!

  • @hend570
    @hend570 Год назад +3

    Incredible informations. Thank you for your hard work.

  • @bukurie6861
    @bukurie6861 Год назад +3

    Thank you to hear and It happen in real life is phisical+mental pain and we feel sad that it is demage us🌏

  • @ignaciaforteza7731
    @ignaciaforteza7731 Год назад +4

    Thank you, thank you. Great informative video.

  • @jcjs33
    @jcjs33 Год назад +1

    love always hurts until it doesn't...love doesn't 'always hurt'...OMski

  • @rashadjaveed274
    @rashadjaveed274 Год назад +1

    Thank you for explaining feelings of love and pain scientifically. Informative and reassuring that people are the healers and ......

  • @psychismelucratif3234
    @psychismelucratif3234 Год назад +3

    This was insightful

  • @יהושעדנינו
    @יהושעדנינו 5 месяцев назад

    He is ours ❤

  • @HAPPY.10.
    @HAPPY.10. Год назад +4

    Somalia people love ted talks

  • @subaschandran1951
    @subaschandran1951 Год назад +4

    By generating a thinking process during the day and hypnopedia during night we can generate endorphin within

  • @zakiagul-zt4bp
    @zakiagul-zt4bp Год назад

    Whoever been broken by their loved ones, & how they instantaneously hurt you ;

  • @prernagupta23
    @prernagupta23 Год назад +1

    Thank you 💝

  • @yasoomohamed970
    @yasoomohamed970 Год назад +2

    Thanks for useful video

  • @potatopirate5557
    @potatopirate5557 Год назад +1

    Most addictions to opiates are an effort to treat mental pain as much, if not more, than physical pain.

  • @lntj101
    @lntj101 Год назад +2

    Perfect

  • @yolgag88
    @yolgag88 Год назад +2

    Very interesting!

  • @Real_Michael_Jordan
    @Real_Michael_Jordan Год назад

    Only God can heal my heart

  • @selya-v9d
    @selya-v9d Год назад +3

    Where can we stay updated on these two drugs reveal?

  • @1sanremy
    @1sanremy Год назад

    From my humble perspective : PAIN hearts the EGO. So to be HAPPY, one can reduce the pain or the ego. Any mean can be used but on the chemical side, psychotropic drugs like PSYCHEDELICS and other strange RC ( such as A-PIHP) produce interesting results needing more explorations. Peace & love

  • @HaloDizayee
    @HaloDizayee Год назад +1

    Thanks, keep going, the videos are very useful

  • @freedomtryp62190
    @freedomtryp62190 Год назад +1

    Interesting informations❤

  • @maypap13
    @maypap13 Год назад +1

    does this mean we'll be able to treat a broken heart?

  • @mohamedelfatih9826
    @mohamedelfatih9826 Год назад

    People even scientist still struggle on how to decide the human being at The level of consciousness whether he is pure matter or pure psyche. For almost all of us, the answer is clear but when it comes to practice let us keep saying that human are psyche and they have Free Will as to keep things interesting.

  • @StelvinSabu
    @StelvinSabu Год назад

    5:14 "But what is grief, if not love persevering?"

  • @amalsattar7737
    @amalsattar7737 Год назад +2

    Plz subtitles b add kardein

  • @mariaantoniettamontella9173
    @mariaantoniettamontella9173 Год назад

    aspettiamo i nomi delle due sostanze che sviluppano endorfine.

  • @eva-mariacoughlin9456
    @eva-mariacoughlin9456 Год назад +1

    Drugs and more drugs! How about hug therapy,thank you so much for trying to help those who are deeply 😢

  • @Ajeetrawatroaster
    @Ajeetrawatroaster Год назад +2

    My mom died when i was 17 yeras old so i do feel 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @muhammadimamnugraha9879
    @muhammadimamnugraha9879 5 месяцев назад

    Are plants also produces something resembling endorphines?

  • @creativemind8924
    @creativemind8924 Год назад +4

    How do we increase our endorphins???

    • @ddpwe5269
      @ddpwe5269 Год назад +4

      Exercise is the main one.

    • @MilaDiamond
      @MilaDiamond Год назад +3

      Exercise, quality time with friends and/or family, spending time in nature, dancing, listening to music (or engaging in any arts that inspire you), doing things you love; also, living your purpose. If you don’t have a community of likeminded people around you, build one. ✌️

    • @nakefatty9167
      @nakefatty9167 Год назад

      Drugs and hugs.

  • @caracolbaila
    @caracolbaila Год назад

    cacao and thc/cbd.. is ovius.. and lovely

  • @mariacasado3350
    @mariacasado3350 Год назад +1

    Traducción en español

  • @randscott4676
    @randscott4676 2 месяца назад

    This is so unhelpful.

  • @mayukhpurkayastha2649
    @mayukhpurkayastha2649 Год назад +1

    You Anti Hero like a great Joker 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢.(batman world)

  • @Wilyam-07
    @Wilyam-07 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @mozhganjamyan
    @mozhganjamyan 6 месяцев назад

  • @abrahamadam1902
    @abrahamadam1902 Год назад +1

    Here

  • @pamelaroyce5285
    @pamelaroyce5285 Год назад +1

    I hope one of those two drugs is chocolate! 😂

  • @AnaPaula-lb7ih
    @AnaPaula-lb7ih Год назад +1

    Spar Brasil

  • @cdnrdz
    @cdnrdz Год назад +6

    I know he can’t say yet, but it’s such a tease to not say the names of the medications 🤣

  • @AndreaFerguson-g2b
    @AndreaFerguson-g2b Год назад

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @jcjs33
    @jcjs33 Год назад

    too mechanistic...OMski

  • @AdisShaleh69
    @AdisShaleh69 Месяц назад

    No names of the drugs at the end. Waste of my damn time

  • @Real_Michael_Jordan
    @Real_Michael_Jordan Год назад

    Science doesn't have the answer for this one, sorry

  • @Novapsihoanaliza
    @Novapsihoanaliza Год назад

    What a charlatan! :(

  • @MarcAlbertMiranda-f4j
    @MarcAlbertMiranda-f4j 8 месяцев назад

    Here