Life with Carry Grant

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • Russ Mitchell has "Early Coffee" with actress Dyan Cannon and talks about her new book, chronicling her life as Cary Grant's wife.

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  • @pablojose4890
    @pablojose4890 3 года назад +93

    My dad met Cary Grant in the 1970's. He said exactly the same thing about Cary when he walked into a room. It was electric and everyone could feel the charisma (if that makes sense).

    • @MetalDetectingRussia
      @MetalDetectingRussia 2 года назад +6

      Wow cool

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад +8

      Wow ! Would loved to have been in that room ! Talk about a CHARISMATIC person !

    • @janecoe9407
      @janecoe9407 Год назад

      WHAT A WEIRDO USING LSD. HE GOT UGLY AS HE GOT OLD.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 9 месяцев назад

      He was demonized no doubt.

  • @fedupwitumboth
    @fedupwitumboth 4 года назад +117

    Cary Grant was and remains my all time favorite actor...so handsome.

    • @andrewsong2055
      @andrewsong2055 3 года назад +9

      North by Northwest and the Philadelphia story might be 2 of the greatest films of all time !!

    • @anitastaveley9187
      @anitastaveley9187 3 года назад +4

      @@andrewsong2055 I loved the Philadelphia Story too...one of my favourites.. Room for One More...another but I loved them all.Do you know what the movie with the little boy and the caterpillar was called ? Can't remember it !

  • @NeenerBananas
    @NeenerBananas 9 месяцев назад +21

    I sat about 6 feet away from him at Hollywood Park Race Track in the ‘80s. I get the whole thing about the atmosphere changing in his presence. I was seated behind him and was just staring. To my chagrin at the time, he turned around and stared right back. It wasn’t too long before he died. He was majestic.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 3 месяца назад +1

      It seems like maybe he felt your eyeballs drilling holes into his back ... 🤣

  • @vickyharp9336
    @vickyharp9336 3 года назад +85

    I LOVED Carey Grant!!! He was the epitome of a gentleman!!

    • @craigjgomez
      @craigjgomez 2 года назад +2

      Who is Carey Grant?

    • @dandansen571
      @dandansen571 Год назад +2

      @@craigjgomez And Carry Grant?

    • @Icon_of_Design
      @Icon_of_Design Год назад +1

      Except he was a cheater.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 3 месяца назад

      Very good stories and documentaries concluding one I think in Vanity Fair that was well researched and they talk about how when he was younger and when he first came to America and then some years later made it to Hollywood he was rather awkward and not really that noticeable ... then he started hanging around with actor Randolph Scott who came from money and had class ... and people say he taught Cary Grant everything about being a man with class ... and they were living together for quite some time and people say it's like he took on Randolph Scott's character which was very charismatic and became him .
      Hard to believe I know but when you look at the photos of him early on in New York an early on in Hollywood you can see what they mean .

  • @cbeautifulworld11
    @cbeautifulworld11 8 месяцев назад +28

    Cary Grant is a legendary icon who will be remembered forever.
    You would think that CBS would spell his name correctly.

  • @bondafisya4645
    @bondafisya4645 3 года назад +221

    It’s sad that the fear of going old caused many individuals to succumb their faces and bodies under the knife and the outcomes are disastrous.

    • @marypapak5759
      @marypapak5759 3 года назад +42

      I am shocked and saddened by the plastic surgery!!

    • @LearnMusclescom
      @LearnMusclescom 3 года назад +40

      I just don’t understand why she or anyone would believe that this type of surgery would be more attractive...

    • @carrob704
      @carrob704 3 года назад +23

      yes, a botched facelift gives one that "wind tunnel" effect

    • @HQBergeron
      @HQBergeron 3 года назад +21

      I am always dismayed when a beautiful woman feels the need to try to remain so by unnatural means which removes all of the beauty of character and wisdom in their faces that is earned over a lifetime and cannot be replaced.

    • @foto21
      @foto21 3 года назад +10

      WHAT IS WITH THE UPPER LIP? Her upper lip is bigger than it was when she was young! I don't get it.
      It's still happening. As a man, we do less of this kind of thing, but as a man, I also gotta say, just give it a rest. My god. There are young women doing this now, inflating upper lips etc. Look at the boy bands. Plastic surgery is like heroin. Once people do it, they can't stop seemingly, and they never see the reality. It's a mental illness.
      One day, people will be able to stay young probably, but it won't be by surgery.

  • @antoniosassogarciafilho1476
    @antoniosassogarciafilho1476 4 года назад +39

    Cary Grant was a gentleman and an Hollywood icon ! Regards from Brazil

  • @stacycarter5579
    @stacycarter5579 9 лет назад +107

    The most handsome and best. Actor of all time
    I love him and all his movies.

    • @johnydome
      @johnydome 9 лет назад

      +Stacy Carter movies he was in is what you mean

    • @cliffordkent6611
      @cliffordkent6611 7 лет назад

      Stacy Carter t

    • @rickrick5041
      @rickrick5041 5 лет назад

      Johnydome No she meant he was a projectionist in a movie theatre and all the movies he played

    • @mariaalano3077
      @mariaalano3077 3 года назад +1

      older.mila.kunis before surgery
      i saw Diane Canno in HeavenCanWait, she funny and.attractive.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 3 месяца назад

      ​@@mariaalano3077yes she could sort of look like her someday .
      Heaven Can Wait is that the one with Gene Tierney where she deliberately caused the guy's younger brother by drowning ?
      The one that was filmed in these gorgeous locations out west ?

  • @colleendaumen136
    @colleendaumen136 5 лет назад +39

    The cosmetic surgery is sad to see, but she really is a lovely lady, what a shame.

  • @barbj9785
    @barbj9785 6 лет назад +48

    Love every movie this man made. Mr Blandings Builds His Dreamhouse.

    • @reasonrestored9116
      @reasonrestored9116 3 года назад +4

      That’s my favourite!

    • @aprillovesgolf7042
      @aprillovesgolf7042 3 года назад +4

      Crazy movie....influenced me to live a minimalist lifestyle.

    • @rachelkristine4669
      @rachelkristine4669 9 месяцев назад +2

      Father Goose is my fav , along with Bringing Up Baby & Mr Blandings Builds His Dream House! 😂

  • @MrImiller07
    @MrImiller07 10 лет назад +78

    I am a fan of Cary Grant's film work and I respect his decision to retire from movies in order to devote himself to his daughter Jennifer, who is beautiful and appreciative of his love and dedication to her in her formative years. I read the Cannon book and I believe her account of his controlling nature and his insistence on the use of LSD to expand her consciousness. His other companion, Maureen Donaldson, wrote similarly about his dominating personality. Cannon does emphasize the good memories about Grant in her book as well.

    • @patriciascrabeck8093
      @patriciascrabeck8093 5 лет назад +1

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    • @kdurston1
      @kdurston1 3 года назад +5

      His mother was very domineering so it's not surprising

    • @Floppyearsmomma
      @Floppyearsmomma 2 года назад +6

      @@kdurston1 Wasn't his mother a schizophrenic who was whisked away to an asylum by Cary's father when he was a young child? My understanding was he came home and was told by his father that she had died, and he didn't know she was alive until he became an adult.

    • @fifthbusiness1678
      @fifthbusiness1678 2 года назад

      His true companion, and love, was that Western star of the 50s and 60s. The name will come to me ...

    • @oldhatcinema
      @oldhatcinema 2 года назад +6

      @@fifthbusiness1678 You're thinking of Randolph Scott, but I don't believe the story about a homosexual relationship between him and Grant, not for a second.

  • @barbaras6792
    @barbaras6792 3 года назад +40

    Cary Grant was a beautiful and charming man.

    • @jillwintz379
      @jillwintz379 Год назад +1

      Totally appeared that way. What charm, style, wit and --- most of all --- graciousness .

  • @rosevanguard
    @rosevanguard 11 месяцев назад +10

    They were two very different people with very different expectations from each other. She seems very sweet. I think she was a great mother and Cary was a devoted Father.

  • @ojaspurohit
    @ojaspurohit 3 года назад +19

    Most handsome, most lovable actor Cary Grant. Cary Grant, Rock Hudson, James Stewart, Eroll Flynn are some of the great attractive faces of hollywood. Very appearance of these stars would create big positive energy. It's sad hollywood has stopped spotting such faces. Current generation players are smart, manly but not handsome.

  • @williambrock6458
    @williambrock6458 2 года назад +16

    I knew Dyan Cannon when she was with Cary and after the divorce. She had her hair done at our shop on Bedford Dr. In Los Angeles. Dyan is a wonderful person and she has not lost that infectious laugh! She still has great hair....

    • @sharksport01
      @sharksport01 2 года назад +4

      I knew her too. I was her garbage man. Beautiful person!

  • @lisasuzanne8474
    @lisasuzanne8474 Год назад +24

    I love Dyan so much! She's been my favorite actress since I was young. She's a major Christian and used to go to my Hollywood Bible Study. She's inspiring! ✝️

    • @jenk.6196
      @jenk.6196 8 месяцев назад +1

      Just curious. What's a "major" Christian? (I met Dyan back when in Malibu and I'm not sure how "major" --or even a "minor"--of a Christian she is.) Very odd also that a woman now in her 80s dresses like she's trying to be in her 20s. Tight leather pants? Really? Not exactly a class act. (Whatever his faults were, Cary Grant was 100% class...the waiters at Chasens (now closed) will tell you that. It's how celebs treat the "little people" that is the litmus test.)
      Anyway, it does seem she's getting a lot of mileage from her very brief marriage to Grant: A book (albeit one-sided) , and now a series on BritBox give her this: She doesn't trash Cary (well, mostly) as some ex-wives of celebs do. Now in that department she IS a class act.

    • @elizabethwilk9615
      @elizabethwilk9615 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@jenk.6196so if you wear leather pants you are not a good Christian? One of the ladies who runs our Bible wears them. She’s very thin and gets cold very easily. She’s very kind and intelligent and has been married for over 40 years. She wears her leather pants with long cashmere sweaters. She is very ill now and am praying for her. Never judge someone you never know what’s going on.

    • @stuartkidney3257
      @stuartkidney3257 7 месяцев назад

      @@elizabethwilk9615 People do not need to "judge" Dyan Cannon; rather the books of Proverbs and Psalms judge Dyan Cannon. The entertainment biz is a tough one for any Christian to operate in, I do not have any first hand experience with her so I let God's Word DO the judging.

  • @ceciliem1811
    @ceciliem1811 7 лет назад +24

    Cary, was handsome and Dyan, was beautiful! Her meeting him at 23 and marrying him did produce a beautiful daughter!! The age difference may have been a factor in their divorce! Good interview!! 👍

    • @sharksport01
      @sharksport01 2 года назад +5

      Would she have married him if he was a used furniture dealer?

    • @guyrabinowitz
      @guyrabinowitz 2 года назад

      Those commas in your first sentence should not have been used.

    • @janecoe9407
      @janecoe9407 Год назад +1

      SOUND SLIKE SHE MARRIED HIN FOR SECURITY, SHE RAN OUT OF MONEY.

  • @TubenIt83
    @TubenIt83 3 года назад +44

    I guess it’s too much to expect CBS to spell “”CARY” correctly.

    • @ds7675
      @ds7675 3 года назад

      Glaring mistake but in the description box the spelling is correct. Tsk, tsk!

    • @HQBergeron
      @HQBergeron 3 года назад +1

      They probably hired a young social media manager who, like so many young people these days, can’t spell worth a darn, and are too time pressured to proof read.

    • @trainliker100
      @trainliker100 3 года назад +1

      I will grant you that they can't carry off the concept of accurate spelling very well.

    • @sharksport01
      @sharksport01 2 года назад

      Its Quarry Granite.

    • @julietteyork6293
      @julietteyork6293 Год назад

      They must live up to their Fake News moniker

  • @countrydj2
    @countrydj2 3 года назад +24

    I read this book. So many funny stories. It’s a must read. RIP to one of the best actors ever.

  • @sherrycaraway5663
    @sherrycaraway5663 6 лет назад +104

    Cary never told any stories about his ex-wives, I wish she would have kept his secrets. It's sad when you are married to someone and then they violate that intimacy to tell all the secrets.

    • @missyb9438
      @missyb9438 5 лет назад +4

      Sherry Caraway he’s dead and doesn’t know anything and he was a douche, it’s her right.

    • @seandarcy7651
      @seandarcy7651 3 года назад +5

      @Ruby Romaine Probably a money thing never really nice

    • @trafikuty
      @trafikuty 3 года назад +6

      @Ruby Romaine Yes, for the next surgery...
      I'm sure she was Cary's greatest mistake.

    • @catherinelw9365
      @catherinelw9365 2 года назад +9

      @@trafikuty But she gave him his only child, who he loved very much. So it’s not a mistake.

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад +2

      @@catherinelw9365 Indeed ! Cary's daughter Jennifer brought him more joy than any of his marriages and he had his ex-wife Dyan to thank.

  • @gloriayouchisonbrown7734
    @gloriayouchisonbrown7734 2 года назад +14

    I adored Cary Grant and all his movies

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад +1

      He was no Huntz Hall, but Mr Grant was indeed quite talented, handsome & charming !!

  • @talkerVoice1
    @talkerVoice1 8 лет назад +121

    How sad. A beautiful woman who really over-did the surgery.

    • @rolandalexandermuller1039
      @rolandalexandermuller1039 5 лет назад +5

      Looks a bit like a female Mick Jagger

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад +1

      Sad but true. She's a very good actress in the right role and seems like an intelligent & sweet lady. But I did NOT recognize her ! She has had way too much cosmetic surgery. She was already quite a pretty lady....there was NO need to have all the surgery. So sad...

  • @carlamoss1227
    @carlamoss1227 8 лет назад +82

    Cary grant was very good looking

    • @belalforria
      @belalforria 7 лет назад +23

      Only difference is that Grant was still good looking at age 84

    • @amylynnhunt55
      @amylynnhunt55 7 лет назад +6

      Except that Clark DIED at age 59. So we will never know what he would have looked like as an Octogenarian. But yes, he was extraordinarily good -looking. Cary and Clark are my faves!

    • @DrMoorehen
      @DrMoorehen 6 лет назад +1

      Pity dyan doesnt share this now

    • @sherrycaraway5663
      @sherrycaraway5663 6 лет назад

      That's one of the reasons he was a huge movie star.

    • @abhinayamarykoshy1264
      @abhinayamarykoshy1264 5 лет назад

      @Mary's Catholics so was James Stewart !

  • @pamelautopianchoices7598
    @pamelautopianchoices7598 4 года назад +11

    Dyan....i love your strength... hard to walk out on DELICIOUS ...lol seekers are tough... I too am a seeker ...I ry to stay in the present...it helps with the older of it all. I read it...it was given to me. By someone who probably didn’t read it. It was a total read in a few sittings. Busy but made time. thank you for sharing your life and part of Cary’s

  • @normadesmond6017
    @normadesmond6017 2 года назад +19

    Cary Grant took LSD to deal with his childhood traumas. It was seen in psychiatry at that time as a good way to let go of old hurt. And he always said that it helped him a lot.

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад

      Yes indeed ! He took LSD hundreds of times and thought it really helped him a lot. And he ALWAYS took it under medical supervision !!

    • @normadesmond6017
      @normadesmond6017 2 года назад

      @@jubalcalif9100 yes, it did. And nowadays it has revived as a way to treat patients with trauma. Would I do it in that situatian? Nope. Do I think it is smart to treat patients with acid? Nope. But it helped him, apparently.

    • @pampam6629
      @pampam6629 9 месяцев назад

      What kind of traumas he had?

    • @normadesmond6017
      @normadesmond6017 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@pampam6629 Born into extreme poverty, Grant was told as a child his mother had died. She had actually been placed in a psychiatric institution. Soon after, his father abandoned him to start a new family with another woman. He was left alone at age 11. Because he was athletic he joined a local circus. That circus went to the US a few years later and he went along. And the rest is history.

    • @pampam6629
      @pampam6629 9 месяцев назад

      I didn't Know that fact! @@normadesmond6017

  • @AndreaKollo
    @AndreaKollo 5 лет назад +20

    When you live in a world or work in and industry that applauds youth and forgets about great talented individuals as they age, most especially women, its hard not to try to stay young and relevant. Blame society for kicking great people to the curb because they're getting older. Yes, some go to far, and some end up a disaster and I too can't help but think omgoodness ... but I do understand what compels some to at least try.

    • @foto21
      @foto21 3 года назад +1

      Women who aren't famous do this to themselves. Women who are young are doing this to themselves. Even young men are starting to do it. It's a personal choice and a stupid one. Movies don't owe anybody a career. There are films and tv films for older women that have been popular, but big movies are fantasies, and people want to see young people in fantasies. Men get an extra 20 years maybe, but there are time limits on them also, and it all depends on if they make the mistake as well, like Mickey Rourke and Burt Reynolds, both plastic surgery disasters. I wish we could've seen how they aged. It's all in the mind of the bonehead to do this. Hair dye is one thing. Plastic surgery is obviously a disaster, though I suppose some people claim to have had good ones. Somehow, I doubt that.

  • @TheCctripp
    @TheCctripp 4 года назад +22

    Miss Cannon has the best laugh ever!

  • @rickdunn5821
    @rickdunn5821 11 лет назад +41

    I have always loved her laugh!!!

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад +2

      I certainly have a notion to second THAT emotion !!

    • @clapolla
      @clapolla 9 месяцев назад +1

      Thought it irritating

  • @DR-qf9th
    @DR-qf9th 2 года назад +14

    So glad he made her laugh. I always loved her laugh. Johnny Carson could really get her going😂🤣😂🤣

  • @CarrieV9
    @CarrieV9 9 месяцев назад +3

    She’s fabulous too. Grant is my favorite actor.

  • @kay3333ify
    @kay3333ify 2 года назад +9

    Great interview. She's still wonderful.

  • @erinkwalsh
    @erinkwalsh 10 лет назад +40

    so sad to see her! My grandfather knew Carey when they were players in Saint Louis at the Muny! He was still Archibald Leach. Have autographed pictures!!!!!

    • @rickrick5041
      @rickrick5041 5 лет назад +1

      Erin Walsh Liar

    • @sherrihinton8567
      @sherrihinton8567 5 лет назад +1

      How precious

    • @jramsey9690
      @jramsey9690 3 года назад +7

      Why did she destroy her face with plastic surgery. She looks awful...

  • @johnydome
    @johnydome 9 лет назад +16

    i only watched this because carry grant was a great actor and loved his acting in hitchock movies

  • @beachbunny7256
    @beachbunny7256 3 года назад +17

    This is why I'd never get a face lift!!

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад

      I once new a lady who tried to have a face lift....but the derrick broke ! And another lady I once knew had so many face lifts that when she smiled her belly button winked !! 😂

  • @MuhammadEgypt
    @MuhammadEgypt 12 лет назад +55

    The criminal who had operated on her must be sued.

    • @massabielle2821
      @massabielle2821 4 года назад +2

      Oh my! I hadn’t seen her in quite some time, but there is a reason to age with grace, as our bodies dictate. I understand what you are saying, Mohamed.

    • @akrenwinkle
      @akrenwinkle 4 года назад

      I'm trying to think of a worse victim of surgery. Barring the obvious- Michael Jackson- I'd have to say Kim Novak.

    • @akrenwinkle
      @akrenwinkle 3 года назад

      @JB JB Both ladies couldn't have done worse if they had let nature take its course.

  • @massabielle2821
    @massabielle2821 4 года назад +29

    The majority of the comments are all about her very obvious facial cosmetic surgery. She was a very beautiful woman and really didn’t need to alter herself at all.

    • @elizabethwhite2151
      @elizabethwhite2151 3 года назад +3

      Easy for someone who is not a woman over 25 who makes a living acting in t.v. and film to say. Obviously, this was not the look she was going for and her plastic surgeon was a total hack.

    • @massabielle2821
      @massabielle2821 3 года назад +3

      @@elizabethwhite2151 : Yes, I hear what UR saying, but there is a point where a person must stop. Aging gracefully could be a challenge if we keep thinking that youth is the only viable worth in life, and especially as we see our bodies changing over the years. But making our faces pay the price for chasing our youth, only comes with ridicule when we become cartoons of ourselves.

    • @speedracer1945
      @speedracer1945 2 года назад

      I noticed that right away.

    • @sharksport01
      @sharksport01 2 года назад

      She looks like a vacuum cleaner. Even if she did fool someone, one look at the neck shows shes pushing 80.

  • @englishlady8863
    @englishlady8863 Год назад +6

    One more coffee with her mother. So sweet.

  • @margaretlouiseable
    @margaretlouiseable 9 месяцев назад +2

    HE WAS delicious! What a man! I bet he grew in that one life time more than many of us have the courage to do in many. Guts, immense charm, and Good God Almighty he was a classy gorgeous man.

  • @MargaretWalkerCellist
    @MargaretWalkerCellist 5 лет назад +6

    SOMETIMES (and I haven't read the book and don't intend to) after a man gets married, he then slips into the role of head of household, and wants things a certain way. And if, like Cary, he's married a considerably YOUNGER woman that doesn't know what his standards are, or how to fit into them before she marries him, the man takes charge, and rules over the woman IF she refuses to FOLLOW his desire to make the standards continue that he had before he was married. High standards are not wrong. Younger women can't always follow this kind of man. That's what an age difference can do to a marriage. Before marriage there is no control issue; but after marriage, there can be, truly. If the man doesn't care what the wife does, that's another thing, but Cary Grant was particular in his dress, demeanor, and many things. IF she wanted him for a life partner, she should have understood this before the marriage, not after. Oh well. He was well-respected in many circles. "Just look at her now". That speaks volumes.

  • @billytrueblood5627
    @billytrueblood5627 5 лет назад +12

    She’s not a dam teenager. I think she is beautiful for her age.

    • @lauraarcher6996
      @lauraarcher6996 3 года назад +1

      She would have been if she hadn't had surgery!

  • @HTNPSullivan
    @HTNPSullivan 2 года назад +8

    If you watch this video (see below) about Cary Grant's relationships with men that predate his marriages to women, and if you've ever lived with a narcissist (partner, sibling, parent, friend, wife, husband, maybe even one of your own children) you will recognize all the "red flags" of someone with narcissistic personality disorder.
    In the video about his relationships with men, you'll hear about when Archie -- as his intimates called him (born Archibald Leach) -- when Archie decided you were no longer useful, he acted like you were a stranger. This is known as "the discard."
    When he reconnects with his first lover (famous costume designer Orry-Kelly), it seems at first that they're going to reconcile but then it turns out the actor was trying to convince his former lover not to write about their relationship. What he did to his first lover is called "hoovering." Which was then followed by a permanent "discard."
    There's a much longer interview with Dyan Cannon in which you hear about how he dictated everything in her life, from what she wore to what drugs she took, with him. I lived with a "covert" narcissist, which is what Cary Grant was, a kind of wolf in sheep's clothing -- so often covert narcissists are charming and "light up a room" -- and my former partner wanted to pull me into his religious practices, and when I insisted that I have my own faith and values, he expressed contempt for me as a "nonbeliever." And he used this as an excuse to have an inappropriate relationship with his "spiritual mentor," a female minister my age, who fell for his phoney blah blah blah about spirtuality.
    What's especially sad about this short interview with Dyan Cannon, and the other longer one I saw, is that it shows how a person can get so brainwashed by a narcissist, he or she will still believe there was love between them and the narcissist, after they're long gone and when in fact you are never more than an energy source to them.
    You cling to the belief that this person once loved you, because to face the truth that you were living with (and had a CHILD with) a deceptive and empty being who, at most, NEEDED you, is just too painful. I believe Dyan Cannon never shook off his control over her mind and spirit... and it makes me sad to hear her say she wants others to understand his heart and love him even more. She never truly woke up to what happened to her... About his first male lover ruclips.net/video/XcuuQuymhOc/видео.html and this one about his controlling behavior (begin at 5:21) ruclips.net/video/1Ymoik5IOiQ/видео.html

    • @sharksport01
      @sharksport01 2 года назад +2

      I agree, Dyan is very narcissistic.

    • @marthawhite3353
      @marthawhite3353 9 месяцев назад

      Yes, Cary Grant would fit this bill. Being so damaged in his own childhood there was nothing inside but probably rage and anger, and - ultimately, pain. But becoming the facade of Cary Grant was a great vehicle for life, that served him well. Except that intimate relationships require vulnerability, connection and a shared emotional intimacy. That he could not do. Ultimately, he was a beautiful false self and deeply narcissistic because of his broken and rejectful childhood.
      Anger and control come from those beginnings, and replace the possibility of a true and loving connection with another.

    • @shirleyfrost9909
      @shirleyfrost9909 9 месяцев назад +1

      U will probably never see this, but u are so right.
      I lived with a narcissist, my mother, and was in pain til she died.bim now 70 and it never subsides...The hurt. God helps and I try and forgive. Thank u for understanding. 💜

    • @stevenmcwilliam6945
      @stevenmcwilliam6945 8 месяцев назад +1

      Glad you lived with him , knew him all these years , were really a close personal friend.
      I find it shocking how you can completely and assuredly diagnose a public figure without ever actually knowing him.
      Shame. Who is the narcissist?

  • @Loveformula101
    @Loveformula101 4 года назад +3

    She was gorgeous!!!

  • @garythompson400
    @garythompson400 5 лет назад +32

    Steven Tyler is looking great.

  • @carlinkay1151
    @carlinkay1151 2 года назад +7

    She seems like a lovely person and she is also a very good actor!

  • @carolinen5396
    @carolinen5396 8 лет назад +15

    OMG! the pressures of being in hollywood!

  • @stefanoarduino2331
    @stefanoarduino2331 7 лет назад +7

    Don't carry him too far, we like him... And we like his name to be spelt right.

    • @sheiladineen9483
      @sheiladineen9483 3 года назад

      You mean spelled!

    • @IrishEyes1989
      @IrishEyes1989 2 года назад +2

      @@sheiladineen9483 "Spelt" is also correct and is, in fact, used more often than "spelled" in the English-speaking world outside of the U.S.A.

  • @Cordelia4219
    @Cordelia4219 9 лет назад +74

    Why do women disfigure themselves like this? The problem isn't with the body...it's in the head !

    • @elchoya8770
      @elchoya8770 5 лет назад +1

      the face too!

    • @lianelayman7577
      @lianelayman7577 4 года назад

      They don't do it on purpose.

    • @bellabelisarius2090
      @bellabelisarius2090 4 года назад +2

      @@lianelayman7577 OH NO? They do it thinking that they will cheat death. But it will never happen.

    • @TheNeverposts
      @TheNeverposts 4 года назад

      FOR LOVE

    • @elizabethwhite2151
      @elizabethwhite2151 3 года назад

      The problem is being a woman over 25 who has spent her life working in t.v. and film.

  • @puregoddessuniversity
    @puregoddessuniversity 6 лет назад +4

    She is gorgeous for 75!

    • @rickrick5041
      @rickrick5041 5 лет назад

      puregoddessuniversity How about for 72?

  • @MrImiller07
    @MrImiller07 12 лет назад +7

    Ms. Cannon's book about her relationship and marriage to Cary Grant is entertaining and truthful and she is a talented actress and a devoted mother. However, I agree that the cosmetic surgery and procedures have been excessive. She looked good as a Judge in the Ally McBeal series approximately ten to twelve years ago, without the lip enhancement and other work. Her hair should also be cut shorter to be more age appropriate and flattering.

    • @manofiske3318
      @manofiske3318 7 лет назад +2

      The hair is the thing that needs to be left alone. "Age appropriate"?! You idiot. One cuts their hair and keeps it short as they age when , as is most often the case, nature thins their crop (men & women) to a point where it is unreasonable to try to maintain it at a longer length. Cannon has good enough hair to wear long at an advanced age. This "CUT YOUR HAIR" edict comes from brainwashed dummies or jealous women whose own 'crowning glory' has long ago been reduced to a dried and thinned out pile of shit sitting on their domes

    • @jdepinto810
      @jdepinto810 6 лет назад +1

      Lord have metcy‼️ Why do doctors perform such horrific plastic surgeries and how can she allow this botched up job to take place on herself? Soooooo scary‼️

  • @thatspiritualhumane
    @thatspiritualhumane 4 года назад +5

    She looks awesome, I mean the docs must be proud of their cosmetic malfunction !

  • @cynthianoel6220
    @cynthianoel6220 4 года назад +2

    Wow, the comments on here are pathetic. This video has nothing to do with hair, or cosmetic surgery. This is ABOUT her life with the Legendary Cary Grant. For God Sakes people stop being so cruel. All of you people making these viscous comments need to get a life. You all are Soo disgusted with yourselves and your miserable life's that you need to attack this woman on every level.

  • @lennysamuel9290
    @lennysamuel9290 9 месяцев назад +1

    The woman's 86 years old and looks younger than women in their 50s! Lighten up😊

  • @robingagan6288
    @robingagan6288 6 лет назад +8

    I did acid ONCE when I was 17...never touched a drug again!

    • @light279
      @light279 2 года назад

      Good for you. Sometimes ONCE is all it takes to smarten up. Happy for you.

  • @trishspinazola287
    @trishspinazola287 2 года назад +4

    She’s a class act!! No wonder he loved her!!

  • @chrisallen1934
    @chrisallen1934 7 лет назад +3

    You people criticizing should only be so lucky as to look this good at 75 with or without surgery. Dylan never was a classic beauty, and she’s done what she wanted to stay looking how she probably feels inside. It’s very hard to just accept the evidence of aging on your face when your spirit feels much younger. I haven’t gone the route of plastic surgery yet, but I moisturize like it’s my job! And it’s not because of any Hollywood pressure or to please men. I’m simply vain and I love looking younger than I am. I don’t expect that to change much...and I don’t judge Dyan Cannon for doing what she needs to do to continue to FEEL attractive. And again, for 75 she looks fabulous. She’s 80+ now. I think she looks very much like herself, with work done. There’s no crime in that. Man, there really is no way to win here! Let the woman live, dang it. She seems to be doing just fine.

  • @rosettegarbanz
    @rosettegarbanz 8 лет назад +149

    Talk about cosmetic surgery gone bad!!!!

    • @amylynnhunt55
      @amylynnhunt55 7 лет назад +22

      Isn't it awful? Women start to look the same too. I thought "no big deal" but could not stop looking at her lips. She is naturally so lovely, it is too bad that Hollywood sort of makes ladies feel the need to "look young". They just end up with PSF. Plastic Surgery Face, as we call it around here.

    • @Carol-D.1324
      @Carol-D.1324 6 лет назад +2

      rosettegarbanz REALLY?! That's ALL you got from this interview?!

    • @Carol-D.1324
      @Carol-D.1324 6 лет назад +2

      I guess I'm different. I watched this to learn more about one of my favorite actors.

    • @rickrick5041
      @rickrick5041 5 лет назад

      Cari D Did they talk about something else?

    • @thomasdelvin3683
      @thomasdelvin3683 5 лет назад +2

      she was in charge with how the process would result , she always had an unusual facial structure ,she forgot to limit herself to a face lift and not try to create a face with the scraps o f her youth .which were long gone.@@amylynnhunt55

  • @philipcondenzio1035
    @philipcondenzio1035 6 лет назад +38

    An age appropriate hairstyle, and a more skilled cosmetic surgeon would do wonders for her.

  • @joycevaneekhout4992
    @joycevaneekhout4992 2 года назад +1

    My daughter had the same experience after she got married.
    Control was it

  • @trixie9246
    @trixie9246 7 лет назад +14

    She looks tragic - she was so beautiful

  • @loopyjonny1
    @loopyjonny1 8 лет назад +13

    sounds an intresting book,please be respectful thats somebodys mother/sister/daughter /aunt/grandmother&friend to.

  • @pamelafolger8449
    @pamelafolger8449 3 года назад +2

    Love her Beautiful Laugh!!💖💖🙏🙏 And Love Cary!💖💖🙏🌹

  • @owlprincess5242
    @owlprincess5242 3 года назад +1

    She seems really nice, everyone in comments saying things about her face, yes it looks bad but she is still a wonderful woman inside.

  • @maureenohara6755
    @maureenohara6755 5 лет назад +2

    Whatever makes you feel better about yourself.

  • @stephaniepersin4145
    @stephaniepersin4145 7 лет назад +5

    I read the book a few years back. Good book not vilifying Grant that much. Grant gave away her dog without her permission because she was pregnant and he used LSD regularly. He really wasn't a great guy.

  • @cynthiasmith4130
    @cynthiasmith4130 9 месяцев назад

    He was stunning, even with that head of white hair!!!! His movies were so great!!!! I miss all the best stars from long ago....Now they were all stars too...His daughter looks just like him, she is beautiful....A Touch of Mink is my favorite, with Doris Day..... 😌😌😌... ❤️❤️❤️... 🌹🌹🌹....

  • @Roger-sn9ov
    @Roger-sn9ov 7 лет назад +22

    It`s sad that the doctors continues surgery. Even when they come for the fifth time or more. They should say STOP...

  • @helenheeney2284
    @helenheeney2284 4 года назад +2

    She was beautiful

  • @Catherine-ew1ww
    @Catherine-ew1ww Год назад +5

    Have just finished her book. Diane Cannon (that’s the proper spelling, which both Cary and her dad always used) was a lovely young and exceptionally beautiful girl, who Cary G fell in love with. The warning signs were there for her before the marriage and she knew it, as minutes before the wedding in the Dunes hotel in Vegas, she told her mom she was afraid to get married and afraid not to. However she was pregnant and very much in love and went ahead with the marriage. She actually went to his room minutes before the wedding..he flew at her over her pink nail varnish, then he composed himself again…and she asked him did he still want to go through with it and he said he did….he apologised saying the more times you marry the harder it gets, meaning he was nervous kind of thing. Anyway, she married him knowing he had these fly off the handle traits and knowing he was still traumatised by his childhood and the way his mother now treated him when he’d visit her…a terribly tragic situation….no one could be really right after the experience of being told at 10 your mother is gone for a break and the next thing being told, well she’s dead….which is what his father did, having had his mother sent to Fishponds a mental institution….only for the father nearing his death to reveal to Cary his mother was still alive, and Cary was 30 at this stage. By the time Diane married him he had all this childhood baggage and three divorces behind him. He was also an incredibly incredibly talented, utterly professional actor, and people of this calibre are a different breed, and have to be handled differently to the average Joe. Cary undoubtedly displayed a street and screen angel persona, when he could also be a house devil, and in this way treated Diane badly with his outbursts….they’d talked about keeping or getting rid of their dogs when bringing baby Jennifer home but it hadn’t been decided...but the day she came home with the new baby her dog Bangs which she’d had for 10 yrs was gone along with Cary’s dog which was only an ornament she said….she was HUGELY upset, and rightly so. On the other hand Cary did it because he was concerned for the safety of his baby daughter, as dogs can be jealous….however what he did was wrong….this story just illustrates what he could do….he’d also started criticising her…the sad part was she wasn’t able to handle him. She was married to the equivalent of a Grade 1 thoroughbred which is an altogether different animal to the ordinary horse….they need very specialist type of minding and attention to keep them right, and sadly she didn’t have the where with all for this. I believe, having read her book, they both were deeply attracted to each other and still very much in love with each other, but didn’t have the coping skills necessary to help each other. He originally looked for a divorce and changed his mind the very same day….and when he told her he’d changed his mind that he’d made a mistake, she threw it back at him. He also suggested they make a film together which would have been a good move, as it would involve them being together but in the presence of other people which would be supportive, as much of their time together was very isolated, and away from people…but again she rejected this, which was in my view a big mistake…especially since way back before that Hitchcock asked her one night had she considered doing a film with Cary, that he thought they had a lovely chemistry….and he’d certainly be one to notice these things! So I think it was a big mistake she passed up that opportunity. While Cary to my mind was undoubtedly the one who put the cracks in the relationship with his temperamental tantrums and criticisms, Diane was the one who ultimately looked for the divorce and split them up permanently, taking their daughter away from her dad. They’d agreed to separate for a while and she and baby Jennifer were only 5 mins away, and things were going ok ish…..she and Cary would occasionally go out, and on one of those occasions when they were actually getting along a bit better….he’d collected her in the Rolls and she’d dressed up in a way she’d know he’d like and they eat at one of their favourite restaurants….she asked him did he love her just the way she was….he didn’t answer immediately so she said thanks for basically letting her know and she got up and left….then she went back in to say she loved him just the way he was, she wasn’t leaving him because she didn’t love him, but because she wanted to save her life, and she walked out on him in the restaurant and they were never alone together afterwards she said. I thought that was horrendous, absolutely horrendous. When she went back in he was still sitting there looking stupefied and I wouldn’t blame him. He’d made the effort for the night, she’d made the effort and then this came out of the blue at the end. Men in general don’t respond well to being asked “do you love me”. In his book he would have been showing her he loved her by paying her bills in her new home, by collecting her taking her out, paying the bill at the restaurant, and now he’s being quizzed about his love…..this I think displays how Diane mismanaged her situation, her lack of managing things, which I find curious, because when she recounts their courtship at the beginning, she showed herself to be very intelligent and have plenty of know how on how to manage men and awkward situations…so I still can’t figure out how she seemed to have lost that. If she’d continued being as resourceful as she’d been during their courtship, as she went along, I believe she would have been able to hold on to Cary and her marriage. As I said above…..she was married to the equivalent of one of the world’s top Grade 1 Thoroughbreds, but she didn’t possess the skills necessary to handle him,moor lost them somewhere along the way. Tragic, the entire thing is just tragic in my view. None of them won anything out of it. Three broken hearts I’d imagine. Heartbreaking is all I can say….and Peace to the three of them now…peace to the three of them now.

  • @RADIUMGLASS
    @RADIUMGLASS 5 лет назад +2

    8 years later and his name is still misspelled.

  • @jeanneparadise8200
    @jeanneparadise8200 8 месяцев назад

    Beautiful story and Dylan.

  • @linniem5982
    @linniem5982 3 года назад +3

    Her book says Grant picked on her from the time she told him she was pregnant. She could have been pregnant when they married and he resented it. It was a brief marriage.

  • @craigsmith157
    @craigsmith157 7 лет назад +49

    Her daughter, Jennifer Grant is 51 and had nothing done to her face and is beautiful. Thank goodness she didn't follow in her mother's footsteps with this plastic surgery mess.

    • @TheKomentor
      @TheKomentor 4 года назад

      Maybe she will, you never know with actresses - their very existence revolves around their looks.

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад

      How right you are ! Jennifer Grant is no Hope Emerson, but she's quite a lovely lady !!

  • @ImagesofJosephSmithJun.
    @ImagesofJosephSmithJun. 4 года назад +4

    Awe, love this, loved Cary Grant, drugs ruin everything good.

    • @jubalcalif9100
      @jubalcalif9100 2 года назад

      Dyan not wanting to take LSD was not the main factor in the crumbling of Cary's & Dyan's marriage. He turned out to be too controlling and she was too independent. But at least she gave him his GREATEST joy in life : his beloved daughter Jennifer.

  • @TexasGit
    @TexasGit 9 месяцев назад +2

    Even 12 years later, it's probably ok to go ahead and fix that title!

  • @johansjr
    @johansjr 4 года назад +8

    Love her and always will ..... ❤️

  • @libajane
    @libajane 5 лет назад +13

    Cary would've hated what Dyan has done to herself. Shame.

  • @kerensagrigson5410
    @kerensagrigson5410 5 лет назад +2

    Dyan Cannon is a sweet lady - she looks great for her age !!

    • @jramsey9690
      @jramsey9690 3 года назад +2

      She looks totally fake and plastic. She ruined herself.

  • @MrLemmy2000
    @MrLemmy2000 5 лет назад +8

    she's 75 at this time lets see what you like at 75

  • @billygillan821
    @billygillan821 3 года назад +3

    She was so beautiful,looking at her with the mess so many plastic surgeon make and cant recognize Cannon with the mess the surgeon has made,and surprise by book ,yes there was child but she was only married for such short time.

  • @coolintake
    @coolintake 12 лет назад +1

    after 75 years of wear and tear...not plastic not nothing can fix what time has done

  • @robinbeech5531
    @robinbeech5531 Год назад

    Excellent book!!

  • @suereed3474
    @suereed3474 2 года назад +1

    Love her!

  • @marcmaschal2897
    @marcmaschal2897 Год назад +2

    She trashed him and told terrible stories about him in the divorce and custody battle.A real bitter woman

  • @andreacrewe3330
    @andreacrewe3330 9 месяцев назад

    The book is selling because of Cary Grant, don’t blame her….she used to be so incredibly beautiful

  • @ignorantbliss1778
    @ignorantbliss1778 4 года назад

    she was so lucky..thats a gross understatement

  • @alloftheclassics
    @alloftheclassics 3 года назад +1

    Hey CBS can you correct the title? It's Cary Grant not Carry Grant

  • @missyb9438
    @missyb9438 6 лет назад +4

    Just read her book. Can't believe she let the fact Carey got rid of her dog when her daughter was born. I would of went fkn schizo!!!!

    • @carolynbaylies1761
      @carolynbaylies1761 5 лет назад +1

      That was wrong to get rid of the dog. I didn't know this. That's terrible. Dogs and children can be the best of friends. Jennifer would have loved that dog as she grew up.

    • @rickrick5041
      @rickrick5041 5 лет назад

      NickyB 75 Why did he do that?

  • @MostlyBrenda
    @MostlyBrenda 6 лет назад +1

    Would be nice if CBS spelled Cary correctly in the title.

  • @juansantos8180
    @juansantos8180 9 лет назад +9

    Dyan Cannon is still stunning and beautiful love her smile

  • @edithsymmans3273
    @edithsymmans3273 8 лет назад +109

    The reason these people have cosmetic surgery is the fact that they are afraid to grow old gracefully.... Sadly in the end they turn into a freak show, a beautiful lady now looks hideously disfigured.

    • @Carol-D.1324
      @Carol-D.1324 6 лет назад +2

      EDITH SYMMANS Really?! That's ALL you got out of this interview?

    • @robingagan6288
      @robingagan6288 6 лет назад +1

      They should also let go of the long hair that they've had for decades in my opinion

    • @DrMoorehen
      @DrMoorehen 6 лет назад +2

      EDITH SYMMANS i so agree, american horror story personified

    • @robingagan6288
      @robingagan6288 6 лет назад +2

      DrMoorehen and CUT the hair!

    • @violet2048
      @violet2048 6 лет назад

      I wouldn't say hideous, just not good.

  • @ashleymarks6144
    @ashleymarks6144 3 года назад +1

    Jeez. I love Cary

  • @marymary20
    @marymary20 9 месяцев назад

    12 years have passed since this video was posted and Cary Grant's name is still misspelled.

  • @elchoya100
    @elchoya100 6 лет назад +2

    CARRY on grant.

  • @lindahulse5734
    @lindahulse5734 2 года назад +4

    She gave him the only thing that ever brought him happiness , his daughter. Not much else positive to say about her.

    • @debs4013
      @debs4013 9 месяцев назад +1

      And has milked it ever since. Reminds me of Priscilla Presley she can’t let go either, both divorced their partners and have made money off their names by telling THEIR side of the story not necessarily the truth because their ex husbands are no longer around, and with Carey most of the people he associated with are no longer around either. She was only married for two years.

  • @CarolineOceanaRyan999
    @CarolineOceanaRyan999 5 месяцев назад +1

    You misspelled Mr Grant's name. It's "Cary" -- one R. Amazing. Did some 19-year-old who'd never heard of him create that title? And no grown up was supervising them? Wow.

  • @sleuthentertainment5872
    @sleuthentertainment5872 3 года назад +2

    Who wrote Carry???? My God!

  • @cherribenzin8289
    @cherribenzin8289 9 месяцев назад +1

    It is Cary not Carry.

  • @reasonrestored9116
    @reasonrestored9116 3 года назад +1

    Why do so many women women who were (often briefly) married to some guy they ultimately divorced feel the need stake a claim on the facts of the mans life and character after his death. Dylan Cannon, Sally Burton, et al. She seems pretty nice but do what does what she has done to her face may tell us about HER character I wonder?

  • @NationOfMasturbation
    @NationOfMasturbation 7 лет назад +8

    Greatest actor who ever lived; and screwed by the *Academy Awards* like most of them were back _then_ and _today_ 😣
    And not counting out Clark Gable and James Stewart, either, who were also amazing.

  • @latinlobster
    @latinlobster 5 лет назад +3

    She holds herself gracefully. Nice pants for a 70 something year old in this video.